The truth about everything… I’m sorry.
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- čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
- I just wanted to share the truth about some things in my life. There are definitely some misconceptions about me and some things I struggle with every day. I hope this wasn't too boring and you got to know the real me a little better!! I am SO GRATEFUL that there are people who choose to watch my videos...it really means the world to me.
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The fact that you made this video when you didn’t have to shows how much you truly care. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing about you! 🥰
Well said!
Literally ❤
Shea…you are growing up and realizing there are more important things in life. Our priorities change as we get older. Way to go, Shea!
Well said!
This!
I couldn’t of said it better!
Agreed! We all change as we get not younger! 💕
i'm so going to borrow this. I'm not getting older I'm getting not younger! Love it!@@debbydunc
The fact that you have doubts about being a good mom, means you ARE a good mom!! Most moms have insecurities. It’s the ones who don’t have any insecurities that need to be worried!! Love you Shea!
Agree :)
The very fact that Shea expresses them,means she IS concerned about it-if she didn't care,she wouldn't take the time to do it.
Shea, you’re NORMAL ❤ Thank you for helping us feel like we are too 🫶🏼
Girl don’t stress. This is just real life. We love you ❤
It’s okay not to be perfect … being real and honest is so much more appreciated and also satisfying for yourself..
Questions:
1. What is a typical day for Shea? From morning to night.
2. How do you pump out so much content, how do you go about planning and producing your content? How long does it take to film for one video? Kudos to you, you put out so much in a short amount of time!
3. How do you balance your life with your marriage, kids, and work?
4. Any date ideas that you can share that you have with your husband?
I’ve been a subscriber of yours for years and years!! Your life seems so organized and well planned, I’m fascinated!
By the way, thank you for being vulnerable and talking about your teeth. I have one similar problem that makes me very vulnerable as well and don’t like to share with anyone. I can’t imagine opening up about it with millions of people! 😭
Take care Shea & keep doing what you do, you’re amazing!! 🤗❤️
Girl! We ALL feel this way!!! You are totally normal! I’m a 50 year old mom of 2 boys (grown men now) and I completely identify with everything you said! Hang in sister!!!
Me too but I have no kids . . and at least she's been able to afford having her teeth worked on , I'm in just as much trouble & don't have the money!. It's just as embarassing as it is scary ! I feel for her there, it causes so much anxiety & dread
Oh, we’re so alike and on the same page. Now I know why I subscribed!
Same !!! I have 2 boys n my oldest currently is acting like I’m the most annoying thing in the world 😭. It’s really hard but I know that HE KNOWS, he’s loved ❤
Girl, I am 53 with 3 grown kids and this is all normal. It is all normal! Love you Shea!
I have two teenage sons and one daughter. And like you around that age especially I felt a disconnect with my older son. Looking back I think it was testosterone that was part of everyone's moodiness. My suggestion, is to have the whole family do a love language quiz! They are so quick and easy and fun if you keep it light. I found that my oldest son has a different love language than me and my second son, it's really been helpful!❤️
This is probably my favorite video you have ever done. I love the openness and honesty. Wishing you continued success and happiness from one mom to another.
Shea, honestly knowing you have clutter makes you even more approachable than before. Plus no mom shame here. Boys go through these phases, and honestly aren’t always very cuddly. I have 2 teenage sons. From birth, my oldest who is 16 has always been a thinker and talker, but not a hugger. My youngest who is 14 still won’t go to bed without a hug. You have done a courageous thing, opening your life on CZcams. We have no room to do anything but applaud you. You have a great channel with great content. You are always enjoyable to watch. Rest easier. You are doing great!!
Don’t apologize for being who you are! That is why we subscribe - you are a real person! We all have clutter and we all have chaos. We love you because you are relatable and real. Hang in there!
Shea this is just real life, in a real home. I have a closet full of FABULOUS clothes & shoes but honestly 90% of the time I am in leggings and a t-shirt with hair in a bun no makeup. You're doing great!
You're a great mom. How do I know? You respected your son's wishes to not post any of them with him in them that he felt was embarrassing. You listen and engage with your family, and your audience. From one mom to another, YOU GOT THIS(even if you sometimes think/feel that you don't).
