When you think about it, it's REALLY weird strangers want to know. I can understand asking 1). If you're dating Alexis 2). If you're a trans woman thinking about it yourself. But even if you were the latter there are plenty of other people comfortable discussing it.
@@dante6985hi there, Whilst I understand where you're coming from, I struggle with also keeping my mouth shut too sometimes which is why I chose not to comment online that often, but I do think that as mature adults 'we should have a think before we speak' attitude, even if you're a fellow trans woman like Alexis ♥️ hope it's nice where you are!!
@@bridmcgrath3606 Hey, I really have no idea where you're coming from. To reiterate, and I thought this was pretty clear, my points where: 1). It's weird that people want to know about other people's bottom surgery. 2). I can understand asking if you're dating her or a trans woman yourself (but even if you are the latter there are other trans women who are comfortable talking about it to ask instead). You seem to be insinuating (nicely) some kind of "you should keep your mouth shut" message and I have no idea where that's coming from. I thought my message was respectful and uncontroversial. So... yeah, you might want to make sure *you* understand what people are saying before you reply.
Imagine walking up to someone & asking them aboit their genitals!! How entitled can people be!!! Jeez. Full respect to you Alexis. You've handled a very rude, confronting situation with absolute class. Those people who asked such out-of-line questions don't deserve such grace.
Yes and no. And no and yes. Generally, I couldn't care less. But then there's the discussion of which restrooms, and particularly changing rooms/locker rooms, are transgender people to use. I already hate communal changing rooms (pool, gym etc) as is. But then in comes a "woman" with fully intact male parts and openly changes into swimwear in the same room as the rest of us... That's where the rubber meets the road for many. And that's where this topic, unfortunately, has a place.
How entitled can people be? Picture a fully grown man filming himself masturbating in a female toilet, or competing against women in a contact sport like wrestling and tweeting about taking pleasure in breaking women’s necks and jaws.
Absolutely. And I love Alexis and it's entirely up to her what parts of her life she wishes to share. It's one of those things like sexual orientation, for some reason people are *really* curious about it but unless you're considering dating the person (And Alexis is taken) it shouldn't matter.
@@dante6985you know I don't even think about down stairs. I actually don't want to know. Don't know, its just something that does not come to my mind cause I guess I don't care. It is more about the person for me.
I got my sex change and I have to say it is a very personal and challenging decision to make. And my advice to anyone who’s thinking about getting the surgery is they have to do it for themselves nobody else.
I disagree. If you want bottom surgery, you should get a proper surgeon to do it for you. DO NOT do it for yourself. I'm just having a laugh. I hope you are happy with your choice and your outcome!
@@44LillPuffin what are you apologizing for? They said they had a sex change and it was a personal decision, which is true, it is. Nothing to apologize for.
@@willarcher7929 because every one of these surgeries is "botched" a vagina is nothing like an inside out penis and this person is going to be having medical issues for the rest of his life now. Not only that, because cutting body parts off isn't any physical help, the suicide rate goes back up to what it was before the surgeries by around the 10 year mark, amd no doubt its because the weight of what they have done is finally sinking in and they realise that the surgeries are never making anything better. People are having feces coming out of there wound because of these surgeries. It's diabolical what they are doing to people.
I think you've answered this perfectly, just because you've got the question doesn't mean I'm going to answer because really it's none of your business. You are a lot more polite, so I wouldn't be surprised if people still keep trying to get the answer but stay firm, it's nobody's business but yours.
it’s completely your decision, but the risks are insane, the cost is insane, but not as high as the cost of your health and sanity if something goes wrong. sending love❤
Totally agree with you Alexis, share only what you are comfortable with. I really enjoy your videos because you always make sense and come across as such a lovely person. I'm amazed that people would ask you such a personal question frankly, surely most people would be aware that these two things are something that you haven't discussed so why would they ask? Beyond my comprehension.
I really respect you for putting your boundaries in place and sticking with them. We would never judge you for sharing/not sharing, we just appreciate you for who you are.
