As It Is - The Stigma [Boys Dont Cry] (Official Music Video)

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2018
  • ITUNES: found.ee/thegreatdepression
    MERCH: found.ee/asitisbundles
    Taken from the new album 'The Great Depression.'
    Available Now
    Directed by Our World Is Grey // www.owig.co.uk/
    Stay connected:
    asitisofficial.com
    / asitisofficial
    / asitisofficial
    / asitisofficial
    LYRICS:
    I see a pain behind your eyes,
    I know you feel it everyday.
    It’s like a light that slowly dies,
    but it’s better not to say such things out loud.
    Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    You feel an emptiness inside,
    how it sinks into your soul.
    But it’s nothing you can’t hide;
    just forget about the hole beneath your skin that’s swallowing the best of you within.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
  • Hudba

Komentáře • 3,3K

  • @lisa-marieeichberg1541
    @lisa-marieeichberg1541 Před 6 lety +2275

    the fact that this exists in 2018 feels like a warm hug from smudged eyeliner. we need more of this

    • @DeathNote-ch1so
      @DeathNote-ch1so Před 5 lety +31

      More Eyeliner?

    • @lisa-marieeichberg1541
      @lisa-marieeichberg1541 Před 5 lety +13

      @@DeathNote-ch1so more of this music

    • @rayslavenburg2783
      @rayslavenburg2783 Před 5 lety +12

      @@DeathNote-ch1so both

    • @Baked-as-Bread
      @Baked-as-Bread Před 5 lety +18

      @@lisa-marieeichberg1541 we need the old bands back also... mcr, hawthorne heights, from first to last, escape the fate,etc... we need them back as well

    • @Baked-as-Bread
      @Baked-as-Bread Před 5 lety +10

      30 seconds to mars need to be emo again also

  • @MaryB-fx2ik
    @MaryB-fx2ik Před 6 lety +1075

    EMO NEVER LEFT IT JUST WAS HIDING IN OUR SOULS DONT HIDE IT SHOW FALLEN ANGELS

    • @davidvillegas7650
      @davidvillegas7650 Před 5 lety +5

      fallen angels? you know what a fallen angel right? since when was the emo genre considered satanic lol

    • @shylynntalbert6707
      @shylynntalbert6707 Před 5 lety +24

      Black veil brides

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 Před 5 lety +4

      @@shylynntalbert6707 is metalcore not emo this song too its not emo cause emo is more emotional than this

    • @cherrygarnet3870
      @cherrygarnet3870 Před 5 lety +11

      Hmmm fallen angels....OMFG ARE YOU REFERRING TO BVB AHHHhHhHhH YES!!!!!

    • @amberstyles9505
      @amberstyles9505 Před 5 lety +11

      WE ARE THE FALLEN ANGELS

  • @davidcox777
    @davidcox777 Před 5 lety +489

    Me 2018: 19 Years old. Father. Hard working professional.
    As It Is 2018: Dye your hair black again. Buy more eyeliner. Wear dark clothes.
    So glad that emo is making a come back

    • @Ann-mk8cg
      @Ann-mk8cg Před 4 lety +1

      NICE!❤️

    • @angelp2092
      @angelp2092 Před 3 lety +3

      when did it leave

    • @davidcox777
      @davidcox777 Před 3 lety +2

      @@angelp2092 there were a freaky couple of years where scene almost completely took over XD

  • @guillier4248
    @guillier4248 Před 5 lety +830

    Music industry: Emo is dead, move on.
    As It Is: 'Scuse me? Hold my beer

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 Před 5 lety +4

      Pop punk its Pop punk understand it you crazy scene bastards

    • @jesusavalos2399
      @jesusavalos2399 Před 4 lety +14

      @@exolp6949 This is definitely not pop punk, their original sound was incredibly pop punk, this definitely leads more towards the Emo genre especially with the addition of more screamed vocals

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 Před 4 lety

      @@jesusavalos2399 yeah you can say this song is more emo but emo pop doesn't exist so it's pop punk with emo vocals because real emo music is in screamo or emocore but this instruments are to punky for it

    • @teresahoerricks6788
      @teresahoerricks6788 Před 4 lety +1

      haha true XP

    • @insomniac_rav
      @insomniac_rav Před 4 lety +3

      The music industry has mostly turned to bullshit now

  • @sharellehannah9460
    @sharellehannah9460 Před 6 lety +440

    I love how he's challenging the whole stigma with boys and mental health, this is an important topic that needs to be talked about. As it is has got my full support 100%

    • @shineecrystal
      @shineecrystal Před 6 lety +5

      sharelle patterson Yes!!

    • @stevodaniel2898
      @stevodaniel2898 Před 6 lety +22

      Struck a few cords with me. For years I never talked about it. Bottled it all up and only ever let it out when it was to late. Men need to talk alot more. As a society we need to break through this horrible stigma. Its ok to be sad, cry, upset. Doesn't make you weak.

    • @YouTearMyHeart
      @YouTearMyHeart Před 5 lety +1

      You're all so right !

    • @demonintellect9834
      @demonintellect9834 Před 5 lety

      Dudes really shouldnt cry. I mean for the loss of a loved one sure, but if you stub your toe and break down and cry then you are a pussy.

    • @chelseydavidson6264
      @chelseydavidson6264 Před 5 lety +9

      ​@AOMechMarine AOMechMarine Sorry you are afraid of crying. It's a terrible thing when we can't express our emotions, especially the painful ones.
      Trust me though, keeping them bottled up will only make things worse. It will numb you. It will depress you. It will break you. And eventually all of those emotions will come boiling over anyways.
      Real strength is having the courage to face those emotions head on. No mater how painful they are. Accept them and let them go.

