This is why Amanda is always in negative news stories. People hate the fact that she just won’t be quiet and take it. And that’s EXACTLY why I love her!
Naomi G Ummm... Stop ✋🏿 🛑 she is healthy in her size and you seem to forget that she’s exercising and eating well. She is not fat you just want attention. Fat shammers go away. 🙄😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
That’s because she is always quiet when she should’ve speak up, and she is whitest than the average 2020 non trump supporter and edgy teen white people.
I don't see her as an angry person but her sarcastic humor confuses people and they interpret it as rude. She's just misunderstood often! Majority of the time I understand her though and I always give her the benefit of the doubt.
@Javier Ruiz shes not listening to others opinions half the time just talking over them and the other half shes got a bored look on her face watching flies go past. shes very moody.
@himode not all black women. there are few that might take pride in being the stereotype but for myself and other black women i know, we are not stereotypes. black woman have been labeled negatively through out history .
I'm not black but every time I speak up or even have a certain facial expression to something being said I'm labled an extreme feminist or feminazi 🤷♀️🤦♀️
@himode I'm sorry, but why is a racist such as your self watching a show that has to do with a woc(3 black women at that) POV? I'm highly confused.. if you don't like black women stay away from us. Are you obsessed love?
@@youtubeuseri57 Good observation. Tamera is a very sensitive soul. I find highly-sensitive people can perceive the true energy beneath all of the talk.
@@ItssKennAnn actually it means being loving it means being sweet it means not being argumentative it means not looking for a fight where there isn't a fight it means not having an attitude problem all the time not cursing every 5 minutes and this is exactly why Asian women are the most desired not because of their physical bodies and looks but they're feminine energy where as black women are the least desired women according to dating website statistics
@@tipsandtricks6071 femininity has nothing to do with being "argumentative" please go educate yourself and learn about what true femininity is. Black women are passionate af and any time we speak up on thing that we're not okay with we're loud angry or just not "feminine" enough. Your logic is old and tired and nothing we haven't heard before and it's usually from those who are to weak to stand next to us in solidarity. As I've said she is a black women who never speaks on black issues, which is an issue. Now enjoy the rest of your evening love
I think Amanda is constantly interrupting Tamara. She seems to be more rude to tam. She barely let's jeanie speak. Amanda sounds like she has a chip on her shoulder.
yes i get that too. I think its bc amanda says the stuff that tam is afraid to say. bc she comes from a background and upbringing where everything was sensored
Can we keep Amanda? I love how she is shaking the table and keeping everyone real. At one point the real was too bubbly and now I feel that the topics are now real talk.
I feel like it’s intentional. She tries to “other” herself. She can speak up about black issues, but she chooses not to in order to live comfortably and not rock the boat. 😏
A Full Part One? That doesn't even make sense. Just upload the whole segment😂. But when Amanda said something along the lines of "if you're a Black Women and conscious, you would be angry." I agree to that even as a Hispanic woman. Everytime I learn more about history or watch a documentary about mass incarceration or the horrible things African Americans and other minorities have gone through, it makes me furious! Education is key!
Giriana Hernandez exactly as a minority or black women when we know about the history and the views of others we are naturally side eyeing every damn thing at this point!
Our history is similar! I don't know your particular ethnicity (which Latin American country you represent) but as someone who ALSO has Native American ancestry as well, the thoughts of what my ancestors had to endure on BOTH ends (African and Native American) is enough to make anyone infuriated. For that reason, I do not acknowledge "holidays" like Columbus day or Thanksgiving. We as POCs who are the FOUNDATIONAL groups of the Americas (that have endured a brutal history since 1492) have a DUAL consciousness (W.E.B DuBois reference) that other ethnic groups may not necessarily understand (especially those who did not come to America until the Ellis Island era or later).
I'm so happy Loni addressed this AGAIN because commentors ALWAYS be out to get her just because of her RBF🙍🏾♀️😂 I'm exactly the same sometimes. Also people be in their feelings about the way she addresses the others but for me I see my best friend who is EXACTLY like Loni who if you don't know her she can come off as rude. But true say she's the most loveable and caring, ride or die friend you can have and I see that with Loni and how the ladies are when they're not on the show.
Yasssssss!!! I'm so glad she said something about it because it was starting to annoy me how commenters would attack her! In everyday life, I am the most like Loni, a caring ride or die friend.
