Ep 203: Sexless in the City

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
  • Nia and ShaMarian talk about their sex lives or lack there of.
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Komentáře • 29

  • @kimmygaskinsmusic
    @kimmygaskinsmusic Před rokem +20

    P.P.S. I’d also liked to mention how men AND women have that attitude of “oh honey you’re so immature and inexperienced…” when they find out you’re abstinent. Like it reflects on your entire character just because you’re not out there gettin’ freaky on the weekends. WTH man!? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂😂

    • @asia2067
      @asia2067 Před rokem

      Whew! You said a mouthful!!!! Yes! The struggle is real, lol.

  • @asia2067
    @asia2067 Před rokem +21

    LISTEN! "You haven't really waited until the Truth begins to look like a lie!"
    Yall spoke to a very real and current part of my life. I have been going through it spiritually and not just in relation to this topic. And when I say...I'm exhausted. I'm exhausted!
    I feel so seen from watching this. Had a thug crying towards the end, lol. So many gems 💎
    Thank you ❤️

    • @yourfavoriteauntiespod
      @yourfavoriteauntiespod  Před rokem +4

      Comments like this warm our hearts because this is why we do it! You aren’t alone Beloved. Real thugs need hugs too lol. We’re both criers so you’re not alone in that either lol. You’re seen and a change IS coming. 🤎🥰🫶🏾

    • @asia2067
      @asia2067 Před rokem

      @@yourfavoriteauntiespod ❤️

  • @imagelle
    @imagelle Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you ladies for speaking on these topics. 17:45 - 17:55 minutes in where you talking not being able to let yourself enjoy the thought of being held by someone. The mental disfunction of allowing myself to enjoy a man’s touch non-sexually took decades to overcome.

  • @dogz0898
    @dogz0898 Před 23 dny

    I laughed so much during this episode. Thank yall for keeping things transparent and 100% real. Cuz people have demonized being a human being and craving social contact and love.

  • @Okaywills
    @Okaywills Před 8 měsíci +2

    This ENTIRE episode expressed so much of what I feel like I try to communicate

  • @nikacscott
    @nikacscott Před 4 dny

    Oooohhhh baby this the one!!!! 8 yrs into abstinence and “it definitely looks like a lie”😩😩😩😩felt that in my chest

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 Před 11 měsíci +2

    As a 35 yr old single I appreciate this sooooooo much! The transparency, how the biological clock be ticking, feeling alone being abstinent in today’s time 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

  • @desireesmith3929
    @desireesmith3929 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This whole thing. I'm 30 my friends got married straight out of college and I'm so tired and feel my self getting jaded I don't even want to try dating anymore.

  • @rl996
    @rl996 Před rokem +1

    I LOVED this. So relatable. I did not always commit to Gods standards in terms of waiting until marriage but I’m happy to say that I’m now abstinent. It’s not easy but we’ll be rewarded for our obedience ☺️❤️

  • @danielleporter89able
    @danielleporter89able Před měsícem

    This by far my FAV episode💕

  • @tishanacherise
    @tishanacherise Před rokem +3

    🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ THANK YOU LADIES! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @McEve
    @McEve Před rokem +1

    “…a whole bishop”
    A word. Life is really crazy in this walk 😭

  • @cennacrosby1674
    @cennacrosby1674 Před rokem +2

    Man I just LOVEE y’all podcast!

  • @m.a_p.s
    @m.a_p.s Před rokem +2

    More like my aunties, i feel like yall are my big wise sisters 🥺 i couldnt relate more to ALL the topics you talk about, i feel so at home and secure. Thanks to the Lord.

  • @thesisforsing5138
    @thesisforsing5138 Před rokem +1

    Abstinence is extremely challenging but I truly believe it's necessary at least for me. It has helped me get closer to God & even when I wanted to stop his grace & mercy has kept me cause Lord knows I'm foolish 😂

  • @latoyaterry5274
    @latoyaterry5274 Před rokem

    I really love this podcast.

  • @ViesFreequencies
    @ViesFreequencies Před rokem +1

    Your Favorite Aunties Podcast Merch 😍🤩😍🤩😍😍🤩😍🤩😍😍🤩😍 Love seeing it!!

  • @ViesFreequencies
    @ViesFreequencies Před rokem +1

    MERCHHHHHHHHHHH 😍🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍😍🤩😍🤩

  • @jaided79
    @jaided79 Před rokem

    Pop poppin this thing back. 😂😂😂 Heavy on that, heavy on that.

  • @ashleyjaff24
    @ashleyjaff24 Před 6 měsíci

    Can hall talk a kut the divorve rate and maybe for some occasionally feeling like you only qant marriage bc thats whats expectwd of you as a young woman?

  • @thesisforsing5138
    @thesisforsing5138 Před rokem

    This‼️

  • @kimmygaskinsmusic
    @kimmygaskinsmusic Před rokem +8

    First of all…I’m SO HAPPY I found y’all on TikTok. Secondly, I’m not even 10 mins into the episode and I’m wishing I could sit and talk with y’all in person. Abstinence is SO DIFFICULT especially in my 30s. Dating was just hard. It was always a struggle. Christian men looking at you like you’re crazy because you don’t want to sleep with them…like you’re immature and weird or something. I didn’t have a long term boyfriend until 2 years ago, and even now it’s hard for me to go into marriage with him thinking about my biological clock and why it took so long to get here…and also wanting that time to just be married WITHOUT kids but realizing I’m 36 and I can’t have kids forever. Ugh!! Okay…now to finish the episode.
    P.S. I’m thankful to finally meet a man who respected my decision for abstinence, but it took a lot of struggle and pain to get here. 🫠🫠