She’s Going to College in Korea !?! Vlogmas Day 2

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  • @MAZELEE
    @MAZELEE  Před 2 lety +1638

    I saw some comments that misinterpreted the conversation we were having when Amyah said “I’m not dumb”.
    Apologies if this conversation was hard to follow. It may have difficult to hear everything that was going on but if you interpreted her comment as implying HBCUs are for “less educated people” that’s absolutely not what my daughter was talking about when she said “I’m not dumb.” We were actually having a conversation about acronyms.
    Her: Can we tour a HKU?
    Us: What's a HKU? (Confused)
    Her: Hong Kong University
    Us: Oh I thought you meant HBCU
    Her: No, no, I'm not like dumb
    She was referring to knowing the correct acronym. When she said “I’m not dumb “ she was saying she knows the difference between a HBCU and HKU.
    Right after that she then went on to say how she is planning to apply to several HBCU and any other colleges she can apply for.
    I myself attended an HBCU and my daughter has never thought anything but highly of HBCUs because that’s what I taught her. She practically grew up on an HBCU campus since I had her when I was 19 a sophomore at Bowie State where she attended many math classes with me! I’ve always had pride in my HBCU, and pour that into my girls. I’ve taken them many times back to my HBCU to catch homecoming games and love watch old and new school HBCU Cheerleading.

    • @lul3jon
      @lul3jon Před 2 lety +313

      This is exactly how I understood what she said. Anyone understanding this differently is plainly in a different head space.

    • @divajenify
      @divajenify Před 2 lety +39

      @@lul3jon Mr or Ms I am not in a different headspace. I am glad the mother explained the comment. I am an educator who did become an administrator ! My head is really ok.

    • @divajenify
      @divajenify Před 2 lety +49

      Thanks for your explanation. No more needs to be said.

    • @tonibutts9574
      @tonibutts9574 Před 2 lety +40

      I am so proud of you and your beautiful family. The conversation you are having with your college bound children is right on. I am a mother of six and I had a similar conversation with them all. I am the proud mother of all six with a college education.

    • @annie6891
      @annie6891 Před 2 lety +125

      Ppl are slow if they couldn't follow that very simple dialogue 😂.

  • @jenniferward5216
    @jenniferward5216 Před 2 lety +2095

    Amyah is like her mom she's so smart and very serious about her education.

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 Před 2 lety +59

      Yeah she's her Mom,s little twin indeed Jen

    • @jessicalowkey2620
      @jessicalowkey2620 Před 2 lety +13

      I rather get a grant and start my own business instead of wasting time goin to school. You can get 💰 faster and be there for your family.

    • @jessicalowkey2620
      @jessicalowkey2620 Před 2 lety +9

      I would stay close to family its to much going on in this world

    • @WhenYOUhearmyname
      @WhenYOUhearmyname Před 2 lety

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    • @jewellsuber843
      @jewellsuber843 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes INDEEDY!!!!👏🏽❤

  • @permentleechang4884
    @permentleechang4884 Před 2 lety +947

    This is such a very smart black woman you saved for her children college girls you better buckled up she expect for you all to achieve. I love the way she sit her children down and discussed the facts of life with them. How many of us do this? Lady I respect you so much" thumbs up to you .

  • @sedwards6337
    @sedwards6337 Před 2 lety +1105

    All the fathers should be sooo thankful that this is the mother of their children.... Literally, how many parents not only indulge in providing information or highlights on these things (most parents have outdated info, if they even discuss college to this degree with their kids) - on top of that, she is offering real-world views into how they should expect to live and costs they need to prep for. Awesome.

  • @katrinamabry4599
    @katrinamabry4599 Před 2 lety +317

    I wish I had this growing up…trying to navigate life without having had this kind of guidance is such a set back. Your children are blessed to have this.

  • @karyssecd1393
    @karyssecd1393 Před 2 lety +4031

    These college chats are so inspiring. Can’t believe you saved up for your kids college, that’s parenting goals! 😍

    • @jacquelynemyles4729
      @jacquelynemyles4729 Před 2 lety +14

      Physical Education

    • @priscillaferguson267
      @priscillaferguson267 Před 2 lety +244

      That’s exactly what I did! Not only for her college costs but also for her wedding one day, which took place 7 years later. After Twenty-six years Plus 3 kids they are still together living their best lives.

    • @londonn9674
      @londonn9674 Před 2 lety +36

      Omg wow she going to college already how old is she there getting so big

    • @Kollextionm
      @Kollextionm Před 2 lety +16

      Love how involved they are 💕💕💕

    • @sylviajenkins4784
      @sylviajenkins4784 Před 2 lety +12

      What is the last baby name?

  • @Ghost-un6oe
    @Ghost-un6oe Před 2 lety +2092

    I will always appreciate how close these kids are to their parents no matter if they are the baby (who really needs a name by now) or the eldest teen who is almost an adult. Alena and Joe struck the right balance of being parents AND being friends with their kids where their kids love and respect them as parents and can still talk to them about anything.

