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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 16. 08. 2024
  • On Dec 21, 2021 I was diagnosed with breast cancer & began chemotherapy. This is my hair loss journey (from 20 inches long to fully bald). Click here cen.yt/functio... and subscribe to get 20% off your first custom 16oz set + free shipping!
    The hardest words I've heard lately have been "you have breast cancer" but this was followed closely by "you will lose your hair." For as long as I can remember I have had long, healthy hair, and as I learned on this hair loss journey... this was a big part of my identity. But what scared me more about losing all my hair to chemotherapy was that once I was bald I would be easily identified as a cancer patient. Knowing that anyone could quickly see what I was going through and feel 'sorry for me' or 'sad for me' scared me even more.
    This story begins with cutting 16 inches off my hair to hopefully make a wig from my own hair. I then share a beautiful wig we've gotten to help me through those moments where I just want to feel a little 'normal' again. And last I share the troubling moments of hair shedding to the moment when we decide to shave my head.
    A big thanks to Follea for making beautiful wigs that look and feel just like human hair.
    www.danielalai...
    0:00 Intro
    0:49 Why Hair Loss Scares Me
    2:22 Let's Get a Bob!
    3:01 Making a Wig from My Own Hair
    4:08 Cold Cap Therapy
    5:15 Eamon does the 1st cut!
    6:00 The Big Reveal!
    6:34 Unboxing my NEW Wig!!
    11:51 The Hair Shedding Begins...
    13:17 Losing Hair in the Shower 😞
    18:11 Weird Food Cravings
    19:50 WE SHAVE MY HEAD!
    24:10 How I'm Feeling
    27:41 My Mole Removal
    30:12 Thanks for a Million!!
    31:24 NOW I'm REALLY bald
    #breastcancer #hairloss #breastcancersurvivor

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  • @garrickclau
    @garrickclau Pƙed 2 lety +5471

    Can we all just appreciate how amazing of a partner that Eamon is? And of course Bec incredibly strong for sharing all of the raw emotions so publicly. Much Love and Aloha to the both of you.

    • @yimjustbeachy
      @yimjustbeachy Pƙed 2 lety +105

      Eamon demonstrates what love and support should look like

    • @janicechambers9586
      @janicechambers9586 Pƙed 2 lety +40

      Truly what love 💕 looks like. Inspirational to say the very least. @EamonandBec The strength you are showing by sharing this extremely personal experience brings me to tears. Breast cancer has affected both sides of my family. I lost two Aunts one on my Mother and my Father’s side as well. I myself had a lump removed by needle biopsy at age eleven.Bec you are one fierce warrior!! You’re hair doesn’t define who you are as a person. You are such an amazing, beautiful woman. And you will always be. You’re not that way because you have long dark hair. A unwavering strength and zest for life has gotten you through (with a amazing partner!) You got this one!! You will conquer, this to shall pass. Praying for you both 😇

    • @marilynmeador5280
      @marilynmeador5280 Pƙed 2 lety +19

      Hang in there you two, we are with you and god bless.

    • @dianalinscome5830
      @dianalinscome5830 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      For all you've been through with saving your eggs to one day have your precious children to now going through chemo therapy, getting so so sick and now cutting your gorgeous hair to now losing it. Wow so...much you're having to go through and now shaving your head, you are a real champion my dear girl. And Eamon, come on now...what a champ he is as well. He always knows exactly what to say to you at your worst moments and he knows exactly when you need him. I just want to send God's strength, comfort and His never ending love to you both. I know God's the one who got me through the worst hours, days, months and years after losing my 17yr old son Anthony in 1997 and then losing my other son Marcus in 2019. You are one in a million my dear having to go through all this physical, emotional and mental agony. I just really thank God Eamon is there with you and "for" you. You look absolutely fantastic with hair and no hair but what really matters is how you feel. So may God just send many blessings your way throughout your journey. Love you both, from Washington state â€đŸŒ»đŸŒșđŸŒŒđŸŒžđŸ’âš˜

    • @louisepaquette5708
      @louisepaquette5708 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      Tu es trĂšs belle inside and out !

