Inside Inner-City America - Breaking Hood Mindset 🇺🇸

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  • Much of inner-city America is challenged with high crime rates and difficulty. Join me as we meet up with a local who shows us what it's like to grow up in the hood, the challenges of getting shot and kicked out of schools, and his remarkable journey of breaking the cycle and earning a Ph.D.
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  • @PeterSantenello
    @PeterSantenello  Před 3 měsíci +223

    Thanks for watching!
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    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower Před 3 měsíci +15

      Good work Tommie 🇺🇲🙏

    • @Tatman1212
      @Tatman1212 Před 3 měsíci +20

      This world needs a million more Tommies! God bless you sir

    • @MissDoreen
      @MissDoreen Před 3 měsíci +1

      Peter 😊Happy Saturday. It is soo wonderful having you back!! Missed ya😉 I hope you & Natalia are happy, healthy and well 😊 Love Doe 🦌❤️

    • @ape3243
      @ape3243 Před 3 měsíci +16

      Don't usually comment on stuff, but I gotta say, Tommie makes me actually believe in humanity again. Far ways out, but keep going Tommie

    • @jessjamesferrell
      @jessjamesferrell Před 3 měsíci +8

      @PeterSantenello Brother please hit me up when you get to the coast, I'm SOOO excited you're headed our way! Moss Point & Pascagoula should be featured, we have deep history, a loving communities, beautiful beaches and rivers, it's truly an amazing place.
      P.S. I can introduce you to the Mayor of Moss Point (i'm running his re-election campaign), business owners, and residents, I've lived here all my life. We desperately need someone to share our communities with the world.

  • @CD3WD-Project
    @CD3WD-Project Před 3 měsíci +1951

    If every American watched your videos I think we'd all get along better. You truly do a service to what are country really is.

    • @abvevo6406
      @abvevo6406 Před 3 měsíci +112

      Completely agree, we just need a vast majority of society to stop watching mainstream news outlets and horrible tiktok crap. 👀

    • @flysky6248
      @flysky6248 Před 3 měsíci +33

      True and very informative content.

    • @JOkERBIDEN
      @JOkERBIDEN Před 3 měsíci +17

      You’re wrong. Society today as a whole is pathetic. Especially in the US. 🤙 Keep dreaming tho.

    • @poppygoldensun
      @poppygoldensun Před 3 měsíci

      @@abvevo6406 💯

    • @JP-xq7fo
      @JP-xq7fo Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah citizens whom cut the cord and watch on the ground reporting like this are truly doing this country a favor… The cable Fox, CNN, MSNBC, etc. Zombies are doing the opposite…

  • @RAlNYDAYS
    @RAlNYDAYS Před 3 měsíci +1400

    I barely watch TV anymore, but I do look forward to Peter’s videos. Thank you for your genuine high quality journalism. I am very grateful these videos are free.

    • @MrBadBean
      @MrBadBean Před 3 měsíci +45

      I'm From the UK where the TV programs are absolute rubbish which I also do not watch any more, I also look forward to these great videos seeing real people and how they live this is real tv.

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower Před 3 měsíci

      Prople who go out... take a risk, and actually listen are the true 'reporters' not the ones in thousand doll$r corporate suits reading a predecided script

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower Před 3 měsíci

      Real reporting ... not abc... aka, corpo disney or comcast ceo owner approved scripted suit and tie "reporter"

    • @DannyH77
      @DannyH77 Před 3 měsíci +27

      i hope more people stop watching tv

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower Před 3 měsíci +2

      for sure, but..Ads pay for it, a lot of very long and sometimes totally fishy ads... heh.

  • @senorfriskydisco1778
    @senorfriskydisco1778 Před 3 měsíci +254

    "What if the village is corrupt" hit hard. Thats a straight up bar right there. I have a one year old, and we always talk about how it takes a village to raise a little one. Wise man.

    • @slapoutindixie7537
      @slapoutindixie7537 Před 3 měsíci +6

      There is a lot of truth in what Tommy is saying…. It’s how kids were raised back in the 1940s and 1950s …I think it all started to change about the late 60s

    • @DaniSoCali
      @DaniSoCali Před 3 měsíci +2

      True true. That’s why I feel like he was talking in circles though. On one hand he wants to be the village. On the other hand, he’s saying they don’t listen & you can’t stand up bcos the youth is corrupt. They will unalive you or not listen. Not like the old days! Stuck between a rock and a hard place if you truly care. Gotta separate them & pick out the strong ones with potential to think for themselves and make it out.

    • @EnTitledTown
      @EnTitledTown Před 3 měsíci +5

      How about if you actually raise your own kids instead of letting the neighborhood raise them?

    • @creed22solar123
      @creed22solar123 Před 2 měsíci +6

      @@EnTitledTown unless you plan to lock them up in your house and never let them out you'll never be able to control what affects them when they're outside, or on the internet for that matter. If the village is corrupt there's a high chance it will affect your kids. Think before you speak.

    • @dago87able
      @dago87able Před 2 měsíci

      @@EnTitledTownyou don’t get it at all, it seems

  • @aidanw9378
    @aidanw9378 Před 3 měsíci +307

    I absolutely love that Peter is not afraid to push back and challenge the people he's interviewing. He doesn't just blindly accept what they say. If he disagrees with their perspective, he'll challenge them, and that's so important. Tommy has some good points but he's also not entirely correct about everything, and I love that Peter is willing to push back some times.

    • @allisonjames3024
      @allisonjames3024 Před 3 měsíci +23

      There was no need to push back here. I saw some ignorance.

    • @DaniMrtini
      @DaniMrtini Před 3 měsíci +42

      ​@allisonjames3024 there's a huge need to push back. Especially coming from me a POC, I've got experience where I've grown up in similar circumstances as this dude but my parents were there 10000000% of the time working 3 jobs each as immigrants. Blame the community all you want but it all starts at home contrary to what Thomas said. Dude contradicts himself a decent amount of times as well.
      Now is he terribly wrong? No. He makes some good points but overall fails to convince a few times when Peter pushes back. It all goes back to the same points

    • @shepardthinks
      @shepardthinks Před 3 měsíci +17

      @@allisonjames3024 Yes, Tommie's ignorance was astounding!

    • @lorraine96smith56
      @lorraine96smith56 Před 3 měsíci +24

      I can see that Tommy is well meaning, but I strongly disagreed with some things that he was saying and, he often seemed to be doing a lot of talking to support a flawed perspective.

    • @ThaMobstarr
      @ThaMobstarr Před 3 měsíci +19

      Tbh it can come off as pretty ignorant as a white dude from the suburbs to tell a black dude from the hood how life works.

  • @AdrianKetter
    @AdrianKetter Před 3 měsíci +287

    My father was the first black kid to open a bank account in Mississippi, I was always proud of that, I still have the news paper clipping. I’m the first one to go to university and first to not go to prison in my family. My kids speak 3 languages and I own a multi million dollar business not in MS but it only takes 1 generation.

    • @chirchan
      @chirchan Před 3 měsíci +17

      Your story deserves an entire episode

    • @violetsrayreikishop2
      @violetsrayreikishop2 Před 3 měsíci +3

      ​@@AdrianKetterit takes more than 1 generation it takes good parents and black men haven't been good at all at least a lot of them.

    • @dustindenton8152
      @dustindenton8152 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Congratulations, but if we want to impact Mississippi the ones that are somewhat successful need to stsy in Mississippi

    • @appliancedude63
      @appliancedude63 Před 2 měsíci +2

      These homes don't have fathers. That's what the problem is.

    • @trishajohnson1733
      @trishajohnson1733 Před 2 měsíci +1

      That is something to be very proud of that your father was one of the first black people to open a bank account in Mississippi in his generation...but you have to go further back to the Freedman's bank in Vicksburg, which was predominantly ran by black men after the civil war. Many black people were opening bank accounts and trying to save money in order to do better for themselves and their families after slavery durring reconstruction. We can't forget those people and their struggles of trying to pave a way for themselves and future generations during a time it was extremely dangerous for them to do so.

  • @TheAngrychipmunk96
    @TheAngrychipmunk96 Před 3 měsíci +477

    "They say it takes a village to raise a child right? But what if the village corrupt". - beautifully put.
    It's rare to see Peter push back as much as he did here, but it elicited heartfelt responses and some real truths.

    • @jasonwhat5597
      @jasonwhat5597 Před 3 měsíci +40

      If it takes a village to raise a child , you are lazy. Stop thinking others have the same interests as you. Blaming the community is lazy .

    • @jet6558
      @jet6558 Před 3 měsíci +67

      ⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@jasonwhat5597 do people like you think about what you’re saying before you type? do you know what the word community means? It requires an agreement on and the practice of certain values.

