Talking Back to Our Haters with Jamie | Get Real Ep. #36
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- Jamie is back again to address haters. There’s no way around it: there will always be people who wanna bring you down especially when you’re on the way up. Maybe we even catch ourselves at times acting or talking a little shady. Why do we think people like to hate so much and what do we have to say back to them?
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Timestamps
00:00 - Mindset Ad: Tablo
01:41 - Intro: Jamie is Back! Again!
03:06 - Let's Get Real: Haters are Bullies
14:24 - Ad: Betterhelp
15:59 - Why Do People Hate?
27:33 - Ad: Grammarly
29:33 - Mail Time: Accidentally Rude
37:14 - Mail Time: Standing Up For Myself
45:08 - end Wrap It Up!
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hey @dive studios could you please invite rose from blackpink after her solo comes out on catching up w/ eric nam? we would really like to see her here. thanks :))
more podcast with jamie please...
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( for me : love or I don’t care) I don’t know what they get when they hate , BTW I DON’T HATE YOU BM BUT I LOVE YOU TOO
“If you can’t handle what you wrote, why post it?” - Jamie, 2021
Yahhhhhh idols shouldn’t filter out the names of haters and just call them out
If you're not black and American, stop trying tonsound like it. She is gross
I love Peniel. This show allows him to be himself and we can see more of his personality.
agree
Ikr!!! I watch all these podcasts mainly for him!!
honestly this show is such good opportunity for him because i wasnt intrested in him before this show at all but then i watched it because of BM and came to know what a lovely guy peniel is
Yes! I agree! I love to see it, he’s funny asf 😂
exactly! watching btob in shows made me think he's boring, until I listened to get real. Now I'm like yo I need a peniel in my life 😂
Jamie was so young when she started getting hate literally 14 and she is constantly getting hate because of ASC it makes me so sad
Exactly I was thinking the same, you can see how she talks so deeply about it...
@@Yaya_likestocomment and the comment that she talk about the pig scream that's literally a thing that someone say to her and she even said on a interview that traumatized her
@@floryflory what pig scream
@@calalopez5882 26:45 that comment
What ASC ? What happened ?
I am convinced Peniel is the most chillest human to ever exist.
3:24 When Jamie said “what was the reason”, all I could think about was that clip of Cardi B yelling “WHAT WAS THE REASONNNN!?” 💀😭
Hahahaha
Same😭
Same here hahaha🤣
Omdz I literally thought that
Can we talk about how Peniel was making sure Ashley knows they were joking? Both times they were like "but she knows now Im joking/ i didn't mean it " Peniel asked her "do you?" That was very pretty. Please, people, always make sure your friends knows , not just assume.
Also, I love the way BM and Ash are with each other, they act like brother and sister.
Ikr. Peniel is responsible and kind. he keeps checking those people he valued a lot😭 there is another vlog from his friend and she thank him for checking on her mental health (he called her).
@@usandyouyouandwebtobandmelody honestly I didn't know much about him because I don't follow BTOB but since I listen to the podcast I'm amazed in how sweet he is! He has an amazing personality.
@@taylorfarfan5028 thank you for appreciating him. I hope you can check about his group. They were really raised well by their family. And yup, Peniel is sweet tho he claimed he's not romantic and such but his actions speaks how responsible he is as a person, a son, a brother, an uncle and a friend. Sorry i just can't stop bragging few things about him.
@@usandyouyouandwebtobandmelody what vid was that ??
@@nazibagano8862 you mean when his Friend said he called her to check on her..? Im Sorry i forgot the tittle of the video. But its when Peniel and his friend wore lavender shirts...
Can we have Jamie here forever? Her energy is so cool and adds a different point of view from Peniel, Ash and BM. Also, Peniel, every time he speaks, I like him even more. He has a really nice personality and he's so kind, as the good way of kindness, knowing where boundaries are and reading the atmosphere. I was a bit wary about this episode because bullying is something that can touch a bit too much near to me but they're amazing
80% of the troll and hate comments these days on social media are from young kids like 13 14 years kids
Or then literally old people I there 40s , 50s because they are jealous and frustrated!
I just thought of something I think because bullying in person is not so strong as before maybe this is their way to release all that hate they have built in .
correct! Kids who can probably can't read or spell correctly enough. Ugh!
I pity the younger generations
Frrrrr like??? Don't u have homework to do???
These podcasts have helped me a lot. Right now, I'm in treatment for cancer, it's been hard, and scary but everyday I watch/listen an episode and I feel so much better.
Thank you so much, take care 💜✨ greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽.
