How To Stop Being Offended

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  • How to Stop Being Offended
    Offense is a trap and the bait of satan. Being offended can keep you bound by satan and limit you from fully living out your calling in Jesus Christ.
    Learn how to avoid offense and how to help those who struggle with constantly being offended.
    Chapters
    0:00 Definition of Offense
    1:33 Offense Is A Trap
    4:16 Offended People Are Entitled
    7:10 "It's Not Fair"
    9:42 The Ego
    11:05 Desire to Follow Jesus
    12:35 Deny Self
    13:39 Enduring Hardships
    14:45 Deal With The Root
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Komentáře • 770

  • @vladhungrygen
    @vladhungrygen  Před 3 lety +52

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    • @letisialove8158
      @letisialove8158 Před 3 lety +3

      As someone in leadership myself, this video really hit me. I’ve been in a situation lately where I noticed that I’m not humble. I need to learn to listen more than speak and give my hurt to God to heal. God bless you and your ministry

    • @sandrayates7525
      @sandrayates7525 Před 2 lety +2

      Hmm, i literally said to my husband THIS morning, so and so has offended me because of x,y,z. Father forgive me. I am not an offended person. Amen

    • @moonlily9322
      @moonlily9322 Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much for making this video. You really opened my eyes to the many ways the enemy attacks us. I never knew that Jesus was disrespected by his followers. I always thought he was respected. As I was growing up my parents always taught me to be respectful to everyone especially your church family and that your church family should also be respectful too. So when I was growing up i was always disrespected by my friends. So when it came to my church family I too was being disrespected by my church family. I was always left confused, hurt and wondering why. But now I know and I couldn't be more thankful to you for making this video and to God for leading me to this video. Once again thanks 😊

    • @sulivel
      @sulivel Před 2 lety

      Can you make a video about why go to church specifically?

    • @katiesue4983
      @katiesue4983 Před 2 lety

      Please pray for my sister LaRee she has chronic pain thank you
      Excellent word

  • @thesinglehomemaker
    @thesinglehomemaker Před 3 lety +450

    When I got offended recently, I knew it was a trap! I was ready to isolate myself, cut off great friends, etc. offense will separate you from the blessings of God.

    • @wandabarett8341
      @wandabarett8341 Před 2 lety +2

      But what you do. Like you don’t said nothing but you still bitter.....

    • @nd5248
      @nd5248 Před rokem +1

      And in the end what did you do

    • @thesinglehomemaker
      @thesinglehomemaker Před rokem +7

      @@wandabarett8341 I’m actually NOT still bitter. Don’t accuse me or put anything on me. That’s actually witchcraft goodbye tho ☺️

    • @thesinglehomemaker
      @thesinglehomemaker Před rokem +4

      @@nd5248 I did what the Bible said to do. Maybe y’all should read it.

    • @wandabarett8341
      @wandabarett8341 Před rokem +2

      @@thesinglehomemaker hey I don’t know what are you talking about. I think I was replying to someone else. That’s was mixtake. I think I was replying to someone else and I did to you. By mixtake

  • @jgallas25
    @jgallas25 Před 3 lety +336

    The Lord has delivered me from the demonic spirit of offense. Praise God.

    • @timmyloveschrist9113
      @timmyloveschrist9113 Před 2 lety

      🙏

    • @giovannaloureiro175
      @giovannaloureiro175 Před 2 lety +3

      How it was? Can you share your storie?

    • @freshliving4199
      @freshliving4199 Před rokem +7

      @@giovannaloureiro175 Another person cannot make you offended.
      An offense is something woken up that’s already inside of you.
      Offense is you judging someone which is you playing God which separates you from God.
      To understand this is to be free from it.
      That’s also why a true Christian cannot be offended.

    • @dmech7171
      @dmech7171 Před rokem

      There's no such thing

    • @dmech7171
      @dmech7171 Před rokem

      Lmao

  • @hopeandunderstanding9226
    @hopeandunderstanding9226 Před rokem +30

    “There are forces of darkness that are using the offense to entice you into characters and habits that are not In line with God’s word” that was an eye-opening thank you!

  • @maanghangnasabaw
    @maanghangnasabaw Před 3 lety +229

    What struck me is that offended people usually demand respect.
    Anything that the devil can do to take our eyes of God by looking at men.
    Deny yourself. Not develop yourself. Inevitably, denying oneself develops ourselves.
    We need to improve carrying our cross.
    We are here to serve God, not to be honored by people even if we want it. Our focus should be to serve God.
    Pride is like fingernails we need to trim every so often.
    Thank you Pastor Vlad. The teachings are gold!

    • @julietruesdell.371
      @julietruesdell.371 Před 2 lety +5

      This is why it's so important to do unto others as we want done to us...we think everyone enters in with these same boundaries when someone hurts us, but woe...how easy it turns into a battle...we are warring against the spiritual darkness..

    • @bejaphet
      @bejaphet Před 2 lety +2

      Amen

    • @jennyrose9454
      @jennyrose9454 Před rokem +2

      True! Nothing anyone can do to us is worse than how we offend God and God forgives us.