    • @tjmctube
      @tjmctube Před 3 měsíci +10

      These are the discussions we need to have at the grassroots.

    • @benhardy2040
      @benhardy2040 Před 3 měsíci +28

      @@jet6558that’s exactly the point. Doesn’t take a village to raise a child. It takes a good people to make a make a village. Then the child can grow up in a good village.
      Jordan Peterson said it best, the best way to change the world is to change yourself. If everyone in these struggling communities had that mindset of bettering themselves, then the next generation would see that and continue the forward progression.

    • @nomemeshere4807
      @nomemeshere4807 Před 3 měsíci +8

      ​@benhardy2040 well that's proving the point that it does take a village right? Because maybe not every child needs a village, but the ones that do need a good one.

  • @buddyalbert5808
    @buddyalbert5808 Před 3 měsíci +138

    A+ on the Professor. He said the only obstacle is “not trying”. It’s 2024, no excuses left. All you have in this life are the choices you make.

    • @LGPanthers1
      @LGPanthers1 Před 3 měsíci +10

      That dude was making poor excuses constantly and evading questions, what do you mean A+?

    • @secretagentcat
      @secretagentcat Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@LGPanthers1 yeah i dont think you watched the video at all

  • @fitetransport-eydj6203
    @fitetransport-eydj6203 Před 3 měsíci +85

    “Bad company corrupts character” - Tommy.
    What a powerful message! This video needs to be seen by people of every skin color. Tommy is a man of character & vision. Strong Respect!

    • @knd7777
      @knd7777 Před 3 měsíci +10

      Do not be misled. Bad company corrupts good character- Paul
      1 Corinthians 15:33

  • @markoneill9064
    @markoneill9064 Před 3 měsíci +246

    I’m going to say it straight up, communities like Jackson need guys like Tommy.
    What he has to say is of immense value because of his lived experiences, and his sheer dedication and determination.
    God bless you Tommy and I wish you all the very best in your endeavours.

    • @ericdennis5141
      @ericdennis5141 Před 3 měsíci +7

      Yes, Tommie and others like him pretty much dispel the myth of systemic oppression.

    • @treysmythstunes
      @treysmythstunes Před 3 měsíci +11

      Seriously, this story of being imprisoned for robbery in the fifth grade, getting shot before high school graduation, and getting a PhD on a basketball scholarship - despite being from one of the most crime-ridden hoods in our nation is a radically and exceptionally INSPIRING example - for all! Maybe Hollywood needs to make this into a movie (if anyone there cares to do so...)

    • @jbell73986
      @jbell73986 Před 3 měsíci +12

      No they don’t, this is where folks like you miss the mark. Hes not saying it doesn’t exist, but there is no need dwelling on it, it’s to overcome those obstacles and barriers. Why would he as a mentor dwell on the negativity?

    • @misspattifromcali.6955
      @misspattifromcali.6955 Před 3 měsíci

      Check out "the GERMAN IN VENICE!!!!

    • @allisonjames3024
      @allisonjames3024 Před 3 měsíci

      Correct systematic racism is everywhere. I am a civil rights activist. I see horror every day. Tommie thank you. You were brave to do the interview. Racists are on this channel, they are everywhere. Don't ever compare this to Anywhere this is america , and these are african americans who have suffered and who continue to suffer.

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 Před 3 měsíci +117

    The TRADES are so important and vital to our infrastructure. I so respect men going into the trades.

    • @weaversolveig
      @weaversolveig Před 3 měsíci +13

      And women! More women going into the trades!

    • @GLo1991
      @GLo1991 Před 3 měsíci +9

      There are so many trades too, I wanted to work outside in nature, I became a certified arborist. Most people have no clue what I actually do

    • @benallmark9671
      @benallmark9671 Před 3 měsíci

      Me too but unfortunately those willing to put in the time & effort to accomplish it are few & far between. They feel entitled and feel they are owed something and want it now !

  • @janine9871
    @janine9871 Před 3 měsíci +50

    “Reach one, teach one” we need more of this everywhere

  • @carolynensor
    @carolynensor Před 2 měsíci +12

    Tommy I am white but grew up in dire poverty in a housing project. Now I am a retired nurse. I was first in my family to see the possibilities and now I have a nephew that is a orthopedic surgeon. My family has made the turn all because they saw me sucede. My mother had a 6th grade educatiom my father died from pancreatic cancer when I was 18 months old. Sometimes it just takes one to suceed for the others to see the possibilities!

  • @scout06171
    @scout06171 Před 3 měsíci +226

    Here’s why I think things are on the decline in every neighborhood in America. It’s that old deal with most parents where parents say they’re going to GIVE their kids a better life than they had.
    I’m 65 and my parents always said that. I had a better childhood but I was not taught the worth of working for things or how to plan for things or wait for things.
    When I became an adult I didn’t know about budgets, how to interview for a job, how to save money, etc.
    I overcame that by after hitting the bottom, I joined the Army and made it a career. Along the way I learned all the things I wish I’d been taught while I was a a child because the cost of not knowing that stuff isn’t as bad when one is 10 compared to when one is 35.

    • @shabell405
      @shabell405 Před 3 měsíci +19

      I understand and relate to everything you just said 😢. Thanks for this comment. We are Okay but like you said...there is so much we had to learn on our own👍🏽😊

    • @jamesleyda365
      @jamesleyda365 Před 3 měsíci +3

      🤘

    • @dovej3516
      @dovej3516 Před 3 měsíci +10

      On the other side of that is me. I was raised with the understanding I could have it better than my folks but it takes hard work on my part too. I had chore responsibilities which I had to do. It was part of my responsibilities in my family. It was also my responsibility to get a good education. The problem is parents don’t hold their children responsible for their actions usually because the parents didn’t get held responsible for their own behavior. Excuses are a dime a dozen. I remember my mom getting a phone call from the neighbor about good or bad behavior one of us kiddos did. I’m very thankful for my school system that had home economic and was required for both boys and girls. The class covered checking accounts, budgets, and of course cooking. But my parents also required us to have a checking account and helped us understand how to mange it. I’m not sure it can be done now with a bank, my parents were the primary but we were the user. Different parts of the country different upbringing.

    • @roxieolemeda3196
      @roxieolemeda3196 Před 3 měsíci +6

      I too joined the Marine's at the age of 19. And I agree that I learned the survival skills I needed later in life

    • @mikeabner0511
      @mikeabner0511 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I was taught in High School about these things.

  • @PiratesHatRockin
    @PiratesHatRockin Před 3 měsíci +107

    “you out there thinking you got friends, you go to jail and you’ll see how many friends you got” 💯OG

    • @treysmythstunes
      @treysmythstunes Před 3 měsíci +1

      Maybe Peter and Neil should consider making that line a CZcams SHORT - it is so classic.

    • @dennisp3314
      @dennisp3314 Před 3 měsíci

      Absolutely !

  • @Mr.Pojangle
    @Mr.Pojangle Před 3 měsíci +72

    As a southerner from a small town, I say thank you. These are my people and I am theirs. All we need is each other and love and compassion. Governments cannot “fix” despair. It is up to us to lift each other up.

  • @stevendrake477
    @stevendrake477 Před 3 měsíci +38

    Mentoring someone really can go a long way. 10 years ago i joined the Army. I flew out of Chicago with someone that no one thought would make it. He was to a t the definition of a thug. That man has changed his life so much. He started as a cook,He ended up becoming a E-6, a leader, and mentor for his soldiers, and went to a more combat focused job. Now hes a warrant officer, and a helicopter pilot.
    Weve talked. He doesnt think he would be alive now if he stayed on the path he was going down before the Army.
    Its inspirational.

  • @NickP16
    @NickP16 Před 3 měsíci +273

    Peter is opening our eyes about places in America we would never think of!
    Keep up your amazing work, Peter. You’re changing the world one video at a time.

    • @KP-ht4in
      @KP-ht4in Před 3 měsíci +6

      Opening your eyes, certain ones of us have always noticed it.

    • @mdsuave13
      @mdsuave13 Před 3 měsíci +4

      some of us live in these places. but it is great to see the other side of the street. Life from other perspectives.

    • @dablackdon
      @dablackdon Před 3 měsíci +1

      This is nothing new.. Glad your eye are finally opening.

  • @madmikemackas
    @madmikemackas Před 3 měsíci +107

    He’s right. Everyone defines success differently. What he said made a lot of sense. Some people don’t need all the fancy stuff and they are just happy in the environment they live in, they’re “at peace”. That’s the best way of describing success for me. Being at peace.