  • @OscarVillapol
    @OscarVillapol Před 6 lety +875

    It feels like we're back in 2005, and it feels... sooooooo good!!

    • @inarairuairc3043
      @inarairuairc3043 Před 6 lety +13

      I know right! Well, I was 4 in 2005, but I feel like emo is forever.

    • @johndearstyne1845
      @johndearstyne1845 Před 6 lety +4

      I was 4 or 5 in 2005 lol

    • @undeadgomez
      @undeadgomez Před 5 lety +4

      I was 1 🤣🤣

    • @RoxasHeartLessXIII
      @RoxasHeartLessXIII Před 5 lety +6

      2005 - 2010! we had 5 good years! then soon to be 9 years of shit! stay strong and hold on! and boys don't cry but men do!

    • @zombiericka
      @zombiericka Před 5 lety +1

      Hell yes! 🤘🏽

  • @inarairuairc3043
    @inarairuairc3043 Před 5 lety +1513

    Even though I'm a girl, this song's message speaks volumes to me.

    • @minhhuyenta3388
      @minhhuyenta3388 Před 5 lety +17

      Can relate

    • @lilemo3337
      @lilemo3337 Před 5 lety +20

      erey body cries

    • @tezak_20
      @tezak_20 Před 5 lety +7

      Same

    • @lxxak.5392
      @lxxak.5392 Před 5 lety +17

      these were my thoughts while listening it 👐🏼💭

    • @wtfdidijustwatch1017
      @wtfdidijustwatch1017 Před 5 lety +46

      I hope you understand that this song isn't about you? It's about men forcefully having to "man up" by not crying, and putting away their emotions, or we're portrayed as weak.

  • @demonlover6662
    @demonlover6662 Před 5 lety +702

    This song has a very strong message about what society says is acceptable for boys to do. Like they can't wear makeup, like cute things, be "soft", or cry. Even though forcing people to live by this is not only toxic but a type of emotional abuse because you are hurting them in ways that are not visible on the surface. I love this song for that reason

    • @demonintellect9834
      @demonintellect9834 Před 5 lety +10

      Society needs men, not pansys.

    • @BLACKGEAR026
      @BLACKGEAR026 Před 5 lety +71

      @@demonintellect9834 Yes society needs Real men who are not afraid to be in touch with their emotions. We need real men who arn't infected by toxic masculinity. We do not need pansy ass emotionally constipated dude bros like you. So yes strong emotionally healthy men that are not afraid to cry is what we need.

    • @YamiRovi25
      @YamiRovi25 Před 5 lety +34

      @@BLACKGEAR026 ''pansy ass emotionally constipated dude bros'' hahaha I don't know you, but I already like you.
      DemonLover666 and you are absolutely right. Toxic masculinity is a thing and we need to get rid of all that shit.

    • @dirgabpp9281
      @dirgabpp9281 Před 4 lety +3

      O

    • @Edge_Walker
      @Edge_Walker Před 4 lety +14

      If someone doesent allow for guys to cry and be NORMAL FKING EMTIONAL HUMAN BEINGS- give me their godam adress, theres about to be a bloody mess pal,

  • @sleepingcolours
    @sleepingcolours Před 6 lety +1255

    Is anyone else already in love with the new As It Is era? The way they're focusing on mental illness and using their music and platform to break the stigma is inspiring. They've already helped so many people, they're only gonna help even more. Love this band. Thank you, As It Is. 🖤🖤🖤

    • @Intersexashleyleeanntv
      @Intersexashleyleeanntv Před 6 lety +7

      light and rebellion this band is the reason I don't commit suicide tbh

    • @sleepingcolours
      @sleepingcolours Před 6 lety +5

      Austina Quigley "Stay strong, hold on" 🖤 Take care of yourself! X

    • @riseagainstfan1986
      @riseagainstfan1986 Před 6 lety +2

      the stigma has alwas been there idk where you been but it won't ever go away

    • @omnislack
      @omnislack Před 6 lety +4

      Wasn't a fan before, but I like the new them.

    • @IDiggPattyMayonnaise
      @IDiggPattyMayonnaise Před 6 lety +3

      Someone hasnt heard You, the Room & the Devil on Your Shoulders from their first album.

  • @iluvpost-hardcore4204
    @iluvpost-hardcore4204 Před 6 lety +704

    This may look dated to alot of people now in 2018 but i bet in about 5 or 6 years, emo/scene and post-hardcore will be back in style because of 00s nostalgia thats already starting to replace the current 90s nostalgia trend.

    • @figsprout
      @figsprout Před 6 lety +26

      stonedgamer 420 Invader Zim is coming back the world is already primed for an emo renaissance

    • @alufolie2845
      @alufolie2845 Před 6 lety +7

      Hell yeah I'm so up for it!

    • @scottykingdavid
      @scottykingdavid Před 6 lety +6

      It all reguritates every 20 to 30 years. Its all been done already.. From the beg. The beatles.stones on. For mainstrean .. Not the blues they stole from

    • @abbiepancakeeater52
      @abbiepancakeeater52 Před 6 lety +1

      Oh man I hope so

    • @prabowonegoro3693
      @prabowonegoro3693 Před 5 lety +13

      Couldn't agree more... things like this reminded me to MCR and they ARE good. I'm just hoping the emo scene making more breakthrough cause there are still people out there who enjoy this scene..

  • @leslieg4094
    @leslieg4094 Před 5 lety +286

    jared leto and gerard way had a child

  • @kkyu7886
    @kkyu7886 Před 5 lety +238

    I prefer this a million times than the current trend in music.

  • @figsprout
    @figsprout Před 6 lety +2585

    It's happening.
    The emo Renaissance is happening.

