I DELETED SOCIAL MEDIA as a Gen Z and you should do it too

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  • čas přidán 23. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 27

  • @Alexander-pk1tu
    @Alexander-pk1tu Před 3 měsíci +12

    Well said! I also deleted social media six months ago and I have never felt better. It’s amazing how the human brain is slowly trained into the toxic behaviour that you understand how bad is for you you quit it.

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Well done 🙌🏼 yeah it is amazing how many of my problems were solved by simply quitting on it 😊

  • @blink182fanorsomething
    @blink182fanorsomething Před 3 měsíci +6

    ive deleted social media in the past but i keep going back, but just recently ive noticed how its literally changed my brain. I enjoy reading, but never do it when i have social media. same with writing, and going for walks and a ton of other hobbies i used to do everyday, but i deleted it permanently on friday and im 100% sticking to it this time. Ive noticed my attention span improving and my focus coming back and my need for natural dopamine sticking, in the past when i deleted these apps, yet i went back anyway. but these types of videos inspire me to stick to it, so thank you

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Before deleting social media permanently I also went on and off a couple of times 🙃 I am sure this time you’ll make it! The problem is that social media gives such a dopamine kick like almost no other activities, that makes it even harder to do something else instead…
      Thanks for your comment and welcome 😍

  • @jgrcs1906
    @jgrcs1906 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Social media can be fun and it does give you that sense of belonging, specially if you are a lonely person. The problem for me is that it makes me lazy, I start neglecting my studies, I get distracted at work and I lose a lot of time that I should not be losing because I need it to study. Even my weekends go by so quickly because I am looking at my phone, I am trying to change that but sometimes I get too lonely and social media does help with that.

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci +1

      I agree 100% - it is a personal decision at the end of the day. For me the positives are just so diminishing compared to the negatives that for me this was the only (logical) step to take.
      Remember also that if you decide to stop social media you will have more time which you have no idea what to do with. We humans fear boredom, so essentially if you quit social media you need to have good alternatives for your time. Studies unfortunately are often not able to fill this void, because it is really not exciting to study in many cases (at least for me it was not when I still was in school and varsity). ☺

  • @tsmmustafa7115
    @tsmmustafa7115 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Three years without social media? That's truly commendable! Your ability to stay true to yourself and prioritize your well-being is incredibly inspiring. Your journey reminds us all of the importance of disconnecting to reconnect with what truly matters. Keep shining bright, and thank you for sharing your authenticity with us :)

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thanks for your nice comment ☺️🙌🏼

  • @dataexpunged6969
    @dataexpunged6969 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I So completely get this. I deleted my Instagram and deactivated it about 6 months ago. My friends keep asking me 'omg are you okay??' And I just don't know what to tell them. But I feel so free and not burdened by expectations

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci

      I feel you! Not that I really got asked (lol) but the burden part is so true! I am now just going to places without thinking about needing to make an insta story about it 😍

  • @rezaparis10
    @rezaparis10 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for your informative video ❤

  • @Felix34294
    @Felix34294 Před 3 měsíci

    That's amazing, staying 3 years without social media is difficult, keep doing what you are doing

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much ☺️ will do!!

  • @verdellk4722
    @verdellk4722 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank You for this video. This deserves more views.

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you so much ☺️🍀

  • @alfonzo6320
    @alfonzo6320 Před 3 měsíci +1

    THE IRONY IN THE TITLE OMG!

  • @TinkiW
    @TinkiW Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hello!! I personally never had facebook, instagram or tiktok (even though im gen z as well) but I do have other social media apps, namely youtube, discord, whatsapp, snapchat and messenger. I'd love to know your opinion and/or relationship with the apps I've mentioned. I assume snapchat is the most "controversial" out of the bunch but I see it a bit differently as you cannot scroll endlessly there; once you've seen all the pictures your friends sent you there is nothing more to do on the app. However, maybe I am missing something and it is detrimental to my wellbeing in ways I have not considered. What are your thoughts on this?

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci

      I do use CZcams because it’s a great place for me to learn all types of things and there are great ways to make it less addictive as Google allows you e.g to depersonalise the suggestion feed.
      Snapchat was one of the apps I deleted 3 years ago because I often felt like I need to take my phone out to take a snap to send to people and then I did not enjoy the moment itself but it sort of got tainted with “trying to impress others”.
      I use WhatsApp and Signal but both only for messaging and calling, but I do not use the story functionality at all there.
      Facebook I also deleted 3 years ago, tbh because of too much bad news, (especially during the “Panini”) and people trying to sell something.
      Never used Discord or messenger :)
      For me Instagram was definitely the worst because you can not really control what you see, of course you can only follow less triggering accounts but I tried it and it never worked for me…
      And about all messengers: I am super happy we live in a time where I do not have to sit down and write a letter to my family or only call them at certain times. I am really not trying to “demonize” phones and digital media as such because it has democratized information and communication and enabled so much efficiency also in the workplace. But yeah my take is here: check carefully whether the services you use are actually services or liabilities. And then make a wise decision on how to deal with them ☺️
      Hope this answered you questions xx

  • @nuxanderen7245
    @nuxanderen7245 Před 3 měsíci

    I did this like 2 years ago now but a year ago I logged back on all my accounts and permanently deleted everything. I mean I still have youtube and discord though.

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci

      Well done! ☺️ I personally like CZcams because I learn a lot here and I can be very selective about what I want to see. Of course too much is also not good but yeah I really like CZcams ☺️

  • @SangheliosGaming
    @SangheliosGaming Před 3 měsíci

    You are so beautiful.

  • @viktoriahlushak5409
    @viktoriahlushak5409 Před 3 měsíci +1

    thanks for your video, are you ukrainian? idk it just feels like u are haha

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci

      Hi there, you are welcome🙏 !
      No I am German 😅 for interests sake: what made you feel like I am Ukrainian? (Now I am nosey haha 😜)

  • @malkulaas6380
    @malkulaas6380 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I don't have any socials either but I stuck at youtube and gaming 🥲

    • @rica_doe
      @rica_doe  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yeah I know this problem. I also have to basically make CZcams not accessible for myself on my phone in order not to scroll through it the entire day… it’s shocking how I actually sometimes feel like an addict in that sense 😳