    • @arlenemaxwellcopeland1644
      @arlenemaxwellcopeland1644 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Amen. I used to ask incoming students their goals. Many said in 5 years, the long goal, they wanted to be happy with a family. Continue working in the factory! What? that's it? YES, they said, "what more is there than to be happy, be able to pay bills...?" They taught me a lesson.

    • @maximilianu.n.o.2733
      @maximilianu.n.o.2733 Před 3 měsíci +1

      for sure

    • @1.crazy.redhead
      @1.crazy.redhead Před 3 měsíci +7

      He is right, I had a marriage with money, but lived a miserable life full of manipulation and emotional abuse. I divorced, and yes I live ALOT poorer, but the PEACE I have is 2nd to none.

  • @graemebiggs7829
    @graemebiggs7829 Před 3 měsíci +18

    I am in New Zealand and we love watching your channel. It provides a dimension of reality to ordinary American folk that we simply do not see here, mainly because our media relies heavily on what comes out of the US, and that is either hugely biased depending on the sources, and the content is driven by power, politics and profit. So we only see the "newsworthy" stories: politics, extremism, mass shootings, or severe weather events. Nothing about the ordinary folk going about their daily lives, their hardships, their amazing compassion and generosity, their values. As a result, most countries outside the USA have a very jaundiced view of your amazing country. Keep up the great work you are doing!

    • @KimtheElder
      @KimtheElder Před 26 dny

      As an American, I rarely watch our own news sources for the very same reason. I am beyond grateful for Peter.

  • @ziplin5412
    @ziplin5412 Před 3 měsíci +28

    As a german from Berlin, i appreciate Tommie voicing out what needs to be communicated. Here in Berlin we have very similiar problems in our neighbourhoods. We call them "Brennpunkte". Lots immigrants, low educated, unemployed people live in the former french and communist districts. The people living there have no idea what options and freedom they got regarding education. Unlike in the US you get full financial benefits in germany to get your highschool or university degree. We lack communication to bring these kids to seek education instead of crime.

    • @unknownkingdom
      @unknownkingdom Před měsícem

      Ridiculousn and hateful comment

    • @rameshpratap20
      @rameshpratap20 Před měsícem +1

      High School is free and most low to mid income students across the country gets financial aid. Example, in NY state all students with incomes less than US$125,000 pays no tuition for all State/City Universities and college. If you make more than US$125,000 then it is about $6000 and change which is very affordable. There are tax deductions for education expense also. Many states have similar options. Also, States like Mississippi have very low tax rates.

  • @kd7129
    @kd7129 Před 3 měsíci +143

    I'm 53. I drive truck over the road. I see many different places and many different people. The best and the worst. The bad really bring you to a point where when you see people and you just don't want to know if they're not good people, you just keep to yourself and move on. I'm that privileged middle age conservative white guy who is privileged to spend the majority of my life away from home living in a truck carrying my own weight. Very draining. The best moments though are meeting good people of all colors and walks of life who just see and treat you like you treat them and share genuine smiles and friendly conversation without out all the bull shit regardless how different we may be. Your videos consistently demonstrate how much common folks do have in common regardless of how much rabble rousers want us to believe otherwise. Good stuff, keep it coming.

    • @jamie-fm4el
      @jamie-fm4el Před 3 měsíci +6

      Love this so much

    • @ProdbyGrimeyred
      @ProdbyGrimeyred Před 3 měsíci +2

      Same driver

    • @kathik
      @kathik Před 3 měsíci +4

      Amen ❤

    • @freedomworks3976
      @freedomworks3976 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Same here driver ❤

    • @treysmythstunes
      @treysmythstunes Před 3 měsíci +5

      Like, the ONENESS is NOT just a "lofty Ras Tafarian philosophy in a Bob Marley song." It is the REALITY within REAL PEOPLE! 😇

  • @Claire-zg2di
    @Claire-zg2di Před 3 měsíci +162

    Damn this hit home! I grew up in the worst part of my city in the 90's and I feel so blessed that my community came together whether it was to punish or congratulate our youth

    • @Jrt91
      @Jrt91 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@mubashirkhan9566 safer than Pakistan

    • @sunny74763
      @sunny74763 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Jrt91that's for sure

    • @DMWBN3
      @DMWBN3 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Jrt91doubt it, Pakistan looks friendlier to outsiders than some hoods in America.
      You even ever been outside of USA?

  • @MrElephantshell
    @MrElephantshell Před 3 měsíci +19

    That discussion about the 15 year old robbing an old lady in regards to the law hits directly at a core problem with the juvenile justice system. Tommie has the EXACT mentality that the juvenile justice system is supposed to have. It was built with rehabilitation in mind, but in practice it's more about punishment. Sadly, it should take into consideration everything that Tommie laid out, but a lot of the time it doesn't....

  • @jgoodproductions6029
    @jgoodproductions6029 Před 3 měsíci +16

    What I learned from this video is that Americans need to step up as a whole village to help and love one another. Not point the finger at each other and blame this and that! We are all interconnected in a free market society where we all should prosper! If you see a neighbor in need...give them a hand up..not a hand out. Peter is doing big things here by sheding light on all good people here on this planet and simultaneously bringing people together! Keep up the good work, everyone!

    • @scotthalvorson1161
      @scotthalvorson1161 Před 3 měsíci

      Yepp our broken two party system keeps us socially and racially divided while the rich run out the back door with all our tax money

  • @vau_st
    @vau_st Před 3 měsíci +145

    You can really feel the special pain tommie feels for his community, when he talks about survival mode and his hustling parents.
    Much respect.

    • @mernkanthri3941
      @mernkanthri3941 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Rich will become richer. We all gonna loose our job. Lets revoult against AI. Its unethical and we dont want to be cyborg.

  • @EphemeralProductions
    @EphemeralProductions Před 3 měsíci +79

    That older black guy was really insightful and asked some VERY legitimate and good questions.

    • @LaurieTafoya
      @LaurieTafoya Před 3 měsíci +5

      He’s legit!

    • @MrThejboe3oh5
      @MrThejboe3oh5 Před 3 měsíci +8

      And most young kids or teens will push him, call him a bum or crackhead and they won't listen to him because he isn't flashy.They go "you are living on the street , you can't teach us anything" which is messed up and completely wrong..Kids today say the same to teachers"You drive a shit car, you can't teach me anything " or along those lines.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Před 3 měsíci

      @@MrThejboe3oh5 😦😞😞

    • @MrThejboe3oh5
      @MrThejboe3oh5 Před 3 měsíci

      @@EphemeralProductions Sucks. Growing up, I had a lot of homeless people in my neighborhood, and it wasn't a bad neighborhood, just an unincorporated area to both neighboring counties. People didn't mistreat them,m and everyone knew each other by name. I got math help from a homeless man who helped work on the Hoover Dam, just lost it, gave everything to his wife and kids, hit the road, and drank his way into being homeless, but it's what he wanted. The guy knew history, could spell and define anything you needed help understanding, could do fractions, long division, etc., etc. in his head, and I knew a man who worked for NASA and was brilliant; they both had mental health issues and seemed to come from stress even after success-needed some work done? Another homeless man was an electrician, another a chef, and both did excellent jobs; they were only reliable because they lived in the neighborhood, or else they didn't want any responsibility and left behind a family. They weren't like today; they'd stay out of the way, wouldn't sleep in public spaces, and didn't beg for anything and just wanted to help, something to eat and a few dollars for working to be left alone and to drink. The point is these people were smart, just maybe not falling into societal norms. So, I have a different view of people experiencing homelessness, and clearly not all people are the same.

    • @TheJofrica
      @TheJofrica Před 3 měsíci +2

      His name is Jesse

  • @theintellect5004
    @theintellect5004 Před 3 měsíci +16

    This brother's spirit is a gift and its What the Jackson Community needs to be turned around. Prayers on his journey and for some support.

  • @218041
    @218041 Před 3 měsíci +17

    There’s a “Tommy” in a lot of similar communities. We have to support our “Tommy”! GOD bless the peacemakers.

  • @Ruth-xr2dz
    @Ruth-xr2dz Před 3 měsíci +88

    In this day and age, you can’t chastise other people’s children because you will be in trouble from the parent. I attended one of my teachers retirement party. He told me back when you were a kid, if you got in trouble at school you got in trouble at home. He said now, if you get in trouble at school, one of the parents was in his face threatening to beat him up and sue the school district. He said he had to retire because it wasn’t enjoyable anymore with the dramatic changes in the homes and parenting.

