SIKHIPHA IZIMFIHLO | Ubaba wazibulalela ukuthola ukuthi walala nendodakazi yakhe | S1-EP195
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#BlaqlifeTV #sikhiphaizimfihlo #secret #truth #confession - Zábava
Speaking from a single parent's point of view, uMama ngabe waba completely honest nengane from ekuqaleni ngabe asikho lana today. For uSisi please don't blame yourself, it's not your fault ukuthi uBaba wakho couldn't control himself....ubunja bakhe led him to take his own life. I hope and pray ukuthi you get help and forgive yourself for whatever wrong you think you did. Love and light to you babygirl.
Isfundo sokuthi umzali angaboyfihlela ingane uBaba wayo mele bazane noma engayi support
True
Ayikho ryt into yofihlela umntana uba ngubani uyise and ngumntu onjani yaze yambi ngoba umntana umesulele nangegciwane yaze yambi
Lobaba kwakumele azihloniphe nje ebe azi ukth unezingane ahambezishiya wenzakahle Wafa mxm sungalokhu ununusela indoda ngengane imfihlo iyabheda ingakho ngenamfihlo azidingeki nje manje cz ngabe wayelokhu eqwashile ucc ukuthi ubaba wenhloboni yapende emantombazaneni
I agree
Both parents failed you, eishh it's so painful 😢😢
Seriously they failed her mxx
Angiku blemi mina my sister but ngi blema yena ngqo ubabawakho
Ngoba ukuba akakulahlanga ngoba esehlukene nomawakho wawungeke umfune
And ukuba yena wayengakhohlakele wayengeke alake nawe for payment ngoba wawuvele ungenamali,yen wasebenzisa ukuxakeka kwakho for his needs
And bangaki nje aselalenabo njengoba wayehlezi esemgaqweni
Amadoda bekumele afunde la ukuth ukuhlukana nonina wengane akusho ukuth lahla ingane yakho buka manje ukuncishithuba lokuba nabafowenu,nodadewenu ,nokuba close to him
And naye uzincisha ithuba loku hlangana nengane yakhe angaykhulisanga
Sad 💔💔
I fully understand her situation cause every child needs to know her parents and she needed closure. Believe you me she was still goin to search for his father no matter what
Yah true
Sesi phuma kulo mama amadoda manengi uzofa sesi
I don't know mine and I don't give a damn. Aftr he heard am working, holding a position of manager at one of the biggest company and I graduated from wits he asked my neighbour to call me I told him as far as am concerned my paternal grandad was my dad leave me alone so he neva bothered me again. This thing of looking for absent parents is insane nje Coz I don't c de need of lookin for a useless bastard
@@kgaokgao595 The only reason for a person to look for his/her father is the surname, other that nothing
Kazi lombhemi ufakele abangaki lesifo...😢Kwaze kwabuhlungu
We are so sorry bby girl this world is cruel 💔💔💔
Phola bby girl kuzodlula i Hiv le ungabisayinaka qhubeke namapilisi girl. Awuwedwa kulesosimo odlula kuso baning futhi bazolapheka ngesimo sakho. Siyabonga ukuthi ugcine ukhulumile hamba ke ku ma Social worker cc omnane.
Yaze yabuhlungu indaba yakho ntombi,sengathi ungakuthola ukuzixolela ngoba akulona icala lakho ukuba Oobaba abadala bakhohlakale kanje,wayefanele lukuzibulala ngoba imbi into ebehleli eyenza emgaqweni exhaphaza ingane ezincane kanti uyaphela ekwenze nakweyakhe!!!
😢kwaze kwabuhlungu sisi kodwa dont punish yourself ubungazi😢
😢😢😢😢 mmmmm lwaze lwa buhlungu udaba 😢😢
And lubuhlungu yaz😢
ay lwaze lwabuhlungu Nksiyami ingane nobaba naye nje ey kuningi nje kuyadida usala umangele nje
Abazali kumele bebekhona ezimpilweni zabantwana babo noma bengasazwani to avoid izinto ezinje.