Because she’s more conservative and doesn’t see herself as a victim or oppressed. That’s the difference between them. One dwells in victim hood and is angry. The other sees America for what it really is and appreciates her country for allowing her the success she’s had. If I grew up thinking everyone was against me for my skin color and that all whites are against me, I’d be angry too! But that’s a cultural thing, NOT a race issue. If your friends and family and community teach you at a young age that you’re oppressed, and that the world is against you because of your skin color, then they failed you and set you up for failure. Alllllll to do with culture, NOTHING to do with race.
@@hennylo68 Yeah, it’s not easy to hear a truth because it’s much easier for everyone to agree with you on Twitter. It’s much harder to stand up and give an unpopular opinion.
@@zaidrodriguez8160 You act like just because they are the same race they grew up the same way with the same opportunities. People grow up differently, some have it harder than others. So obviously some will be angrier and feel more injustice than others. That's what is good about this so called great country you're defending so much. You're free to feel differently than others about how great or not so great the country is.
@@hennylo68 I’m all for that. Express yourself. What I do not like is people bashing this country like they haven’t benefited in some way. It is the most racially tolerant and economically superior country out there. What’s amazing to me is how some people make their wealth or standard of living here, thanks to freedom and capitalism, and then do a 180 and say this country is this and that or racist and phobic and whatever. Like, people that say that have no clue what the rest of the world is like. And I’m not defending this based on what I personally see, my own empirical experience. If you actually look up data and numbers, you’d see that this is all true. Someone having a bad upbringing and them bashing the country has nothing to do with the actual country and more so with decisions made by their parents, and the person itself later in life.
I feel like black women in America have every right to be angry, on the most part, that is. They are the most disenfranchised group. I'm not American though. White women in America have had a pretty smooth sailing throughout history.
So at what point will black women stop being angry I swear I have yet to see a black woman take responsibility for their actions and attitude it's always someone else's fault how about black women learn to be more feminine but they won't this is why they are the largest group of single mothers in America many of them are not worthy of marriage when they can't even see their own faults as a reason why they are single
Amanda is on another level education wise (regarding social issues). I love the light parts of this show (it's actually what made me fall in love with it when it first debuted), but I do wish they could keep it at this level more often. It's 2019, and this show rarely passes the Bechdel test.
Tamera identifies as bi-racial more so than being a Black woman. But, I hope she recognizes how lost she'll be if she doesn't understand her to identity- socially (in society), racially and culturally. Socially - Black Woman Racially - Mixed Race (Black & White) Culturally - Understanding where you belong and where you are accepted which there's a difference.
@@_cup_of_tea Hmm I don't think so. She has mentioned on the show that she never got to know her dad's (who is white) side of the family because they didn't agree with her dad marrying a black woman (her mom). She culturally identifies as a black woman.. that is all she knows. However, yes she is a biracial woman. On top of that, her father is white, her husband is white, and her kids (well at least Aden) can probably physically pass for white in society -- so there may be some black issues she cannot really identify with, and understandably so.
@@_cup_of_tea Maybe she doesn't feel accepted in black culture. I mean your comment proves my point. You are mad at her because she can't identify herself as an angry black women. Honey, I am black and my mother is black. I have never been called a angry black woman. So I am sorry. I cannot relate. Well my mom has been called angry by my black dad but by white people. Hell no.
What Ever If she looks black and sounds black and is at least half black, then she has a right to be in ‘black peoples business’, especially if the world also sees her as black. This goes for other mixed blacks as well.
1 thing. This whole "they're not used to seeing black educated women" only applies to the older folks. The younger millenials, we've never known what a society where black women aren't allowed to read looks like. We've always seen y'all as equal.
Yes Loni👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 people are way to sensitive about others delivery to their friends. I get so bored reading comments from the amateur body language experts and psychologists saying that face means "She don't like her" or "She cut her off so she's tired of her"🙄 I'm like take a day off!
Loni do NOT change! You and Tam are my favorites on the show, because you guys are so smart and funny. I love your opinions and your delivery. I also think that you have a gorgeous RBF! Please, don't change for the haters, because your fans love you the way you are: a curveceous beautiful dark skined woman! 🥰👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿 Lots of love from Brazil!
