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âGod made me cheat on you because I told him I loved you more them himâ. My ex told me this after we been broken up for over a year.
that's real commitment
Did you date a mental asylum escapeie?
LMAO WHATT
Are you serious??? God....who abhors cheating....wow.... what an evil nutjob!!!
well, god does work in mysterious ways. lmao
"I'm 4 months pregnant with your baby"......1.5 years after I dumped her for cheating on me. I was still cool with her sister and told her about it. She supposedly slapped the shit out of my ex and told her never to contact me again.
Do u still contact ur ex's sister
Dang! I don't get why girls even try the "I'm pregnant" shtick in the first place, because as far as I know, it never works.
â@@leoncergaming7745the math ain't mathing
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My ex accused me of cheating at every corner she could. Note: My dad cheated on my mom when I was kid, got to see all their explosive arguments, the divorce, the consequences of cheating. So anyways she would always accuse me of with no proof and I've never cheated. We're at the beach one day there's a beach bar with 50 people atop, me and my ten friends and her and her friends. I go over to say hi to her and she's crying. I say what's wrong? Her friends all start shunning me telling me how shitty I am what a horrible garbage being I am. Turns out she told her friends I cheated on her and she caught me under the beach bar making out with some girl. None of it was true and I had all my friends to back me up because I was playing center in volleyball the entire time!!!!! Also in the end I found out she cheated on me
What an ironic story
Generally if your dating someone and they constantly accuse you of cheating it's because they've cheated and want to feel better about themselves
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 Thatâs part of the reason, the fact that they cheated makes them constantly paranoid that their SO could also cheat since they themselves did it.
this happened to my best friend the dude wouldnt shut up about how he didnt want her talking to other guys at all and he thinks she might cheat on him then at the end he cheated on her
She accuses you because that's what she is like, so she expected the same thing to happen.
Not my story but my dads, so he and his ex were fighting, and she said "LEAVE WE'RE DONE!" and my dad said "ok." And my dad described her face go from smug to WAIT WHAT?! As he was backing out of her driveway she comes running up to the window and starts crying about how she cant live without him and stuff, all my dad said after that was "You told me to leave, and so I will". Two years later after he had me she called him and said "Did you ever think of me, have you ever thought of getting back together?" My dad said "Nope not ever, im happily married." She didnt take that lightly, she then replied with something among the lines of "I HATE YOU! I NEVER LOVED YOU!" In the middle of her rant my dad hung up laughing so hard, (and my dad doesnt laugh much) but he described it as the worst attempt to get someone back.
Edit: could have described the story better, after all I was running on month long memory and took the scraps, filled in the blanks, and called it quits
Oh and R/nicegirls
lady: leave we're done
man: ok *leaves*
lady: *surprised pikachu face*
"Power-hungry narcissist lost their marbles when their plot backfires" - Season 420, Episode 69
â@@smol_dude656man I love that show.
your dad is so based
"Pathetic people are just gonna pathetic, huh?"
My new favorite line of everything ever.
I love hearing his laugh đ
@@elegantlytarnished3774 agreed
Saw that as he said it
The intention was to âwin me backâ but in a weird twisted way. So in 10th - 11th grade, I had an abusive, volatile relationship with this guy in my class, who eventually cheated and then broke up with me to date the younger girl he was cheating on me with. While my pride was stung that he broke up with me via text, I figured I might as well be happy that I was out of the controlling relationship. Then, when I was walking the halls my senior year, I saw him with his new girlfriend; I was going to just ignore them but he called after me and wanted to introduce me to his gf. I played nice up until she left and he told me point blank after blatantly checking me out, âDamn, if things donât work out with her, Iâm going to have to come and find youâ. Not knowing what else to say, I laughed awkwardly and told him that I was going to be late for class. True to his word, he did try to win me back with heaps of praise and affection after his gf broke up with him. It all seemed schemey and manipulative Needless to say, I didnât take him back.
I'm sorry to hear that relationship was the way it was.
I'm sorry you went through that, and I hope life is treating you well after you rejected him. đ
Dated a woman that I thought was just the absolute best.
Long story short. She stopped returning my calls. I was only trying to break up with her.
2 weeks later she shows up at my apartment, and says she wants to break up because she is seeing someone else.
I was like, had you answered my calls, this conversation would be unnecessary.
She tried to get violent. I'm 6' tall. She's 5'4".
I told her to gtfo.
The dude she cheated on me with happened to be a friend. I saw him a few weeks later and he literally physically recoiled upon seeing me.
I was just like "Dude, be careful, she is batshit. "
A few months later I heard she beat him so bad that he had to be hospitalized.
More months pass. She calls me and asks to see me again because she now "knows" that she fucked up.
I told her to never contact me ever again and hung up.
Never heard from that psycho again.
Holy crap how many of these are existing in this world?
@@PKpanzerkrieger too damned many!
Itâs so refreshing to see a videos like this read by an actual person
agreeded
If you want to see an alternate check out amithejerk
@@mapleleafmadeofdarkerice9018 I love am I the jerk!!!
And pretty savage, to lol
yup
I don't understand why some people believe that testing someone by breaking up/acting uninterested is a good idea. Like if they were a good person and cared for you they'd understand that you don't want to be with them and move on.
Agreed. But any kind of testing is unhealthy, imo. If you can't communicate honestly and openly with your partner and don't trust them, that's, I mean, why? Leave.
@@cateperez9696 amen, fuck "testing" people like that, that shouldnt be a thing ugh
Exactly! The only person doing that is gonna keep is someone who doesn't care about consent.
A couple years ago on Deviantart, I had this online gf that lied to me about her age. She said she was over 18 but in reality, she was 16. This was when I was 19. I found out her real age and I broke up with her cuz I was not gonna risk jail time over that. This was my wake-up call to never do online dating like that again. A fight ensued and she said (and I quote), "IF YOU LOVED ME, YOU WOULD FIGHT FOR OUR RELATIONSHIP!!" to which I responded "So you expect me to not be mad at how you lied to me about your age and fight for an illegal relationship?!?!" and she said "YES!!!". I blocked her and never did online dating again
my GOD i was stupid back then...
Did the right thing though.
Gurl crazy.
Glad you found out that she was lying about something so significant.
Knowing the bare basics of a human being you're in a relationship with isn't something to brush off.
As I'm realising I'm questioning how it's illegal and I just realised, my mom is 37 and my dad is 29
I had an almost completely same thing. I was maybe 13-14 and I found out he was 21. Crazy shit.