    • @cathygordon4317
      @cathygordon4317 Před 2 lety +139

      Yeah! GIVE BABY A NAME! GIVE BABY A NAME! GIVE BABY A NAME! Beautiful family by the way.

    • @chiaraippoliti
      @chiaraippoliti Před 2 lety +118

      I wouldn't say NEEDS a name. She is healthy and happy and well-functioning, so she doesn't need one right now. You're just accustomed to societal name practices.

    • @rosariosantos1359
      @rosariosantos1359 Před 2 lety +7

      Mi gusta que hablem castellano un abrazo cordial para la familia manzella

    • @Ghost-un6oe
      @Ghost-un6oe Před 2 lety +173

      @@chiaraippoliti societal what? All her other siblings have names, the child can speak in full sentences, she can walk, she can cook her own meals apparently, soon she'll be going to school and you want her teacher to call her baby in front of her peers? It's beyond time she got a proper name. Is this the longest Alena has taken to give a child a name? I know she still wants another baby, but keeping this child in a baby state is not going to satisfy that desire.

    • @Oxygenbae
      @Oxygenbae Před 2 lety +48

      Because the parents are home with them. We don’t realize how much bonding and nurturing we lose by atleast one parent being home. Mothers especially need to be home. We don’t think we are missing out by working but trust me you are.

  • @elonawilliams4809
    @elonawilliams4809 Před rokem +48

    I love the father's attitude! "YOU GOT MY PERMISSION..PAY FOR IT!" Good reverse psychology dad! Love to see a protective father like him 🙏❤️

  • @kukinoris8941
    @kukinoris8941 Před 2 lety +606

    I love how close they are and how they communicate as a family. They joke but know when to be serious. This is one of the most stable families on this platform I have seen too be honest. And the advice given in this video really reassured me with my goals.

    • @lyricssong7151
      @lyricssong7151 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes I love them. Goals. I’ve learned so much from how she educate them, to how she budget love it

    • @Kingtiger98
      @Kingtiger98 Před 2 lety

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  • @gillesquentin5079
    @gillesquentin5079 Před 2 lety +616

    Your children will SOAR and conquer this world because you’re instilling such confidence, worldliness, and love into all of these beautiful munchkins!!!

  • @threepiggies7351
    @threepiggies7351 Před 2 lety +992

    Amyah’s Korean pronunciation is perfect! She is very talented in language in my opinion.

    • @WhenYOUhearmyname
      @WhenYOUhearmyname Před 2 lety +1

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    • @michelecarter3403
      @michelecarter3403 Před 2 lety +40

      I absolutely love to hear Amyah's Korean dialect... she's good!

    • @Toywins
      @Toywins Před 2 lety +20

      Starting young does wonders for the mind. Give your kids mental stimulation and not just a screen, it hits different.

  • @ThePerryBunch
    @ThePerryBunch Před rokem +93

    This woman MUST be PROTECTED at all costs.I've never truly seen what real beauty is and she most definitely is the definition for it. I've never been so drew into someone else's life like I have with these guys. This woman deserves the world and then some.

  • @remizart
    @remizart Před 2 lety +980

    Your children will SOAR and conquer this world because you’re instilling such confidence, worldliness, and love into all of these beautiful munchkins!!! 💜

    • @Simplythetruthfulone
      @Simplythetruthfulone Před 2 lety +5

      I wholeheartedly agree! Im waiting on them to drop the book!😍

    • @Kingtiger98
      @Kingtiger98 Před 2 lety

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  • @troiyag
    @troiyag Před 2 lety +972

    I wish someone was there to talk to me about stuff like this before I went to university...I literally had to figure it out by myself, that was hard. I love what you guys are doing, keep educating your children...

    • @doreensmith3423
      @doreensmith3423 Před 2 lety +3

      That's the same ways I've teaches my beautiful beloved niece them too 😇❤️💯☺️❤️

    • @adesinasusan20
      @adesinasusan20 Před 2 lety +20

      My dear, those parent are planning for there own future, when you plan with your children you plan for your own future, but some parents are not like that, it happened to me too, I did everything on my own even to my university level

    • @darkmamagoddess8409
      @darkmamagoddess8409 Před 2 lety +23

      My mom was a poor single struggling mom. She only had energy to look for the next job. She was clueless when it came to talking to us about college.

    • @mariamnakalema2492
      @mariamnakalema2492 Před 2 lety

      Atte bivar muno nyakyeno bbanaye

    • @mars2101
      @mars2101 Před 2 lety

      Frrr

  • @AmericanoIndiano
    @AmericanoIndiano Před 2 lety +223

    Both girls I can 100% see them getting Academic Scholarships. Also I could see them doing really well splitting rent in a cute little apartment in their junior and senior years of college.

  • @miyoshimccree8309
    @miyoshimccree8309 Před 2 lety +103

    When Joe said, "but if you care about it, I'll make myself care about it," melted my heart!!

  • @IHYC678
    @IHYC678 Před 2 lety +608

    Thinking about all the times people would shame you for deciding to have as many children as you have yet here you are able to more than provide! Paying for college and everything! God is faithful!!! So proud of your family.