I love the way that you addressed this question. You're polite, yet firm at the same time. It is so hard striking that balance. I feel like as women many of us have been conditioned to be people pleasers, and so it can be very difficult to set and enforce boundaries. I appreciate how you handled this situation.
You are such a lovely transwoman. I absolutely respect your commitment to boundaries but also for being such a ray of light in the middle of so much current madness
Some things are private and don't need to be spoken about. It's between you and Liam whether you have the surgery or not. And you don't need to tell anyone who doesn't need to know. Love your channel and how you handle contentious topics. You're a classy bird! ❤
I’m so grateful for finding you on CZcams , hearing your opinions , your personality helped me through some dark times so thank you and please keep shining x
It is NO BODIES business if you did, didn’t or going to. I don’t follow you to know everything. I follow you bc I enjoy your posts. You are allowed to be you & this old Practicing Catholic (57) will still follow your posts! Thank you for sharing what YOU feel comfortable with! 🥰
A good friend has begun her journey. Love her to bits and just want her happy. I love her regardless. Long story short I just wanted to say thank you. I love your content and told her about you. You shine my dear. Elegance and grace. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. For being you.
As a trans female who has had bottom surgery, it's no one's business girl so never feel the pressure to tell no one. In fact, majority of people in my actual life don't even know I've had it and I let them assume. I've always felt that things like this are personal. But people think us trans women don't deserve privacy and they don't believe we have boundaries. I've had to put so many men in their place already. People are nasty and nosy.
All humans deserve to have boundaries and have them respected. Good for you for sticking with it. i think that too often public figures are pressured to the point of giving in.
I've put this one off for a couple of days, because my assumption is that it's not my business. And you are right. Keep being awesome. ✌️ You set boundaries so well.
If anyone is interested in following a mtf bottom surgery check the youtube of Maya Henry, she goes into great detail about her experience with it. . . Some are curious about it and that's ok. It's also OK to not want to discuss it. Love and respect!❤
Wow, that's crazy bold of someone to ask about that. That is no-ones business and I completely agree there's no reason to cross that sharing boundary. Stay firm in your convictions!
Respect and love that you’re making a clear boundary. No matter what you decide on such a personal matter I hope that choice works out well for you. Such a lovely person like yourself deserves all the happiness life can offer.
It's private, it's like some of the talk shows in the 90's. Some of the questions they asked Caroline Cossey the trans James Bond girl and model. I was shocked she handled such personal questions so well.
My Step Mother askes me if my niece has it or will and it upsets me that she keeps asking. I keep telling her that it is no one business except my niece and her partner. Hold your ground on this. We all deserve having some things for ourselves. Much love to you and Liam.
Good for you for having boundaries. It is nobody's business. It is completely up to you to share what you're comfortable with. The audacity of some people thinking they have a right to your personal business.
You have helped so many people - including " non- trans" ( f want of more sensative expression!) by shareing, educating,showing and asking/ reaching out....etc to have more understanding,acceptance n achieve inclussion f others as well! All done with grace,charm and wit! Absolutely no need to divulge any more than what you do! Everyone is entitled to privacy! ❤ N no need t " justify" either!
Good for you!!!!! This is so important- having boundaries and being OK with enforcing them. Why are people so obsessed with other people's genitals and where they put them?? So long as it's consenting adults, then it's no one's business. Keep bringing class back- you are absolutely one hell of a classy woman. I'm a fan for sure!
I feel very grateful that you have chosen to share your journey. You’ve taught me so much and brought me back from a pretty dark place of having to choose between the very extreme sides about trans issues that you see on the internet all the time. No one is entitled to your life or your privacy and it makes me happy to know that you have boundaries you have set and are comfortable with
You are 100% correct to keep it private. I think not only is it a boundary but it's a good example that you can be a trans woman and support and spread positivity on the Internet without it being what's between someone's legs.
