FIX Your MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS With These Simple Tips by Gurudev | AGA

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  • čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
  • Whether you’re single, married, or in a relationship with pizza, this Ask Gurudev Anything episode has something for everyone! From questions on divorce, finding your soulmate, to be married or single to sex and spirituality. This AGA is your one stop shop for everything on Love, Relationships & Marriage.
    Chapters:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:20 - What's better for spiritual growth? Being married? Being single?
    01:53 - Gurudev, why aren't you married?
    02:10 - How do I know if I've found my soulmate?
    02:40 - Is there any spiritual practice to attract the right person in our life?
    02:53 - How do I deal with rejection in love?
    03:25 - How can we keep both passion & friendship in a relationship?
    04:07 - Does having a sex life affect our spiritual growth?
    05:23 - How do I deal with my partner's silent treatment?
    05:33 - What to do if neither words nor silence can get the message across to your partner?
    08:59 - How to strike a balance between the mother and the wife?
    09:35 - How to deal with an emotionally unavailable partner?
    11:26 - Should I forgive a partner who cheated on me?
    15:00 - How do we know if we should go ahead with marriage?
    16:16 - What's your advice for young couples looking to start a family?
    16:36 - Is having children an obstacle on the spiritual path?
    17:52 - How to move on after a painful divorce?
    18:50 - Should future generations wait for their parents to find them a partner?
    20:30 - Marriage feels like a patriarchal setup! What can be done to take care of this?
    21:10 - How does one prepare and cope with the loss of a partner after a long time together?
    22:14 - Is it important to re-affirm your love even after 4 decades of marriage?
    23:46 - How can we overcome conflicts & develop unconditional love?
    25:40 - Is there a difference between a court marriage and a ritual based wedding?
    27:00 - Where does the need to be in a romantic relationship arise from?
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Komentáře • 223

  • @artofliving
    @artofliving Před 2 lety +44

    More knowledge videos & meditations by Gurudev, podcasts, music & ebooks on the The Art of Living App. Download Now: www.aoliv.in/aolapp

    • @raone6145
      @raone6145 Před 2 lety +1

      Despite having 10 heads, I realized that I have a long way to go. This guy, Sri Sri Ji, is so knowledgeable. It is a pleasure listening to Him.

    • @kalamahalingam814
      @kalamahalingam814 Před 2 lety

      Thanks

    • @shaliniverma9057
      @shaliniverma9057 Před 2 lety

      I'm doing meditation🧘‍♀️ so hum

  • @yogaway24
    @yogaway24 Před 2 lety +69

    My take-aways
    1. You can be in a relationship or marry and still be liberated(attain moksha) important is to be happy.
    2. First meet your soul then you will find your soulmate.
    3. If you are spiritual only right things attract (right people as well)
    4. Passion(wants) should be at back seat and friendship(want to give) in front.
    5. Obsession of any sensory pleasure is not congenial even for a healthy living.
    6. Don’t think a relationship to be mushy mushy and always loving loving. Hold hands even in difficult situations.
    7. It’s the fights and downs that makes a relationship interesting, don’t expect it to be flat always good.
    8. Take for granted that your partner has feelings, don’t go on outer expressions.
    9. Someone lie to you only because they care and love. They don’t want relationship to be affected.
    10. Basis of any relationship is Understanding, that goes beyond verbal expressions. What one says is not always what one is and what one feels. Don’t get stuck on verbal expressions.
    11. You must meditate to tap into intuition to get to know if this relationship is for you or not.
    12. Leave some room for conflicts, humour is binding force in a relationship.

    • @RamuYadav-li1tn
      @RamuYadav-li1tn Před 2 lety +1

      Are you married? ... curious to know 😊

    • @mmmiller9972
      @mmmiller9972 Před 2 lety +1

      Wow thank you for taking the time to type this out & share it

  • @xtruma
    @xtruma Před 2 lety +4

    Love it: "men have emotions but don`t express them much"...pretty epic!!

