HOW TO BE MORE POSITIVE... EVEN ON THE BAD DAYS
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I wanted to respond to a question I am happy to get a lot...which is how to be more positive! We all have bad days...weeks...years...and have more than our fair share of hardships. But I'm a firm believer in trying to be positive, upbeat, and optimistic even in those hard times! So I wanted to share some of my tried and true tactics for instantly boosting your mood and feeling better. Because you deserve a life filled with joy and happiness...no matter what the world throws at you!
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If you can't have your own pet, another option is to go to an animal shelter and volunteer. The fur babies there desperately need and want someone to love on them. It's a win/win! ❤️
It's so wonderful that you mentioned this. My husband and I are volunteers, rescuers and fosters and like you mentioned there are SO many homeless animals in desperate need of love and attention :(
@@lauraacanas Thank you. And thank you for all you and your husband do for the babies. We also rescue and foster, so I know what a rewarding, sometimes exhausting task it is. Heartbreaking, too. I ugly cry every time one of them goes to their forever home. It's all worth it, knowing you've saved a life.
@@NissieShay yes, when they get adopted is always bittersweet. I always try and keep in touch with the family ... those adoption updates are good for the soul
@@lauraacanas Bittersweet indeed. We try to keep in touch with the families as well. We made a Facebook page for everyone to share pictures and updates. I have way too many sad stories. Just in the past ten days four of our kittens passed. 💔
I love that about Charlotte, as well. In fact, that's how I found her channel. One of her videos showed up in my feed and her dogs were in the thumbnail. I've been watching her ever since.
@@NissieShay SO SORRY to hear about your kitties!! :_(
You are a light in this world. Thank you, I needed this 💖
I started crying when you told the story of your dad laying down and enjoying the stars.
My life is literally falling apart right now. I really needed this video, thank you ❤️
Charlotte, you are so amazing. So transparent, so truthful, and such a bright light in the world. I needed this. Thank you so much.
Charlotte, you speak to my heart and to my soul with this video. What a blessing you are to so many. I wish I lived closer because I need more of you around me! God bless and keep being your amazing self!
The part about being a martyr really hit home. I think that is such a default attitude and everything surrounding us makes it seem like we should feel like that. But at the end of the day it’s more draining than just being positive and at peace with everything that you do while balancing and just asking for help when you need it. Loved this video and you. One of the best! 💕💕💕
SaskiaMyre YES, exactly!! Thank you so much, love 💕
God bless you for the good you bring in peolple’s life ❤️
Oh My Gosh Charlotte! In My head, you are My perfect older sister and best friend. I look forward to watching you EVERY WEEK 😅. You are honestly such a gem 💎!!! God bless Your sweetest heart! 💗 Thank you for honest and valuable content.
I purposely watched this video in the morning while getting ready because I knew it would put me in the right direction for my day! Thank you thank you thank you!! Great advice xo
I had a negative outlook on my job. CHOOSING to have a positive attitude has totally turned things around and now I rarely have bad work days.
I’m definitely a little happy bubble of positivity in Northern California we are out there we are sisters.
A good way to start my morning! I've been stressed about work and this right here has me motivated to start my day!!! Thank you!!!! ❤️
I love to start my day by watching your videos!
What a wonderful video! I so needed to hear this. In a world that is so crazy and dark a lot of the time, there are people like you that bring light and love into it! Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your light and your experiences with us! Buying the mini guide as we speak! You deserve so much more recognition for your youtube channel and your amazing heart! 💖we all appreciate you so much
Nia G Thank you so much!! That means the world to me 💗
Charlotte, What an incredible inspiring video. Thank you for setting the tone to my day!! Gratitude - It's everything. I think I'll add a Gratitude section to my notebook. Thank you for all that you do. Have a great day!! Grateful for you my friend. Hugs, Robyn
For me it’s my coffee in the morning and listening to my favorite music. I also write poetry. And I have my favorite lotion which I kind of use as aromatherapy. It’s the H2O+ from Disney. My brother a while back gave us a bunch of them from his cruise and I hadn’t really use it, but then went on a Disney Cruise last March and fell in love with the scent. It just makes me smile using it.
Christina 🖊📖 That is so perfect...I love adding coffee and a special lotion to the list! Even better that it’s from Disney! 😍
All I can say is “thank you!” I will be sharing this with everyone!