I didn't read the description of this and because of your accent (which is very nice) I thought you were saying "bum" and I was thinking are you getting implants like some of the BBL people on CZcams. So good that you have boundaries tho'. I love privacy and support other people's right to privacy.
I am older than Alexis and when I was young, the whole focus of transition was to get to bottom surgery. I always thought that was insane. We don't SEE other people's genitals in our daily life. Honestly, you will interact with hundreds of thousands, maybe millions of people in your lifetime, and only a few will ever see your junk, and that's including the people who change your diaper as a baby and give you medical care as an adult. Your transition journey has to be about A - Resolving your inner conflicts and getting to a place of joy with your self and your body. B - Learning how to act socially in the manner of the opposite sex, and C - changing your body and style so that people around you see the person you are inside. I won't get bottom surgery, not the way it's done today, I don't think the reward is equal to the risk. Some people have done it and loved it, but for me, it's not my choice. Being able to move through this world and be accepted as a woman has always been my goal. I think young people would benefit from hearing the opinions of older trans people, but I respect anyone's choice to not talk about it.
That’s very fair, love your content Alexis you seem like such a lovely down to Earth person and it’s so nice to watch your videos when I need to hear some sanity in this crazy World!
Good for you- people should respect your boundaries. You are so open that common sense should tell viewers you will speak on this topic if and when you want to do so. It is your story to tell or not tell.
I follow quite a few trans folk online and honestly responses from the (nosy) masses are either stupidly personal/invasive, disagreeing with someone using their platform to highlight their journey because its not as easy/accessible for others to access... Or its the narrow minded folk. I follow someone on insta for example and they have folk asking how their bits work 🤦🏻♀️ to me that's just invasive af hell I'd not even ask close friends that and I have the least filter of my inner circle...
I totally respect that. Got to draw the line somewhere. And to have to defend yourself against everyone who disagree with you would be to much for me. I wish you happiness and health.
I would love of you did a video talking about bottom surgery (not yours if you have/will have it, just in general). I've heard some horror stories about complications, regrets, doctors not properly disclosing the risks/making it sound like a miracle treatment/promising things that are physically impossible. Or the inverse, people themselves having unrealistic expectations. And people being left in chronic pain/unable to get sexual fulfillment anymore. Honestly, I haven't my positice about it at all but I feel like trans people are fed a different story
I changed my name after I had a lot of therapy following an abusive marriage. I felt I was no longer the same person. I never say what my other name was. Re bottom surgery- good for you. The weekend is growing crazy and everyone is expected to have no boundaries whatsoever. Don't feed the titillation.
Bottom surgery is a personal thing, if you want to talk about it cool if you don't then cool. I'm FtM and what's in my pants stays in my pants no one other than my wife needs to know. You are awesome and I love following you
Hundred percent agree that it's your business. I'm personally against it because the surgery isn't perfected and talk about one of my trans friends with... Only because she's open about it. If she told me to shut up. I'd drop it.
Too right!! Fsst. No one is privy to that information! Who, in their right mind goes up to someone and asked about what’s going on here their legs? How damned rude!
I have to be honest people can't help but wonder when a trans person, like yourself, is so open about their transition, I guess it's just human nature to ask questions. Having said that I don't blame you for keeping some things private ❤ I love your content, you are a beautiful, grounded woman, I especially love your open common sense ❤ Love to you & Liam ❤
Absolutely no-one else's business. It is outrageous that anyone would feel they have the right to pass any kind of opinion/judgement on something so personal.
Just because someone is a public figure doesn't mean we need to know all the details about their lives ❤
When you think about it, it's REALLY weird strangers want to know. I can understand asking 1). If you're dating Alexis 2). If you're a trans woman thinking about it yourself. But even if you were the latter there are plenty of other people comfortable discussing it.
@@dante6985hi there,
Whilst I understand where you're coming from, I struggle with also keeping my mouth shut too sometimes which is why I chose not to comment online that often, but I do think that as mature adults 'we should have a think before we speak' attitude, even if you're a fellow trans woman like Alexis ♥️ hope it's nice where you are!!
