@@dtschuor459 Raising your own child is different from being raised with a sibling. What you said would work better if she was raising the little sister but she isn’t.
I remember my quince, my little sister who was 3 at the time had the same dress as me and she was jumping around saying “we are princesses” I will never forget that day 😭
I'd bet that your parents told her what the event was and made being allowed to match you feel special. This video looks to me like a spoiled little girl who thought she was gonna be the spotlight realizing that her older sister (who does not look particularly excited either, wonder why) was also going to get to feel special.
For the people in the comments who are talking about how doing this is mean: During the Quinceañera party the dad of the Quinceañera dances with a little girl in the same dress, representing the Quinceañera as a child, then he dances with the young lady to show how she has grown. Is really beautiful. So no, is not to steal her moment, or to make them use matching outfits, it's actually a whole tradition.
@@analiliaavila6718 Es común en muchos países de LATAM, pero también depende mucho de la familia, y si en tu familia lo celebran así o no. Por ejemplo en la mía no, pero si he visto mucha gente que decide hacerla, en Internet te aparecen muchos videos si te interesa.
@@scottinamcqueen6895you’ve obviously never had siblings. You don’t want to wear the same thing as your sibling. Especially not at a big party(yours or not). My dad bought me and my sister the same clothes all the time growing up, and wondered why we never wore them on the same days
@@kanikakumari7219some children are born devils and live to lie. Although parents play a major role in shaping their kids, there’s some inherent personality and mentality in most kids that make them the way they are
That’s why they should never have done that. This id how you raise selfish. entitled brats. She needs to realize it is her sister’s day ? and she will get her own Quince one day. Getting her a similar dress, but not nearly as fancy would have been a better idea.
They can it takes a parent putting their fucking foot down the issue is with in the larenting the kid can only know whats taught to them and todays kids are being failed to many spared feelings not enough respect and damn sure not enough chanclas veing thrown
It is tho. A mini is at 5 years old. They didn’t include her with the matching attire and it hurt. It looks to her yes she has made it to a milestone but it’s not as important as her sisters
@@missshannonsunshineYeah this video was triggering because this is how my family always treated me. Explain nothing to her, laugh in her face, confuse her, lie to her about the cause of the event. She’ll cry when she gets there which will only add to everyone’s entertainment. As an adult woman it definitely took its toll
Speaking as sisters, we have _never_ liked matching clothes. People will always say that the younger one is cuter, which makes the older resent her. The younger will also sooner or later realize that her sister dislikes matching, and either become stubborn and match everything on purpose, or fear/hate matching just as much. It's always better to be choose something _similar_ instead of perfectly matching. Give them autonomy and chance to express themselves.
I hated matching for a different reason. We were broke enough that a lot of our clothes were homemade from Goodwill sheets. This meant that none of them had brand or sizing tags for obvious enough reasons. But my sister and I weren't different enough in size or age to deal with the younger being cuter issues. Instead we were similar enough in size that the only way to figure out who's dress was whose was to try it on, which got exponentially harder when we grew out of them but couldn't afford the material (or time) to make new dresses yet. Couldn't tell which one was mine because neither of them fit haha
@@noodle-saurus2066 I'd be mad too if someone put me in an identical dress to my older sister's for a celebration meant for her. She is not her "mini version".
imagine the thousands of people staring at her online and will do for years to come until she's old enough to realize that she wont be able to know for sure how many people have stored it in their phones all over the world. Assuming people find this funny of course.
A Quinaearea is for the older daughter for her becoming of a young woman, not a little girl. It's messed up that thos parents thought that it's fine to ruin that older girls quinceanera
In my opinion, dhe just looked like she's shy, and all those people standing there watching her. She kept trying to hide her face, like shy little kids do.
How do you see a spoiled child? Keep in mind it’s not her choice to wear this dress she had to wear this dress for her sister’s occasion . She felt as if she wanted to be unique even at her young age. She was disappointed her sister had the same dress. I’m sure because no one told her that or even if they did, she still wanted to be the only one wearing that dress despite her choice to do so. I see spoiled Moore how quickly you get something you want not being grateful she is too young for these assumptions
Lol the little girl clearly is upset, she probs thought it was her day and all, only to realise it wasn't. Honestly they should've either told the little girl that it was her big sisters beforehand , or they never should've done this in the first place
They should have not dress the little one like the quinceañera because she is not the quinceañera. Parents must understand that each one deserves their own day. She must wait for her own.
@@Danielle-30tradición jamás en mi vida, en todos los quince que he visitado eso no paso a menos que lo exigiera el padre. solo una vez me toco ir a una donde la hermana con gusto acepto que su hermana llevara un mini vestido.
@@heidipena3156 En algunos paises si lo es, incluso está la tradición de heredarle algo a la quinceañera chiquita (como peluches, zapatos, vestidos, etc...). La quinceañera chiquita suele ser o la hermana menor o una prima cercana.
Honestly, this is why you can't placate and spoil children. Teach them everything is not about them, teach how to celebrate other people's successes and joys. That way, when it's their turn, they are humble and not entitled.
@@Jupiterseasonit's actually a part of the culture and it's called being the mini, where the younger sister will dress identical to honor the older one 🫶
This is why twinning kids isn't a good idea unless both kids agree. Both sisters are going to have this memory forever and I doubt either of them will be too thrilled with it.
My parents did that to my for my first birthday party with friends at 5 years. It's still upsetting to see that picture with me seated next to my sister who's dressed exactly like me. It's by far one of the lesser offenses my abusive parents committed against me or my sisters, but still. Not cool.
They will when they're older if they have a good relationship 😂 I hated my sister growing up and now we laugh about all the stupid stuff we fought about. I was 6 years younger and she was my mom back then
Ok. I've never had something quite exactly like this happen to me growing up so my first thought was "no way. These two are going to crack up about this over glasses of whatever wine is popular at that time. It would be ridiculous if one of both held a grudge. Stupid!". But then I remember being on the verge of young lady hood myself and now I get it💖💖😻
@@notthedoctor1789 I grew up with an abusive grandmother, and a bunch of abusive cousins and aunts. If you don't mind, what's a few of the things they did to you and your siblings that only people who are abused would understand?
During the Quinceañera party the dad of the Quinceañera dances with a little girl in the same dress, representing the Quinceañera as a child, then he dances with the young lady to show how she has grown. Is really beautiful. So no, is not to steal her moment, or to make them use matching outfits, it's actually a whole tradition.
My girls were 2 years apart and I made them match when they were little but then they had their own opinion and style. We lost my middle daughter in 2021 at 25. My oldest would give anything to match her sister. Cherish your daughters, please.
