Terry Crews Fought Dad For Beating Mom & Tells Story Of Dad Rejecting Kiss On Cheek At 5-Years-Old
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- čas přidán 4. 03. 2024
- Terry Crews explains fighting his dad for beating his mom and tells the story of his dad rejecting his kiss on the cheek at 5-years-old:
“I remember kissing him on the cheek and I was just waiting for this, ‘I love you son.’ … I said ‘I’ll never do that again.’ And it kind of became where I knew that’s where we were going to be.”
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Men of past generations are built different. My father in his own way apologized to me for not being more affectionate. He told me he was envious of his friends that had close relationship with their sons and choked up in front of me. When this happened I was in my 30's. I hugged him, told him we were good and that I was grateful for all the sacrifices he made for us. I told him there was no need to be sorry. It helped that I was already a father at the time and understood the sacrifices a man has to make for his family. We have a good relationship and we are pretty close now. Sucks Terry never truly got that relationship.
no father is perfect. my dad wasn't perfect. but ol' boy gave it all he had and i appreciate it. to be raised in a physically abusive household and to kill that demon so it wasn't passed to the next generation is astounding all by itself. now add all the things he taught me and how he showed me how to love a woman based on how he loved mom... that's my dude!
you don't treat your wife like a scallywag and you don't treat them scallywags like your wife. your wife gets the money, time and energy. them scallywags get nothing but D*.
This was better than the video 💯
Happy for you dawg. You and your pops.
Man I can relate me abc my dad relationship starting to get close when I turned 28 now I’m 32 and he’s my best friend I get to hug him now before I couldn’t do that as a child nor in my teenage years. He was a tough MF. His parents gave him up when his was young so he never really had love!
@@curtiscoffman6735 that’s awesome to hear. 🙌🏽
We dealt with our grandfather being an abusing alcoholic. He’s still alive and my grandmother was the one who had cancer and passed away. I wondered why he lived and she died but I found peace in knowing that she’s no longer suffering.
😢
I'm so sorry . The one who does the must evil mostly has that outcome. The same happened to my beautiful grandmama😥🙏🏿. I'm still praying to God remove the hate I have for Grandpa
My teen son gives me them big ol bear hugs. I ain’t have a father growing up so that alone is extra special. It’s truly a blessing to be embraced by your children.
Yes it is 🫂
It's so hard to succeed when the one that's supposed to be in your corner and on your side is not. Thank GOD for perseverance!
THE (OFTENTIMES, HIDDEN) BACKSTORY OF A CYCLEBREAKER!!!
This isn't a interview. This is therapy thanks for keeping it real my Brothers on both sides. God blessed. To all the father out there take notes love your kids man tell them and show them. And don't put your hands on there mom . Including me.
THIS!
Well said!!!
5 years old is a very important age. I will never forget my first day of kindergarten. I looked around and the kids were all over the place, COMPLETELY out of control. In that moment I made the decision that I wasn’t gonna have kids. Everyone said I was gonna change my mind. 40 years later and I STILL feel the same way I felt at 5 years old.
Many mothers were like this too. Not saying I love you. But it teaches that love is not just a word but an ACTION.
My Loving Great Aunt was like that. She wasn't a I Love you baby. She was that I never gave you a reason to say it. She was all Action in her Loving!!
Facts Im 46 and cant remember a time my mom said it. But she showed it
Yes. My. Dad did. The same thing. To me and i'm a. Female he always showed my brothwe more affection and i'm his frist born. From what my mon told me im. 70 years old now and i'll never forget this as.long as i live i forgave him but i will never forget so much love to. Fathers that show affetion to their children. Amen thanks for sharing. Terry much love‼️🥰🙏🏾🧿
Sorry you went thru that 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I pray you had a better life and family than he did..!
The fact you're 70 now and still vividly remember what happened to you over 60+ years ago is proof that trauma never fully goes away.
Thank you for sharing your story, Terry Crews. Life is tough but you set an example that you can achieve your dreams even in the most difficult situation. You are true inspiration!❤
I’m in tears man
Man Terry aged well, bro looks in his early thirties 😂
Wow. This is powerful. Thank you Terry.
Love your children. Tell them you’re proud of them. Kiss your children. Hold and hug them when they’re younger. You are building an armor they will be able to navigate through the world with knowing their parents (especially dads) got their back.
His father is jealous of him, and always has been. I wrote this before Terry said his dad was jealous. It's okay to let parents be if they are not good in your life my husband's dad, and he didn't have the best relationship. Sometimes you have to distance yourself to save yourself. I have heard my husband say some of the things Terry has said about his dad.
This is absolutely one of the best interviews. Thank you both!
Apparently you haven't seen the one terry did with CT Fletcher 🤦
Why isnt this interiew is as big as the katt williams or monique's interviews
Because they were talking about drama and not personal growth. Unfortunately most ppl only care about drama
@@AAAvatar it was not just drama buddy it was more than that, it's culture history, from what I saw he was here in the industry before terry
For all of us...we are bigger than where we come from!
I kinda went through a bit of the same things with my father but the big difference is, I knew he loved us. He reciprocated love. His love for his family made up for all his shortcomings. We still miss him dearly. I hope TC and his father can make up and spend what is left of his life together as father and son.