Amen!! People are entitled to keep certain things sacred in their lives regardless of if they are a public figure or not. Good for you Alexis!
@@bridmcgrath3606 Hey, I really have no idea where you're coming from.
To reiterate, and I thought this was pretty clear, my points where:
1). It's weird that people want to know about other people's bottom surgery.
2). I can understand asking if you're dating her or a trans woman yourself (but even if you are the latter there are other trans women who are comfortable talking about it to ask instead).
You seem to be insinuating (nicely) some kind of "you should keep your mouth shut" message and I have no idea where that's coming from. I thought my message was respectful and uncontroversial.
So... yeah, you might want to make sure *you* understand what people are saying before you reply.
@@dante6985 okay well then ur a hater I think her wanting to keep whatever details private is good for her good bye
Imagine walking up to someone & asking them aboit their genitals!! How entitled can people be!!! Jeez. Full respect to you Alexis. You've handled a very rude, confronting situation with absolute class. Those people who asked such out-of-line questions don't deserve such grace.
Sorry, this was a visual that struck me funny!!😂
His name is Boris not Alexis and yes he has big d.
Yes and no. And no and yes. Generally, I couldn't care less. But then there's the discussion of which restrooms, and particularly changing rooms/locker rooms, are transgender people to use. I already hate communal changing rooms (pool, gym etc) as is. But then in comes a "woman" with fully intact male parts and openly changes into swimwear in the same room as the rest of us... That's where the rubber meets the road for many. And that's where this topic, unfortunately, has a place.
@@thekingsdaughter4233Well, if they are doing that, you don't need to ask. You can see it 😂
How entitled can people be? Picture a fully grown man filming himself masturbating in a female toilet, or competing against women in a contact sport like wrestling and tweeting about taking pleasure in breaking women’s necks and jaws.
I think some things should stay private,we all have our boundaries.I think you are absolutely correct with this one.
Absolutely. And I love Alexis and it's entirely up to her what parts of her life she wishes to share. It's one of those things like sexual orientation, for some reason people are *really* curious about it but unless you're considering dating the person (And Alexis is taken) it shouldn't matter.
@@dante6985you know I don't even think about down stairs. I actually don't want to know. Don't know, its just something that does not come to my mind cause I guess I don't care. It is more about the person for me.
@@isabelpark7650 Same. I just don't care. I don't know why so many people do.
I got my sex change and I have to say it is a very personal and challenging decision to make. And my advice to anyone who’s thinking about getting the surgery is they have to do it for themselves nobody else.
I'm so sorry that was done to you. I hope you are OK.
I disagree. If you want bottom surgery, you should get a proper surgeon to do it for you. DO NOT do it for yourself.
I'm just having a laugh. I hope you are happy with your choice and your outcome!
@@44LillPuffin what are you apologizing for? They said they had a sex change and it was a personal decision, which is true, it is. Nothing to apologize for.
@@trublgrlHAHAHA I found it funny 😂😂
@@willarcher7929 because every one of these surgeries is "botched" a vagina is nothing like an inside out penis and this person is going to be having medical issues for the rest of his life now. Not only that, because cutting body parts off isn't any physical help, the suicide rate goes back up to what it was before the surgeries by around the 10 year mark, amd no doubt its because the weight of what they have done is finally sinking in and they realise that the surgeries are never making anything better. People are having feces coming out of there wound because of these surgeries. It's diabolical what they are doing to people.
alexis is the biggest breath of fresh air we all need in the world! we all love you and respect you alexis!
I think you've answered this perfectly, just because you've got the question doesn't mean I'm going to answer because really it's none of your business. You are a lot more polite, so I wouldn't be surprised if people still keep trying to get the answer but stay firm, it's nobody's business but yours.