    • @lyricssong7151
      @lyricssong7151 Před 2 lety +20

      I think it’s beautiful to have a big family especially if you can afford and mentally handle it but it’s selfish if otherwise

    • @leelashan8866
      @leelashan8866 Před 2 lety +14

      What is there to be shame about. I salute to her...you are an amazing lady Maze ❤

    • @smallemar
      @smallemar Před 2 lety +4

      Never heard of anybody shaming her because of her kids

    • @Fayleafowl
      @Fayleafowl Před 2 lety +18

      @@smallemar there were a few people that did like what's it to them.

    • @sammuelsammuel123
      @sammuelsammuel123 Před 2 lety +4

      This is a backhanded compliment, just commend her for the good she's doing.

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 Před 2 lety +630

    Everyone in this family has a place and when they speak they are heard…loved it when Amayah made Baby her favourite porridge 😂👌🏽 so cute💕 the love spills over!

    • @Octayvia21
      @Octayvia21 Před 2 lety +14

      I know right🥰, a the sibling love is adorable.

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      @Kingtiger98 Před 2 lety

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  • @ToLovelyJesus
    @ToLovelyJesus Před 2 lety +91

    I LOVE that you are giving your children options for their post-secondary education! You educated them about getting a job, or starting a business, going to college internationally, starting at a community college and then transferring… man, I WISH I’d known all of those things at their age! Good job parents! 👏🏾

  • @tenssieramsay4955
    @tenssieramsay4955 Před 2 lety +402

    I’m so impressed by your wisdom and guidance towards your children’s future! 👏🏾

  • @alyssaquiogue5467
    @alyssaquiogue5467 Před 2 lety +881

    If Amyah is interested in hard sciences I’d love to give more information from my experience in terms of specific neurobiology or biology programs that shine in giving research opportunities to undergraduates. I’m currently a PhD student in Molecular Biology that works with undergraduates interested in science and helping develop 4 year plans and figuring out what specific science topics they are interested in. In addition, thinking about different pathways after getting a science degree. I was at one point a med school applicant but shifted to research so I have that experience in that as well. Lastly, I wholeheartedly agree with you in going to community college first! College is so expensive. I actually started doing community college during high school over the summer (in california it costs even less for students ages

    • @rihannasahib06
      @rihannasahib06 Před 2 lety +2

      Hi! What topics consist of 'hard sciences'? Is psychology considered a hard science?

    • @alyssaquiogue5467
      @alyssaquiogue5467 Před 2 lety +29

      @@rihannasahib06 I’m unsure what psychology is labeled as. From what I’ve experienced, I have heard the term hard science refer to math, physics, chem, and bio. Although if she is interested in neurobio that can be explored in either taking biology, neurobio (if major is available), or biopsychology. Hard science is probably considered an outdated term. I guess what I mean is STEM which encompasses all sciences (that includes all branches of psychology).

    • @Ohdeyummm
      @Ohdeyummm Před 2 lety +5

      Following on this!!! Currently in a similar boat and would love advice

    • @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206
      @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206 Před 2 lety +11

      Come Here to Germany for College, and pay 1/3 of what IT Would Cost in the USA.🌟

    • @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206
      @philesiaj.wilcox-bartsch6206 Před 2 lety +4

      Azyo will be even More beautiful after the braces come Off!!😂

  • @hamburger-fries
    @hamburger-fries Před 2 lety +819

    In California, the ***BEST*** way is to go to a Junior College then transfer to ANY, UC. This will save 40% on tuition fees, and you can live at home.

    • @MaiNguyen-co4jh
      @MaiNguyen-co4jh Před 2 lety +47

      100% agree. The first 2 years are free at a community/junior college (as long as you take at least 12 units) and transferring with good grades gives you a higher chance of getting accepted at a higher university. Not to mention if you know you're going to start a CC then you don't need to take the ACT or SAT. Not to mention that community colleges are less impacted and you have a much higher chance of getting the classes you want compared to a state or UC school so you can get the classes you want and graduate faster.

    • @maybewise
      @maybewise Před 2 lety +26

      Same in Houston. I wish commuter college did 4 year degrees, and wasn't regarded as "less than a real college". It's great because it's also easier to balance school and work.

    • @anonkneemous
      @anonkneemous Před 2 lety +12

      i agree. I'm a junior at University and i think this should have been my first step.

    • @elizabethmartell5835
      @elizabethmartell5835 Před 2 lety +7

      @@rihannasahib06 basically in the states they are the same but Junior college referees to private two-year schools where community college referees to public two-year schools.

    • @higherliving
      @higherliving Před 2 lety

      Totally Agree 😊

  • @carlottaskerin2418
    @carlottaskerin2418 Před 2 lety +256

    Your conversations actually help me a lot, since my parents never talk to me about college cause they think I'm independent enough to look for information and literally ALL of it by myself... Also, as a 17-year-old myself, I can definitely say that your kids are SO lucky that you have saved money for their college tuition, and I love how appreciative they are of it. Most of us are gonna be paying the loans till we're 50.