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It's not her day. Ugh let your kids have their own day. My sister did this with her 2 daughters and asked if i could bring a gift for her youngest i told her no. It's not her day she will get her day
I don't get people who think this way. As the younger child gets older, the oldest child gets celebrated less. Do* they ask people to bring gifts for the oldest child when it's the youngest one's birthday? It's stuff like this that has so many first borns/older children resentful towards the parents.
@Shasgirl there was a family next door when I was growing up where everyone brought gifts for 1 birthday kid's party, but the parents also bought 1 gift each for the other kids. Didn't matter older or younger, the non-birthday kids also got 1 gift each (something small like a book or 1 inexpensive toy). We didn't keep in touch after 5th grade so idk if they still do it, but it seemed fine to me? The kids never complained about their gifts and celebrated their siblings' birthdays just as much.
@@noname-1224 Awww...the way my heart just smiled at that story. That sounds like a beautiful tradition amongst family members and it comes off as fair to me. I'd take a page from it if my children weren't already grown lol. Yeah don't get me twisted, my opinion is only based on the fairness of the act of including the younger siblings, as the oldest gets phased out of the picture lol... Also in your case you weren't obligated to gift anyone but the birthday person, but the family took it upon themselves to take on the expenses and make it a special day for everyone in that family. That's teamwork. There's no injustice there and I love that. I wish that family well. And you too. Thanks for sharing that story. xoxo
My cousin thought I was bringing 2 gifts for both kids on one’s bday too. NOPE. I told her I got you a gift on your bday remember? She was 4. She lived.
GOOD FOR YOU. I wish my grandmother's would have done the same. To this day my little sister is a spoiled fucking brat. I had to share everything with her, but she didn't have to in return. I'm so glad some people put a stop to this kind of stuff.
She's noe 15 so there should be no mini anything matching. She is old enough to understand that this was her sisters day. My last daughter was way younger on my first daughter's sweet 16 and understood that it was a special time to celebrate her sister. She has two older sisters and is still waiting patiently for her turn.
@katelynjimenez16 in all The Times I've been to a sweet 15/16. There's never been a Mini. This is the first time I see one, so it's you guys actually changing tradition! Because I know there are Damas at the sweet 15. And they have a different dress on so the birthday girl stands out!
@@DH-li1ivIf you haven't noticed, this girl in the video didn't even want to go inside, she didn't know that her sister would have the same dress. It is her parents' fault that they chose the exact same dress for her, there is no need to blame the child, who obviously did not know from her reaction what kind of dress her sister would wear. As a mother, you should see the child's emotions.
No it's not. It's basically the equivalent to a flower girl having a similar dress to the bride. The mini quince is a tradition that is supposed to represent the birthday girl as a child.
Actually there is children dressed as the brides in weddings. I got dressed as mini bride twice. But my parents explained it wasn't my day, they explained why I was dressed that way.
Yeah, when I was a kid, I hated people just looking at me, like they expected me to know how to react. I never figured out when they wanted precocious cuteness or quiet obedience. I much preferred to be generally ignored or lost in the mix to fend for myself at parties. At least then I could pick up on what other people were doing and decide for myself if I wanted to participate or quietly refuse without making a fuss. I hated (so much!) being singled out in public, especially for a spontaneous reaction.
No that is not the case she was happy to be coming in she saw the people watching her and was fine she began to act that way when she noticed her sister had on the same dress.
@@danavaught396check her reply to the top comment. Yes she confirmed her little sister was mad not shy. Maybe it's because you guys don't deal with a lot of small children but you can instantly tell that she was upset
It’s a quinceNera, doesn’t that mean it’s the older sisters day anyways? Why would the little girl expect the day to be about her? She’ll have her day when she’s 15
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Okay but they could have told her what was happening. I was a miniature bride around her age, I understood the assignment. Like really this girl spoiled. Or nobody told her what was going on and why she was wearing the dress which is cruel
@kennyzee6229 not defending but sometimes explaining doesn't work due to their age. But always give it a shot! My nephew was the ring bearer to my wedding and well. He started running around towards all the guests going rawr. Only to be a very unhappy man when he got told he wasn't a bear. And he was grumpy the rest of the day. All the photos I have of him is just an angry face cowboy who thought he was a bear...😂 sometimes kids act excited to the surprise or knowledge and sometimes they get super upset. It could be because they are spoiled or because the opposite, they may not get enough love or attention. Or maybe even the fact they get love and attention in the right amount and what they want but maybe they still want something special of their own. Kids are kids and can be the brightest or not so bright and can be the happiest or angry munchkins. They all have a personality that is theirs but also the personality of who raised them.
You already know that those siblings have been pitted against each other their whole lives by their family. My sisters and i would absolutely LOVE to match each other.
The baby sister just seems like a brat, a quinceañera is a big day and it’s only supposed to be for big sis , I feel as long as big sis was good with it it’s cute but little sis just wanted to get all the attention
@@lemon_boy_9655It's funny how you call the little sister a brat as if she put herself in the matching dress. Perhaps the parents should have made it clear whose day it was and not made it seem like the little girl would be the center of attention. Behind literally every spoiled child is the parent that spoiled them.
I didn't have 15 party, my mom prepared a food. My aunt was not invited, she appeared surprisingly and she got in shock seeing nothing just me with one classmate in my house. My aunt brought a nice big cake, thanks her i ate a cake on my 15. I wish to be adopted by whatever family in the usa, i wanted desesperately to change my parents. I was hitted several times and pushed to go to protestant church on sundays. I bet the pastors took most my parents money so i didn't have the basic things at home.
Unless the little girl knew what was going on and agreed to it then it's not her fault and she shouldn't be blamed for it because it could've honestly been the parents.
That Quinceañera princess just couldn't handle it also the girl sneaking past them kinda made it funnier she was like "yeah this looks like its gonna take a while and I may or may not just be here for the food so I'm just gonna leave you all to it!"
They shouldnt have done that. Its the 15 yr old's day, not the child's. If she threw a fit and wanted it to be about her, thats just too bad. This is how insufferable adults are created, not to mention a long term strained relationship between the sisters. The ONLY way this is even partly acceptable is if it was at the 15 yr old's suggestion, unprompted, un-coerced.
Guys, it was apparently the older sister's idea. The younger sister was not told about any of this whatsoever and was basically put in a situation where it was like she was forced to wear a wedding dress at somebody else's wedding. I am much older than the little girl and I don't think I'd be happy being put into this situation, either. This is not on either sisters, though. The older sister thought it would make the younger sister happy, not knowing how younger sister, herself would feel about the situation. In other words, this whole incident was just a big miscalculation. Despite all that, little sister took it pretty well. She did not throw a big screaming fit over it, she did a responsible thing for someone her age and took out her emotions in a quiet, less destructive way despite being upset about the whole situation. She is like 5 years old, you can't expect her to regulate her emotions the same way an older child or teenager might.