Nothing but respect to you, Dear.❤
Good for you! Boundaries are important!!
it’s completely your decision, but the risks are insane, the cost is insane, but not as high as the cost of your health and sanity if something goes wrong. sending love❤
Your hair looks beautiful 😊
That's your business to do what you want.. ❤
Totally agree with you Alexis, share only what you are comfortable with. I really enjoy your videos because you always make sense and come across as such a lovely person. I'm amazed that people would ask you such a personal question frankly, surely most people would be aware that these two things are something that you haven't discussed so why would they ask? Beyond my comprehension.
His name was Boris
Forgive me, but I originally thought you meant a BBL! 😂 Got me thinking about how bums are different. But then💡
I really respect you for putting your boundaries in place and sticking with them. We would never judge you for sharing/not sharing, we just appreciate you for who you are.
People be nosey AF😂
thats a symptom from influencers oversharing for a decade now. ofc people are nosey.
I love the way that you addressed this question. You're polite, yet firm at the same time. It is so hard striking that balance. I feel like as women many of us have been conditioned to be people pleasers, and so it can be very difficult to set and enforce boundaries. I appreciate how you handled this situation.
You are such a lovely transwoman. I absolutely respect your commitment to boundaries but also for being such a ray of light in the middle of so much current madness
Some things are private and don't need to be spoken about. It's between you and Liam whether you have the surgery or not. And you don't need to tell anyone who doesn't need to know. Love your channel and how you handle contentious topics. You're a classy bird! ❤
I’m so grateful for finding you on CZcams , hearing your opinions , your personality helped me through some dark times so thank you and please keep shining x
Good for you! I applaud this fantastic! Just adore you
It is NO BODIES business if you did, didn’t or going to. I don’t follow you to know everything. I follow you bc I enjoy your posts. You are allowed to be you & this old Practicing Catholic (57) will still follow your posts! Thank you for sharing what YOU feel comfortable with! 🥰
A good friend has begun her journey. Love her to bits and just want her happy. I love her regardless. Long story short I just wanted to say thank you. I love your content and told her about you. You shine my dear. Elegance and grace. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. For being you.
As a trans female who has had bottom surgery, it's no one's business girl so never feel the pressure to tell no one. In fact, majority of people in my actual life don't even know I've had it and I let them assume.
I've always felt that things like this are personal. But people think us trans women don't deserve privacy and they don't believe we have boundaries. I've had to put so many men in their place already. People are nasty and nosy.
All humans deserve to have boundaries and have them respected. Good for you for sticking with it. i think that too often public figures are pressured to the point of giving in.
I've put this one off for a couple of days, because my assumption is that it's not my business. And you are right. Keep being awesome. ✌️ You set boundaries so well.
You deserve your boundaries just as much as the next person. Stand your ground.
Frankly it's non of our business
You just seem like such a beautiful and sincere person. Your fresh perspective on being trans is so needed at this time xx
If anyone is interested in following a mtf bottom surgery check the youtube of Maya Henry, she goes into great detail about her experience with it. . .
Some are curious about it and that's ok.
It's also OK to not want to discuss it.
Love and respect!❤
Wow, that's crazy bold of someone to ask about that. That is no-ones business and I completely agree there's no reason to cross that sharing boundary. Stay firm in your convictions!
Having boundaries is super important ❤ your hair looks amazing!!
Girl, your life and your business!! People shouldn’t be asking such personal things.❤
It's so refreshing that you set this boundary! I feel that just because you are a public figure, does not entitle people to know everything about you.
Respect and love that you’re making a clear boundary. No matter what you decide on such a personal matter I hope that choice works out well for you. Such a lovely person like yourself deserves all the happiness life can offer.
It's private, it's like some of the talk shows in the 90's. Some of the questions they asked Caroline Cossey the trans James Bond girl and model. I was shocked she handled such personal questions so well.
I’m so pleased that you feel that way - good to have boundaries ❤
My Step Mother askes me if my niece has it or will and it upsets me that she keeps asking. I keep telling her that it is no one business except my niece and her partner. Hold your ground on this. We all deserve having some things for ourselves. Much love to you and Liam.
