Stay By Plan S02E14 feat. Ekow Mclean & Gisela: Protect Your Peace

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  • čas přidán 9. 06. 2024
  • Ekow and @giselaamponsah join Afi & Zuu on the pod to talk about the challenging parts of being internet personalities and learning to prioritise one's peace while being visible online.
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    CHAPTERS
    0:00 Intro
    08:50 How to handle hate on the internet
    13:56 What does self-care mean to everyone?
    21:10 Self-care as a man in Ghana
    24:26 Blocking out the noise on social media
    27:35 Challenges of creating content
    34:00 Support from friends and family
    39:26 Pop Smoke
    42:00 False influencer marketing
    50:32 Advice for people starting out as content creators
    1:03:47 Rapid Fire
    1:06:33 Outro

Komentáře • 66

  • @abena7810
    @abena7810 Před rokem +4

    Ekow was 💯💯💯💯💯 I don’t get why people dislike him! Everything he said was 💯

  • @Paula-dl5ff
    @Paula-dl5ff Před rokem +9

    Bringing Gisela on set was a great idea!❤️

  • @solomonagormeda2562
    @solomonagormeda2562 Před rokem +5

    I love Gisela's voice so much

  • @carl_aryee
    @carl_aryee Před rokem +19

    I admire Ekows Pride in himself... and seeing him in long-form video content gave me a new view of him.
    He can be cringe sometimes on Twitter and has bad days but him being honest about what he wants his life to look like is pretty impressive.
    Mix that with his tough skin and that's a pretty mentally tough guy...

  • @perfectpeace6874
    @perfectpeace6874 Před rokem +8

    I think Gisela has to understand that, every individual knows their mental strength and coping mechanisms. And her strength shouldn’t or wouldn’t be the same as Ekow’s. What works for you, might not work for him. And what might put your mental health at stake, might not put his mental health at stake.

    • @mercedez____
      @mercedez____ Před 10 měsíci +2

      I think Gisela has no problem with Ekow being himself, but she is concerned about the trolls he gets on the media.... bcoz somehow, it affects the people around him, and obviously It affects Gisela...... she just dont want ppl negative around Ekow ....

  • @mercedez____
    @mercedez____ Před 10 měsíci +3

    I want myself a Gisela😢..... charley her positivity

  • @vanessakyei5649
    @vanessakyei5649 Před rokem +1

    Love this episode! Found it throughly entertaining!

  • @kweikuz
    @kweikuz Před rokem +2

    Afi, good point you raised there about the RBC count and getting yourself checked because there’s a lot of disease out here(STI’s). Great content guys!!!🎉

  • @liliandometeyasare8717
    @liliandometeyasare8717 Před rokem +3

    Afi, that definition of self care was actually deep😂❤️❤️

  • @ef7cy
    @ef7cy Před rokem +9

    Gisela does have a point but on the other hand she’s making everything about her. She claims she understands he’s coping mechanisms and that she should listen to him but it really just sounds like she’s judging him. You can offer advice but you can’t force the person to take your advice. Further in the video she starts to agree with him but then contradicts by comparing their coping mechanisms. They clearly have different definitions of peace but in this instance Gisela feels like she more ‘matured’ or on a higher pedestal on peace as to Ekow. The only problem with this is we have to understand that peace is objective and subjective.
    I know it’s not that deep😭 but I would love feedbacks on my views. Ps: I’m a Gisela Stan and I love how she lives her life. Don’t come for me

    • @mercedez____
      @mercedez____ Před 10 měsíci

      Gisela is showing concern.... she ain't forcing Ekow to act her way..... It's natural for friends to show concern

  • @ofreezy
    @ofreezy Před 2 měsíci

    Back for Zuu's "they fighting"😂😂😂

  • @travelbitesgh
    @travelbitesgh Před rokem +1

    I really enjoyed watching this ❤

  • @senaanthony
    @senaanthony Před rokem +1

    Great podcast guys!Keep it up. Can't believe I watched the whole episode 😆Afiiiiii stop bothering Zuu 😜

  • @CeeJayLive
    @CeeJayLive Před rokem +4

    I am imagining the tote bag as a throw pillow 😂

  • @christietetteh4433
    @christietetteh4433 Před rokem

    I enjoyed watching this❤

  • @samuelquainoo3766
    @samuelquainoo3766 Před rokem +3

    Afi Tsegah, u BEAUTIFUL.
    its out of my chest now. The end !!!🥰

  • @Paula-dl5ff
    @Paula-dl5ff Před rokem +2

    Ekow is soooooooo tooknow and I love it🤣🤣❤️

  • @selormde-souza9152
    @selormde-souza9152 Před rokem +2

    But honestly I didn't know all these about McLean I follow him and love his content....its admirable and I do t know why people are coming for him

