Should You Have Sex on the First Date?! (Dude View)
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HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!
For all the single pringles out there, dating often feels so tricky!! There are a lot of old-school “rules” when it comes to sex & relationships…ESPECIALLY when it comes to having sex on the first date. But is first-date sex really THAT bad?!
This week on Dude View, we ask the guys what they think about hook-ups, one night stands, and casual dating!
Should you wait to have sex or “hold out?” When is it "too soon" to sleep with someone you just met? Are there double standards when it comes to men & women? Can a random hookup become more or are your relationship chances ruined forever?!
Real dudes, real talk - new episodes of DUDE VIEW every Wednesday!
Starring..
Zachary Campbell - @ZachCampbel
Noah Grossman - @noahgrossman214
Keith Leak Jr - @KeithLeakJr
Phil Wang - @WongFuPhil
Eduardo Sánchez-Ubanell - @EduardoUbanell
Jarrett Sleeper - @Jarrett_Sleeper
and Lily Marston - @Lily_Marston
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Okay, the Asian guy is husband material, we need more guys like him.
Ꮶ Ꮛ L L Ꮂ AGREED! He has a channel WangFu productions if you want more of him.
Truthhhh
Phil is awesome! Met him in person and he is exactly the same, genuinely a nice guy. He is the bomb and so charismatic.
Mine, mine, mine 🎵🐦
I agree, his views are pretty close to mine. The only problem is that a lot of LGBTQ guys don't really view things as we do and that's not really good for me...
I love that the Asian guy takes it personally and seriously 😄
MAHFUZA SHARMILI ya, everything he said, i was like preach! Especially the part about how women would be more like men about sex, if it was more socially acceptable and more able to act on it, i think thats totally true. We may view it differently, we might have dif expectations, or have dif parts we enjoy more, but i think at the end of the day, both men and women are designed to have sex and we both enjoy it, and if both sexes were taught the same things and all the behaviours were socially acceptable on both sides, women would be just as thirsty as men (but just like there are women that dont care about sex as much, there are men that view it that way too)
MAHFUZA SHARMILI I love that about him as well he's very in depth with life and I find people like that attractive 😊
@@Anna-ny7ks True! It's all about how we are taught to behave. If you put a group of gay guys who were raised to fuck everything around them, same as straight guys because there is no shame in doing that if you are a man, it does not matter if you are gay or straight. It's way too different to have a group of lesbians who were raised to wait for the right person, exactly like any other women.
THATS EXACTLY WHY I LOVE ASIAN DUDES
Phil: “I don’t think guys should be high-fived for doing that...What does that teach our guys to actively pursue?”
YASSS👏🏾PHIL👏🏾BREAK👏🏾IT👏🏾DOWN
Phil is the type of man I would like to date. You can tell the maturity and wisdom he possesses, and that might just be due to age.
Sindi Sanchez He’s Asian like me. So raised conservatively and more maturely.
Sindi Sanchez I don't think k it's age. I think it's what he grew up with
Yes, you are absolutely right. You can actually see he has a brain and a heart.
Phil sounds like a good guy with good intentions. Especially seems to treat women like they are human beings. He's a rare breed. His parents did a good job raising him. I hope to find a guy like that one day.
Phil is so precious, I really appreciate his perspective and mindset.
Elle Totally agree!
Phil is not only handsome but genuinely wise and respectful as well. It's such a rarity to see men give such importance to who they are sleeping with. The rest I found predictable and dare I say self centered, some more than others. Phil was sweet, articulate and the kind of man who respects women. He's definitely husband material.
Phil is relationship, boyfriend, husband, baby daddy #goals
Um, MARRY ME?💁🏽
Karla Davila yeah, I love and respect him! Total class act
I came here to comment that too!!
