Refusing A Love Bribe
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- The plaintiff says he bought $10,000 of jewelry for his ex-wife to woo her back, but she ignored him and didn’t return the items. He’s suing her for the money he claims she now owes him. The defendant says the jewelry was a gift and she doesn’t have to give it back. She’s countersuing for emotional distress and lost wages.
Case 29-234
I actually tilted my head to the side to see if I could get another part of my brain to engage and understand him.
GIRL!!!!!
😂😂😂
LOLOLOLOLLLLLLLLL
im crying
Not another part of your brain🦃🦃
I think I lost a few brain cells listening to this man.. my lord..
SAME! I had to take a few days, then come back for the comments.
I lost 95% of mine 🙁
I KNOW I did🙄🥴
“The problem mam....I think the excuse that’s happening now is a good reason to have a excuse” wtf was he talking about😂😂😂
I am dead 😂😂😂
He don't know!
Absolutely nothing lol
Lmfao I thought I was slow . I got dumber listening to him!
@@melclark4931 🤣🤣🤣 ikr! At one point I thought I understood him, but when I played it back(for the umpteenth time), my brain couldn't comprehend. I gave up. Lmao!
When he kept saying “this is a good example” This is a good example of what??? I can’t 😂😂😂😂😂
This is my favorite line. It’s become a staple joke in my family. We say it at random times just to laugh out loud. It’s out insider 😆
He couldn't even answer that. He's so dumb, I'm shocked he managed to get dressed this morning.
@@CarlaWaltersI love this!!!🤣🤣🤣
“I think the excuse that is happening now is a good reason to have an excuse” 🤯🤯😅
“Is it my fault that she can’t make me pay”
He is a joke and she is right for leaving him
He sounds like someone trying to write a 1,000 word essay that's due in 10 minutes lmao
Lol
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LMAO❗❗ playn scramble n his head...tryna put words together...
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This has to be one of the dumbest cases I’ve ever watched lmaoo
omg, YES! I'm sitting here totally dumbfounded that he even made his way to court!
@@vivianhamilton616 This is the problem with anyone being able to file a lawsuit.
Facts
My mouth is still wide open , this can't be real
I was thinking the SAME thing!!! 😜
I know he's speaking English, yet I don't understand what he's saying.
I don't even think HE understands what he's saying! 😂 You can spend $10,000 in jewelry to get a female back that has no interest in you, yet you don't spend any money on your child? He is out of his damn mind!
I didn't understand one single word...
He ain’t the sharpest tool in the shed smh 🤦♂️
😂😂 I just started the video, case hasn’t even started and you got me laughing so hard. That’s why I don’t need to come to these comments first 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Hold up, wait a minute, His Elevator is out of order...Like BROKE ALL THE WAY DOWN. What in Gods green earth is he talking about????? Still don’t understand what he was trying to say about not seeing or paying for his child.
The man asked him “Don't you want to see your daughter” and his response was “ No”. SMH
😂 😂 😂 😂
His daughter is probably BETTER OFF without him🤦🏽♀️.
Very sad that he feels that way, but that will be the best decision he can make for his daughter.
There is something very wrong with this plaintiff. Listening to him, and trying to make sense of what he was saying had me doubting my own comprehension skills. 🤯
I see why he is on SSI .....
Lmao 🤣. Right 👍
Wait a whole minute! His financials don’t allow him to financially support his kid but he can buy 10.000 worth of jewelry?😳
This should have been a case for Judge Judy
He’s a deadbeat! And clearly not the brightest apple in the bunch.
Glad you said it cuz I was about to
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Took the words right out of my mouth! Lol
Credit
“How is it my fault that she can’t make me pay child support” 😂😂😂
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I was rolling watching this case 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂
Just DUMB!
Listen....... I had my headphones listening while at work. When I tell you I had to pick up my phone to see what this fool looked like.... and as soon as I saw him I understood. SMDH HE IS PITIFUL!!!!!!
Bless his damn heart ❤🤦
I laughed the whole time watching this. Judge Milian said “are you out of your mind?!” Yes he is. Lol
You and me both from he walked in😂😂😂😂😂😂
When he started rambling I came straight to the comments for the laughs I knew I was gone get!!
Some folks be thinking they can just cheat and pick their significant other back up whenever they want. Good for the defendant. He cheated she left and he even said she wasn’t rocking with him at all after the divorce. Good for her! Seems like a solid woman right there
Yes, except picking an obvious loser to have a child with.