    • @michellecreese700
      @michellecreese700 Před 2 lety +14

      My daughter went to Yonsei university in Korea. She loved it. People keep asking how she got in (we're black). They were thankful that she didn't represent what they saw on TV. (They see the worst of black portrayal on TV). Your daughter will love Yonsei. and Korea

    • @catrocks93
      @catrocks93 Před 2 lety +7

      yesss i literally had to figure out my whole life on my own with no help and i’m barely managing to do that they are lucky to have a mother like this

  • @mbadger9084
    @mbadger9084 Před 2 lety +290

    Im so excited for them. I can't believe I'm sitting here enjoying them talking about college. I can't wait to see the women that they become and their contributions to the world.

    • @WhenYOUhearmyname
      @WhenYOUhearmyname Před 2 lety +1

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    • @judelenepierre7041
      @judelenepierre7041 Před rokem +1

      can you explain to me please is all the children for her husband because i did not understand anything about the family please

  • @thechatpion9040
    @thechatpion9040 Před 2 lety +232

    Her husband is the best father to his kids and the best husband. He is always home with his kids and wife. God will bless him with lots of goodluck.👍

    • @pn3678
      @pn3678 Před 2 lety +16

      Luck doesn’t exist with God 🙏🏾

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 Před 2 lety

      Amen!

    • @stephanielomax7240
      @stephanielomax7240 Před 2 lety +8

      God gives us favor not luck

    • @thechatpion9040
      @thechatpion9040 Před 2 lety +1

      @@stephanielomax7240 so how do u get goodluck if God dont give it to us. Where does the Luck comes from if we not gettin it from God?

    • @stephanielomax7240
      @stephanielomax7240 Před 2 lety +6

      @@thechatpion9040 You don't need luck with God. Luck isn't diffinent. God blesses us at his will. This is a Christian family as you know if you follow them. They have worked hard for what they have and God has blessed their marriage and their family.

  • @buttercupki
    @buttercupki Před 2 lety +235

    I think this was one of my favorite videos. I love how the girls are eager and ready for this next chapter in life. I remember applying to colleges and it was hard because I'm first Gen. My parents didn't understand why they required so much of their information if they're not going to school nor paying my tuition. Paying for school on your own is difficult and it's great to hear that Alena planned for these moments.

    • @marlak4203
      @marlak4203 Před 2 lety +3

      i'm not surprised the oldest ones want to move. Not at all. And this one is moving FAAAAARRR. Lol.

  • @anthonylim2428
    @anthonylim2428 Před 2 lety +180

    If she can speak fluent Korean, that will change her life no matter where she goes. She'll have so much fun and make lots and lots of friends with full of amazing memories.

  • @brandonk99ign
    @brandonk99ign Před 2 lety +172

    Amaya's Korean is SO good. The pronunciation is very good and her knowledge is amazing

  • @hayimas
    @hayimas Před 2 lety +406

    this is a lot for me too take in, I’ve literally watched them grow up. 😭

    • @ebonyduffy7278
      @ebonyduffy7278 Před 2 lety +13

      Ah right!??

    • @breemack7503
      @breemack7503 Před 2 lety +12

      Yesss..I remember the christmas video when Azaio was a baby

    • @barbieluxxury9547
      @barbieluxxury9547 Před 2 lety +4

      Feel like these are my kids too since I've seen them grow up. I feel like I have a say to what college they go too 😆

    • @anjee.3261
      @anjee.3261 Před 2 lety +2

      Same here! 😭

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 Před 2 lety

      I know eh. Le sighs

  • @sharonbrown7806
    @sharonbrown7806 Před 2 lety +341

    I love and respect the MAZELEE family!!! Parents that actually PARENT CHILDREN and children that are so well rounded and appreciative!! Love when Joe steps into his role and lays down the law!!!! Yesssss let those babes know Dad has your back BUT!!!!!!! Nice voice Alena!!! Love y’all from Philly 🙏🏽💟☮️😊☀️🙏🏽

    • @breemack7503
      @breemack7503 Před 2 lety +35

      Yes he disciplines without anger but with firmness. They may not see this side of him alot but when they do they know he's not joking or playing around.

  • @Oshanamiisicooks
    @Oshanamiisicooks Před 2 lety +26

    She is a great mother who needs to be celebrated..

  • @fatima8645
    @fatima8645 Před rokem +27

    This is the type of wife and mother I aim to be. You are actually training people out here as well.

  • @LeslieNoHeels
    @LeslieNoHeels Před 2 lety +632

    Joe’s approach about party colleges was the best 😂😂😂 “You can go, you’re just going to pay for it.”

  • @shewrt1143
    @shewrt1143 Před 2 lety +169

    Wow these are solid conversations most kids never have with their parents....Community College is usually a good place to start....