This explains why the eldest wasn’t upset but perhaps let down that her baby sister was displeased. They should have told her that they’d match. The surprise element was the problem. If I told my sisters that they could match me on my special day, they’d be ecstatic. The way it was planned set the little one up to think this was her special day. Sadly, She’ll be resentful for a long time until she’s old enough to know what was really going on. I feel for both of them. And the fact that mommy is pregnant again 😬
She was all excited until she saw her sister dressed up too... she just thought it was all about her... which kids normally do n Hopefully will grow out of with proper parenting especially when there's another baby on the way
This is called a mini, its common in multiple different cultures to have the little sister be dressed in a smaller but identical dress on a special occasion, some cultures even do this for their weddings, having the younger sibling in an exact mini copy of their wedding dress. Just because you dont understand something, doesnt make it morally wrong. You can see the big sisters face when she sees her little sister in her dress, she is smiling and looks thrilled to see her court all ready and matching.
I think the point is that even thought it’s the older sisters day to shine, the camera and the attention is on the little one who is clearly being a brat lol
No one is concerned about the big sis’s reaction. It is the little sister whose reaction is concerning. Why does she look sad? Did she think it was her day???
@@felicityjohnston9276 it was the older sisters idea for this moment to be a surprise, she said in another video she expected her to be happy and was shocked by her little sisters reaction. It sounded like everyone involved in planning agreed with the big sister that this could be a cute surprise moment and expected little sis to take it much better, which suggests this was out of character for little sis. Im assuming lil sis just ended up overwhelmed here, which happens shes a little kid.
@@Lilbabynoodle i wouldnt jump straight to calling a child you dont know names over a 60 second video, that seems a bit far. Especially as this moment was planned by the big sister, she wanted to have the moment her younger sister saw they perfectly matched to be recorded, so the camera and attention was always planned to be on the little sister at that moment. It was just a very very small part of the day, literally lasting seconds before little sis was taken off to be calmed down by mum and the camera went right back to big sis. Plus this wasnt even bratty behaviour? Ive seen plenty of kids her age get teary eyed and cling to their mum at big events. Its stressful and overwhelming getting ready for something like this, especially when you have to look perfect because your look is part of the event. Any parent knows that literally anything can make a kid cry when they are tired, stressed, or overwhelmed. Its not like she had a tantrum or began screaming and stomping around, she quietly retreated into her mum and began crying.
Should be "my husband and me." You wouldn't say "...had I dying." (At least, I hope not!😄) Contrary to popular belief, the "...and I" usage is not always correct.
These people need to realize the child being spoiled isn’t what’s going on?? It’s the fact she didn’t know she was gonna be wearing the same dress/colors as the other girls. It’s a common thing for children to be upset because they thought they looked unique
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Aww my heart breaks for the older sister. Mama should of pulled the lil one outside and explain to her what the reason is for her and her sister dressing and looking so pretty. Sometimes when children don’t understand something they get frustrated or confused and aren’t sure how to show what they are feeling yet or how to express them. And when this happens they tend to throw “temper tantrums” or appear to others as a spoiled child. So you have to make time to explain things very carefully and be patient because children need to have consistency in order to learn what your teaching them. 🥰
We know nothing about this little girl, y'all are so quick to call her spoiled she is literally a child on the Internet who we do not know. We don't know how they raised her. Y'all need to stop with the assumptions and stop expecting emotional maturity from what looks to be a 5 year old.
My little sister wore a crown and a red dress to my Quince. My mom literally didn't let me have a red dress, and made me get a big puffy white one with red accents. As an older sister, yeah. We really have to share all moments.
She probably wasn’t told that it was her sister’s Quince? Idk, we celebrate the same thing here, called debut, when they turn 18 and I’ve never seen a mini debutante yet
For all the comments here saying she’s spoiled, I would bet solid money that she’s acting this way because there is a very large group of people watching and recording her, she’s probably just shy
Nah she picked up her dress and was coming in. Then she seen her big sister and wanted no part of it anymore. It's literally her sister, I'm sure girls in the family in red and literally maybe 7 ppl in the back. My guess is she didn't like that today was no longer just about her when in reality it never was. After that baby she will have the middle sibling syndrome and most of us know how that is going to go.
Nah she’s just a spoiled ass brat. I have only one sister and she is younger than me and she has always been over the moon to match with me even in childhood. And I’ve always felt the same way. Maybe these girls don’t have the best relationship.
@@mariyamiller3474this exactly. people excusing this behavior are definitely the type to give her whatever she wants and that’s not teaching her shit, she’s definitely a brat
bro have you not read the other replies.. someone perfectly explained why the younger sister had a matching dress, not to mention younger kids do not always like to match, but i’m guessing it’s not your culture so maybe read a little about it then make comments🥰
It feels like the parents picked the dress for the young child and she probably felt like an princess and was shocked her older sister had the same exact dress and felt humiliation. Child's first bully is the parent. 😢
I feel bad for both of the girls, you can tell the older sister was expecting a different reaction from the younger one, but I hope the party still went well and they both had fun
Bro that parent whoever took care of that child and got her that dress that’s extremely disrespectful why would you guys get the same dress as the BIRTHDAY GURL it’s not that little kids birthday? Edit: ok I think I’m making a fight in the comments Soo Srry guys but my opinion is my opinion just stop fighting:/
I think she was just shy guys. Walking through a door and seeing a bunch of people staring at you expectantly is nerve wracking enough for most adults!
@@rebeccagutierrez8170 it's the older sisters big day she's wearing a identical to her older on her older sisters special day I don't think her family is mean to her at all
Y'all this isn't a "tradition". It's a new thing. I'm Mexican and I've gone to several quinces in my life, never saw a miniquince EVER. This is actually something new and it looks like it was developed in the American-Mexican community. Like it's cool if both the mini and the quince are okay with it? But don't call it tradition just yet, if it sticks and more people do it and it's done over the years then yeah, it could be a tradition, as of now it's a trend and nothing more.
She wasn’t uncomfortable. She was angry that she was matching with her sister. The older sister loved it but the younger sister was jealous. She wanted it to be all about her. Not her older sister
If she has a good family this will be a faded memory that she won't even give 2 thoughts to later in life. She probably won't even remember after 2 days. Kids are not eggs. Stop telling them every situation they are in they will fall apart and be damaged for life bc of it. It's literally not even her party and if it bc she's shy then let her stay by you and talk to her about maybe saying hi to everyone. No big deal, no childhood trauma and no reason to hate your parents forever. Yalls skin is like tissue paper.