I hope things go good for you and you get better soon ❤️
Mucha fuerza. 🙌
@@sylviavera3456 Thank you 🥺
@@Leticia-vf4iv Muchas gracias 🥺
Praying for you for healing and for comfort during this time 🙏❤️ Stay strong and HWAITING!!!!
I dunno why but BMs reaction to Ashley mentioning hate commets about her accident got me.... the man is just a gem really dont know why its a normal reaction from him but ... yea ....
What happened to Ashely ?
Her group got into a car accident where two of the members died.
@@mkm4360 that’s so sad to hear I can’t imagine the pain her and the members went through.
@@mkm4360 are you serious???? Oh my god I got so shock......... how ppl can taking bad about that???? I cant believe you ppl.🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️😧😧😧😧
@@chocolatechip733 She was a member of the group Ladies Code, the manager was the cause of the accident and was arrested. Two members, RiSe and EunB, unfortunately passed away and the remaining three, Ashley Zuny and Sojung, were injured as well. Very tragic and terrible that people made jokes about that and made hate comments about it.
I really love how Peniel’s mind works. Like, it’s really hard to just stay at peace sometimes, but he could handle everything peacefully. I stan an unbothered king.
I don't know if Ashley will read this but I want to tell her that it wasn't her fault that she felt like she couldn't reply back to her ex-boyfriend. He clearly yelled at her specifically to make her overwhelmed and diminished her so she would feel insecure and wouldn't be able to fight back. I'm glad she's free of this asshole now and I hope she can shed away any remnants of insecurity he took advantage of in her.
Love all of you guys and ladies !
Exactly, he work towards making her feel inferior. Awful
This is a really good topic to talk about nowadays, I like the way you all handled it. I would like to include in the discussion for anyone who may be reading this comment that you can ask for help, if someone is bullying you, affecting your mental health or even physically abusing you, search for help. If you don't feel safe arguing with them, always talk to someone you trust who can help you. It can be your parents, older people and teachers! As someone who have being bullied I know you may feel ashamed or even scared about showing your weakness, but it's ok to feel like that and I'm pretty sure they will understand your feelings. Don't let hate win, be yourself and be proud. :)
The overall lesson i've realized is: pick your battles. There will be times where you can tell people are either hurt or projecting. there will also be times where you need to set boundaries and advocate for yourself. With time, you'll figure it out.
Yup!!
From someone with a degree in psychology, I honestly feel Peniel could follow through in another career that surrounds psychology if wanted :') I just love his way of thinking and his perspective of the world it's so unique and interesting!!!!
I remember being bullied in middle school. I was in 7th grade and I was always made fun of for my clothes and how they were too short for me because I'm tall. I got fed up and told the bully to stfu and to leave me alone. I also called her a bxtch because she was bothering me. She cried and I felt so much better for standing up for myself
PERIODT😩✊
Jamie is back again because she never left! Need Jamie's show again! 💖
she expressed she didnt wanna return to WWJD because she didnt like the advice she gave but didnt say she wouldnt return w another podcast
"Try harder" -- Ashley to hater
We love the ENERGY wow
i love to see jamie come back on get real !!!!! the vibes are just so real ??? jamie we love u (and the get real team ofc hehe) !!!
and her voice is so nice and soothing
@@dreavl right ?? she's gifted !!
it feels much balanced with her, I think the energy of the four of them suits the podcast so well
+shes another girl so it's more balanced
37:26 they are just like family having a dinner. Ashley and BM as a parent. while Jamie and Peniel just like a twin LMAO
I am a teacher and I never allow bullying in my class. Everytime I hear or witness my pupils started laughing at someone that it seemed like they're just playing but it got too much, I intervened. I was bullied too in my high school days because of my appearance, it was just minor but I felt it. And I don't want to happen that to one of my pupils or even one of the pupils in the entire school.
Keep it up, teacher 🙏 Protect the children!
Thank u we need teachers like u🥺
“If you can’t handle what you wrote, why post it?” I totally agree......but for me if that person gets attack in return then so be it.....i don't care about the age...if you can spread hate you can handle getting attacked. So think before acting just saying.............
i mean yes, but we live in a time were 13-14 year old kids can write that stuff.
there age doesnt protect them from any confrontation but a 13 year old kid doesnt understand shit about what he does.
its REAAAALLY dangerous to swarm these kids with hate because that can cause serious problems.
and i know you cant predict how old a person is but generally we should try to defeat hate with love just like BM said.
and if they are so delusional that they just hate with no point whatsoever?
just flood the comments with love.
i think we cant possibly work against cyberbullying by answering with hate .... or maybe even with love these people are so save in there little bubble they dont care how many people on the internet tell them what they do is wrong.
