क्या खुद से शादी की जा सकती है? 😱 Kshama Bindu Sologamy - Explained!

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Komentáře • 368

  • @CDS_AFCAT_CAPF
    @CDS_AFCAT_CAPF  Před 2 lety +244

    The age of girls to get married is still 18 years. It has been proposed to make it 21 years but the proposal is still pending and no amendment has been made till now in the Hindu Marriage Act 1955 regarding it.

  • @shabahatperween4808
    @shabahatperween4808 Před 2 lety +53

    Shadi to thik h selflove dikhane k liye
    Lekin divorce 😂😂😂😂mtlb kuch bhi

  • @demira_sahil
    @demira_sahil Před 2 lety +25

    _Cris Galera Ne Toh Khud Ko Cheat Kar Diya_ 😂

  • @iamgt2392
    @iamgt2392 Před 2 lety +92

    I'm not against her decision as it is neither harming anyone nor violating any rights. She's an adult so she can do whatever she wants but she's just putting an act to get clout from the socials. She could have just kept her marriage secluded to her family members/relatives.

    • @ayushkumar-bs8ng
      @ayushkumar-bs8ng Před 2 lety +2

      aajkal sabko clout chahiye

    • @themesh5275
      @themesh5275 Před 2 lety +1

      Grow up

    • @Manish_introvert
      @Manish_introvert Před 2 lety +2

      @Kapil Rajput yes you are right.jin logo ne constitution nhi padha wo to yahi kahenge ki ye sab sahi hai.
      But apun kattar hindu hai hum iss marriage ko support nhi karenge

    • @mousumishit3896
      @mousumishit3896 Před rokem

      Ha yes you are right

    • @soniasadora2182
      @soniasadora2182 Před rokem

      This is not right you are asking that she can whatever she want for suppose she comit suicide here she doesn't harm any other is it right no

  • @iamyawar7287
    @iamyawar7287 Před 2 lety +93

    how to get famous without twerking on instagram 🤣

  • @Saurabh1903.
    @Saurabh1903. Před 2 lety +35

    we all should love ourself more than anyone ..... but this self marriage and all that is useless ideeas(my personal opinion)
    i respect her , as she is not harming anyone .. its her personal decision , but she is doing it in hindu marriage style that can hurt the sentiments of people i think there is where she is wrong.

  • @Madhu-qu3bz
    @Madhu-qu3bz Před 2 lety +29

    Sir please bring a DEDICATED batch for UPSC CSE 🙏🙏🙏
    Please Sir🙏🥺🥺🥺

  • @ashu2730
    @ashu2730 Před 2 lety +23

    it is just an act to get media attention 🤣😂🤣

  • @URmakerich
    @URmakerich Před 2 lety +25

    I found this thing first time in my life..

  • @swapnil467
    @swapnil467 Před 2 lety +16

    are hum kya mar gye hain jo..,akele akele shadi nhi karne denge😁😁

  • @rohitmondal552
    @rohitmondal552 Před 2 lety +72

    Now days gaining popularity or followers is inheriting in everyone's mind.Thats why delivering something unique inspired from westerns is now on trending list

  • @aashisingh4333
    @aashisingh4333 Před 2 lety +5

    I also wanted to do self marriage .😊

  • @aahanshaikh7277
    @aahanshaikh7277 Před 2 lety +32

    salute to your efforts sir ❤❤

  • @divyanshu565
    @divyanshu565 Před 2 lety +26

    I think may be she want to start tha culture of sologamy in India as in us .
    Because if u want to live alone or independent as per statement then there is no need of marriage .
    U can live without any restriction ( bharmacharyas ) . Court will not interfere .
    And by this Hindu marriage law will also not violated .

    • @Saurabh1903.
      @Saurabh1903. Před 2 lety +2

      do but in some diff style... first fight for your idea in court.
      because your are voileting hindu rituals of marriage.
      waise independently rehne k liye ... aise self marriage ki koi jaroorat nii h... use your brain not your emotions bro😂

    • @divyanshu565
      @divyanshu565 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Saurabh1903. i also said same thing .
      Translate in Google ☺️

    • @Jasmine-bp2yt
      @Jasmine-bp2yt Před 2 lety

      Being independent doesn't equal marrying yourself. Matlab kuch bhi.