  • @keystolife12
    @keystolife12 Před 2 lety +4

    Being truly alone with yourself teaches you a lot about yourself. You have no one and nothing to compare yourself to!

  • @SunilKumar_67
    @SunilKumar_67 Před 2 lety +58

    This is a wholesome package for all the queries & confusions in a relationship answered so so practically by Gurudev 😀

  • @wendysea1693
    @wendysea1693 Před 2 lety +26

    There is nothing better in life than listening to Gurudev ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @DavidTinxLall1978
    @DavidTinxLall1978 Před 2 lety +12

    ✍️ Don't be bitter, be better 💯

  • @vinuthachaitanya2897
    @vinuthachaitanya2897 Před 2 lety +4

    Spiritual practices will attract the right things 😄✌🏻

  • @raone6145
    @raone6145 Před 2 lety +4

    Despite having 10 heads, I realized that I have a long way to go. This guy, Sri Sri Ji, is so knowledgeable. It is a pleasure listening to Him.

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +5

    It would be really nice to get to know and be friends with an individual before you decide about marriage

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes yes that was the perfect answer if you're both I willing continually 2 working together to help the relationship to grow and prosper

  • @shilpaagarwal7851
    @shilpaagarwal7851 Před 2 lety +18

    The most interesting and authentic relationship conversation ever.. Thank you Gurudev..

  • @tatvafnu6604
    @tatvafnu6604 Před 2 lety +2

    Starts at 1:21. Be efficient in watching and absorbing!

  • @nikhilkhatri2406
    @nikhilkhatri2406 Před 2 lety +16

    Amazing answers. Blissful session..

  • @Sirjan78
    @Sirjan78 Před 2 lety +12

    Todays my birthday...hope ur blessings be always with me gurudev...
    Jgd😊😊😊😊😊

  • @shrutinaik6849
    @shrutinaik6849 Před 2 lety +29

    A perfect Valentine Day Gift ❤️ Thankuuu Gurudev ! 💯💌

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +2

    Be friends with a person and see how the Friendship works out because I believe if two people are really in love favor experience a magnetic abstraction they both will know

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +4

    It matters love makes you happy especially when it's real and divine it's real I experienced love so deep that it took me in a whole new dimension nothing but bliss love very overwhelming yes true love takes you to another plane of existence takes you to Loveland where love is so divinely potent undescribable Bliss

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +6

    If we all had the answers to love couples would be perfect this is why we have so many answers this shows us that love is something the man and the woman continuously work on building and having a better relationship each and every day because as long as we exist we will continue to learn more and more things on how we can love better and be more supportive when it comes to our significant others

  • @deepw1
    @deepw1 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow.....loved watching and listening to gurudev 🙂

  • @bijoyamondal6043
    @bijoyamondal6043 Před 2 lety +2

    Really Precious❤️❤️❤️
    Jaygurudev 🙏

  • @Viraths_april
    @Viraths_april Před 2 lety +4

    Loved the way in which Gurudev delivered the wisdom. Light but very much thought provoking 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sushmaprasad7610
    @sushmaprasad7610 Před 2 lety +1

    Guru jee 😍😍😍🙏🙏 .. Mere pas words nahi mil rahe hai ki kaise mai.. Express karu Apni feelings jo mujhe Aapki Aawaz sun kar Adbhut khushi feel hoti hai or har sawal ka ans jo Aap dete hai usse maan v bilkul santi feel karta hai.. Love you guru jee 🙏🙏

  • @drsaravananr
    @drsaravananr Před 2 lety +17

    Jaigurudev! He is loads of wisdom, knowledge and cuteness. ❤️

  • @kathirsoftarts9073
    @kathirsoftarts9073 Před 2 lety +4

    Happy Valentine's Day to all.💕❤️♥️💖💓💗💞

  • @Viraths_april
    @Viraths_april Před 2 lety +3

    The willingness to give … beautiful 😍

  • @ektasharma933
    @ektasharma933 Před 2 lety +24

    Every answer is incredible, wonderful !Thank you so much Gurudev 🙏🏼
    Especially how humour is the binding force of all relationships. Humour that arises from total integrity. I am going to apply this to everything in life, laughter and lightness amidst the differences!
    And the Divine romance which never loses its charm 😍👏🏼👌🏼

