The Biblical Argument for Loving Your Woman | Tony Evans Sermon
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- Pastor Tony Evans preaches on what the Bible has to say to men on how to love and treat their wives.
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Dr. Tony Evans is the founder and senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, founder and president of The Urban Alternative and author of over 100 books, booklets and Bible studies. The first African American to earn a doctorate of theology from Dallas Theological Seminary, he has been named one of the 12 Most Effective Preachers in the English-Speaking World by Baylor University. Dr. Evans holds the honor of writing and publishing the first full-Bible commentary and study Bible by an African American. His radio broadcast, The Alternative with Dr. Tony Evans, can be heard on over 1,400 radio outlets daily and in more than 130 countries. Dr. Evans’ sermons are also streamed and downloaded over 20,000,000 times annually.
The Urban Alternative is a Christian Bible teaching and resource ministry founded 39 years ago by Dr. Tony Evans. We aim to spread the teaching of God’s Word through Christian media with the goal of transforming lives. We offer sermons, sermon outlines, books, prayers, Bible studies and more on topics such as Christian living, marriage, discipleship, and spiritual growth, as taught by Tony Evans.
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Because I want to be a better husband, I am watching this. It's a hard pill but I want to please God
The idea of loving the wife is to please God and obey his orders and nothing else
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So powerful. I've been distant to my wife. I felt unappreciated. I need to stop with expectations and love my wife unconditionally. Thank you our relationship need this.
Thank you, I needed this Word This Morning, but your commit was an added Blessing from above! Headed to 24yrs of marriage and I was starting to point a finger. Grace be to God,it points at me. The word unconstitutional brought me back to point of it all, Ephesians 5:25-28. Thank you for speaking your heart, it was a seasoned Word after a Dynamic Message.
That's how I felt. The part that gave me hope is that God will reward me. This is a hard practice
What do you get by loving someone unconditionaly something which only God can do. God haven't given the ability to humans to Love Unconditionaly all love is based on conditions♥️♥️♥️
Unconditional love is tough when you are a slave, have tontake the blame even if you are in right standing, always have to appease, bear her cross while bearing the entire family's as well. Have to be perfect when everyone else can screw up yet when you point it out, you are judging. Marriage for men is a no win situation only to make everyone around you, including GOD happy. The question lies: what about you? Me? We don't matter, just a vessel for GOD'S glory.
"A womans greatest need is love, a man's greatest need is respect". This phrase really got me.
Read the book “Love & Respect” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. A must-read for both husbands and wives. It really opened my eyes to what these two terms look like in everyday life.
Be more like Jesus, keep the commands and guaranteed you'll know how to Love your wife.
Very interesting book, I just brought that book yesterday. Proverbs 11:27”He who seeks good finds goodwill, but evil comes to him who searches for it”
@@arejay9835 were can i get this book?
A phrase I would say to every couple in the world
You can never go wrong with Tony Evans - I have followed him for 30 years - he is a man of God!!
This was so beautiful and made me cry at the end. Reminds me of the way my husband loves me, I'm so blessed he is in my life.
I pray my children can leave comments like this. God bless your relationship praying it continues.
I'm so thankful for this. I wish the church focused on teaching men to be good husbands as much as they focused on teaching women to be good wives.
Addie B I agree.
Amen
Really? I'm actually glad to that goes on because everywhere I'm at it's reversed.
Yes indeed! Many men have no understanding of the concept of God, him following God to be able to lead a wife and family. If a woman, a godly woman is willing to submit it is not a bad thing if the man submits to his Lord. He will treat you right and he can have a peaceful home.
Addie B aman they need this in church
I don't ever feel loved. I feel used and abused though. I don't know why I stay. I cry every day from his rude comments and behavior. Thank you for defining what a husband should be as I have never known that. He doesn't believe in God and criticizes me for loving God and reading Bible and going to church. That was my first mistake- marrying someone who hates God.
PUSH: pray until something happens.
Im sorry . I hope things get better for you. I was married to someone like that several years back. He had absolutely no regard for my feelings or sensitivity as a result I couldn't open upto him. He criticized everything about me. He dint pray or anything. He dint think it was cool enough for him. And felt he wss justified in watching porn and expecting me to be like that. Basically when a man does not know God, he will just find ways to crush a woman's spirit so she can't do well in her marriage at all. Now by God's grace I have found a God fearing man. He has shown me what it is to feel safe and loved, and accepted as I am. I pray your situation changes .