  • @SSB_crack_it
    @SSB_crack_it Před 2 lety +45

    Interesting case 😂😂😂

  • @OmDeshmukh00
    @OmDeshmukh00 Před 2 lety +9

    She will in future:- I wanted to divorce my sologamy parter😂🤣.

  • @Grow20
    @Grow20 Před 2 lety +1

    Great work by u sir...

  • @additalks8720
    @additalks8720 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks for the information sir but it would be more appreciable as well as reliable if such topics are presented by taking some suggestions from the lawyers concerned to the issues

  • @rajneeshkumar3291
    @rajneeshkumar3291 Před 2 lety +4

    6:48 how many noticed he made the colour code of Indian tricolour pw always think so deeply ♥️♥️

  • @CADETHEMANT_
    @CADETHEMANT_ Před 2 lety +35

    In this case she is an adult and she has the right to take decisions in her favour. She is not harming others by doing so.. So we should not oppose her . 🌟

  • @shivadahiya1214
    @shivadahiya1214 Před 2 lety

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Sir plz screen brightness thodi aur kum rakha kijiye jisse screen panel pe newspaper cuttings aur bhi jyada clear dikh sake. Waise pehle se improvement hai dikhai dene mai.
    And sir explanation toh hamesha ki tarah accha hai hi 👍👍

  • @manuvlogs9364
    @manuvlogs9364 Před 2 lety +7

    5:45 apne aap se talak 🤔🧐🤨🧐😑 acha h bhai 😂😂

  • @viraldrako7229
    @viraldrako7229 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for video sir

  • @Abhithakur_1
    @Abhithakur_1 Před 2 lety +11

    Ashim sir Op❤️

  • @harshtiwari4890
    @harshtiwari4890 Před 2 lety

    Interesting

  • @human-zt6mn
    @human-zt6mn Před 2 lety +14

    I personally m a girl who don't want any babies or want to marry in future......but i have no intention of sologamy.....i feel like if u love urself ur the only one who should be aware of it and shouldn't care if the people around u know that or not.
    For me sologamy is kind of wasteful but i respect her choices, if she wants to then who cares.

    • @Nitishkumar-cw2fr
      @Nitishkumar-cw2fr Před 2 lety

      It's girl contribute to development and growth Indian economy Because sologamy is population control . (It's just joke - sologamy- paglo ki duniya me kmi nahi hai 😀😀😀)

  • @sourabhrawat9156
    @sourabhrawat9156 Před 2 lety +1

    Wah kya case h

  • @gauriprajapati5907
    @gauriprajapati5907 Před 2 lety +13

    This is totally worthless if someone wants to love herself of himself then there no need of sarogamy ..
    As every human loves oneself without making it hyped over society...

  • @viraldrako7229
    @viraldrako7229 Před 2 lety +22

    This is humble request to Alakh sir and p.w team please start CAT MBA exam course 🙏

  • @RAJASTHANGS
    @RAJASTHANGS Před 2 lety +3

    Strange for me , marriage with ourself, how. ????

  • @aashutoshsingh6763
    @aashutoshsingh6763 Před 2 lety

    yes

  • @law_hub.411
    @law_hub.411 Před 2 lety +21

    Sir these incidents raises disturbance in society and reduce the peace but our constitution give us "right to liberty" and "life" as per article 21 so these things are clashed among so i want to know how to minimise these effects 🤔🤔

  • @sarikasarika2639
    @sarikasarika2639 Před 2 lety +2

    Sahi h sir

  • @chandantandon2292
    @chandantandon2292 Před 2 lety +8

    Aisa case pahli baar sunne ko mila , sologamy😂

  • @priyankashah2738
    @priyankashah2738 Před 2 lety +13

    Ab iss kaa trend chalega 🤣🤣 self marriage Trend 😆😆

    • @neelhindustani7943
      @neelhindustani7943 Před 2 lety +2

      Sahi to hai

    • @yashraman1645
      @yashraman1645 Před 2 lety +3

      @@neelhindustani7943 ha wahi toh normal shadi se better hai yeh(just a personal opinion)