I feel like you fearing you're "not a good enough mom", proves what a great mom you actually are ❤
Exactly!
This! People who don’t question whether or not they’re a good parent are the ones who aren’t. They don’t care enough to even explore the idea.
When my daughter was growing up I used to say it would be easier to say the things I didn't feel guilty about. Being a mom is hard and we worry about everything. You are normal.
Bingo! The ones that don’t worry - s/b the ones that do. Must be nice! Except the kids suffer.😢
This is so true!
This was so refreshing to watch. I wish CZcamsrs would talk more about the reality of their lives because it’s soo relatable. I appreciate you and this video! 🫶
Your beautiful, I'm a mom of two boys too. I always did the best for my boys. My youngest son always felt I loved my oldest more, I never loved one more than the other. I was really confused. This still continues , my youngest doesn't like me, it hurts. As far as the fashion things go, I have tried to be fashionable but I noticed when I tried to wear the things others wear, they don't look good. They just aren't me. I do my own style and it works. I hope your teeth continue to get better!.
Shea as a 62 year old lady I can say I really appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. You are evolving and changing as you get older. It is ALL part of the process of life. We all have these “what the hell?!” Moments where we wake up and look at ourselves and go what happened, where am I, how did I get here? (Now I have the Talking Heads song going thru my head.) That is normal! As for kids, each age has it’s own hurdles, perspectives, needs and challenges. You are just going thru one of those shifts now.
As for designer purses. Yeah they are nice and beautiful and all. But honestly, most of us are busy moms and grandmas and Amazon buys and tips and tricks are really MORE in touch with most all of our day to day lives. Besides, right now if we had an extra 3,000.00 we would probably have to put it on bills and groceries right now. So the purse thing is nice. But not practical or where your viewers are most likely at. As you said: It’s the little things and the people around you that matter most!
I remember when you were sweating it out and apprehensive about quitting your job and going to CZcams full time. Look how far you have come! Keep up the good work, keeping it real and being your authentic you! Wishing you much love, happiness and peace! Be kind to yourself!❤🙏☮️
Shea, you were the first influencer I subscribed to on YT several years ago. I only subscribe to kind-hearted people. Your honesty, thoughtfulness, intellect and beauty (inside and out) are appreciated. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It makes those of us that have struggles feel less alone. Love your videos because I learn so much from you.
A thousand times…THIS!
I agree!! Right on.
You are an intelligent, thoughtful woman who is just finding out she is much more than she ever thought she was. This is the beginning of the really good stuff in life, Shea. You are fine. Your kids are fine. Your viewers are fine. Shock! You just admitted you are a real person. I am sure they love you more for it. Take it from an old lady. Everything is fine.
Paxton is 11, pre-teen, close to puberty, this slight disconnect with him is perfectly normal. Yes, confusing days are ahead, but ask any mom who has been thru this, this is the way it is, you’re not the only one.
My mom used to say that the way you know you have been a good parent is that your kids are happy and independent!
also, each child is wired differently, and some kids are more like the mother and some kids are more like the father.....The love is the same!!!
Yes, I'm a Mom of two. I've definitely been through this with my kids.
So true !! Once my oldest hit 16 I became the most annoying thing to him despite us being super close his whole life before that 😂
@@erynkathrynorr9334 Yes, Sam's thing with my boy. Now he's 40 and I have to text him weekly or biweekly just to keep in touch. He doesn't call.
Birth order is important. Oldest kids are responsible & independent.
Thank you for bringing us all back down to Earth! I wish more influencers would talk about real life.. real issues we have as parents trying to navigate through life while simultaneously taking care of our children and their needs. Ugh. I love it! Keep being your organic self!
News flash….you are human! You are normal! Just enjoy your life and don’t focus on the small stuff
❤This is so refreshing & relatable. Thank you for the realness that is so needed, desired & RARE today❤
This video honestly made me feel a lot better about myself. I’m a brand new mom and I feel like my house can never/will be perfect, but I keep feeling pressure to have it be. And I also go out in just sweats! Thank you so much for creating this. It breaks down that perfection wall and let’s us see the real you. ❤
It also breaks my heart that anyone would say you love one son more than the other.