@Richard Byfield I've never been offended by peoples opinion about Black women you could never put yourself in our shoes.And they don't want TOO because its hard being a black women. I tell you no lie
@Richard Byfield I wasn't talking about black women and relationships I was talking about being a black women in everyday Society.Black women and men have it hard. Black men can't walk out the door with there being a target on their back and black women are just labeled Angry by everyone Maybe we do complain but at the end of the day we hold our own💯
@Richard Byfield When you become confident in yourself, others opinion of you would really not matter. Black women are rising because we are learning to ignore the hate and continue to hold our head up high. With great responsibility comes great power..and vice versa. We went from being the most uneducated to the most educated and we continue to be great in spite of the racists and haters. We are not perfect and so are you, or anyone else for that mater
kittyboo2121 wtf is Tamar Treatment... Amanda is Amanda... Tamar is Tamar... people keep bringing up Tamar’s name when Amanda is on... Amanda is direct but not confrontational.... Tamar made her cohosts sometimes uncomfortable because of her always having to jump in with a tongue smack , a “ Lies You Tell “ & “ She Tried It “ ... that’s no how you carry a conversation ... having opinions whether they agree or disagree is what makes the convo interesting... Amanda can carry a convo and actually also challenge their opinions without diminishing them and making them feel bad for it
@@MajesticMyronn The Tamar Treatment, meaning it was all love and all sisterly until she was blindsided! So well just have to see how long things stay All love & sisterly once Amanda starts ✌🏾
kittyboo2121 but nothing has to “ change “ or stay a certain way for a specific time... Tamar and Amanda are two different people with two very different ways of talking and in the way they carry themselves... this topic explains exactly what they’re talking about... people want there to be a problem so bad especially after Tamar’s firing
@@AmberCeretha Amanda is unapologetically black and very outspoken on black issues...Tam is not. Having one black parent does not mean you will automatically care about black issues. Tam, in my opinion, identifies closer to "whiteness".
Men call women angry to diminish the value of what they are saying and also because they know they are responsible for most of our anger. They don't want to take the blame and want to continue to abuse us. Thank you Amanda! Telling it as it is!
I don’t see this chick as an angry black woman... I just see her as WRONG in the places where she is WRONG. She just gets angry when someone doesn’t agree with her 🤷🏻♀️ Edit : not Loni, she is kind and sweet and intelligent who researches her topics
I see a few comments saying that black women have a reason to come off as "angry" and I must respectfully disagree with those statements. I went on a weekend trip to New York with my husband recently and had a very unpleasant encounter with a black woman. I went to use a public restroom and had to pee so bad that I did not see/pay attention that there was a line up; I proceeded to open the restroom door; the black woman in the line started yelling and was so rude to me. The funny thing is, there was a white woman in front of her, who's place in line I would have been taking; she was not rude at all. I calmly apologized and went to the back of the line. I don't know if it's because the she was black or if it's because she's a New Yorker or maybe it was just that specific woman that has no home training, but she was extremely and unnecessarily rude. If she had simply said, "excuse me, there's a line up miss," it would have been enough. As a BLACK CANADIAN WOMAN MYSELF, I actually rarely experience this in Canada. I was genuinely shocked, disgusted and embarassed at the way this woman acted. We choose how we behave, no matter the colour of our skin and no matter how other's view us; how we present ourselves to others is our doing. And it's what we have to live with. I understand that the racial atmosphere in the U.S is different from that of Canada, but I believe that anyone can make a conscious choice to behave with class and intergity; if not for your ethnicity then do it even more so for your own dignity.
@@CO-ig3yw I'm not sure if your statement is sarcastic or not, but if it's not sarcastic or not a joke... then it makes absolutely no sense that you would assume that I'm mixed or that you are so sure that I'm mixed. Just dumb.
@@CO-ig3yw I'm not being aggressive at all. You made a statement, as if you have facts. You did not ask a question in anyway shape or form. You stated that you're SURE that I'm mixed, and that the other woman was dark skinned and to me, that statement was just dumb! And I'm not sure what it has to do with the orginal story I told.
Maybe we can just have “Woke Wednesday” where Amanda comes on for that segment. That way the show is still Tam’s, Loni’s, Jeannie’s and A’s.....but we can still see Amanda 😊❤️
I looooove Amanda Seales. She is strong and intelligent and not afraid to go against the grain. Yet, she is sensitive and loving and honest with what she brings. She’s Real and I think she belongs there 1000%. To top it off she has the intelligence to back it all up which is so refreshing!! 💕
People who say, "I'm the sweetest person" or "I'm the nicest person I know" are NEVER THAT! Why is it so hard to admit that Loni is dismissive, not forthcoming about her life on a show about being real, and can be rude and phony. Why is it that we know so little about her life compared to all the other co-hosts. She doesn't share anything. My personal opinion of her is not high based on my experience as a viewer. I find her dry, humorless (ironically), and uptight.