A solid woman who takes quid pro quo jewelries and runs from her husband. You pick a husband, you make babies with husband, your commitment to work it out. But if he cheated he's done.
His elevator clearly doesn't go to the top floor.. lol 😆 .. he's talking but saying nothing at the same time
“talking loud & saying. nothing”
Dying Laughing!!😂😂
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Believe me, Kristina, Iman's elevator is stuck in the basement, it ain't even on the ground floor. What a stupid case...
@@johnathanpatrick6118 lol 😂 very true
I can’t even comprehend what he’s trying to say lmaooo
I don't think HE comprehends what he's trying to say either. lololol
Even Doug tried at the end 😂😂😂
He doesn't either. 😑🤣
He said why would I pay child support if he isn't order to do so.....an then I was 🤣 😂😆
I thought I had a stroke.
Man I love the dude at the end “I don’t think you get it.. “ 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
Lol, Doug said "I don't think you get it". I think you're right!
“ I don’t think you get it “
Had him crying all
Mf night lmaoo
How did he even afford $10k but gets govt assistance and can't pay child support?
It was the government’s money
$10 K my ass. He seems confused by just about everything. $1000 ain't no $10,000 dollars. But he don't look good at math, or basic reasoning, or common sense, or speaking
@@greyos6034 yes that's sounds more accurate!
Pretty sure he doesn’t comprehend the comma placement in wrote currency.
I feel like his government assistance comes from a permanent disability (mental health, cognitive health and delayed learning)
Oh Lord. He’s not the brightest... & sis, you have to do better. Get to know people better you bring life into this world.
Omg no lie there!!! I was like wtf 😳
I was just thinking that! Gosh be careful who you have kids by because that dude there ain’t making no kind of sense!!!
Both of them aren't too bright.
@@khalilah81 but now she’s left to raise a child alone ...also she has a job and he doesn’t so it’s clear she shines just a little bit brighter than he does.
Smh
10K on Jade, but could't buy a ten dollar iron? All wrinkly in the court house lol
🤣 ah shit
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Stop it . Lol too funny!
Sadly, it looks like it's right out of the package.
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Sad how some “men” aren’t willing to father their own children unless the mother will be with them 🤢🤢
I JUST SAID THE SAME THING! Some people say fuck the kid if the other parent doesn’t want to be in a relationship with them and it’s SAD.
He is a very dangerous person. If he is still hung up on her after 4years, he won't let her be with anyone else. Keep your head on a swivel ma'am!!
His explanation in the hallway was just.... my god today. Is he even on this planet?
Me running to the comments after listening to this man ‘state his case’ 🏃🏾🤭🤦🏾♀️ SMH
Girl, me too. I was like 🗣 “Roast him!”
Me too 😂😂😂
She would have been more impress with him if he had given her the "$10,000" and telling her to buy what their kid needed instead of buying her jewelry.
He probably bought the jewelry from the pawn shop.
How does someone on social services afford jewelry but not child support? Terrible🙄
He said that jewelry was worth 10 Gs but couldn't afford stuff like child support.
Probably financed the jewelry
I was SO happy when she said she pawned it, because at least then she's getting something useful from him.
Doug at the end:"The judge is really irritating at you.She let you have it.😂😂😂
He is so lost and confused. Why should she force you to pay child support. I’m glad she pawned them and took care of business.
She need to keep finessing him out of jewelry, pawn it, and continue to take care of her daughter.
That would make her a horrible person for hoodwinking someone with noticeable disabilities.
@@4everThoughtful noticeable? yes... but is he aware he has responsibilities? Yes. Does he choose to not want to be responsible? Yes. Just like he knew he cheated. He’s aware of right and wrong. He knew how to withhold his infidelity until she said something about it, and had the nerve to laugh. He just didn’t want her to leave. He wanted his cake and to be able to eat it too. 🤷🏽♀️ so his disability clearly isn’t that debilitating. He’s a bad person for not wanting to provide for his child but provide his ex wife with gifts.
@@Reallychris_ I understand your point but she wouldn't even answer his calls or respond to his messages. Without a response, how could he make contact with his kid? It's possible that his SSI is barely enough to get by on, which is why she may qualify for public assistance if her income qualifies. One reason that SSI isn't garnishable is due to the person being disabled. Is this before/after the baby? I don't know. Maybe a jewelry store extended credit to him. Just my thoughts; not facts.
@@4everThoughtful you should look dude up. He’s in IT, he’s not as challenged as you think. He can afford to take care of his daughter. He also has a son.
@@4everThoughtful that would make her a mother taking care of her child. His "disability" seems limited to understanding child support.