  • @francesevangelina
    @francesevangelina Před rokem

    Because i have actually listened to it already and I’m watching here 😂

  • @travelbitesgh
    @travelbitesgh Před rokem +3

    You always feel like people are watching you the moment you bring the tripod out 😂

  • @discoverwithtorsgod
    @discoverwithtorsgod Před rokem +1

    It’s Afi’s reactions for me 😂😂😂

  • @dr.nancyafoteytawiah5307

    This was interesting to watch. Came from Instagram and of course i have subscribed 😊

  • @Chalechill
    @Chalechill Před rokem

    yeah need the intro on Spoitfy rn! hard podcast fr

  • @kingnhemy
    @kingnhemy Před rokem +1

    New sub!

  • @kelly1572
    @kelly1572 Před rokem

    Afi is so prettyyy

  • @tracychambers2943
    @tracychambers2943 Před rokem +1

    Yes Junior is very funny

  • @akosa4060
    @akosa4060 Před rokem +2

    Afi is not beating the “in love with Zuu” allegations 😂

  • @AdwoaLenny
    @AdwoaLenny Před rokem +2

    Afi your facial expression 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @theotiwaa3282
    @theotiwaa3282 Před rokem

    Gisela❤️❤️

  • @khadrachothia5975
    @khadrachothia5975 Před rokem +19

    It’s Afi and Zuu’s facial expressions for me😂😂

  • @thecrystal_
    @thecrystal_ Před rokem

    So much to say but this was interesting 😂

  • @davidbillsmusic4141
    @davidbillsmusic4141 Před rokem +1

    Afi really said ekow right... straight jab to your mans ego

  • @Paula-dl5ff
    @Paula-dl5ff Před rokem +1

    Please bring Ama Burland too

  • @fidelisbanaaleh6980
    @fidelisbanaaleh6980 Před rokem +2

    Place the camera higher thanks

  • @bundogamingandlifestyle6200

    True I’ve never seen Afi in a skirt all the times I bumped Into her

  • @ellajay6446
    @ellajay6446 Před rokem

    lmaooo Afiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

  • @francesevangelina
    @francesevangelina Před rokem

    I don’t think I’ll never listen to this as a podcast anymore I’ll watch here 😂 cos the facial expressions are getting me 😂 I tear 😂😂

  • @karenofosu460
    @karenofosu460 Před rokem +4

    The way Zuu looks at Gisela Ei🤣

  • @marrriiee
    @marrriiee Před rokem +7

    gisela is so beautiful. ama governor or theserwah should be on here . ❤

  • @gifty2997
    @gifty2997 Před rokem +2

    Ekow is beginning to sound like Nat Bongo, or whatever his name is
    Gisela does have a point in the sense that it affects your girlfriend and other friends
    If you can look at it from that perspective that the people you love get dragged into as well, maybe that’ll help??

    • @gifty2997
      @gifty2997 Před rokem

      it’s okay to be you even if people don’t like it, but putting your friends in an uncomfortable situation… idk

  • @boatengoseiowusuansah7507

    What's Afis handle

  • @Jossie7
    @Jossie7 Před rokem

    The way I rushed here from TikTok

  • @akorfaagbetoh7178
    @akorfaagbetoh7178 Před rokem

    “Put a bubble around yourself” (be delusional)

  • @majaliaaa
    @majaliaaa Před rokem

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @xaneasiamah1523
    @xaneasiamah1523 Před rokem

    Zuu LOOOL

  • @mayb_icancook
    @mayb_icancook Před rokem

    you guys kept interrupting the visitors and each other as well,through out.Not just for this episode but in most other episodes.Please take note and work on it.Much love❤️

  • @kofikarmelo9089
    @kofikarmelo9089 Před rokem +3

    Ekow is insecure asf 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aliciaosei815
    @aliciaosei815 Před rokem +2

    ekow jumps to wack conclusions lol

  • @brianamoako
    @brianamoako Před rokem +3

    that mature comment was very unnecessary from Ekow

  • @therealruno
    @therealruno Před rokem +3

    Next time place the camera higher so it's angled to show all their faces.🥲