  • @AbhishekJaiswal-rc4pc
    @AbhishekJaiswal-rc4pc Před 2 lety

    Op explain Sir ji

  • @pratikbujade678
    @pratikbujade678 Před 2 lety +4

    Sir dedicated batch for cds pls as soon as possible. waiting for cds batch

  • @Anuj-yq3dc
    @Anuj-yq3dc Před 2 lety +4

    Sir mein bhi khud se sadi karunga aap aaoge na😂

  • @studyfar_1970
    @studyfar_1970 Před 2 lety +28

    She may or may not show off her love for herself. It's her choice. She should be allowed to do this marriage and should be allowed to divorce too is she wishes to. Just because it's not mentioned in the laws currently doesn't mean it's wrong or incorrect. Everyone's wishes and beliefs should be respected provided they don't harm anyone else.

    • @yashraman1645
      @yashraman1645 Před 2 lety

      Exactly

    • @prabhakartiwari9748
      @prabhakartiwari9748 Před 2 lety +3

      But such act violates the law and if everyone starts doing of their own wish and do not follow law then Indian judiciary is in danger

    • @Bharatwasi7
      @Bharatwasi7 Před 2 lety

      @@prabhakartiwari9748 If it doesn't harm someone.Then there should be no problem.

    • @radhakusum5723
      @radhakusum5723 Před 2 lety

      @@prabhakartiwari9748 judiciary ka toh pta ni...but population jrur prabhawit hoga😆😆

    • @prabhakartiwari9748
      @prabhakartiwari9748 Před 2 lety

      @@Bharatwasi7 of course it harms our culture and traditions and I think we should not change our traditions until what we r doing has some meaning

  • @suhani.ambardar
    @suhani.ambardar Před 2 lety +27

    I think the decision by Bindu is bit confusing and wrong. If someone loves himself/herself it doesn't mean to marry ourselves because in the long run we require a life partner . This self love is very much needed to be happy in life but after all we all are humans and we require physical and mental support of our life partner. Everyone gets into depression if we don't share our thoughts with anyone and in sologamy their is no support for ourself in older age .

    • @Manish_introvert
      @Manish_introvert Před 2 lety

      It is violating the hindu marriage act 1955.first read about hindu marriage act

  • @BinodKumar-je4bf
    @BinodKumar-je4bf Před 2 lety +13

    It is totally worthless if someone loves herself then no need to showoff because everyone loves herself.

  • @manuvlogs9364
    @manuvlogs9364 Před 2 lety +2

    ❤️❤️

  • @YadavAryan12
    @YadavAryan12 Před 2 lety +2

    Sir please..vedio about tour of duty..

  • @Himanshuyadav-ub6ek
    @Himanshuyadav-ub6ek Před 2 lety +6

    This for only popularity, every one love self and care self body 🤔

  • @shabahatperween4808
    @shabahatperween4808 Před 2 lety +7

    Main bhi yahi karungi

  • @virendra678
    @virendra678 Před 2 lety +40

    I personally belive that This is right , as the girl is above 18 yrs & can take her decisions what she wants to do , Her act is not harming anyone & I believe it should be completely legal for her to marry herself

  • @Bantonboys
    @Bantonboys Před 2 lety +1

    👍👍👍

  • @curiousSouL
    @curiousSouL Před 2 lety

    Please cover some geopolitics too...🙏🙏🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @faisalansari5224
    @faisalansari5224 Před 2 lety +2

    It is only concern with individual rights.....

  • @sasmitarout8361
    @sasmitarout8361 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh my god

  • @vidushiii12
    @vidushiii12 Před 2 lety +14

    Agr itna hi self-love h to shaadi mt kro...Koi compultion thodi n h..Ki tmko shaadi krni hi h...There are many people in india who didn't married till their last breath..Kamao khao aesh kro akele
    Sologamy...It doesn't make any sense acc to me!!