    • @DA-jw4lx
      @DA-jw4lx Před rokem +2

      Yup, let go of that pride people, let go.

    • @nancyangelicabello4898
      @nancyangelicabello4898 Před rokem

      Very well said.

  • @laurenjeannesteyn
    @laurenjeannesteyn Před 3 lety +68

    Your spiritual life can only go as far as you are not offended! Yes yes yes!
    Oh Lord come and search and heal my heart!

    • @stephanieCl
      @stephanieCl Před 2 lety +4

      Yes and it’s our soul . We need to pray like Davies psalms 142:7 “
      Free my soul from prison, that I may praise Your name. The righteous will gather around me because of Your goodness to me.

  • @phoebemendoza3008
    @phoebemendoza3008 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Praise God for this clarification.
    Jesus himself have gone through brutal confrontation, insults, and mockery.
    Yet He didnt fight back and focus on HIS purpose to serve, save, and heal the lost.❤

  • @stephanienorris3959
    @stephanienorris3959 Před 2 lety +60

    "Ego is like your fingernails that need to be trimmed daily" SO GOOD!!!

  • @manileesanguelid1081
    @manileesanguelid1081 Před 3 lety +91

    ♥️♥️I used to be offended everytime, that I knew there's no one, wants to talk to me, but thanks God I overcome it..

    • @coressh5967
      @coressh5967 Před 3 lety +6

      Amen mama
      When we change ourselves, we become free in Jesus mighty name

    • @tinasantiago4248
      @tinasantiago4248 Před 3 lety +6

      Amen. Praise the Lord for your testimony. It is refreshing to hear honesty.

  • @bplove1300
    @bplove1300 Před 3 lety +214

    My sister inlaw kept offending me at times i just wanted to punch her in the face, lol. But i love the Lord and had to let alot things go and forgave her everytime, it gets better. The more i read bible and pray the more i grow. ❤️❤️❤️ P.s the more i give her love the more she stays away from me. If she want the Lord in her life she will change, and i will be there for her. 😊

    • @JadieBrass
      @JadieBrass Před 3 lety +11

      🙌🏽Glory be unto YHWH!! I need to do that with my brother-in-law.😅

    • @thelordsportion1273
      @thelordsportion1273 Před 3 lety +3

      I mean want to punch them in the face. Lol!! Please Forgive me Lord🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @l.s.c.iamachildofgod.2592
      @l.s.c.iamachildofgod.2592 Před 2 lety +3

      I am feeling that right now not sis in law though , it's my friend . But God is good. ❤️

    • @Christy_Shongwe
      @Christy_Shongwe Před 2 lety +1

      💞

    • @bplove1300
      @bplove1300 Před 2 lety +7

      Update, lol i am still forgiving her for the past. And she is now out of my life physically now i am busy getting her out of my spiritual life. It is not easy, because i never really thought the devil could use people like that. But i trust in God. Thnk you for your likes and comments. It is good to know i am not alone. ❤️❤️

  • @crysty2456
    @crysty2456 Před 3 lety +117

    I am currently battling offence and I really need to get rid of it.. I am an OVERCOMER 💪 in Jesus name! I speak freedom from offence! ♥️

    • @kristinabrahams5399
      @kristinabrahams5399 Před rokem +6

      Pray and say out loud that you choose to forgive this person (say there name) and then (say what your forgiving them for) to get it out of your heart and then repent of any unforgiveness or offence or bitterness or all! What ever is needed and then ask God to heal your heart and take the pain and then ask for grace, mercy and love to fill your heart ❤️ and bless the person your forgiving 🙏

    • @kristinabrahams5399
      @kristinabrahams5399 Před rokem +3

      Sorry I just realised this comment was a year ago! Your probably already free

    • @DaughteroftheKing...
      @DaughteroftheKing... Před rokem +3

      @@kristinabrahams5399 I am taking your comment though as I am dealing with this matter of offence

    • @smilak1794
      @smilak1794 Před rokem +2

      Amen.

    • @birdy3918
      @birdy3918 Před rokem +2

      Amen.

  • @fna3033
    @fna3033 Před 2 lety +83

    Thank you Lord for this short teaching, and thank you pastor Vlad!
    This opened my eyes to see that:
    1. I was more offended than I was willing to admit.
    2. Though the offense was justified, it was causing my character to not be like Jesus.
    3. The offense was taking my eyes off Jesus.
    Thank you for the tips, by God's grace they will be applied.

  • @cheskablaire8498
    @cheskablaire8498 Před 3 lety +65

    I remembered John Bevere's "Bait of Satan" book, and it awakened me from an offense that I used to hold against a family member for years. Now we are reconciled in Christ. Glory to God for these preachings! Glory to God for His amazing Word! Indeed, offense is a TRAP! Choose to avoid causing offenses!