Dang. Dude has a mental issue. And she's kind of slow. Someone pray for these guys and definitely the child
They are both slow
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A lot of stupid people make babies. Not news to me
Hopefully the child will miraculously get a proper education. When he grows up, perhaps he'll serve as his father's future payroll officer.
He *CANNOT* be firing on all cylinders.
WHAT ON GODS GREEN EARTH is wrong with this delusional man!? Where is his PRIORITIES? 10k on an ex that doesn't want you back but not on your DAUGHTER? Wow, what a dead beat!
@@selinesbeau The one thing he forgot was to bring the proof of what it cost. So yes, what you said what very accurate. I wonder if such a case proofs in court he ís able to pay childsupport.
Not to mention he’s on welfare spending supposedly 10k on jade jewelry 🙄
I couldnt'a said it better!!!!!!!
He's not delusional, he's "woke" lmfao
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If he paid $10,000 for that jewelry then I'm the queen of Neptune. 👑👸🏾
Omgness he's so confident on what he's saying, like I'm the crazy one...😂😂😂😂😂
Dead beat father....stop giving these little boys children ladies.
This comment!!! 💯
You right sis!
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He is worthless and embarrassing
It goes both ways
You cant garnish government assistance money. That's why she can't take him to court. Every paid lawyer and legal aid person told her that. He knows the loopholes.
@Rosa Keola not if it's SSI or disability
She CAN get beneficiary benefits for the child if it's SSDI but she CANNOT if it's SSI which is the sad part. I'm a SSDI recipient so my child receives money on behalf of my benefit until she turns 18. So glad I worked & accumulated social security!
Huh? This is absolutely wrong. She can go child support and ask for child support. She needs to let the court hear her claim. And yes individuals on social security do pay child support.
You are wrong because my child support comes from his garnished ss check. I was told this and stopped trying until I got the rite person to help me.
He must only be receiving SSI. That ain't shit like 800/month
"Cloudy?! I don't know how it could be any more crystal clear!"
🙄🤦🏾♀️What is he not getting??!! FOOL, TAKE CARE O’ YOUR CHILD! PERIODT 😂
Some people don't need to be out here in these streets without supervision. GOD Bless us all!!!🙏🏾✝️❤
Really, ppl are cracking jokes but it is sad! He obviously has special needs of some sort. The 80s weren't kind to ppl making babies while on drugs.
A jade pendant, a necklace, two earrings, and two rings = $10k? 😂😂😂 She got a couple hundred in pawn. He didn’t spend more than $500 for that mess.
Right! Which is why he conveniently didn't bring the receipt lol
@@TenieceCoulverson3686 Or it was stolen jewellery
@@TheStedomi that's true too lol🤣🤣
She better watch him. He’s giving if I can’t have you nobody will vibes
He could had bought her a house and she can still hate his guts. Guys like him don't get it at all.
A home may have actually gave her some idea that he had some motivation for responsibility...better than jewelry.
He's a foolish, cheating, excuse filled slum bro, just keep it 100. He's trying to talk in circles instead of just taking accountability for his ish. Sad bro smh
How come the one that cheats is always nasty and the one getting cheated on is a gem?
He needs his own tv show😂
Dude has a developmental issue. She had a baby with him and he can not take care of the child. I hope...the child has caring support in her life so she doesn't suffer their decisions.
Came here to say this
@Carolyn Van Hosen I think RazielBorn meant so that the child "doesn't suffer consequences made by their decisions." I didn't understand the statement to mean that the child "inherited" any challenges that may affect the parents.
@@4everThoughtful I was just about to comment the same thing then saw your comment. Luckily and hopefully i think certain mental illnesses are not inherited. Stay safe everyone.
She's a little slow too
@@4everThoughtful 👍🏽
"We're done!" The way Judge Milian walked off the podium said it all. The dude is delusional and he needs to take care of his baby
Honestly, I'm sorry, but his baby might be way better off without him🤦🏽♀️.
@ I think this is the real reason she don't want child support from him, as then he has the right to see his daughter, and he can harass her too
How has this episode not become a meme yet? Lmaooo
I cannot with this dude….. he talks like he convinces people on the REGULAR 😂😂😂
Good Going Gin..... I'm trying to wrap my mind around what I just listened to. All that rambling!
um? wtf is going on in this court room today? lmaooo
Lmfaooo
@@backshotbarbie2035 for real 😂 hellen Keller could speak better than him
Crack
I’m convinced that Mr. Deadbeat & Kanye West share the same mind 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yup..muddled and delusional😂😂
My thoughts exactly!