  • @alokrai1977
    @alokrai1977 Před 2 lety +7

    Sir she only waste supreme court time, if she wanted to lives alone then live . There is not need to
    sologamy ..

  • @siddhijaiswal9324
    @siddhijaiswal9324 Před 2 lety +8

    I do not properly support this sologamy concept agar self love ki baat hai h to uske liye shadi karna wo bhi khud se that's not a appropriate solution aap unmarried rahkar bhi self love show kar sakte what's this shit khud se shadi phir khud se hi divorce then again married with a man as we saw in the case Cris Galera

  • @vanshpratapsinghjadon2274

    Ye kaise possible hai

  • @NaveenKumar-vk5dq
    @NaveenKumar-vk5dq Před 2 lety +3

    According to present law...she is not eligible for sologamy.....may be ho sakta hii kshama Bindu... Ke faisle ki wajah se ...law ban jaye...

  • @SonaliSingh_2203
    @SonaliSingh_2203 Před 2 lety

    Sir, but ab to girls and boys ke shadi ke liye same age ho gya hai 21 years, in this video you said for girls it should be 18 years? ?

  • @aayandipsen.912
    @aayandipsen.912 Před 2 lety +1

    I think it is not necessary to show your self love to the whole world.......but it's okay

  • @heheboii1746
    @heheboii1746 Před 2 lety

    world is changing.........

  • @shamravkharat8936
    @shamravkharat8936 Před 2 lety +1

    All The things in Religion are sole purpose making there community different and trying to be one of the best.
    As Anyone follows/support any of the present day religions , he/she has to follow all the rules and regulations belonging to the religion by which you belongs . And should not to be tried to change his(region's) culture . All regulations should be regulated , and tried to "anyone should not break it."
    But , if anyone doesn't follow/belive in religion he should have to freedom to "First leave this particular religion" and behave /live with his wishes.
    He/she will be secular .
    And law have to particularly rules for it. As "This Person belongs to none of the present day religions and he is secular "
    That's my opinion ,"I don't know that is there any law's for being secular / doesn't belonging to any religion
    Or "not".

  • @itsahil97
    @itsahil97 Před 2 lety +5

    Sir app ek true Indian ho 😍

  • @shabeenaquraishi1858
    @shabeenaquraishi1858 Před 2 lety

    Sir plzzz ap law bhi padhaya kro

  • @priyankakadam4020
    @priyankakadam4020 Před 2 lety +2

    In maharashtra boys of 7 to 11 or 12 age of brahmin community also get married to themselves, in this all the rituals are the same as that followed in a marriage but, the bride is absent(it is called as "munj" in marathi brahmin community and it is done by every boy) After reaching the marriageable age they again get married with their partners

  • @facttackle4879
    @facttackle4879 Před 2 lety +5

    News mein Ane ke tareeke h bas

  • @deepanshubansal9553
    @deepanshubansal9553 Před 2 lety

    Sir Ek full Video Kanpur Hinsa pe bhi banaiye🙏

  • @ayushkumardash3050
    @ayushkumardash3050 Před 2 lety

    Sir background music plz

  • @Anuj-yq3dc
    @Anuj-yq3dc Před 2 lety +3

    Sir pehle sunna tha ladka ladka se sadi kar rha ha ladki ladki se abb kya sun lia khud se bhi ho rhi ha😂 mera bharat badal rha ha😂

  • @pravendrachauhan7821
    @pravendrachauhan7821 Před 2 lety +2

    This is right decision because every person give right to freedom that' why sologomy is alioed for the sam Bindu and tooling about the hindusm this wrong but according this article freedom of individual this right division

  • @surabhiadvika827
    @surabhiadvika827 Před 2 lety +2

    Sir .. my opinion on this matter is ..
    If we love ourself then Here no need to show .. it's like superfluous .. which no use in sentences ..

