You're so sweet! Same here. I honestly value all the connections I've made through this CZcams channel so much. Every comment feels like a chat with a (new) friend! Thanks so much for being here 🫶🏽
I feel this SO hard, I actually just went out to lunch with a new friend today and it was so nice but yeah also so hard to do - I'd been procrastinating for months but I'm finally fed up and ready to force myself to socialize - a girl needs friends! I'm actually back in the city I grew up in so I have old friends here, but I need some new ones for sure. I hope we both find our girl groups soon 💜
I’m so happy to hear you pushed yourself and went for the lunch and it went great!! I’m so proud of you 🥹🫶🏽 I completely get you on having to force yourself to socialize - I’m exactly the same! I can sit at home all day and be completely fine but I know having friends will enrich my life even more so I’m forcing myself to put myself out there. Enjoy reconnecting with old friends and making new connections. We’ve got this and I’m so sure we’ll find our people 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I used to think that I was overthinking the whole friendship thing and thinking about it as seriously as a relationship lol but now I know I'm not alone 😄 Hope all goes well for you!
You’re definitely not alone! I’m absolutely the same 😅 I think friendships are so important and the friends you end up choosing can impact your life in such different ways so I think we have to give this a bit more thought as it’s quite important 😄 Thanks so much for the kind wishes and I hope the same for you 🤗🫶🏽
You have a very nice personality. I don't think of me being negative if I am meeting someone for the first time, because I don't know who the person really is.
It IS hard, but worth it! That's why I started my own channel, and I'm learning how much value I have, and it's making it so much easier to have the self confidence to make new friends in person, too! Don't give up, you will find good people all around if you look hard enough❤ And I'm always here, looking for new friends if you wanna start small😊
Woohoo! It's so cool to hear that your channel is not only helping you find your worth, but also boosting your self-confidence and helping you make new friends IRL. If you're looking for a new friend, count me in! We're all in this together 🫶🏽
Gal, i am in the same situation... Just moved from Nairobi to Malindi and let me tell you, solo date will become my thing coz making friends as an adult is so damn hard!!!!
I’m slowly building some good friendships here so it’s definitely possible to make friends in a new place, you just have to find what works for you - whether that’s book clubs, art, going to social events etc 🥰 Good luck and congratulations on your move!🫶🏽
If we do choose to have some friends it's very important that we choose our friends wisely and be careful who we trust and tell our problems to because everyone who smiles at us is not our friend
I don't really have a lot of friends and i have to admit my best friend was my now late mum. We did everything together and she never lied like some people i know 😢
You’re so sweet, thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽 And thank you for being an OG subscriber! You’re the real MVP. I’m excited to try different types of content on here so lmk what you’d like to see from me :)x
Here I am trying not to make friends, people are horrible to be around, I'd rather spend my Days with animals and things to do. If I have friends their problems are my problems, I don't mean unforseen circumstances, I mean their daily struggles and their poor reactions to them. I'll get so involved to help iron out matters they'll consider me intrusive and if I don't get involved as much, 'i'm not caring enough', I'm not antisocial but I've had to learn the hard way that close friends are rare gems. And just like rare gems, they're best when they're found, not made
I hear you and this is a completely okay perspective to have. Our experiences tend to shape our interactions and help us set boundaries in our various relationships (friendships included). I saw this TikTok the other day that was explaining as a friend, if it’s a genuine friendship, you should be able to set boundaries and have them respected ie if you feel a friend is mentally overhelming you with all the stuff they have going on, let them know. If they react negatively, talk it out, explain your perspective, let them explain theirs and find out why. If you don’t have the space to mentally shoulder their stuff at the moment, genuine friends would get it. That being said, it can be challenging to navigate the complexities of friendships and all the emotions that come with them so it’s okay to put ourselves first and focus on our own happiness. We all have different needs when it comes to social connections and it sounds like you’ve found what works for you and at the end of the day, that’s all that matters 😊
You’re in NYC now?! MY GIRL hit me up! Make my hotline bling, that’s my friendship tip 📲 😛 I will say though, I was born and raised here and I get it; it is hard to make connections of any kind because people are just always on the go. Sometimes you become super close with people you work with but then when one of you leaves the job, your bond fizzles out. It’s weird!
Always up for making new friends 😁 Completely get your point and I honestly think that’s just life, not just in NYC but everywhere - people move, life changes, things change etc and we sadly just have to get used to it 🥲
I’m actually really happy, thanks for asking :) Only thing I’m missing is the friend groups but other than that, the energy here is infectious 🥹🫶🏽 I love it here!
It’s easier to find a relationship than a good friend group😂
Over 7000+ languages spoken in the world and you decided to speak FACTS 🤧🤣🤣😭
In my head you are my friend ❤
You're so sweet! Same here. I honestly value all the connections I've made through this CZcams channel so much. Every comment feels like a chat with a (new) friend! Thanks so much for being here 🫶🏽
I feel this SO hard, I actually just went out to lunch with a new friend today and it was so nice but yeah also so hard to do - I'd been procrastinating for months but I'm finally fed up and ready to force myself to socialize - a girl needs friends! I'm actually back in the city I grew up in so I have old friends here, but I need some new ones for sure. I hope we both find our girl groups soon 💜
I’m so happy to hear you pushed yourself and went for the lunch and it went great!! I’m so proud of you 🥹🫶🏽
I completely get you on having to force yourself to socialize - I’m exactly the same! I can sit at home all day and be completely fine but I know having friends will enrich my life even more so I’m forcing myself to put myself out there.
