We Need To Move… (House Update)
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- čas přidán 4. 06. 2024
- Things have taken a turn for the worst with our house and we've honestly had enough! We needed this rant and also we thought it might help us to share what's going on so that you guys can also comment if you've had similar issues. Let us know how you've resolved renting nightmares and how you managed to get out of them. Love you all! ❤️
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Most landlords are only delighted when tenants do things like the garden and make the place more homely.
No they’re not. Tenants should always ask permission.
@@annab5279 did I say they shouldn't have asked for permission?
@@keepingitreal.5539 then it's clear why they pee'd off the landlord 😂😂
@markbolton4550 all the comments I've read so far it's been you arguing with people in the comment section and hating on the two of them. Keep it to yourself.
@@theawatson152 sorry.
POPPY IS GLOWINGGGGGG 😍😍😍
your not in the wrong at all, their behaviour towards you and your family is terrible
Only if they're telling the truth... 🤣
@@markbolton4550you the landlord by any chance? Commenting quite abit
@@joecolclough3775 Nah I've got better things to do than rent a house to these lemons 🤣
@@markbolton4550 what like, reply to multiple people in comment sections on YT about a topic that’s got nothing to do with you?
@@joecolclough3775 exactly 😆
I feel you are justified in all you have said. Is normal to have arguments. Please don't put this on yourselves. You had to deal with an awful landlord and estate agent. I feel so sad for Poppy, pregnant two young kids having to deal with all of this. I do hope it all gets better for you once you move. I love you guys and your content. Always keeping it real xx
We moved into a property a few years ago and the oven markings had worn away so we couldn't see what setting or temperature we were setting it to. I found a £20 replacement sticker online and asked the landlord to cover the cost and they refused. When we moved out i made sure we returned it back to its original state 😆.
I had bad landlords and agencies when I was living at university. I made a complaint to the local council because they didn't inform us we had rats in the walls and it got pretty bad. I also made a complaint with evidence of things in the property (make sure you record/take photos of everything with these types of people!) to my local council officers and ombudsman for support. It's not fair you're all going through this, hopefully you'll get rid of them soon enough.
You both look so well.
Wow i couldn’t deal with all that stress with the house 🤦🏼♀️
you’ll both be happier when you move, wishing you both a happy new home for you and the girls 🤍
Oh god guys that sounds absolutely awful !!! You aren't being dramatic at all, I can't believe how rude the landlord is being, his attitude sounds gross! Also the estate agent is being so inconsiderate what is wrong with people! Yeah get out of there, I'm so glad you two have got each other to pull each other through this hard time! Xxx
Almost sounds like things don't add up, re-watch the video, these 2 contradict themselves over and over 😂Maybe the landlord should post his response 😂😂
You’re such a beautiful family 💕 I hope to be just like you one day, hoping our rainbow baby comes soon. Fills me with so much joy seeing you all succeed 🥰 xxx
Sorry to hear about this hopefully u get it sorted soon xx
You are both 100% spot on! That’s absolutely NOT ON and we don’t blame you for not wanting to be there.
Stay positive guys❤
So sorry to hear you’re going through this too. We rent via the same letting agent in Bucks (also used to rent in Surrey!) and also find them atrocious. Very obnoxious and accusatory on things there’s absolutely no need to be. We’re moving out of this property in summer and expect no end of issues with them then! A tip - make sure you take photos of EVERYTHING when you go, so they can’t pin anything on you. Good luck finding your next home, hopefully it’s a more pleasant experience! X
Blow ups every now and again is definitely normal ❤ love you both hope you get somewhere nice to live xx
My new landlord has been amazing! Totally fine with any home improvements, also lets us off money if we do the work ourselves. Good luck finding a new home xx
I love being your therapist🤣🤣🤣
Your totally valid though!!! Onwards and upwards guys🫶🏼
Poppy, I’m pregnant and due on the 27th August (exactly a week behind you!) and I’ve just moved into my first home that I’ve managed to buy. It’s a tiny two bed terrace but required SO much work and the stress really got to me with the pregnancy hormones added in. So I can’t even imagine how you must be feeling dealing with all of this - please look after yourselves (both of you!) and keep looking for another option as I think even knowing that you have somewhere else lined up will make you feel better. I have my fingers crossed for you! Xxx
Good luck to the neighbours when you bring home a newborn😂 some people have nothing else to do but complain. An elderly neighbour a few years ago reported us for banging all day long to the point that she wouldnt use her gas fire as she thought it would cause a spark! 🙈 we racked our brains thinking what we were doing that was annoying her & it turned out it was our baby learning to crawl on the laminate flooring, she called me a liar when i told her, wouldnt have it one bit! He soon learned to walk then he ran everywhere ! 😂
Doesn't sound like the neighbours are the ones that need the luck here given the agents/landlord want them out 😂 more like good luck finding a new place at such short notice if they're evicted.