@@izzythecow No, thatâs not even close to the same thing lol, yours was actually bad. The main thing with OPâs comment was that she lied but having a relationship with her wouldnât have been anything all that bad since that 3 year age gap is something that happens really often in highschool. Your case was actually đ
When I had a girlfriend in 8th grade, I found she was super clingy, and as much as I loved how loving she was then, she was too clingy for me. I broke up with her, and this year she decides that adding me on Zoom repeatedly was a good idea to try and get me back. I like someone else now, she likes me, but letâs just say Iâve been avoiding my ex as much as I can.
Lol whatever you do donât take her back, sometimes people you reject are just looking for an opportunity to reject and hurt you back when they do stuff like that.
I'm jealous but you deserve it
King
Literally what happened to me without the zoom
Had a girl that was into me but always just thought it's how she was as apparently her attraction for me started a few days after we first met since I could always get her to smile. She lost interest after I was oblivious and even told people that she's not into me when in fact they were trying to help her get together with me. Fast forward about 2 years and she's living with another guy and is basically living off him. She has her job but besides minor expenses uses her money on herself while he saves and uses his money on them. In the end being thick headed has both saved me and unfortunately doomed someone I know as a result. Worst part is the guy is completely ok with the situation, weather or not he fully understands remains to be seen.
8th grade?
Ahhh the OP who had the interaction with the "I crashed my motorcycle and have memory loss - remind me why we broke up" ex had a brilliant opportunity to tell a fantastical tale about why they broke up. I mean... he can't say they're wrong, now can he? Not without revealing his own lie.
"Oh, after three years together, you revealed your fetish was horse scat, so you demanded we spend all our money buying and housing a horse so you could eat their plop and live your truth with Lady Biscuits as your true wife and me as your mistress. Obviously, after that, I had to call it quits."
(To me walking out with my bags).
Ex: âYou'll never find anyone else like me.â
Me: âThat's the idea.â
I threw my key on the table and left my ex standing there gobsmacked.
EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
"You'll never find anyone else like me!"
"Thank god"
Mike Tyson: Thavage
That's cold!
W
Ahem, as per my abusive HS gf who I broke up with after she tried to force a threesome with her drug dealer to pay her debts (I was a virgin at the time), she texted me a long letter of a text from a burner phone since I had blocked her on everything.
Lots of gems there, but my personal favorite was âI just want to apologize and get this off my chest so I can heal from everything and move forward. My husband doesnât understand why I still think about it at all, but I still really miss you.â
Keep in mind, this was EIGHT YEARS after we broke up.
wow, lol
Damn..
8 years, that what crazy looks like my friends
WOW.... you dodged a bullet...
@@lydiapetra1211 literally
This is why I prefer your channel. You have more emotions in your speech than a text-to-speech
yea and he re-uses 50% if his videos
effortless
"Why are you with HER now though? She doesn't talk." -ex who shall be unnamed
My girlfriend just didn't talk much.
The perfect woman
@@electroeel148 Thats not "perfect woman", i mean if by nature they just dont like talking much then yeah they're fine, but if its because of people like you shutting them down, then fucking disqusting.
Imagine if your girlfriend answered in sign language just to piss that ex off
@@Necroxion that would be literally golden
Iâm going to learn sign language just to do that
When I was in 7th grade I dated my guy best friend, it was going smoothly until he made fun of my eating disorder, any other things I was born with (my autism, ADHD, etc.) and the insecurities he gave me. At the time I was short and younger than a lot of kids, it never bothered me til he mentioned it. But when I called him âemoâ I was in the wrong because he was insecure about it. May I mind you he chooses to look and dress it what seems to be emo. After awhile I started hating myself and thinking I was ugly. But he never cared when I told him about it, he ignored me and talked about how sad and miserable his life was. It came to a point where I had to yell at him so he would listen, but he wouldnât take me seriously unless I called him the name of my dead cat. I told him it made me uncomfortable calling him that multiple times but he brushed it off. âWell itâs your cat. Not mine.â After a few months we split up. He than sends me a text, months later on how he is going to kill himself. So I told my school guardian counselor. He went to a mental hospital. But he texts me after he supposedly had his phone taken away. âBe patient little(or) young one.â I blocked him after that. My life was actually a lot better until he sent me an email. He said I made his life a nightmare and how some ghost will do the same to me. I will admit I wasnât the best either so I donât blame him 100% but at the same time, a nightmare? Thatâs a stretch. He ended spreading rumors that caused me and my girl best friend to not like each other as much as we did. We weâre friends since 2nd grade. Ever since then Iâve been living my life and try to be more social just to piss him off. His an asshole and he truly needs more than mental help.
Oh hell yeah and lack of self reflecting aswell ...
Met my ex in college, I was already engaged with my second highschool girlfriend. My ex was extremely jealous and tried to flash her boobs at me to "see what I was missing". Long story short, I rejected her and now I'm married with my second girlfriend, 0 regrets.
You married the second girl you ever dated in high school?
@@FourthIdentity-gu2zk yup
we dated for around a year, i was exremely buisy due to work, gym and school homework (i was 14, she was 13). Everytime i;d come home from work, there'd be 30+ msg's telling me she missed me (we were still together), and that she felt like she was a problem. After the year, i got sick of always having to tell her its not her fault, she was taking up huge amounts of my time for homework, sleep, and hanging out with my freinds. My grades had dropped significantly throughout the year because i was doing half her assessments for her.
I told her i'm breaking up with her. Yes, looking back it seemed blunt, but i do not regret it. She then did whatever she could for arond 8 months after that to contact me.
I asked my mum for advice, seeing she's a woman i guessed she'd understand her feelings. She just told me to block her on everything, worked like a charm.
I had an ex that not only cheated on me, but nearly got me arrested. It came out that she was sexually active, and she was in the foster program. Yeah, I wasn't the one getting any. I wouldn't touch her because I thought she needed to heal, and well, it was in school.
How did you nearly got arrested man? She should be punished for it ...
ayyy Iâm 4th here. When I broke up with my ex he panicked and started trying to stuff to get me back but literally everything he said only made me more sure that this was the right decision
What did he say
@@yes-ns2mi yes indeed you have my interest as well
Hearing some of these stories makes me genuinely terrified to even date...
Take precautions and you may be ok.
Precautions include: Don't get drunk around those you date. Don't let them get drunk around you. Don't go to each other's homes unless you've dated long enough to have trust. Define your nope flags. Ask questions. Enforce your nope flags. Don't get official right away. Make everyone start in the friend zone. Don't do expensive dates. If anyone gets "lucky", always use 1 or more forms of protection. Do an actual background check on everyone you date. It won't get anything pop up they got away with but it can save your bacon. It can also help you define the right questions to know their tells and what they would lie about to you and you can typically reason out motive to determine whether their b.s. is forgivable or not long term.