Alexis, fuck em'. You don't need to explain yourself to the mass of unimportant. Big love x
😂 my kind of person!
It’s so good to have healthy boundaries especially when you are a public figure
Proud of you for setting boundaries and not letting people pressure you. Love ur content. ❤
Inappropriate to be asking personal questions ,it does not change who you are and ,with those of us here love you for being you and being honest 😊❤😢
Good for you for having boundaries. It is nobody's business. It is completely up to you to share what you're comfortable with. The audacity of some people thinking they have a right to your personal business.
You have helped so many people - including " non- trans" ( f want of more sensative expression!) by shareing, educating,showing and asking/ reaching out....etc to have more understanding,acceptance n achieve inclussion f others as well! All done with grace,charm and wit! Absolutely no need to divulge any more than what you do!
Everyone is entitled to privacy! ❤ N no need t " justify" either!
Love that you’ve set your boundaries and quite frankly it’s none of anyone’s business ❤️❤️
Good for you Alexis! It's good to have boundaries
Go you! Strangers get too comfortable sometimes. Also, I think we need a skincare routine. Youre glowing!!
I love that you are stating your boundaries and sticking to them ❤
You are amazing 🤩
Good for you!!!!! This is so important- having boundaries and being OK with enforcing them. Why are people so obsessed with other people's genitals and where they put them?? So long as it's consenting adults, then it's no one's business. Keep bringing class back- you are absolutely one hell of a classy woman. I'm a fan for sure!
Thanks, some things are private.
It really is no one else's business.
Thank you ❤
I feel very grateful that you have chosen to share your journey. You’ve taught me so much and brought me back from a pretty dark place of having to choose between the very extreme sides about trans issues that you see on the internet all the time.
No one is entitled to your life or your privacy and it makes me happy to know that you have boundaries you have set and are comfortable with
You just be you Alexis. That's wonderful enough. Keep your boundaries, what you are or choose to be down there is none of our business.
Love the clear boundaries you establish for yourself and the way you honor them. Your hair is gorgeous!
You are 100% correct to keep it private. I think not only is it a boundary but it's a good example that you can be a trans woman and support and spread positivity on the Internet without it being what's between someone's legs.
Glad you have fixed boundaries. It's no ones business by yours!
I didn't read the description of this and because of your accent (which is very nice) I thought you were saying "bum" and I was thinking are you getting implants like some of the BBL people on CZcams. So good that you have boundaries tho'. I love privacy and support other people's right to privacy.
Good for you! It’s healthy to have boundaries 😊
Your journey is your own! I see you are happy with your transition, and that is all that matters.
I am older than Alexis and when I was young, the whole focus of transition was to get to bottom surgery. I always thought that was insane. We don't SEE other people's genitals in our daily life. Honestly, you will interact with hundreds of thousands, maybe millions of people in your lifetime, and only a few will ever see your junk, and that's including the people who change your diaper as a baby and give you medical care as an adult.
Your transition journey has to be about A - Resolving your inner conflicts and getting to a place of joy with your self and your body. B - Learning how to act socially in the manner of the opposite sex, and C - changing your body and style so that people around you see the person you are inside.
I won't get bottom surgery, not the way it's done today, I don't think the reward is equal to the risk. Some people have done it and loved it, but for me, it's not my choice. Being able to move through this world and be accepted as a woman has always been my goal.
I think young people would benefit from hearing the opinions of older trans people, but I respect anyone's choice to not talk about it.
Can we talk about your hair? It's SPECTACULAR!
As long as you're happy and healthy, that's all that should matter! 🥰 love the videos! 💖
Keeping something private for you is wonderful. 💕
It's good to have boundaries
That’s very fair, love your content Alexis you seem like such a lovely down to Earth person and it’s so nice to watch your videos when I need to hear some sanity in this crazy World!