    • @JPAX.
      @JPAX. Před 3 měsíci +13

      Yep. One of my neighbor’s young sons rode his bike in front of my house, saying hateful things to my son while we were outside. Just minding our own business. After several insults, I finally approached the boy and very kindly asked him to stop being mean and just leave my son alone. He lied to my face and said he never did that even though I was sitting right there on my porch the entire time he was doing it. I told him that I heard him doing it. He went home, told his mom and grandfather who knows what, and within a few minutes, I had two crazy adults walk up to me and start harassing me. How dare I say ANYTHING to their child, about ANYTHING he was doing. It was insane! But I don’t care, I will always defend my child and my property from jerks.

    • @seppyq3672
      @seppyq3672 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yeah, my dad retired almost 20 years ago, and even then, it started to switch.

    • @sharonwolfe9442
      @sharonwolfe9442 Před 3 měsíci

      The problem is there are a lot of teachers who will lie about a situation. When I had to go in to talk to the teachers I always took my child with me so neither one could lie and I could get the true story , and punish the child accordingly if need be. But I do not agree with anyone else laying a hand on my child

    • @johnderoy916
      @johnderoy916 Před 3 měsíci +4

      When I was in a small town HS I got in pretty big trouble one day ... in my favorite teacher's class - which made me sad for disappointing her ... then down to the vice principals office ... for a licking with the paddle but before he did that he called my dad at work right in front of me ... then at the end of the day I was punished again in athletics - got a licking with the paddle for making the team look bad, then had to run "until I get t tired of watching you" as the coach said - who also happened to be the vice principal - then i still had to go home and get in trouble with my dad for making the school call him at work to tell him about the horrible thing I had done and for embarrassing my family - man, i tell you what it makes you stop and think the next time about is what you are about to do worth what will happen to you as punishment - which is really the point of being punished in the first place

    • @Ruth-xr2dz
      @Ruth-xr2dz Před 3 měsíci

      @@sharonwolfe9442 It’s sad to think about so many teachers doing so much lying. From my observation growing up in the 70’s and 80’s, I cannot say that was an issue. Normally the kids getting in trouble were usually the ones everyone knew were trouble makers/rule benders. As a rule, parents have a tremendous amount of influence on children if they would only use that influence for good and provide a good example. Both my sister and cousin have taught in the school system for 35 years. They say the changes in families is scary. (Same thing does apply to the teachers.) I agree, as parents we should advocate for our children.

  • @cherylkitchen
    @cherylkitchen Před 3 měsíci +98

    I grew up incredibly poor in Appalachia. I never knew anyone who went to college. It was an exception to graduate high school. I never, NEVER considered taking something that didn't belong to me. I have a college degree. I always did well in school because my parents required it. My dad was the town drunk and abusive and my mom had cancer when I was young and survived only a few years. I grew up with nothing and no realization that I could be anything outside the "holler" in West Virginia. I don't want the village raising my kids. I used to believe in that saying, but the village will confuse your kid because of the inconsistencies. My mom did not let me run in the neighborhood until I was fairly grown. She always knew where I was and who I was with. Today, you correct a neighborhood kid and their parent is going to be in your face.

    • @treysmythstunes
      @treysmythstunes Před 3 měsíci

      All true. Also, Hillary Clinton was going around popularizing that concept, and any real (fearless) researchers of the Clintons would learn, (perhaps) how they have EXEMPLIFIED why that is a bad idea - and WHY she could not be president!!! PEACE.

    • @ziplin5412
      @ziplin5412 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Respect!

    • @francesfriesel6477
      @francesfriesel6477 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Been there, scared the hell out of me!

    • @violetsrayreikishop2
      @violetsrayreikishop2 Před 3 měsíci +1

      When it comes to African Americans village mentality has been the way until that got interrupted

    • @Cheik225
      @Cheik225 Před měsícem +3

      that's what he is saying, it takes a village to raise a child but what if the village is corrupt ? so we got to fix that, we got to fix our village for our kids and four ourselves and that takes the whole of us because if we sit in our corner and ignore everybody else someday or another its gonna come back and bite us back. It's because we go out to live that we got the fix the place where we live at, we can't stay secluded and expect change because someday something or somebody is gonna go awry and it we'll be complicated to go back a good place

  • @eddieh9214
    @eddieh9214 Před 3 měsíci +20

    I can not express how fortunate we all are to have you be our guide into our America. Thanks for finding all the Tommys of this world.

  • @T.S.T2014
    @T.S.T2014 Před 3 měsíci +20

    Peter if a quarter of investigative reporters did the job like you do the world would have to be a better understanding place.

  • @KevOutdoors
    @KevOutdoors Před 3 měsíci +123

    Peter shows the love that exists between people in America. The mainstream media shows only the division and the differences. People are more alike than they are different. I grew up in nowhere Kentucky and along with my wife, hard work and consistency, we have been able to make a good life together. I’m proud of our story and stories just like Tommy’s.

    • @roxieolemeda3196
      @roxieolemeda3196 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I appreciate what Peter does in showing that we have alot more in common. And there's genuine good people out there. We have to stop being influenced by the bias media that's just geared at causing division and hate

    • @KevOutdoors
      @KevOutdoors Před 3 měsíci

      @@roxieolemeda3196 amen!

    • @KevOutdoors
      @KevOutdoors Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@kiwe3546 people are more alike than different because most people love their families and friends and want to reach a certain level of happiness and success. The places we live are not the things that make us alike, it’s the things that we want for ourselves, our family, and our friends. There are many people that live in the worst places that want the same things as anyone else. Their ability to leave those situations behind may be limited but that doesn’t mean that they don’t want the same things that a better neighborhood has to offer.

    • @KevOutdoors
      @KevOutdoors Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@kiwe3546 not sure when communities in Europe and Africa came into the conversation but ok 👍🏼 I’m definitely missing your point.

    • @kchal0
      @kchal0 Před 3 měsíci

      @@kiwe3546I’m sure you’re just trying to troll and be racist but I’ll bite. Can you explain to me why wealthier black communities don’t have the same problems you speak of? If the only reason these communities fail is the tone of someone’s skin? It’s almost like the difference in economic status matters.

  • @mamabear5289
    @mamabear5289 Před 3 měsíci +67

    As a first generation college student from the inner city hood I approve this video ! I made it out!! Then taught in a community like the one I grew up in and now I’m a wife and mom of two teenagers! Homeschooling my youngest!

  • @glenr-oe
    @glenr-oe Před 3 měsíci +14

    This was a legit episode. For those that believe in generational curses, it rings true for people that live and have lived in the hood. It takes one to show another the way out. That same one could develop a mindset of breaking the trauma they’ve been exposed to their entire lives.

  • @kuzcopluscleo
    @kuzcopluscleo Před 3 měsíci +12

    Thank you for coming to Jackson and shedding some light on our beautiful city!

  • @abelreyna8781
    @abelreyna8781 Před 3 měsíci +63

    He said that missing fathers are a problem, but not the whole problem. I would say it's the main problem. The men he is talking about confronting the bad behavior should be those young men's dads period.

    • @rodneylewis4402
      @rodneylewis4402 Před 3 měsíci +1

      That presumes that those dads aren't a problem themselves. It's more important to have good father figures present. My girlfriend has two sons, their fathers are not in the picture...both seem good on paper (hard workers, well-paying jobs, etc) but they're sh*tty dudes, pretty sure both are narcissists. She made a point of raising them around her father and other good male role models. Even though their fathers aren't around, you can see elements of their personalities that clearly passed through the DNA. They wrote me a note last Fathers' Day thanking me for sticking around & being a decent man unlike their fathers & showing them how to conduct themselves...yes, I was in tears. I was raised in a middle class family with both parents in a neighborhood full of the same, and everybody turned out differently...a few dudes on drugs (some have died, one would steal stuff from us if he came to visit), some married, some single, some divorced (like me), some went to the military, some went to work, some went to college, some would screw anything with a pulse, some have a low 'body count' and are faithful, etc. I can tell you that most of the changes occurred, for those who changed (some were just not right from birth & you knew they'd be problematic adults), when we left the confines of our little sheltered neighborhood, particularly during the high school years. I personally always had a strong sense of right & wrong (yes, I did stupid & mischievous things plus I have ADHD & was very impulsive), on top of that my father was in politics & knew darn near everyone so if I even spit on the sidewalk on the other side of town, he knew about it, but for most of my childhood, my mother was 'the enforcer'. It's a cocktail...nature, nurture, outside influences, circumstances.

    • @sambayanzai
      @sambayanzai Před 3 měsíci +6

      Yes I agree. Missing fathers is the main root cause of what’s happening with our youth

  • @lyleswavel320
    @lyleswavel320 Před 3 měsíci +211

    Theirs people making $500,000 a year and embezzling millions from a company to get rich, and theirs people making $300 a week and not stealing at all, it's each person's choice to be honest, the love of money is the root of all evil

    • @richardmorris7063
      @richardmorris7063 Před 3 měsíci +11

      WORD

    • @cbatcba
      @cbatcba Před 3 měsíci +12

      Theirs?? WTF is that?