Don't be. These are all the results of what happens when you prioritize looks over personalities and ignore red flags. Don't be that idiot and the worst that would likely ever happen is cheating and a breakup. And those just happen in life regardless sometimes simply because humans are humans but you won't have to worry about actual psychopaths unless you ignore the signs
Had an ex say she was going to unalive themselves and I told her that I didnât care, she cheated on me. Long story short, she didnât but got addicted to hard drugs and has no body that cares anymore.
based
@@Poodle_Gun fr I'd react the same and if i needed to I would explain
I am not telling you to kill yourself what i am saying is you are not my concern anymore and I Don't care if you kill yourself or not just don't bother me whatever your decision is
give her a huge womp womp from me
I had an ex who popped up after 21 years of being apart, it was 3 a.m .... The witching hour.. I simply replied " is that you Satan?" She said no silly, then goes on to try talking to me, I said holy hell it is you Satan!! Be gone !!
The craziest thing one of my exes did to get back to me was she literally tried overpower me and force herself on me one night. It was pathetic because she's half my size, so it wasn't going to work anyway. But, I didn't really know whether I should have reported it or not.
Ideally, if the legal system on it wasn't completely screwed up, you should have been able to. But since she was unsuccessful and you were able to stop her and I assume she didn't manage injury either (if she had you would have been able to press at least normal assault charges and there would be no question in your mind if you should report it or not), it would have been waived off and nothing would have been done. To me that double standard is extremely messed up but it is what it is. It would take a lot of people taking such events seriously enough to report them before it stops resulting in the man being pointlessly humiliated for recognizing a woman as a threat. It's almost 2023 and that is 1 part of equality that needs to catch up legally and socially: legal repercussions and social rejection for the same behaviors. If roles were reversed and she reported you, you would have been screwed. đŹ
I wish I could say that kind of experience is rare but I've known so many men who have experienced that and worse with justice nowhere to be seen, it's the kind of normal that needs to bugger off.
You did the right thing not reporting it because it she's half your size and your reporting her for trying to force herself on you
Best case scenario you get laughed out of the courthouse by everyone present worst case scenario she spins it the other way lies that you either did or tried to force yourself on her and since your alot bigger then she is what story sounds believable
A police report can't hurt. Rape is rape.
The test break up joke is something that happened to me too. I drop the relationship after she did this because there was already trust issues, found out she was cheating on me as she was engaged to someone while she was dating me so I know how it feels for the joke break up.
No ones ever tried to win me back...admittedly because when I'm done with them I hit that block button faster then ninja.
My last gf was one of those "don't worry about the (probably close to 100) other guys she talked to" type. The relationship started slow but when it did eventually get rolling through she eventually started working. Im sure many of you see where this is going. Well there was one particular guy she worked with that I told her made me really uncomfortable, her amazing plan after this was to cancel our date to see fireworks together and decided she wanted to bring him instead of me. I at this point told her I was just about positive that she was cheating and whenever I started bringing it up as a problem she would either get extremely mad at me or would eventually say she wanted to break up. The excuse she always gave was that she wasn't sure if she wanted to be single or not, but how does that work when basically as soon as this guy turned 16 she slept with him (she's 18). I gave her one more chance after that and she left again for someone other than either of us and then this 16yr is messaging me for advice to win her over and telling me he wants to hit/off himself. Honestly I'm not sure if a relationship is worth it after that since there were two other girls before her who followed the same pattern and the stress was starting to seriously affect my mental health all three times I've been in a situation like that.
18:51 same thing happened to me I was in the ICU for almost a year with brain issues and my gf of like almost a year I think broke up with me WHILE I WAS IN SURGERY, so 2-3 brain surgeries later I found out and it broke me then not her but HER BEST FRIEND (which was an old ex) tried to get back with me bc "see I told you she was bad for you, you should've just stayed with me , I'd never break up with you during surgery, no matter how disabled or special Ed you become" like wow thanks for making me feel super loved đ
I think a good way to separate the pathetic and the just sad is to look at the people willing to do embarrassing stuff vs the ones trying to manipulate or blatantly lie about being in a coma for example. But the are also some that are a mix of both.
I agree, thats a good analysis
TL;DR at the end. Context is pretty long and complicated, but worth it if you have the time so you can feel the full rage
I had a friend in middle/high school that I was close with for a while, but he was always weird and a little too bad with boundaries. I was always uncomfortable with how close heâd get and the way heâd touch and interact with me but I figured he mightâve been on the spectrum or had a social disorder, and tried to ignore it when he got too close. I had been sexually abused almost all my life and was sexually assaulted in the past, so I kept thinking I was just overreacting and was hyper aware because of my trauma. The final straw was when he showed up at my house to give me a gift for my birthday (I didnât realise at the time, but I never gave him my address). He said he wouldnât give me my gift until I went with him to my favourite restaurant. I thought it was sweet at the time and went along it. But then after we were done eating, he wouldnât take me home. He took me to a movie (that I already saw) and was so close to me he was in my chair and practically on top of me. I was glad I already saw that movie because I was too busy trying to make some distance between us and not have a panic attack to pay attention. The movie finally ended and I was happy Iâd go home, just for him to saw we were going out to eat again. He knew I didnât have a phone and could only send texts through wifi (which I couldnât connect to), and so I couldnât text or call anyone for help. I was so panicked that he was going to do something to me, and I looked so uncomfortable that when we left the restaurant someone followed us out to make sure I was safe. I think thatâs the only reason he took me home after that. I got my gift and avoided him for a couple years.
