The Dark Side of Helping Others 13 Surprising Ways It Can Harm You | Buddhist Zen Story | Buddhism

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    The Dark Side of Helping Others 13 Surprising Ways It Can Harm You | Buddhist Zen Story | Buddhism
    🌟 Uncover the Hidden Truths of Helping Others! 🌟
    Are you passionate about making a difference and helping those in need? Join us on a thought-provoking journey as we explore the often-overlooked complexities of altruism and self-care in today's interconnected world.
    In this insightful video, we delve into the 13 surprising ways that helping others can actually harm you. From the psychological toll of the Martyr Syndrome to the subtle erosion of personal boundaries, we shed light on the dark side of altruism.
    Discover how dependency issues, emotional drain, and financial strain can impact your well-being when helping others. Learn how to recognize warning signs and red flags while maintaining healthy boundaries and self-care practices.
    Through engaging examples and actionable strategies, you'll gain valuable insights into:
    ✨ Cultivating self-awareness and setting realistic boundaries
    ✨ Navigating compassion fatigue and burnout with resilience
    ✨ Addressing warning signs effectively while preserving your own well-being
    ✨ Striking a balance between compassion for others and self-compassion
    Whether you're a caregiver, volunteer, or simply someone who wants to make a positive impact, this video is for you. Join us as we rethink the true meaning of compassion and learn how to help others sustainably while honoring our own needs.
    Don't miss out on this eye-opening discussion! Hit the play button and embark on a journey toward authentic, meaningful support-for others and for yourself. 🌱✨
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  • @Red23165
    @Red23165 Před 14 dny +1

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  • @ramkrishn4762
    @ramkrishn4762 Před 12 dny +1

    Most of society is with sympathy; empathy should happen only after you are out of critisism from any. Which is rare as we tend to get sabotaged in the name of aid. Even terror groups are asking for aid for civilians while they only cause turmoil against common man. 😢

  • @Dostbotera
    @Dostbotera Před 13 dny +1

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  • @buddhaexhumed9922
    @buddhaexhumed9922 Před 11 dny +1

    Please allow me to interrupt. I do research on how Buddhism disappeared in Bihar. I realized it never disappeared from Bihar. Buddhists simply failed to research Indian Buddhism. They looked at Buddhism through the sphere of their own cultures searching for only the Buddha. Buddha had a myriad of names in different villages according to his teachings there. Example. His favorite teaching was 'Lust and desire causes pain. Remove lust and desire, and pain is removed'. Translated into Bihari (where the Buddha story took place) it is DHUKH HARAN meaning to remove dukha. Three dozen villages pray to DUKH HARAN Baba. Its clear that DUKH HARAN Baba is none other than the Buddha. Problem is Buddhists are searching only for the Buddha. In the real Vaishali the Buddha begged for alms. The locals there pray to 'BHIKHAINI' Baba (Beggar Baba). Bhikhaini was mispronounced by Buddhists as Bhikshu. Who is BHIKHAINI Baba. The Buddha no doubt. But people are searching for a man called Buddha. In the real Vaishali, in Beluha the Buddha suffered a sickness and felt he had grown old. The locals pray to 'BURHA' Baba (Old Baba). Who is BURHA Baba. The Buddha no doubt. In the real Vaishali the Lichavies pressurized Buddha not to die. They trailed him to Bandagawan pressurizing him not to die. To put pressure in Hindi is DABESHWAR. Three dozen villages around the stupa where Buddha gave the Lichavies his patra, the villagers pray to Baba 'DABESHWAR NATH' meaning the man who won the pressurizing game. It was the the Buddha no doubt as he gave the Lichavies his patra and succeded in sending them back. But Buddhists are searching for the Buddha. In Pidhauli (Vaishali) the local deity is Bardiha Baba. Bardiha means the Baba who didn't allow us to stay where he was staying. Bardiha Baba is the Buddha no doubt because he didn't allow the crowd of Lichavies to stay with him in Bandagama. Forgive me for commenting out of the topic.