Iqiniso lelo 😢😢😢
I love the way our Queen handled the interview ❤. And to young lady. Its not your fault. Your father was the one. Who was supposed to look for you. If he was there in your life from day one if even if he was not married to your mum. This was not gone happen. I plead with Black father's out there. be there for your kids. All they need to know is that you there. even if show up after 6 months & call your kids they need to know your love and they need you as a father to Acknowledge them and love them. Pls show up even with empty hands. Your presence means a lot to a child wither big child or small chid. Daddy is important. Change this mind set of not caring about kids you made out of Wedlock as they deserve the same love with your kids in your married homes.
You didn't finish your confession cc what about the sickness she needs to know aswell i think your father killed himself because he knew that he passes you the disease if it wasn't for that i guess he was not going to kill himself
Yebo nami ngicabanga kanjalo okushukuthi lobaba ebeengcolile. Kurite megulisa ingane yomunye umuntu AND NOT eyakhe tjoo
True
Nami ngicabanga ukuthi ikona okwamcabangisa kakhulu ukuthi wagulusa inga e yakhe.Ukulala nayo,kwakungadlula ngoba bakhona abakwenza ngenhloso kodwa benze sengathi akwenzekanga lutho.PHEPHISA NTOMBAZANE.
Sad ubaba lo ubeshawa ngalento... Shuthi Kade ayekwenza kbantwana babantu
Exactly udoti wenja nje wendoda
Abathelele ngegciwane nkosyam be innocent 😢
Yinyaniso leyo mtase wayeqonde ukubethwa ntokuyo ubethwe kakubi ngawe xola cc awunatyala kulemeko ityala likuMama noTatawakho wenza into eyayingenziwa nokb ngubani ofuna uyise
True
Ayi ishubile ngane Yami, worse ngoba uguliswe ubaba wakho as if umama wakho wayelazi iqiniso ngalobaba wakho, inzima yona
Noma ngabe waba wrong usisi kodwa umama wabawrong kakhulu ekutheni engamhambisi kubo lapho ezalwa khona usisi ngoba ukube wamkhombisa ngabe mhlambe akufikanga kulesimo esikusona manje 😢😢😢😢😢
Yaze yabuhlungu lendaba😢😢, into engiyifunde lapha ukuthi kungcono uyilungise kuse early indaba yezibongo, izazi nje ingane ukuthi eyakwabani. Ngiphinde ngibuke ubaba ongathembekile, ohamba elala nezingane, ebe eya kumkakhe vele.
I blame umama
I'f azange afihle ngabe uyaphila lobaba
This is a lesson to both parents .Abangafihlelwa abantwana abazali.mo matter what the situation
Mina ngiblama lobaba ngokuxhaphaza izingane ezincane
Ya ne life,, you went through a lot nana
Ungazi blame Mina ngiblamer yena umama wakho ngoba usangaba nengane ithandane nezingane zababa wakho zingazani kuwrong nje lomafihlelana
God made a plan ukuth hlangan nobaba wakho,Devil made his plan as well 😢😢😢
Prayer is the Power❤❤
Amen
Please blaqlife eskot that girl at home and arrange counselling for her. The story is so sad, hurting her a lot and disturbing her. Please guy's help her. All the best to her and baby girl to be too hard to yourself, forgive yourself and pray. Stay blessed God loves you. Try to stay calm. Sending love and hugs ❤
Isifundo ukuthi mongumzali iba umzali kuzozonke ingane oyaziyo ongayazi coz ngokwenzenjalo uyokwenza okuhle nakweyakho ungayazi ungayenzi intwembi kwingane yomunye umuntu
molo
Kwaze kwabuhlungu owakuzwa cc omncane sength impilo engaqhubeka udlule kulesimo ngoba sizima kakhulu ngyfisa ukuba lendaba ilalelwe kakhulu abantu beslisa abazele special laba abazele kakhulu abangazazi ingne zabo nokuthi ziphilangni la zingkhona ziphila kanjni ngizofisa umama axole akekho umuntu ongfisi ukuzwa imvelaphi yakhe nomndeni nje wakobaba sength ungmxolela umntwana ngba kakhle isotsha leli lize lafela emsebenzi walo but nje ngyfisa nawo umndeni uxole
@ Nontobeko
Nginobhuti
Womndeni
Owayehla enyuka
Eshitsha amadolobha
ngomsebenzi
Ephiwe umsebenzi
Enza isiqiniseko
Sokuthi ushiya ingane
Zonke izinkalo
Wayenemali emuhle
Nami ngingisemncane ngisese primary
Sewashona
Ushiya izingane zigcwele iziganga
Sorry cc kona wena awunacala icala likubo abazali
😭😭Ao ntombi wa thwala u bunzima phepu nana this is a lesson to treat ppl with respect even strangers ubaba be ga stout may his soul rest in peace
Ezinye izithunywa,ziyayenza i example,nolaka kalusasizi masekunje,nakule kusengandluleka💫
Cha kubalulekile ukufuna ukwazii abazali bobabili, namii babengafuni ngiye kwamama koda ngaya ngenkanii , now am rich because of my mama side
How did your mother's side make you rich?