    • @AshChildOfGod
      @AshChildOfGod Před 2 lety +4

      Definitely. Cheaper to do the basic classes that freshman year requires then go to University

    • @Kingtiger98
      @Kingtiger98 Před 2 lety

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    • @breonawarren1507
      @breonawarren1507 Před 2 lety

      Depends. Make sure your credits will transfer, and you aren’t getting an undergrad degree from one. So if they don’t accept credits you’d have wasted money on CC just to still pay for 4 years of Uni

  • @candesmith9310
    @candesmith9310 Před 2 lety +46

    Dr. Maze-Lee you and Joe are are raising world/ game changers 🥰

  • @softshell812
    @softshell812 Před 2 lety +37

    I can't even put into words how soothing these vlogs are for me... I don't have much family and live 3,000 miles away from the family I do have. I crave a big, healthy, happy family like yalls.

  • @tifftafftoffee3495
    @tifftafftoffee3495 Před 2 lety +55

    I also love how you never confine them to career options, like how you talked about starting a business, different tracks to college, etc. This is so amazing

  • @MissBrittneyofCourse
    @MissBrittneyofCourse Před 2 lety +175

    Joe's resting dad stance is hilarious to me.

  • @hericacarvalho9718
    @hericacarvalho9718 Před 2 lety +188

    These are parent goals right here, these talks are so inspiring! what a Family! Love you excellent job

  • @pewpew7902
    @pewpew7902 Před 2 lety +29

    Overachieving high school kids are usually dead set on going directly to university because that's what teachers push on you, it's a status symbol, and it feels like a waste of so much hard work if you end up going to a CC first. I went to UCI straight out of high school, but if I could go back and do it again, I absolutely would've gone to a CC first to avoid crippling student loan debt. Everything you're teaching your children is spot on - the first two years of university do not matter. Really, the third and fourth don't either since college is a total scam. At the end of the day, a bachelor's degree is just a super expensive piece of paper that checks a box for an employer or is a prerequisite to continued education. This is how our system works though so I commend you for having these important talks with your kids and sharing such sound advice here on YT.

  • @roserussellperry1719
    @roserussellperry1719 Před 2 lety +113

    I love how close all the children are regardless of age. They are very close to their parents which is nice to see. Mutual respect.❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @supernova7848
    @supernova7848 Před 2 lety +284

    Akyli + Amaya + Alena = triplets !
    I love how Joe said : You have my permission to go to a Party college, just pay for it yourself 😂😂😂

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 Před 2 lety +2

      He laid the lay down. I love the bond he has with the kids.

    • @stephanielomax7240
      @stephanielomax7240 Před 2 lety +9

      JOE TELLS IT LIKE IT IS!!!😊

    • @gcatalina800
      @gcatalina800 Před 2 lety +1

      LMAO! And he really meant it. I absolutely love him!

    • @jewellsuber843
      @jewellsuber843 Před 2 lety +2

      The child said Party CollegeS!!! 😁😁 oh, she's gonna get her education, but she's gonna get her party on!!! Trust me!🙏🏽👏🏽❤

  • @RaeginNP
    @RaeginNP Před 2 lety +172

    I love this conversation. I’m 21 and finishing my masters degree. I am 100% debt fee from scholarship and working to pay the rest. Important conversations that not enough people have. I hope you post more to your personal channel Elena! Much love 💕

    • @carlasvariety
      @carlasvariety Před 2 lety +7

      I wish you the best with school endeavors. I’m in grad school too, debt free and I like to keep it that way.

    • @vibesvibes1556
      @vibesvibes1556 Před rokem

      Wow...I wish this for my daughter and she is the just 7 months old yesterday..

  • @janedougherty3187
    @janedougherty3187 Před 2 lety +47

    This was the best video I ever saw. I can see such a growth in Joe and Alena. Congratulations to these wonderful parents who struggled hard to build a strong foundation. You have beautiful children and you are awesome parents. God bless you all ❤

  • @tifftafftoffee3495
    @tifftafftoffee3495 Před 2 lety +90

    Wow I genuinely loved this conversation. These kids are so lucky, these are conversations I wish I could have with my parents before I went off to college!

  • @BlackCheriez
    @BlackCheriez Před 2 lety +226

    I appreciate a black woman who embraces and encourages their kids…. Yea you!

    • @janedoe5180
      @janedoe5180 Před 2 lety +11

      Like we don’t do that smh

    • @Sparkle-ey7iw
      @Sparkle-ey7iw Před 2 lety +7

      Huh?? This is normal for black women!!

    • @atevhe4333
      @atevhe4333 Před 2 lety +1

      I am Philippines but i really like her she's pretty buy the way

  • @itskimik
    @itskimik Před 2 lety +28

    Coming from germany, this really makes me appreciate that I have never once had to worry about college fees.

  • @tls4022
    @tls4022 Před 2 lety +279

    As a lawyer I hope one of the kids pursues law. They’re all so smart they can definitely do it 💗

    • @tls4022
      @tls4022 Před 2 lety +10

      @@DaBeezKneez And what’s your profession?

    • @TheWoodland12
      @TheWoodland12 Před 2 lety +5

      I can see azaio being a lawyer. I think she is 12 now so time for her to start thinking.