    • @realchainrxn
      @realchainrxn Před 5 lety +30

      The Renaissance was back in the early to mid 00's..... This is a resurgence..... I was a sneak emo then because of the stigma at the time in the areas I grew up in..... Now I'm supposed to be a professional, but hey..... I have practice at this....

    • @jeyaveryverymagicalcatofme4704
      @jeyaveryverymagicalcatofme4704 Před 5 lety +25

      FRINGEs WILL GROW MOTHER LOCK UR DOORS AND HIDE UR DAUGHTERS...from the emo haha emo song referenced

    • @elromer1434
      @elromer1434 Před 5 lety +2

      Love

    • @zachaustic7135
      @zachaustic7135 Před 5 lety +22

      Emo revolution 2018-2019

    • @shelbym4616
      @shelbym4616 Před 5 lety +14

      We will rise

  • @the_eternal_darkness_8436
    @the_eternal_darkness_8436 Před 6 lety +140

    Finally a video that focuses on male depression!!! Thank you so much!!! My only problem is that it didn’t come out sooner!!!!!

    • @BlackyMox
      @BlackyMox Před 5 lety +2

      So true. Have to hide the pain everyday

    • @Me-pe8eb
      @Me-pe8eb Před 5 lety +2

      This is the kinda music that matters. We don't need more het love songs. We need people like this. (If you like music like this yung blud is perfect (esp polygraph eyes)

  • @thatoneemoboy6621
    @thatoneemoboy6621 Před 5 lety +85

    This song sends such a strong message and I love it. I’m a pretty soft guy and this made me cry. Well shit guess I’m not a boy now.

  • @chloenicolehood5253
    @chloenicolehood5253 Před 5 lety +117

    i cried when he got punched and cried more when he started crying...……. then they locked the knob head out and when he smiled and giggled to himself I don't think I have ever smiled so much... I love this song, I love this band and I love this album... I pre ordered it and honestly it is all I listen to most of the time... I fucking love this band

  • @ИЛЮША
    @ИЛЮША Před 6 lety +337

    Its realy good, Emo alive!

  • @laurenbabic
    @laurenbabic Před 6 lety +2691

    *runs to bathroom and puts on more eyeliner*

    • @johnDoe-lb7sv
      @johnDoe-lb7sv Před 6 lety +33

      Lauren Babic goes to closet and pullsout all band merch from sophmore year and let's hair grow out then gets snake bites again

    • @marymassacre3188
      @marymassacre3188 Před 6 lety +2

      MOOD

    • @carabowman2144
      @carabowman2144 Před 6 lety +3

      Lauren Babic lol this comment made my day

    • @kidinthekelp5570
      @kidinthekelp5570 Před 6 lety +10

      Why are we all so emo?!

    • @brianna9822
      @brianna9822 Před 6 lety +1

      Lauren Babic LAURENNNNNNN

  • @kaisershocker
    @kaisershocker Před 5 lety +62

    Why cant I stop listening to this? ...I mean seriously, i've had it on repeat for days and cant stop. When I'm not listening to it, this song is playing in my head. Please make it stop.

    • @mildlysinful
      @mildlysinful Před 5 lety +2

      No. Once you hear Patty's voice you can never go back. Welcome to the cult of As It Is. Enjoy your stay.

    • @willow5635
      @willow5635 Před 5 lety +2

      @@mildlysinful i just started liking as it is two days ago and i've listened to almost all their songs..

    • @mildlysinful
      @mildlysinful Před 5 lety

      @@willow5635 W E L C O M E

    • @exolp6949
      @exolp6949 Před 5 lety +1

      Make it stop.
      Let this end,
      Eighteen years pushed to the ledge.
      It's come to this,
      A weightless step.
      On the way down singing
      Whoa, whoa.

    • @oaklengallagher-armstrong7164
      @oaklengallagher-armstrong7164 Před 3 lety

      Same, I've played this countless times and everyone keeps telling me I'm depressed but I promise I'm not. It's just a really great song with a powerful message

  • @emoluka7904
    @emoluka7904 Před 5 lety +68

    I’m a boy and this song made me cry because of how true it all is and how meaningful and relatable this is and ya know what I ain’t ashamed

  • @cas3604
    @cas3604 Před 6 lety +238

    This actually hits a hard message if you think about it

    • @jaidenpoof4558
      @jaidenpoof4558 Před 6 lety +6

      I agree

    • @yt_wv_hollow8986
      @yt_wv_hollow8986 Před 5 lety +34

      I agree too. Im a man and I cry just like anyone else. Fuck all the stereotype bs of we arent allowed to cry. I teach my children its ok to cry.

    • @YouRandamoTube1237
      @YouRandamoTube1237 Před 5 lety +17

      You really don't have to think hard to see the message, it's a fairly obvious point that the song is making.

    • @ryleesb5108
      @ryleesb5108 Před 5 lety +17

      i completely agree, this song is about breaking the stigma of boys not crying but it also shows breaking the stigma of girls being weak by having a female drill Sargent yell silence at the end of the video.

    • @faydemaria1019
      @faydemaria1019 Před 5 lety +9

      "If you think about it"
      Actually, it's pretty spelled out, lol

  • @ChrisSadowski
    @ChrisSadowski Před 6 lety +222

    The ending to this video makes me think that there is going to be a similar song on the album on female social standards, and i think its going to be just as important as this beautiful song

    • @SydneyChromatic
      @SydneyChromatic Před 6 lety

      Holy shit there are other sadowski's on youtube?

    • @IAP74
      @IAP74 Před 6 lety +3

      Nah fuck women's rights

    • @exidrial431
      @exidrial431 Před 6 lety +2

      Woosh!