Some black women seem to be extremely angry but too lazy to get their point across in a respectful and logical manner. Some black mothers seem to have that way of being so perfected. I'm a black woman who's just as tired of angry black women as men are. Sadly, some folks justify their anger and say, "black women deserve to be angry". No one deserves to be angry bc it isn't a trophy. It's a weight of lies, self-disdain and deeply rooted (and perhaps hidden) unhappiness.
I think she’s just a naturally quiet person and has trouble finding where her voice fits when there are a lot of speakers, when they first started she had t fight to speak up, Loni & Amanda dominated this conversation pretty much
Notice how at first, Jeanie mai completely didn’t get the meaning of the passage, and Amanda’s face was priceless! Jeanie seriously thought the passage was about how to NOT come across as the angry black woman!
Please make Amanda a permanent host. Love her realness. She gives the talks another side to them that makes me what to keep listening to the conversation.
Amanda is my homegirl! I am so glad to see her on here, but yeah, i am not changing who I am to suit others either. If they have a problem with me, then chances are they need to scrutinize their own lives.
I rly like Amanda. I think she’s going to take the show to another level. And might be somewhat problematic. Also, problematic isn’t always a bad thing
Tamera has consistently separated herself multiple times on black issues and aligns with the fact that her husband is white, she's biracial and so are her kids. She occasionally while try to "clap" back at folks who question her ethnicity or where they feel her allegiance is but...it never fails that she doesn't support - nor speak up about "black" issues. She always seems to side with the opposite. I see the tension with Amanda because she knows Amanda will question things that she doesn't agree with.
Yeah, but the people who don't like Amanda seem to be all the black people she works and deals with, so maybe she's not running into a "stereotype"; she's just a difficult person.
@@kamiaperez8807 I think she doesn't say anything because she might have a differing opinion. And today, those with a differing opinion are cancelled and she could risk losing her job.
Tamara may be intimidated... I could be wrong. Amanda is a legitimate intellectual. Her intellect and insight is on another level compared to the other girls. She will definitely shake things up and certainly add substance that the show desperately needs.
I used to work in a retail shop with mostly white women. I am a brown arab girl and i have noticed they always translated my emotion as anger. I didnt get it they can have a sad day and support eachother but if i am sad about something thry translate it as i am somehow being aggressive (which i never felt that but they translate it that way and they talk about it behind my back) it was a racist environment and i am glad i left. But The latina i worked with never did that she understood it. My lifr is good but when i remember i got annoyed lol
I truly think Loni has one of the kindest hearts... but energy is energy you can tell when someone’s over something and hey that’s fine but let’s not sugar coated. 🙂
This is why Amanda is always in negative news stories. People hate the fact that she just won’t be quiet and take it. And that’s EXACTLY why I love her!
Same with azealia banks
Yesssss! I love Amanda!!
Alex Arkadios lol no. That girl needs medical help. I’ve never seen so much hate just spew out of a person before her🙄
Alex Arkadios not that chicken sacrificing witch
Amanda is nutty and hates whites. She is really angry.
“It ain’t about learning how to be phony but finding a new way of how to be real”
Ever.
It isn't is the proper term not it ain't
Loni: I am a curvaceous dark skin woman. Whoo go Loni you go girl😍😍🖤
am i suppose to clap? LOL
Right 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 come on now Ms. curvaceous
Fat does not equal curvaceous
Yass
Naomi G Ummm... Stop ✋🏿 🛑 she is healthy in her size and you seem to forget that she’s exercising and eating well. She is not fat you just want attention. Fat shammers go away.
🙄😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
"I say happy birthday and people are like you're attacking me I feel triggered" 😂😂
I died twice! 😂😂
Michelle A. *attacking
Kamryn Thank you, my bad.
@@mimia.4810 😎
SWEETIE...DID I MISS SOMETHING ABOUT ATTACKING?!
Michelle A. I was cracking up too
Notice nobody ever calls Tamara an angry black woman.
Ever.
BECAUSE SHE'S BI RICIAL.
@@judaprinxbeatz.8008 So is Amanda
@@KimontheWeb LET ME RE-PHRASE IT. SHE ISN'T HALF "WHITE" LMAO HER FATHER IS AFRICAN AMERICAN and HER MOM IS CARIBBEAN (GRANADA)
That’s because she is always quiet when she should’ve speak up, and she is whitest than the average 2020 non trump supporter and edgy teen white people.