    • @bejaphet
      @bejaphet Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you for the book recommendation🤗

    • @varushamoodley5538
      @varushamoodley5538 Před rokem +1

      Hi I read this book powerful annoined n so much revelation,need to read it again,I do recommend it to any1 with a spirit of offense

    • @alexzarycka8016
      @alexzarycka8016 Před 11 měsíci

      I have that book. I need to read it for sure. A good book for all Christians

  • @mydalles8898
    @mydalles8898 Před 3 lety +24

    I work in a spiritually dark place. Sometimes my employer is unfair and as an unbeliever doesn't always do what is right. Yesterday I was so frustrated, I felt like I wanted to quit. I needed to hear this. God put me there for a reason, it is not just to make money. This inspires me to want to go from entitled to entrusted ❤️🙏

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Před 2 lety +2

      Dear, you are the salt of God in that work place, you need to do something. It would help if you would get up earlier every morning and pray submitting your employer to the authority, government and obedience to the Lord Jesus Christ. Ask the Father to send warrior angels to bind in him the entire hierarchy of spirits that operate in him, to confine them to his belly (so that his mind can think properly).Proclaim that Jesus Christ is God and rules in that workplace. He is the highest authority. Bring that person to the Presence of the Lord in prayer, and ask Him to teach you by His Holy Spirit how to pray for him! what to bind, what to set loose, what to uproot, what to plant in his heart; to give you wisdom in your daily relation.

    • @alotusoul2839
      @alotusoul2839 Před 2 lety

      @@GladysRWhite Thank you for this. Everything you shared is confirmation as to why I’m at a job I never imagined I’d be at. Especially when you mentioned being SALT! Amen 🙏🏼

    • @Prin_Cess_007
      @Prin_Cess_007 Před 6 měsíci

      Believers can do worse.

  • @cadenatoe471
    @cadenatoe471 Před 3 lety +5

    Watching this video for the 3rd time and I know for sure I have a demon of offense. I am a suicide survivor, a complete miracle from God. Hallelujah🎉 but I am dealing with rejection, offense, and unforgiveness, it’s been making me bitter and blocking me from my ABBA! I don’t know how your going to do it Jesus but I believe and have faith that you will help me remove this so I can step into and fulfill my assignment and destiny serving your people and operating in love! God you are the potter and I’m sorry your clay is dry, god throw water on me and make me moldable again, deliver me in Rightesnous and cause me to escape. I want to be the spotless bride you are coming back for😩 fill me with your Holy Spirit, God whom vengeance to , I worship you and give you the highest praise! ALL GLORY AND HONNOR AND POWER BE UNTO THE LAMB!

    • @karinsvanback7497
      @karinsvanback7497 Před 2 měsíci

      I agree. I am a complete miracle from God as well. He changed us perfectly to the better. We are brothers and sisters in Jesus!

  • @Dreas_Redpumps
    @Dreas_Redpumps Před 2 lety +9

    This morning at work I got a little upset at a staff meeting. Firstly I work front desk at a doctors office and it’s not the ideal job for me..I’m not a public person. Secondly, I use to be the person that would be offended and I would wear my “feelings on my sleeves” I just didn’t want to be bothered. God has been dealing with me on this...and I’ve gotten better...This morning it crept back and I immediately straighten my attitude..I could tell people felt my frustration....which is never my intention..this video popped up as soon as I opened CZcams..love the confirmation ❤️

  • @lauremarie558
    @lauremarie558 Před 3 lety +45

    I receive the grace to never be offended. I am free from offence, i receive my délivrance in Jésus's name

  • @oliviaj765
    @oliviaj765 Před 2 lety +20

    So good- "We ask Jesus to make us His servant, but when we start getting treated like a servant... we get mad". So true!!!! Thank you, Vlad, for honestly putting this out. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jaymebisi2946
    @jaymebisi2946 Před 3 lety +56

    The bait of satan
    It’s a wonderful book about offense. So good!
    Every Christian must learn to not be offended.

    • @elisekirby4303
      @elisekirby4303 Před rokem

      Yes yes, i agree, Bait of Satan by John Bevere is a wonderful deep dive into how Satan uses it to divide us and explains very succinctly how to approach/handle offended when they come. Pastor Vlad did an amazing job of covering this topic so thoroughly in 15 mins! 😊❤🙏

    • @dirkwiegmann3753
      @dirkwiegmann3753 Před rokem

      John Belvere's Masterpiece

    • @estelleschneider9033
      @estelleschneider9033 Před rokem

      What you need to realize is Satan can know when God is getting ready to promote a soul..
      God allows for our good as God did in Job..for Satan can do nothing without God's permission...to try us..
      We must recognize offense..and cast it down Continuously..
      Often things happen..and in my life..actually situations did nit realize I was upset or offended..the devil 😈
      Is a person..enemy..coming to steal, kill, and destroy....
      Using offense..obey God..
      Isaiah 1:18-19 KJV
      TRUE

  • @aliciaparker2362
    @aliciaparker2362 Před 3 lety +61

    I need prayer, I need to handle people, that treat me unfair. Treat them the way God wants me to treat them. Ego needs to be trimmed! Thank you for this teaching. Bless you!

    • @_riiyaahdag9779
      @_riiyaahdag9779 Před 3 lety +1

      Praying for you

    • @hartmanbeyl8933
      @hartmanbeyl8933 Před 2 lety

      You and me both

    • @Prin_Cess_007
      @Prin_Cess_007 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Yes, but at he same time the Bible doesn’t tell us we need to hang out with these people. Laban kept taking advantage of Jacob, and Jacob and his family left.