Shea you’re such a lovely person and obviously an incredible mum. You have been through so much with your teeth and lots of other struggles and to have shared those experiences with us has shown that you are a normal, vulnerable person. The internet can be such a toxic place and CZcams comments can seriously get in your head. please don’t let this world make you feel terrible when you are just doing your job and sharing your opinions with us. If people don’t like your channel they shouldn’t watch. Take care of yourself. Looking forward to your next video. ❤
We are so much more alike than I ever realized! 😆 No wonder I love your channel. Keep being you, that’s what we’re here for! ❤
I’ve followed you for years Shea, and this video spoke to me more than the other hundreds I’ve watched. Your admission of your experience with your kids is EXACTLY what I’ve experienced with my own, and mine are adults now. It NEVER goes away! Thank you and lots of love to you ! In solidarity with you ❤
Really grateful for this video and for your transparency! I often think about how fashion influencers and people who build their brand off of having a perfect marriage/family must be silently suffering. Perfection isn’t real. And having to curate a perfect image for your livelihood HAS to be exhausting and frustrating. Only showing people the small fraction of your life that’s together when everything else is falling apart has to be demoralizing. And that’s why I’m so proud of you. We’re all normal. And if someone is upset because your life is more like theirs than not… oh well. You’re doing great!
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I love how your channel has shifted!! I actually unsubscribed a few years back because I didn't like the high-end stuff videos and didn't want to follow a channel so focused on what is unachievable by most people. But I came back because I love the other content. Love this video, Shea!
Please don't stop showing us your favorite Amazon products! You are so good at sifting through a jam-packed and overwhelming place and picking out the best items. I have found many great things that I love, thanks to you. Keep up the good work!
This video is so relatable. Thanks Shea, for keeping it real! 🤗 There is strength and courage in vulnerability. We all evolve and grow. 💖
You are amazing!! We all struggle as moms and I SO appreciate your honesty in this video. We love you!! ❤❤
Shea, that means you are maturing. I am a poor 73 yr old grandmother but I enjoy watching your Amazon videos. I get tickled when you do the out of style videos. You are a mom of boys ( my youngest daughter has 2boys) that are busy. You are busy , your husband is busy, life happens no matter who are. We go through cycles of life, we change and grow but sometimes we get in a rut and get comfortable. You hit on the truth though, your health, your family and loved ones is what really matters. We can wear the best of clothing, have the most beautiful appearance, but no love, it’s for nothing. I’ll can take it one step further, in my live, without God in my life, none of that means anything. If your life only evolves around beauty, expensive stuff etc, that’s sad. I see that you have grown and understand things differently now. I really admired that you stood against that designer that went crazy with the kids. You have a platform, you have followers and you can be a voice against selling children and child abuse. Hugs
Amen to that 🙌🏼
Mama you are human and you don't need to apologize for anything. Some people tell us way too much and it takes the fun out of viewing their content. You are growing and your taste changes. You don't owe anyone anything. Remember we all are here to learn. We are human ❤
Absolutely agree!
YESSSS 1000% agree
This video is probably the one video most of the world can relate too….I feel you momma 🙌🏽❤️
Literally most relatable video ever uploaded
Shea, the world is very lucky to have you in it❤ your vulnerability is so appreciated
The mom portion of this instantly made me cry because I’m a mom to two boys and I fear that everyday. Thank you for sharing the truth of what it’s like and feeling like you’re not doing a good job because moms need to hear and share how hard this is. I needed to hear someone else say it to not feel so alone. Thank you. ❤
You’re doing the best you can! Letting go as they grow up is SO hard ❤️❤️❤️
Nothing like that mom guilt 😢 I feel like it’s a near universal experience with mothers that very rarely gets talked about. We need to lift each other up ❤❤
I love this more than the other videos. In the world of comparison watching people live these “perfect” lives online, it’s nice to see it’s not like that, this is so much more relatable, thanks for sharing 💕
I’m 61 and all mams feel like you, I have 5 adult children and I always felt like that, but now I just know I did my very best. Delighted you shared that your home is not always perfect makes people feel that well that their normal. You go girl being honest is what makes you feel good
Can't please everyone. Be authentically you. Also not telling your audience everything about yourself is ok too - it's called boundaries and I fully support and respect them. I love all, I mean ALLLLLLLL your videos and wish you nothing but success and happiness. Editted to add a question: Do you read books? If so, which on is your fave?