Akafe lobaba wayibulalela wona lamanyala Akhe ingane hluphekile shodelwa imali uthi aykhokhe ngekhekhr injah kababa kshuthi wabaleka the time emithise umama walengane akasithwale sono sakhe emazulwini
Yhoo this so painful to watch 😢as have same age child. I think what happened to father I think it was time for unkukuu to removed him emphagathini bcs you can imagine how many young or women went through ngenxayakhe,he huts so many😢 as for the daughter am so sorry mtanami hope u get help sooner u really need it 😢🤗🤗
shwele simakade...kunzima emhlabeni
Kubuhlungu Kona phephisa Sisi,be strong,izimo zomhlaba
Blacklife you guys same of ur stories are really touching us like this one is painful big time
Baby, you can make a stepping stone to the next level , educate other girls,
Very sad story...Eish. Both parents are at fault. Kwangathi umama angezibulale ukuze lomtwana Abe nomzali oyedwa okungenani
Hello stu missing you CC how is your baby may God Bless you more
Kubuhlungu kodwa madoda fundani lingabolala lomuntu ulingana lenganeyakho uyenzakanjani lento lizenza abafana abancani lingamakhehla haaaaaa kulanibo
Ay ubaba wajeziswa nje yena ngengane yakhe
Yooo mtanam kwaze kwaba buhlungu ukube omama wakubonisa isthombe Sababa wakho NGABE akwenzekanga loku😢H I v yooo twana God is able zinikele kuye❤
Lomama waze wawehlisake umoya lomgulukudu owazikhunga wafa nakancan wena girl ungalokhu uzbeka icala ngalento ngenxa yesgebengu
Kwaze kwabuhlungu nkosi yami kubi ukufihlela ingane zethu amaqiniso
is very important bomama yekani ukufihla abobaba!! irrespective of ubaba isima kanja!!
Stuff we only watch on TV,damn 💔
Umama uthi kundodakazi yakhe,uyile ePMB wafike wabulala ubabawakho,like really,this mother is blaming this poor girl for the death of ubabawakhe obengamazi,loyo baba othathe iadvantage of a young gal who was in desperate search for her dad.Usisi uyesaba nokuya ekhaya ngoba uthi umawakhe ungumuntu onomoya ophezulu,in this situation,the mother needs to be the calmest coz she is the reason why her daughter has gone thru this pain.
Nathi safihlelwa kumanje nje asibazi obaba bethu 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Lobaba uhlukumeze abantu besimabe abaningi umangicabanga ngihlanganisa
Siyaxolisa nana 💔 kodwa ungazibeki icala kakhulu wawungazi nomama umuxolele wayezama ukukukhusela🫂
Mawuthi igama Lami 😢 inhliziyo Yami vele cishe Kuma 🤦 ngiyakthanda stufuza 😢
@@thobileshezi4250 cela ungikhulumela Naye 🤣🤣
I'm watching from Lehae (Gauteng)
Gal don't blame yourself blame your father 😠
😭😭this so sad
Nxese sisi don't blame yourself umama kwakumele akwazise ubabawakho
Eish waze wagcola lobaba bawo yhoo heee . Ndiqinisekile ukuba umxelele ukuba uyakuphi and ufuna bani . Wrse uyazazi ukuba unengane awayishiya e mfazi awamithisa gcolile ubaba xeim tjuu .