Yooooo🤣😂😩😭
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Don't you dare do Yezzy like that!!!😂😂😂
That man's head is truly tough.He's the type of man who makes you look back and say, " What the heck was I thinking!!??🤣" No one should have to force you to take care of your child, Sir.
The plane not landing and its a CLEAR DAY 😂
That little sign Douglas had before the case started we knew he was just over it 😂
I had to come back and read y’all’s comment again. I’m still rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
..He appears to have some metal instability issues, the case is over and I am still trying to understand his words and what he was trying to say....
Judge: do you pay child support?
Plaintiff: Well see the way my bank account is set up
KEVIN HART NGGA...BWAHAHAHA
The biggest laugh for me was Harvey's poor dye job
His closing argument in the hallway was priceless. 😂 Wait, does she have a diamond grill? This keeps getting better.
Dude is special. She knew that. Question is who the hell would cheat with him?!
The women seems off too I think they are both Developmently delayed
"They can't force me or make me pay child support" because he's on some type of government assistance making a under the threshhold amount but he should have to want to to pay child support on his own...
RIGHT. And he wonders why she doesn’t want to be with his pathetic ass 😂😂😂 nothing more unappealing than a deadbeat dad
@@JennifuhhGilardi
Exactly!!
Yep he isn’t working so they have nothing to garnish. He had money for 10k for jewelry. His case worker should be looking into that
You know when Judge Milian whacks her gavel on the desk without saying "good luck, folks" you really pissed her off!
Lol
My boy high. 😂😂Harvey said I don’t think you get it 😂😂😂
“I think this is a good example…..”
bro, what are you actually talking about ….. I’m so confused 🤣🤣
I have not 1 clue what this man is trying to say
Me either
@@klove7365 Neither does he.
@@andrewbillingsley9377 lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣and she was married to him. I couldn’t wake up next to a person and not have a descent conversation each day. Especially a disagreement. The frustration of trying to understand anything he said I would need a bottle of Ciroc afterwards. Be drunk every day to deal with that mess🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
that dude is as high as a kite lmao
He tweaking
Seems like he has a mental disability to me
He has a disability
"Wellll, both sides are losers...." 😂🤣
I think they both struggled with some form of disability.
I'm personal friends with her and she isnt disabled at all. He is definitely the crazy one lol, she simply did not want to be there and missed valuable time at work.
@@Nettaboo215 The judge told her she can sue him for support, this is not the same as putting him on child support. Please encourage her to sue him, that baby deserves it.
@@LadyWhiggy I'm still reeling from the fact that this idiot spent $10,000 on jade jewelry for his ex-wife that won't take him back but didn't take that same $10,000 and use it to take care of his daughter. I smell deadbeat from him.
@@johnathanpatrick6118 I agree wholeheartedly, it's so sad. I've never understood how someone has to be FORCED to care for the child they made. I'll never understand it.
@@johnathanpatrick6118 It wasn't 10k dollars. lol. More like $500 at the most.
“I don’t think you get it, I don’t think you get it” 😂😭
He is special..God Bless him..
9:27 “ I don’t think you get it I don’t think you get it “ 😂😂😂 I bet he heard that all his life
The lights on but no one's home!😂😂😂 and the light isn't brite at all😂😂😂
Judge Mathis:🧐are you on something sir? You gotta be😤coming in this courtroom talking stupid like that‼️You should be ashamed of yourself🗣🗣
The nerve to call The Judge By her first name🥶
EVERYONE behind the Plaintiff looks like a family of siblings!! ...or multiple sets of twins with the same DNA.....🤷🙊 ....😜😜😜💯💯
“I don’t think you get it , I don’t think you get it “ 🤣🤣 that’s exactly how I feel he a different type of slow. 🤦🏽♀️
I wish I knew her because ss told me the same thing!!! It took an experienced child support case worker not a lawyer to get me my money with back pay!!
"Don't call me Marilyn."😂🤣
If sis married him she needs more help than he does ...
I guess that’s why she not taking him back cause she figured out her mistake
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Lol...#FACTS
That’s what I’m saying…this whole man is a walking red flag. How she didn’t see this coming.
She knew he was special needs and still decided to get pregnant by him. He's the type of he's not with you he's not providing for his child.
I think she could possibly have special needs also. Doesn’t seem to be as severe as his though.
Don't blame your sister ladies, help her PERIOD.