  • @brieu4522
    @brieu4522 Pƙed 2 lety +866

    my mom doesn’t even know who you guys are and saw me watching and said “that woman looks amazing with shaved hair” ❀❀ you’re so beautiful bec

  • @hibah19
    @hibah19 Pƙed 2 lety +275

    Eamon is the partner everyone needs in their life. The way he showed so much love to Bec through her journey is so heart touching. What an awesome guy

  • @davideagles1924
    @davideagles1924 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    I’m terminally ill from cancer on my lungs and adrenal gland. Having had a cancerous kidney removed last year they’ve given me 12 months to live. I’m now on a trial drug which is applied like chemo but without the side effects. My specialist rang me up yesterday and told me on my last scan that the tumours on my lungs have reduced significantly which I’m pleased about. It’s not a cure so when it stops working it will take over or then again it could be a miraculous cure. I don’t know. The hardest thing will be leaving my wife of 37 years and my six children. My point being is that day to day is an emotional journey. One day positive the next pretty negative. I was so shocked to hear of your condition and wish you so much love and healing. Take care Becks your videos have brought me so much joy and given me traveling abilities even though I couldn’t go you and Eamon went and took me places I can’t visit due to my health. Lots of love and healing, keep positive as this will bring healing. Peace and love ❀

    • @Iamllumash
      @Iamllumash Pƙed 2 lety

      David Eagles I've have health issues.. when I start feeling I'm getting stronger the problems reoccur but I never give up.. Its weird to except death though, as a possibility.. Anyways take care...

    • @davideagles1924
      @davideagles1924 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@Iamllumash as much as some don’t want to face it, sometimes death is part of life. Everyone will have to face it at some point.

    • @heyyou3609
      @heyyou3609 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      I hope you’re feeling well and better now ❀

  • @R2debo_
    @R2debo_ Pƙed 2 lety +3042

    You're beautiful no matter what Bec. It is your amazing personality that shines. Sending so much love 💗

    • @missycatlady
      @missycatlady Pƙed 2 lety +7

      True

    • @TraumaSurvivorCynthia
      @TraumaSurvivorCynthia Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Agreed!!đŸ’ŻđŸ˜â€ïž #davesandersstepdaughter

    • @ShakaBroski
      @ShakaBroski Pƙed 2 lety +10

      the light that shines from within her makes her stunning at all times. such a top notch human being

    • @Karl671
      @Karl671 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I agree

    • @alexandralove6141
      @alexandralove6141 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      Came here to say exactly that!

  • @tereasia
    @tereasia Pƙed 2 lety +399

    When my son was little he had cancer, and we had fun finding crazy hats. His fave had a propeller in top. Reasons to laugh and cry and just feel made life worth holding on to. He's 36 now 😊

  • @evangeline1307
    @evangeline1307 Pƙed 6 dny

    I love that what he said..."You don't need hair if you love" or something like that. Thank you! for sharing. Just by watching this gives me a lot of courage to keep on going and decreases my anxiety. I will be starting my first cycle of chemo in four days. Praise God! He gave us the treatment and love ones to support us.❀

  • @laurac86
    @laurac86 Pƙed rokem +36

    I didn’t have cancer but I lost a ton of hair after traumatic life event and seeing the clumps of hair coming out in the shower was just hard for me so I feel for you Bec!! You’re beautiful inside and out with hair or without! đŸ„°

  • @lizziebennet2700
    @lizziebennet2700 Pƙed 2 lety +346

    Stunning with long hair. Stunning with a fringe. Stunning with a bob. Stunning with a shaved head. You're beautiful inside and outside all the time. Hoping for a speedy recovery.

    • @chrissyb5226
      @chrissyb5226 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      You look AMAZING!!!!đŸ’Șâ€đŸ’•

    • @kathygarza3288
      @kathygarza3288 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      You are awesome. My mom had breast 🎀 cancer. You are beautiful and Eamon is a powerful supporter. Love you two.

  • @jodischmidt4301
    @jodischmidt4301 Pƙed 2 lety +372

    I was an oncology nurse for 30+ years. This is the most honest and on the spot representation of what happens with hair loss. You emotions are so normal. Our hair is such a part of our identity, and losing that is so painful. You are gorgeous with and without hair. I always told women that most women are more beautiful bald because then the focus is on your eyes, not your hair. I wish I was still working, I would refer women to your episode.

  • @seekingsurrender1679
    @seekingsurrender1679 Pƙed 2 lety +16

    More than ten years ago I was told to go home and get my affairs in order. While at some level that was good advice (I still don't have my things in order) I decided what I really needed was a doctor who had a better plan. Believe in yourself guys, this part will suck at times and there can be great joy on the other side. Sending love 💕

  • @dennyj9759
    @dennyj9759 Pƙed 2 lety +113

    “She stood in the storm and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails.” You are in our prays, Bec. Numbers 6:24-26

    • @nancyjones6428
      @nancyjones6428 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      How beautiful and appropriate.

    • @sharonj7274
      @sharonj7274 Pƙed rokem +2

      I have never heard that before,but I did write it down and I will have a plaque made with that saying. Thank You for sharing.

  • @marysmith3887
    @marysmith3887 Pƙed 2 lety +198

    The first time I heard Eamon say, “it’s only hair”, I thought he just didn’t get what it means to Bec. But, then I realized he was saying “it’s only hair” because Bec’s hair isn’t Bec. He truly and passionately loves Bec, mind, body and soul. Hair is only the icing on top.