Growing up in a conservative family and as a conservative person I really like Phil's perspective and I very much appreciate his thoughts. And because of my views and feelings as a female in college and being a virgin most people don't really know what to do with you
Same 🙈
I think Zach is my favourite person on Dude view. Like he is such an open book. Has no problem calling a spade a spade. And is very honest. Like he had no issue telling the world he peed his pants at his age. And he just has a positive vibe that is contagious. It's like Jos, but more sassy. Like his entire personality is my aesthetic and I love it. Seriously Zach. You're awesome. You always make me laugh like Lily does.
who is zach
Do you watch supernatural
He has a CZcams channel named Zachary Campbell
Came here from Zach’s channel and yes he amazing
I also favour Zach, but on a side note, can we just acknowledge Noah's gorgelicious eyes?
Phil is so SWEET
What I learned from this video is that I need to marry Phil
😂😂😂👍
Phil is a male version of me. Huge respect for voicing these views.
Omg I love the guy in the black shirt & black jacket! I missed his name, but his outlook is amazing. We need more people like him
lilypowder1 phil, from wongfu productions on youtube
Pink haired dude: "my current girlfriend"
Me: "omg he's straight?"
same
I think he’s ftm. But I could be wrong! Don’t quote me
because he has pink hair, you presume he's gay?! alright then 😒
Miss Lee yeah you're very wrong
lucyk310 I'm gay💅🏻💅🏻 my gaydar is never wrong. You're the one that assumed I thought he was gay because of his pink hair sooooo. I'm a gay man myself and I think it's great that straight men are starting to get out of their comfort zone. I just have a good gaydar and I can tell from his gestures and the way he talks. 💋
This is exactly why Phil has been my ideal guy since the early 2000s. Not about that hook up culture
I felt like Phil's perspective was refreshing to hear. Not many guys think so deeply about those topics. It was nice that he took it seriously. He seems like a pretty good guy :) I really appreciated his perspective.
Phill such a good guy keep doing you men like you are pretty much extinct
a butterfly definitely a keeper type of guy
Sara Fernandez Yes he is. omg if he has a girlfriend she should not let him go. I love deep guys they think before they speak 😍🤣😍
My respects for Phil and Noah! Very few men like them left on this nasty society. Men like them are worth to keep in your life. ;)
i love how thoughtful and introspective phil is!
Phil seems very respectable. *thumbs up*
he sounds like chris rock!!!
Sarah Jeffers right?!! I was scrolling to see if anyone else noticed this 😂
Sarah Jeffers Exactly what I just said on Twitter he literally sounds exactly like Chris Rock
Everytime I see him on Fine Brothers channel I think exactly the same thing.... he could be his little brother
He is Chris rock
@Katherine Gonzalez Thank you, it actually surprises me when people on these kinds of channels don't recognise him
omg I'm honestly in LOVE with this show! I'm so proud Lily!
Not trying to shame anyone but I wish more people took sex as a serious and special thing. I totally get that a lot of people just don’t feel that way about it and that’s fine but for the small percentage of us (especially women) who still do, it’s hard living in a world where sex has become so casual and relaxed. Definitely appreciated Phil’s opinions on here.
Phil is so out place. He stands out as a very decent, sweet guy..
*IDEA FOR A NEW SHOW/EPISODE TYPE EVERY FEW WEEKS ON DUDE VIEW*
I think there should be a follow up with girls. Like I'd want to see what a girl would say regarding these topics. Like I want to see how opinions between men and women compare and contrast. Just like, see what guys think and what girls think. And it's not to divide genders, it's just to see how the opposite gender views something that's more common to the opposite gender. Like kind of how Beauty Break reacting to the standing up pee stick (I don't know the name) and then the guys also reacted to it. Like I want to know what goes through a girls head during cuddling. Like how do different genders view things of the world. Like to a few of the guys, cuddling was something to lead to sex. And some guys, cuddling was just affection that was sweet. So I really want to see that please. I think it'd be awesome.
yessssss
So..... Girl view?
HELL YEAH! SIGN ME UP
They already talk about this stuff in regular conversation on beauty break, lunchy break, any video because it's mostly girls.