I think the only way are Teachers,Parents and friends who can influence these people and show them in person how awful that shit is .
But if we hate on the Haters then we are the haters and thats just more hat rather then stopping it
@@appletree5028 but you see 13yr - 14yr olds of this digital/social media age know a lot more and more "mature" than the previous gen so its not much of an excuse. Sometimes ones need to get burn by fire understand what the other party feels.
@@clairelee5467 I agree with you. Teens these days are not innocent. I mean if they have the capability to literally downgrade a person to the point where they would attempt suicide then they can surely handle the hate too. They should know what they did
@@appletree5028 When I was 13 I would not talk shit about people. Kids and teens should know to respect, it's a basic human thing that your family and school teaches you.
I get that not everyone has the same experience and our backgrounds are different, but still.
@@manal-sb1zk exactly.......playing the teenage card just to justify one's actions is just.....& a lot do it for the tweet/clout or whatever....
no they actually need sm more appreciation for their consistency and just how comfortable they are with the audience, ugh love you guys
Get real:- Talks about haters
(Me thinking "yes! We gonna get haters some hate with jamie!)
Get real:- proceeds to worry about haters and their mental health
*but that's why we love em*
Honestly like they are so nice for considering their mental state😭
im still tryna find haters
Ahaha yes the grammarly ad for cyber bullies who can’t even spell 😂
OMG wait why is that so true? I swear they are just a bunch of ten year olds or younger because they can't even spell.
@@fallfanaticstudent there's a reason y all kids profile as psychopaths, kids r cruel af
HAHAHA
This is the best comment ever. That is so ironic.
Peniel: spread love, love lovelovelove
me: SHOW YOUR LOOOVE, SHOW YOUR LOOOOOVE
I thought that too XD
I thought he was going to say that.. Haha
Jamie’s impersonation of haters commenting on their phone is the best! Great podcast guys 🙂 Really important topic.
I can totally relate to Ashley when she said she isn’t a good talker when it comes to someone coming at her... I get anxious inside because I hate fighting and can’t think of come backs and then hours later I think about what I could have said 😔
Peniel is Jamie’s thought translator 🥺 so cute
Jamie really fit in this channel tho. She is always real despite of the hate comments she get all these years. Glad she get thru thos shits and became this badass 💕💕
Can we take a minute to appreciate how pretty Ashley Choi looks in this outfit. 😍😍
I love Jamie, I always see her as a funny and very outspoken person, but in this you see a very sincere side to her with everyone who has experienced what she has.
This is so timely given the bullying scandals happening in k-entertainment
exactly what i thought
BM is so pure hearted bruh
I hope Jamie becomes a regular in Get Real 😩
Peniel is sooooo like, intellectual. He knows you can’t stop the bad parts of human nature. He acknowledges this person whose being rude is also going through their own emotional turmoil and they’re using the ability to abuse this public persona of them to vent that out. Rather than focus on what you cannot change? You change your perception and reactions. Rather than take it personal? He rationalizes. I love Peniel so much.
Fun fact: most melody don’t go attack BTOB haters but they silently rep0rt and bl0ck the account so they should say BYE to their accounts 😂
True 😂 most peaceful fandom 💙
I love how similar Peniel and Jamie are😂😂
I'M SO HAPPY SO SO HAPPY TO SEE JAMIE FREE OF JYP
Idols calling out their fans for rude behavior is what i live for!💪🏼 love you matthew!
Thank you for talking about this topic since school bullying is a topic that's highlighted in the media now, especially in SK. Bullying ruins lives. The victims deserve an apology, even if it happened years ago.
Peniel is one big chill person 💛 and a romantic who doesn't even know he's a romantic.
I really hope that BM is doing alright currently; really ironic how they filmed an episode dealing with this specific topic probably only weeks before this whole fiasco currently within DSP blew up. He must feel so conflicted knowing that the things that he clearly disapproves of (and have personally experienced as seen here) allegedly could have been going on within his own company behind closed doors, and may even possibly affect his own group going forward... if you are reading, just keep it real man, you got a good head on your shoulders, just keep at what you believe in and you gonna come out of it alright.