  • @7iscomplete818
    @7iscomplete818 Před 6 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤so much truth. Heard but truth. Praise God 🙏🔥. I repent and renounce the sin of offence. Lord deliver me for every offence in Jesus name 🙏

  • @thatotsautse344
    @thatotsautse344 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank You Father for this teaching, forgive me Lord for ever allowing myself to be offended. Blood of Jesus wash away the spirit of offence in my life. In Your Mighty name I pray

  • @sarathguttikonda4065
    @sarathguttikonda4065 Před 3 lety +22

    I used to be offended when my friends left me when I was suffering from depression and Thanks to God I was saved now This message teaches me lot . Thank you Pastor Vlad

  • @cathydaniel1228
    @cathydaniel1228 Před 3 lety +2

    DEAR MAN OF GOD PL DO PRAY FOR ME TO BE DELIVERED FROM ALL DEMONIC BONDAGES.

    • @vladhungrygen
      @vladhungrygen  Před 3 lety +2

      Please summit your prayer request:pastorvlad.org/prayer/🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @gmltoldchannel
    @gmltoldchannel Před 2 lety +16

    The biggest thing I took from this teaching is point #3 because I knew that me being offended by a specific person was so intentional by the adversary and it’s attached to my current season of calling. Even the word “call/ed” is a word God has been using to pour into me these past few weeks.
    Thanks for this video: I don’t understand why I am struggling with the spirit of offense but I knew the adversary has a foothold in my life. This video gave me the tool I need to continue seeking God about this season I am in

  • @kcdw3495
    @kcdw3495 Před 2 lety +5

    "Do you desire to follow Jesus or do you desire to have followers?" Wow! Amen. Praise God. What a word!!! God bless you all.

  • @floaretudorache9287
    @floaretudorache9287 Před rokem +2

    The more I forgive the more peaceful I am, its hard not to feel offended when the person next to you lock trust , constantly lying twisting and everything it comes with it . I’ve been praying to God to transform me because I tried and tried not to feel offended it works at times I just want to not to be offended at all . Pastor Vlad help

  • @chandrawhitman5389
    @chandrawhitman5389 Před rokem +3

    I had no Idea that being offended was a trap. As I sat here in my chair listening to this I was trying not to cry I could feel my eyes tear up

  • @pward8723
    @pward8723 Před 3 lety +10

    Vlad! You are spiritually gifted! More Christian leaders need to do what Vlad is doing, WHATEVER he is doing, so that God can take them deeper into an understanding of the influences of our nature, the demonic influences, and how God made us to cast out negative things! There is SO MUCH SPIRITUAL MEAT HERE!!!

    • @vladhungrygen
      @vladhungrygen  Před 3 lety +2

      T🙏hank you

    • @pward8723
      @pward8723 Před 3 lety +2

      @@vladhungrygen SERIOUSLY! I don’t know of any churches that preach the way you do. Can you please tell me something? Who else in the Bible preached with fire and full of the spirit the way you and Isaiah do?!!

    • @PapaSeed
      @PapaSeed Před rokem

      @@pward8723 Jesus

  • @eoinbrennan3949
    @eoinbrennan3949 Před 2 lety +12

    I'm guilty of these. Thanks for making this video. The holy spirit has convicted me recently for my holding offences. I've seen it in others and it's ugly, imagine then seeing it in myself.......shocking. I give thanks to God for drawing me out of the darkness of offences.

  • @ChangedandChosen
    @ChangedandChosen Před 10 měsíci +1

    I neeed this. Lord deliver me from the spirit of offense in thr name of Jesus. Expose the roots 🙌🏽

  • @HeldbyanAngela
    @HeldbyanAngela Před rokem +7

    I cannot tell you how timely this was. This showed up in my feed one year after you posted it (you posted it long before I ever knew of you), and just minutes after I became so offended by something my Mom said to me about an issue I had with church leadership, it made me not want to continue to attend church. I hung up the phone very hurt and offended, and immediately prayed that God would humble me and not let me use this to feel sorry for myself or let it put a wedge between me and God. And then God put this year-old video in my feed for that reason. Well...algorithms put it there, too 😊 but God used the algorithms. Praise Him.

  • @sizz.6129
    @sizz.6129 Před 3 lety +1

    The good Lord help me, I'm an offended person due to my childhood. I hate falling for the same bait of offense.
    I'll be praying for others who want to be free from this stronghold so we all walk in freedom 🙏

  • @truthseeker6410
    @truthseeker6410 Před 3 lety +25

    Good word Vlad, In my early years in the kingdom. I walked in the Spirit/love and fought of offense often. Later in life, I found out I needed deliverance and now the torment makes it so hard to not get offended with people. I keep reminding myself His grace is sufficient.

