Thanks! As a young married woman it's a good reminder not to let our guards down to the enemy's temptation in this area. And to all who want to be married and are struggling: Get your thoughts and feelings under control now! Marriage will not automatically cure depraved thoughts.
Hi, Lori! I always love to watch your videos.😊 It's like talking to a friend and learning from a godly mentor, wich is something I really need and ask God every day. This life would be so much easier and happier, if only we would listen to what God wants to tell us and obey His Word... May we open our hearts to receive Him and our ears and eyes to listen to His Voice. Have a blessed and Merry Christmas!🙏❤
Thank you so much. My family isn't Christian at all, so my mom didn't teach me about biblical womanhood growing up. This series and your channel as a whole is such a blessing for young woman like me. I'm 24, turning 25 in a few days, and I am beyond grateful to have found this channel at such a young age, so I can grow as a biblical woman and wife before getting married. I cannot thank you enough! Sorry for any mistakes by the way, I'm German, so English isn't my native language.
I wish there were more older women teaching the younger ones about marriage & loving your Husband God's way at my church...we don't have that at my church at all... so I've been going through your videos for it. 💛
@MeMe-le5yt yeah I've seen that too...im noticing that not many know how to love like Jesus. Thank God for his Refiners Fire 🔥✝️ He is always working something out for us💪🏽
Oh indeed. Lori is a light 💡 in the darkness of this corrupt world. Pastors should be ashamed of themselves for not thundering this message from the pulpit. One day Jesus Christ is going to punish them for being such cowards and ashamed of him
Lori I would like to translate your videos and articles in french. I don't want to monetize it, I just want to give access to my people to read it. Tell me if you are okay with it ❤
Don’t ever use sex as a way to punish or control your husband! Women are good at wanting to manipulate and control their husbands. You must not do this! You obey God.
Sometimes we aren’t manipulating, but are truly hurt. If that is your issue: I’ve found the sandwich approach to communication can sometimes help. What I mean by the sandwich approach: Validate him telling him how Much you care about him and how much you’d like a great sex life with him. Make sure he knows you aren’t rejecting *him*. You are simply asking for some changed actions. In a very few words cite the struggle you are having using “I”words. Such as, “I don’t feel connected and in our porn culture that makes me feel used.:” but keep it short and diplomatic. Not accusatory. Give very specific requests. “It would help me if….” Give a specific doable thing that would help. Then end the sandwich with validation. And if he simply can’t hear you, keep in mind we aren’t alone. God put us in communities. And in the end, God sees you and hears you. And values you. And of course, the Bible tells us lying is wrong. If wife is not comfortable with sex, but acts like she is, that is dishonest. We can speak the truth in love.
Unchastity is as EMBEZZLING... Just because the money is in your hands doesnt mean its yours... Sex doesnt belong to you personally* but to the UNION of marriage *Another grotesque lie of "my body my choice"
Its the pure devotion to sex INSIDE marriage so includes both no sex with other than your legal spouse before and during marriage AND keeping the vows of devotion to building love by sex with your spouse... pre and extramarital sex and denying sex to your spouse all break that devotion
That's the reason why the gospel means "good news": Jesus's sacrifice pays for all of your sins. All of them. Romans 3:23 tells us "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" Everyone has sinned. I've sinned, you've sinned, everyone but God has sinned because only God is perfect. If someone couldn't come back to God after committing sin then everyone would go to hell. It is possible to become so evil that you go past the point of no return, yes, as the numerous "sons of Belial" did in the Bible and the pharaoh of Egypt; but the fact that you are asking that question tells me that you haven't gone past the point of no return. If you had permanently rejected God, you would just completely reject God, not care about that side of life and express vitriol toward all that is good and holy in the world.
Thanks! As a young married woman it's a good reminder not to let our guards down to the enemy's temptation in this area. And to all who want to be married and are struggling: Get your thoughts and feelings under control now! Marriage will not automatically cure depraved thoughts.
Hi, Lori!
I always love to watch your videos.😊 It's like talking to a friend and learning from a godly mentor, wich is something I really need and ask God every day.
This life would be so much easier and happier, if only we would listen to what God wants to tell us and obey His Word... May we open our hearts to receive Him and our ears and eyes to listen to His Voice.