But what he is trying to say is that violence is not good in ANY way beyond that they spoke about cyberbullying the one that his entire team is suffering at this time and beyond that he was surely fine with them publishing the video, since they care about the victims and about you bully
Wait what happened at his company?😅sorry I haven’t being keeping up with everything lately
@@whooopsiesssssssss9770 here’s the jist of it: www.soompi.com/article/1456918wpp/dsp-media-releases-statement-denying-former-april-member-hyunjoo-left-the-group-due-to-being-bullied-by-the-group
They are now in an official legal battle, so it’s becoming one hell of a mess.
@@EMK19 omg wthhhh😳😳kpop Indusry is soo dark I just hope these artists r ok and they start teaching them how to respect one another and treat eachother like human
Believe what u believe, their management denying that rumors, they said that the girls just not get along together, it just it's
Jamie should be host. She is such as whole mood. I really love her
I love it when the three of them but I love it more when there’s Jamie awwwww
For me I think people who hate and get called out deserve to get called out and if they cant handle people coming at them then they shouldnt be doing it to someone eles
I'm curious about the temperature difference on the right and left side of the table
🤣🤣🤣, you got me on that..😄😄😄
🤣😂🤣😂
Haters are the worst type of people, look, if you don't like someone's music, acting or whatnot about that person...just ignore it and move on, no need to waste time and show the world you're an arsehole by showing hate towards that person/group.
when peniel said one of his members replied to those hate comments i was like "hmmm changsub?" cuz that sounds abt right lol
I think its eunkwang
the people who dislike this ep are the ones also leaving hate comments for no reason
As a melody, when i heard that one of the members got a hate comment i got so mad. Like Peniel's lyrics say "모두가 필요해 L-O-V-E" let's spread love only 💙!!
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It broke my heart to hear that BM was so helpless when younger. :( I am so happy it's not this way anymore. I love this group
I love these guys, they are always so honest and just give themselves, no fake
This topic is really sensitive and people don't like talking about it but i loved how you guys discussed all the stuff
I think the reason why people bully is that they experience only or too much violence at home, their parents don't show love towards them, they always act cold so their children become totally emotionless.
I was also bullied in elementary school for like 4 years straight and i never could do anything other than just laughing like an idiot. I still can't talk about it because it makes me cry.
Thank you for the episode!❤️
Ashley is me at 6:07 whenever i hear some stories about broken bones and blood because i could imagine it and it's too much for me that's why i shake my head like she does at 6:35
I need a best friend like Peniel :(
dive, pleeeease put english captions on the korean parts huhu. it was a good talk but i got lost in the middle esp in mail time 🙏🙏
also, please more jamie eps hihi
Peniel is like saying “send me the hate to destress” lmaooo
Haters can't understand what "ignore" it is
"haters gonna hate" stream Peniel-Flip
Stream #Flip by Peniel, the lyrics are so on point and haters will feel attacked.
yessss jamie still hereeeee
16:23 Jamie is mooodddd yoo ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Glad Peniel finally found something he is great at. I remember watching him on a tv show, saying he is worried that he cannot contribute to promoting his group. Way to go man! Really happy for you!
Glad BM no longer has the yellow hair 😆 and he does look like Eric Nam at times
Ashley represent all the ladies! 😊
Literally shookt when ash mentioned that she's receiving hate regarding the accident. Like dude? That's frkn tragedy why bringing that up to hate someone who survive that nightmare????
Admit it. We all need a Peniel in our life. He is so so precious🥺 Anyway BLESSED BIRTHDAY PENIEL!!💕
when I hear Tablo I got so shook, I miss him
On a sidenote, just watched Big naughty's and Jamie's 'Joker' performance, it was really good! Y'all should check it out if you haven't already :D
Yeah♡♡♡♡♡♡
I think the best way to say something straight to their face when if comments bother you so that they don't cross the line again. Have a good comeback at them or confront them face to face. You have to gain respect from people without being taken advantage.
Aww ashleyy I love her more and more everyday shes been through so much yet seems so cheerful . We need to protect her at all cost !
Everyone deserves colleagues and friends like all of you. Y'all are awesome.
I remember once in junior high, I'd just enter 6th grade and this 8th grader came up to me. She stopped me from walking and literally got on my face just to say, "Hey I don't like you. Wanna fight?" It was scary , I could feel my legs tremble and my heart pound, especially cause I was always so shy and quiet at the time. I remember telling her, I don't know who you are and dont want any problems but if you want to fight let's go. She laughed out loud with her friends and then the bell rang. I was so happy for that bell but remained nervous throughout the day. Later on I found out one of my friends who was also in 8th grade stood up for me and told her to leave me alone. From there I knew I had to toughen up and became one of the tough ones at school. Don't bully people y'all. It can cause someone's life.