@@jenab3560 if your husband still alive and your are married to another man while he liveth you are living in adultery... You are to reconcile or to remain single (biblically)..... While in this situation you should commit yourself to God and prayer of course
I too married without God. I thought it was a union under God but he did not. I'm still married with 3 kids. Praying to see God's Plan
Precious sister I’m praying for you!
Excellent teaching....praying that ALL husbands who claim Christ as their Savior will actively listen and receive this message.
Amen they gotten comfortable what Society's shows and others tell how Black marriages are Causes they are the ones who did not honor God ALMIGHTY Structures for his Marriages so yes they will, going to baddddd mouth Black marriages but wanted see others races are worsts but will talk good about that!!!! 😢😢
As a man, this message is a BLESSING
especially at 28:00 mark.
Wow I'm so thankful for this Word. I'm gonna apply this starting right now!!!! I'm gonna be the Kingdom man that God intended for me to be. Thanks so much for sharing !!!!
Amen
Amen
God bless you
God bless you Tony. A p31 wife is the greatest gift a man can receive while on earth. Agape love is being Christ like. Conform yourself to be more like Christ daily. You married God's daughter you are now God's son in law. Your greatest Joy daily will be found in making your "father in law" happy.
God's "Son-in-Law"???!! Granted, she is God's daughter, but I am, also, already God's son. I think it's just semantics, but your statement seems a little weird and anti-male. Trust me, if we have the misfortune of going to Hell, it will be 50/50 male/female
Hallelujah 🙏🙏
A (good) wife is the greatest gift a man can receive while on earth. Not just any wife. Conversely speaking, a "bad" wife is the worst gift a man can receive while on earth.
Wrong, a good wife is the greatest gift a man can receive.
@Très Fielder agreed. But the only thing I would change is that regardless of the wife, I have to agree with Tony, that we as husbands must show agope love.
The most wise man will love his woman like what you teach, he will be the most beneficial winner eventually.
Awesome message. This guy has spent some time in his bible and with God
I am blessed to have found this before I propose. Very helpful knowledge. Now I can love her the right way from the start!
Prayers needed for saving my marriage thank you God bless
kimbow1988 I need those prayers too. In court for divorce proceedings 16th of January. Only God can intervene at this point
@@upgradedbygod1225 do you hold prayer times
Done
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How's it going?
Now I understand why the world pushes the term "love n marry your best friend" its exact opposite of what God says now I get it thanks.
I'm crying over here. I've been trying to say this for years.
Love Jesus more and more. 1st Love. Nothing comes in between or nobody is more important than him. That's Love. He wants to be 1st before Anything.
Amen
Everyday do and say something special. Also, make it a priority to spend quality time together. Show them that they are important to you. 👏🏾🙌🏾 Yes and amen 🥰
Thank you this helped me
1 pamper ur wife w/o strings
2 stop being predictable
3 give her room 4 alone time
4 💗 her with your words 24/7
God save my marriage 🙏🏾 this is some real game from the Kingdom and I have strayed away from the foundation.
I don't know of a better preacher.
There is not many but yes He is one of them.
May Tony's Wife Sister Evans RIP.
Glory Glory Definitely I believe she Are!! 😊😊
I thank God and you for uploading this content, almost 2 years ago I watched this video and came to understand how a Christian is supposed to love his wife, at that time my marriage was hanging by a thread, my wife wanted to leave I was a Christian and she was not, after watching this video I meditated on the word of God and ask God to help me love my wife as he loved the Church. A few month ago she repented and became a Christian, now we both follow Jesus. If you are going through tough time in your marriage, just try to apply what the Bible says and pray for your spouse and put it in the hands of God ❤
*_Father, You supply all our needs according to Your riches in Christ. I’m amazed that you care about us enough to meet our daily concerns and to notice every detail of our lives. Even the hairs of our heads are numbered because You take care of Your children_* 👉👸👴👈
He is teaching like Jesus straight from the gospel, it's so wonderful to have this man of God to teach me and to learn from him!
In the name of Jesus I say thank you for this message
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A wife also needs respect. When a husband's is betraying the wife behind her back and then playing innocent to her is the most predictable thing. Loving another women with his words, but not his wife. True story. "Good teaching." The wife tuition always ends up the truth. The wife is hurting left unloved because the husband's attention is towards other women. However, he doesn't want to sign divorce papers. Thank God! FOR Tony Evans.
I wish I had followed this understanding a long time ago
Start now for the rest of your days. God bless you.
Never to late you still have Breath in you God bless you and your family
Refreshing is the key More what was taught in your households like what examples pops showed how he treated and still treats your mom
so true....I really need help and I pray God gives me patience to wait on growth and my wife the same
Tony evans got that kingdom game. Amen for those words of wisdom!
