How to Live Free + Overcome People Pleasing with Byron Katie | EP 45

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 37

  • @Sdenz23
    @Sdenz23 Před měsícem +11

    You are both so wise and beautiful.
    This really got me thinking, what does it even mean to "like" someone? We want them to approve of us? Provide validation that we are "good" or "right"? Ultimately, I believe this stems from a lack of parental validation. Once i was able to identify and grieve the approval and validation I never received from my parents, I was finally able to heal my own need to be "perfect" for others. I finally learned that another's emotional experience has nothing to do with me and is not my responsibility to manage or fix. The freedom I feel now is profound. Thank you both.

  • @the1972bulldog
    @the1972bulldog Před měsícem +3

    1,111 views 11 hours ago and its exatly 11am Thursday here in Australia.
    Thank You both so Much for a Beautiful Show
    🙏🏻💙✌️🌟🧡🖖🤍

  • @MariaJMcMahon
    @MariaJMcMahon Před měsícem +12

    The self cannot be found in books. You have to find it for yourself, by yourself.’

    • @JessicaLark
      @JessicaLark Před měsícem +2

      Everything is the self. You find yourself in all of it.

    • @MariaJMcMahon
      @MariaJMcMahon Před měsícem +2

      @@JessicaLark You miss the point. You go inside to find the self as opposed to searching for it outside of your self. Everything is not the self. The self is connected to everything.

    • @SaralinaLove
      @SaralinaLove Před měsícem

      ​@@MariaJMcMahon❤❤❤❤ yes!

    • @claresmith9261
      @claresmith9261 Před 29 dny

      ⁠@@MariaJMcMahonEverything is the self , outside and in because everything we perceive is within our world

    • @MariaJMcMahon
      @MariaJMcMahon Před 29 dny

      @@claresmith9261 You're overcomplicating and missing the simple point I'm making, which is that we're constantly being encouraged to read this book or that, or to listen ti the wisdom of this person or that person, when in truth we all have our own inner teacher and guide. We need to go within to find our own inner teacher.

  • @mitramalekzadeh9988
    @mitramalekzadeh9988 Před 16 dny +1

    It's about time. Hi Byron 👋 I'm a fan

  • @CJMilli
    @CJMilli Před měsícem +5

    I’m reading A Thousand Names for Joy & it’s life changing x liberating! I was so excited to see this chat between you two 🩷

  • @patriciayorklive
    @patriciayorklive Před měsícem +1

    Hi Katie! It's me - Patricia from Salt Lake City. I just want to say that I have loved doing the work all these years,
    But beyond that - to read your books, especially a
    A Thousand Na 35:01 mes for Joy and a Mind at Home with Itself puts me in the awakened state.
    I use the audio versions as meditation. I immediately know who I AM . ❤

  • @sanelaimamovic2621
    @sanelaimamovic2621 Před měsícem +10

    Adore Katie 😊 she helped me in my search for real me. My first "mentor" and she don't know it😅

  • @behnooshazizi926
    @behnooshazizi926 Před měsícem +2

    Amazing , I love love love Byron Katie , thank you Alyssa ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @howismichellesochill
    @howismichellesochill Před 23 dny

    5:33 I totally feel that. With the work no matter what situation I find myself I know I can do the work and I will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @krystenann
    @krystenann Před měsícem +1

    I would love to see Martha Beck on your show 🧡🧡 I know it would be such a beautiful conversation between the two of you

  • @maghraouihicham7568
    @maghraouihicham7568 Před měsícem

    Thank you very much for both of you.... getting connected to our authenticity and spontaneity requires us to work deep inside ourselves and question our beliefs and ideas that we have acquired throughout our life unconsciously through our family and society.

  • @Sdenz23
    @Sdenz23 Před měsícem +8

    As a side note, it rubs me the wrong way how much this woman cuts you off...I sense that you clearly look up to and respect her, but that does not mean that you deserve to be cut off everytime you open your mouth to say something...there is a way to address this respectfully as well. No matter how much we look "up" to someone, our inner workings and perspectives still deserve to be fully heard and allowed. ❤

    • @waiataaroha
      @waiataaroha Před 11 dny +2

      relax ..... Byron katie is brought to talk not to listen and we came to listen to her not to the host. Hosts need to listen more and talk less .....

  • @helenee.5462
    @helenee.5462 Před měsícem +2

    ❤ Wow, so real and powerful.

  • @user-jf7hh3hd5j
    @user-jf7hh3hd5j Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for your podcast. It has inspired me!

  • @mindeerosen644
    @mindeerosen644 Před měsícem

    So beautiful to witness! Very powerful !! ❤

  • @peaceTraveler-mn3pr
    @peaceTraveler-mn3pr Před měsícem +1

    Of course, maybe it was just me and as interview went on it was so much more fluid
    Thank you for your comments

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 Před měsícem

    Thank you for your podcast. ❤

  • @peaceTraveler-mn3pr
    @peaceTraveler-mn3pr Před měsícem +10

    Byron is amazing - I wish the host However, gracious talked much less and let this master share her wisdom and let the conversation flow more. There was too much of an agenda. I’ve seen that with over and over again with host that part was disappointing for me. I have to say.

    • @refreshingtwist
      @refreshingtwist Před měsícem +5

      I completely disagree. This is a beautiful conversation! Both voices are valid! ❤

    • @margienegri1210
      @margienegri1210 Před měsícem +6

      I too completely disagree. I really appreciated both of the inputs. Beautiful video all around.

  • @stacieivey7104
    @stacieivey7104 Před měsícem

    Byron Katie is wonderful. ❤You should have Sara Landon on your podcast too.

  • @Andrew-dg7qm
    @Andrew-dg7qm Před měsícem

    Hi Katie, I love reality!

  • @kimberleyganschow8663
    @kimberleyganschow8663 Před měsícem +1

    You had this amazing guest on, and you hardly gave her the space to talk?

  • @staciejean
    @staciejean Před měsícem

    Loved this episode! When I went to download The Work app for my Android it said that the app" isn't available for my device because it was made for an older version" Please update🙏❤

  • @jan141965
    @jan141965 Před měsícem

    It comes back to what your then boyfriend did work on: “Do I need them to like, love me?”