    • @JimDuggan-tq2lv
      @JimDuggan-tq2lv Před 3 měsíci +1

      Grammar filth on patrol

    • @Scxoop123
      @Scxoop123 Před 3 měsíci +5

      I agree with the caviot that sometimes people in desperate situations due to poverty do desperate irrational things. The risk of being caught and facing consequences and understand said repercussions isn't greater than the reward of getting said spoil. Most people stealing don't have money in their pocket. If you ever been hungry with no money suddenly stealing from Walmart is not only ok but necessary

    • @ConnorBurd
      @ConnorBurd Před 3 měsíci +1

      "There are"​ becayse it is plural, yes @kiwe3546

  • @alaynatuzar7156
    @alaynatuzar7156 Před 3 měsíci +19

    This video came to me at just the right time in my life. I’m 22 years old, still figuring out the ins and outs of what to do. Thank you Peter and Tommie for shining a light on the endless possibilities that us as humans can achieve. It was like a personalized message just for me, this whole entire video. “Do the right thing.” “Work for it.” “You have to want it.” Thank you for opening up not only my eyes, but to anyone else who views this, to the idea that you can get by. Struggles will come, but you have the power to overcome anything.

    • @Erika-up6iq
      @Erika-up6iq Před 3 měsíci +1

      You can do it Alayna! Stay focused and you'll do wonderful. ❤️❤️

    • @Shiftheads
      @Shiftheads Před 3 měsíci

      You're still a baby. All you have to do is try 💯

  • @UKhomestead
    @UKhomestead Před 3 měsíci +75

    We grew up poor, like dirt poor! We didn't have a sofa, we sat on crates. Thankfully my dad was a fisherman and he brought home our food and sold what he could at the quay so we could get bread and potatoes etc. Ive never stolen/robbed so that is an excuse for me a diabolical one. Accountability is a massive issue for 99% of people born from 00s onward imo.

    • @appliancedude63
      @appliancedude63 Před 2 měsíci

      Problem is that most of those kids are coming from single mother homes.

    • @japan1001ify
      @japan1001ify Před 2 měsíci

      Exactly.

    • @aliciagarner2005
      @aliciagarner2005 Před měsícem +2

      It's all an excuse! And it is everywhere, not just in the hood! Everywhere!!!
      We can't expect other people to do for us,we have to do for ourselves!!
      Robing and hurting people is only making things worse for everyone!
      WORK HARD AND SAY NO TO DRUGS!

    • @justabreeze460
      @justabreeze460 Před měsícem +2

      When they were born has nothing to do with it😂 Adults have a history throughout centuries for not taking accountability. You’re apart of a repetitive issue of adults blaming the youth, who at the same time refuse to see they were once them. It’s a never ending cycle💯

  • @jelanifoster9315
    @jelanifoster9315 Před 3 měsíci +35

    Im from Mississippi. My sister graduated from Tougaloo College. My family own Collins funeral home, one location on Ferrish Street. There is so much culture and humbleness in Mississippi. It is rich in love & wisdom but broke af economically.
    I left Mississippi and traveled the country. There is no place like Mississippi.

  • @sisstarshine1279
    @sisstarshine1279 Před 3 měsíci +59

    One of the biggest issues in our society is that most "adults" still behave as "Children". "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I did childish things, but when I became a man, I put a way those chidish things." There has been a break in the cycles, training, and discipline of growing up.
    I worked with youth for many years, and all of them wanted and needed to see adults being Adults and Adulting. When parents, family members, teachers, and community members/leaders still induldge and condone childish behavior and exhibit a lack of discipline, the youth are disappointed and seek to fill this void however they will.

    • @charleneneisler7596
      @charleneneisler7596 Před 3 měsíci +9

      The Bible gives us the blueprint for success. It’s only when society turns their back on God that what we now have exists. We are in the LAST days. Accept Jesus today!

    • @Ezrasghost
      @Ezrasghost Před 3 měsíci +3

      Praise the Lord brother!

    • @PMMagro
      @PMMagro Před 3 měsíci +1

      Very true.

    • @iarise992
      @iarise992 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Such true words. Absolutely agree 💯

    • @boundariessetinstone5893
      @boundariessetinstone5893 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yup kids crave guidance I did I gave my child the mom I never had.

  • @BethSmith-ep9vm
    @BethSmith-ep9vm Před 3 měsíci +22

    43:22 “The barrier is not trying.” That is gold in advice right there. So true.

  • @CellasChariot
    @CellasChariot Před 3 měsíci +7

    This is such a great representation of Jackson, Mississippi...so many people put it down and say "don't go there" but they have no idea how much the people who have spent their lives in Jackson are making it friendly and community based. Thank you! "The best way to help a kid is to shift the paradigm." Amen to that!!!

  • @Searchd4U
    @Searchd4U Před 3 měsíci +91

    This might sound silly but I loved how he put on a sport coat / jacket prior to going into the university. So respectful and classy!

    • @Pediwell
      @Pediwell Před 3 měsíci +4

      Not silly at all!!! I thought I was the only one who noticed it. Thank you for bringing it up.

    • @divinereference
      @divinereference Před 3 měsíci +2

      I thought the same too! So impressive!

    • @woozie___
      @woozie___ Před 3 měsíci

      he's just playing the part, that's the only thing he knows how to do

  • @jeremyaltom1303
    @jeremyaltom1303 Před 3 měsíci +125

    You are hands down best journalist 💯❤️

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Před 3 měsíci +3

      He don’t think of himself as a journalist but really, he is. :). In the true definition of the word!

    • @samporter2634
      @samporter2634 Před 3 měsíci +1

      His videos are awesome!!!

  • @leot735
    @leot735 Před 3 měsíci +3

    As a Frenchman, I enjoy Peter’s videos bc I can discover another America, far from media bias. All I see or hear in my country is about mass shootings, segregation, BLM or Trump’s speeches. To sum up, stuff that divide.
    On this channel, I can see different things that are not really pictured abroad. Here I see authenticity and respect but no fakenesss, hate speech or superficiality. The message that Tommie is spreading is beautiful and apply not only to Amercia but also to Europe and the like.
    At a time where self-victimisation and selfishness are a trend, it’s refreshing to see that some men and women are still down to earth, and genuinely care for their community. The world need more people like them cause united we stand, but divided, we fall.
    Thank you Peter for giving voice to people from all kind of backgrounds. That’s truly inspiring. God bless !

    • @teresavapor3278
      @teresavapor3278 Před 2 měsíci

      Well said…thank you for sharing your insight.

  • @crazychicSHENA
    @crazychicSHENA Před 2 měsíci +3

    Growning up in The flats in Dublin Ireland my mom and Dad told us Girl's if you hurt innocent people Don't come home. Now you've made your Bed in Life and the area was riddled with drugs and crime we ' all made it out for the better 🥰😢

  • @whitestone4401
    @whitestone4401 Před 3 měsíci +68

    Present and involved parents are a must. I was around some of the worst kids, yet, my mom and dad's voices were the loudest in my head. I thank God for that.

  • @conconc
    @conconc Před 3 měsíci +119

    Tommie is spot on, hope he succeeds in everything he's pursuing with the younger generations

    • @ummyusuf8817
      @ummyusuf8817 Před 3 měsíci +2

      This is what i am teaching my 2 sons who live at home, to be the best men they can be and not like there dads.

  • @CathAlexandra
    @CathAlexandra Před 3 měsíci +1

    I hated school too until I got to a good high school with supportive teachers and good peers. It was safe for me to be myself. This helps learning! I actually loved going and missed very little days. Environment does matter.

  • @D33Lux
    @D33Lux Před 3 měsíci +3

    The world needs a mentor like Tommy in their community, someone with positive message of there's no expire date for success. I wish Tommy success and hopefully his book can be turned into a movie.

  • @elll3s
    @elll3s Před 3 měsíci +133

    Peter, you're absolutely right about fatherless children. The lack of father figures in the black communities is one of the biggest problems.

    • @JacquelineLeubin
      @JacquelineLeubin Před 3 měsíci +1

      Why is it higher in the black community?

    • @aidanw9378
      @aidanw9378 Před 3 měsíci +32

      @@JacquelineLeubin Culture. It's a cycle. If your dad left your mom, you're more likely to leave your pregnant girlfriend. There's a pervading culture of anti-responsibility in Black America. It's really sad, and knowing that if young, Black men stepped up and collectively took their responsibilities seriously, Black America would absolutely flourish. But that's just not the case.

    • @elll3s
      @elll3s Před 3 měsíci +8

      @@aidanw9378 Absolutely!