    • @eren_kun
      @eren_kun Před 2 lety +1

      Opinion ki spelling dhang se daal le 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @surabhiadvika827
      @surabhiadvika827 Před 2 lety +1

      @@eren_kun thanks to recorrect .. *opinion .. is it ok ?

    • @eren_kun
      @eren_kun Před 2 lety +1

      @@surabhiadvika827 np

    • @eren_kun
      @eren_kun Před 2 lety

      @@surabhiadvika827 edit it in comment😁

  • @anishapatel258
    @anishapatel258 Před 2 lety +1

    Kya kya ho rha. hai

  • @kira_bl8qy
    @kira_bl8qy Před 2 lety +2

    Mai. Bhi yhi krunga 😁🙈

  • @anurxxxxg
    @anurxxxxg Před 2 lety +5

    Well shadi na krna bhi is kinda sologamy 🥴

  • @ratnadipchatterjee4963
    @ratnadipchatterjee4963 Před 2 lety +1

    Very nice video sir 🤣

  • @allenbackbenchers4206
    @allenbackbenchers4206 Před 2 lety +1

    Gujrat mein aisa huaa i think kuch din phle 😙😙

  • @utkarshtiwari5864
    @utkarshtiwari5864 Před 2 lety

    sir my opinion is that if a person wants to do sologamy he or she can do it because this country gives every person rights,secondly no one should offend on this issue as she is an individual and whatever she wants to do with her life she can take decision her own decision

  • @sagarsrivastava7538
    @sagarsrivastava7538 Před 2 lety +5

    Sir It is wrong because it will affect our society in future.

    • @yashraman1645
      @yashraman1645 Před 2 lety +1

      And can you explain how it will affect the society?

    • @sagarsrivastava7538
      @sagarsrivastava7538 Před 2 lety

      @@yashraman1645 yes I can explain you

    • @sagarsrivastava7538
      @sagarsrivastava7538 Před 2 lety

      If this happens, then there will be no value of marriage in future.

    • @sagarsrivastava7538
      @sagarsrivastava7538 Před 2 lety

      If this happens, then there will be no value of marriage in future.

    • @sagarsrivastava7538
      @sagarsrivastava7538 Před 2 lety

      @@yashraman1645 May be in future many people do it. if it becomes legal but today jase shaadi hone par do pariwaar bhi eksaath hote hainbecome and it is a pious relationship. Now what is in this that you should marry yourself first, then if you do not feel right, then you divorce, do you think that this pious relationship will be insulted

  • @amplifyyourself7237
    @amplifyyourself7237 Před 2 lety +1

    Ose toh pehle koi samjai ki SHADI ke mtlb kya hota hai
    Or second thing One takes care of himself or herself
    There's nothing to show off

  • @Kiransingh-gv7zi
    @Kiransingh-gv7zi Před 2 lety +1

    humari ladkiyaan kafi modern ho gayi hain not only the Gujrat girl but even many girls in the comment section

  • @itsahil97
    @itsahil97 Před 2 lety +2

    Bilkul sahi jiski marsi wo kar sakta Tai 🙏🙏

  • @yogeshchauhan9401
    @yogeshchauhan9401 Před 2 lety +2

    Ab bas yahi dekhna baaki tha 😅🥲

  • @rohitmeena2845
    @rohitmeena2845 Před 2 lety +3

    Maine ek bar you tube pr dekh news thi ki ek ladki ko uske pet dog se love ho gya vo usi ke sath relationship me h or dog se shadi karna chati h to kya court human or animals ki marriage ko accept krta h

    • @amishapw2641
      @amishapw2641 Před 2 lety

      My bf also love his pet dog and he is saying that if he love his Coco so much if he dies he will not talk to me or any body 😭

  • @anujbillore3740
    @anujbillore3740 Před 2 lety +2

    I respect her decision .
    But Still as a Hindu , I believe that Marriage is not just a function. The partner you choose becomes your partner for Life and supports you.
    It maybe a bit Harsh but its True that No-one is gonna last forever for anyone except a Life Partner . Even the Parents have to go once the time comes.
    [PS - This comment is not influenced by any Bollywood or Instagram influencer whose own relationships are broken after 20 years of marriage. Filthy Money Standard marriages . A middle class couplr is a True representation of a couple . It's my own vision when I see mamma papa and my Other relatives]

    • @Manish_introvert
      @Manish_introvert Před 2 lety

      It is violating the hindu marriage act 1955.first read about hindu marriage act.