  • @15prettymee
    @15prettymee Pƙed 2 lety +251

    “You don’t need hair for love” 😭so sweet to have someone supportive and loving along your side on this journey! Such a blessing! Your a women of strength Bec! Much love!

  • @reb819
    @reb819 Pƙed rokem +12

    My fiancĂ© is about to start chemo. I’m very scared. I will be as supporting her through this. The emotional toll has been tremendous. Thank you for the videos.

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec  Pƙed rokem +5

      Sending you both lots of positive thoughts for healing as you journey through chemo! Your strength and support will be so important! You got this! đŸ€—đŸ€—đŸ€—

  • @Elvesandragons
    @Elvesandragons Pƙed 2 lety +53

    Out of all the journey videos so far, I held back tears with her. Bravery isn't fearlessness, it's going through the fear because you have to, and doing it anyway. I'm not going through anything physically, but I've been through mental illnesses. Illness is hard to handle. It's great you're doing this. Your husband is great, reminds me of mine. He genuinely sees you're beautiful, physical and spiritually, I can see it. You are beautiful. Thank you.

  • @jessicajames2414
    @jessicajames2414 Pƙed 2 lety +311

    Having an Eamon is the secret ingredient to life. He never lied and everything he says is so genuine. Bec you look awesome and as always an absolute warrior ♄

  • @TheBandNerd129
    @TheBandNerd129 Pƙed 2 lety +142

    Eamon said “even though you won’t have hair it’ll always grow back” with the little head planter, that’s the sweetest thing ever 😭😭 you guys are so strong and incredible

  • @Lulu-oj3uz
    @Lulu-oj3uz Pƙed 2 lety +27

    Let’s just take a moment and look at Bec, she’s so beautiful and brave! And Eamon he’s an amazing partner, Bec is so lucky to have a kind and caring partner! We wish you all the love!đŸ«¶đŸ»

  • @jsyoung4112
    @jsyoung4112 Pƙed rokem +15

    Eamon you are incredible human being. You are the best partner she could have asked for. And Bec.. you DO look so so pretty!!! As women in society we put waaay to much of our worth in looks into our hair as every woman I’ve ever seen shave their head looks just as good, if not better, without hair. It’s a pretty cool thing to realize.

  • @catthebeautyhunter
    @catthebeautyhunter Pƙed 2 lety +348

    I can't imagine having someone like Eamon during "regular" life, let alone during the hard times. A partner we should all aspire to find and also to be like ❀

  • @YouWillDoGreatThings
    @YouWillDoGreatThings Pƙed 2 lety +175

    I was watching holding back tears until “I wore it because it’s Lee’s sweater and I wanted to feel strong” I totally broke down. What a beautiful moment. You are so strong pretty girl! Love you❀

  • @purplepuddlenut
    @purplepuddlenut Pƙed 2 lety +11

    Beck is so strong and Eamon is so supportive. It's so nice to see them tag team this and accept that it's okay to greave

  • @MarieNorris-cq6mq
    @MarieNorris-cq6mq Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    So sweet Eamon calling her buddy she has a lot to be thankful for

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks Pƙed 2 lety +141

    Take care and keep going

  • @janna8437
    @janna8437 Pƙed 2 lety +436

    Oh Bec, in the words of my 7 year old. “You are stunning inside and out” thank you for sharing your life with us. Your strength and Eamon’s love shine through every episode.

  • @lesiak9038
    @lesiak9038 Pƙed 2 lety +20

    I Love Eamon he is such a good Partner. Just Amazing how supportive and there he is for her. Bec is mad Strong. Love you guys!

  • @markaaronmontuya1230
    @markaaronmontuya1230 Pƙed rokem +12

    I really love how you two handled the situation. My mom was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer last November 2022. I'm literally about to cry now but I know we'll get through this. Thanks for sharing your story . Hope you inspire more women to fight cancer.

    • @missaimee8514
      @missaimee8514 Pƙed rokem +1

      Im on the same boat! My mom was diagnosed last month with stage 2 and just had her first chemo today. Im around if you want to chat. Prayers and healing to your mom!!

    • @markaaronmontuya1230
      @markaaronmontuya1230 Pƙed rokem

      @@missaimee8514 Thanks! Any way how to message you?

    • @indimist390
      @indimist390 Pƙed rokem

      ​@@missaimee8514 im in the same boat

  • @RetroGeekCollective
    @RetroGeekCollective Pƙed 2 lety +102

    When my grandmother went through chemo she of course lost all her hair. As she recovered, for some strange reason as her hair grew back her leg hair never returned. I wish that same gift for you as a trophy for making it through this difficult journey.