  • @catherinecatherine8990
    @catherinecatherine8990 Před 3 lety +3

    Im under that 5th category ~ i was born under A manipulating; controlling parents my mother especially bec my dad works abroad yearly , toxic abusive , irresponaible parents ~ who are lost or in bondages of irresponsibility issues ,emotionally both unstable ~ theyre being ruled by hate of others relatives even thou has nothing to do with them ; esp my dad looking down too much on my mothers family comparing his family clan & sisters is a lot better than my mothers side clans etc..( that i just learned after me get born again on my adulthood life recently that HE is in bondages of pride of this world his glory is his shame toomuch earthly minded ) --
    that 5th or last type of offense is exactly iam 100% & more of Pastor vlads descriptions~ & until now iam still facing this spirit realm war zone field of Demonic offenses Unjust / unfair treatments from other people around me - esp. from my own younger siblings next to me of whom my mother brain poisoned of not respecting me as an eldest child daughter of her after my mother herself abuses me since my age at 10yo.. As she play gambling daily night& day & left me & my baby siblings alone at home & never saw her stayed home from my childhood days growing up to highschool days till i graduated , Bec it was my grandma who took care of me since birth- & was just returned back to my parents for schooling ~ & the rest was all traumatic tormenting fearful life i had as a young child growing up like a nanny in my own house hold that is like hell oppressed suppressed entire life of mine ~that causes me to have deep beyond my control depressions from within me ~emotional or mental breakdown should i say ; little did i know i was consumed of my whole life , maybe why i got being a single lady still at this age of 46 ~ & no kids yet~ my own family roots became the major contributing factor ~
    But more importantly~ im now with God's household of Christ in my SPIRIT as my only sense of belongingness and HIS call purposes of me my life from our FATHER in heaven ; ~ the battle in the Spirit goes on & on till i made it to my finish line of my race which ia the 2nd comeback of Christ returns RAPTURE here on earh~ werefore i must become RAPTURE ready daily ~in Christ Jesus forever amen!!!

  • @joleedelgado1139
    @joleedelgado1139 Před rokem +1

    God had showed me something one day while I was praying. Everybody wants a pulpit but they fail to see that they already have a pulpit. Their pulpit is in their homes, their workplace, at the grocery store where they shop, or any place they go. So many missed opportunities because they seek attention not His will.

  • @austinshermeka
    @austinshermeka Před 4 měsíci

    This blows my mind. I left my church home because they said I couldn't be on their worship team. I felt like I didn't fit in. I was completely blind.

  • @refinedremnant
    @refinedremnant Před 3 lety +22

    Yes this is right on time! I allowed myself to get into an argument with a representative on the phone after I kept calm about her rudeness. But after she went to arguing I went it too. I am the customer( I thought)... my mom said to allow her to fuss.... I kept arguing. When she put us on hold, my mom said the humble tastes the grace... I did not argue anymore, Holy Spirit told me to apologize and ask for forgiveness, bc Satan would not tell me to do that hindsight. But I did not do it... I am convicted bc I fell into the trap. God forgive me.

    • @carolw2733
      @carolw2733 Před 3 lety +2

      Just your confession is enough

  • @Blessedbeyond.
    @Blessedbeyond. Před rokem +3

    This is work as I get so crushed inside when people are mean to me. It hurts me to the core especially if they think I have evil intentions or think any evil of me because I'm not like that whatsoever. I know it's fr 30 years of abuse that begs acceptance from everyone. I only need my Father's acceptance ahe knows and loves me fully. Praise you God change me view when these times come

  • @lizacabrera2511
    @lizacabrera2511 Před 2 lety +4

    The LORD just led me into this video as I know I am currently going through this struggle. I get offended literally everyday by every people I encounter. And as much as I'm trying so hard not to be offended and try to be more kind & forgiving to people, it's just so hard. Maybe there are really strongholds and a root of offense in my life that I need to ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to me. Thankyou Pastor Vlad for bringing light into this topic. This is a huge help especially for people like me who have a desire to be used by God for His Kingdom.

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics Před 10 dny

    I noticed a lot of people i would be offended by inthe last yr were other Christians and I thank God for clarity in this

  • @okgoogleplay3500
    @okgoogleplay3500 Před rokem +1

    "Do you desire to follow Jesus or do you desire to have followers"
    Now THIS is a question!

  • @sandraflores2940
    @sandraflores2940 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you pastor Vlad, I used to be prideful, I’m embarrassed to say that. Jesus forgave me. Please, Jesus help me not to be offended, ever. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Před 2 lety

      Our carnal nature is filled with evil seeds. Pride is one of them. The cross Jesus told us to carry (Mathew 16:24) is to crucify on it whatever arises in us each day. We can pray our Father to please examine our hearts, our thoughts daily, and ask Him to please uproot every seed, plant, flower, or fruit of evil that has germinated in our soil /soul so that we don't sin against Him. Pride is a spirit of satan, our fallen nature replicates it. Consider that our spirit has been born-again, but our soul needs to be regenerated while we are here on earth. We need to work on that with the direction and help of the Holy Spirit, daily!

  • @garytakvorian6204
    @garytakvorian6204 Před rokem

    "You are mindful of the things of MEN". "Get thee behind me".. Wow, great point!