Y'all act like the girl is able to buy her own dress. And parents should call them out if they have the same dress. And they didn't, so who's the blame here
Nah, she was walking in confidently until she saw her sister and her face went sour XD I think she didn't fully understand who and what the celebration was about x)
My senior year of HS we had this thing called a Senior Dinner Dance. It's different from prom as it's not a big and grandiose. Well not 2 but 3 girls in my senior class ended up wearing the exact same dress. Needless to say, they weren't happy they looked like triplets but still made the best of their evening.
As the oldest, we can literally never have anything to ourselves lmao
Try being a middle child!😄
@@Cobbsouth tbf im a triplet and I’m treated like the middle child while also having the responsibilities of the oldest💀
gangs all here! I’m a younger child and my siblings have favorites and ignore me 😍
Just wait until you have kids of your own…they help themselves to your stuff all the time.
And you let them…because you love the little rugrats 😂
@@dtschuor459 Raising your own child is different from being raised with a sibling. What you said would work better if she was raising the little sister but she isn’t.
I remember my quince, my little sister who was 3 at the time had the same dress as me and she was jumping around saying “we are princesses” I will never forget that day 😭
aw that's heartwarming 🥲
Awww
I'd bet that your parents told her what the event was and made being allowed to match you feel special.
This video looks to me like a spoiled little girl who thought she was gonna be the spotlight realizing that her older sister (who does not look particularly excited either, wonder why) was also going to get to feel special.
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Yeah that is what all mini me's are supposed to be!
For the people in the comments who are talking about how doing this is mean:
During the Quinceañera party the dad of the Quinceañera dances with a little girl in the same dress, representing the Quinceañera as a child, then he dances with the young lady to show how she has grown. Is really beautiful. So no, is not to steal her moment, or to make them use matching outfits, it's actually a whole tradition.
I've never seen this tradition.
De dónde es esa tradición??
@@analiliaavila6718 Es común en muchos países de LATAM, pero también depende mucho de la familia, y si en tu familia lo celebran así o no.
Por ejemplo en la mía no, pero si he visto mucha gente que decide hacerla, en Internet te aparecen muchos videos si te interesa.
That’s not true lmao because what if she’s an only child? What if she only has brothers? Like yall don’t even make sense.
Well they could have told the little sister...
It's always the Mini "Queenswuera" the one who's angry! 😭❣️
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I can't blame her. They were making a big deal and probably made her feel like it was her day when it wasn't.
Or maybe they did NOT 😮. She could be a spoiled child🤔
@@scottinamcqueen6895.... You do know that's exactly how people spoil their children right? Spoiled brats aren't just born that way.
@@scottinamcqueen6895children are innocent. It's the parents'fault if they turn out spoiled.
@@scottinamcqueen6895you’ve obviously never had siblings. You don’t want to wear the same thing as your sibling. Especially not at a big party(yours or not). My dad bought me and my sister the same clothes all the time growing up, and wondered why we never wore them on the same days
@@kanikakumari7219some children are born devils and live to lie. Although parents play a major role in shaping their kids, there’s some inherent personality and mentality in most kids that make them the way they are
The oldest child can never have their own day
It’s meant for the little girl to honor her big sister becoming of age
@@GiaBohm-zk9qn😂right…
@@GiaBohm-zk9qnit's Bs it's what it is
That’s why they should never have done that. This id how you raise selfish. entitled brats. She needs to realize it is her sister’s day ? and she will get her own Quince one day. Getting her a similar dress, but not nearly as fancy would have been a better idea.
They can it takes a parent putting their fucking foot down the issue is with in the larenting the kid can only know whats taught to them and todays kids are being failed to many spared feelings not enough respect and damn sure not enough chanclas veing thrown
Not the voice saying “quincewera” 😭
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Honestly i don't blame her, if i was told to wear a princess dress without given context at that age I'd cry too if i found out
She though is was her day to shine 🧍🏿♀️✨🎀😝
Quinceañera reaction to baby sister 😭✨ #quince #quincereaction #miniquinceanera
I know right
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@@user-dv3es5nh4g Gurl yes ...🧍🏻♀️😋
It is tho. A mini is at 5 years old. They didn’t include her with the matching attire and it hurt. It looks to her yes she has made it to a milestone but it’s not as important as her sisters
Does she not know she’s just a guest?😂
Obviously not!
Probably not
Her parents are setting her up for being a spoiled drama Queen in the future.
Poor baby
They didn’t communicate anything to her which is weird. It’s like they wanted her to be upset
@@missshannonsunshineYeah this video was triggering because this is how my family always treated me. Explain nothing to her, laugh in her face, confuse her, lie to her about the cause of the event. She’ll cry when she gets there which will only add to everyone’s entertainment. As an adult woman it definitely took its toll
When you think about it 🤔 some parents are bullies 😒 including mine. I agree with y'all
Speaking as sisters, we have _never_ liked matching clothes. People will always say that the younger one is cuter, which makes the older resent her. The younger will also sooner or later realize that her sister dislikes matching, and either become stubborn and match everything on purpose, or fear/hate matching just as much.
It's always better to be choose something _similar_ instead of perfectly matching. Give them autonomy and chance to express themselves.
I hated matching for a different reason.
We were broke enough that a lot of our clothes were homemade from Goodwill sheets. This meant that none of them had brand or sizing tags for obvious enough reasons. But my sister and I weren't different enough in size or age to deal with the younger being cuter issues. Instead we were similar enough in size that the only way to figure out who's dress was whose was to try it on, which got exponentially harder when we grew out of them but couldn't afford the material (or time) to make new dresses yet. Couldn't tell which one was mine because neither of them fit haha
😂😂😂😂😂
She is the sassiest little girl I’ve ever seen 😅
I feel for the older sister. It was her day. That lil girl is gonna be rocked when that baby comes. 😂
fr 😂 whole world's gonna be turned around
She needs that lol 😂
Fr 😂 I was looking 👀 for this comment
Facts
For real, I didn't even thk about that😮. Awwwww
I dunno, I'd feel pretty shy if I walked into a room and everyone was staring at the door waiting for me.
Literally 😭😭 i dont know why people are only seeing the negatives, try to think of the positive that this was planned and the little girl was only shy
Nah watch the reply she made to one of the top comments. The little sister was mad, not shy
@@noodle-saurus2066 I'd be mad too if someone put me in an identical dress to my older sister's for a celebration meant for her. She is not her "mini version".
imagine the thousands of people staring at her online and will do for years to come until she's old enough to realize that she wont be able to know for sure how many people have stored it in their phones all over the world. Assuming people find this funny of course.
A Quinaearea is for the older daughter for her becoming of a young woman, not a little girl. It's messed up that thos parents thought that it's fine to ruin that older girls quinceanera
She probably thought that that day was her moment😂😭
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In my opinion, dhe just looked like she's shy, and all those people standing there watching her. She kept trying to hide her face, like shy little kids do.
she said why is she wearinh my dress 🙄
😂
How do you see a spoiled child?