IZANOZE hlala phezukwe mfihlo 😂😂😂STUFUZA
Ewu isono ...😢😢😢
Yoooooooh angila mazwi
Kubuhlungu shame kodwa for u baba Yi karma.kodwa I respect him I hlazo lakhe limhlulile u ngu baba o hloniphayo may his soul rest in peace
U are not wrong girl your mother was supposed to tell you the truth from the beginning.
Kwanzima uhambo lwaphenduka inhlekelele my girl hamba ocela uxolo emsamo
Mina ngyamsola Lomama uyena imbangela yalento😢
Lwaze lwabuhlungu udaba phola cc😢😢
Yhooooo I feel sorry 4 this child, now she's blaming herself although she wanted to know her father, me to I was going to look out for my father, sometimes as parents we fail, no matter how your partner was, u need to tell the child his or her parent, yhooooo I also feel sorry that u get infected, but God is good all the time, just keep on praying our God is a God of miracles, He can change the situation, He changed the stones to bread, to you mother plzzzzz 4give your child 4 what she did, never meant to hurt u, all the best my child
Phephisa dear uJehova unawe ❤❤❤ lots of love ku dear
Yoooo istrong lengane nkosiyami, ey kwaze kwazwela kimi bakithi
Sincede bawo kwaze kwabhlungu
Inzima ke le kalosisi wamthola kabuhlungu ubaba wakho dadewethu, kufanele uye futhi kubo kababa wakho iyokhulunywa leyo akulona iphutha lakho, wena wawuyofuna uyihlo nje kuphela.
Tjoo kwaze kwabuhlungu 💔😢
This is very painfull😢
Sazesa nzima isimo sakho sisi.
Amanye amadoda akhohlakele😢😢😢
UMama ngathi akanendaba nje kunalokho ublame ingane eyobhidliza umndeni wabantu 🙆🙆🙆🙆
Exactly yilento engiyibonayo ukuthi uMama ublame ingani kodwa nguye ofihlele ingani.
Lo owashada uStufuzarh ngingakamboni mina iNkosi ize umbusise😭😭😭
Cc noma kunjani ngeke akubulale Uma wakho ..iyekhaya kuzondlula
Very sad kodwa yisifundo kibazali bonke
Please 4give urself,it's soo painful,wishing you all the best.am sorry my gal.
Hayi girl ungazisoli ngalonto buyela kowenu kwe family ka Tata bazokuxolela sorry girl ❤❤❤
Mmmh what a sad story 😢 sorry cc
Umama wakukhulisa , uhamba ufunana nesigebengu somgulukudu aii angisazi
Mmmmmm kwaze kabuhlungu lokhu💔💔💔💔💔mmmmm
May God bless n protect u my sister👐👐👐💔💔
Yonke into ngiyayizwa kodwa mina ngithanda stufutufu sam❤inkosasani ezalwa ngu mamkhizey
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 kwaze kwazwela lakimi ayiiibo thixo ijooh yazi umhlaba nje uyesabeka
Mama don't think about yourself now support your child. It is not your fault sesi your father was a predator and cruel. How can he take advantage of a young girl and worse without protection? Take heart sesi may God bless and heal you from inside sesi.