  • @0animalproductworld558

    “The more I am treated unfairly, the more god favors me” Good job! 🐓
    The slaves were blessed 🦃 not the slaves owners 🦢

  • @Mystic_Jawhar_Saaleh
    @Mystic_Jawhar_Saaleh Před 3 měsíci

    Please pray for me to get delivered from the demonic spirits of pride, offence, self-entitlement, big expectations, and whatever else is holding me back from being used by God. Please do pray for me. Bless you.

  • @bradygies9994
    @bradygies9994 Před 2 lety +1

    FIRE FIRE FIRE CONVICTION CONVICTION CONVICTION!!!!! Going to watch this everyday for two weeks. Before each study and devotion in the morning. Not only for myself, but to bring fellow brothers and sister closer to Christ. In these times when lies are called truth, and truth is called lies. Rise up brother and sisters and heap coals upon their heads with grace and love. Whoa a little Isaiah 59. Come on!!!

  • @chanwaiming29
    @chanwaiming29 Před rokem +1

    Sometimes a controlling person is easily to be offended.

  • @somethinggood9267
    @somethinggood9267 Před rokem

    This teaching has me all shook up, if u see this please pray for me my name is Michelle

  • @wandabarett8341
    @wandabarett8341 Před 2 lety +1

    Is hard I’m dealing with that pastor. Pray for me.

  • @MeMe-le5yt
    @MeMe-le5yt Před rokem

    Having a humble view of oneself is the key to not being as offended by things

  • @liscruz7931
    @liscruz7931 Před rokem

    It is one of the tricks the enemy chooses to put people against each other.

  • @teresajoymarquez9375
    @teresajoymarquez9375 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you Pastor Vlad for directing that Offense or be Offended are unhealthy to the body of Christ.

  • @rubyserenity90
    @rubyserenity90 Před rokem +1

    wow this makes sense, i used to be like this, and recently the Holy Spirit has been revealing this to me. When the enemy wants me to perceive a situation a certain way, I discuss it with my husband and he lovingly says "Well did they say that, or did you think that it is what they were saying?" and that made me question why, so the enemy was trying to cause conflict where there was none. I see this now. Thank you for discussing this.

  • @victororefo9231
    @victororefo9231 Před rokem

    Thank you Jesus. I really needed this lord. Help me through this father not to walk in offense but to realize it’s all in the cross i have to carry 😢.Strengthen me Father to walk in forgiveness and love. Amen 😊❤

  • @EarthMamaMsNatural
    @EarthMamaMsNatural Před rokem

    BAM! Right between the eyes! If you have a spirit of offense/bitterness, people will continually offend you. Then you almost expect it and want to be around people less and less. So you are effectively being thinned from the herd which is right where the adversary wants you. It's always about someone else, not me. And like the pastor said, the bottom line is dealing with the original hurt/offense in repentance and forgiveness and then the infilling and cleanseing of Mr. Holy Spirit. This is part of our daily working out of our salvation with fear and trembling before a Holy God. "Father, remove everything from me that is not like You!" AMEN

  • @imsorry3217
    @imsorry3217 Před rokem +4

    Oh wow, this is me all the way. 😅🥺 I'm so glad you released this video. I've been very hypersensitive and easily offended by some motivational videos lately and I've been tired of seeing it so I've been avoiding. I just don't like being yelled at by strangers. It makes me feel small and stupid. 😔 I haven't prayed in a long time now, I need to talk to God in prayer and ask the Lord for help. It's really hard for me....

  • @natc6973
    @natc6973 Před 3 lety +4

    My parents were abusive but I allowed them to be in my life now. Unfortunately, my mother never understood that and keeps manipulating and cursing us denying her responsibility. I don’t know what to do. She never said sorry and she does do it to all my siblings. I want to protect my children from seeing her behavior, don’t actually know how stop it.

    • @RSkywatch444Hz
      @RSkywatch444Hz Před 3 lety +2

      @Elom it’s : don’t cast your pearls among swine. It hard when it’s your parent, or family. Is she saved?

    • @estelleschneider9033
      @estelleschneider9033 Před 6 měsíci

      You are to limit your time with her ( them) who do these behaviors..to forgive is for us...does not mean you are to be in relationship with unrepentant family..abuse..NO!!
      Yes 7 X 77 but
      Luke 17:3-4 New International Version (NIV)
      “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying 'I repent,' you must forgive them.”
      There are times to rebuke a person..if you have been hurt by someone...and cannot stop thinking about it...leave your gify at the Alter and go be reconciled to your brother..
      ( or a root bitterness will spring up and defile you and can become a stronghold...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jilliangray9697
    @jilliangray9697 Před rokem +7

    I needed to hear this today! 🙌 ALL GLORY TO GOD.....something recently happened to me that was so blatantly unfair but this was confirmation to forgive and remain humble.....as I was watching I felt the spirit of offense leave. Hallelujah 😃 I'm believing for too much not to be humble.....Jesus Christ rescued me from TOO MUCH not to allow his heart to operate through me in this situation. Praise God.

  • @Abigail56V
    @Abigail56V Před rokem

    Stay where Lord placed you!! Don't leave!! Don't give up ground!!!