I agree!
Yes, there definitely needs to be a girls version. Most guys don't realize that we really make most of the decisions in hooking up. A guy may go to the bar and think he's scored picking up a chick. But women will go to the bathroom and have a full on conversation with other women we don't know about you. Whether you look like you are worth or wait for the next guy to come in the bar. Where you should hook up(your place, her place, hotel, car,alley) and so much more. We let you think you scored big, but we set the rules!
The guy from the Asian background is an angel straight from the gates of heaven
still obsessed with dude view! keep it up! love all of you!
I love Dude View! Two longer episodes in a row now! Scooooore!!!💜💜💜
PHIL U DOING US ASIAN PEOPLE PROUD!! xx
Wow much respect for Phil his answers were well thought out and respectful. He was clearly raised with manners and morals which is really refreshing to see in this day and age.
Can I please date that Asian man.
I connect so much with what Phil says 😁
Dang when the guy in the black jacket schools the pink one 😮 girls are frowned upon when they do that👏👏🙄
I love Phil even more ♡♡
I see Phil I click. Phil is my type of man
WE NEED MORE MEN LIKE PHIL ❤️
My man Phil speaking some facts
Phillllll💛💛💛👏 yesss! Totally agree with his views. He's a dream longterm partner
Phil is so pure
“I’ve never had a one ni..ohpm, why you lie?!” Zac caught his own self 😂🤣😭
"As a straight man that's a lot to say" LOVE THIS
Ohh Zach!! You might just be my new favourite human now.
Rupsy Singnarpi which one is Zach?
Zach reminds me of Titus from Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt :')
My husband and I will have been together for 9 years, married 4 and we had sex on the first date.... 3 times! Happily married! Just depends on the relationship and people!
Did you ever worry this person I'm going on a date with may potentially have herpes, HIV..STDs in general?
I would probably but that lingering caution means I withhold for a while. May not necessary reduce risk but building some measure of trust I guess gives me some self assurance/false sense of security
“Don’t give up your goodies”😂
I need a Phil in my life!
I relate to the asian dude the most.
Damn Phil. Where can I get one like him???
I'M
SO
ENTERTAINED
BY
THIS
GROUP.
Zach always cracks me up
Aww Phil is precious 😭😭💓
Phil‘s view is my fav. Respect.
I know buzzfeed did this. But they should do a question and answer about male genetalia. For example: Where does the penis go in the boxers? Does it kind of stay in the middle, like folded up in the little bulge part. Or does it like hang out of the sides of the boxers. Like is your penis brushing up against your thigh all day.
NOT Jensen Ackles really?So it stays in the middle either up and or,people like tom dayley go up.However,calvins are made for putting down.If you get a boner,it will most likely go left or even right.i know a lot about these things,the penis is my sacred palace
NOT Jensen Ackles .
KD Kritin They weren’t asking...
From what I've heard, every man must pick a side.
Phil is my fave!
Jarrett and zach compliment each other so well. Their views so far have been pretty similar but they also have pretty different personalities. I love when they get interviewed together.
I'm gay and I'm with Phil's perspective. Phil making us Asian proud. 😊
That guy next to Phil is hearing new stuffs that he's never heard before. Different culture and social background.
I agree with Phil!
Zach is so hilarious yet down to earth too! Love all the guys for their different and honest opinions :)
Good job Phil sticking to your standards!
“It’s 2018! Bust it open if you wanna bust it open” 😂😂😂😂😂
I kinda felt like they were being wishy washy. Like they said yeah if you want to have a relationship after then don’t sleep on the first date. But then when asked about how many dates to wait they say there are no rules 🧐🤨🤔
#buzzitopen2018 I love Zach so much! 💕😂
It sooooo nice to see that guys do have the same thoughts and feelings as women! The world makes it seem like we are so different from one another but in all honesty, we just want to be safe and loved!
