When Religion Becomes Toxic and Full of Lies

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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
  • Amudim Awareness Event About Drug Addiction, Overdose, Depression and Suicide.
    A lecture by Rabbi YY Jacobson presented at an AMUDIM Awareness Event in Forest Hill, Queens, NY, on March 4, 2017. This event was held in response to many recent cases of overdose and suicide in the Jewish community. This is a sharp speech about confronting the crisis of youths losing their lives to addiction and despair, and the layers of deceptions and lies that allow the crisis to fester.
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Komentáře • 35

  • @moeshatz206
    @moeshatz206 Před 6 lety +13

    On the nail exactly👌
    Boruch Hashem I’m one of these (off/on the derech) מי יודע children and you literally could not have said it better.
    Thank you very much for finally speaking up on behalf of all of us broken souls.
    God bless you!!!

  • @carmenjett
    @carmenjett Před 5 lety +5

    This man is amazing! I am not Jewish but he speaks straight to my soul. I have been watching his videos for a hour and I can't stop crying! He knows that we are on a journey that we cant explain. I don't know why so many of us have been horribly abused in every walk of life. We have been stomped on since birth

  • @simiekepecs14
    @simiekepecs14 Před 7 lety +10

    No pain no gain. I have made a 360 degree turn around through my challenges and I thank Hashem for it. My challenges have taught me to stop judging and stop fitting in and be real.Real with yourself and real with your children, The pay off is priceless. Thank you Rabbi YY for this most wonderful inspirational, moving words. May Hashem give you the koach and strength to continue being an inspiration.

  • @shmuliweissler3994
    @shmuliweissler3994 Před 7 lety +18

    What a responsible great man. To be the one who says it and be ready for all the criticism that comes with it. Kol hakavod. I relate very much and it's people like this that are the reason I'm still alive. Baruch hashem. Thank you Rabbi Yy

    • @joshfried6872
      @joshfried6872 Před 5 lety +1

      Shmuli Weissler u r a wise man brother u r great we love u

  • @malkakinn62
    @malkakinn62 Před 6 lety +2

    Rabbi Jacobson, I always appreciate hearing you speak. People are laughing and I am crying ..... you are so right and I agree with you one million percent! I always have.... thank you for saying it so well !

  • @ks-rm5ji
    @ks-rm5ji Před 5 lety +5

    The Best Lecture I have heard in my life.

  • @motorhead6763
    @motorhead6763 Před 7 lety +7

    Excellent! This problem occurs in secular world also.....Todah שלום

  • @SaulGefen
    @SaulGefen Před 6 lety +3

    Profound words of Truth and Wisdom.

  • @deborahchin7221
    @deborahchin7221 Před 4 lety

    This was the teaching of my life (thus far)! The number of teachings is endless! I thank you numerous times every day!I honour you!

  • @judithbraha
    @judithbraha Před 5 lety +1

    I am so so so impressed by such sensitivity and truth

  • @hashem1agf
    @hashem1agf Před 5 lety +2

    אחד השיעורים הטובים !!! תודה

  • @shoshana-xs4cm
    @shoshana-xs4cm Před 4 lety

    I thank Hashem for guiding me to this wonderful rabbi 💕

  • @alizadevries1876
    @alizadevries1876 Před 6 lety +1

    Loved this. Thank you so much for speaking so honestly and passionately.

  • @teddybaren-bandigerin9764

    So true. Even more for Christians...

  • @myForumDaily
    @myForumDaily Před 7 lety +9

    this is also true for baalei tshuva who don't necessarily fit it into the "box", aesthetically, and don't like this or that, or talk like this or that...or don't eat this or that... and are judged up and down, left and right by the "frum" community.
    and when you mention it, people sweep it under the rug.
    people need to get over the "YIDDISHKEIT"...and just connect to HaShem.
    there's spirituality...and there's culture. two different things. the word CULT is in the word culture.
    a wise man once told me "culture is the stuff you find on the bottom of expired dairy product"

  • @yosefkorn
    @yosefkorn Před 7 lety +3

    Let us not forget the adults too that are very much on the fringe and suicidal, it's from all ages and backgrounds.

  • @leahaspani4646
    @leahaspani4646 Před 7 lety +10

    finally I hear Emet

  • @arimajer6909
    @arimajer6909 Před 2 lety

    On the "vort of Yosef'being in a pit, perhaps this is the meaning of:
    כי ישאלך בנך מחר
    i.e. when your child asks for you and needs you
    מה העבודה הזאת לכם
    What is this "avoidah and frumkeit” that you do for yourself.. your own benefit.
    It’s not the time to go out and learn, to say tehilim, to go and daven with a minian.. when your son needs you leave your frumkeit aside and deal with him

  • @613sharon
    @613sharon Před 4 lety

    Rabbi Y.Y. you hit this topic on the head! Unfortunately, the community in Israel that my husband and I were living in, they are horrible people, including the school where my husband and I sent our youngest. No one understood where our family was coming from, therefore we and especially my son was bullied as well as being allienated. I blame these ruthless people for the fact that my son has gone off the derech!

  • @234pinnni
    @234pinnni Před 4 lety +1

    מילים כדורבנות!
    רבי עקיבא התחיל בגיל ארבעים
    He said I want to start over .....
    השפת אמת ( גור) יהודי צריך להתחיל כל יום מחדש......
    אנשים ;; תקבלו את הילדים שלכם no matter איך זה נראה לסביבה.....
    Don’t ignore your child 🧒...
    תלישת ״ איבר מן החי״ פרושו: קרע במשפחות על רקע דתי
    אומץ; קבל את הילד שלך איך שהוא
    אתה לא יודע מה הוא באמת עבר....
    באהבה הכל מסתדר לטובה!
    Psychologists said;
    Ppl don’t care how much you know
    Until they know how much YOU Care!(
    That’s the way for תרופת הנפש
    אין אדם שנפשו שרדה
    Thank you 🙏

  • @jonatanmpa
    @jonatanmpa Před 5 lety +2

    "Choose truth before G-d."

  • @kreindykohn7315
    @kreindykohn7315 Před 7 lety +1

    and many people who are fbb but life circumstances does not fit the chasidish living

  • @Wanderer072
    @Wanderer072 Před 5 lety

    Amen!

  • @judithbraha
    @judithbraha Před 5 lety

    the best

  • @emt190
    @emt190 Před 7 lety

    I'm looking to get in touch with Rabbi YY JACOBSON I send already a email but no luck he is grad that is why I need his help any information would be very helpful Thanks

    • @davegreenspoonery280
      @davegreenspoonery280 Před 5 lety

      What's his email address? I'm also trying to get in touch with him. Thank you!

  • @christinegreene1986
    @christinegreene1986 Před 4 lety

    Wow.

  • @joelgoldberg4634
    @joelgoldberg4634 Před 3 měsíci

    The Current Matzive is the Same as the Old. Nothing New as Nothing Learned. How you look and Not who you are, Shame Shame. B.H.

  • @estipaneth1680
    @estipaneth1680 Před 4 lety

    M:)