@@markbolton4550what is your problem? You’ve gone through all the comments commenting negative things about the couple and arguing with everyone.
@@charlottehodgkins2840 no problem, if people wish to believe everything in this video without stopping and thinking for a moment carry on. I mean, these two also need to realise that this video alone is enough to get them kicked out, this is private renting not social housing. My point stands, good luck finding a new house at such short notice. Where's the argument?
Love a good rant! So so sorry that you're going through this! You are NOT being the Karens at all! I hope that this situation gets solved for you all soon! Sending all the love to you guys💗
I have just moved into my first house and I had exactly the same problem with the people who lived here before. I was getting the keys on the Friday and on the Tuesday I came to make sure everything was cleared. There was bags and bags fully of stuff in the loft and then the downstairs cupboards fully of stuff as well. The kitchen was not clean and I ended up having to clean the oven for 3 hours and even then I still need to get someone over. You should feel happy and excited but all it did was cause stress and more work for you to do.
good little video. move when you can and you guys are the best family on YT!
Arrh bless you , and it is meant to be a lovely time for you and your family in your new home 🏠 xx
Love you guys and your videos so much. What a stress this must be for you all. Feel so sorry for Poppy dealing with all this as well as being pregnant & having 2 young kids.
Hope you guys find your forever home and settle be happy x
I have had complaints after one argument with my partner (of 4 years now) and I do believe arguments are part of a relationship x
We also have a 1 year old. Been in temporary accomodation for almost 4 months now and moving on to our new home soon.
Good luck with the move and everything guys 💗
Wow I’m actually shocked how you been treated very unprofessional on their behalf!! You guys stand your ground I would deffo want to move
Some landlords are easy going and don't mind what you do inside or outside, some on the other hand are absolute knobs and won't let you change anything.
I rented somewhere and the toilet was wobbly and I only had 1 bathroom and I said it's major and needs sorting properly, took him a week to get a handy man out and it was still wobbly and leaking.
So I do feel for you both.
You’re completely in the right… arguments are so normal in relationships but you get over them and become stronger. I really hope you find your perfect home before baby no.3 arrives. All the luck ❤
Report him to the ombudsman. Also how did he record you is that even allowed with GDPR?
Gdpr covers the way businesses handle information if a neighbour recorded them then that would have nothing to do with the legislation. As we've seen unfortunately in society people are free to record other people without restriction in public or private domestic settings. You also can't report anyone to the ombudsman without following their complaints procedure first and foremost.
Do you really think they just randomly recorded one 2 minute argument? Use your brain 😂there's clearly a lot more to this situation 🤣
@@LittleBitInLovenot correct re the part about businesses. Individuals can also be subject to UK GDPR depending on the nature of processing.
@@Sleepyburrito_25 Do a little more research on GDPR 🤣firstly, if there's a video of their argument, how did they not see someone recording? Secondly, even if they were, there was clearly enough distress for the cameraman to record, therefore it falls under protection of vital interests. GDPR wouldn't stand a chance here.