It's okay Shea,I feel like most of us feel the same way as you.
I am also moving on from luxury designer items and I don't use deodorants with aluminium in them either😊 I love your content,keep doing what your doing girl.
I’ve been watching you for several years and it makes total sense that the content may change on your channel because obviously our lives change. As we get older things are less important, and other things are more important. I totally get it! You go, girl!!
Mom of 3 and mental health therapist here! Thanks for being so vulnerable! As far as your children go, I think that’s a very real struggle for lots of moms. It’s easy to relate more to one than the other(s). Your oldest is definitely at the age where he needs that independence, but, trust me, he will always need his mom! And it’s very normal for boys to bond more with their dads at that age. Just keep being the great mom that you are to both of your boys! I’m interested to know (maybe in your Q & A) what your birth order is? Oldest, middle, youngest, only child? If you’ve mentioned it before in other videos, it must have slipped by me. Believe it or not, your birth order can also greatly play a role in how you relate to your kids! Also, in your Q & A, can you share more about your family of origin? Your parents? Siblings? Growing up? Spill it, girl! Lol. I also highly recommend finding a great mental health therapist if you don’t have one that you can talk to on a regular basis about the stressful things in your life. A great therapist can help you immensely and make all the difference in the world!
Yes…some depression going on!
I’m the second born of four kids my brother is a year older, than me and two younger sisters. Now I have three children 2 boys and a girl.. what does this mean?
Talking about your Loved Ones was the BEST part of your video! Life is short…love hard!
No apologies necessary, Shae. You keep being you! Your sincerity shines!
PS: No doubt you’re a good mom.
I feel like you’re so unique compared to so many others and you’re so humble ...I bought so many products recommended by you that were so helpful. Plz don’t change we ❤️ you! 😁😁
Sharing the realness of motherhood is so appreciated! I feel like it’s one of the most taboo topics to talk about our insecurities as mothers and where we think we could improve that women get so much criticism from. Being a parent is hard and trying to do better at it when you’re not sure about anything at times is stressful. I wish more mothers would be open to the discussion. Thank you so much for being you. ❤
So basically you’re a real person!!! I love your honesty. It helps us all to identify with you. Your videos are so much fun to watch. I love your tips.
I'm from Brazil and this means that I have no access to the things you show in your channel, but I still love to see your videos because you're happy and funny and show interest things that I'm not even aware that exists....
So you make a difference, and a positive one..... So I'm grateful for your dedication to your channel and hope that everything gets better for you and your family ❤❤❤❤
Hey! Thank you for sharing your real self ! I know I can TOTALLY relate with you & I’m positive you’re not alone , there are others of us . lol! Most of us actually . AND there’s always going to be a “Karen” sharing her horrible opinions. You just have to ignore her. Keep doing what you’re doing !💕❤️💕😊
Shea, I just want to give you a hug! It's all okay. We're here because we like your videos, natural deodorant and all! I've taken so many of your recommendations, and I'm glad that I did. I'm calmer (Equilibria), my hair is growing back (Vegamour), I love my Greenpans, and that's just a few things off the top of my head. I probably won't ever own a luxury bag, but that's okay, too. You're evolving, and you're not perfect. Thank goodness, because neither are the rest of us! ❤
Oh my goodness Girl! I now love you even more!I get so tired of youtubers that wake up in a full on dress and makeup to pick flowers in their garden!!! I mean REALLY?! Life is tough for everyone! You do the best you can. Thank you so much for sharing!P.S. I don"t use deoderant with aluminum.I get sun every chance I can.I know about geoengineering and the list goes on! Always live your heart and talk to the guy above when you are troubled💞💞
Amen ❤
Wanting is better than having. I love your honesty. I hope you're feeling better soon with your teeth. I showed a young lady and it helped her to know someone else knows EXACTLY what she's going thru.