“Full part one”
If y’all don’t-
*laughs in CZcams*
This is the funniest comment 😂😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
I don't see Loni as a rude or angry person she seems soo nice
At times she is rude.
Nah she can be really rude and dismissive, especially during segments she doesnt care for
I don't see her as an angry person but her sarcastic humor confuses people and they interpret it as rude. She's just misunderstood often! Majority of the time I understand her though and I always give her the benefit of the doubt.
@Javier Ruiz shes not listening to others opinions half the time just talking over them and the other half shes got a bored look on her face watching flies go past. shes very moody.
She can be rude when she doesn't agree with people
she is telling the truth but if any other woman does it's being assertive
@himode not all black women. there are few that might take pride in being the stereotype but for myself and other black women i know, we are not stereotypes. black woman have been labeled negatively through out history .
himode Black women don’t want to date someone like you, we’re not missing anything. Feel free to keep it moving elsewhere.
I'm not black but every time I speak up or even have a certain facial expression to something being said I'm labled an extreme feminist or feminazi 🤷♀️🤦♀️
@himode your comment alone is proof of otherwise...
@himode I'm sorry, but why is a racist such as your self watching a show that has to do with a woc(3 black women at that) POV? I'm highly confused.. if you don't like black women stay away from us. Are you obsessed love?
Where’s Adrienne???👀 masked singer?? Lol 😂😂😂
Lmao!
That filmed back in July didn't it?
Sweet Listenings yes I was just making joke😂😂😂😂
Andre Johnson FLAMINGO
😂😂😂 right 😆
I did think the same thing though lol
I'm convinced Tamera doesn't care for Amanda lol...
Cuz Tamera is classy and Amanda is NOT
there are intimidated by her
ashleymarie4171990 tamera can see through Amanda’s act
@@youtubeuseri57 Good observation. Tamera is a very sensitive soul. I find highly-sensitive people can perceive the true energy beneath all of the talk.
@@Baxfam1 Tamara is a sellout Amanda is not
Lol Tamera gets real quiet when topics about black issues come up, especially with black women. She said nothing at all, it's very telling...
In the Bible you are who your father is. Tamera is more white than she is black.
Tamera is actually a feminine women she does not know how to relate to these angry black women with attitude
@@tipsandtricks6071 femininity=staying quiet on important issues, gotcha!
@@ItssKennAnn actually it means being loving it means being sweet it means not being argumentative it means not looking for a fight where there isn't a fight it means not having an attitude problem all the time not cursing every 5 minutes and this is exactly why Asian women are the most desired not because of their physical bodies and looks but they're feminine energy where as black women are the least desired women according to dating website statistics
@@tipsandtricks6071 femininity has nothing to do with being "argumentative" please go educate yourself and learn about what true femininity is. Black women are passionate af and any time we speak up on thing that we're not okay with we're loud angry or just not "feminine" enough. Your logic is old and tired and nothing we haven't heard before and it's usually from those who are to weak to stand next to us in solidarity. As I've said she is a black women who never speaks on black issues, which is an issue. Now enjoy the rest of your evening love
Why do I feel like tam isn’t so fond of Amanda....? Just an observation
Corinne Lewis I don’t think she fully agrees with what she’s saying. She may not be able to relate
I think Amanda is constantly interrupting Tamara. She seems to be more rude to tam. She barely let's jeanie speak. Amanda sounds like she has a chip on her shoulder.
Corinne Lewis she’s annoying tho 🤦🏽♀️
@@marit7189 she is rude.
yes i get that too. I think its bc amanda says the stuff that tam is afraid to say. bc she comes from a background and upbringing where everything was sensored
Who is here after hearing that Amanda is joining The Real?
yup lol
Because she us missed and her husband us white and amanda us gone touch in tough black ppl issues
Me lol
She's trash. She's gonna be the downfall of this show.
1 scorpion ♏️, 1 Capricorn ♑️ and 3 Cancerians ♋️ the combination has alot potential to work out well I think
Loni needs amanda on this show. Empowers her to say her real thoughts.
I so agree✊🏾
Love the other girls, but most times they're PC.
She's not empowering. She's a racist bully
Camilla Cabello
A racist bully?? You’re one to talk, your name says it all🧐
Crystal Reyes judging based on ethnic names? Sounds racist to me
Can we keep Amanda? I love how she is shaking the table and keeping everyone real. At one point the real was too bubbly and now I feel that the topics are now real talk.