Have a blessed and Merry Christmas!🙏❤
Thank you so much. My family isn't Christian at all, so my mom didn't teach me about biblical womanhood growing up.
This series and your channel as a whole is such a blessing for young woman like me. I'm 24, turning 25 in a few days, and I am beyond grateful to have found this channel at such a young age, so I can grow as a biblical woman and wife before getting married.
I cannot thank you enough! Sorry for any mistakes by the way, I'm German, so English isn't my native language.
You’re welcome! Hardly anyone is teaching it. I would have loved learning all of these truths growing up.
I wish there were more older women teaching the younger ones about marriage & loving your Husband God's way at my church...we don't have that at my church at all... so I've been going through your videos for it. 💛
They should be teaching this at all of the churches, but it’s hard to find any. 😢
Ya, usually I just hear older women in the church talk bad about their husbands
@MeMe-le5yt yeah I've seen that too...im noticing that not many know how to love like Jesus. Thank God for his Refiners Fire 🔥✝️ He is always working something out for us💪🏽
Thanks Mrs Alexander for doing this.❤😊
Thank you, Lori for all that you do. Your teachings on biblical womanhood have been a tremendous blessing in my life.
Oh indeed. Lori is a light 💡 in the darkness of this corrupt world. Pastors should be ashamed of themselves for not thundering this message from the pulpit. One day Jesus Christ is going to punish them for being such cowards and ashamed of him
Amen sister.🙏
God willing, will be purchasing your books soon. Thank you for sharing and making them affordable. ❤
Merry Christmas to you
Lori I would like to translate your videos and articles in french. I don't want to monetize it, I just want to give access to my people to read it. Tell me if you are okay with it ❤
Absolutely!!! ❤
Beautiful, and a necessary lesson. Thank you!!
What if you do it but out of obligation
Thanks Lori! Another great video!!
Thank you❣️🙂 God bless you!
What do women who are emotionally deprived from there spouse and you don’t want sex anymore 😢
Don’t ever use sex as a way to punish or control your husband! Women are good at wanting to manipulate and control their husbands. You must not do this! You obey God.
Sometimes we aren’t manipulating, but are truly hurt. If that is your issue:
I’ve found the sandwich approach to communication can sometimes help.
What I mean by the sandwich approach:
Validate him telling him how
Much you care about him and how much you’d like a great sex life with him. Make sure he knows you aren’t rejecting *him*. You are simply asking for some changed actions.
In a very few words cite the struggle you are having using “I”words. Such as, “I don’t feel connected and in our porn culture that makes me feel used.:” but keep it short and diplomatic. Not accusatory.
Give very specific requests. “It would help me if….” Give a specific doable thing that would help.
Then end the sandwich with validation.
And if he simply can’t hear you, keep in mind we aren’t alone. God put us in communities. And in the end, God sees you and hears you. And values you.
And of course, the Bible tells us lying is wrong. If wife is not comfortable with sex, but acts like she is, that is dishonest. We can speak the truth in love.
you arent compelled to do anything you arent comfortable with doing
Unchastity is as
EMBEZZLING... Just
because the money is
in your hands doesnt
mean its yours... Sex
doesnt belong to you
personally* but to
the UNION of marriage
*Another grotesque lie
of "my body my choice"
Its the pure devotion
to sex INSIDE marriage
so includes both no
sex with other than
your legal spouse
before and during
marriage AND keeping
the vows of devotion
to building love by sex
with your spouse... pre
and extramarital sex
and denying sex to
your spouse all break
that devotion
Beautiful 🕊👰♀️🤵♂️💍🕊🤱
Can woman come back to god even after committing sin? Or are we just doomed?
God is always ready to forgive and receive anyone who repents of their sin :)
That's the reason why the gospel means "good news": Jesus's sacrifice pays for all of your sins. All of them. Romans 3:23 tells us "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" Everyone has sinned. I've sinned, you've sinned, everyone but God has sinned because only God is perfect. If someone couldn't come back to God after committing sin then everyone would go to hell.
It is possible to become so evil that you go past the point of no return, yes, as the numerous "sons of Belial" did in the Bible and the pharaoh of Egypt; but the fact that you are asking that question tells me that you haven't gone past the point of no return. If you had permanently rejected God, you would just completely reject God, not care about that side of life and express vitriol toward all that is good and holy in the world.
No sound yet.
I can hear it! Reload it.
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