Thank you so much for this video! This vulnerability and honesty is what makes us know we can trust you as an influencer. You genuinely love what you do and the products you promote. I love all of your product videos, and they're so much fun to watch. You keep doing you!
Thank you for being so vulnerable, Shea!😊💞
I've always thought you were cool, sweet, intelligent, strong, kind hearted, beautiful, and a great wife and mom!
You are an amazing person!✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍✨️🤍
Thank you, Shea. Thank you for being you and for being human. What a relief it is to know that you are not as put together as you appear--fashion-wise, home management-wise, parent-wise, etc. Neither am I! LOL. We are all imperfect beings living in an imperfect world. I'm 58 and have been watching your channel for the past four or five years. And even though I'm much older than you, I'm drawn to your spirit and fun and your genuine caring for people by sharing helpful and healthful information. I see so much of me in you! Your questioning, your being overwhelmed, your living a different life than what your CZcams persona may suggest, your being hard on yourself. You question if you're a good Mom, especially to Paxton (sorry if I misspelled his name). I've done that many times too! My son is turning 40 this year, and we've had our ups and downs. He can get on my nerves like no one else, but he also can make me laugh like no one else. I know deep down I'm a good Mom, just like you know deep down you're a good Mom. Just keep in mind that this is how things are with P right now. Doesn't mean it's always going to be this way. If you haven't done so already, maybe read up on different personality types and that will help you. You'll learn to recognize yourself and recognize the people in your life and how best to interact with them. I also recommend prayer. As for the person who commented that you favor Hayes (again, sorry if I misspelled) over P, that person was extremely insensitive and rude. Their words are a great lesson for all of us to be kinder to each other, because we won't always know the story behind why people do what they do, nor do we need to. The fact that you are asking yourself some hard questions and voicing and facing your doubts and tough times shows that you're on the path to being a better you--for yourself and for your loved ones and for anyone who has the pleasure to interact with you. I think that is the ongoing journey of self-awareness that makes us all better people. That journey also changes our priorities. You're doing great! Try not to be so hard on yourself. You don't have to explain or justify anything to anybody. You just keep on being your great self! Take care. ❤
Shea....you have NO IDEA how much time you save me with your videos. You find the "stuff" I want or need and save me the time searching for it. So.....thank YOU! ❤
Girl🌻 !!! I watch you all the time and not single one of those negative comments have ever crossed my mind. You are kind and I totally support your journey and what you choose to share ❤️👯♀️✨
You don't owe anyone any explanation or excuse. You are human and have never claimed to be perfect. Those of us who follow you are entertained and genuinely like you (its like visiting with our sweet friend, Shae, lol). Please just delete and block the haters and know that people can suck but the majority of us LOVE you and keep coming back. Please don't change anything and just keep being the same wonderful Shae.
I have been following you for years and my favorite videos are the ones you talk about healthy solutions. I am trying to be more better at eating healthy and taking care of my family so please share more of your "weird" with us! I am so inspired by those videos to make changes in my life. ❤
Shea... You have NOTHING to apologize for. You are a beautiful woman who radiates from the inside out. I'm not a momma, so I can't advise you there, but you seem to love your family VERY MUCH. No one is perfect. You do you... I get excited when you post. I have learned SO MUCH from watching your videos. Many of the products my husband and I currently use have been recommended by you. I always appreciate your honesty when you review products. And I REALLY like your designer inspired videos. Haters gonna hate, NO MATTER WHAT. Ignore them and know that your videos inspire many of us. So sorry about your teeth issues. I will pray for you. God bless you and yours...
OMG YOU ARE SO AWESOME!!!!
YOU ARE REAL!!!!