Cue a couple years later. I was enlisting in the military and was going through a lot at home, and met him again. He apologized for the way he acted before and he seemed to have a lot more maturity. He was kind to me, apologetic and weird but not touchy like before and I felt much more comfortable around him. Much more comfortable than I was at home. So he invited me over a bunch and we hung out a lot, and Iâd stay the night. We started dating, and while I know it was shitty of me, part of me expected that heâd treat me poorly but I could t imagine it being worse than it was at home and I was shipping out in two months so I felt like I had an out of anything went wrong. That was a bad mistake. The moment we started dating, he became insanely controlling. He wouldnât let me use my phone most of the time and I had no privacy, I didnât even feel safe asking for help. I didnât have a license or money at the time so he had complete control over me. I couldnât go anywhere without his permission and I rarely had the chance to go home. He would completely ignore and neglect me outside of when he wanted to be intimate and when I begged for him to do something with me. I never wanted to have sex with him, but that was all he would do with me and it ended up that I would ask for it just so heâd interact with me. I know I had shouldâve said something when I had the chance to somebody else, but I didnât really feel like any option I had was viable so I just kept it in until I shipped out. But then it turned out he went to my recruiter and got the exact same contract as me so that he could ship out with me. I didnât have that escape anymore, and I found out too late. He went with me to basic training, stalked me around some more and wouldnât leave me alone even though relationships were against the rules, and then managed to twist things around where I was the one at fault for it all. I kept trying to avoid him, and I couldnât do anything to stop it. Eventually, the entire company turned on me. I became the scapegoat because of him, and it resulted in me getting beaten and physically disabled by my battle buddies. He got his successful career free of incident. I broke up with him officially in basic training, telling him we werenât good for each other and I even took most of the fault. Then I heard he was spreading rumors about me that I raped him, and that I was a crazy bitch. This shit still gets to me years later.
The kicker? I got married to someone who was in the military. He was in the same basic training as us and was the guy who tried to protect me from him. He was my confidant and I trusted him to keep me safe, and we eventually fell in love. My ex got stationed in the same place as us. He messaged me randomly and out of politeness I responded, and asked him how he was. He said he was having relationship problems, confessed he was obsessed with me the entire time he knew me and that he âlost the ability to trust anybodyâ because of me. Then he said he wanted me back, and he said that he âdidnât deserve to get broken up with the way I didâ, and that I hurt him by breaking up with him in basic training when we were âperfectâ, and that he had his dream partner and that we were âengagedâ. He never proposed. He just started calling me his fiancĂ© one day. He was delusional at best, yet I was the evil one.
TL;DR got kidnapped by a friend who was too touchy, years later got coerced into dating him. Ruined my career, disabled me and spread horrible rumours about me. Broke up with him in basic training. Texted me a while later saying he wanted me back and that he didnât deserve to get broken up with the way I broke up with him, even though I did it rationally, politely and took most of the blame
Once had a guy in high-school ghost me during summer break and come back to school with a new gf. She broke up with him on Xmas day. A year later he tries to get all close up to me and said he was "afraid to have too much of a good thing". Obviously I rejected him.
Used to date a girl for two months when I was 22. In the end she broke up with me via Whatsapp. Half a year later we met at a party and she asked me why I didnt try to win her back. I mean...I had pretty low self esteem, but I was not THAT desperate. A year later she started dating one of my (back then) best friends. He asked me if I was okay with it and said shure. After that every time I came to parties with female friends and later my GF she started talking shit about me like how bad I was in the bedroom. When she realized this didnÂŽt work she started provoking them to make them look like theyÂŽre crazy or something.
She made it so awkward, that my former friend and I stopped seeing each other because she ALWAYS needed to be there.
Friendship lost, lesson learned.
Ah bro the classic
" why didn't you try and win me back "
You know what that shit is that's just an attention whore doesn't matter if she would have taken you back or no that part is irrelevant she just wanted the attention and power and you sir did an excellent job ignoring her
Because the Kryptonite of Narcissists is starving them of attention
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 thx man. Yeah ItÂŽs really the best thing you can do. Just ignore them. Saves you trouble and wasted time.
so he made me feel trapped, anxious and like I had to justify everything I say, do and think and got mad when I 'ignored' him (didn't want to talk to him for reasons :/)
he broke up with me yesterday and today asked a mutual friend to convince me to unblock him to 'sort things out' and litterally all he did was ask how I feel, the 'apologized' and asked if we can go back to how it was cuz he misses talking to me-
Yikes, keep away from him, block him entirely and alert those mutual friends on his doings. If they side with him, that's just showing their true colours. Life goes on, you'll find better people
@@Its_Raeeee thank you, cutting himout was mostly the plan and even before he broke up with me I was planning on breaking up (just didn't know how to since it was my first ever relationship) but he kept trying to guilt trip me so I never went through with it. honestly very glad he broke up with me
@@KpB2O yeesh, I'm glad you're out of that, hope you stay safe and I wish you the best of luck
Hmm, kind of sounds like my current bf, Iâm in a LDR. Itâs my first relationship as well
@@JJ_0134 aw man I hope you are alright! if you feel like he has too big of an impact of your mental health, I do recommend telling him how he makes you feel. if he understands and you two can have a healthy relationship, great! if not it's also alright, as someone who was in a very similar situation (also LDR, we did meet irl a few times tho) it isn't the end of the world if your first relationship doesn't work out and your health should be your first priority
i never know when he's reading a reply, or just reacting đ
oh don't think he reacts?
edit: oh, nevermind?
Ikr
Not really to win me back, but my ex told me âyou donât have to be bi anymore, you have me nowâ đ€š
Gay = đ€ź
Did you tell them "you don't have to be an idiot anymore. I'll do the thinking for you."?
I had a girlfriend who I thought was really good, then broke up with her when I realised that she was comparing me to most of the boyfriends she'd had in the past a bit too much and a bunch of other bullshit
When she starts comparing you that what I like to call a red flag
My ex came home w/a hickey & when I confronted him about it he denied it was there...I was like dude...seriously?!?...& his response...who are you gonna believe?!?...me or your lying eyes...I left him & a shortly after he brings me a note/letter saying how much he loved me & wanted me back...he'd do anything to prove it...blah blah blah...on one side of the paper...& love note to the ho he was cheating on with on the other side...đ€Šđ€Šđ€Š
It's sobering to realize that the stories here about abusive relationships ending are by far the happiest possible outcome from that kind of relationship.
Ah the blessing of being an introverted single. Like fresh wine or a summer's kiss
Funny you use kiss, when that's what a single person doesn't get. And no, I'm not trying to insult, I'm in the same boat.
Whenever I feel like I have low self esteem about my friendships and whether people actually like me, I come here, it makes me feel a lot better
and you know for sure there are people way worse than you in every meaning :)
@@KazukoNamura thanks :)
@@witcherintherye6361 np mate
hearing these stories reminds me how happy that I am to be engaged to a woman who respects me and understands me and whom I can love and cherish in the same way
those who are the type to blame others for their pettiness and constant mistreatment towards their significant other reminds me a lot of the toxic posts I read on Facebook nowadays...truly deplorable really
Same here, it really is great isn't it. đ»
It is mostly an result of low EQ ...