    • @tls4022
      @tls4022 Před 2 lety +1

      @@DaBeezKneez you sound miserable lmao

    • @tls4022
      @tls4022 Před 2 lety

      @@TheWoodland12 yes there’s plenty more time, she’s still young

    • @elizabethvargas4165
      @elizabethvargas4165 Před 2 lety +8

      ABSOLUTELY. I AM 58 MAYBE A LITTLE TOO OLD FOR A LAW DEGREE BUT I'VE BEEN EVALUATING MY CHANCES ON THE FIELD AND I CAME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOT THOSE WHO BELIEVE AND TAKE ACTION.

  • @TinoSparks
    @TinoSparks Před 2 lety +117

    i just quit my job for youtube . im glad Alena mentioned that. i was living from paycheck to paycheck then i realised i could wake up one day and i get fired from the job with zero savings.
    so im starting over with building my channel to create income that is sustainable. im on 5,81k subscribers.. and i wanna look back one year later and say im glad i made that decision .
    love from South Africa

    • @breemack7503
      @breemack7503 Před 2 lety +13

      God bless you Tino, I wish you all success and even more growth on your channel.

    • @christenhines4100
      @christenhines4100 Před 2 lety +1

      You got this!!!

  • @tayland4139
    @tayland4139 Před 2 lety +62

    I love that they’ll be applying to HBCU’s. I absolutely loved my experience. There’s truly nothing like being surrounded by black excellence

  • @Laurentwyu
    @Laurentwyu Před 2 lety +28

    These two girls are so freaking smart and lovely! Good job, mom!!!

  • @candew2771
    @candew2771 Před 2 lety +18

    You & Joe have such an amazing way of parenting, I love the way you interact with your children.

  • @christabellemarimo3591
    @christabellemarimo3591 Před 2 lety +71

    As someone who's applying as an international student. The tution is a lot but that's not stopping me. So it's nice to know that Alnena saved up for her kids college

  • @isthar1000
    @isthar1000 Před 2 lety +15

    That sounded like true love 22:20min: "I really don't care that much, but if you care about it, then I'll make myself care about it" !

  • @Toywins
    @Toywins Před 2 lety +14

    Amyah recognizing already that there is no level playing field. My daughter has been accepted to multiple colleges, but she is staying at home to be able to make good financial decisions. I love her!! Private colleges are literally giving her merit scholarships. Physicians Assistant is her major. She brought her plan to me, I never had to talk about it with her, my tears are real and happy!

  • @ldwson854
    @ldwson854 Před 2 lety +10

    First, can I just say you are the sweetest family ever. So refreshing to listen to you communicate with each other. I mean really, really listening and giving each other respect. So many could learn how to act by watching your interaction. This is pure love. I've been smiling the whole time. Keep giving the world this positive vibes. Love and success to you all and all your individuality.

  • @CallmeQuayZ
    @CallmeQuayZ Před 2 lety +182

    My daughter is 17 and I’m a single mom. I love this conversation!

    • @ladiepink
      @ladiepink Před 2 lety +17

      You doing a wonderful job mom!! I know ur daughter proud of you !!

    • @CallmeQuayZ
      @CallmeQuayZ Před 2 lety +15

      @@ladiepink This made me cry I don’t know why but thank you

    • @kimmiet1980
      @kimmiet1980 Před 2 lety +1

      I know right? I just sent the video link to my 17 year old son.

    • @leahchallod3912
      @leahchallod3912 Před 2 lety

      You can do it

  • @barbaraelizabeth4011
    @barbaraelizabeth4011 Před 2 lety +98

    Joe is always so chilled and relaxed

  • @stephaniestepp84
    @stephaniestepp84 Před 2 lety +15

    Thank you to your sister for what she’s doing!! I live in Baltimore in one of the areas she’s referencing and this is a beautiful thing!! I LOVE books and because of that I’ve always made sure that my children had access to books as well as library cards but I’ve been in schools where I was in the library and didn’t even realize it because of the lack of books!! Thank you again beautiful angel…you saw a need and are doing something to help fix it! God Bless you!

  • @chattinggirl1999
    @chattinggirl1999 Před 2 lety +59

    Being a senior in college, I really love listening to these young girl talk about where they want to go! And makes me giggle when they talk about partying LOL I went somewhere close to home (an hour away from my family), and I loved being so close. I did live in a dorm - but living at home is such a smart choice. Love your family!

  • @ncg6446
    @ncg6446 Před 2 lety +78

    Love from Trinidad and Tobago. Praying for more of God's grace and favor over your lives. It is a priviledge to be granted access to see you raise these wonderful, intelligent, well rounded children.
    I loved your sister's idea so much, I cried to think of greater access to literacy in underserved areas.