YOURE AN INSPIRATION TO BEING TRUTHFUL AND VULNERABLE. GOD BLESS YOU!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Shea, OMG! Watching you be so vulnerable during this video, makes me feel better? Let me explain. I’m 62 yrs old and suffer from depression, I have a 31 yr old daughter on a vent and feeding tube that is semi-comatose (due to Muscular Dystrophy) she needs 24 hr care and also needs to be turned at least every 3 hrs. Sometimes I can’t even take care of myself, and I feel like I’m not present mentally enough to take care of her. My husband works 12 hr days, but primarily she’s my responsibility. She’s our only child, and I feel such guilt, sitting down and sometimes wishing someone would come turn her. Lol I Love Her SO much, and wouldn’t EVER want it any other way, except to wish she were healthy. So hearing you talk about your children, it makes me sad that you would ever feel like a “Bad” Mom. We do ALL that we can for our children, but hearing you say that, makes me feel better knowing that even though our situations are different, there are women out there, that have the same struggles I have.
Love your Channel even more now. 🩷
Us MOMS all feel this way! Thank you for the honesty. WE are all doing the best we can and trying to improve every day! We all have self doubt and think we should be more than we are. Give yourself some GRACE! We can't live in the guilt or shame of not being perfect. We all are just doing the best we can!
Shea, you are too hard on yourself! We go through life, always growing, haveIng doubts, changing our minds and different views. You are a awesome young lady. Everything works out for the best, through sometimes it’s hard to see at the time. Please yourself we will follow! ❤
Shea, how did you stay consistent with starting your channel while balancing being a mom, wife and full time employee? As a new mom to an 11 week old, I’m so overwhelmed with just surviving, I can’t imagine 2 kiddos and starting a business. You’re an inspiration! I love that you’re so authentic and faith based!❤
the channel IS her job
@@bulletproofhappiness1111 yes, NOW it is. But when she started it she had a full time HR job too.
You seem genuine to me. It is nice to learn more about some people on CZcams. We are all just flawed humans doing the best we can without ever harming others. Personally I can't afford luxury, I do like to see and hear about cool and unique products. You are doing a great job.Thank you.😊
Congratulations Shea! Just do you! I have started watching you for a couple of years. I love them and your personality. I like your content and you shouldn’t let others tell you any different.
Yes, this is your brand and how you make your money.
I appreciate your feedback on things that you believe in. This is you being genuine. Congratulations and continue to be you! ❤❤❤
Absolutely love hearing you share all of this ❤ At around 35, I realized I deeply yearned to simplify my life and make my world smaller in a sense. It was an undeniable pull. My priorities became so clear. I can hear that in every word you shared. You care about the right things. You are transitioning to wisdom and it’s beautiful ❤ God bless
I'm 35, and I'm feeling this *exact* same pull.
Thank you. I needed to read that today. I'm 38, and I was both forced to and embraced making my world smaller at 35 because of the pandemic and now I'm starting to feel guilty for not having as big of a world as I did pre-2020. You made me realize it's not all lockdown related. It's mainly because my priority is to nurture my existing relationships instead of making new friends.
Shea I honestly believe that people share far too much of themselves with the public...You are a talented, hard working and self made young lady that any parent would be proud of..❤
I absolutely agree!!!💕💕
So perfect , it’s got to be hard not to share things with us. I love your channel. I have 2 grown daughters and have gone thru many changes in our relationships. But what’s bottom line is we love each other. And it’s ever changing !
Just be your self
Totally agree I am not here on you tube to be nosy about people's personal lives...I love her channel
Thanks for this Shea!!
The dental video was THE most relatable sentiment I’ve get heard from an influencer. Especially since it’s invisible from all other appearances.. People just don’t know the ongoing hell!!
This was all a breath of fresh air! 🤗💕
It wasn't boring at all. It's great to know that we all share challenges. Nobody has a perfect life. It is what it is, and it's just how we deal with it. My house is an intermittent mess at some time or another too!!! 💞. Children, and how they see us through their eyes is a wonder of the world!!!
You are one of the CZcamsr I still love to watch. Even after becoming “famous” and like you said have more money. You are still relatable. And that says a lot! That means you have a kind and beautiful soul and don’t let fame or money change you.
You have many goals and in time they will be reached. I am 77 and my olderself would tell you to relax. Your honesty is amazing. I will continue to follow your journey.