    • @warmicecream645
      @warmicecream645 Před 6 lety +4

      UndergroundPuppy why though? It's just as important as men's rights

    • @Clarisse1258
      @Clarisse1258 Před 6 lety +8

      In their Rocksound interview, Ben said that "The Haunting" would talk about sexual misconduct allegations within the scene, as well as his childhood friend's suicide, so yeah there'll be one, and it'll be important and beautiful, but definitely very heavy.

  • @pyzal9939
    @pyzal9939 Před 5 lety +133

    EMO NEVER DIE

  • @kordorkongri3068
    @kordorkongri3068 Před 4 lety +19

    His voice is beautiful😍💓

  • @8ahda388
    @8ahda388 Před 6 lety +465

    First time hearing these guys got a new fan with this song

  • @demolitiontyler9563
    @demolitiontyler9563 Před 6 lety +380

    Beautiful... I'm literally crying now. This is such an important topic to talk about, it's so toxic for boys and men to not be allowed to show emotions, that's why the suicide rates are so high for men. Beautiful lyrics and video, I feel like this is a perfect example of the macho culture. Thank you, this band is amazing and I love their new sound so much. I'm so excited for the album, it will be great!! ♥️

    • @stevenrogers1812
      @stevenrogers1812 Před 6 lety +21

      jishwasoreos powerful but completely right. Its okay to not be okay doesn't make you less of a man because you struggle this hopefully will hit a lot of people

    • @serbandumitrescu6435
      @serbandumitrescu6435 Před 6 lety +3

      Men were always alowed to show emotions, but to show emotions in a rather controled way means to have the strenght to control yourself, which is not a bat thing.

    • @demolitiontyler9563
      @demolitiontyler9563 Před 6 lety +11

      Serban Dumitrescu ehh no wtf boys were literally beaten up for crying

    • @santosmoreno7145
      @santosmoreno7145 Před 6 lety +8

      jishwasoreos Its true, i was one of those boys

    • @serbandumitrescu6435
      @serbandumitrescu6435 Před 6 lety +1

      In romania, where i live ive never heard of anything like this

  • @duncanistrash6529
    @duncanistrash6529 Před 5 lety +145

    Why is everyone saying how “emo is back”? Emo never left. I’ve been emo for years and I know tons of emos who are the same. And there’s been tons of underground emo bands. Emo music just hasn’t been popular for a few years that’s all. BTW IM STILL EMO AND IM NOT GONNA STOP FOR A FEW MORE YEARS!

    • @duncanistrash6529
      @duncanistrash6529 Před 5 lety +6

      And when I’m done with emo I’m just gonna be goth!

    • @pyophyo8901
      @pyophyo8901 Před 4 lety +3

      (back then)
      It's not a phase mom, this is who I am!
      (Present)
      See mom, I told you so.

    • @jackskellington412
      @jackskellington412 Před 4 lety +1

      @@pyophyo8901 it do be like that

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality Před 4 lety +2

      @@pyophyo8901 I went from "listening to this music isn't a phase, mom" to "wanting to be a musician isn't a phase, mom!" Next it'll be "being in this band isn't a phase, mom" smh

    • @savagemacke
      @savagemacke Před 4 lety +1

      duncanistrash someone who actually knows the difference between emo and goth, scene, Victorian, exc.

  • @chantreajeffery9078
    @chantreajeffery9078 Před 5 lety +2

    This song is an emotional rollercoaster

  • @yatoshair6294
    @yatoshair6294 Před 6 lety +610

    first song I've heard from them.
    Now it's time to follow all their social media.
    Download pictures of them.
    Yeah...

  • @erbihc1781
    @erbihc1781 Před 6 lety +51

    seems like it was never just a phase

  • @neonmaelstrom1495
    @neonmaelstrom1495 Před 3 lety +5

    the way that i blasted this for a month straight when it came out...

  • @silvanus72
    @silvanus72 Před 5 lety +110

    I am surprised that I couldn't find a mention about the ending of the video in the comments. it is such a meaningful moment for the video depicting the fact that girls are also expected to act a certain way. It just leaves an untold section of a story about gender expectations that keeps you thinking after you watch the video. So good job whom ever came up with the music video.

    • @gothsmolbean4863
      @gothsmolbean4863 Před 3 lety +3

      truee i was like why is no one noticed that

    • @mrsir3658
      @mrsir3658 Před 3 lety +3

      Same I was looking for this comment!

  • @itsnotchloeolivia3281
    @itsnotchloeolivia3281 Před 6 lety +287

    I only just heard about this band but I'm already hooked?? This song is not only great but it tackles an issue no one all's about (which is toxic masculinity) literally love this and the Great Depression album

    • @isaiahsmith7123
      @isaiahsmith7123 Před 5 lety +3

      Check out there earlier works like Okay and Never Happy Ever after

  • @GoshDarnBarnOwls
    @GoshDarnBarnOwls Před 6 lety +64

    I love when bands write songs about mental health. It's a serious condition that targets people of all ages.

    • @dani-oz5eb
      @dani-oz5eb Před 6 lety +1

      GoshDarnBarnOwls your comment and username both give me life tbh

    • @xvegancommunistx1848
      @xvegancommunistx1848 Před 6 lety +1

      GoshDarnBarnOwls its not about mental health its about toxic masculinity

    • @anythingeverything5637
      @anythingeverything5637 Před 6 lety

      Kapt Mao the album is called the Great Depression. Its about mental heath

    • @EmperorNero
      @EmperorNero Před 6 lety

      1. Toxic Masculinity isn't really a thing it's a myth largely portrayed by activist, and academics.
      2. It is very clearly about mental health. Men struggle with achieving help with mental health, mainly, because men in their biological social dynamic hold cards close to them, they don't like opening up. It is always said women are very open inherently, but men take awhile they are like a cat, you gotta earn it.
      3. However that is largely exaggerated men do cry and can be emotional what research needs to be done better is how men express emotion, it may not be with tears(biologically we have larger tear ducts than women do). I personally suffer from depression, and I don't cry with it I get frustrated, because I don't want to be that way. Men express sadness through anger a lot more than tears.