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric Před 2 lety +125

    This family has their act together and I am here.for.it. 👏🏾

  • @wasilaabuhassan2071
    @wasilaabuhassan2071 Před 2 lety +6

    You guys deserve the entire world , success, love and happiness available in the universe. I started watching y’all when y’all had nothing and I stopped for some reason and just few days ago started watching y’all again. Y’all have come so so so far and my heart genuinely warms up to the point where I could cry from how beautiful your family and journey has come. Love y’all, I pray god blesses your family til the end of times ❤️

  • @serenah.2150
    @serenah.2150 Před 2 lety +13

    This college conversation is much needed for all high school students

  • @thariqmuchiri3088
    @thariqmuchiri3088 Před 2 lety +127

    Legend has it Akyli is still waiting for an answer to "What if I don't go to college?"

    • @island_girl_shan2011
      @island_girl_shan2011 Před 2 lety +11

      I really wanted to hear what they would say too

    • @breemack7503
      @breemack7503 Před 2 lety +17

      I don't think it's something they want to discuss because she may be going whether she wants to or not. I was given a choice, I either work or go to college.

    • @Dose_of_daz
      @Dose_of_daz Před 2 lety +1

      😹

    • @Jj-rq9sp
      @Jj-rq9sp Před 2 lety +9

      Well she did say to Amayah that she could start and run her own business instead of going to college. But each child is different so maybe that may not be an option Akyli wants? But I could see Alana saying doing nothing isnt an option.

    • @savannahmarieee6282
      @savannahmarieee6282 Před 2 lety +6

      @@breemack7503 that's sad tbh a child should decide if they want to go or not

  • @shewrt1143
    @shewrt1143 Před 2 lety +25

    Love the cheering and support for Akyli....wow a family that prays together.....

  • @bungamawar4049
    @bungamawar4049 Před 2 lety +15

    this channel has been keeping me positive for some reasons. i wish if i became a parent i could raise my kids well like them

  • @suziebcute2282
    @suziebcute2282 Před rokem +9

    These kids will be so equipped for the future this is true parenting at it's best....kudos mommy and daddy 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @gloriarobinson1869
    @gloriarobinson1869 Před 2 lety +48

    Lovely singing voice Alena. The conversation with the kids about college was A1. The bond with your children Alena is perfect.

  • @tifwit1
    @tifwit1 Před 2 lety +46

    Amayah could also do CZcams as her job while in college :)

  • @NEFERTITI323
    @NEFERTITI323 Před 2 lety +16

    I commend you for talking to them about college. I see Joe putting in that Dad hat about a party college.

  • @vwiggins9797
    @vwiggins9797 Před 2 lety +25

    This is great! Mom has been there and done that so she is good at advising the girls through the college years 😊👍🏾

  • @TheQueenEC
    @TheQueenEC Před 2 lety +115

    Baby is to cute eating her oatmeal…..you know when you see other peoples babies that are so cute they make you go kiss your own babies. Love that your daughters are excited to explore college options.

  • @raincoleman6305
    @raincoleman6305 Před 2 lety +45

    I'm loving this discussion. These babies are growing up to fast. But they are absolutely beautiful. I enjoy each video. I learned a lot just watching ur videos. This is one of my favorite video's.

  • @catrocks93
    @catrocks93 Před 2 lety +16

    Amyah radiates older sister energy and I feel that 😂

  • @alandria
    @alandria Před 2 lety +19

    wow, that’s amazing what your sisters is doing for the children in Baltimore! We loveee an active member of the community 💙

  • @SweetnSourqt3
    @SweetnSourqt3 Před 2 lety +15

    I love that the girls love to hang around you, Alena and Joe. So sweet!

  • @shannonnesbitt2615
    @shannonnesbitt2615 Před 2 lety +69

    The babies are young women now 💜🤗🇧🇸

  • @morgancarter193
    @morgancarter193 Před rokem

    I want to say, I’ve loved a lot of your videos. But this one made me so emotional. I wish my mom knew things like you and helped talk me through the decisions like you did! I did the grades, applying, fafsa, deciding all on my own and my decision wasn’t the best. I didn’t understand until years later and I wish I had these talks with literally anyone. Thank you for sharing these moments

  • @FirdausHSalim
    @FirdausHSalim Před 2 lety +3

    You're amazing parents!
    I like the way you talk serious/beneficial stuff with your kids. Involve them in the decision making... Awesome!

  • @JacquiLove123
    @JacquiLove123 Před 2 lety +8

    Idk why but the last minute of this video brought me tears of joy. My mom would take us to the library on her days off, she didn’t have money to buy us books but she really wanted to instill reading in us. It’s one of my fondest memories. Thank you for doing this for the kids 🤍

  • @keiracrouse8287
    @keiracrouse8287 Před 2 lety +140

    But we’re not gonna talk about how great Alena and her sister’s are!! They all winning and running in they lane!!

  • @meanwhome
    @meanwhome Před 2 lety +9

    I love their honest talks with their kids

  • @noviceelite
    @noviceelite Před rokem +4

    Truly setting a good example for not only your kids but those who are seeing this video . Thank you parents ❤️

  • @sarahpalmer8100
    @sarahpalmer8100 Před 2 lety +37

    I love how these girls are getting the information they need to make good decisions for their lives. So many kids don’t have these conversations with their parents.