This helped me sooo much - boys developmentally need a mom until they hit 10 or so years of age and then at 11 or 12 they need to bond more with a dad figure. That’s the beginning of learning to navigate the world as a male. My son is now 23, just graduated college and leaving the country next week. My heart is bleeding at the same time I’m about burst with pride!!! Motherhood is not for the weak!
lmao pls stop peddling bs
For real. They come into your world, turn it upside down and then leave to start their own life. The number of times I had to remind myself that I was a good mother since my son can separate from me and live his own life. Yes, motherhood is not for the faint of heart
Not every kid or boy gets a Dad
lucky they have a home I have a special needs kid and was Chase with DCF because I had no money to buy them a home or a father for my boys
OMG, I got choked up with your comment! LOL Imagining how hard it must be to watch him go!
Thank you for being vulnerable. As a 36 year old mom of two, I see you. So many things I can relate to in this video. Messy home, connection with kids, and what really matters: Family, health, and faith are the only thing that matters in life.
I have only just recently found your videos and I find you to be a breath of fresh air. You have seriously changed this Aussie girl in so many ways and I would never have made some of my much need changes without your informative, funny and honest videos. THANK YOU!!
Shea you are fabulous! No need to explain yourself to anyone xx
Not caring about designer handbags and material things as much is a sign of maturity. Your vlogs are wonderful. 😊
I agree it's just maturity. Experiences and trips are more meaningful than designer items .I'm glad to hear you say that
I don't think it's immature to care about designer handbags and material things. To each their own and THAT is maturity.
@malicestar13 yeah to each their own I think we meant more the change in her was a different phase of life
@@malicestar13well said.
Girl, I already liked your videos and fashion tips, but now I feel like I know you a little more. You’re a real woman living in this real chaotic world and just trying to make it work like the rest of us. Guess what, nothing is ever perfect including us, but that’s what makes us awesome. 😉 you sound amazing and normal and I love it!!!
Omg you are the best!!! You are so genuine!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I truly appreciate this video!!!! Thank you for being so REAL!!! I can totally relate to everything you are saying… just because you are in the media business doesn’t mean your life has to be PERFECT like some people like to portray!! 😭 thank you for being YOU!!!!
Shea - You are awesome! I’m pretty sure this video is helping viewers to feel so much more connected to you in a good way. Your sense of humor rocks too. Just keep doing what you’re doing.
This is my favorite video you’ve ever done.
I couldn’t relate to you more.
Thanks Shea.
I have five siblings. Someone asked my mom once, "Who is your favorite child?". My mom said, "I don't have a favorite, I love all my children equally, but differently." What a wonderful answer from such a wise woman! Each child needs different things, so naturally, you as a parent will treat each one differently according to their own needs. From what I've seen through the years, you're a great mom! 🌺
Your mom is a wise woman, and you are lucky to have someone so wonderful to help you frame your world, keeping in mind your unique needs and personality.❤
My kids ask who is the favourite.... My answer is he is my fave 13 year old and his brother is my fave 21 year old. This ago changes after every bday. 😂😂
I completely agree… we love them all the same but differently
My mom says the same! (5 siblings too) She also says that at times one just may need her more than others. I went through a rough time and she was there for me and my sister got a bit jealous - a few years later the tables were turned and my sister realized what she meant as she was there for her more ❤
Haha my mom had à différent approche i have 2 sisters i can’t remember ever asking my mom if she loves me, I probley never have just because never have I felt that unloved by my mother but my mom would tell each of us the same thing when the other sisters were not around, my mom would say "you know you’re my favorite? but don’t tell your sisters. 🤫🤣
It’s refreshing to see vulnerability on social platforms and I think it makes us all feel more connected on this crazy planet. Thank you for the inadvertent confidence booster. 😄 I’ve been watching your videos since 2019. Love them. You’re wonderful. Stay great!
Yes Shea, our health is our wealth. Relationships are so much better than consumerism. Thank you
sounds like you are maturing ! As we get older we realise that material things will give us temporary "happiness" but true joy and happiness comes from our relationships with our loved ones . No material possession can compare ! As for Vit D, sunshine , aluminium products , research supports exactly what you are doing in these areas. Bottom line: you are right on track !