Mainly facts: improvements u can do to boost up your vids
1. I love the quick moments where you react, but it can be quite confusing if you donât know if its a response, or you talking. Maybe change colors for responses, and change colors when you talk?
2. Add like 2 minutes at each end of videos all of your small fails when you talk (for example when you laugh too hard or you pronounce something weirdly) it could be very funny
3. Nothing more! I love this channel, thank you so much for doing this on a more-than-daily basis. â€
I agree with all that tbh. Though I think that what we need the most is the color change for responses.
I was thinking the same thing about the different font colors.
we really need bloopers here and there I agree
I was 16 and he was 21. Yea, already a fat red flag right there. Weâd been dating for a few years online after meeting off twitter and when I finally came to my senses on how wrong it was to be with him, i explained how Iâd rather be with people my age so he wouldnât get in trouble and go to jail. I also explained how I didnât wanna ruin my future because he never wanted me to go to the military but it was my dream at the time and he would always flip out if our futures didnât align. I Ignored his calls and messages as he sent me dozens of them about how he was gonna propose with a ring, was planning on calling my parents to rat me out, had his group of friends try to guilt trip me into staying, threatened to call my school, posted my number on a random website saying I was a horrible person, told me for years he was gonna delete himself if I ever left (the biggest reason why I didnât leave for years), got mad at me when I did sports, refused to let me go eat dinner with my family, got angry when I took naps, etc. He claimed it was all because he thought I was lying about where I was. Once I finally hit college I was able to shake and block him permanently once it dawned on me just how much of my childhood was lost to him. Oh, he also said how if we ever met and did the deed, heâd do it unprotected and mess with my birth control so I could get pregnant. I really wish I could go back in time and protect myself from such a monster. We started dating when I was 11 and he was 18. I dealt with it for 5 years.
Fun Fact: having a school job, I have shifts around every week and a half, and I have a shift on December 5th, which was the day that one person broke up with âKenâ.
imagine having an ex... yeah, couldnt be me. cant relate to being in a relationship... đ
âIm sorry I cheated on you, you were such a nice guy.â
And young and dumb me fell for it.
5 years of self care and self isolation later, and happily engaged to my current fiancé.
The ones who break us, lead us to the ones who make us.
The best response to the girl saying "What are you doing tonight" would probably be "Not you that's for sure"
đ© my ex tried to get back together with me but she was 3 years late she even tried to stab my wife blaming her for taking me away from her like b**** you broke up with me đ€Ł
WTF
@@ZaChemas never date crazy chick's that thirst for bloodđ€Ł
I'm not sure WHICH line was best, but one of my favorites was "You'll never find someone who will love-love you. Not like friend and family love."
I believe I replied with something to the affect of "If this is what that love feels like, thank goodness."
When I broke up with my ex a couple years ago at first he tried to play it cool and he tried to say that he was ok with it, but 5 minutes later proceeded to bash on me over sh!t that was his own fault to begin with. When we were together we would make plans to go on dates together but when the time would come he would change his mind the very last second. Any time I would ask him to do any chores around the house he would either not do it or put the bare minimum effort into it making it completely pointless, and when I broke up with him he had the gall to tell me that I never appreciated anything he did. Kinda hard to appreciate something that you put little to no effort in pal.
Iâm loving how weâre hearing more of the Narratorâs personal opinions and comments
But in the future please use a different color font for you, makes it easier to tell when youâre reading and when youâre giving opinion
Never dated before, so I donât have an insane story like some on this thread. That said, these are really interesting, and definitely narrow down my standards, and further make me value the people I care for. Thanks, guys.
I also read these comments to learn a lot of stuff ...
What do you mean?
@@FirstnameLastname81206 To learn about the behavior of humans
Honestly, I respect that. I like to do the same.
@@FirstnameLastname81206 I never want to became like that ... For tgat I have to work on myself.
Three years ago, my girlfriend at the time came out as trans. I was straight as all hell, and was not wanting to date a trans person. She ended up begging me to stay and threatened suicide. She quite literally face-timed herself on the golden gate bridge standing on one of the railings. Thankfully, someone stopped her. Whoever you are, thanks for getting her off that thing, and sorry she hit you in the gut.
Edit i'm the 23rd!
He* x 3 but also YIKES
Was? đ€
@@MADNESSMADEMVL The story is past tense, otherwise the grammar cops would get peeved at me.
@@charlieblank3393 I think he gets a pass for misgendering if the individual in question doesn't deserve the decency and respect that comes with respecting their identity.
@@snoworveins1212 ye, I didnt mean any hostility
I got one. I was staying at my friend's apartment and my ex tried to cheat on me with him. Being the bro that he is, he told me about it and I broke up with my ex ironically on her birthday (cause I had gotten a spot of my own by then). Her FIRST defense for that was "but guys want multiple women don't they"?
There was quite a bit of back and forth after that off and on for years until I told her she has 3 options. 1st option is to admit that she cheated on me or prove her innocence beyond a reasonable doubt (wouldn't have gotten back with her regardless, but left the potential to at least work back into friends). 2nd option was to listen to anything I said, no questions asked for a week (and this played into my favor more cause she had another boyfriend at the time and assumed I meant lewd commands). 3rd option was to never speak to each other again and leave each other alone.
She eventually flips out, calls me a narcissist, blocks me on social media, after accusing me of trying to get her to do some lewd stuff while she was with her boyfriend (even though option 2 was to goad her into options 1 or 3). Never been happier since cause that was the day she finally left me alone and it's been almost 2 years now.
My ex cheated on me with then left me for an abusive stoner, she hasn't tried to fix what she's done but she's made plenty of empty apologies where she effectively plays the victim. I made that relationship my one priority for years, I'm an engineer and custom made things for her. I don't think I'll ever get over it.
jeez man, thats actually terrible. stay strong though
âWe should get a drink and talk things out.â This was two years after he broke up with me because âwe wanted different thingsâ. As in, he wanted sex all the time, for every little thing he did, and never wanted me to go out with my friends because that cut into âour time togetherâ, and I wanted a relationship where I was respected and sex wasnât the main focus. Months later, I realized he was using me (and even assaulted me once, but gaslit me into thinking it wasnât that), so when he texted that to me a couple years later, I laughed and blocked him.