    • @nuthouse2385
      @nuthouse2385 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      Leg hair, pubic hair and armpits.. Have to wish for all the annoying parts đŸ˜‰đŸ˜đŸ€ž

  • @hopscotchtheglobe
    @hopscotchtheglobe Pƙed 2 lety +346

    I know you might think people are just saying "you look so good" to make you feel better...but honestly, you fucking rock this so well!!! You look absolutely stunning. Powerful and badass! You are beautiful inside and out and I just love u guys. - Kristen

  • @Max2U
    @Max2U Pƙed rokem

    I just began to watch you two today. It happened because Eamon swapped vehicles with another CZcamsr I follow. I came to your page, saw the videos entitled, “cancer”and initially thought, not going to watch them because there’s already enough death and disappointment in my life. Somehow I found myself watching Bec’s journey after falling for Ozo. I have cried with every one. I hope Bec is better now. I will continue to follow your nice family. You are brave and beautiful. Please listen to that.đŸ€žđŸœđŸ™đŸœ

  • @clare.farnsworth
    @clare.farnsworth Pƙed rokem +15

    Bec, I think you are so strong and amazing, one of my best friends mom just died of stage four breast cancer and it’s been really hard for me and my family and her family. I remember when she cut her mom’s hair it was very emotional, but a great experience, I love you guys so much! Keep staying strong!❀

  • @fashionface409
    @fashionface409 Pƙed 2 lety +87

    Bec is an absolute stunner with everything she does. Long hair, bangs, Bob cut, shaved head, wigs, head scarfs. Everytime a new look comes up I'm like that woman can pull off anything!!

  • @rafaela8161
    @rafaela8161 Pƙed 2 lety +93

    Honestly, the moment I saw Bec with a shaved head I thought "Oh my gosh she looks like a model". Keep being strong! You inspire us all. Sending lots of love ❀

    • @valeriellauke2179
      @valeriellauke2179 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      me too !!! ..... and what an awakening.. I used to feel the same about my hair .. then I got old. you're beautiful bec!!

  • @SamanthaSeltzer
    @SamanthaSeltzer Pƙed 2 lety +12

    “That looks just like me!” I love that you still feel like yourself, and I hope that on this journey you come to realize you look like you and ARE still you regardless of the amount of hair on your head ❀

  • @meghanmoss8227
    @meghanmoss8227 Pƙed 2 lety +15

    I have been scouring the internet trying to find an update. Even a small one. I think about you guys often & hope you guys are ok!!

    • @masonmagruder1228
      @masonmagruder1228 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I have been too.

    • @colliesworld6380
      @colliesworld6380 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Ya I can’t find anything either I’m worried

    • @27ajfarrow
      @27ajfarrow Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Me too! She has been on my mind for several days, and I finally came here to see if anyone knew anything. I’m praying đŸ™đŸŒ

  • @doreenduncan3411
    @doreenduncan3411 Pƙed 2 lety +102

    Unfortunately society has made having long hair such a definition of beauty that it becomes a crippling thing when something like this happens. You look beautiful like we knew you would.

  • @feliciabartenetti1309
    @feliciabartenetti1309 Pƙed 2 lety +235

    Breaking down when you wore Lee’s sweater. Can’t think of a stronger person right now then Bec and I can’t think of a more loving and helpful and goofy partner then Eamon. Love you keeping going!

  • @francetrudelle
    @francetrudelle Pƙed rokem +4

    You poor sweetheart. Going through all of this so soon after Lee's departure. Watching this all I could think of was that it's ok to cry !!! But you DO look amazing ! Kudos to you and Eamon... you guys have all you need to shine through this. Ps. This happened a year ago. I see that you now have the cutest pixie... ❀

  • @liatingz
    @liatingz Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

    she genuinely looks amazing bald. she has a nice head shape, and beautiful facial features. looks badass on u Bec đŸ’Ș you are so strong

  • @GreenShortzDIY
    @GreenShortzDIY Pƙed 2 lety +953

    Stopping at 22:00 to comment
 Bec, your strength lies, in part, in your willingness to share your most vulnerable moments in this journey. Tears don’t represent weakness. They are a valid component in the grieving process, as we come to terms with a struggle, release the stress, reset and soldier onward. Keep up the fight! Praying for your treatment and recovery.

    • @SarahGraymatter
      @SarahGraymatter Pƙed 2 lety +5

      You both are in my thoughts throughout the days. Keep the faith, keep the love💕

    • @lynmaxwell1256
      @lynmaxwell1256 Pƙed 2 lety

      Such beautiful words from your soul❀

  • @Stephdeew
    @Stephdeew Pƙed 2 lety +215

    I didn’t think it was possible to feel so proud of someone I’ve never met. You are so strong - even if/when you don’t feel like it. Sharing your story, being so vulnerable, is SO strong.