Keep in mind it’s not her choice to wear this dress she had to wear this dress for her sister’s occasion . She felt as if she wanted to be unique even at her young age. She was disappointed her sister had the same dress. I’m sure because no one told her that or even if they did, she still wanted to be the only one wearing that dress despite her choice to do so. I see spoiled Moore how quickly you get something you want not being grateful she is too young for these assumptions
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@@123lol908you're too soft, ain't even that deep its just a fun comment.
@@123lol908 your thinking wayy to much abt this comment
No, whatsoever the reason, i genuinely feel bad for the big sister... She gonna remember this priceless day to this moment
Apparently it was the older sister's idea to have them wear matching dresses. The little sister was not told this at all.
So you gonna blame the kid in this situation huh
But we can't blame the kid. She's just a kid. She's the child there.
*little
No cause if you see closely the sister was happy to see her , the little sister was not cause I'm pretty sure they didn't explain it to her
انتم تستمتعون وفلسطين يموتون حرام عليكم اللهم شتت شملك😢
Lol the little girl clearly is upset, she probs thought it was her day and all, only to realise it wasn't. Honestly they should've either told the little girl that it was her big sisters beforehand , or they never should've done this in the first place
They should have not dress the little one like the quinceañera because she is not the quinceañera. Parents must understand that each one deserves their own day. She must wait for her own.
it’s tradition
Exactly. It's the quinceñeras day to wear the dress.
@@Danielle-30tradición jamás en mi vida, en todos los quince que he visitado eso no paso a menos que lo exigiera el padre. solo una vez me toco ir a una donde la hermana con gusto acepto que su hermana llevara un mini vestido.
@@heidipena3156 En algunos paises si lo es, incluso está la tradición de heredarle algo a la quinceañera chiquita (como peluches, zapatos, vestidos, etc...). La quinceañera chiquita suele ser o la hermana menor o una prima cercana.
To a lot of people it means the opposite, plus it’s tradition. In my opinion just having a quinceanera they are doing good as parents.
She was like “one of us gotta change and it ain’t gonna be me” 😂 😂
Agreed
يبقى صوت القرآن الكريم هو الاجمل فهل من مشجع❤🌺🌷🌹❤
“well one of us is gonna have to change and it isn’t me 😠😒” 😂
Honestly, this is why you can't placate and spoil children. Teach them everything is not about them, teach how to celebrate other people's successes and joys. That way, when it's their turn, they are humble and not entitled.
I know this family that, on one skids birthday, they also buy a present for the nonbirthday kid. It's so stupid.
It’s not spoiled, most girls don’t wanna walk in and see a girl wearing the same dress as them 🤷♂️
@@user-hi9wy6em3n she shouldn't be wearing the dress in the first place.. she needs to learn to let others enjoy their moment
@@Jupiterseasonit's actually a part of the culture and it's called being the mini, where the younger sister will dress identical to honor the older one 🫶
@@Jupiterseason unless her sister wanted her to, then it’s appropriate, it’s her sisters party she can make that decision if she wants to
This is why twinning kids isn't a good idea unless both kids agree. Both sisters are going to have this memory forever and I doubt either of them will be too thrilled with it.
My parents did that to my for my first birthday party with friends at 5 years. It's still upsetting to see that picture with me seated next to my sister who's dressed exactly like me. It's by far one of the lesser offenses my abusive parents committed against me or my sisters, but still. Not cool.
They will when they're older if they have a good relationship 😂 I hated my sister growing up and now we laugh about all the stupid stuff we fought about. I was 6 years younger and she was my mom back then
Ok. I've never had something quite exactly like this happen to me growing up so my first thought was "no way. These two are going to crack up about this over glasses of whatever wine is popular at that time. It would be ridiculous if one of both held a grudge. Stupid!". But then I remember being on the verge of young lady hood myself and now I get it💖💖😻
@@notthedoctor1789 I grew up with an abusive grandmother, and a bunch of abusive cousins and aunts.
If you don't mind, what's a few of the things they did to you and your siblings that only people who are abused would understand?
During the Quinceañera party the dad of the Quinceañera dances with a little girl in the same dress, representing the Quinceañera as a child, then he dances with the young lady to show how she has grown. Is really beautiful. So no, is not to steal her moment, or to make them use matching outfits, it's actually a whole tradition.
She was really ready to be the main character lol 😂
My girls were 2 years apart and I made them match when they were little but then they had their own opinion and style. We lost my middle daughter in 2021 at 25. My oldest would give anything to match her sister. Cherish your daughters, please.
Why can't AI handle the word "Quinceañera" ? 💀 sends me every time
Because AI is teach in English, no in other idioms. If you get robots or AI talking in portuguese or spanish they can't pronounce some sounds (ñ for example) that doesn't exist in English. That is how we detect AI in my country because it always slips on Ã.
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I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed lmao
I was looking for this comment hoping I wasn't the only one that caught it.
This was the funniest part to me 😂😂😂
It's not her day. Ugh let your kids have their own day. My sister did this with her 2 daughters and asked if i could bring a gift for her youngest i told her no. It's not her day she will get her day
I don't get people who think this way. As the younger child gets older, the oldest child gets celebrated less.
Do* they ask people to bring gifts for the oldest child when it's the youngest one's birthday?
It's stuff like this that has so many first borns/older children resentful towards the parents.
@Shasgirl there was a family next door when I was growing up where everyone brought gifts for 1 birthday kid's party, but the parents also bought 1 gift each for the other kids. Didn't matter older or younger, the non-birthday kids also got 1 gift each (something small like a book or 1 inexpensive toy). We didn't keep in touch after 5th grade so idk if they still do it, but it seemed fine to me? The kids never complained about their gifts and celebrated their siblings' birthdays just as much.
@@noname-1224 Awww...the way my heart just smiled at that story. That sounds like a beautiful tradition amongst family members and it comes off as fair to me. I'd take a page from it if my children weren't already grown lol. Yeah don't get me twisted, my opinion is only based on the fairness of the act of including the younger siblings, as the oldest gets phased out of the picture lol... Also in your case you weren't obligated to gift anyone but the birthday person, but the family took it upon themselves to take on the expenses and make it a special day for everyone in that family. That's teamwork. There's no injustice there and I love that. I wish that family well. And you too. Thanks for sharing that story. xoxo
My cousin thought I was bringing 2 gifts for both kids on one’s bday too. NOPE. I told her I got you a gift on your bday remember? She was 4. She lived.
GOOD FOR YOU. I wish my grandmother's would have done the same. To this day my little sister is a spoiled fucking brat. I had to share everything with her, but she didn't have to in return. I'm so glad some people put a stop to this kind of stuff.
Shes like "Well one of us is gonna have to change" 😂
She's noe 15 so there should be no mini anything matching.