26, fitting quote for this. "If you can't support me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."
videos like these make me feel like ive dodged a bullet for the most part by being single my whole life LMAO. When I was younger I thought it was relatively normal to have drama when trying to get into a relationship but then I found out, it was not in fact normal
I'm not gonna share the things I said to try and get an ex back but I can assure you they were horrifying. Love and a broken heart will make you say and do crazy things. It took me years to get over that girl but one day just as I was starting to get my life back together she calls me up. I hung up as soon as I realized who it was. I got an email and a letter soon afterwards and both were deleted / burned without even opening them. I do wonder what happened to her sometimes but I also ever want to see her again.
An old acquaintance reached out after a mutual friend passed away. He started off with "I've always thought you were beautiful, do you want to be my girl?" I had lost my fiance 10 days before that and was in mourning and explained it to him, told him that I am in no position to get into a relationship and am not interested in a fling. He agrees but continues calling me and asked me out multiple times over the next 3 weeks. I agree to go on a coffee date as friends, and that's when he tells me that he's been engaged for over a year and is getting married in a month, but wants me to be his lover. I'm flabbergasted! Just venting here, strangers of the internet
Not to get back with me, but to break up with me: there were rumours that he was having fantasies and interests in another girl. This didn't look true from his reactions/interactions around her nor had I heard it from his mouth in any way shape or form. Eventually got tired of the rumours (maybe slightly heart-broken but a lot of people had been "warning" me of his crush on her) so I broke up with him. Later he admitted that he started the rumours on purpose to get me to initiate the breakup. Glad I'm done with him for other reasons but man, way to throw someone through a loop.
Was with a girl for a good 4 months or so and the entire time we were together she would try to control who I talked to. This included guys and girls even though I'm straight and have a deep hatred for cheaters and made sure she knew that. After she tried to get me to stop being friends with my 2 best friends at the time I broke up with her. She proceeded to threaten suicide and young dumb me decided to stay the first time. This same situation repeated itself and that's when I had enough. I wasn't mentally stable either at the time (depression is a bitch) buy apparently better than her cause she jumped out a window trying to off herself. Fortunately she just broke her arm and being the young dumb kid I was (14 or 15) I stayed up all night to wait for news from her brother who blamed me for the entire ordeal. After that happened we went our separate though she was against it. About a year later she sends me a text on my insta and wants to get back together. I reject her and she proceeds to occasionally text me every so often for a few more months until I block her completely and change my tag well.
Parents: âWhen are you getting married ?â
Me:âŠ..*laughs hysterically*
lmao yeah thats relatable đ
Half a year through my relationship I figured out that my ex is an alcoholic and a big ahole . He blames everyone else for his misfortune but wouldnât do anything to lift him up from that situation. He literally just used me as his unpaid personal therapist , gaslighted me and even lied about his parents arranging him a marriage with his own cousin. I spent 6 months trying to fix his shit and I finally had enough of that crap and broke up with him . 2 months after the breakup I was going through severe depression and anxiety this dude randomly messaged me and threatened me with suicide , he almost succeeded tricking me in again but I pulled myself through and escaped.
Good Job ... I know how incredibly hard this can be
@@PKpanzerkrieger yeah Iâm glad I helped myself out from that hell hole
@@ivyeve2371 Can relate to the part of the personal therapist as I used my friend also as one. But we helped each other and I worked with actual therapists on the deep shit on me ...
I love hearing the narrator sort of interact with the stories
An ex of mine told me she was pregnant while we were broken up. We hadn't hooked up in MONTHS. Tried to convince me it was mine, saying that she hadn't been with anyone else. Told her if that's the case then we've got an immaculate conception situation. Turned out she wasn't pregnant at all (shocker) just wanted to try and win me back.
Not an ex but I had a similar car hostage situation with one of my âfriendsâ (in quotations because no friend should act like this) This friend had in the past had said in a group convo at my best friends house âwe are really close with one another, and we have loads in common. Donât we?â when I had barely even spoken to him so I bluntly said âwell I wouldnât say we are close, weâve not spoken muchâ and he got really pissed off and over reacted. He would get jealous of another guy I was seeing at the time and make strange remarks about it. He even said to my best friend that he thought he âhad me in the bagâ after literally the first time we had a conversation with each other. He also had asked that same best friend which road I lived on at the time and then proceeded to ask which exact house, which she didnât tell him thankfully.
I donât know why but a few months went past without us talking and I just assumed his weird obsession with me would have fizzled so I asked if he wanted to go to the cinema to see a film of a live band we both liked.
He said yes and I clearly said to him that we are going as just friends and itâs not a date or anything and he said he was cool with it and heâs past all that and heâs cool with us being just friends.
So I thought sweet, and he drove us there. Film was pretty cool, he didnât try anything weird when we watched it.
Fast forward to when he drove me home. I was chatting away about the film and he was just dead silent and I could feel the anxious energy coming from him so I felt uncomfortable and stopped talking. After about 5 mins sitting in silence he just says âso do you want to come back to mine and have some drinks?â Bare in mind it was getting late and I just wanted to go home and after his past attitude toward me I didnât really fancy going on my own and staying at his. (I had gone to his with groups of our friends before but never on my own)
I said ânah not tonight, Iâm feeling pretty tired and just want to get backâ he then blew up on me and said âwhat why?! Why did you invite me to the cinema with you? I thought you were giving me a chance. Now I feel really stupid etc etcâ I was like âwoah, I said to you before we left we are just going as friendsâ I felt pretty scared for my life ngl as he was so angry and completely missed the point that it was possible he could kidnap me or something. (He also was taking the âlong routeâ to mine and I had to say to him to a few times âcan you just take me home pleaseâ) Especially with his strange obsession with me in the past. Thatâs what my mind went to but he eventually drove me back home. I never walked so fast up to my front door in my life.
Looking back on it, it was a pretty bad idea to invite him in the first place really. Once someone feels a certain way towards you it doesnât usually change unless you do something to change it. I was naive and young at the time so lesson learned for sure
I never wanted to date this guy and never did/never will
But this has been going on for 5 years. This guy moved to my school in 8th grade (So about uh 13ish in age) And right away he followed me around like a little puppy. And thinking back on it now red flags went off in my head but he didn't really do anything so I couldn't ya know do anything other then try to stay away from it. It didn't work. He kept asking me out he didn't stop until I told him "I'm not ready for a relationship right now"
But it just kept going. He wouldn't stop. Following me. Touching me (Patting my head/poking my nose not anything gross but still didn't want him to do it)
Then last year he would not stop putting his flipping head on my shoulder. Even after Me and other people told him not to! Now I flipping fear him touching me I fear him so so much, but yet people who don't know him that well act like I'm the crazy one. But when a dude talks about how he wants to drink people's blood to them. Talks about how he wants to hurt people. Talks about how he wants to hurt himself. Gets mad at you when you tell him to stop (Like he has gotten mad at me for not letting him pat my head anymore)
Sorry if this doesn't make sense just.. I'm so done with him and I might have to deal with him in collage and I'm not happy about that....