@@markbolton4550excuse me- read my response and do YOUR research. I didn’t comment on this context, only that UK GDPR *can* apply to individuals and not just businesses…
Totally relate guys, currently living in London with a nightmare of a landlord who also owns multiple properties won't even fix a leaky sink without calling us demanding honestly move not worth the stress
This sounds so bad I feel so sorry for you guys ❤ I would move I know it be very stressful but you need to feel comfortable with where you live, and couples definitely argue it's normal love watching your social media guys ❤❤
Omg we had the same in our last house, when my children were tiny and they made me feel like my children couldn't be children. I used to cry most days and hubby worked away, made me feel like a nervous wreck so I feel your pain, I say get out now definitely bad vibes. Rented or not you should feel like you can make it your home. Sending love xxx
Bless you both I would not want to live in a place like that I would start looking now and more early ❤❤❤❤
As long as the “noise” (also wouldn’t even class that as noise) is between social-able hours its perfectly legal. So they are lying there. You have 2 kids if it was happening in the early hours like 11pm onwards it’s different but if you have an argument with your partner is completely normal. You can report it as that is a form of harassment. I work in housing sorry for the rant
That's assuming this video isn't full of lies... Use your brain, do you really think these 2 aren't to blame? Just watch their videos they say they argue in almost every video... Yet here they claim they have 2 arguments a year 😆 They've clearly pee'd everyone off from the landlord, letting agent, to the neighbours.
@@markbolton4550 don’t tell me to use my brain. I work in housing so I know how it works. Every couple argues. You are seeing snippets of videos, arguing and bickering are 2 different things
@@oliviaconnor762 but watching this video is representing the situation 100% honestly? Ok then 🤣 If you work in housing you'd know they're breaking their tenancy agreement with multiple "facts" they've stated in this video. These 2 have no leg to stand on. Enjoy your job in housing, thanks for sharing that.
I’ve had my fair share of bad landlords and found citizens advice helpful, they got me out of one tenancy after 3 weeks!! Love you this vid, felt like we are all sat in the car with you 😂
Hello guys hope you doing okay and I know is difficult what wrong, Hopefully you be fine is a terrible family.
Love you so much have a fantastic day.
That is awful, it suck’s you have had to go through that 😣 hopefully you can find another property asap, where you are treated as you should be! X
It sounds like you’ve made the garden better!!!
Probably better to ask for permission first then 😂😂
I’m so sorry you are all going through this. No-one should ever be put in this position regarding their landlord and the estate agents, it’s incredibly unprofessional and insensitive to your situation.
Hopefully you find somewhere new that is everything you hope it to be and more! You deserve to feel safe, happy and healthy in your own home! That’s just a basic right!
Arguments are 100% healthy in a relationship! I’m almost 3 years married and we have arguments now and again! Talking things over and being honest is what makes a marriage/relationship work in my opinion 😊
I have everything crossed for you that your situation improves! You all work so hard, you deserve happiness! ❤
Nothin ever easy guys all sent to try us keep your call it will all work out in end ❤
I dealt with an estate agents like this in Portsmouth called ‘Barnards’. So threatening, unprofessional and lazy when it suited them. They tried to claim my deposit when I moved but luckily I had documented every single thing. They did end up taking some of the deposit but no where near as much as they wanted. They threatened court and I agreed at which point they backed down. Make sure you fight for your deposit and take lots of pictures for proof!
Me and my partner were in the exact position as you guys, we were fortunate enough to be able to move back in with my parents until we find somewhere else but honestly none of this is your fault! I’m so sorry you’re being put in this position, we all know how excited you guys were to move ❤️ things will get better, you guys have got this xx
You’re so right about estate agents telling you stuff about properties before they rent/sell to you. The shit they get away with by hiding stuff is criminal.
There should be transparency laws around houses, the value is the value and all problems and work done to the house must be clearly declared prior to any purchase being made.