  • @jsabz3
    @jsabz3 Před 2 lety +228

    since amyah is an aspiring polyglot (i think that's the word hahahah) she should tottaallllylyy consider an overseas college. or at least an exchange program (so she's not away from family for too long)

    • @LJ_S1K
      @LJ_S1K Před 2 lety +31

      Study abroad is a great option. Most colleges even some community colleges offer a semester study abroad program

    • @xoxomacx2539
      @xoxomacx2539 Před 2 lety +19

      She would benefit a lot from an exchange program, but the world has changed so much, not sure these options are still available

    • @anchenishsimba3275
      @anchenishsimba3275 Před 2 lety +8

      I think studying aboard is great

    • @JonesDi77
      @JonesDi77 Před 2 lety +2

      So true.

    • @steffiring5317
      @steffiring5317 Před 2 lety +7

      I definitely always recommend studying abroad, you can gain soo much from that 🙌

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 Před 2 lety +3

    They blanked out when you said Kinesiology at 7:45 XD too funny

  • @denverphoenix2147
    @denverphoenix2147 Před 2 lety +17

    I dont have kids. But this is such a good thing to do for your kids. Saving for their college. So proud at this family. May God shower you all with blessings ❤️

  • @deborahpollitt7533
    @deborahpollitt7533 Před 2 lety +11

    Having these conversations in preparation in seeking a college and the funding to attend is a wonderful idea. Having parents who have attended college is a huge advantage. I know these young women will make every advantage work for themselves. Good lucky.

  • @jadianpraise6935
    @jadianpraise6935 Před 2 lety +125

    This was actually really helpful for me because I’m nearly 16 and thinking about my university majors too :)

    • @laresialopez1231
      @laresialopez1231 Před 2 lety +9

      Ikr like this was so useful I really want to go to University but no one in my family has been so I don’t have any knowledge on the topic

    • @breemack7503
      @breemack7503 Před 2 lety +3

      It's best to get an early start on that and get yourself prepared. The time is coming sooner than you think. Good luck!

    • @jadianpraise6935
      @jadianpraise6935 Před 2 lety +1

      @@breemack7503 thank you ☺️

    • @jadianpraise6935
      @jadianpraise6935 Před 2 lety +2

      @@laresialopez1231 yes and it seems as though I’m the only one thinking about it in this moment of time so I’m left to figure it all out myself 😂😂 good luck tho!!!

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul Před 2 lety +4

      @@laresialopez1231 Stay on the internet and look up phrases like, "first-generation college student." There are scholarships for people who are the first in their family and you'll probably find stories of people explaining how they managed to apply and graduate without their family knowing much about it. You can DEFINITELY do it. My best advice: Pay the LEAST amount possible for college since you'll be the one stuck with the bill after you graduate. If you do well in undergrad and decide to go to graduate school, you can definitely get a graduate degree scholarship. God bless!

  • @long_one5491
    @long_one5491 Před 2 lety +2

    I Love the positive energy your family exudes! Beautiful to watch! And the fact you have so many children and still make excelling, self care and supporting every childs dreams look so achievable! ❤

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 Před 2 lety +1

    I loved that talk about university. It’s such an important talk I wish I had.
    You’re doing such a good job as parents.

  • @erinbarrow4819
    @erinbarrow4819 Před 2 lety +44

    Alana and Joe I'm so proud of the way the kids have drown

  • @binhduchoang6026
    @binhduchoang6026 Před 2 lety +42

    I love it the way you guys teach your children about every thing i think your children will have good and strong life hi Mazelee thanks for sharing.

  • @lilmisslegal3018
    @lilmisslegal3018 Před 2 lety +14

    She's right the dorm life stinks! I did the same as Mrs Maze, my 1st year I stayed home and 1st semester of my 2nd year I lived on campus and I was definitely culture shocked. Going to school online was where I shined. Praying for your success girlies

  • @portiawebb533
    @portiawebb533 Před 2 lety +6

    Loved that mom kept singing her Christmas song despite the side eye from the customer…. Nobody is going to rain, on the Mazlee parade!!!!
    🎉🎅🏽🙌🏽

  • @isiomanwaezeigwe2201
    @isiomanwaezeigwe2201 Před 2 lety +62

    Obviously incredibly educated and super smart!!

  • @coyottittocoetzee438
    @coyottittocoetzee438 Před 2 lety +57

    At this point I want to move from Botswana and go live with them 😍🔥🔥 the love, discipline, respect, and awesomeness is just lovely ❤️🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

  • @denisebrown2994
    @denisebrown2994 Před 2 lety

    Your family is so inspiring, using words to describe would not do justice.
    Beautiful family, with such display of love and support.
    Conversation about college is awesome as having similar conversation with my sons.
    I am showing this video to them so thank you for sharing.
    My youngest wants to study Astro-science with 2 years in Japan as well.
    He will love this.

  • @jenniferani7910
    @jenniferani7910 Před 2 lety +2

    May this joy and laughter never depart from your family... I love you all