I have a feeling they’re in the hiring process because she seems to be on many shows. She brings life to the show.
I been thinking the same, she’s a great fit!
Sonya Serrano And she’s Grenadian - woop woop 🙌 🇬🇩
Please no. I'd stop watching
Homework Assignments you better stop watching in 2020 she will be a permanent host
Tamara can't relate. She looks completely lost.
Always
That's 99% of the time
I don't give her wrong
I feel like it’s intentional. She tries to “other” herself. She can speak up about black issues, but she chooses not to in order to live comfortably and not rock the boat. 😏
Yep smh
Tamera SAY SOMETHING
Pina Pineapple lmao she’s too white washed
A Full Part One? That doesn't even make sense. Just upload the whole segment😂. But when Amanda said something along the lines of "if you're a Black Women and conscious, you would be angry." I agree to that even as a Hispanic woman. Everytime I learn more about history or watch a documentary about mass incarceration or the horrible things African Americans and other minorities have gone through, it makes me furious! Education is key!
Giriana Hernandez exactly as a minority or black women when we know about the history and the views of others we are naturally side eyeing every damn thing at this point!
Our history is similar! I don't know your particular ethnicity (which Latin American country you represent) but as someone who ALSO has Native American ancestry as well, the thoughts of what my ancestors had to endure on BOTH ends (African and Native American) is enough to make anyone infuriated. For that reason, I do not acknowledge "holidays" like Columbus day or Thanksgiving. We as POCs who are the FOUNDATIONAL groups of the Americas (that have endured a brutal history since 1492) have a DUAL consciousness (W.E.B DuBois reference) that other ethnic groups may not necessarily understand (especially those who did not come to America until the Ellis Island era or later).
Giriana Hernandez I disagree. I’m a conscious bw who’s not angry. Who wants that energy?🤔😂
I'm so happy Loni addressed this AGAIN because commentors ALWAYS be out to get her just because of her RBF🙍🏾♀️😂 I'm exactly the same sometimes. Also people be in their feelings about the way she addresses the others but for me I see my best friend who is EXACTLY like Loni who if you don't know her she can come off as rude. But true say she's the most loveable and caring, ride or die friend you can have and I see that with Loni and how the ladies are when they're not on the show.
Adel Smith what’s RBF?😅
@@mosabu1170 Resting Bitch Face 😂🤷🏾♀️
Yasssssss!!! I'm so glad she said something about it because it was starting to annoy me how commenters would attack her! In everyday life, I am the most like Loni, a caring ride or die friend.
Clearly Tamera isn't too happy with her
Because she’s more conservative and doesn’t see herself as a victim or oppressed. That’s the difference between them. One dwells in victim hood and is angry. The other sees America for what it really is and appreciates her country for allowing her the success she’s had. If I grew up thinking everyone was against me for my skin color and that all whites are against me, I’d be angry too! But that’s a cultural thing, NOT a race issue. If your friends and family and community teach you at a young age that you’re oppressed, and that the world is against you because of your skin color, then they failed you and set you up for failure. Alllllll to do with culture, NOTHING to do with race.
@@zaidrodriguez8160 Oh shut up.
@@hennylo68
Yeah, it’s not easy to hear a truth because it’s much easier for everyone to agree with you on Twitter. It’s much harder to stand up and give an unpopular opinion.
@@zaidrodriguez8160 You act like just because they are the same race they grew up the same way with the same opportunities. People grow up differently, some have it harder than others. So obviously some will be angrier and feel more injustice than others. That's what is good about this so called great country you're defending so much. You're free to feel differently than others about how great or not so great the country is.
@@hennylo68
I’m all for that. Express yourself. What I do not like is people bashing this country like they haven’t benefited in some way. It is the most racially tolerant and economically superior country out there. What’s amazing to me is how some people make their wealth or standard of living here, thanks to freedom and capitalism, and then do a 180 and say this country is this and that or racist and phobic and whatever. Like, people that say that have no clue what the rest of the world is like. And I’m not defending this based on what I personally see, my own empirical experience. If you actually look up data and numbers, you’d see that this is all true. Someone having a bad upbringing and them bashing the country has nothing to do with the actual country and more so with decisions made by their parents, and the person itself later in life.
I feel like black women in America have every right to be angry, on the most part, that is. They are the most disenfranchised group. I'm not American though. White women in America have had a pretty smooth sailing throughout history.