Thank you for letting God use you Dr. Evans
"Loving Only Your Woman is to keep to Honor your Word."🌹🌻
Although I’ve heard this message, probably a few times now, THIS TIME FEELS LIKE I WAS ACTUALLY ON TRIAL!! The LORD just finally revealed to me who my wife truly is, and just how amazing of a woman she is. I had given up on her, I’d come to be convinced that she was the most selfish, ungrateful, and at some point, the most evil person in my life. But God has actually awoken my soul to be obedient to my spirit now. I finally see things in light of the Gospel’s truth. I had to screen record it when he said “it took you FIVE YEARS to make this mess!” 😂😂 that’s how long I’ve not been her husband! Not an agape husband, at least. We’re fairly young, but we’ve been together almost 11 years. Married for 5, going on 6 in July.
God bless you for seeing her. Praying she will be able accept your love just know if it took 5 years to make the mess it might take double to fix it. I'm sure she is worth it. Praying for you
Through Dr. Tony Evans teaching's on this subject, for years I walked in false love (lust). I've been getting stripped of this world's (on the block) view. I thank GOD that I'm learning now and I'm not in His covenant with a ignorance of True Biblical love.
Expectations are the worst. I have noticed even when I have expectations of my husband that it always turns out bad. Nobody can read someone's mind so why do we expect our spouses to do that? Communication is so important. A man needs respect and a woman needs love.
God help us all to be kingdom men and kingdom women. May our marriages honor and glorify you. May they show the world your beautiful light and love. Help us all to be doers of the word and not just hearers of the word.
In Jesus' Name, Amen. 🙏
Amen 🙏🏾
PRAYERS NEEDED
Dr. Evans thanks for sharing the word. Knowledge and wisdom is needed in this area.
So grateful for his messages. I appreciate being able to hear a good biblical message whenever I want! I enjoy his humor 🙂 too.
Amen! Doctor !!
I agape my wife.
Even tho she doesn’t respect me I’ll love her through it and god will help her. Thanks god
God with a “G”. … not “g”
Now, I see why woman are looking or needing love from a man. And in return, we will give respect to the man.
Great sermon Pastor I pray I get a husband who loves the Lord will be able to love me the way Christ loves his church,that he'll be able to pray for me and cover and protect me and his family. I'll be is everything building him up and encouraging him and respecting him. We could be and example to ours kids and young people 👏🏿👏🏿🥰
I am so glad that I heard this because in my family, the women do not respect their husbands; that explains why they are all divorced and alone. I want to be married only once and I want to respect my husband if I should ever get married.
This word blessed my soul! I’m sending this to my husband. And praying he nourishes every word.
This is what I need to hear to help me get through very tough days because at the end of the day It makes me happy knowing I’ll always love my woman❤️
There's many ways but only one right way, "GOD'S WAY." ☺️🌹
When a man love his wife GOD'S way it brings heaven into history and it makes all the difference in the world. 🌹☺️
Thanks Dr. Evans
what a blessed message.
I unconditionally love my wife no matter how she behaves. I just pray for her. I trust that God will make the proper corrections and healing to her soul. My problem is seriously complicated because I believe she is a narcissist.
Can't be a narcissist and be a believer . Total surrender
Dr. Evans your messages of God’s Word is so fine; you should have a daily television talk show. Today’s world need the straight-up about Godly living.
Thank you...ive only listen a couple a minutes...and God uses you for greatness of His Kingdom..These worlds you speak hurt and heal at the same time..As a women ive hurt men in my life because i dont know how to ask for respect like aGodly women
Thanks for teaching the Word of God without sugarcoating. I have really grateful.
Dr. Tony Evans, "I can appreciate those words, Husbands LOVE (AGAPE) your wives," and your insightfulness makes the difference between AGAPE LOVE and sexual desire love is soo life changing for me.
I needed this! Thank you Rev.
Amen!
We must submit to The Lord and to one another!
Ephesians 5:20-33 is a great one
This is so relevant for majority of marriages today, including mine. I listened to both the men and women instructed videos to better understand my role. Thank you for bringing these points back to the forefront of my mind.
GOD Almighty best be with brother Tony Evans Best Blessings an amazing grace be poured out upon you an all now an always!!❤ All in Jesus Christ Holy mighty name! Our Black living savior!!🎉
Amen Preacher of God. Thank You brother
Thank you for taking time to share biblical insights with truth
Very powerful and eye and heart opening word. Helped change my heart towards my wife and I think about agape and how to show it to my wife. Thank you Jesus for opening up my wall against my wife with this sermon.