  • @indiradowlut7318
    @indiradowlut7318 Před 2 lety +2

    This is called bare truth Gurudev .love is our original nature ,when we understand the purity, honesty, sincerity mutual respect, freedom ,then we are aware of our existence on this planet Earth 🌍. without love the world won't exist .it applies for all divine creation .our planet would have been barren as other planets .well explained in simple words .love ,marriage , relationship .Jai Gurudev 😇🙏🙌💐❤️

  • @nikhilnist
    @nikhilnist Před 2 lety +6

    These are just superb commentaries by HH Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. I gain so much depth listening to your words again and again Guruji! Thanks :)

  • @333highpriestess6
    @333highpriestess6 Před 2 lety +6

    Perfect valentine's day gift 🎁
    Blissful session
    Thankyou Gurudev🙏

  • @jasminereal8289
    @jasminereal8289 Před 2 lety +13

    Thank you, Gurudev for interesting talk! 🙏❤️ it is very nice to learn about it on Valentine’s day! Guru’s answers unblocked me a-lot in relationship! 🙏 ✨Enjoy every words! 😁

  • @kannu2386
    @kannu2386 Před 2 lety +9

    Just the perfect advice i was searching for! Thanks for this AGA

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +1

    Want to continue to go on with this conversation but we'll get back later get some rest haven't had much sleep since I got off work this morning except go back at 11 tonight will be back to talk a little more about this subject Agape to you I enjoyed this conversation important a tree really learn and cultivate she loves and come to a balance understanding about Divine love really works in our life and we're willing to learn and adjust our situations as we go on learning working towards having Divine and wholesome healthy relationships

  • @vivek14281
    @vivek14281 Před 2 lety +3

    Absolutely wisdom pearls

  • @CHRISTMARY-jl7lr
    @CHRISTMARY-jl7lr Před 2 lety +1

    No conflict is heaven. I desire that.

  • @riamelwani8809
    @riamelwani8809 Před 2 lety +6

    Wow
    Thank you Guruji for this wonderful knowledge session
    Grateful 🙏

  • @tanivee2107
    @tanivee2107 Před 2 lety +13

    Absolutely intensely insightful session on love and relationships. Enjoyed every of it and every word from Guruji.

  • @mamtanarsinghani5470
    @mamtanarsinghani5470 Před 2 lety +1

    Be heavy & make sure you get heapy&healthy thanks a lot Gurudev

  • @akhila5597
    @akhila5597 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Gurudev 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @devikamp
    @devikamp Před 2 lety +6

    Absolutely beautiful session

  • @piyushmunjaal7280
    @piyushmunjaal7280 Před 2 lety +3

    Amazing wisdom!! ❤️❤️

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +2

    Just like yourself when people ask you different questions on love you really should give them a perfect answer because with love you also have to put for action and effort and have experience some of us maybe have been in relationships before but still never really learn how to accomplish true and perfect Bond of Union it's like it's a continuous learning learning especially when it comes to love which will never stop growing if anything it will amplify grow throughout eternity where it feels infuses empower saturate the environment feel the air tranquility serenity

  • @geethurathika2005
    @geethurathika2005 Před 2 lety +6

    Amazing answers & knowledge session gurudev 🙏❤️

  • @purecoachingvietnam3827
    @purecoachingvietnam3827 Před 2 lety +3

    This is wisdom which can save lìves. I wish I could know all of this earlier. Truly grateful for Gurudev

  • @ambilikrishnachandran8201

    Really great talk Gurudev.Thañk you so much.

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much again for sharing this with me I enjoy talking about this subject one of my favorite subjects Agape to you I'm so surprised if you're not married what are you waiting on show authentic love is so very healing and nurturing mentally emotionally spiritually and also osr physical functions Keeps Us Young

  • @_guruofjoy
    @_guruofjoy Před 2 lety +2

    Such beautiful answers to every questions! Relationships Advices by Gurudev are wonderful!!