Pops looks gorgeous xxx
Bats are very protected species yeah cant disturb them n there up the attic in lots of houses watch at night great air acrobotics catching summer mosquitos etc
Jeeez give your notice and move out asap sounds like a nightmare situation! Life's too short 🥰
People are very tence right now there is alot of dark forces please just make sure you are all safe and never apologize for family noise love you all xx
such a beautiful little family ❤
Sorry if this sounds too personal but are you guys looking into a mortgage and owning outright? You both deserve your own house that you can make your own and I know you’d both make it amazing…understand that it’s not that easy for everyone though and the housing market is probably rubbish at the moment
I imagine they’re waiting to have so many years of company accounts to apply for a mortgage/ save up for a deposit. When you’re self employed you have to provide a lot more evidence vs if you’re employed to get a mortgage
Not everyone has the credit, they where in council housing previously. Give them time
They probably can’t currently get a mortgage. TikTok isn’t seen as a stable income, no matter how much they’re currently making.
Try not to let them make you feel they can boot you out. It’s a lot harder than they would have you believe and they would put themselves at risk of prosecution if they tried it. Take your time, find somewhere new and best of luck with everything. It will all work out 😊
Our key has to be flat to pull out, like landscape. Try that ❤
I completely agree with you Jay, arguments are part and parcel of of relationships, if people say they never argue they are lying, there’s nothing like a good old argument to clear the air 😂
Move guys… They won’t stop. You need to be able to feel secure in your home. My Neighbours and I laugh with each other about the spats me, my husband and kids have! I hear them, and they hear us. It’s life! I once text my closet Neighbor letting her know we were “all ok” and I had just hidden the TV remote from the kids (they were yelling)… 🤦🏽♀️😁… A part of raising a family. We are a happy, healthy connect family, just not quiet x 😅😊
I had a bad landlord like that, and he wouldn’t even pay for a doorknob for our bathroom door as it kept falling off and every time he sent someone to replace it they glued it back on? I left soon as I could and now I have a really good landlord who actually helps. Frank Innes is a really good estate agent they are so friendly and helpful xxxxxx
I am a landlady and would not leave my tenant without an oven for 6 weeks! I would also not expect her to sort a lock and would get it sorted asap. Although the unfortunate side is the garden would have needed permission with any change, although to most it wouldn’t be an issue.
My partner and I have been together for 4 years since 16. We’re now 20 and 21. We argue and mostly about finances because it is stressful and it’s the mess he makes around the house but apart from that we’re good. We’re not good at communicating but I think not everybody is. When it comes to money in a relationship it’s hard because we’re all trying our best to provide for family. We have two dogs and have been thinking about trying for a baby. My partner is a bit in debt whereas I’m saving up my extra money for our future children and a house. So it can be hard.
You are so right to want to move as you both don’t seem to enjoy it, and you have kids so your right to put them first too x
A plot of land and a large mobile home sounds amazing ❤
when jay does an impression of the neighbours dogs yapping, spat my drink out over my laptop haha. i love a good rant!! not that i wish you a stressful life guys but just that you film every rant in the future! LOL
My heart breaks for you both, all you want is to make the best home for your family! No estate agent or landlord should make you feel this uncomfortable in a home you’re paying to live in! Hope everything works out for the best for you all xxx
Not nice to hear you'r having this experience, your both honest people and they just seem really difficult landlords & estate agents. Hopefully you find somewhere elsewhere quickly for you to settle with your family, you all deserve much better
I feel for you both.I’ve rented the same house for 3 years landlady was fine.She lives abroad and now has asked an agent to manage it which I’m happy about as there are things that should have been fixed years ago but she kept putting it off.She has my deposit and im still waiting for her her to forward it to the agent before signing a tenancy but omg the agent is so pushy and it’s taken 5 of them so far to sort out the tenancy agreement.Same we have a garage and it’s filled with boxes but landlords can do this. Good lock guys
Get out immediatley don't take more stress ❤
Your completely right
Really enjoyed this video, they're out of order. Me and my fiancé have big loud arguments too from time to time, it's normal for two big personalities ❤
Oh god guys this sounds like a TOTAL nightmare for you and so super stressful! Try and move if you can because it’s not worth it xxx
Such a boring comment but I’m in Godalming and we rent from Seymour’s and they are so so good - lovely staff, quick replies and handy man visits would recommend for next time❤️
this is so really sad to here, lets hope you move on soon from this place, enjoy your holiday
I feel so bad for you 😢 this happened to me waiting ages to get safety things sorted, and things like hot water and leaks it's a joke that they just don't care and can let you live like that 😞
It’s tainted it! I’ve moved twice because of unreasonable landlords. It’s mega stressful but it will be for the best xx
I'm actually fuming for you!!! You are not in the wrong. Sending love xxx
I've been a landlord.In renancies it is always that you have to ask can you change any decore or garden change without asking.That is a law.The landlord should want the doors safe to not be risk and storage all should be written the details so there are both sides need writing the communication and all is then proof
No that’s disgusting! It won’t get better guys, just get out of there as quickly as you can! It’s so stressful and rubbish that you’re going through this 🥺 X
Loved this. You are right!!! Move get out of there it will only get worse.