I loved this video, such a great topic! I'm a survivor of an abusive relationship, and sometimes the most difficult things we go through are the ones that teach us the most about having a positive attitude. Your tips and advice were so on point. Thanks for sharing them!
You are a treasure 💕
I agree. I've had some back issues lately that have caused me a hard time of walking. We take for grant it just the daily things we do until we are unable to do it. I use to walk 1 mile daily and then this happened. It's hard, but I do not take just being able to walk when I am not in pain for grant it. Thank you always for being that inspiration. I know I am normally a positive person, I love being around positive people, because we all need to be. It takes more energy to be mad, angry than to be positive. Love it! thank you again. You are awesome!!!
Tara Barnett Thank you Tara!! I hope your back gets better soon! I wanted to talk about physical pain in this video too (but ran out of time obviously, lol). But I know pain and physical problems can be soooo depressing and hard to stay positive. I’ve had chronic knee pain most of my life and sometimes it’s hard to get out of bed, when you know it will HURT! So hang in there, I know you are such an awesome positive person and can get through anything 💗💗
You are so right. The pain sometimes is so much. Thank you! You are just what we need.
You are such an inspiration! I hope tons of people find this video. Thank you for all the awesome videos you do.
Thank you, I so needed this today. God Bless you!
I just came across your channel and it is exactly what I needed. You are such a great person and I can't wait to catch up and watch more of your videos. Thank you so much!!
Great video C! One of my favorite lines is - We find what we look for 💕💕💕
Yes, so true!
Great Video Charlotte! You are very wise... I love all you do and share!~Dena
Dear Charlotte, I had to stop the video after 5 minutes, just to thank you. I like you so much because you are such a kind soul and your videos, your advises and your balance in life are so inspiring for me! But, from
your videos, I can understand that you are not a simple positive person, your are an aware positive person. I mean, I can feel that your positivity had been gained through a long path, difficulties and sufference. This is so real and this is so reassuring for me. We have so much in common, and I want to say you “thank you for your genuinity and for telling us your inner feelings and your story”. Also my mother has a serious illness, my father has been suffering of depression for years, since I was a child (I am 31 now), and we had so many financial problems. Situation is always so difficult and complex, but I am trying to do my path and to be positive, to be gratfull for events of my daily life, to enjoy the moments I have with my boyfriend and our sweet doggy, and the time I can spend with my family even if in hard times. Positivity is the key of our life. I am only so sad that the persons we love can not always understand it...❣️
This was so beautiful! I can always come back to this. Thank you!💜
You are just a breath of fresh air! Love your videos!
You have a beautiful soul, Charlotte. Thank you for sharing and radiating all this positivity and reminding us of the magic within us!
I love this quote you mentioned: "Whether you want a bad thing or a good thing, you will find it." Definitely going to divert my focus on the good stuff from now on. 😄
Sending love and positive vibes from India. 💓
I love this, in the world we are living in right now, more people need to hear these truths! You are such a beautiful person, who had some unfair situations in your life but you choose to be a positive light in the world, instead of dwelling on the bad! Thank you for sharing!
Your heart is like a true Disney princess, pure and gold! Thank you for sharing your triumphant story. I always try to have a grateful and positive heart and to hear one of my favorite youtubers talk about it, reconfirms my beliefs! I love you Charlotte! 🥰💕🎀
AviatorsGirl Awwww, thank you so much!! 😍😍🥰
Believe it or not, when I feel really down or my head is stressing a lot , I watch your planner videos, they make me so happy!
This is amazing, I’m going to share it with my children & friends. I wish I’d seen something like this when I was younger. Thanks so much for sharing your positivity, the world needs more people like you x
Oh my goodness this vid is the best ever! There is so much in this vid to think about and comment on it would take hours!! To keep it short I am positive you are my favourite CZcams person. I enjoy every vid you post this one though is a breath of fresh air. I wish you could meet my three dogs, I have a chocolate lab and two King Charles cavaliers along with my son and husband are the jam in my life along with you. Xx will watch this again shortly
Wow I never even knew I needed this video! Thanks Charlotte.