So at what point will black women stop being angry I swear I have yet to see a black woman take responsibility for their actions and attitude it's always someone else's fault how about black women learn to be more feminine but they won't this is why they are the largest group of single mothers in America many of them are not worthy of marriage when they can't even see their own faults as a reason why they are single
This is what The Real was missing. Amanda is a great look on the show & I’d love to see her become a permanent cohost.
Your wish came true... She's just been added as a fifth permanent cohost
No, she’s a bad look and is a raving racist
Amanda is on another level education wise (regarding social issues). I love the light parts of this show (it's actually what made me fall in love with it when it first debuted), but I do wish they could keep it at this level more often. It's 2019, and this show rarely passes the Bechdel test.
And this is why Amanda is so needed, she does not back down or tip toe around topics such as race.
Tamara dont fit in with these topics. She tries to escape "black" issues!
She has to. She has to go home to her white husband.
Tamera identifies as bi-racial more so than being a Black woman. But, I hope she recognizes how lost she'll be if she doesn't understand her to identity- socially (in society), racially and culturally.
Socially - Black Woman
Racially - Mixed Race (Black & White)
Culturally - Understanding where you belong and where you are accepted which there's a difference.
bjosh02 um, she's also half white...
@@_cup_of_tea Hmm I don't think so. She has mentioned on the show that she never got to know her dad's (who is white) side of the family because they didn't agree with her dad marrying a black woman (her mom). She culturally identifies as a black woman.. that is all she knows. However, yes she is a biracial woman. On top of that, her father is white, her husband is white, and her kids (well at least Aden) can probably physically pass for white in society -- so there may be some black issues she cannot really identify with, and understandably so.
@@_cup_of_tea Maybe she doesn't feel accepted in black culture. I mean your comment proves my point. You are mad at her because she can't identify herself as an angry black women. Honey, I am black and my mother is black. I have never been called a angry black woman. So I am sorry. I cannot relate. Well my mom has been called angry by my black dad but by white people. Hell no.
Finally someone who will educate herself before speaking on a subject and not change her mind mid sentence without noticing.
I find it strange that Tamera never has anything to say about these topics.
Naturalista Chic her husband is a trump supporting white Fox News lap dog. You know she agrees with his views
Right she NEVER does! Tamara feels she can’t relate.
Because she doesn't identify herself in the situation
She doesn’t identify as a victim. She has a true confidence about herself and a rulership mentality. Other black folk should catch up.
@@semajdee And there in nothing wrong with not relating. Plus nothing is wrong with not see yourself as a victim.
Amanda serving the late 90s early 00s look 👀😻😻😻 go offff
Tamera can’t relate. Love u girl, but lets keep it real. ✌🏽
Tamera is mixed. Stop putting her in black people's business.
@@_abracadabra really? I thought she wasnt
@@_abracadabra i mean she looks biracial, but she never mentioned that.
What Ever If she looks black and sounds black and is at least half black, then she has a right to be in ‘black peoples business’, especially if the world also sees her as black. This goes for other mixed blacks as well.
@@3boodae749 i dont have time for your stupid, racist, one drop rule beliefs. I said what I said. Mixed race people are a race for themselves. Period.
1 thing. This whole "they're not used to seeing black educated women" only applies to the older folks. The younger millenials, we've never known what a society where black women aren't allowed to read looks like. We've always seen y'all as equal.
THANK YOU! That stigma done been dead.
Not when the older generation influences them, cause in saying that you could state racism is dead
Amen girl!!! Millenials are soo much more respectful to black people than the generation before us
Yes Loni👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 people are way to sensitive about others delivery to their friends. I get so bored reading comments from the amateur body language experts and psychologists saying that face means "She don't like her" or "She cut her off so she's tired of her"🙄 I'm like take a day off!
Justin Tulloch amen 😂😂
Loni do NOT change!
You and Tam are my favorites on the show, because you guys are so smart and funny. I love your opinions and your delivery. I also think that you have a gorgeous RBF! Please, don't change for the haters, because your fans love you the way you are: a curveceous beautiful dark skined woman! 🥰👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
Lots of love from Brazil!
Yes!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thankyou
ana what’s an RBF sis?
@@radiokilledthevideostar3329 resting bitch face. 😂😂
Interesting that Tamera was so neutral as Amanda discussed this topic. Amanda is so real and insightful. She brings so much substance to this table.