  • @SonaliSingh_2203
    @SonaliSingh_2203 Před 2 lety

    Sir please tell me is there any change regarding girl's marriage age right now? ?

  • @soumya7213
    @soumya7213 Před 2 lety +1

    In which country pologamy is legal??😅😅

  • @shabeenaquraishi1858
    @shabeenaquraishi1858 Před 2 lety

    Sir ap up pcsj ke liye g's padhaiye plzzzzz

  • @vivekkumarsingh3635
    @vivekkumarsingh3635 Před 2 lety +1

    Polygamy,sologamy ,autonomy is like biology terms

  • @physicswalla5131
    @physicswalla5131 Před 2 lety +3

    Best for salman khan 🤣

  • @user-rr4cm3cm1p
    @user-rr4cm3cm1p Před 2 lety +1

    inspired by katrina kaf song
    mujhe kisi ki kya jarurat mai to khud se pyar jatau my name is shila sila ki jawani 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sampadacharthankar931
    @sampadacharthankar931 Před 2 lety +7

    I think she is right , sologamy is not a wrong concept it is new change to improve our so called thoughts. From my opinion sologamy is necessary for our country and I hope sologamy helps to improve any new change in hindu marriage concepts.....

    • @rahuljangid6888
      @rahuljangid6888 Před 2 lety +1

      To honey moon or baby google se honge

    • @smaritachoudhury3040
      @smaritachoudhury3040 Před 2 lety +2

      @@rahuljangid6888 honeymoon can be done alone and all married couples don't have babies 😑

  • @sauravkumarjha9143
    @sauravkumarjha9143 Před 2 lety

    Sir .. please read my comments..start a class of mathematics from basics to advance for all government exams!!!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Cuj-em4qc
    @Cuj-em4qc Před 2 lety +2

    Calo examiner ko topic mil Gaye questions dene ke liye

  • @praveenroy1384
    @praveenroy1384 Před rokem

    Sama Bindu op 🤣

  • @sagarmaiti7469
    @sagarmaiti7469 Před 2 lety

    It's like reaction of a single compound in vacum

  • @ramprawesh7423
    @ramprawesh7423 Před 2 lety

    Sir , what does she get by solo marriage?

  • @dolamanirana44
    @dolamanirana44 Před 2 lety

    Self cross hai kya

  • @Neetcompanion
    @Neetcompanion Před 2 lety +6

    Imagine her getting actually married to a boy after few years 😂🤣

  • @jssi5469
    @jssi5469 Před 2 lety +6

    As I know this is first case which happens in India...i may be possible to love your self but khud divorce lena ..iska koi mtlb nhi banta....as we all know according to our constitution people have so many rights but iska mtlb ye nhi ki kuchh bhi kar le....pahle ye dicision lekar fame me aa jaaye aur uske baad fir divorce le Lena.....this is not right 💢💢 it's not only about violation.....

  • @marsh-u9o
    @marsh-u9o Před 2 lety +2

    When Self-Love made you Self-Obsessed 🙄 🥴
    Sologamy = symbol for PDA on self
    👁️👄👁️

  • @priyankarajput3047
    @priyankarajput3047 Před 2 lety +1

    7:58 I think sir girls k liye bhi marriage age 21 ho gyi h INDIA mei.?

  • @vibhanshu955
    @vibhanshu955 Před rokem +1

    Why there is hindu or muslim marriage act instead of Indian marriage act.

  • @adityasingh2458
    @adityasingh2458 Před 2 lety +1

    Duniya me kon apne aap se pyaar nhi karta