This is just awesome, you are the bright light 💡 on my dark afternoon . I love 💕 you x
This is a fantastic video! And something I really needed! I even took notes, so I can come back to the words that really made an impact! And I always watch your videos for a little boost in positivity! Thanks for making great content! :)
Thank you. This video was a blessing on a day much needed! We do forget to be positive and grateful when craziness in life gets in our way. God bless! 😊
As I’m driving to work I get the notification that you made a video. I needed this more than you know. Thank you so much for being such a wonderful person.
Thank you so much for sharing this!✨ So important to be positive!💕
"Don't base your decision to do it on how you feel beforehand" Great advice and so true.
When you were talking but your Dad falling, it made me think of my Dad. He has Parkinson’s and my Mom was out of town. He decided to take the trash can to the curb and he fell coming back. He was there for awhile until the neighbor saw him when they put their garbage out. I live in a different state, so I wasn’t there and I felt so bad for him.
You’re totally right about pets and having both cats and dogs, I will admit that my dogs do help me through my depression. While I’m more of a cat person and my kitties do help, I find that my dogs do more to help me stay more positive. My one dog Hobbes makes me laugh all the time. He is just so happy that he infects the room with it.
Thank you for this video!! ❤️
I really needed this today. I truly enjoyed this video. My mom has stage 4 cancer right now and it can be so hard to see positivity and be motivated in my daily life.
Sending you and your mom all my love!!
I think you have shared that story about your father before & it seriously warms my soul and brings tears to my eyes. Your mom and dad seemed like such a beautiful amazing people and they did a wonderful job raising you.
I loved this video. This has been one of my goals for 2019 (to be more positive) that I've been striving for all year and I literally sat down with a notebook and took notes. This made a difference for me and I'm grateful for your channel and this video - so thank you! You continue to inspire me all the time. Hugs
Bless your heart!!
Hi Charlotte, thank you for this beautiful and much needed message. You have such a kind spirit. I plan to keep this video in rotation. Continued blessings.
Charlotte, this is fantastic. thank you!
Charlotte - you are so amazing. I admire you so much. You work hard to have a happy life, and this video with all of your wonderful tips is so helpful. Bless you, dear girl ❤
What a great talk! Nailed it 😄💕
I am “positive” that you are my favorite CZcamsr!! Love you darling ❤️❤️
Katelynn Dearing hehe awww, thank you love!! 💗💗💗
MILK AND HONEY LIFE no thank you for being you and creating amazing videos! 😘
Thank you Charlotte. I needed this today more than possibly any other day... I one million percent agree a positive outlook is a choice! I try every day to put it out there for myself and my family. Yet my hubby went back into the ICU for the third time in two months last night and the doctors have been so... they keep cautioning me this is probably "the end" and that pessimism has been seeping into me. (I hate cancer so much) I try to focus on how many times he's pulled through and fortify my positive mindset so I can be there for him to infuse him with it. But it was so hard today until I watched this. Thank you for reminding me and helping point out those first signs so I can keep it at bay instead of letting those worst case scenarios run unchecked through my mind.
I'm so sorry you're going through so much right now. Sending you and your hubby all my love!! Hang in there! 💗
You are such a blessing 🥰
Thank you for much for this. This came up in my recommendation today when I started to go back to old thinking patterns. Thanks for your joy and advice!
so enjoyable, thank you!!
When you were talking about the first time or driving, it got me emotional. I used to fuss and worry so much that I would crash my car or whatever that it look me a couple years before I got my permit and now license for the past year. I realized it was all in my head. I can slow down when need be, and speed up when it’s necessary. I haven’t driven where it’s 65 mph though yet. A little nervous about that. But commuting to my college is so easy! I’m kind of mad at myself
Thanks for sharing this, sweety, love n' blessings to you❣️
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OMG this was such a great resource for happiness~thank you for reminding me of all the simple things I can do (that are totally free and in my power to do) to feel AWESOME every day! You are a wonderful person and AUTHENTIC~this is why I come back to your channel. I think my favorite thing was "like what you like" I need that because I like A LOT of stuff too and sometimes I feel stupid (errr...I'm even more grown-ass than you at 48 LOL) and sometimes I think my kids and hubby think I'm nuts but luckily they're supportive. You give me a lot of hope for humanity, girl!! Keep up the good work!