16:23 JAMIE DID THAT EXPRESSION AGAIN🤣🤣
Dude I love her so much😂
I loved this episode...hearing you talk makes me learn more about diferent situations nowadays and also helps me to practice English..love you guys❤️❤️
I really love watching and listening to get real podcast. It's topics are really always a reality check.
Shocks, BM feeling sorry and apologize that account is sweet. Woah! Mad respect to this man! 💪
I can totally relate to people saying "you are too nice" part. Got that alot while growing up. People say that but never help, till you decide that it needs to stop. ahh the life lessons
bro i love the energy of this podcast pls never end it and JAMIE PART OF THE REGULAR CAST? yes pls
Hey dive this has been my therapy for idk since when but I'm loving every podcast you have 😭💙
Such a good episode! Kinda wish these where longer so you guys could ramble for a hours about the topics and share you experiences more
Hi I listen to this podcast all the time and I'm not sure if you'll ever read this or not but I am really glad that you guys talked about this because we as fans see these haters and we really try our best that u don't have to read such comments but knowing how it affects you I think a lot of us who might respond to those by hating will understand that that's not the right way to deal with it and get better. Love you guys.
I just started confronting people and that really made me feel better. Overthinking kills your soul people, so just try to confront whoever is trying to fill the negative thoughts in your head.
man, I love you guys so much. you guys make my day, you don't even know. thank you guys for being yourselves. 💞
Can’t wait for Jamie to drop the album. Stop teasing us with singles, girl
When you're early but don't know what to comment 💀
so proud of Dive studios and Get Real Team!!! Three sponsors in one video ✨✨✨ love you guys! Let's spread love always!
I love your podcast, feels like I'm chilling out with friends and just laughing together
i really loved this episode... i was here to take a 10 minute break but ended up watching the whole episode.. haha, but i really want to say that i leart quite a lot here, there were many situations when i would try to stand up for my self, and i kinda do it but after everything is over, i find myself rethinking the whole situation and regret everything i said or did.
I got a lot of motivation from this.. thank you so muchhhh!!!
YALL keep me soo entertained!!!👏🏼
its became my habit working while listening to them. thanks for making me focus on my work
i really love they bringing up this topic! i learned so much things today🥰
These artists got bullied but they don't speak about it. But when their career risen up bully issues are pumping up. Tsk tsk :(((((
how can the four of them just talking be so so cool
This is still one of my fav episodes from get real,it’s really cool that the are speaking about hate comments in an actually normal way instead of making a diss track. Dive studios is always so refreshing and always give idols an opportunity to show more of their personality and over all self while still talking about important and entertaining things instead of simply doing a cliche interview or show with the same overused/ uncomfortable questions that no one likes with full rights(didn’t mean for that to rhyme) It’s way more different than other Korean shows where the idols usually do the same thing,never get to have fun and be made fun of in different types of ways
this whole episode is so important. thank u guys. lol not me stopping it at some parts to agree & talk thru it to myself too AHAH & omg peniel's little "what" at 42:38 when ashley talked abt her ex ahhh the genuine care right there mannnn. bruh😪 anyways yes this whole convo was>>
Finally I'm catching up with Get Real episodes. ㅠㅠㅠ How I wish I discover this sooner.
I was bullied in middle school, sucked being the new girl, i was fragile obviously at 7 years old and as every kid wanted to make friends, so i got close to the first two girls that approached to me and thought that it was good to be friends with girls who manipulated and treated me as a joke. I hate thinking about these people that later in high school became closer friends, i never say outloud that they bullied me cause was embarrasing and i didn't wanted to cause a big deal. It is a big deal and now at my 21, i feel the courage to confront them but only with words. Thank you for your stories, i feel less alone 🖤
Such an important topic. Thank you for sharing your stories, guys.
This is my fav podcast. I am so happy to listen to them as they truly are not idols but just young people like me. It is refreshing. I love to listen to them while working at home cuz I feel like I am talking with some friends. I talk with my friends too but it is always nice to see different point of views from people around the world. I hope there will be more idol as open as they are. I don't know anything about Peniel and know I feel like he is so chill and wise. Bm and Ash are also so supportive and hardworking. I love Jamie back to the podcast she is so real too
thanks to bring this topic up! ❤️👍
I will try to keep commenting the good things. the aims of being online for me is to greet people online and appreciate their posts, stories, works, photos. ❤️
i love these PEOPLE!❤
it's really good topic to talk about.thx)
Jamie 😘
Thanks for the serotonin boost, I give you these flowers as a thank you 🌻🌻🌻