My abusive ex who couldn't take my "no" for an answer: "I'm never having s3x or even dating again because I'll never meet a woman much less love a woman like you."
This same ex 2 weeks later: _has a new gf_
I like the narrarator being a real person but Iâm sure Iâve seen this gameplay before
Had a huge crush and used knives and branding irons to put her name on my body. Still have the scars but you're really ready them well any more
"If you don't come back to me, the failure of our marriage will be all your fault."
After over three years of insults, put-downs, gaslighting, multiple false accusations of infidelity, manipulation, social isolation and finally her leaving me for another guy, my first wife was incensed that I had found a real love at last. What she had done to me was meaningless. I laughed, told her that I would try to bear up under the guilt, and hung up the phone.
Thirty-seven years later, I am still married to #2!
She did not say this to get me back but she said I should get a "Becky girl who listens to me and says, "yes I'll listen to you because that's what God says I should do". I laughed about it for 2 weeks straight.
My sonâs father tried to get me back by saying that no one would want me as a single mother and I was his best option. After that conversation I went into my car and called my now husband and his parents and we all had a good laugh.
That cat car bit around 11:35 ish had me laughing a little more than it should have
Oh I have a good one, They sent my sibling âTell him to unblock meâ Funny thing is I didnât block him, only unadded him, he just forgot my name lol.
When I was just getting into dating I met this girl and she was nice up until I discovered she was cheating on me with multiple people, legit went out of her way to mention them to me and tell her friends that I was tye bad guy after she broke my valuables, I tried getting revenge but failed. Never want to see her again.
Only revenge is self improvement.
@@dejanpinter7644 Hard to believe
@@PKpanzerkrieger don't believe me,just watch
@@dejanpinter7644 What do you mean?
@@PKpanzerkrieger don't believe me,just watch
I love how they make it to the end of the level in game at the same time he ends the video
Whatâs the name of them game? It looks fun
Tbh i like his voice so much(not in a weird way) that i cant watch any other channel cause I hate the other robot voice so much-
My ex ignored me to play video games, he only did what he wanted to do, and then after only two months, cheated on me with one of my best friends. He actually cheated three times one with that friend, and twice RIGHT IN MY FACE, I didnât even realize. I broke up with him after he cheated and he guilted me into wanting to try again. I worked my ass off to âmake it up to himâ and he gave me so much false hope, only for him to not tell me he had a girlfriend and how I found out is them kissing in front of me. Then he said he broke up with her, he didnât actually because he started flirting with her WHILE I WAS IN THE VC! He acted like a total narcissist in my entire relationship. Never date a narcissist. It doesnât end well.
Not me, but my little brother:
Some background
His girlfriend at the time kept posting "looking for mister right" on Facebook. Cheated on him with 3 guys. When one of the guys she cheated on him with cheated on her, she attacked him and got injured herself. When questioned about how she got injured, she claimed her step-dad abused her and acted the victim getting police involved when the truth came out. Mom discovers story first and relays it to brother. Brother drops her like a bad habit.
Got all that? Good.
Four years after the break-up, I am on Facebook when she sends me a message that says, "Tell your brother to get back with me." I lead her on and ask questions about the events that caused them to break up. She is spinning a story about how she wasn't the problem and it was my brother who went distant. How everyone in her life is against her and they don't want them to be together, how she's the innocent one here, Yada Yada Yada. When I tell her that I just know what I heard from the people of her church and her pastor (a wonderful lady I have known my whole life.) Sure enough, they are in on the conspiracy too. So I call my brother and tell her she is on my Facebook hounding me to force them back together. He gets on to talk to her. In the meantime, I Screenshot all the messages and slip it to him in his messenger.
Meanwhile, he's talking with her and eventually the topic scrolls around to our family and how they didn't like her for everything she did. She has the audacity to say "They don't actually have to know we are together. We can keep it secret" besides "they are part of the conspiracy to keep us apart" and begins trying to Gaslight him that none of that happened and she was totally faithful to him. He brings up that the family wouldn't lead him astray, and that mom was the one to tell him about her cheating and I have always been there for him. She then crossed the line and said "Your family is lying to you, always have." That was too far. My family has always been close and have always had each other's backs. After a few heated words, he told her to stop bothering him, or me for that matter because it wasn't going to happen. She says that she had no contact with me and that it was just between her and him, but that, too was lying to him. He drops our convo in her chats showing that we had been in touch and that she was lying. He told her to never contact him or his family again, and blocked her.
That should have been it, right? Nope, she started reaching out to mom, dad, me, and any other possible family members to try and talk to him about getting back with her. After a round of blocks, THAT was the end of it. He is happy today, single, but doing what he loves in a carrer he loves and, from what I understand, she too is single, a mother, and miserable.
So glad this got a sequel
After a year of ghosting me they texted me some random Friday afternoon to say the reason was because they decided they were Trans and didn't think I would be okay with it. However they now wanted me back and thought everything would be fine. I informed them that it never would have mattered to me but the ghosting did and I had already moved on.
The best part is when you add comments after a story, continue on your amazing course, internet person!
Not something to get me back but the dumbest thing I ever heard my ex tell me was he was from Michigan because I loved Eminem at the time and was obsessed with him as a kid. What a loon.
Mine acted like an edgelord discord mod who was so shock that (gasp!) not all women like it when you act like a douchebag to them.
He called me a prude, a spinster to me (pfft who TF still says that) and he hopes all my eggs rot.
My Mom and Dad saw me crying and took my phone, I've never seen my parents be that mad before! My Mom called him and shouted at him, he then tried to get my Mom fired because, she made him cry.....
To preface that, this 1 particular ex and I had a short lived toxic as heck relationship. He was possessive, but also a negligent cheat who felt like he deserved a cookie for cheating on me and telling me all about it right away. He had a pathological lying problem in the sense of chronically making promises he wouldn't keep and had also pretended to be still going to work for like 2 months after he got fired... which meant he had been there only like 2 weeks. Our arguments were never productive even when I tried to shift them toward solutions to turn them into me+him vs the problem instead of me vs him vs the problem. He had done a stealthing scenario and played it off as accidental when I got pregnant. I found out because he thought I was sleeping when he bragged to his cousin about it and that I would "have to marry him now". This was especially bad because the combination of 2 health problems made spawning especially life threatening for me and I had informed him that it could kill me, but he didn't believe me. Then 1 night he sleep walked and grabbed a knife and started "looking" between me and the stairs like he was having a split personality or possession problem. I broke up with him soon after and kicked him out. There were so many red flags I was trying to let go of because I didn't want to be a single mom but... there's only so much I could ignore before being a single mother was preferred.