She is old enough to understand that this was her sisters day.
My last daughter was way younger on my first daughter's sweet 16 and understood that it was a special time to celebrate her sister.
She has two older sisters and is still waiting patiently for her turn.
wearing the same dress is part of the tradition
there is always a mini quinceañera to match the actual quinceañera. i had one and so did all my cousins 🤷🏽♀️
Becauae You are a good parents❤
@katelynjimenez16 in all The Times I've been to a sweet 15/16. There's never been a Mini. This is the first time I see one, so it's you guys actually changing tradition! Because I know there are Damas at the sweet 15. And they have a different dress on so the birthday girl stands out!
@@DH-li1ivIf you haven't noticed, this girl in the video didn't even want to go inside, she didn't know that her sister would have the same dress. It is her parents' fault that they chose the exact same dress for her, there is no need to blame the child, who obviously did not know from her reaction what kind of dress her sister would wear. As a mother, you should see the child's emotions.
That was just rude of those parents. This is like wearing a wedding dress at someone else’s wedding.
God bless🕊💜🕊
No it's not. It's basically the equivalent to a flower girl having a similar dress to the bride. The mini quince is a tradition that is supposed to represent the birthday girl as a child.
@@yellowishgreendragon.-. sorry I didn’t know that was part of the tradition.
God bless🕊💜🕊
Actually there is children dressed as the brides in weddings. I got dressed as mini bride twice. But my parents explained it wasn't my day, they explained why I was dressed that way.
@UnderworldsHeiress yes, mini brides is a thing lol. No one is going to mistake the 4 year old for the actual bride
@@yellowishgreendragon.-.Well someone forgot to tell the younger child this fact.....
LOL she really said “I thought I was the only special one”😭
"Kwin sin era". 💀 AI derp voice aside, the girls look so cute. The dresses are very pretty. Reminds me of Valentine's Day.
Looks to me like she was embarrassed by the way she hid her face and didn't want to go inside. Shes still learning how to cope with her feelings.
Yeah, when I was a kid, I hated people just looking at me, like they expected me to know how to react. I never figured out when they wanted precocious cuteness or quiet obedience. I much preferred to be generally ignored or lost in the mix to fend for myself at parties. At least then I could pick up on what other people were doing and decide for myself if I wanted to participate or quietly refuse without making a fuss. I hated (so much!) being singled out in public, especially for a spontaneous reaction.
No that is not the case she was happy to be coming in she saw the people watching her and was fine she began to act that way when she noticed her sister had on the same dress.
@@scottinamcqueen6895 is that in some other video?
@@danavaught396check her reply to the top comment. Yes she confirmed her little sister was mad not shy. Maybe it's because you guys don't deal with a lot of small children but you can instantly tell that she was upset
@@noodle-saurus2066 I have 6 kids and grands. I know plenty about kids ty.
It’s a quinceNera, doesn’t that mean it’s the older sisters day anyways? Why would the little girl expect the day to be about her? She’ll have her day when she’s 15
That's... A small child. like you're asking why a child doesn't have the same expectations as the older party-goers
@@AliScott131999 A small child who they have a responsibility for to raise properly
@@AliScott131999 It is their job as parents to teach their child manners at other people's events.
Y'all cannot be serious.
@AliScott131999 yeah we are serious. If the parents will keep on giving what she wants, shell grow up as a spoiled brat.
“Mini ‘quin-sa-wherea”
❤❤❤❤😂🎉🎉🎉🎉😢😢😢🎉 a indiqué wowed forget to send me a picture when 😢we are on our way back from work to do a quick update to make a reservation and get a few of those tickets and I have them for a couple
“quins-uh-wear-uh” 💀💀
I just see a spoiled kid
She's not spoiled, her reaction is totally normal and understandable at her age. She's a kid, not all kids act the same.
Okay but they could have told her what was happening. I was a miniature bride around her age, I understood the assignment. Like really this girl spoiled. Or nobody told her what was going on and why she was wearing the dress which is cruel
@@_Medusa.it’s literally not normal 😂 you can see other videos of hundreds of minis and they don’t act this way
@@elrose171 That's why I said not all kids act the same and that is normal.
@kennyzee6229 not defending but sometimes explaining doesn't work due to their age. But always give it a shot! My nephew was the ring bearer to my wedding and well. He started running around towards all the guests going rawr. Only to be a very unhappy man when he got told he wasn't a bear. And he was grumpy the rest of the day. All the photos I have of him is just an angry face cowboy who thought he was a bear...😂 sometimes kids act excited to the surprise or knowledge and sometimes they get super upset. It could be because they are spoiled or because the opposite, they may not get enough love or attention. Or maybe even the fact they get love and attention in the right amount and what they want but maybe they still want something special of their own. Kids are kids and can be the brightest or not so bright and can be the happiest or angry munchkins. They all have a personality that is theirs but also the personality of who raised them.
You already know that those siblings have been pitted against each other their whole lives by their family. My sisters and i would absolutely LOVE to match each other.
The baby sister just seems like a brat, a quinceañera is a big day and it’s only supposed to be for big sis , I feel as long as big sis was good with it it’s cute but little sis just wanted to get all the attention
@@lemon_boy_9655I agree with you so much 💞😊
@@lemon_boy_9655It's funny how you call the little sister a brat as if she put herself in the matching dress. Perhaps the parents should have made it clear whose day it was and not made it seem like the little girl would be the center of attention. Behind literally every spoiled child is the parent that spoiled them.
EXACTLY
I didn't have 15 party, my mom prepared a food. My aunt was not invited, she appeared surprisingly and she got in shock seeing nothing just me with one classmate in my house. My aunt brought a nice big cake, thanks her i ate a cake on my 15. I wish to be adopted by whatever family in the usa, i wanted desesperately to change my parents. I was hitted several times and pushed to go to protestant church on sundays. I bet the pastors took most my parents money so i didn't have the basic things at home.
Unless the little girl knew what was going on and agreed to it then it's not her fault and she shouldn't be blamed for it because it could've honestly been the parents.
Quicenwherera it said lol
what is a quicewhereear
@christinahaggas4465 thats what the voice thing said lol
Pet peeve..mispronunciations
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I was looking for a comment that pointed it out
Systemically racist voice over
She didn’t even want to make eye contact like, “if I don’t see her, then we ain’t wearing the same dress,” and vice versa
😂😂😂
She like “ I’m not special?”
That Quinceañera princess just couldn't handle it also the girl sneaking past them kinda made it funnier she was like "yeah this looks like its gonna take a while and I may or may not just be here for the food so I'm just gonna leave you all to it!"