Charlotte I love love love this video! My favorite takeaway is that you said base your decision on how you will feel after - omg life changing!!!! Thank you for all the inspiration!!! 💛💛💛💛💛🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞
Now it makes sense why I appreciate and adore you naturally. The fact that you made the time to create this, share your story AND encourage us to be positive is a solid GOLD win for everyone! So grateful for you and this reminder of the power of intention and transmuting to positivity to lead and live a life of purpose with gratitude. Much Love to you, Nate and your fur babies!! You rock Charlotte 💫
What an amazing meaningful video! Thank you sooooo much !!!
I'm sharing this with the world!!!
God bless you!
Thanks for sharing your awesomeness and guidance. Xoxo we appreciate you deeply. Keep Shining. 🤩🦄😊
Hey Charlotte... I wanted to share... Last January I lost my mom (it's going to be one year in 4 days, cannot believe it), in April one of my dogs stopped walking due to a rare disease and then May thu July my father had kidney failure, almost died and was hospitalized,luckily he is now at home but requires dyalisys 3 times a weekand. And 4 days ago I lost my other dog...my sweet baby. You know how once I a liftime there's a bond so strong and unique with your dog? Well, he was that for me... he was my best friend, my soul mate, he was my rock... He rescued me 10 years ago, but 10 years with the sweetest boy were not enough as he was fine and it was all unexpected ... I'm so heartbroken with everything that happened in just 12 months... I remembered you had this video and thought it was a good time to watch it and try to follow your example... I admire you and admire how you look at life. I know you also had your share of grief and sorrow and still you always find joy in life
You are awesome!! 💗💗💗
If I could walk a mile I would be the happiest person ever. And honestly I always try to find the best in people.
I really needed this right now. Thank you!!! ♥️♥️
i searched “how to be positive” in the twitter search bar and i saw the link for this video! thank you for this, i really needed it. you’ve given me new hope :) truly inspiring 💗
Aww Charlotte well done for saying all your personal past I can see this was probably difficult to talk about. Turning a negative into a positive. To be greatful for what we have and not what we don't have.
Hey...thank you so much for this video, i lost my mum 3 months ago and my father 1 year ago both due to cancer.....i am 30 and my parents were my everything and now i feel so lost so lonely i can’t go to work because i feel that nothing is worth it....and i’ m starting having money problems because i started spending like crazy because i thought if i buy things i can fill this emptiness I’m feeling in my chest.....yeah the thing is i spent so much today i have debt and still feel the same...and having all this bills i have to pay was like a wake up call for me, i have to stop the damage and i found your channel and i’m so happy for that because you’re such light a beautiful person...you gave me faith that things will get better....and you talk about how you budget your money and how to be positive and really need this right now...so thank you so much....kisses and hugs from Nice (France)😘😇
This was amazing and I really needed this today! Thank you.
Everyone needs more positivity in their life. Great subject for you to talk about. I, like you, had a lot of losses in a short time (gma 10/08, other gma 1/09, dad 4/11, step dad 8/11, sister 2/13, dad in law 6/15). I’ve had people ask me how I remain positive when I’ve lost this person or that person or all the people and I have to say I’m grateful I had them in my life as long as I did. I’m thankful I got to know them. And I’m thankful that it hurts to have lost them because of it didn’t hurt that means I didn’t care. The hurt comes from my love for them and I’m thankful for those feelings.
So thank you for this post and giving us (me) that reminder to stay positive and look at the good and to find joy!
So much has already been written that I totally agree with. I've written you multiple times over years how I adore you too. SO I want to laugh at something that came to mind: The Friends episode with Phoebe and her embarrassing RUNNING style. But she LIVES life. You rock always. So much love...
Never change your over the top passion.
thank you for this lovely words👍💕
What an amazing video Charlotte! You are such an inspiration!💕
When I listen to your voice I get so relaxed! You have the most soothing voice!
You are such an inspiration!!! I love your videos soooo positive and happy. You make my life so so so much better.❤️❤️
You have quickly become my favorite channel on CZcams! Thank you for always being a positive spot in my day.
This video is so beautiful. It puts life into perspective. Thank you.
Really needed this video right now 💕 if anyone could use a furry friend to help on their positivity journey, shelters are desperate for fosters right now! There’s nothing more positive and gratifying than saving a life. And you get a furry buddy to keep you company.