    • @elll3s
      @elll3s Před 3 měsíci +28

      @JacquelineLeubin I would also add to Adriamw's comments. Things got really bad for Black people when black women joined the women's movement. They feed into the notion that they didn't need men, and to make things worse, the government would supplement their incomes (welfare) if no father was in the home. Also, throw in the self-sabatoging and disastrous music that blacks have been producing/consuming (essentially brainwashing themselves to commit self-harm). 😫it's actually sad

    • @TiffanyMorrison-bs7im
      @TiffanyMorrison-bs7im Před 3 měsíci

      @@aidanw9378 It's always white people talking on black issues with no understanding. I bet you, you don't have single black friend and never hung out with black man ever. Before 1960 there was more black Americans married then white Americans. There's a pervading racist culture in white America that destroy the black community. The way the war on drug was treated on black families compared to how opioid epidemic was treated for white families. Also integration with white Americas was a terrible idea. The distancing from white America would absolutely make the black community flourish again.

  • @LaurieTafoya
    @LaurieTafoya Před 3 měsíci +18

    The older man at the garden area… he’s WISE! We need more of HIM!

  • @JuniorLexus6692
    @JuniorLexus6692 Před 3 měsíci +3

    It is a toxic culture and mindset issue. Poverty is often used as a excuse. There is other poorer places in the world where no one behaves like this.

  • @R.PMcMurphy
    @R.PMcMurphy Před 3 měsíci +4

    You can tell in the beginning when the guy is making all the excuses in the world for young criminals that Peter is not feeling any of it.

  • @41A2E
    @41A2E Před 3 měsíci +131

    What is so unique about your videos, Peter, is the POV switch. Sure, you're the "host" of the channel, but what is really special is that really YOU play the guest and the folks you talk to are the guide/host; and I've gotta say, this is one of the best guides you've ever had. A man full of wisdom, and more importantly, love. He has clearly spent a lot of time thinking about the situations he and his peers and his heirs grew up in, and has the compassion to actually strive to make a difference.
    Thank you for this one! It's a world I know nothing about, having grown up in suburban South Dakota. Some of his ideas sounded strange at first, but I quickly warmed up and have a new perspective.

    • @zariballard
      @zariballard Před 3 měsíci

      Yes he does switch the POV on the tour. It's very cool.

    • @treysmythstunes
      @treysmythstunes Před 3 měsíci +4

      I fully agree. This has to be Peter's MOST IMPORTANT video, ever. Second, I.M.H.O. would be the Lakota Shaman with 9 kids. So few of us on this heavily censored and corporatized platform speaking the truth - get any audience. And while Mr. Santanello says I am "not into politics;" (or like me, openly espouses real spirituality,) he brings up the TRUTH (cleverly,) and speaks and asks questions that can expand or evolve your perception while not tripping the censors! (His Libra balance;) + as you've said, lets the person he is interviewing be our host, when they're driving the car, it amplifies this, reiterating: We are ALL in the HUMAN FAMILY!

    • @ThatTaRaGiRL
      @ThatTaRaGiRL Před 3 měsíci

      Love this❤

    • @thadvuagniaux5812
      @thadvuagniaux5812 Před 3 měsíci

      A true artist!

  • @KonTikiBea
    @KonTikiBea Před 3 měsíci +30

    MY Father drilled into my head that when I leave our house I was representing OUR family. And other will judge our family on my actions. Heavy stuff, I also grew up in a town that everyone knew you and who your parents were and all eyes were on us kids all the time, if you stepped out of line there would be a phone would ring or a knock on the door and a teacher, or neighbor or another parent would rat you out in a heartbeat. ~

    • @kathik
      @kathik Před 3 měsíci +4

      Oh ya! I hated it back in the day but now, I realize how great that was. Thank you for sharing a flashback. 👍

  • @lesliebryant686
    @lesliebryant686 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Tommie has a great POV. The community is not involved with each other. It's a me, myself and I. mindset. The crime is the mindset of the lost soul who can not see it beyond making it through to survive. They don't see the future.
    They need community to guide them especially from a broken home without direction. Great video/interview!

  • @stacypoma7853
    @stacypoma7853 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I have so much respect for Tommie. You have such a strong and important message!

  • @nicklrrueckert
    @nicklrrueckert Před 3 měsíci +50

    One of the few CZcamsrs who gives you this perspective on life and the world. Can’t even describe what he’s doing opening up everyone’s eyes to the world around us.

    • @penelopediblasio2566
      @penelopediblasio2566 Před 3 měsíci +1

      So very true❤ He has influenced me and I’m old enough to be his granny🤣.He is very insightful and yet easy with his words.
      I know so many “Tommies” but we could use a lot more!

    • @user-ch4ex3yy4l
      @user-ch4ex3yy4l Před 3 měsíci +1

      I'm so glad I found this channel. I share vid's too.

  • @questioneverything3632
    @questioneverything3632 Před 3 měsíci +40

    What a Great Man Tommie is! So wonderful to see people like him helping our youth succeed! Wonderful story! 🥰

    • @TheJofrica
      @TheJofrica Před 3 měsíci

      Agreed. I feel like he needs help. I feel like he needs own village to help him accomplish what he wants to do with the community.

  • @TheRememdium
    @TheRememdium Před 2 měsíci +4

    I love your energy Tommie!
    Walk the good path. It might be the high path, long path or the middle path, but it's nonetheless the path to glory for you. And may that path be a light for others.
    Fist bump from Norway!

  • @user-lr1jv1td4y
    @user-lr1jv1td4y Před 3 měsíci +7

    Thank you Tommy for showing him the real Jackson. That's my home and when l stumbled onto a video being filmed of how bad Jackson looks. I was like what 😮 the hell. I wanted to 😢. Yes there are run down communities in all parts of the world and there's poverty also. I am happy that parts of my home town is still beautiful.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KevOutdoors
    @KevOutdoors Před 3 měsíci +32

    “Everything is impossible, until somebody does it.”

  • @sgcl2276
    @sgcl2276 Před 3 měsíci +24

    The hospitality in that restaurant was authentic, don't see this in too many places these days

    • @PeterSantenello
      @PeterSantenello  Před 3 měsíci +8

      They were awesome. And everyone coming in and leaving was friendly and open.

  • @danettecowan4754
    @danettecowan4754 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Tommie is such a great speaker. He talks like a leader, a positive light. Such a great video. Appreciate your video and Tommie speaking. 🙌🏼

  • @jackjackson4412
    @jackjackson4412 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thanks for showing Jackson in a balanced way instead of what is typically shown.

  • @veronicalopez8028
    @veronicalopez8028 Před 3 měsíci +125

    7 minutes in and I don’t agree with his point that poverty causes robbery and murder. Most people don’t but the culture that these young men grow up in encourage them to do just that. To live that fast life of dealing, sex, drugs, do anything to secure “the bag”. It is doing a huge disservice to the strong, intelligent black men and women who fought long and hard for rights we take advantage of today. I am Mexican woman and I also shake my head at my fellow Latinos who instead of taking the opportunity to get an education and thrive, decide to gang bang, hustle, and take advantage of the system. Then they have the nerve to call the system rigged when they did nothing to better their own life.

    • @nedhill1242
      @nedhill1242 Před 3 měsíci

      Charles Barkley talks about this. He visits a lot of schools every year. He always asked the kids to hold up their hand if they want to be a doctor, lawyer accountant, etc. Danyelle say hold up your hand if you want to be a professional athlete or an entertainer. he said at schools that are predominantly white. Most of the kids hold up their hand to be a doctor or lawyer, etc. At the schools that are predominantly black all the kids hold up their hand to be an entertainer or a professional athlete. Then he tells them that statistically you have a better chance to be an astronaut, then playing in the NBA. The problem is black culture black communities don’t value education. If you get an education, you’re acting white, that makes you a sellout that makes you an uncle Tom. Black culture since the 60s only value things like professional sports being an entertainer or and I hate to say it but it’s 100% true a drug dealer. That’s why they love rap music and urban culture so much. But that is not truly black culture. That is something that was created since the 1960s. Because the black community was nothing like this before that. Thomas Sowell has done a tremendous amount research on this in his books. But LBJ and the great Society and white liberals in general destroyed the black community responsibility and the black family, which is why almost 75% of children in black communities don’t grow up with a mother and father. This guy was actually lucky. He had a mom and dad. it’s not racism and all the other bullshit they want you to think. It doesn’t have a damn thing to do with white people, conservatives libertarians, etc. It’s 100% black culture and black families and how that was created by the destruction of the black family because of white liberals and progressives. Malcolm X said the biggest danger to America is the white liberal. The people controlling elections right now in America are middle-aged, white college educated women. The most emotional irrational people in this country.