  • @marylove5502
    @marylove5502 Před rokem +1

    We should be grateful and thankful even if we just get to take the trash out or just holding the door open for others

  • @miss.l.c.minister
    @miss.l.c.minister Před 3 lety +14

    Excellent excellent teaching

  • @desmondtutu161
    @desmondtutu161 Před 5 měsíci

    Wow thank you Lord for delivering me from offence and pride

  • @julietaustria791
    @julietaustria791 Před 3 lety +1

    My church offended me to the point they message me to stop listen to your ministry and others men of God..they input only to me their doctrine some against on what I learned on watching ur ministry..I prayed them to be set free in knowing the truth🔥☝💕

  • @karenrajraj7963
    @karenrajraj7963 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I just realized I was becoming like one of them just recently. Thanks for the correction. God bless you

  • @yvonnet.9377
    @yvonnet.9377 Před 6 měsíci

    I have realized that in recent years of what the enemy does in my life on getting offended. Praise God for helping me. I have not arrived however I am aware especially when I listen to the Holy Spirit guidance. Thank you for the teaching pastor Vlad.

  • @bryantotten2757
    @bryantotten2757 Před 2 lety

    I feel that most of society is in chains of entitlement.May God help us and deliver us.

  • @stephiekashosi866
    @stephiekashosi866 Před 3 lety +6

    This message has been a blessing to me. I love it because it has shown me that there is no reason to be offended and it comes i just fix my eyes to Jesus who is the author and perfecter of my faith.

  • @godlovesyou7684
    @godlovesyou7684 Před rokem +1

    The Lord Be with you forever, Shalom

  • @elizabethking8261
    @elizabethking8261 Před 3 lety +9

    Okay y'all listen to this. I was looking for a book to read today, and guess what book I stumbled upon? The Bait Of Satan: John Bevere. (Which about breaking free from the snare of offense and unforgiveness.) Now I "just so happen" stumbled upon this video. God is trying to tell me something...🤔😅

    • @colleenfilpo4822
      @colleenfilpo4822 Před 3 lety +2

      I stumbled upon this video too. But a lot of people mentioned that book on the comments section, so I’m going to give it a try. Do you recommend ?

    • @elizabethking8261
      @elizabethking8261 Před 3 lety +1

      @@colleenfilpo4822 Yes, I very much do.😉

  • @kennethderrickson8840
    @kennethderrickson8840 Před rokem +1

    Being offended is one of the worse things that you can be as far as opening you up satan. It’s like kryptonite to Superman. It makes you weak and open to be captive by satan. It’s a life long discipline.

  • @jessicajude
    @jessicajude Před rokem

    Please pray to remove spirit of offense, gluttony, laziness!!! Thank you ❤😊

  • @amorsustiguer2349
    @amorsustiguer2349 Před 3 lety +7

    Hallelujah 🙌 Realizations and revelation from God 😭 Oh help me God!

  • @irinanikole3181
    @irinanikole3181 Před rokem

    You have no idea how I needed this word, totally for me. Satan wants to get us into a trap. Lord help us, break us to be humble.

  • @julietruesdell.371
    @julietruesdell.371 Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you so much pastor...I needed this right now in my life! It's so hard choosing to love a Jezebel spirit and I find it so hard to stop demanding respect..I know it's 💔 because it falls on deaf ears...I thank you for saying, "Do you want to follow, Jesus, or have followers?" So true...keep the focus on Christ because they are watching us anyways...HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL GOD'S CHILDREN!

  • @jacklinenyanfor1813
    @jacklinenyanfor1813 Před 3 lety +9

    I just came across this message. I love this so so much. I am the person you speak of. I can't stop listening. I played it over and over again. Thanks for the work.

  • @zanelebawinile
    @zanelebawinile Před 3 lety +17

    Thanks so much for this seasoned teaching. I've learnt that denying myself is an intentional process as well. When I take my feelings to the cross and deny myself🤲🏾🙌🏾

  • @ricajohnson8175
    @ricajohnson8175 Před 3 lety +2

    Has anyone read The Bait of Satan? It’s soooo beneficial with scriptures to back it up ❤️ it’s all about the spirit of Offense

    • @julianalyngdoh3903
      @julianalyngdoh3903 Před 3 lety

      Thanks Jehovah🙏🤗🙏 it really touches me of always being offended.. I will follow Jesus Christ 🙏🤗🙏

  • @katbanas
    @katbanas Před 10 měsíci

    8:11 - 8:38 🙏🏻💕 help me Lord to stay not offended. This is a very timely message for me. Thank you Ps. Vlad. 🙏🏻

  • @karenbressler6187
    @karenbressler6187 Před rokem

    THIS WAS WHAT I NEED TO HEAR TODAY I WAS LIED AGAINST AND ACCUSED AND VERBALLY ABUSED TWO DAYS AGO SO BAD 2 COWORKERS SAID LATER WHY DO YOU LET HIM TALK TO YOU LIKE THAT? Yesterday I called a manager who wasn't there then about something it was brought up and he said we are going to aget it all straightened out Monday so I got filled with fear and wanted to call in sick Monday and I can't afford to do that
    it would also be a lie and it would be worse Tuesday because my boss HATES when people don't come to work. This was NOT A COINCIDENCE I noticed this message now.I shared it to myself and will repeat it several times before going to work Monday. Thanks to God for equipping me with this.