Jay is looking a 10/10, bro has got better looking as he's got older
Our last landlord was amazing paid for blackout blinds throughout had a shower put into the second bathroom, replaced our carpets after 2years i miss him 😂 i hope the people who came after us were good to him.
@@thomascord1464 there are some brilliant landlords out there, mine is the crème de la crème.
Nice to hear others have got decent ones too.
Living here, I'm happy to replace things that i wouldn't normally have to, because shes great.
You can tell how stressful it is, with J&P once you get a shit landlord / agent.
I do hope they manage to sort something!
It’s sad it’s gotten to the point you guys are even second guessing your relationship if it’s normal to argue🥺 I’ve got two kids been with my partner 8 years we argue like cats and dogs but like Jay says it’s completely normal and healthy to have these ❤hope everything works out for you guys wishing you luck and you’re both definitely doing everything right!
It’s awful that you are being treated like this, you are not being over the top! Xxx
You’re not in the wrong! We also rent and we’re lucky we haven’t had any bad experiences but I would feel exactly the same in terms of security for the family. That uneasy feeling of not feeling secure or relaxed in your own home when you’ve got kids is awful.
Me and my partner have 3 kids under 6 and it’s mental and we bicker most days, it’s completely normal. We ain’t statues, we have feelings and us pregnant gals have hormones 😂 love you two and your little family! Hope you find your perfect home 🫶🏻
How did they film you?! They want you to move out so they will be getting want they want!! I would say ask for a new contact at the estate agent, log a complaint and stay in the house! Try make friends with the landlord, go sweeten him up . Good luck guys ❤
Love a rant...... red flags from landlord and estate agents get out if there. (Absolute 🔔🔚's treating you like that)
Communication is key in relationships and a good argument to let of steam now and again too 😊
Bring on the next video ❤
I used to think arguments in my relationship was a sign of weakness. I didn’t realize that it’s actually healthy. Getting things off the chest in a screaming back for 5 mins twice a year maybe 3 times is brilliant. We’re all human at the end of the day, we all bottle up our feelings to give the other the benefit of the doubt. People always say communication is key and it absolutely is, but not all of us are good at communicating but at the end of the day every couple argues, nobody likes it but it happens and you feel better after it 💖
Wow sounds like you both have a lot on your plate , if you can get a mortgage however its impossible for people to get on the property ladder now
Thats such a healthy thing when you have a disagreement and it blows up...but you can come back after a little breather and just let it blow over.... that's when you have found the right person.
Poppy looks amazing ❤❤
That's disgusting the way you have been treated!! Hope you and your family get sorted very soon 😊
Make sure you take photos of how you leave the house when you move out! Just incase they try and get more money out of you and say that things are damaged etc xx
when we were putting new doors on our new bathroom we just fitted the door so it opened the opposite way so it didn’t hit the shower door glass. So instead of the door hinge being on the right it’s on the left.