You have know idea how much I needed to see this video this afternoon. I’m such a low place right now you really have added a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you x
I love this, thank you for sharing. Sometimes when I get anxiety I always try to focus on my breath and my heartbeat. Simple things like that, which actually mean I'm alive. It's true, being grateful and having gratitude is the key to living a better life.
I saw this quote & love it :
Worrying is like walking around with an umbrella waiting for it to rain ! You are the sweetest 💗
So true, Deni! Love that! XOXO
I’m going through a very hard time in my life. I have to thank you for all the amazing things you say and do. You are truly a beautiful and special person who has been given a wonderful gift. You always know exactly what to say and you are so kind and sincere in the things you say. I would love to be around you all the time because you just light up the world, and I desperately need some light in my world right now.
Awww, thank you Debbie. Sending you lots of light and love!! Hang in there!
Don't have time to watch yet, but I already gave you a like! I love your vibes and you inspire me so much!
Thank you! I haven’t followed you for awhile recently because I had a mini stroke and was in the hospital. I’m fine and like you said I’m so grateful I’m ok. I’m also in the process of moving/downsizing because my husband has Parkinson’s. I think I’ve told you before that my Mom died when I was in my early 20s too and that I found your channel awhile back because of your self care info. Anyway, thank you for reminding me about thoughts of being a martyr and to practice self care. I am normally a very positive person, but lately with the pressure of care taking, taking care of a Grandchildren and the move, I can hear myself complaining. You are a light! I love your pups! Lo in the background was so cute! I lost my two dogs in the past couple of months, they were brothers and were 17, so they were really old, but I miss them. I have several cats and 4 feral cats that we feed, so you’re advice about pets is soooo true! They are a delight!
I’m grateful for all your work on your channel and for you! Thank you!
Hi Annie, I'm so sorry for all you've been going through! Sending all my love! XOXO
I love you for this!! This should be a tag/challenge on CZcams. I would love to see others spreading the same positivity! :))
I’ve been a very negative space and stumbled onto this video, thank you so much❤️❤️❤️I really needed to be reminded of this, thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you (I needed this ) bless you for taking time to empower us with your story very helpful and so uplifting 🙏
I love you and your channel, you seriously are the most kindest and amazing person ever! Beautiful inside and outside. Thank you for another great video. 💗
Right on time, as usual!! THANK YOU! I’m rooting for you, too!!! Please keep your channel going as long as possible!🖤
You are just such an amazing person! It is hard to be positive all the time but a cup half full really makes one get through the day a lot easier!
Thank you Charlotte..I have tears in my eyes..your Dad..lying there. Thank you cause I do the scripting graditute journal - taken from your website ;) this week I'm back with scripting and Gratitude.. Luv you
Hey Charlotte,
You are such a positive person,it really radiates of off you.
I wish there were more people like you.
I will be implementing some of your tips.
So sorry for the loss of your parents.
I lost my dad 6 years ago,and i still miss him.
Im sure that youre parents watch over you and are very proud of the woman you have become.
Thanks for being you.
You are a good motivational speaker and sweet personality
Love from Holland
Shirley 😊
I have watched this 3 times I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart 💓 you are truly such a gem 💎
Thank you! You are such a joy. You make me smile. Have a blessed day.
I absolutely adore this video, Charlotte! I was once in a long relationship with a very negative person and it was just so incredibly toxic. His negativity bled into me every day and I was such an unhappy person. The best self care I ever did for myself was getting out of that relationship and I am such a better (and happier) person now, because I did. I agree about liking what you like and not caring what other people think or say about it, I often get made fun of for being an obsessed Disney super fan as a grown woman, but my Mom told me I was fascinated by all things Disney since before I could even walk, and I still am! There's something magical about that opening credit castle scene in every Disney movie that just fills me with joy and positivity! :)
Love this, Jennifer!! And you are a joy and ray of sunshine everywhere you go, including the Milk & Honey community!! 😍
You are an AWESOME human being!! I am binge watching your videos off late. Just watching them and listening you calms my mind and gives happiness. You are truly blessed. Its fun to plan and organize the home the way you do. Keep posting more videos!! ❤️❤️
This is one of the best videos I have ever watched. So real and helped me feel better. Thank you!
You and your videos me so happy. Never stop creating, you were made for this. Thank you for spreading such light and positivity💖