  • @madeleinep.828
    @madeleinep.828 Před 5 lety +67

    The fact that this was made now in 2018 when there’s been so much awful music lately makes me so happy.

  • @Black-plague666
    @Black-plague666 Před 5 lety +28

    Are they trying to make us emo?? Because this how you do it.

    • @darcy__bxx
      @darcy__bxx Před 5 lety

      Danny Mann 9/11 yep

    • @gaydolfhitler6310
      @gaydolfhitler6310 Před 5 lety

      Danny Mann 9/11 this song is just gay and cringe. lets not have this trend again.

  • @BlakeMcConnellMusic
    @BlakeMcConnellMusic Před 6 lety +2271

    emo to the extremo

    • @gretz5792
      @gretz5792 Před 6 lety +5

      Blake McConnell liked the cover

    • @arianalong6133
      @arianalong6133 Před 6 lety +19

      Blake McConnell in a gerard way

    • @idahopotato2370
      @idahopotato2370 Před 6 lety +2

      ariana long in a eyeliner

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS Před 6 lety

      Corey Taylor Have you check us out? Check us out now if you're into My Chemical Romance Revenge Era and you might find it surprising that you could enjoy our stuff! 🌹🖤

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS Před 6 lety

      Corey Taylor we love Slipknot by the way!

  • @DustinWeibert
    @DustinWeibert Před 6 lety +1492

    MAKE EMO GREAT AGAIN

  • @jordyn8619
    @jordyn8619 Před 5 lety +5

    This song always makes me cry for some reason

  • @josiecotterill7546
    @josiecotterill7546 Před 5 lety +8

    this song legit made me cry

  • @ShellyBeansGaming
    @ShellyBeansGaming Před 6 lety +175

    I love how Patty's shiney blue eyes pierce through the black hair... it does something to me xD

    • @howieewalt1322
      @howieewalt1322 Před 5 lety

      Thats fucking patty????????????? Wtf O REMEMBER WHEN HE DITCHED HIS CHANNEL FOR THIS BAND I DIDNT EVEN THINK IT WAS STILL HIM WTF?

  • @bramblechaser162
    @bramblechaser162 Před 6 lety +148

    I’m so impressed with this song! I’m gonna have to look into As It Is. this day and age we have only hope for music with meaning!

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS Před 6 lety

      Bramble Chaser YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

  • @lucyautumncamp8686
    @lucyautumncamp8686 Před 4 lety +4

    Do you ever just hear your favorite song and feel safe but at the same time you want to cry because it’s so beautiful? That’s what this song does to me.

  • @diegomartinezbello3287
    @diegomartinezbello3287 Před 4 lety +70

    I see a pain behind your eyes
    I know you feel it everyday
    It's like a light that slowly dies
    But it's better not to say
    It's better not to say such things out loud
    Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now
    Don't let them see you fall
    Stay strong, hold on
    You've got to keep it together now
    Just dry your eyes
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    Boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    'Cause boys don't cry
    You feel an emptiness inside
    How it sinks into your soul
    But it's nothing you can't hide
    Just forget about the hole beneath your skin
    That's swallowing the best of you with it
    Don't let them see you fall
    Stay strong, hold on
    You've got to keep it together now
    Just dry your eyes
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh
    'Cause boys don't cry
    Keep it all inside, 'cause boys don't cry
    Are those tears behind your eyes?
    Nuh-uh, no! Boys don't cry!
    Keep it all inside, inside
    No, 'cause boys don't cry
    Not until the fateful day you die
    No, 'cause boys don't cry
    No, no
    Boys don't cry
    No, no
    'Cause boys don't cry
    Stay strong, hold on
    You've got to keep it together now
    Just dry your eyes
    'Cause boys don't cry
    No-oh, no-oh

  • @Kasey512
    @Kasey512 Před 6 lety +170

    Full lyrics for everyone:
    I see a pain behind your eyes,
    I know you feel it everyday.
    It’s like a light that slowly dies,
    but it’s better not to say such things out loud.
    Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    You feel an emptiness inside,
    how it sinks into your soul.
    But it’s nothing you can’t hide;
    just forget about the hole beneath your skin-
    That’s swallowing the best of you within.
    Don’t let them see you fall.
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    Keep it all inside
    ‘Cause boys don't cry
    Are those tears behind your eyes?
    Nuh uh, no, boys don't cry
    Keep it all inside this time
    Nuh uh, no, boys don't cry
    Not until the faithful day you die
    ‘cause boys don't cry
    ‘cause boys don't cry
    Stay strong,
    hold on,
    you’ve got to keep it together now.
    Just dry your eyes,
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.
    ‘cause boys don’t cry.

    • @icestorm_rb9057
      @icestorm_rb9057 Před 6 lety +4

      Kasey Vincent it amazes me how they dont put the full lyrics in the description

    • @hannahbanana321
      @hannahbanana321 Před 6 lety

      You are literally the best person in the universe 🤣

    • @SockTheUnicorn
      @SockTheUnicorn Před 6 lety +2

      They put it in the description

    • @icestorm_rb9057
      @icestorm_rb9057 Před 6 lety +1

      @@SockTheUnicorn they did, but it isnt the full thing

  • @brandonmyers3525
    @brandonmyers3525 Před 6 lety +320

    Me yesterday: emo is dead move on.
    Me, 3:35 ago: I need to bring back guyliner.