I got an email from my estate agents because of noise complaints of me putting my washing machine on at 9pm and running the hoover around. I rang them back to say do shift work and sometimes it’s the only time I can do any house work, I’d love to be able to do it at a normal time. If you want you can come round and do it for me. The woman didn’t know what to say!
Just remember, you guys are wonderful people normal average human beings, the work that you are on the house in the garden most landlords would love a tenant like that, some people just thrive off making other people unhappy, but because of the stress it’s causing you and your family it’s not like you’re giving up but I do think you need to move somewhere where you’re gonna be happy you can’t live like this day today. It’s a lot being in a prison. And that landlord wants to be careful and that that they don’t get somebody 1 million times worse a rough family playing music and doing all kinds. They need to be careful what they wish for. Best of luck in everything you guys do. ❤
For your own peace and serenity your best moving , they sound like nightmare landlords
So you guys in this video our like 250 yds from my flat in this vid and I see jay in the shop a lot but I only moved here 2 months ago but the best people I've ever been with was Seymour's there just down the high street and they were quick and rlly polite and have help me a lot when I've locked myself out of my flat so I would 100% use them
Omg I'm one of them that in an argument if he threw a piece of paper at me I throw a book at him 🤣🤣🤣I'm sorry your going through this with landlord/estate agents once you get a neighbour that complains about silly things you need to go, I remember when the bungalow next to me was selling, lovely old couple arrived and parked, the lady facing came out and said "You can't park there " sadly they never brought the place and guess what we ended up with the worse people buying it ,I keep my self to my self and the neighbours hate that cos I'm not out there gossiping, hope all works out for you, but for the children's sake you need to look around ,what's it going to be like when baby arrives x
I actually LOVED this video, love a good rant!! But I was so shocked because it’s awful how you’ve been treated, you’re definitely not in the wrong. Absolutely no need to be that strict, threatening & unprofessional, especially as new tenants who are a family with kids. I’d 100% make a complaint & take to an ombudsman if you find the time to do so x
Loved this , there is nothing wrong with your relationship an argument every so often is health they are treating you guys horribly
Loved this rant video! Rows are normal ! you come across as the most lovely and loving family .❤ I feel ur feeling all this pressure of just family life without horrid moody landlords and Karens coming for u. Do u want me to get em for ya! 😂.....Best family , love yous all 😊
That's actually disgusting how you guys were treated!! I hope you guys find somewhere really fast ❤
I feel they are being like this on purpose and malicious. I had a thought that they know who you are and jealousy could be happening. Just a thought, but you guys need to move asap I don’t live there but I feel like it won’t ever feel like your home. Do what’s best for you guys xx
I feel stressed for you 😢. Get packed up and outta there!!!
Maybe you could try to agree an early departure date with the landlord (via the Estate Agent). You shouldn’t have to, but if you had to/were able to lose a month’s rent while he finds someone else, it would be worth it so you could at least feel settled. Neither of you need the extra stress 😊
Pops is glowing
From previous experience - it won’t get better. A few things though, if there are cameras at the property, I’d definitely request they’re either removed or you have access to them as how do you know he’s not recording you? Also, noise laws come in from between 11pm and 7am so outside of these hours are fair game and wouldn’t stand legally. Also - have you been sent your details for your deposit? It should be help in a deposit protection scheme (not by landlord or by agency by law) and if you haven’t been sent this you can report them and get up to 4x your deposit back. You can leave at any time providing you pay your rent for your time by contract up to the 6 months. Give you notice and go it’s not worth the stress.
Find a new place for you n the girls that you feel safe and secure in cant belive they are doing that to yous especially while poppys preggers tell your landlord and the neighbours to jog on the jumped up tossers keep your chin up guys
I worked for an estate agents years ago and this was a daily occurrence, as much as you do get nightmare tenants.. landlords were the bane of my life!!!! Some of them literally do not care as long as they’re getting £££. You should look into receiving compensation for things like loss of cooking facilities, so many tenants didn’t realise they were entitled!! The estate agents sounds AWFUL too xx