    • @Lulustella23
      @Lulustella23 Pƙed 2 lety

      Wishing you healing and love ♄♄ I found your videos by chance on Facebook a few weeks ago and had been enjoying your adventures and how amazing you two humans are as a couple and as individuals
 last night while catching up on your adventures I saw what you have been going through
 and just wanted to send you both love and healing xoxo take care ♄

  • @cathryncavalli
    @cathryncavalli Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Watching this 1yr later knowing the outcome of life 1yr from this video and I’m still in tears from watching you hurt 😱 the best thing to say when someone is hurting either physical or emotional is “I know this hurts” validating their feelings makes it hurt so much less. Toddler example: my 3yr old bumps her head and is screaming “oh you bumped your head, I know how that hurt at lot, let’s rub it out” stops crying within the minute.
    I’m screaming in my head as your shaving your head crying “this hard! Shaving your head bc your sink is hard! And your doing it so bravely! You are being so strong even though this is so hard and it hurt so much!” Ugh I could cry again. Love you from one stranger to another ❀

  • @madisonwhitney7170
    @madisonwhitney7170 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Having gone through the same process myself, I am so impressed with how you are carrying yourself and letting yourself feel every emotion! I know it's traumatizing and a big change, but you're on the road to getting better and you're just as beautiful as ever! -Fellow cancer survivor

  • @iEatcandy.
    @iEatcandy. Pƙed 2 lety +120

    Literally all cancer aside, She rocks every hairstyle, hair or no hair. What a rockstar BUDDY :)

  • @melissamacleod2616
    @melissamacleod2616 Pƙed 2 lety +127

    We need a love button on this channel! The like button isn’t strong enough to show how much you guys are loved.

  • @brittanyweber7764
    @brittanyweber7764 Pƙed rokem +1

    I get it! I completely get it! I don’t have breast cancer but went through septic shock. And after a long fight to stay alive and the staff working so hard to keep my hair clean and tangle free, it started to fall out. I now have bald spots all over and have been just wanting to shave it off. Your blog has empowered me to embrace what happened to me and not let hair or society define who I am by how I look! Thank you for sharing with the world! I hope I can do the same when I am brave enough to say goodbye to my hair!! You’ve inspired me!

  • @kimking5151
    @kimking5151 Pƙed rokem

    I was just diagnosed with stage 3 ductal carcimoma and at 65 I hope and pray I have your strength. Praying you are well! Love your flog.

  • @margaretwerner6690
    @margaretwerner6690 Pƙed 2 lety +167

    If anyone can rock a bald head......it's you! And a shout out to Eamon, Bec is so lucky to have you by her side while she navigates this. Top marks for best support person ever!💞

  • @isla.chapman
    @isla.chapman Pƙed 2 lety

    You are so strong,
    This is why I shaved my hair for cancer and I just pray that people like this feel happy for people supporting them and I hope so. 😁 luv ya!!

  • @mikaelamarie1846
    @mikaelamarie1846 Pƙed 2 lety +247

    I've been following you both for.. my gosh.. YEARS.. years. When Bec announced her diagnosis I felt like I was hearing it from a family member. I truly care about you both so deeply and am sure the rest of your community feels the same. Am looking forward to continuing to support you both on this journey. You guys rock

  • @phillipgage7356
    @phillipgage7356 Pƙed 2 lety +71

    Eamon, you set a good example for the loving and supportive men who are out here going through the cancer battle with the love of their life. Thanks for what you do, buddy. Keep on rocking.

  • @annelienv
    @annelienv Pƙed rokem

    I also cried when it was time to shave my hair. It's silly how much we get attached to ourselves with hair. I could'nt look at myself in the mirror for a long time and there are no pictures of me with my buzzcut.
    I've lost friends to cancer now and I try to grow out my hair every 3 years so I can donate it to those who need it.
    I know this is an old video, but thank you for sharing your journey. I surely made some memories and feelings loose with me.

  • @user-pl6yf5ec1p
    @user-pl6yf5ec1p Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

    Tbh both ways you look great but my favorite way is the short it’s almost like a new normal and can’t see you without it. You look great 😊😊

  • @sandrasam8981
    @sandrasam8981 Pƙed 2 lety +135

    Im so sorry you're going through this Bec. Just know all of us never came here for your hair...it's always been about your personalities, your light, your energy, just the amazing people you guys are. Hair or no hair, both of you are beautiful.

  • @tegalicocious
    @tegalicocious Pƙed 2 lety +82

    Let’s take a min to appreciate Eamon! He is really amazing! Still praying for you Bec

  • @lizettecintron9154
    @lizettecintron9154 Pƙed rokem

    Today February 29, 2023 I’m going to shave my head because of Chemotherapy. Watching you I feel better already. Thank you!