He called me and claimed he had gotten amnesia after a bad case of heat stroke. He had "forgotten he had a daughter until he saw my email" from months back. He wanted to fix things with me. I said it was unlikely. Later when he "remembered" what he did to me, he apologized. There were multiple times he actually tried to do his idea of fixing it with me but it was clear the deal breakers were still deal breakers. On one occasion he said that his friends said if he really wanted to be a father he should "fix things with his baby mama" AKA me. I point blank said he can't fix it and his friends were stupid when it came to advice related to me. I remember the stupid things they said when we broke up. Many of them slandered me saying the only time a mother will leave a good man is if she's cheating and asked him if he was sure it was even his and that I was an idiot and a b!tch anyway. I'm autistic so I wasn't the best communicator. I have PTSD and had trust issues like heck. I had intimacy issues that made the smells of s3x unpleasant. They were who convinced him to begin with that I was unworthy of a relationship at all in the first place when he was sulking I was not going to be someone's ride or die that made the relationship feel like a hostage situation. So... "My friends said I should fix things with you and get back with you," was pretty high up there with the dumbest thing he could have said because I knew the stuff they said about me and read them myself. He also said I was the first 1 he had ever been with to push him to be a better person and call him out on his b.s. and that he knew he messed up bad with me and regretted it because "nobody else was as good as" me and how I was his ideal woman and that he had changed.
He continued trying to get me back all the way up to when I got engaged to my now husband. My then fiance was actually worried about the idea of him winning me back before the wedding up until I did a few things. 1 if he talked to me, my husband got to see the texts and social media messages. 2 I let them talk to each other. 3 in his last attempt to get me back before the wedding, I point blank asked him what it was about me that he loved and he proceeded to describe my personality's polar opposite. I finally spelled out, "by that list, you never loved me to begin with. You loved who you thought I was and you saw what you wanted to see. That person you described isn't me. We are not compatible and never will be. I can forgive you enough to be your friend, but we will never be anything beyond that again. I don't even think I can physically be around you without the past getting in the way. We can talk like this because of distance. I cannot say, though, if we could talk like this in person, and it not go bad quickly. There is simply too much history. I can forgive but forgetting and giving you a chance to make the mistakes all over again just isn't me. Don't ask anymore. I will be married soon. I don't do heart confusion and if you attempt to inflict that confusion, I will go no contact with you. I wish you the best... but I'm not and will never be part of that best. You didn't change for nothing because you are more ready for the 1 you are actually meant for. It's just not me."
"He had done a stealthing scenario and played it off as accidental when I got pregnant. I found out because he thought I was sleeping when he bragged to his cousin about it and that I would "have to marry him now"."
That, miss, is reproductive coercion, and it's a crime. Hope you still have time to have his ass arrested.
@@TheMadagascarqueen I wish. I was in denial for a number of years on just how bad the situation had been, closed off and everything for a while. My sister actually spelled it out a couple of years ago when she asked for the full story of what happened. Whole thing played out like 13 yrs ago and I think I had missed the statute of limitations deadline already by the time I processed that it was a crime I could have gotten him locked up for. Supposedly he has learned a lot of lessons after getting married, becoming an actual father to someone he spawned, getting divorced, and losing visitation and custody. (Do I buy it? Not completely. This man changes like snakes shed skin. His b.s. just gets bigger.) Unlike me, his ex wife pulls no legal punches so while he didn't pay the piper for what he did to me and the 2 women before me I found out about way later... he at least paid the piper for his more recent b.s. It ain't much but it's hopefully enough that all that dirt turns up in background searches now. I think all 4 of his daughters are now on his record. Any woman running background checks on him before dating are now noping completely out of that. About time, really. The first 2 weren't on his record when I ran 1. Mine was like almost 2 when he told me about the first 2 kids. I definitely had a mental response of, "... Are you kidding me? I would have run for the hills. 1 kid ok. Stuff happens. You learn, you pay child support, I don't care. 2... a pattern is starting. I'm number 3 and he's trying to make me repeat that mistake. Oh HE11 NAH. Lesson NOT learned on his end. NEVER get with this man again. I don't do bad re-runs. Nope!" His ex wife was just icing on the sh!t cake. I'm glad she did the work to get things on his record because now his odds of taking advantage of anyone else is low.
Not really said but screamed through my window about how she wanted me back. She still stalks me to this day.
"I was afraid I was catching feelings. But I'm ok now". After he claimed that I gave him an STD and that he didn't want to talk to me anymore. Needless to say that was the last time we spoke
Some of these make me realize some things were in fact red flags... I think im happy to be alone now
19:51 "guilty until found innocent" is understatement. JAG has nearly 95% conviction rate and like 75% overturn rate. No shred of due process, almost everyone they charge is declared guilty regardless of evidence.
"He assumed everyone cheated, because he did."
Standard cheater logic.
Had a girlfriend cheating on me, tried to continue the relationship after, but it didn't work out so i fully stopped, she then went through Therapy (she had some massive problems) Very manipulative, acted suicidal whenever things didn't work out, etc. Then after several years of 0 contact, she contacted me again and karma hit her real hard. While her mental health got "fixed" she also got cheated on. karma truly is beautiful sometimes. She tried to get back together because "i was the best and kindest person she ever dated"... But why cheat then? By that time i was dating someone else and she said "they don't have to know ;)" biggest red flag ever, told her ain't gonna happen and i walked away
If anyone even bothers to read this,
Thanks for reading kind stranger, and i hope you have a good day.
I love it when Mainly Facts guy laughs while talking, almost like heâs trying to hold it back. 9:43
âI wanted you to eat, but not at my table, and since you walked away, my table doesnât feel the sameâ
Me âman youâre table must fucking suck without me, good luck.â
More of your live reactions please!
âIâm sorry for everything I put you through.â
She manipulated me for about 2 years and turned most of the people I hung out with against me so I âwouldnât cheat on her.â Iâm a loyal person and wonât cheat ever. It was crazy because I heard stories from other people about her cheating, not when she was with me, but before she dated me. Glad I left her.
6:10 bro you have the best laugh i ever heard
Sometimes I canât tell if heâs reading comments or just reacting to the posts because of how the subtitling is.