  • @MirorR3fl3ction
    @MirorR3fl3ction Před 2 lety +2

    As It Is, beating the Emo Revival to the punch by 3 years, a full 2 years before the Rawring Twenties

  • @MariaDanieladelaRosa
    @MariaDanieladelaRosa Před 3 lety +5

    ITS BEEN TWO YEARS??? TF I THOUGHT IT WAS ONLY A YEAR AGO?

  • @anonymouscandle1223
    @anonymouscandle1223 Před 6 lety +33

    This band reminds me so much of the early/mid 2000s emo. I miss that era but it’s pretty great to be able to watch a new wave of emo rise up and to be a part of it.

  • @raz3905
    @raz3905 Před 6 lety +271

    This band might be trying to singlehandedly bring back emo music. Best of luck, you guys are great!

  • @bunnysniper007
    @bunnysniper007 Před 8 měsíci +2

    5 years later this song is still so important to me and has such a powerful message

  • @user-lu8yl1uk9o
    @user-lu8yl1uk9o Před 4 lety +2

    This, still to this day, is the most heartbreaking music video I’ve ever seen in my life. It doesn’t make me cry, it makes realize why I shouldn’t.

  • @Ravenclawunicorn
    @Ravenclawunicorn Před 6 lety +66

    I love how they're making everyone feel emo again. I also feel like this album is going to make their following blow up. Proud of these emo boys

  • @victoriaprincess6914
    @victoriaprincess6914 Před 6 lety +243

    This is giving me Helena Vibes MCR💕

    • @BlahBlah-cm1os
      @BlahBlah-cm1os Před 5 lety +13

      HOW?!?!? (Sorry, I just don't hear ANY of that in here.) Explain? I'm actually curious. :)

    • @petramastalirova8017
      @petramastalirova8017 Před 5 lety +6

      @AOMechMarine AOMechMarine Shut the fuck up😂you do not understand

    • @charismao23
      @charismao23 Před 5 lety

      Victoria Princess ikr

    • @FabulousKilljoy
      @FabulousKilljoy Před 5 lety +5

      Uh, how??? This song isn't bad, but it's nothing compared to the masterpiece that is "Helena (So Long and Goodnight)".

    • @juaanitoo733
      @juaanitoo733 Před 4 lety +4

      They r back :)

  • @sarettamcqueen4849
    @sarettamcqueen4849 Před 5 lety +46

    This song was in my recommended so I listened to it. The lead singer reminded me of something but I wasn't able to tell what it was until I checked other songs of them and I realised that 3 years ago I used to listen to them. I was in the middle of my pop punk phase and I was subscribed to Patty's channel. I used to love his covers and when he stopped uploading videos because As It Is signed Fearless I checked them out. I liked them but then my pop punk phase went to end and I started listening other types of music...anyway I can't believe that i've totally forgot about them in these 3 years😅 (also they look so different how the hell could I recognize Patty😂).
    Now that I listen literally everything (including pop punk) I found them again and after I've listened to this album I want to say that their new sound is amazing. I don't like so much their old songs, but I really appreciate their changing: bands usually goes more pop but this went more "emo"... I love it

  • @handsoffmyskull
    @handsoffmyskull Před 3 lety +2

    2021 and i still love this.

  • @rwt5713
    @rwt5713 Před 6 lety +30

    The military dude's facial expressions are hilarious

    • @VampDr3w
      @VampDr3w Před 6 lety

      R W T he looks like an angry ricky gervais

  • @Abracadaniel95
    @Abracadaniel95 Před 6 lety +82

    This album is gonna blow up, Invader Zim is coming back, 2000s nostalgia is coming in, the world is primed for an emo renaissance

  • @punkieclown5449
    @punkieclown5449 Před 3 lety +3

    I can't believe this song is two years old, I feel like it only came out yesterday 🙄🖤

  • @sarcasticuser0332
    @sarcasticuser0332 Před 5 lety +10

    How does this not have more views???

  • @gregoncod8533
    @gregoncod8533 Před 6 lety +125

    does anyone see MCR in their new look? lol or am i too old for that

    • @jescareno8332
      @jescareno8332 Před 6 lety +2

      Alec Gregory
      No I’m 29 and I was a teen when emo bands were popular and yes they remind of mcr look!

    • @scottykingdavid
      @scottykingdavid Před 6 lety +3

      No...and I see that to..And im 48. So. No youre not.. You are exactly as u want to be...friend. fuck what everyone thinks

    • @RockerChicktv1
      @RockerChicktv1 Před 6 lety +3

      Alec Gregory it’s straight up revenge era!

    • @shampou8069
      @shampou8069 Před 5 lety +3

      I’m 14 and I know MCR, so don’t think everyone forgot about it

    • @liambedford2760
      @liambedford2760 Před 5 lety +2

      I'm 16 and love mcr

  • @GhostKillerEntertainment
    @GhostKillerEntertainment Před 6 lety +879

    New As It Is? New The Amity Affliction? It’s a good day!

    • @aidanamphlett
      @aidanamphlett Před 6 lety +1

      Ghost Killer Entertainment Literally was just about comment that!!! 😂😂

    • @eden9306
      @eden9306 Před 6 lety +7

      New hail the sun as well

    • @venividivici4607
      @venividivici4607 Před 6 lety +7

      New ice nine kills 😄

    • @shxne4697
      @shxne4697 Před 6 lety +1

      New Our Hollow Our Home too

    • @LJ_11
      @LJ_11 Před 6 lety +1

      Don't say they are the new The Amity Affliction, that's shit. There's one and only TAA, and this isn't that good

  • @zmbiegutzz
    @zmbiegutzz Před rokem +7

    Every time i start to cry , i tell myself “no , don’t do that , boys don’t cry .” Im trans masc , and i’ve felt as though if i hide my emotions , it’ll make me more masculine ; but it doesn’t . Hiding emotions and something everyone does doesn’t make you more or less man . This song holds a very special place in my heart . Thank you 🫀

    • @harleybriggs3496
      @harleybriggs3496 Před rokem +1

      I'm trans masc too, and this song hit me hard for the same reason.