  • @jsvnagalakshmi2733
    @jsvnagalakshmi2733 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Gurudev 🙏🙏🙏

  • @KiranBisht07
    @KiranBisht07 Před 2 lety +5

    What a amazing answer 🥰🥰loved it😍🥰🥰

  • @SreejiM
    @SreejiM Před 2 lety +6

    JGD Gurudev Ji 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹
    Thank you very very much for such BEAUTIFUL WISDOM. It has cleared many DOUBTS regarding the RELATIONSHIPS & SPIRITUAL GROWTH 🙏🙏🙏

  • @chanumolukamalakumari3595

    Every answer is credible. Thank you Gurudev

  • @ushavachher5207
    @ushavachher5207 Před 2 lety +1

    Excellent advise given by Guruji

  • @pujasood3496
    @pujasood3496 Před 2 lety +2

    Blissful session JGD🙏🌹

  • @surekhajain6723
    @surekhajain6723 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Sri Sri Guru n team

  • @atiqahf
    @atiqahf Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Gurudev

  • @camilleabgrall7460
    @camilleabgrall7460 Před 2 lety +8

    So fun and wise comments given by Gurudev on all these « love, marriage, relationships » questions. 🙏 Thank You! 👍🌞🌞🌞

  • @playitcool579
    @playitcool579 Před rokem +1

    Such an open and authentic conversation with Gurudev! I love hearing that you need to find your soul first before finding your soulmate.

  • @suchismitabagchi5335
    @suchismitabagchi5335 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for your wisdom Guruji

  • @BeatrizGoyoagaElArtedeVivir

    So helpful

  • @shreyasengupta9510
    @shreyasengupta9510 Před 2 lety +3

    Oh my god!! Dearest Gurudev made a video that will solve so many problems in relationships... I think pretty much everything he answered with such simplicity...I feel like this a guidebook of his compilation and I am always going to keep it handy! ❤️ Love you Gurudev!🙏🏼

  • @Monika-tl3rs
    @Monika-tl3rs Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you Gurudev for such beautiful wisdom 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @7marve
    @7marve Před rokem +1

    Wonderful ❤thank you 🙏🏻

  • @jasminewhatchawaitingfor
    @jasminewhatchawaitingfor Před 2 lety +1

    Absolutely amazing 🙏💗🙏💗

  • @poonamthorat454
    @poonamthorat454 Před 2 lety +12

    How can I forget that I got best over everyone! You are amazing gurudev❤ thank you for being so so mine♥️💫

  • @gopalakrishnanv9527
    @gopalakrishnanv9527 Před 2 lety +2

    Amazing amazing insights....thank you Gurudev...thank you so much for your wisdom...

  • @muskannayyar6104
    @muskannayyar6104 Před 2 lety +4

    Woww!!! So important knowledge at right time 🥰❤️

  • @exosc6351
    @exosc6351 Před 2 lety +3

    Divine is our Valentine , thank you Guruji ❤

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +2

    Yes they can help each other get to higher Heights I guess it's the way individuals look at no one has the same opinion you know opinions different that's because we're never stop learning and growing and developing when it comes to love it is a continuous process continuously working on our love exercising cultivating

  • @Sams_Uncle
    @Sams_Uncle Před 2 lety +2

    Guru ji is so quick-witted! Thank You 🙏

  • @travelwithlg
    @travelwithlg Před 2 lety +1

    Ohh,what a package of knowledge, Guru Dev thank you.