P.S. what Shannon said about kids not putting him in a certain position. That goes for parents too. Don't put your kids in a situation where they have to see you as something other than their parent. Respect goes both ways. That's what I always tell my wife. Even when you're disappointed with the kids and have to punish them, do it with dignity. Don't cuss em out. Explain what they did and why it is wrong and then give their punishment if you have to.
My father spent his home time in his room. No hugs, no ily, no communication. Just discipline. In my early 20s he hugged me and said he love me. Felt weird, The door closed my dawg. 32 now, I have 4 kids now, hugs, I love you, communication all day everyday
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same here at 32 he finally started saying i love you and telling me hes proud of me.
To love means to be vulnerable. It's a risk but it is worth it.
I'd rather be shown love than told.
Ppl r told ' I Love U ' by some1, then mistreated by that same person 😮
My woman’s father was never in her life and mine was but we had no connection or relationship whatsoever and I always told my lady I don’t know which is worse her not present father or mine that I see everyday but don’t know at all. I experienced something similar to Terry’s experience, after that rejection I shut down completely. Never tried again, he’s up there in age now and it’s a shame all the wasted time.
This is by far the best interview , ever man needs to see this one
I respect you so much I don't know you personally but because of you being vulnerable much respect to you extracting that to be able to tell your story 13:26 😊
I have this same relationship but with my mom.
Heart breaking stuff
Thank you very much.... Words of wisdom. 16:11
Thing is, many of us who experienced that kind of father, become fathers and do our best to make up for it, telling our children we love them all the time. It helps fill the holes we have in our own hearts.
And another one... Classic, keep up the good content Unc.
When a father does not conduct himself as a MAN, he can’t expect his children to respect him the same. That woman may not always be the father’s wife, but she will always be the son’s mother. No excuse for hitting a woman.
Yessir my mans terry is on one of my favorite shows
Terry is a GEM
I love Terry Crews. After this interview now I know why. My dad and my husband dad too were alcoholics.
9:58 “I’M One In A Million!”
Your dad had it coming, sorry all for our Lord but sometimes is sometimes, no cap. Much love people ❤❤❤❤❤
Sad to read these comments....terry regreted what he did and theybare healing now..folks in the coment section complaining about ish...the point hes making is that there is way to heal trauma
That’s why Terry tried so hard to keep the nfl thing going just because his dad doubted him.. That has to be the most pain he probably ever felt when his dad said that.
swear i tried giving my pops a hug after fixing my bike when i was a young boy and made me feel exactly how terry pops did i knew from that point to never do that again and i eventually hug him in my later years as a man but it still felt weird i wish i never hugged him since cuz i gave him some hugs as a man that were not deserved in my opinion
Terry’s “father” is jealous of his son’s success and wishes it was him instead of his son… that’s sad! Parents are supposed to uplift their children & give them hope. Some people are EVIL and even if it’s your parent you should abandoned them… bad people are bad people.
It goes deeper than jealousy.
You wasn’t there and don’t know the whole story
I have new found respect for Terry Crews
Yes. I have a similar story.
I make sure to kiss my boys and tell them I love them everyday
I am 34 i can still remember my grandfather doing the same thing at about the same age 😢
The only good thing that came from my father being an absolute piece of garbage with almost zero emotional intelligence is that I learned exactly what I should never be. I love my little girl so much I cannot imagine denying her kissing me in the cheek and being affectionate. I have done my best to make her feel loved always, the one thing I fear in this world is I haven't done enough for her. That is a terrible thing to experience for Terry because I can relate 100%, even to the point that I actually beat my dad for being an abusive jackass.
Daaaam!!!!!!!!
Yo to be honest I felt terry and n this had me in tears …Me & my father didn’t have a real relationship even though he was present almost same situation that terry went through …and me and my father still don’t have a relationship at all and I have three small boys … I miss my father he just don’t answer my calls smh…..😢
You should bring Lil Boosie on the show that will break the internet
Its sad but his dad sounded like Uncle Rukus dad Mister from da Boondocks 😢
Never heard of someone hating sports.
I have. I like sports themselves, I played a bit, it's fun. Team sports I sometimes have trouble focusing (daydreaming in outfield)
But I hate watching sports on TV, I hate what major sports turned into. A lot of the reason I hate watching is bc my dad and brother SCREAM, not out of excitement. And bc it seemed like there was a game on every day and we never did what I wanted
Yeah that's messed up Crews Dad
Alright now man. Why Sharpe got his leg up like that?
Mine looked like terry does now, but with a moustache, sniper, bodyguard, bouncer, welder, the man who at 5yo told teacher when asked, he wanted to be a lumberjack.
Absent from day 1, yet this man would get soooo mad when i Didn't kiss his cheeck when greeting.
Culture, Love, but life's choices made, the situations what they were. Though i Could have an opinion on how things went, no matter how tough this man was, he didn't force His views of being a man onto the world. For sure he did/still does think a man should be a man. I'm glad let me become my own man. Instead of expecting a copy of himself.