    • @Lansso1
      @Lansso1 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Totally agree

    • @markadler8968
      @markadler8968 Před 3 měsíci +22

      They absolutely have no ability whatsoever to hold themselves accountable. There is no justification for violent criminality anywhere in society.

    • @Shawn_Richards
      @Shawn_Richards Před 3 měsíci +29

      I made it to 22 minutes and nothing he was saying made any sense whatsoever. He kept contradicting his own self. Nothing but talking in circles.

    • @IneptSystem
      @IneptSystem Před 3 měsíci +2

      Except it has since the invention of currency ......you might not agree with it but facts are facts.

  • @pabulumm
    @pabulumm Před 3 měsíci +68

    That analogy of needing to activate a debit card before you can access the money was so good! This video really kept me engaged.

    • @samporter2634
      @samporter2634 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Videos is engaging!!!

    • @renfairegoddess
      @renfairegoddess Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@kiwe3546 do you just want to complain under each person's comment, or do you have any suggestions for improvement (that don't include your political/racist views on immigrants)?

    • @johnparkhurst825
      @johnparkhurst825 Před 3 měsíci +6

      That analogy is so wrong. It's not a issue of how a debit card works it's a MORAL issue. Thou shalt not steal.

    • @thomasbeng9016
      @thomasbeng9016 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@johnparkhurst825 this! They were talking about the amount of loot instead of talking about the victim. Black mentality I guess

    • @renfairegoddess
      @renfairegoddess Před 3 měsíci +1

      @kiwe3546 Good job! I AM complaining about you. You ARE complaining about immigrants.
      Take a good look at your comments and rethink your DARVO. Maybe even ask a friend to read ALL of them. You might accept the reality of your actions better from them than from me.

  • @LemonySnicket-EUC
    @LemonySnicket-EUC Před 3 měsíci +4

    Well done Tommie ! Well done !

  • @Bobby-dh7ez
    @Bobby-dh7ez Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you, Peter, for what you do. You sir, are a true teacher. A real educator, utilizing the honest, unabridged world as your classroom.

  • @patland1762
    @patland1762 Před 3 měsíci +56

    Seperating from friends like Tommie said can be key. I was at 17 years scoring kilos of weed and other drugs and selling them pretty quick in smaller quantity at High School during the day. All my friends were dopers and worse. One day I just looked around while hanging with these guys and saw where that path was going to take me and I just walked away from evry friend I had. If I hadn't done that my life would have been so much different than it has been the 50 years since that day.

    • @jimv77
      @jimv77 Před 3 měsíci +1

      50 years ago, being 1974 high school had a weed/drug problem? I know hippies and weed was a thing, but I'd figure kids were less wild back then. 46 years old here.

    • @richardmorris7063
      @richardmorris7063 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Graduated in 75 so I can relate.. But it took me about 45 yrs to finally see the light. So many of my friends have passed in the last two yrs I guess I got lucky..

    • @deeceestewart4103
      @deeceestewart4103 Před 3 měsíci

      I'm genuinely happy to see you saw life differently and changed your future life like that.

    • @deeceestewart4103
      @deeceestewart4103 Před 3 měsíci

      I love Tommies optimism and I wish him all of the success. I agree that Jackson has beautiful things and places. And there are beautiful people.
      Equally so, there are rapists, thieves, gangsters,car jackers,drug addicts and dealers,shootings,killings, kkk and also corruption at every level that makes it nearly impossible to live there.
      About 20 years ago when the city govt changed ...they called it white flight...when people fled the city...however, I spoke with many people... and thousands of people fled the city, leaving their homes behind over what I understood as the new govt not running the city right and the financial losses that would ensue.They moved into Madison and Rankin Counties and built up entirely new and enlarged cities.
      Follow that with Frank Melton and his aggressive anti-drug tactics. I heard that drove the corruption, drug dealers out of Jackson in a big way and when they left to go somewhere else they took the money with them and the city really collapsed.
      Jackson is a shadow of what it used to be. If Tommie can revitalize and uplift Jackson, that would be wonderful. I shudder to think, however, of the nice innocent people coming there and being robbed and/or car-jacked...or worse.
      I have new neighbors. They were speaking of places they'd worked and lived at. When they mentioned Jackson their voices changed in a downward way and said Jackson is rough. And shook their heads. The condition of the destroyed parts of Jackson are indicative of the terrorism and drugs that crumbled that city. Decent folks that were working had their homes robbed and cars and lawn mowers and everything else that wasn't nailed down stolen while they were at work. There's a saying that they took everything that wasn't nailed down. But these thieves even took mantles out of houses.
      Hurricane Katrina came through the state and changed many things too.
      I would truly like to see changes. It does start with the youth and giving them hope and building a new train of thought. Many people in Jackson were not criminals. They were hard working people. Unable to leave their houses because of the threat of doing so. The kids had to go to school under those conditions. It was atrocious.
      I was broken in on and had a gun put to my head. One time I was almost car-jacked.. I got away. And I was raped. No thank you. Today I live in peace where everyone is friendly and looks out for each other...I don't even have to lock my door...but thanks to Jackson I always do. I live with PTSD every day of my life now. I enjoy the wonderful birds and fish and feel safer surrounded by bears, mountain lions, bobcats, coyotes, alligators and snakes than the manhunter monsters in Jackson.

  • @1.crazy.redhead
    @1.crazy.redhead Před 3 měsíci +32

    My grandma used to say idol hands is a devils playground. Nothing wrong w kids being involved in work whether it is chores or just helping others. It shows the value of another person, and gives them the sense of accomplishment

  • @vaquera9368
    @vaquera9368 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I grew up in a inner city Camden, NJ. I had no idea Hispanics were lawyers, doctors and attorneys until I went off to college and saw some professors who were Hispanics. When we saw Hispanics on television in the 70s, we felt proud and that we could make it. That’s how it was. I’m Puerto Rican born in PR and in my late fifties. I always knew back in the 80s when I went off to college that we needed to see more people like us in these successful careers. I kept myself clean from drugs while living in Camden. My mother was very involved with us especially our studies even though she couldn’t read English well. She made sure we completed all of our homework. She didn’t smoke, drink alcohol or party. She was the one who provided a stable home even in that environment. My mother raised six kids alone. My brother never joined a gang.

  • @78town
    @78town Před 3 měsíci +1

    “You can’t be scared of the people you serve”
    You can tell Tommy is a believer.
    The convos between you 2 I feel like is the conversation we need today.

  • @karenowens4504
    @karenowens4504 Před 3 měsíci +21

    I lived in MS for three years and what I liked about the schools was the attitude they instilled in the air that higher education was the goal. When I moved back to Atlanta, my son entered into high school and several of his credits from MS middle school counted as high school credits and yes, he graduated from college, Georgia State with two degrees.

  • @critterIMHO
    @critterIMHO Před 3 měsíci +9

    It takes a village to raise a child, but what if the village is corrupt? Wow…You always find the best people to talk to and that makes these the best exposes on America ever.

  • @AnotherBrownAjah
    @AnotherBrownAjah Před 3 měsíci +5

    Thank you for showing a largely unbiased view of the American people. I think its impossible to 100% remove your own political/social bias from your work, but Ive seen a lot of your videos and I know almost nothing about your politics.
    Its so important for us all to see that these people we hear about in the news, on the internet, whatever, are PEOPLE with lives and desires and hurts and challenges and advantages.
    This is one of your better episodes.

    • @allisonjames3024
      @allisonjames3024 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Largely unbiased but still very biased. If it hadn't been there wouldn't be so many racists on here.

  • @bmcdonald7303
    @bmcdonald7303 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Dang. These videos are gems. I appreciate this content. I am in agreement of needing a village in accountability of our children. It’s been a blessing to me and it’s helped my children know they can’t get away with mess.

  • @I_the_YouTube_user
    @I_the_YouTube_user Před 3 měsíci +41

    Thanks Pete for mentioning my Bangladesh. I am doing PhD in the US. Until 2 years ago, my (parents) house would drench in the rain coz the we couldn’t change the tin roof. Poverty is no excuse, govt. is no excuse. Govt doesn’t do shit for us. Most people would never rob even if go hungry (most people not all).
    Crime has no excuse.

    • @spazzpeddlerclosing
      @spazzpeddlerclosing Před 3 měsíci

      yea but in bangladesh there are child prostitutes..poor familes sell their kids all day. there are orphans everywhere in SE ASIA who are used..and its in the Culture so pipe down PHD..

    • @JuniorLexus6692
      @JuniorLexus6692 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Exactly, poverty is no excuse. It's a culture and mindset issue.