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +1

    I think that when you get married you're you can grow even more spiritually emotionally and physically send me it would be just that more interesting to be with someone and grow with them spiritually instead of by myself so much more meaning enjoying my life Don't Feel Complete when I'm not giving or sharing love nowadays you can't share or you have to be careful on who you share your love with but when you can express your love to the fullest and be appreciated makes life just that much more interesting if I say that I would do better by myself and I would do much more spiritually better being by myself I would be telling a lie I want to express to my significant other the spiritual attributes I've learned about love so he can actually feel and be loved and healed bye my love

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +2

    I can go on and on thank you for sharing that is one of my favorite subject love the subject was beautiful but it also shows me that we all are still do not know all the answers when it comes to Everlasting enduring relationships

  • @pranavch8777
    @pranavch8777 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful and wonderful 👌👌

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety

    Yes I agree with that answer

  • @prakashphapal2521
    @prakashphapal2521 Před 2 lety +4

    Pranam Gurudev 🙏

  • @hypnokatie1229
    @hypnokatie1229 Před 2 lety +4

    So enjoyed this. Great time for Valentines Day 🥰💛✨

  • @vijaygonde9783
    @vijaygonde9783 Před 2 lety

    Thanks!

  • @shyamhati7959
    @shyamhati7959 Před 2 lety

    Grateful. Jgd.

  • @aamanirao7927
    @aamanirao7927 Před 2 lety +3

    So nice Guru ji ❤🌷🌷

  • @radharamandwivedi7609
    @radharamandwivedi7609 Před 2 lety +1

    Whoever you are at 5:27 in a saree at front left with pearl necklace on. You don't know but you make my day everyday. Your positive, innocent face and smile fills me with positivity every morning.

  • @KrishnaPrasad-zu5rq
    @KrishnaPrasad-zu5rq Před 2 lety

    Wow! Just WOW!

  • @kahany
    @kahany Před 2 lety +3

    Happy days Gurudev I love you ❤

  • @autimecerhone8777
    @autimecerhone8777 Před 2 lety +2

    I feel that if two people truly love each other and truly want to be together the relationship will grow even though they may have unforeseen occurrences they can sit down and talk about differences because it would not be so much as the differences that they are having but how lovingly they settle it in a spirit of mountainous kindness and forgiveness

  • @parulkumar3145
    @parulkumar3145 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you Gurudev for such a sweet Valentine's Day gift ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Dr.ea_mer_
    @Dr.ea_mer_ Před 2 lety +2

    Love you guruji🥰happy valentines day💕

  • @soundhealing5449
    @soundhealing5449 Před 2 lety

    JGD! Thank you 😊

  • @atulkaushal6759
    @atulkaushal6759 Před rokem +1

    Like always, full of knowledge and fun 🤩

  • @keystolife12
    @keystolife12 Před 2 lety +1

    The moment you realize and understand then u know you living life and life alone . You must know before you time done here. 🙏🙏🙏💝

  • @Rajviekshah
    @Rajviekshah Před 2 lety +1

    Guruji you are the sweetest 💗

  • @aamanirao7927
    @aamanirao7927 Před 2 lety +2

    So nice Guru ji having a mentor like you 😄🌷

  • @Mukeshotwani
    @Mukeshotwani Před 2 lety

    What a clarity and loved the simplicity in each and every answer. Thank you Guru ji

  • @aishwaryaswain4392
    @aishwaryaswain4392 Před 2 lety

    Thank you 😁

  • @everythingisalie5320
    @everythingisalie5320 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow simple truth

  • @shraddharkansara6655
    @shraddharkansara6655 Před 2 lety +2

    We love ❤ You Guruji❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mbyogi420
    @mbyogi420 Před rokem

    thank you Guru dev 😊 💕🙏

  • @UshaRani-gy6ne
    @UshaRani-gy6ne Před rokem +1

    Gurudev
    I never miss AGA sessions
    Each topic I watch 2-3 times
    Also keep sharing with non AOL people

  • @ishitasaggar6790
    @ishitasaggar6790 Před 2 lety

    Love you gurudev ❤️

  • @mbyogi420
    @mbyogi420 Před rokem

    thank you 💕

  • @lisakuria7677
    @lisakuria7677 Před 2 lety +1

    divine love, living in love with all of creation 😍

  • @miku1408
    @miku1408 Před 2 lety +1

    Lovely 🌹