  • @gregtheflyingwhale6480
    @gregtheflyingwhale6480 Před 5 lety +15

    metalcore came back
    emo music comes back
    what else??

  • @CraigSimmonds
    @CraigSimmonds Před 6 lety +173

    If boys don't cry how come my eyes are streaming

    • @Cthulhuguru
      @Cthulhuguru Před 6 lety +1

      Craig Simmonds Turns out, Boys always cried, the band The Cure were compulsive liars of the first order.

    • @alexbun5047
      @alexbun5047 Před 6 lety

      Its referring to a stereotype

    • @CraigSimmonds
      @CraigSimmonds Před 6 lety

      Koryn Stryfe I know, I was joking

  • @LOOTd
    @LOOTd Před 6 lety +603

    Now this is the emo I remember ✊

    • @jayburriswayne5403
      @jayburriswayne5403 Před 6 lety +4

      LOOTd not even emo

    • @thehorrorsociety2820
      @thehorrorsociety2820 Před 6 lety +1

      Nowhere close to emo. It's scene. *cringe

    • @thehorrorsociety2820
      @thehorrorsociety2820 Před 6 lety

      Nowhere close to emo. It's scene. *cringe

    • @lunarscorpio3987
      @lunarscorpio3987 Před 6 lety +1

      the emo I remember sounded less like this, but it's not that bad of a song.

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS Před 6 lety

      LOOTd YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

  • @phillipvillarreal283
    @phillipvillarreal283 Před 4 lety +18

    I've been listening on repeat since I found it. I'm a very emotional guy, but I was raised to suck it up and be there for others. I've always been the one everyone goes to for help, so strength was my nature

  • @katies1652
    @katies1652 Před 4 lety +2

    the fact that this is almost two years old.... this song means a lot to me and i’m so glad i found this band in 2018.

  • @punkfence801
    @punkfence801 Před 6 lety +134

    I like the 2000's emo asthetic.

  • @rainie-chanprestones637
    @rainie-chanprestones637 Před 6 lety +6

    I like the meaning of this song, it says that guys are also humans too, they have feelings.

  • @Malu-di1ur
    @Malu-di1ur Před 4 lety +17

    This made me think about the amount of times I heard my stepdad "lecture" my little cousin on how he "needs to be a man". It is quite horrofying.

    • @ThorsShadow
      @ThorsShadow Před 2 lety

      Maybe show your cousin this song and teach your cousin, that it's perfectly ok for a boy and even a grown man to just be a fucking human being and show emotions.
      And while you're at it, maybe lecture your stepdad about how stupid he is and that maybe he should be more like a human being instead of trying to be a toxic variant of a "man".

  • @vipertori2337
    @vipertori2337 Před 6 lety +4

    OMG Emo is making a comeback!! I'm literally so happy, *runs to the bathroom, put on more black eyeliner*

  • @andycole3729
    @andycole3729 Před 6 lety +234

    please stop emoing me I thought I escaped that

    • @yulianaayu570
      @yulianaayu570 Před 6 lety +4

      Haha
      NEVER!!

    • @jayelimusic6354
      @jayelimusic6354 Před 6 lety +8

      *You cant escape your fate*
      Aye

    • @anonymouscandle1223
      @anonymouscandle1223 Před 6 lety +2

      Once enough, always emo

    • @RADLADS
      @RADLADS Před 6 lety

      andy Cole YOU MIGHT LIKE OUR MUSIC IF YOU'RE INTO THIS AND REVENGE ERA MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE, CHECK US OUT! 🌹

    • @Fullcollapse1
      @Fullcollapse1 Před 6 lety +2

      Your inner emo voices are calling! Your hair is becoming darker as we speak haha.

  • @Lima-fn2bn
    @Lima-fn2bn Před 6 lety +1535

    *2018 EMO AGAIN!*

    • @fearditya
      @fearditya Před 6 lety +4

      Rick Emotion YEAHHH

    • @Hamtara
      @Hamtara Před 6 lety +4

      Yes please

    • @ShellyBeansGaming
      @ShellyBeansGaming Před 6 lety +29

      Debate: Make Emo Great Again! (Cause it is)

    • @hexsyndiction9833
      @hexsyndiction9833 Před 6 lety +8

      What do you mean again? Its always been great. Its assholes who ruin it tbh >~>

    • @xinthisdiaryx
      @xinthisdiaryx Před 6 lety +3

      Emo yes but not this kind of emo. Let this shit stay dead. More American football and less my chemical dependence shit.

  • @velocity6306
    @velocity6306 Před 6 lety +8

    Patty is the first person I’ve seen go backwards in time to the emo years, and I’m not even mad about it.

  • @raringalarm
    @raringalarm Před 5 lety +5

    I love how he says together at 1:48

    • @SarahM-lw2gd
      @SarahM-lw2gd Před 3 lety +1

      Me, too. You can see the emotion behind the words he is singing.

  • @satan5197
    @satan5197 Před 6 lety +457

    I’m more straight up metal, but I gotta admit this stuff ain’t bad

  • @ballinspalding11
    @ballinspalding11 Před 6 lety +89

    I actually cant stop listening to this

  • @katies1652
    @katies1652 Před 5 lety +2

    i listen to this daily. i love everything about it. thank you guys for keeping the conversation going♥️

  • @leigh9409
    @leigh9409 Před 5 lety +4

    Theres less than a handfull of things that can make me truly smile. music is one of them. amazing band. #bringbackemo

  • @Rana-xk4xr
    @Rana-xk4xr Před 6 lety +16

    I just saw the video,klicked it,and found my new obsession.
    Thank you.