    • @missam3404
      @missam3404 Před 3 měsíci

      So, there is 0 crime in Bangladesh? Cause you're on here talking high and mighty. Cause I can say with no doubt if people are committing crime there it's cause they are BROKE/POOR, so just like you or your family didn't take the crime route, there are MANY people in neighborhoods like Jackson who are doing or have done the same as your family.

    • @missam3404
      @missam3404 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@JuniorLexus6692so which culture commits no crime?

  • @Ruth-xr2dz
    @Ruth-xr2dz Před 3 měsíci +75

    I think about my mom growing up dirt poor in the south and my dad growing up dirt poor in the north. My grandparents never had indoor plumbing and that really wasn’t a thing where they were from during that time period. Both sets of grandparents and parents worked so hard to feed and shelter everyone. Instead of stealing, they shared whatever they had with everyone around them. Stealing is often a mindset of I deserve it because you have more than me. The number of organizations that provide food, clothing , shelter, school supplies, laundry soap, furniture, household goods, free childcare, camp scholarships, etc. is endless in this country. I have volunteered with several. I remember a young man sitting outside of a homeless shelter that did incredible work in the community. He was complaining that they wouldn’t help him. One of the long-time volunteers who knew him well said he had been helped many times but wouldn’t follow any of the rules. He wanted what he wanted. Some people just can’t be helped because they aren’t willing to do the work.

  • @meettheworld6241
    @meettheworld6241 Před 2 měsíci +3

    It's pretty cool to watch a video and recognize every street... born and raised in Jackson, I LOVE central Mississippi!

  • @hollygolightly7475
    @hollygolightly7475 Před 3 měsíci +1

    He was so passionate about his community and a proud guy👏👏👏 enjoyed it

  • @mysticwolf007
    @mysticwolf007 Před 3 měsíci +79

    Just woke up, coffee in hand and a new video from Peter just dropped..day is off to a good start :)

  • @4362mont
    @4362mont Před 3 měsíci +28

    I never have believed in letting the entire village take part in raising a child, especially not the town drunks, junkies, addicts, idiots, and those with no visible means of support. Too many of those and it's no place to raise a child.

  • @jenarmstrong118
    @jenarmstrong118 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Amen! We need more people like this fighting for our youth. He's right on everything!

  • @Jessicahurst1
    @Jessicahurst1 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Tommie is so intelligent and self aware and Peter pushed back and asked good questions. Great work as usual ❤

  • @cslivestockllc138
    @cslivestockllc138 Před 3 měsíci +26

    One of the issues is that young people see the end result of working hard, not the 20-30 years of work that people put in to have those nice things. Everyone wants it NOW, that has to change.

  • @clay282
    @clay282 Před 3 měsíci +14

    We were poor. Paper food stamps, plastic frame welfare glasses, utilities getting cut off, free clothes from charity. It was miserable. It was humiliating. Stealing, violence, crime just wasn’t tolerated! I lived in the wrong part of town, in a nowhere Delta town, I was trash, but we didn’t commit crimes. We were pushed to do more, be something, be someone, go farther and I did. Bad behavior was unacceptable and there was no excuse. I don’t know why there’s always a reason now, that seems to lay the blame on others.

    • @letsdothis9063
      @letsdothis9063 Před 3 měsíci +4

      Yup. My parents are from Greenwood. My dad and his two brothers didn't have much. They all three shared the attic as a bedroom. They all ended up doing well. Both of my dad's brothers became successful doctors, and my dad got a job with the state government after leaving the army

  • @bbgriss
    @bbgriss Před 3 měsíci +5

    Peter, this series has been fun to watch so far as a Mississippian. We always say here that there are four sections to Mississippi,
    North MS
    Delta MS
    South MS
    The Coast
    “The coast” is like a whole different world. Things are so different down here. We all grew up on the water, the rivers and the Gulf of Mexico. Our culture and mindset is a little different. We thrive off of the seafood industry and the shipbuilding industry and casinos that rival Vegas. But one of the most hidden gems that we have is the access to our barrier islands which we spend our summers on. I tell people all the time that we live in our own little paradise that no one knows about! I hope you get to experience that!
    PS: I love and appreciate your authenticity. No judgement, just curiosity. Much love!

  • @jessicarussell4359
    @jessicarussell4359 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Peter - Your videos are always great. I love that you have valid points and you point them out but you don't argue or drive the point home. You are merely an observer in another person's space and it is refreshing. I feel like I would just find myself arguing with everyone. This guy was soooo obtuse and you just let him have it. Though his heart is in the right place, the view is very rigid and specific to a small community. You are so patient.

    • @angiemarie786
      @angiemarie786 Před 3 měsíci +4

      I totally agree. This was my least favorite video I’ve watched only because of Tommy. Peter had to interrupt him countless times because he would just go on endlessly otherwise, and sometimes he wouldn’t really answer the question at all. I think Tommy truly means well but he also likes to hear himself talk.

  • @Michael-nj1um
    @Michael-nj1um Před 3 měsíci +17

    Tommie and Peter are a blessing!! These men are making the world a better place!! Thank you gentlemen!! :)

  • @maraclark9817
    @maraclark9817 Před 3 měsíci +22

    California native that lived and worked in Jackson, MS for 5 years. It has a huge piece of my heart and I hope to return one day. There is so much good in Jackson and the state as a whole. Tommie explained it well, the progress is all mental. I audited for state, so I traveled all over. It was very present that generation follows after generation, the more education and encouragement young Mississippians get I have no doubt will be a huge help to them.

  • @muthianimutisya3683
    @muthianimutisya3683 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This guy inspired me ,coming from a such a background and earing a PhD is a great achievement,I also want to challenge America education system to have youths exchange program with Africa, they should come and visit mathare slums and kibra slums in kenya 🇰🇪 and see what is called poverty, they will be surprised, in America you are far much ahead,in Africa we come from places with no electricity, tarmac and we manage to go university and college.

    • @galacula
      @galacula Před 2 měsíci

      Are you from Kenya?

  • @miniblueshell
    @miniblueshell Před 3 měsíci +4

    Ive been spending time on watching politics and tech videos and I JAD TO CIRCLE BACK TO YOU PETER. America needs to see all of America. This young man is an inspiration to all of us. ❤ Bless him and you for this video.

  • @vickypatout5361
    @vickypatout5361 Před 3 měsíci +160

    So, so great Peter! As a member from south Louisiana I am really enjoying this journey into the deep south. Thank you for these great messages of hope❤

    • @dannyriot50
      @dannyriot50 Před 3 měsíci

      I’m from south LA too.. wish he would do a video of Buras and Venice after Katrina. Where u from?

    • @vickypatout5361
      @vickypatout5361 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @dannyriot50 New Iberia but I just moved to Lafayette. Hi neighbor 👋

    • @ashtonsuire8836
      @ashtonsuire8836 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Born and raised in morgan city, can't wait for some South LA content

    • @vickypatout5361
      @vickypatout5361 Před 3 měsíci

      @@ashtonsuire8836 I have relatives there, my Andrews cousins.

    • @treysmythstunes
      @treysmythstunes Před 3 měsíci +2

      I know. I just spent 20 years in Santa Cruz, California and I am visiting my blood kins here in Charleston, S.C. Even after getting my ass kicked several times when I first got there, and getting robbed clean at the end, I would NEVER allow the dark ones to strip me of the RESPECTFUL side of my "Southern Values." It is GREAT Peter is showing - the millions - these IMPORTANT traits - of LOVE, RESPECT, HOSPITALITY, FRIENDLINESS, EQUINIMITY and even ANTIRACISM - which will NEVER leave the REAL humans!

  • @grain9640
    @grain9640 Před 3 měsíci +70

    "In order to get something you never had, you got to do something you never did and become a person you never been" ❤

    • @thecroftericmiller496
      @thecroftericmiller496 Před 3 měsíci

      So very true

    • @saraashcroch3551
      @saraashcroch3551 Před 3 měsíci

      Wow...Perfectfully said....

    • @michellewinkler3985
      @michellewinkler3985 Před 3 měsíci

      That sounds like a Jordan Peterson statement! Well done!

    • @leonisaacs3512
      @leonisaacs3512 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Legit wrote it down when I heard it!

    • @grain9640
      @grain9640 Před 3 měsíci

      hearing it from JP would have no impact for me, because he just quotes pithy stuff trying to sound deep@@michellewinkler3985

  • @Lisamarieink
    @Lisamarieink Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love your channel. I grew up an army brat and because of this I was exposed to many people and many cultures. It is important for individuals to leave their “bubble” and expose themselves to how others live. I often tell people when you do visit another place make sure you see all parts of the area, both rich and poor. Your channel provides this! Such an asset, for many have the wrong view of people who live differently from them. Keep doing what you’re doing!!!! ❤