  • @fatmatasattakamara
    @fatmatasattakamara Před 2 měsíci

    We all should all should desire to do what God want . I can't disobey God 🙏

  • @claudiavarghese9247
    @claudiavarghese9247 Před rokem

    Man.. God is so good. I was scrolling through CZcams asking Him to point me towards sth that would help with the offense/bitterness in my heart.
    And this video (WHICH IS A YEAR OLD NOW) pops up!
    God you are so kind.. paused and pondered and repented and surrendered through this whole video.
    Thank you pastor Vlad for surrendering to God, living in obedience to Him and following Him.

  • @Roxyboo93
    @Roxyboo93 Před rokem

    Sooo good is not about us but Jesus 🙌
    If they are praising you its a problem weather your up here or down there God is the one to be praise

  • @llaudelizelizabethtremotch4101

    I keep praying, that I'm not easily offended

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Před 2 lety

      If we have crucified the "self" on that cross the Lord Jesus instructed us to carry in Mathew 16.24, and do what Psalms 119:165 says " Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them."
      Nothing will offend us! We need to be dead for the Lord Jesus to truly live in us and govern our lives!
      When Paul said: It's no longer I that lives, but Christ that lives in me" this is what he was talking about. It does not happen automatically. We must crucify the "self" daily.

  • @amandaurnberg6087
    @amandaurnberg6087 Před 23 dny

    Thank you Lord for sending this message to minister to my heart exactly when I need to check my heart posture. I Love you Father I praise you the glory is yours not mine I will get in line. Thank you for this wonderful word of power

  • @mariadacosta2862
    @mariadacosta2862 Před rokem +2

    Excellent teaching to overcome offensive situations.
    My unforgiveness attitude towards false accusations and rejection by people has made me bitter angry person.
    I need to deal with this problem.

  • @tatianaandtimmoss6581
    @tatianaandtimmoss6581 Před 2 lety +1

    Please pray for me to get delivered the spirit of offensiveness

  • @ricknheidipoteat4901
    @ricknheidipoteat4901 Před rokem

    I think it's ironic the traps say "Victor"...NOT!!! We are the Victors OVER the enemy's traps once we learn NOT to take his bait! 🙌⚔🔥
    Thank you for this truth Vlad, I needed to hear this for myself, He's working on me!!!
    Hopeful in Him- Heidi

  • @lisaphillips5135
    @lisaphillips5135 Před rokem

    I’m not offended, being used and abused in situations that’s not my fault. Hurt is more like it, I said this before, politics. 58 years old, I’ve been in the pit of hell for no reason at all, others prosper do wrong, I do not sin, but sinner saved by grace. Jealousy also. Thank you and may God continue blessing you

  • @kaylainchrist5339
    @kaylainchrist5339 Před 3 lety +8

    This is so good and actually revealed offense in me I wasn’t even aware was there. Thank you, Pastor!

    • @estelasanchez.
      @estelasanchez. Před 3 lety

      Like what? What sort of revelation to offensive did you receive?

  • @olabisiakingbola5557
    @olabisiakingbola5557 Před rokem

    When you say "God I want to serve you", get ready to be treated like a servant.

  • @milagrosortega4252
    @milagrosortega4252 Před rokem

    I desire to follow Jesus!

  • @nkd2287
    @nkd2287 Před rokem

    I’m not free, please pray for me, please. No matter how much I keep changing my acts towards someone, I keep being entrapped into the same feelings/thoughts against them. What they have done is soooo minor it’s barely anything but it’s like something inside me just can’t stand their whole being. Unfortunately it’s someone I have to see atleast once a week. I don’t know what to do anymore but I can’t stand them!

  • @jesseflores4717
    @jesseflores4717 Před 3 lety +4

    To God be the Awesome Glory Ty Jesus for the wisdom!!!

  • @jeanw7404
    @jeanw7404 Před rokem

    I'm not going to lie something happen today and was offended... My ego was hurt and wow this opened my eyes... Thank you for this video... I really want to be delivered from this....

  • @LM-cu7gj
    @LM-cu7gj Před 2 lety +1

    I am someone who easily was offended and may still struggle with that at times.The closer i grow to Christ and learn about how he dealt with people it helps me.I know now that when i get offended its more about myself than the other person and thinking people are against me cause thats how i felt growing up.That's not the person God is so that's not how i want to be

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Před 3 měsíci

    Praise God for sending us Jesus Christ as the perfect example of his will on earth! I therefore bind one to be free of offence of all Jesus Christ has teached and stands for while binding to hell every lack of freedom of offence of Jesus Christ his teachings and principles in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone lacking freedom of offence of all the teachings and principles of Jesus Christ, in accordance with this word and matthew 11:6, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

  • @mhonbenibeni4893
    @mhonbenibeni4893 Před 3 lety +2

    Pasror pray for me i need deliverance pray for me to

  • @ashagrace4059
    @ashagrace4059 Před rokem

    I have a desire to follow Jesus
    Amen..

  • @andrewandy6959
    @andrewandy6959 Před rokem +1

    That's a good analysis of looking at offence - A demonic trap. Well said