Man,this have really blessed me, My next marriage wi ll be in line with GOD. 🌹❤🌹🍰 Amen
Amen. ❤ An Effective WORD.
Thank you, Dr. Tony Evans.
This is the BEST sermon I've heard on how to understand/love/agape your woman/wife. EVERY man needs to hear this.
My wife left me December 20th. Said shes been feeling worthless and sad and cant do this anymore. I now realise how I've been controlling and kept her small. My love was conditional, based on if she loved me. I'm trying my best to give her space as she doesnt want to speak with me
She moved and took the kids to her moms. But I also know I need to show that I care and love her no matter what. She had a job interview today and i texted her good luck but no response. I wish i saw this a year ago but then again, it wouldnt have hit home and i most likely wouldnt have changed i thank God for giving me the eyes to see my wrong doings and i pray that she heals and can forgive me. I know she may never fomr back but I just pray that shell come back.
Im praying for 100% marital restoration in Jesus name
I'm sorry ..praying for reconciliation
Praying you find peace and she does too
What you sent hit home. You not loving her Agape kept her small. It's profound.
The things is men sees how their pops mistreated and treats their mom's or what male around and don't Trys to changed what they seem and giving the difficult and lies on wives it is their faults Nope Keep on checking your home environment.....
This is very much appreciated Pastor Tony, God bless you.
I definitely needed to hear this perspective on the scriptures. It will help me at the beginning of my marriage and it also help as long as I use it
Thank u for the good message Dr. Stay blessed
Thank u Dr. Tony Evans for this message
what if married couples read the Bible together then ask each other questions to learn about each other maybe. guess that goes back to finding someone who believes the same as you though.
not even...consistency...most people dont understand how strong the concept of keeping our word and being consistent are... its more than saying it.
Me an my husband does that because he know of god I didn’t so we would read together then he would break it down for me ❤yes keep this in your marriage
Awesome message!
So I "just happened" to watch this last night. I wanted to cry at the end because I have been the woman with the "serpent's tongue" and I believe I pushed away the man that God put in my life due to the "lack of respect" or honoring my "lord". Now that I know better, I can/will do better for the next one and be an example for my son as to what a "godly" woman is and how he's to be treated, and for my daughter to NOT follow my footsteps but to also know how a "godly" man is to treat her and she treat him in return. I pray that God would bless all those have the blessing to be married and for those with a desire to be married. Thank you Pastor Evans, I always enjoy your teaching and I pray for your life, family, and ministry.
On time. thanks Dr Evans
needed to hear this!
Thank you for your teachings Dr. Tony Evans.
APAPY LOVE IS THE DECISION TO COMPASSIONATELY DISPLAY TO SEEK THE WELL BEING OF ANOTHER. ❤ ❤ IN ADDITION TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY.
Great Word
Yes that's right!!
Amen I listen to this after every conflict with my Reina!
Thank You Father for sending your One and Only Son Jesus for us , Thank You Jesus for sending us out with just your Holy Name Jesus , by the power of The Holy Spirit through Jesus , In Jesus Christ Mighty Name Amen Amen Holy Trinity Amen
Thank you. I needed to hear this. Brought me to tears as well. It makes so much sense now. Thank you Dr Evans!
Pastor Tony Evans is Great . His messages are powerfully delivered .. thanks you so much
Loving your woman GOD'S WAY ☺️🌹
thanks for the good word cause am lacking in my marriage. it is a mind and eye opener.
Praise God for this teaching Dr.Evans. 🙏🏻
Thankful for this word
Thank you pastor Evans for this message I needed to hear it today
What a teaching word!!
DATE NIGHT.... THERE IS NOTHING LIKE BEING WITH YOU... preach that Amen 🙏🏽
wonderful message
Well said.
Thanks for kindom building 🔥🔥🔥
Loving your woman GOD'S WAY.🌹
Thank you! That’s truth and wisdom there.
Thank you Dr Evans with these teachings.
Powerful message, wow! This could save so many marriages... definitely going to use this someday 😊
My greatest needs is love and My man's greatest needs is respect. 🧡🌹🧡🎉💥🔥🔥🔥💯
Finally ..differences told.
I love this message. The only thing I'll say is my wife don't do all the cooking or cleaning. I do most of both so she don't get over loaded. But I still think I needed to hear this message.
A message and teaching so ever relevant. Learning never stops.
good word
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