Enjoy reconnecting with old friends and making new connections. We’ve got this and I’m so sure we’ll find our people 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I used to think that I was overthinking the whole friendship thing and thinking about it as seriously as a relationship lol but now I know I'm not alone 😄 Hope all goes well for you!
You’re definitely not alone! I’m absolutely the same 😅 I think friendships are so important and the friends you end up choosing can impact your life in such different ways so I think we have to give this a bit more thought as it’s quite important 😄
Thanks so much for the kind wishes and I hope the same for you 🤗🫶🏽
You have a very nice personality. I don't think of me being negative if I am meeting someone for the first time, because I don't know who the person really is.
It IS hard, but worth it! That's why I started my own channel, and I'm learning how much value I have, and it's making it so much easier to have the self confidence to make new friends in person, too! Don't give up, you will find good people all around if you look hard enough❤ And I'm always here, looking for new friends if you wanna start small😊
Woohoo! It's so cool to hear that your channel is not only helping you find your worth, but also boosting your self-confidence and helping you make new friends IRL. If you're looking for a new friend, count me in! We're all in this together 🫶🏽
Thank you
You're wonderful!
You are so pretty, I wouldn't even own makeup if that was my face! Maybe you're just so pretty inside that it's leaking out❤
That's really sweet of you to say, thank you so much 🥰
Gal, i am in the same situation... Just moved from Nairobi to Malindi and let me tell you, solo date will become my thing coz making friends as an adult is so damn hard!!!!
I’m slowly building some good friendships here so it’s definitely possible to make friends in a new place, you just have to find what works for you - whether that’s book clubs, art, going to social events etc 🥰
Good luck and congratulations on your move!🫶🏽
If we do choose to have some friends it's very important that we choose our friends wisely and be careful who we trust and tell our problems to because everyone who smiles at us is not our friend
I don't really have a lot of friends and i have to admit my best friend was my now late mum. We did everything together and she never lied like some people i know 😢
And good luck on the friend date! Take it all as it goes and don’t get too attached ❤️🔥
Thank you!🖤
Somehow I can’t imagine there being an awkward silence with you! I love your attitude x
been subscribed since before you even had a profile pic & showed your face, missed seeing these amazing videos and youre literally so cool omg
You’re so sweet, thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽
And thank you for being an OG subscriber! You’re the real MVP. I’m excited to try different types of content on here so lmk what you’d like to see from me :)x
She is so cute I love her smile.
Giiiirrrrrrrl it is rough... but it helps when you have so many lifelong friends who love and adore you ❤❤❤
I love you!♥️
Here I am trying not to make friends, people are horrible to be around, I'd rather spend my Days with animals and things to do. If I have friends their problems are my problems, I don't mean unforseen circumstances, I mean their daily struggles and their poor reactions to them. I'll get so involved to help iron out matters they'll consider me intrusive and if I don't get involved as much, 'i'm not caring enough', I'm not antisocial but I've had to learn the hard way that close friends are rare gems. And just like rare gems, they're best when they're found, not made
I hear you and this is a completely okay perspective to have. Our experiences tend to shape our interactions and help us set boundaries in our various relationships (friendships included).
I saw this TikTok the other day that was explaining as a friend, if it’s a genuine friendship, you should be able to set boundaries and have them respected ie if you feel a friend is mentally overhelming you with all the stuff they have going on, let them know. If they react negatively, talk it out, explain your perspective, let them explain theirs and find out why. If you don’t have the space to mentally shoulder their stuff at the moment, genuine friends would get it.
That being said, it can be challenging to navigate the complexities of friendships and all the emotions that come with them so it’s okay to put ourselves first and focus on our own happiness. We all have different needs when it comes to social connections and it sounds like you’ve found what works for you and at the end of the day, that’s all that matters 😊
You should do a detailed make up video especially for the eyebrows.Big love over here
I can definitely do an eyebrow video for you! :) will try film that soon
Hope you Coffee date went well. You Will find you People in due time. All the Best ❤
It went amazing! Thanks so much 😊 and you’re definitely right, I’m slowly finding the right people 🫶🏽
You’re in NYC now?! MY GIRL hit me up! Make my hotline bling, that’s my friendship tip 📲 😛
I will say though, I was born and raised here and I get it; it is hard to make connections of any kind because people are just always on the go. Sometimes you become super close with people you work with but then when one of you leaves the job, your bond fizzles out. It’s weird!
Always up for making new friends 😁
Completely get your point and I honestly think that’s just life, not just in NYC but everywhere - people move, life changes, things change etc and we sadly just have to get used to it 🥲
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Heeeey!👋🏾 How are you doing??
Hi 🙋♀️
@@SpecsAppeal I hope you are doing well!! 😊
@@FashionWizardry I'm doing awesome; can't complain. What about you? How are you and how have you (really) been since your move?
I’m actually really happy, thanks for asking :) Only thing I’m missing is the friend groups but other than that, the energy here is infectious 🥹🫶🏽 I love it here!
Very rough
Ikr??😭😭