Depends on the person. Just because someone likes material items doesn’t mean they’re immature. If someone lives in a multi-million dollar mansion with nice things, that means they’re not mature?? Everyone spends their money differently…houses, cars, handbags, vacations, etc. Everyone has their thing.
Girl you are so real! So refreshing that you don’t put on an act just to attract new viewers. Love to watch your videos, keep on and don’t worry about negative comments or people!
Oh my goodness! I just found your channel and I have to tell you, you’re an amazing human! As we get older (I’m a great grandma) I’m learning, changing things up and girl that’s okay! Please, keep being you and never say you’re sorry for that! I think this is by far the favorite one I’ve watched so far! I love, love your true self, which screams kindness, love and the best mom! Trust me we ALL go through this! Keep being you and please don’t let the haters bring you down. There are more of us that admire your kindness, true courage to put this out there, and your awesome videos keep them coming!
1) thank you for your vulnerability!
2) you are my twin, about like pretty much EVERYTHING you shared … well I’m not a CZcamsr, but I watch your vids because they are so relatable to me and how I live. I have used and love most of the products and organization tips you recommend!
3) love you with all my heart! Hope you have a wonderful day
I love your honesty and vulnerability. Can totally relate to your insecurities. Surprise! We all have them. But your humor and your loving spirit shine through in every video. You’re like the best friend that everyone wishes she had! 😊
Shea- chronic pain is tough to deal with. I am struggling at 27 with a ton of it. I too, am realizing there's more to life then just designer handbags. I wish most days my stomach didn't hurt so bad that I'm in the bathtub crying. I am trying to find God. I am trying to stay true to myself and my boundaries. I think you are truly doing your best. All we can do is put on foot in front of the other & pray. You absolutely got this.
Your feelings surrounding parenting are normal and valid. Sometimes our kids have personalities that “fit” with our own in a more natural easy way. And sometimes we don’t. Doesn’t take away from your love, it’s just harder to connect. Hang in there❤
You're human!! Thank you for your transparency it makes you so relatable!! We are not perfect and you making this video, makes me feel like what I'm through in my everyday life, is ok! Because I am not perfect!. We are all different have our own opinions, quirks, beliefs and ideas. It's what makes us who we are. Not the same as everyone else and human
❤️❤️❤️🤗xoxo
I’m not a subscriber but I’ve come across your videos a handful of times and this was recommended to me. I can’t tell you how comforting this video was for me. Sometimes a reminder that other people are struggling just like I am, can make all the difference for someone like myself who suffers from anxiety and depression and thinks my life should look one way or another. I guess in other words, we all can relate that life is hard and I think that can be quite comforting ❤
Shea don’t worry. Your boys just have different personalities and that’s ok. The fact that you’re questioning your motherhood is because you really genuinely care. We’re all just trying to figure out life as we go, including you. You’re doing amazing Shea , stop being so hard on yourself!
Shea, it’s ok to change. We all do. I just started watching your channel about 2 years ago. I didn’t connect as well with high end luxurious Shea. Nothing was wrong with that, it’s how you started but it’s just not my lifestyle. I connect with you more now. I love your content. You are one of only two CZcamsrs that I watch absolutely every video you post. And I don’t know why people get upset about what deodorant you use lol. Changing to natural deodorant is one of the health things I’m most proud of. Just be yourself. We are here for the ride!!
Who cares if you dress up or not. I love that you show us what products, clothes, accessories that are out there and you bring ideas to us. Personally, I love that.
I have been watching you for 6 years when you started out. I love how you have grown your channel. You have introduced me to so many products I never have the time to find. As for the boys remember they have different personalities and are growing into different people.
I really enjoy watching your channel because of your positive energy! This was not boring at all as I got to see other side of you, and will continue to support you.
Wow. That was very touching and quite authentic. I am about 13 years ahead of you and I was remembering all of the same parenting feelings. Thank you for sharing … it made me feel so so so much more connected to you. And I love the cool things on Amazon videos!!!! You’re going great, Shea!
Keep on doing exactly what you are doing, please. I have been watching you for many years now, and always look forward to your videos.