They shouldnt have done that. Its the 15 yr old's day, not the child's. If she threw a fit and wanted it to be about her, thats just too bad. This is how insufferable adults are created, not to mention a long term strained relationship between the sisters. The ONLY way this is even partly acceptable is if it was at the 15 yr old's suggestion, unprompted, un-coerced.
wearing the same dress is part of the tradition
Guys, it was apparently the older sister's idea. The younger sister was not told about any of this whatsoever and was basically put in a situation where it was like she was forced to wear a wedding dress at somebody else's wedding.
I am much older than the little girl and I don't think I'd be happy being put into this situation, either. This is not on either sisters, though. The older sister thought it would make the younger sister happy, not knowing how younger sister, herself would feel about the situation. In other words, this whole incident was just a big miscalculation.
Despite all that, little sister took it pretty well. She did not throw a big screaming fit over it, she did a responsible thing for someone her age and took out her emotions in a quiet, less destructive way despite being upset about the whole situation.
She is like 5 years old, you can't expect her to regulate her emotions the same way an older child or teenager might.
This explains why the eldest wasn’t upset but perhaps let down that her baby sister was displeased. They should have told her that they’d match. The surprise element was the problem. If I told my sisters that they could match me on my special day, they’d be ecstatic. The way it was planned set the little one up to think this was her special day. Sadly, She’ll be resentful for a long time until she’s old enough to know what was really going on. I feel for both of them. And the fact that mommy is pregnant again 😬
The younger shoukd have been told oh look princess just alike.
@@ameliajohnson1149 Yeah, she wasn't told though
She was all excited until she saw her sister dressed up too... she just thought it was all about her... which kids normally do n Hopefully will grow out of with proper parenting especially when there's another baby on the way
Let her shine alone 🤩🤩 you guys just runned her day
I think the little girl became shy as everyone in the room looked at her. Don't think she was offended wearing the same dress 😄
This is called a mini, its common in multiple different cultures to have the little sister be dressed in a smaller but identical dress on a special occasion, some cultures even do this for their weddings, having the younger sibling in an exact mini copy of their wedding dress. Just because you dont understand something, doesnt make it morally wrong.
You can see the big sisters face when she sees her little sister in her dress, she is smiling and looks thrilled to see her court all ready and matching.
they should have explained to the little girl why she was matching so she could be happy instead of put off. 😅
I think the point is that even thought it’s the older sisters day to shine, the camera and the attention is on the little one who is clearly being a brat lol
No one is concerned about the big sis’s reaction. It is the little sister whose reaction is concerning. Why does she look sad? Did she think it was her day???
@@felicityjohnston9276 it was the older sisters idea for this moment to be a surprise, she said in another video she expected her to be happy and was shocked by her little sisters reaction.
It sounded like everyone involved in planning agreed with the big sister that this could be a cute surprise moment and expected little sis to take it much better, which suggests this was out of character for little sis. Im assuming lil sis just ended up overwhelmed here, which happens shes a little kid.
@@Lilbabynoodle i wouldnt jump straight to calling a child you dont know names over a 60 second video, that seems a bit far. Especially as this moment was planned by the big sister, she wanted to have the moment her younger sister saw they perfectly matched to be recorded, so the camera and attention was always planned to be on the little sister at that moment. It was just a very very small part of the day, literally lasting seconds before little sis was taken off to be calmed down by mum and the camera went right back to big sis.
Plus this wasnt even bratty behaviour? Ive seen plenty of kids her age get teary eyed and cling to their mum at big events. Its stressful and overwhelming getting ready for something like this, especially when you have to look perfect because your look is part of the event. Any parent knows that literally anything can make a kid cry when they are tired, stressed, or overwhelmed. Its not like she had a tantrum or began screaming and stomping around, she quietly retreated into her mum and began crying.
The way the AI pronounced " Quinceañera" lol had my husband and."ME" dying 😂
Yeah quinsawherea 😂😂😂
ME TOOOO 😂😂❤
Should be "my husband and me." You wouldn't say "...had I dying." (At least, I hope not!😄) Contrary to popular belief, the "...and I" usage is not always correct.
@@CobbsouthWho cares.
@@LunaDecaypath1 well, if we're going to laugh at mispronunciations, then grammar errors are fair game.
That is me precisely hating matching with my sister thinking many people will say we look alike and she is too beautiful than me 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😅😅😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
Little sister: why she got my dress on?! 😂
The SHADEEEE😂😂😂 Poor big sister looked all eager too & her little sister just was not having it 🤣🤦🏻♀️ poor girl I feel that though 🤣🤣
Can we talk about how gorgeous those dresses are though?
Yeah the dresses are beautiful!
I agree
Little girl saying,their is only one princess in this family!! 😅
how they said quinceñera has me rolling on the floor. why ai do me like dat💀 “quincenwarwa”
You can tell she is going to be a problem.
Literally every child has ego issues. It's not a symptom of anything
@@Gyoweidepends on how u raise em
Indeed
Yes you can tell from looking at her for 5 seconds…
Dawg its a toddler shut up 💀 if anything you should be complaining about the parents lol
These people need to realize the child being spoiled isn’t what’s going on?? It’s the fact she didn’t know she was gonna be wearing the same dress/colors as the other girls. It’s a common thing for children to be upset because they thought they looked unique
Gurl thought she the only princes on earth😂😂😂😂
Her in her mind “y is she wearing my dress mama you said it was one of a kind”😢
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tysm. i’ll try this once i get to the store! 🎉
Yea! It's gotta be nicer than the comments 😅
Thank you 😂
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She’s gonna be even more hot when the next baby comes! What was that ??!!! Her mood changed so much.
Fr! Poor baby. They need to keep an eye out.
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(I didn’t mean all of them I mean most)
Shes like "not today girl".
Aww my heart breaks for the older sister. Mama should of pulled the lil one outside and explain to her what the reason is for her and her sister dressing and looking so pretty. Sometimes when children don’t understand something they get frustrated or confused and aren’t sure how to show what they are feeling yet or how to express them. And when this happens they tend to throw “temper tantrums” or appear to others as a spoiled child. So you have to make time to explain things very carefully and be patient because children need to have consistency in order to learn what your teaching them. 🥰
Pensei o mesmo que vc! Conversase um pouco com eka iria fazer tida diferenca para a cabecinha da pequena .
Maybe it wasn't the dress, but anxiety of all the other girls standing there watching. She immediately hides into her mom
That is a beautiful wedding dress...but I can relate to being a young girl who sometimes felt jealous. It was a lack of communication
“clock that tea, yuhhhh” big mood Mari, BIG MOTION!!!
We know nothing about this little girl, y'all are so quick to call her spoiled she is literally a child on the Internet who we do not know. We don't know how they raised her. Y'all need to stop with the assumptions and stop expecting emotional maturity from what looks to be a 5 year old.