"When a child is born. Show it the ways of The World, not Your World."
Ladies, Gents, if you had parents, give them a kiss on their cheeck.
Stop it with these tights Unc… it’s intervention time
That vest isn’t complementing the J’s at all😡
My dad tells me he loves me but I can never say it back. So hard to do that. He wasn't bad to me or anything ( he's been too good to me) but I don't know why he loves me when I've just been a problem to him. I get afraid to see him sometimes because I think the day will come when he rejects me and what will I be then? At the same time I am scared to lose him because who cares for me unconditionally like him? Sometimes he calls me and I'm afraid to pick up and I don't know why. Think I'm going nuts sometimes.
#84
His pops was a real one.
That’s not being real, that’s called neglect! You might need therapy sir.
@@pacotoyfulI think he was trolling
Who tf kisses their dad on the cheek 😂 I’m Asian if I did that to my father he would kill me 😂
@@vladokingsley3775a 5 yr old thats who 🤦🏾♂️
Exodus 21:15
I don't think that applies here.
@@thecarrell Think?
I wouldnt tell those things private bout violent behavior. To much info!!! Not impressed. All tht stuff bout u n your dad...... i like terry but i cant.........
you a coward just like his dad fr.
The only way to fix the problem is to acknowledge that it exists. People who bottle up everything in life are some of the most miserable, pathetic people on the planet, wasting their entire lives trying to act tough instead of enjoying life the way they want to enjoy it.
Don’t watch the video then you saw the title 💀
Bro if ur a fan of terry crews u should already know this story he’s told it before
@@XxThePlaylistxXyep people just exposing themselves for the type of people they are .
That's the generation of men who knew what real masculinity was; they knew you couldn't be soft in this world...love was about providing
That’s not no real man
Very suppressed version of masculinity. Strength and respect take on more forms than just a closed, ironfist approach to everything in life.
Beating on your wife is real masculinity? Just gloss over the part about him beating his wife in front of their kids. No way you this slow
It's something real off about homeboy
No, there is something off about you.
Shay shay mad sus but dis is therapy right here 😅
Seems like you’re the one Sus.
you still have time to delete you being actually this stupid!
Shannon, off the topic, please dress appropriately for your public events! We get it! This is America n you free to do as you please buy them again, be ready to face the consequences of your behavior! You know those rumors ain't going away but you give them credibility with ya mannerisms and tendencies.…..Get the appropriate wardrobe for ya PUBLIC EVENTS. Stop wearing ya bedroom clothes, muscle shirts n what not to these events. How else is the public supposed to perceive you? Nobody hates on your success! Everybody happy for you but you are NOT helping your case with purses, tight outfits n all else. Other than that, great job. I listen daily. Image is everything. People are allowed to draw their own conclusions from what you put out in public. Ok?
Why would he change how he is because ppl on the internet accusing him of shi. He's pushing 60 bro. He don't care 😂
@@AAAvatar Bottom line, Shannon is a PUBLIC FIGURE! That means everything n anything about him including his family, sexuality, finances n what not are FAIR GAME for the critics! I mean Shannon spends hours on end talking about people on his podcasts! Dishing out his opinions about folk as he sees fit! Why is it a problem when others serve him the same dish? N then he has thing about threatening people with fights ! Look, like Mike Epps put it, Nobody has time for fights! That's stuff of the 70's! He pulls up on anyone, he'll get shot! As simple as that. N lastly, nobody hates your success! This is stuff in your own head! People have other things to do than pay attention to ya shenanigans! Again, Shannon, you get what you give! If you don't want people to talk bout you n all else, do like wise! But you being who you are now, I don't think you can help yourself! It's Gon be relentless, brutal n honest! Expect more harsh criticism n response TO WHAT YOY PUT OUT FOR PUBLIC CONSUMPTION.
Ps. Dress appropriately for ya public events! You have money! Alot of it. See DRESS MANLY! U know!
How about you try playing football for 10 years plus, get knocked around and get a hip replacement! The way he dresses has nothing to do with manhood sir!🙄
@@zehzehadabisi7669Bottom line😂
No way you writing full paragraphs about how he's dressed and worried about him wearing "tight clothes" lmao sounds like you're interested yourself @@zehzehadabisi7669
Who tf kisses their dad on the cheek 😂
A child that loves their father. Don't ask stupid @$# questions!
@@heartdonations2532That part...😤☝🏾🤦🏾♂️
A dad should NEVER tell his son “i love you” that’s WEAK and the kid will grow up soft!
NEVERR kiss your son!! NEVERRR
Never buy them gifts, because they’ll never work for anything but always want a handout.
This comment is meant to be sarcastic for you slow people @chaka1061 and 21 others. LMAO
Cap
Look at you. Just yapping lmao
lol 🤡
Sounds like you need to be told you are loved
I wish we had more fathers like this in the world. These new kids are overly sensitive and emotional wrecks. This is a mean mean world we live in. And this generation is not prepared
I would fight for my mom !!!!!! 🫡🙏
I appreciate this conversation wish I had my dad who passed when I was 16 years old. Now that I’m 44 he missed so much but I’m not mad I’ve grown to the man I’m today. 🫡