Did I miss somewhere that he has special needs? And even if he does, special needs people are still PEOPLE
Hell, she is a little special herself.. Just not to his degree 🤔 🤦🏾♀️
Got the same with my ex.. You dont let me back i dont want to have anything to do with the kids.... Losers!!!
"Why is it my fault that she can't make me pay for child support?" Ok then...
Make it make sense! She’s being a full time mother. Girl, you go!!!
"How is it my fault that she can't make me pay child support?" 😅😅😅 Omg I'm dead.
And how could he afford $10,000 worth of jewelry if he living off the government
Something ain’t sitting right here 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I don’t think we should be making fun of him. He has a processing disorder, a learning disability. This is what’s so hard about both teaching and raising learning disabled kids: you know that, one day, people will see them as adults and expect them to function to the level of someone without a disability, and there won’t be much empathy because they don’t “wear” their disabilities, like people with physical challenges do. It’s honestly scary for parents of autistic children, esp those of us with black boys. My son wouldn’t follow directions if he were scared in a police situation; he’d start rocking, growling, and shouting some line in his head over and over again. I hope all this ABA therapy works, or I’ll have to shadow him forever, and as far as I know, I’m still ineligible for a “forever” life contract.
Thanks for sharing. I hear you and I agree with you about him.
I'm not making fun of him. I think that he should have had someone with him in order to present his case. He still would have lost but at least he would have been able to have the case presented in a coherent manner.
@@symphonynight6787 I am getting tired of all these excuses from people that don't take their responsibilities. , oh he has mental issues, he had a bad youth, he was abused as kid, he was drunk so didn't know what he did and so on.. He isn't disable to make babies, getting married and even cheat on his wife. But now that he has to take his responsibility and care for his daughter he is suddenly a poor dude in a learning process because of a disability.
long story short, this the type of “man” who describes women as “FEE-mehlz”
Yeah..i hate when ppl say that..and its really annoying when i hear other women say it...if u dont mind being labeled as an animal go ahead..but i prefer the term woman and women...females? Nah...😬
Dude at the end was like.. i dont think you get it 🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 I wanna watch it again because wait, what? But I can't do myself dirty like that.
The judge said “You have a thick head” 😆🤣🤣
That killed me
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He has a developmental issue. Im gonna leave it alone. .....
Me too. I was about to go in on him but you can tell he has issues.
Yea, I don't need bad juju
Oh my... this man is literally out of his mind! He’s a good example of what to run from! He didn’t spend 10k; hence no receipt! But if you’re truly done with a man, don’t accept gifts from him. Gives a reason to hang around, harass and sue over plum foolishness... 🤦🏾♀️
I forgot the receipt!
@@humaneleaguelancPA Maybe because it was stolen jewellery or bought for not even 1000 dollar in a pawnshop, when you claim 10k of course you "forgot" the receipt
🤭 This dude is on the Very Long river called D.E.N.I.A.L. 🤪
I think she was given mis-information. At one point I thought I heard San Francisco which is where I am from. Everyone is required to pay child support. If you don’t pay child support the court will attempt to garnish your wages and income. If you continue to fail to pay child support you will be held in contempt of court, your license will be taken away, and you can even face jail time. In California the court will not garnish SSI but it will garnish SSDI. No matter what, if somebody doesn’t pay, the amount that they owe accrues meaning the balance owed keeps growing. This does not happen until a child support case is filed. Child support is owed from the date of when the paperwork is submitted, not when an order is finally granted. This is why it is so important to file for child support even if you dont think you’ll get anything. For example, if somebody submits an application to receive child support May 1 and a judge finally issues a support order on September 1, the person filed against owes support from starting May 1 so there would be 4 months of arrears immediately due plus the monthly payments starting Sept 1. Some deadbeats don’t pay for decades but then eventually get their lives together and are surprised when they find out they owe $300,000 in child support. Lawyers will always advise you to file for support no matter what.
Clearly, he’s not well. He needs to find a therapist so he can MOVE on.
Deadbeat absent father yet says he spent $10,000 on jewelry i guarantee you he probably can't keep $10 in his wallet at any given time. There is nothing worse than a man that doesn't take care of his children and always has an excuse. I bet if his daughter grows up and does well he'll try like hell to be in her life just to mooch off her.
Yep!
How do I get the last 10 minutes of my life back? Someone let me know.
3:38 "Who's idea was it?" Plaintiff: "Mines"
My grandmother would say that the plaintiff is a "little bit touched" lol
The next time I get called to the carpet, I’m going to say, “I think this is a good example” and rest my case. 🤷🏾♀️