#bustitopen2018
"Whatever else you wanna bust open" XDXD
I think men like to believe they like sex more than women but in my experience between me & my BF I'm the more sexual one.
as one of the guys said, men and women are both very sexual minded, men just tend to act more upon those thoughts
Ya, me too girl....me too
Anicha HC because its more socially acceptable...and they are thaught to act on it, where as women are taught not to, or if they do, they are being sluty. I think the major reason men act on it is because its a socially taught construct, i think if women were viewed the same, we would def act on it more like men.
I would act on it if I wasn't so afraid of embarrassing myself lol that's the only reason I don't act upon my sexual thoughts. I've talked to my BF about it and he wishes I would act on it if I ever got them again but I'm just too embarrassed and also afraid he'll reject it in the moment because sometimes guys just don't feel like having sex and I get that because it happens to me too. Im going to build my confidence a little more and try it just once. Lol sorry if this is TMI just wanna share my experience & hope it helps anyone else.
I absolutely love Zach! Bust it open 2018, YAS hunny that’s a motto to live by!
OMG Phil I agree with everything you said. Thank you
Phil is husband goals 👏🏻🙌🏻
Wow I Love Noah so much!!
He is one of my faves.
pink shirt guy seems kind of douchey. I mean sure be body positive and sexually open, but don't shame someone for wanting to take it a little bit more personally and serious.
what exactly are you talking about?
She's referring to the moment @ 4:40...
He was doing a joking side eye cuz the guy next to him said he never had a one night stand
I’m pretty sure he was joking and he was just surprised because one-night stands are very common. I think he’s far from a douche. And he’s not shaming anyone for it he was joking.
yeah like he said sex is the best thing in life but it's not living is
Love all the guys on dude view! look forward to the episodes
not gonna lie i low key agree with phil for the most part. Plus i only came for lily so sup queen that hair tho!!!!!
Bust it open lol
Phil! no judgment at all! awww such hubby material. and Noah too!
The Asian guy is a damn sweet heart
Phillllll I like your comments!!! Thanks for sticking to your perspective! It’s funny how the “cool” or majority opinion these days are that one night stands are a must or something. Thanks for sharing and keeping your opinions
as a lesbian who hangs out with a big group of lesbians, Eduardo is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT lmao despite what straight dudes think, groups of gay dudes vs groups of gay women..... the end result is vastly different
"... but I'mma go home thinking about you..." YES. LOL I love Zachary. He's my favourite person ever.
Gonna put this out there - my partner of three years and I met on a hookup website. Our first date was a night in a hotel. Much sex was had. Much sex is still had. I say "pfft!" to the rules. Sometimes it's the thing that brings you together and you discover a deeper connection later.
People should go with how they feel. Just because you feel like banging someone on the first date doesn’t mean you should feel like a slut or be called a slut. Sex is natural, it’s normal, and a person should always be allowed to explore their sexuality without judgement.
Time to,think of Something funny to say, or should I say .....
Clever ;)
I am a happy girl, I requested this episode weeks ago. Love you clever
Omg Phil!??
Phil ❤️
"as a gay man...". Omg!!! Thank you Jesus. Eduardo is very handsome and has an amazing perspective on sex.
Do a video on how they feel about period sex!
I like the Asian guy. ❤
Phil is my Spirit Guide
“I know everybody in highschool is having sex, that doesn’t mean you need to” stress and shame= relieved
What if you are a virgin waiting for marriage? 🤔
Exactly! Thought I was the only one 😅
That one guy looks and acts exactly like Chris rock!! 😆😆
Who doesn't love Zach! He's so funny!
Im confused-do they film these all on the same day or does Noah only have one outfit?
I think they film on the same day just post them at different times.
The sweet asian dude! Spread you're knowledge to other men please!
Bust it open 2018 😂🙌🏻
Y'all sure that's not Chris Rock? 🤔💀
Awww Phil is a keeper ❤️
#BustItOpen2018
Phil is from that one Panda commercial where he meets his girlfriends parents.
Phil 💙