  • @karahtittle.6564
    @karahtittle.6564 Před 6 lety +11

    ♥♥THIS BAND RIGHT HERE IS FREAKING AMAZING THEY ARE LIFE! AS IT IS MY FAVIORTE BAND♥♥

  • @wablo9024
    @wablo9024 Před 5 lety +66

    Hopefully this marks the comeback of emo even though this isnt a new band

  • @williamfee314
    @williamfee314 Před 3 lety +2

    2021 and still is an awesome song

  • @taylennovakkkk8407
    @taylennovakkkk8407 Před 6 lety +6

    I’m so in love with this era!! Can’t wait to see them this weekend

  • @DrewTua_
    @DrewTua_ Před 6 lety +10

    I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS ALBUM TO COME OUT

  • @adrianna3560
    @adrianna3560 Před 5 lety +55

    Someone: EMO IS DEAD💀
    Me:(wearing black clothes and black eyeliner, earphones blasting rock music full volume) IT NEVER WAS DEAD 🙅🖕🖕🤘

    • @insertunoriginalnamehere3471
      @insertunoriginalnamehere3471 Před 4 lety +2

      "EMO IS DEAD" - Literally no one

    • @getalife5650
      @getalife5650 Před 4 lety

      Actually just cuz u do it doesn’t mean it’s not dead, it just means you do it and your trying to keep it alive. You look cute under that mask tho🤙🏾

    • @tonyanaksigan4814
      @tonyanaksigan4814 Před 4 lety

      So am i

    • @Xx_Karmen_xX
      @Xx_Karmen_xX Před 3 lety

      I'm just glad that there is a middle finger emoji now 😂

  • @thatweirdval6265
    @thatweirdval6265 Před 4 lety +22

    Me: *doesnt know this band*
    Me: *sees thumbnail and panics (at the disco)*
    Me: WOW! it looks emo *clicks* I just found a masterpiece that’ll help me to bring the emo era back!
    Yay! Ily guys!

  • @Demonator248
    @Demonator248 Před 6 lety +10

    Thanks to As it is for bringing emo back

  • @DustinWeibert
    @DustinWeibert Před 6 lety +600

    make world emo again

    • @Austin-eo4xk
      @Austin-eo4xk Před 6 lety +8

      Dustin Bittencourt OMG Yes!!! I turned pop punk cause the Emo scene died for a while but I think its time to bring out the safety pins and eye liner! Long live Emo!!

    • @MidnightAngel2.o
      @MidnightAngel2.o Před 6 lety +2

      I totally agree with you

    • @fffacvbcjfvk5269
      @fffacvbcjfvk5269 Před 6 lety

      I agree

    • @sungod1141
      @sungod1141 Před 5 lety +2

      Dustin Bittencourt lol in 2019 or 2020 everyone’s emo imagine tho 😂😂😂I would happy

    • @jaciecotton2647
      @jaciecotton2647 Před 5 lety +1

      Dustin bittencourt I like and love emo boys a lot and I listen to emo music and I have friends that are emo

  • @namjoonsbitch8943
    @namjoonsbitch8943 Před 4 lety +1

    My little boy heart is very happy and comforted by this song 🖤

  • @dim1019
    @dim1019 Před 5 lety +1

    I can’t stop listening to this song

  • @Covert_skyline
    @Covert_skyline Před 6 lety +39

    I enjoy music from bands that give their bass guitar more sound over the drums and other guitars. Deep bass chords and higher vocals in my opinion give more feeling in a song.

  • @livajepsen613
    @livajepsen613 Před 6 lety +8

    I love this so much i can't even describe it. I like this band. One new fan added.

  • @charliesobessions
    @charliesobessions Před 5 lety

    I love the way every single one of the members look. But what I love even more is how these men, somehow made lyrics that are exactly what speaks to me and I understand it. I have a hard time decoding other songs by bands but them, I can easily figure out because I connect with it. I love the meaning of this song so much.

  • @fruit_ponchi1173
    @fruit_ponchi1173 Před rokem +6

    I'm still here🥲

  • @Wickedstary
    @Wickedstary Před 6 lety +98

    I'm a born again emo thanks as it is

  • @martintheresume8054
    @martintheresume8054 Před 6 lety +383

    Here is the new generation emo👍

    • @DampLover
      @DampLover Před 6 lety +5

      I´m still listening to the old ones, it never died!

    • @marcusaustin10
      @marcusaustin10 Před 6 lety +3

      Yeah let's grab them new razor-i mean.. equipment.. Yeah.. cos emo's cu-are unique
      -_-

    • @jeffreydesormeaux3539
      @jeffreydesormeaux3539 Před 6 lety +1

      that's not emo....

    • @DampLover
      @DampLover Před 6 lety +1

      Jeffrey Desormeaux You uneducated poor thing *facepalm*

    • @jeffreydesormeaux3539
      @jeffreydesormeaux3539 Před 6 lety

      @@DampLover it's a stereotype. Its not true for the most part ._.

  • @carimidnightqueen1761
    @carimidnightqueen1761 Před 4 lety +2

    Metalcore, Classic Rock, Glam Rock, ...all the nice genres seem to make a comeback!

  • @madisonmccray5996
    @madisonmccray5996 Před 5 lety +3

    This was the first song I heard from as it is, and now I'm in full emo obsession mode. Thank you guys for all that you do!!