  • @13taraliane
    @13taraliane Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I just found your channel and I just had my first treatment of chemo for breast cancer. It’s a really big relief to see someone go along on a daily basis for me. Thank you x

  • @elementsofjaime
    @elementsofjaime Pƙed 2 lety +155

    When you asked if Eamon was ok after he shaved your head was so precious to me. The fact you're going through the hardest battle someone can go through and it's still second nature to nurture those around... You're a beautiful soul. 💓
    PS: You look SO good bald. To me, you don't look sick. You look fierce and strong and beautiful! But as a hairstylist, I know how much our hair can impact our confidence and your sadness over losing your hair is so valid. I think your wig is absolutely beautiful as well and looks so natural and so you. You are an inspiration!

    • @lilybekionzeroad838
      @lilybekionzeroad838 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I completely agree with you Jaime.
      Beck, you have always been... and even more then ever ARE awesomely inspiring AND beautiful in every ways.
      Respect.

    • @ceeceemarie7256
      @ceeceemarie7256 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      💖💖💖

    • @gaylealexander-avani3179
      @gaylealexander-avani3179 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      So so so true!

  • @shinypearl7745
    @shinypearl7745 Pƙed 2 lety +88

    As a girl who has cancer and is almost done with chemotherapy, losing my hair was the easiest part and now I like being bald because I can shower faster đŸ€Ł. Chemotherapy is hard but you can do this. You have Eamon and your family to support you. Things get worse before they get better but when your in the worst part you have Eamon and your family to support and care for you. .

    • @tinagodber
      @tinagodber Pƙed 2 lety +13

      Uve got this too and almost there! Well done to u

  • @Viking-io3tj
    @Viking-io3tj Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    My wife is about to start her chemotherapy and she is scared and feeling the same way you do. I wish I could trade places with her. I feel so bad for anyone that has to go through this. I’m so sorry

  • @sallybush6454
    @sallybush6454 Pƙed rokem +3

    This should be a documentary...I've followed both of ur journey...thank u for ur raw and true journey...ur are such a powerful force of nature both of u x

  • @Simbecile
    @Simbecile Pƙed 2 lety +101

    You know someone is physically beautiful when they look stunning bald. Your inner beauty is your real super power Bec, but never worry about how you look without hair because you're smashing it. ❀

  • @ladyamber2766
    @ladyamber2766 Pƙed rokem +2

    I am starting chemo and radiation next Monday, and while I have bought wigs and fake eyelashes already, I can really appreciate just how much our hair changes the way we look. The thoughts that you stated, where people will know just by looking at us, the personal journey we are going through was one of my first thoughts too.

  • @petgranny194
    @petgranny194 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Two weeks ago, before I knew about this hair loss, I donated 15inches of hair to Hair We Share. This was my fourth donation of hair - I am blessed with a lot of hair, it only seems right to share it. Wishing you all the best during this tough journey. I believe in you, your strength, and your beauty. You will get through this stronger and more confidently beautiful. You are fortunate to have all this loving support. Is it an omen that you reached 1M subscribers at this time - nope!

  • @simigill5501
    @simigill5501 Pƙed 2 lety +165

    I’ve never cried or ever gotten emotional watching CZcamsrs but I feel like I could feel every emotion that Bec felt and was just a ball of tears throughout this video. Hair or no hair you are so absolutely incredible Bec and I commend you for being so strong. I hope and pray that you continue to stay strong throughout this journey. Your followers and CZcams family are all here supporting you ❀

    • @1helluvawomen
      @1helluvawomen Pƙed 2 lety

      Me to I still have tears rolling down my face omg!!đŸ˜©đŸ˜©đŸ˜© She is so strong.❀

    • @roxie3753
      @roxie3753 Pƙed 2 lety

      they are sooo wonderful sweet two of them. Yes me too shed tears for them....

  • @mjones8887
    @mjones8887 Pƙed 2 lety +148

    “A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life.”- CoCo Chanel
    I wholeheartedly agree with Eamon that you look so beautiful with a bald head. You literally have the perfect head shape for it and look like a model. I also loved the short bob on you as well. I am happy you are filming the ups and downs of your journey and it seems that you are embarking on a deeper self love journey through this process. You will come out on the other side better for it. I wish you & Eamon health and many blessings to come during and on the other side of this journey. ❀❀❀

  • @gaypurcell
    @gaypurcell Pƙed 2 lety +6

    Sending you love and healing vibes from Kansas City!! My favorite thing about watching you two is that you call each other “buddy”. It such a good way to remind each other that friendship is so important in a loving relationship. Thank you for sharing all of your journeys with us - through the ups and downs. As a physician, I can tell you that breast cancer in general has a wonderful 90% survival rate at 5 years. You’ve got this!! Your light, positivity, and healthy lifestyle will carry you both through. ❀

  • @luisarojas7566
    @luisarojas7566 Pƙed rokem

    I cried a lot when I lost my hair, I got depressed and I didn’t want to see and talk with anybody, people say don’t worry it will come back, but at that moment you just think in what is happening at that moment. I just finished my treatments and I can’t wait to see my hair again đŸ™đŸ»

  • @highlander723
    @highlander723 Pƙed 2 lety +30

    Eamon.... You are what we as men aspire to be in regards to being there for our women.