Good for you- people should respect your boundaries. You are so open that common sense should tell viewers you will speak on this topic if and when you want to do so. It is your story to tell or not tell.
I follow quite a few trans folk online and honestly responses from the (nosy) masses are either stupidly personal/invasive, disagreeing with someone using their platform to highlight their journey because its not as easy/accessible for others to access... Or its the narrow minded folk. I follow someone on insta for example and they have folk asking how their bits work 🤦🏻♀️ to me that's just invasive af hell I'd not even ask close friends that and I have the least filter of my inner circle...
Absolutely agree, thats totally personal to you, and literally no one elses business ❤
Your hair looks amazing! So pretty!
It’s no ones business and good for you drawing a hard line and standing firm. And saying it in such a cheerful way helps. Keep being you
You are STUNNING!
I totally respect that. Got to draw the line somewhere. And to have to defend yourself against everyone who disagree with you would be to much for me. I wish you happiness and health.
It blows my mind that people ask you about it😮
In the lyrics of Mind Your Own Business by Hank Williams, Sr.,
If you mind your own business, you won't be mindin' mine!
Boundaries are so very important for mental health. Hugs hx
Setting and maintaining boundaries is healthy :)
your hair is looking stunning!!
You are simply beautiful. Keep on thriving ❤
No one's business but yours. You are a beautiful woman, and I think you have a wonderful personality, thank you for enlightening the masses.
Hells yes, it’s no one else’s business. Stick to your boundaries. Love it
Yet another example of what a class act you are. Well done for keeping your standards.
It’s no one’s business Sis. I just wish you health and happy.❤
Good for you, boundaries are important .
Your hair looks gorgeous this style and color ❤
They are “ private parts” for a reason and I love that you keep it private! It is NO ONES BUSINESS but yours.
I would love of you did a video talking about bottom surgery (not yours if you have/will have it, just in general). I've heard some horror stories about complications, regrets, doctors not properly disclosing the risks/making it sound like a miracle treatment/promising things that are physically impossible. Or the inverse, people themselves having unrealistic expectations. And people being left in chronic pain/unable to get sexual fulfillment anymore. Honestly, I haven't my positice about it at all but I feel like trans people are fed a different story
Never feel like u have to share more than u r comfortable with!!!
I changed my name after I had a lot of therapy following an abusive marriage. I felt I was no longer the same person. I never say what my other name was. Re bottom surgery- good for you. The weekend is growing crazy and everyone is expected to have no boundaries whatsoever. Don't feed the titillation.
Love a woman with boundaries
Bottom surgery is a personal thing, if you want to talk about it cool if you don't then cool. I'm FtM and what's in my pants stays in my pants no one other than my wife needs to know. You are awesome and I love following you
I can respect that, it isn’t anyone’s business. Wish others would keep more to them self .
Hundred percent agree that it's your business. I'm personally against it because the surgery isn't perfected and talk about one of my trans friends with... Only because she's open about it. If she told me to shut up. I'd drop it.
You are absolutely correct. ❤
I love that you know that for yourself. That shows you are thoughtful which is why I like your videos. You are genuine
❤ Hell yes, let's normalize privacy and boundaries. Alexis with another great pov.
Too right!! Fsst. No one is privy to that information! Who, in their right mind goes up to someone and asked about what’s going on here their legs? How damned rude!
Your hair looks stunning 😍
Brava. Setting boundaries is key ❤
Alexis your hair is GORGEOUS❤
It's no one's business but yours and your partner. You are a positive Trans women 💜
I have to be honest people can't help but wonder when a trans person, like yourself, is so open about their transition, I guess it's just human nature to ask questions. Having said that I don't blame you for keeping some things private ❤ I love your content, you are a beautiful, grounded woman, I especially love your open common sense ❤ Love to you & Liam ❤
Absolutely no-one else's business. It is outrageous that anyone would feel they have the right to pass any kind of opinion/judgement on something so personal.