Moral of the story is inyaniso iya sindisa. Uba umama waye thethe inyani kuqala ngeba umntwana akaguli ngoku
Mama uyagula ngobuza umntana lemibuzo nguwe lo umoshela umntana ubom
Mmmhhh kwaze kwabuhlungu😢😢😢
😭😭😭😭 ngicela nisize ingane bakithi
Awunacala wecc omncane ubaba wakho onephutha ngokuhamba emosha izimpilo zabantu emgwaqen and Kuyacaca baning abatheleleka ngenxa yakhe wenza kahle waziphumuza ngob vele besemoshe kakhulu emhlaben
Watching from the United Kingdom of Amersfoort (Mpumalanga) 😢
Cha nomzali unesandla ukube washo ukuthi ubaba wakho u driver Wam’s truck and uyabathanda abantu besifazane wayezobuza kulo baba abuze yena lobaba ngobaba wakhe ngabe batholana khona e trukini before brnze lento naye lobaba angezi azokufuna it’s both parents failed you but cc don’t blame yourself forgive yourself first but you are strong face your mum get trough this matter and move on i wish the best gudluck
Good morning
I just want to give children from single parents to appreciate that single parents do their best to make sure that children are raised well and protected. I was raised by a single mentally ill mom who was very protected even under her circumstances. She will always warn us once, and we will listen. Parents have wisdom from God it does not matter their conditions. Hospital could have given you treat so that you are not infected with HIV, but it is not the end of the road, baby. You can xminuw iving normal life just take treatment. Will keep you in your prayers.
Uyayibona kelento yokufihlela abantwana otata babo.
Akulona iphutha lakhe u girl, the mother was not suppose to keep her father as a secret, umzali was suppose to share the dad and make sure they meet to avoid all this, this gal needs support and back up together with councelling. Askies Ma O you not deserving of this abazali abenze ukulunga ezinganeni zabo
We do not choose our birth situations. Mothers know best and the will always spread their wings to protect their children. Some women were victim of rape to bear a child. Some children were literally denied by their allerged fathers even before birth. There are many virsions and situations women turn to be single parents. For children not to appreciate their situations and run to chase the clout is so sad. Trust your parents because they kerp secrets more than not to protect their children. I applaud you girl for coming out. Stop beating yourself to depression and eventually dying untimely. Your father did nothing to even lookk for you. I wonder how many more children he has deserted? It is not your fault for his death, that according to me he did a good deed yo himself. A real father would have given you a lift wighout even asking to sleep with you because you indicated that you had insufficient money. Stay well and go back to your mother for further hesling for both of you.
Ubaba wakho ufele emanyaleni
Mama akusona iskhathi sojuthethisa indodakazi lezi, she need your support ngoba ebengazi nje ngomntwana ebeyofuna ubaba wakhe
Ngisola mama wengane ngokungahlanganisi ngane noyise, ngobaba wayo uhlala njani nomuntu ungambuzanga nesibongo nokuthi ubuyaphi ekhaya
😢kwanzima holly God 😢
Yingakho kufanele izingane uzitshele iqiniso ukuze zihlale zilazi iqiniso,
Mama syabonga nangokuth ungathethi kuphel uyaveza ukt nakuwe ibuhlungu kakhul lent
She didn't even have a picture for her father 😢 she went through all the trouble of sleeping with a stranger in a quest of finding her only to find out that the stranger is her father this is heart breakingly painful the trauma is for sure unbearable 😢
This so painful 😢
Yhooo phephisa cc kwaze kwabhlungu
Usho ukuthini uMah wakho uMah w ethi wayelazi iqiniso ..naye wahlangana no baba wakho eshayela ama - truck ???? Lenkulumo yalo Mama ijulile...
Kumele umbuze ...oMama abeve benezimfihlo ezisabekayo !!!
Naye umama kusho wamithela kuyo itruck
Eish kubuhlungu esimweni odlule kuso sisi wami, eish ....... ......... ........Eish kwavele kwaphela amazwi angaz Tjoooooooohhhhhh angazi ithiwani into efana nalena
Uxolo hle my baby for what you went through. You were just an innocent child ofuna ubaba wakhe. Yena lobaba I don’t know what to say
Ai kunzima emhlabeni😢😢😢 abazali bethu ngokungabi nalo iqiniso😮😢😢😢😢
Ooooh Jehova 💔 kwavel kwabanda amathumbu
Phephisa sthandwa Sami saze sabuhlungu isimo sakho cc omncane😢, uBabakho wayekhohlakele xem undlulele fth kusho ukth ubenqofoza kwasani abehlangana nayo nxxx. Kwamawakho akenzanga kahle ngokukufihlela iqiniso