  • @jordandixon3264
    @jordandixon3264 Pƙed 2 lety +43

    To me seeing a girl who is bald, my first thought isn't that oh she's sick. It's fuck she is strong! I watched my mom go through this same hair loss journey & to see all the shit she went through & what that bald head signifies it definitely goes well beyond just being sick! You're killing it Bec!!

  • @melindaa2950
    @melindaa2950 Pƙed 2 lety +30

    This was a rollercoaster of emotions, sending you lots of love and hope everything is going good! 28:32 You definitely look great bald

  • @angelicacchavez2306
    @angelicacchavez2306 Pƙed rokem +1

    So grateful I came across your story. I have been diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. And after many jokes and trying to be tough as if this is like any other sickness, my biggest fear is losing my hair because I feel my hair makes me pretty. I start chemo in 2 weeks and now I'm becoming anxious. As I watched and cried with you I wanted to say Thank you for giving me hope and understanding that the pain is real and this will pass. Your cancer journey not only reminds me that I am not alone but truly was an eye opener for my husband. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @smileydragon99
    @smileydragon99 Pƙed 2 lety +107

    I don’t really get emotional with people I watch on CZcams, but bec, I was crying right alongside you this whole time. You are so loved and have so many positive vibes coming your way-and you truly look BADASSS and BEAUTIFUL bald! Also, don’t feel like you have to share everything, this seemed really really hard for you and if you need to do things in private and process please do so

  • @erinmc
    @erinmc Pƙed 2 lety +36

    I immediately started bawling when Eamon explained that he picked out that pot to represent that your hair would always grow back. If I don’t have love like that down the road, I don’t want it. 💖 All the best to you both.

  • @MarieNorris-cq6mq
    @MarieNorris-cq6mq Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

    I had breast cancer and to shave my head. My hair grows so slow and I am so self conscious about how I look 😱 I understand how you feel

  • @HEINLUMBY
    @HEINLUMBY Pƙed 2 lety

    I just found your channel today, I saw you dancing together in the 10k room makeover video. I thought to myself, either that woman just someone how figured out she looks amazing with a bald head or, she might have a story behind it. Honestly you are so gorgeous with a bald head, your partner is right you totally should rock it! I will send positive vibes your way to kick cancers butt! Keep fighting you can do it!

  • @WhataWorld
    @WhataWorld Pƙed 2 lety +162

    He is so loving and is taking care of his girl like he should. Specially during this time. Is so hard the process you are going thru but you are a warrior and you will overcome this. 🙏

    • @robinhoward4204
      @robinhoward4204 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      As my mum would say "he is a good man", in every way. To have a beloved partner going through this must be the hardest thing - he's obviously being stronger than ever for Bec!

  • @poppyseed389
    @poppyseed389 Pƙed 2 lety +111

    The cute little plant holder representing hair growing back is possibly the most thoughtful sweetest present I've ever seen đŸ˜­â€ïž you all are adorable. Cannot wait to see all this behind you and brighter sunny days ahead. After difficulty comes ease ❀ you are so strong sharing such vulnerable moments and helping so many by doing so

  • @accessoriesbyjj9410
    @accessoriesbyjj9410 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you for sharing your experience, just found out I have stage 2 cancer and I'm finding comfort in your positive attitude

  • @aprilroseu
    @aprilroseu Pƙed rokem +1

    I completely understand! I too lost all of my long brown hair , ! I go for a haircut tomorrow!!! I’m a year cancer free

  • @kierramiller4710
    @kierramiller4710 Pƙed 2 lety +84

    Bec’s resilience and strength through this time is incredible and beyond words💖
    But shit, the unconditional and fearless love that Eamon shows her gets me every single time 😭

  • @JRspeaking
    @JRspeaking Pƙed 2 lety +53

    Man, I wish everyone going through illness could have a supportive partner like you, Eamon.

  • @scottbartlett4853
    @scottbartlett4853 Pƙed rokem

    When my sister was going through chemo I went over and had her shave my head, hug her, then shaved her head. Cathartic for both of us.