She gonna be a bratty one.. I can feel it 😂
She is probably the baby of the family.. let’s give her some grace.. all the youngest are usually this way in most families..
Looks like she gonna be a middle…
😂😂😂
My little sister wore a crown and a red dress to my Quince. My mom literally didn't let me have a red dress, and made me get a big puffy white one with red accents. As an older sister, yeah. We really have to share all moments.
She probably wasn’t told that it was her sister’s Quince? Idk, we celebrate the same thing here, called debut, when they turn 18 and I’ve never seen a mini debutante yet
Are you sure?
@@user-ud5lq1wf2q wdym?
They have them
wait rlly? never saw them in my city--
@@Libraqueen85
Girl, a quince takes months (even years) to prepare. Literally everyone and their mom knows who's going to get celebrated
For all the comments here saying she’s spoiled, I would bet solid money that she’s acting this way because there is a very large group of people watching and recording her, she’s probably just shy
Nah she picked up her dress and was coming in. Then she seen her big sister and wanted no part of it anymore. It's literally her sister, I'm sure girls in the family in red and literally maybe 7 ppl in the back. My guess is she didn't like that today was no longer just about her when in reality it never was. After that baby she will have the middle sibling syndrome and most of us know how that is going to go.
@@cbarnes9808 pls stop this is just a tradition so pls calm down how will you feel if someone says bad things about your tradition
@@cbarnes9808it’s the parents fault tho
Mini: ⚘️You mean to tell me that my dress is not an ORIGINAL!⚘️ I am undone!😂🥰
They should have made the little girl a different style of dress because even though she was little she Understood!
Nah she’s just a spoiled ass brat. I have only one sister and she is younger than me and she has always been over the moon to match with me even in childhood. And I’ve always felt the same way. Maybe these girls don’t have the best relationship.
@@mariyamiller3474this exactly. people excusing this behavior are definitely the type to give her whatever she wants and that’s not teaching her shit, she’s definitely a brat
bro have you not read the other replies.. someone perfectly explained why the younger sister had a matching dress, not to mention younger kids do not always like to match, but i’m guessing it’s not your culture so maybe read a little about it then make comments🥰
@@mariyamiller3474you and the other 41 people need to seek immediate help for talking shit on a child. absolutely disgusting
It’s not her day..the dresses are made to match something like a bridal party
It feels like the parents picked the dress for the young child and she probably felt like an princess and was shocked her older sister had the same exact dress and felt humiliation. Child's first bully is the parent. 😢
I feel bad for both of the girls, you can tell the older sister was expecting a different reaction from the younger one, but I hope the party still went well and they both had fun
i’d be mad if someone had my matching dress like i can’t ever have nothing to myself smh
Bro that parent whoever took care of that child and got her that dress that’s extremely disrespectful why would you guys get the same dress as the BIRTHDAY GURL it’s not that little kids birthday?
Edit: ok I think I’m making a fight in the comments Soo Srry guys but my opinion is my opinion just stop fighting:/
That’s her little sister just to lyk but I totally agree that she shouldn’t be wearing that on the Birthday girls quince
its called a mini me, their little sister or cousin matches with you
@@NayNaygzthe1andonly yea it’s a tradition I’m getting a mini me for my quince but it’s a tradition for all girl that are Hispanic
It’s a tradition when I have my quince I’m getting a mini me and it’s for Hispanic girls
@@TyhhjgfhghhI’ve been to many traditional Mexican quinces and never saw the birthday girl with a mini..
I think she was just shy guys. Walking through a door and seeing a bunch of people staring at you expectantly is nerve wracking enough for most adults!
Nope. Shocked maybe and definitely disappointed .
She said ohhhhhh hellll nah I am not trying to match I want to be a pretty princess without matching with the big quince
الله يثبت علينا العقل و الدين
She was like I wanna be the only pretty one
Or maybe her fam is mean to her? She could also be shy or have anxiety.
@@rebeccagutierrez8170 it's the older sisters big day she's wearing a identical to her older on her older sisters special day I don't think her family is mean to her at all
@@ST-qo3yldoesn’t mean she can’t have anxiety still
@@CariAndLenny what did anything I say have to do with whether or not she has anxiety 💀
@@CariAndLenny that’s just her being shy, that’s not even anxiety😂
Y'all this isn't a "tradition". It's a new thing. I'm Mexican and I've gone to several quinces in my life, never saw a miniquince EVER. This is actually something new and it looks like it was developed in the American-Mexican community. Like it's cool if both the mini and the quince are okay with it? But don't call it tradition just yet, if it sticks and more people do it and it's done over the years then yeah, it could be a tradition, as of now it's a trend and nothing more.
All the Quinceañeras I’ve ever been to have always had a little mini Quinceañeras …
The Quinceañera that I went to last night had a mini quinceanera. The older sister gave the younger sister the last doll.
She was like I have the prettiest dress then she is like what the freak me and my sister are matching
Her face was like “hells nahh”
That voice reading Quinceañera kills me everytime
I was about to say the same thing. 😂 Like where did it get the"w" from? 🤔
Qincywera😂
Yes, make a child uncomfortable and force them to deal with it. This is the kind of thing that makes children hate their parents.
She wasn’t uncomfortable. She was angry that she was matching with her sister. The older sister loved it but the younger sister was jealous. She wanted it to be all about her. Not her older sister
If she has a good family this will be a faded memory that she won't even give 2 thoughts to later in life. She probably won't even remember after 2 days. Kids are not eggs. Stop telling them every situation they are in they will fall apart and be damaged for life bc of it. It's literally not even her party and if it bc she's shy then let her stay by you and talk to her about maybe saying hi to everyone. No big deal, no childhood trauma and no reason to hate your parents forever. Yalls skin is like tissue paper.
Y'all act like the girl is able to buy her own dress. And parents should call them out if they have the same dress. And they didn't, so who's the blame here
Folks, a lot of non Hispanics are making BIG assumptions. This is literally the same concept of a flower girl at weddings.
I think she just felt shy by all the people staring. They both look beautiful
Nah, she was walking in confidently until she saw her sister and her face went sour XD I think she didn't fully understand who and what the celebration was about x)
MINI QUEENSAWUEWUA 😂
Lmao bro really said nope😂
the younger girls gonna have her own one day, today isn’t about her, you shouldn’t make them match because they’re clearly unhappy with it
Dude i absolutely hated getting dragged around by my arm like that when i was little, feel so bad rn.
It’s the same as seeing someone wear the same prom dress
My senior year of HS we had this thing called a Senior Dinner Dance. It's different from prom as it's not a big and grandiose. Well not 2 but 3 girls in my senior class ended up wearing the exact same dress. Needless to say, they weren't happy they looked like triplets but still made the best of their evening.
Reminds me of my sweet 16, when my sister wore a princess dress and crown 😅😂