  • @shilohivy4590
    @shilohivy4590 Pƙed rokem

    I’ve been there and now am five years out. My heart is with you

  • @acandy7
    @acandy7 Pƙed 2 lety +112

    “Okay stop” broke me. We are all crying with you, Bec. You are absolutely stunning! Inside and out. With or without hair. Please feel these big (hugs)) I am sending! ❀

  • @Mookbot
    @Mookbot Pƙed 2 lety +59

    I don’t know what made me cry more, the struggle that poor Bec has with coming to terms with the hair loss or the amazing bond and love her and Eamon have. I am so insanely proud of both of them for being so strong and wonderful to each other during this process. You are still so insanely gorgeous, Bec!!

    • @hollyshaw-elliemae
      @hollyshaw-elliemae Pƙed 2 lety +3

      when Bec asked if Eamon was ok while hes shaving her hair off, made me bawl. even in times of such fear and anxiety, shes checking on him. it screams how much they mean to one another.

  • @seeyourselfsoar6729
    @seeyourselfsoar6729 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Replaying Eamon and Bec's Europe trip. I think we can support them by watching some of our favorites from past adventures.

  • @leslievanduzee9282
    @leslievanduzee9282 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

    Oh Bec, Eamon is so sweet with you, he tells you, you are beautiful and I totally believe him. You do look beautiful, you have a perfect face for no hair! 😊

  • @janwilson1497
    @janwilson1497 Pƙed 2 lety +32

    Big thanks to Eamon for the genuine empathy and care.

  • @mckennativy9813
    @mckennativy9813 Pƙed 2 lety +84

    I found myself continuously whispering “you’re okay” as I watched Bec struggle throughout this video. You are so so beautiful. I know they say it’s just hair, and as much as I want to say that as well- I know that I would also lose my mind because my hair is my world. But knowing that I feel that way, you are now my hero. Because you did it! You are so so strong. 💙

  • @patricialea6134
    @patricialea6134 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I’m a 29 year survivor. Only had surgery no treatment. I live life to the fullest, still. Wish you all the love in the world and I thank you for sharing what you are going thru. God bless you, you are helping so many women everywhere. I was helped by a group of women, you are helping so many women not to feel alone. I helped women also. The circle goes on. One beautiful person helping another. Thank you. Wising you a complete recovery. ❀

  • @chelseabyce2691
    @chelseabyce2691 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Bec, beautiful strong Bec. Thank you for always being real with us. Eamon, thank you for always being your sweet, goofy, supportive self. Your relationship is literal couple goals and I can not wait to continue this journey as a subscriber. Praying for easier days for you both.

  • @rodeoandrye
    @rodeoandrye Pƙed 2 lety +34

    I’m fighting depression, not cancer. But I see you fighting Bec, and you inspire me to keep fighting too. Eamon, your love and tender caring for Bec is so beautiful to witness. So grateful to both of you for sharing your journey.

  • @barbaradunn5915
    @barbaradunn5915 Pƙed 2 lety +91

    Not me balling my eyes out when she said “okay stop” the way her voice broke. Bec you are beyond beautiful inside and out. Thank you for letting us watch your journey in your vulnerable heart breaking moments. Thanks for allowing us to see your strength and beauty shine threw. Eamon you are a real rock being there for Bec and helping to remind her how beautiful and loved she is.

  • @GamerPopCat
    @GamerPopCat Pƙed 2 lety

    Everyone appreciate Eamon's support towards Bec and you, bec are so strong and powerful and remember you look beautiful anytims

  • @SuSuKhair
    @SuSuKhair Pƙed 2 lety +6

    Awwww Eamon, that was such a sweet gift, and what you said really touched me. Beck, you are soooo strong, and I sending you constant love!!!!!

  • @gemmashade1872
    @gemmashade1872 Pƙed 2 lety +75

    Yes a bald head is a sign of a cancer patient, but it's also a sign of a warrior! â€ïžâ€đŸ”„ So much love all the way from Scotland 🏮󠁧󠁱󠁳󠁣󠁮󠁿 xx

  • @ju2training
    @ju2training Pƙed 2 lety +65

    I realize that the validation from a stranger probably has little to no effect on your self love, but I just wanted to say thank you for being so strong and sharing this really tough journey with all of us. Thousands and thousands of people a year go through this alone and are completely terrified but tell nobody that they are struggling and your bravery and vulnerability are the most beautiful things about you! Also doesn't hurt that you're physically beautiful but that isn't what defines you as a person the same way your character does, and you my beautiful stranger are quite possibly the most gorgeous human being on the internet!

  • @souaadfrugui
    @souaadfrugui Pƙed 2 lety

    The problem is that you are the healtest and most cautious person I have ever seen but still you got this illness ,I can 't believe that you have it .I wish you well and stay strong