Win Lee shes too quiet for me this is a serious subject
Kirsty Birsty I think the same that way of always feeling the victim is lame
Amanda fits on the panel perfectly. They should add her as a permanent host.
Done!
Being passionate isn't anger at all
Black women tell you the truth and sometimes it hurts to hear
@Richard Byfield I've never been offended by peoples opinion about Black women you could never put yourself in our shoes.And they don't want TOO because its hard being a black women. I tell you no lie
Richard Byfield Black women are not a monolith, nor is any other race or gender. Stop being so small minded.
@Richard Byfield I wasn't talking about black women and relationships I was talking about being a black women in everyday Society.Black women and men have it hard. Black men can't walk out the door with there being a target on their back and black women are just labeled Angry by everyone Maybe we do complain but at the end of the day we hold our own💯
@Richard Byfield When you become confident in yourself, others opinion of you would really not matter. Black women are rising because we are learning to ignore the hate and continue to hold our head up high. With great responsibility comes great power..and vice versa. We went from being the most uneducated to the most educated and we continue to be great in spite of the racists and haters. We are not perfect and so are you, or anyone else for that mater
Not always.. some just be mad
Loni I love you and your different input on the table, just stay the way you are
Loni says *Amanda* is *My Sister*
Remember this interview as reference when they ALL give her the Tamar treatment 👌🏽
kittyboo2121 yesssss
kittyboo2121 wtf is Tamar Treatment... Amanda is Amanda... Tamar is Tamar... people keep bringing up Tamar’s name when Amanda is on... Amanda is direct but not confrontational.... Tamar made her cohosts sometimes uncomfortable because of her always having to jump in with a tongue smack , a “ Lies You Tell “ & “ She Tried It “ ... that’s no how you carry a conversation ... having opinions whether they agree or disagree is what makes the convo interesting... Amanda can carry a convo and actually also challenge their opinions without diminishing them and making them feel bad for it
@@MajesticMyronn The Tamar Treatment, meaning it was all love and all sisterly until she was blindsided! So well just have to see how long things stay All love & sisterly once Amanda starts ✌🏾
kittyboo2121 but nothing has to “ change “ or stay a certain way for a specific time... Tamar and Amanda are two different people with two very different ways of talking and in the way they carry themselves... this topic explains exactly what they’re talking about... people want there to be a problem so bad especially after Tamar’s firing
kittyboo2121 very true now everyone says she should be on the view myself included 😂😂 some go as far as to say she should be off the show.
I feel you Loni. I feel you.
Amanda BELONGS on this panel she so woke and inspiring
Amanda is amazing !! Tamera can not relate to Amanda 🤣🤣
Carla Maddison well tam is biracial, so how could she.
@@Embraceyourcurls24 BECAUSE SHE CAME OUT OF A BLACK WOMAN
Amber Ceretha lol what’s that supposed to mean. Mixed people and monoracial people have different experiences. Amanda is general just has issues.
@Carla Maddison Tam is posh!
@@AmberCeretha Amanda is unapologetically black and very outspoken on black issues...Tam is not. Having one black parent does not mean you will automatically care about black issues. Tam, in my opinion, identifies closer to "whiteness".
Yes Loni is so beautiful 💗
i think loni has high pitched voice
I love Amanda . Idk why a lot of people have an issue with her but I havent heard or seen anything wrong or disrespectful or crazy that shes done.
(clears throat...) baby haven't you heard???....everybody can't digest REALNESS!!
Men call women angry to diminish the value of what they are saying and also because they know they are responsible for most of our anger. They don't want to take the blame and want to continue to abuse us. Thank you Amanda! Telling it as it is!
Yes!
This is the first time I seen Loni’s legs🤯
This one should join the real permanently. She has a lot to offer to the conversation. The real you have found the one
AGREED
“Nuance” is Amanda’s favourite word 😂 At least it’s not “like”...
I don’t see this chick as an angry black woman... I just see her as WRONG in the places where she is WRONG. She just gets angry when someone doesn’t agree with her 🤷🏻♀️
Edit : not Loni, she is kind and sweet and intelligent who researches her topics
anabobanafefifofana I AGREE
Me too lol
AGREE
anabobanafefifofana Chick? Shes not an animal, shes a woman
@Company Name she does have a MASTER'S IN AFRICAN AMERICAN STUDIES 🤣
Loni I feel the exact same way
Amanda really is her character from Nickelodeon’s “My Brother And Me.” lol
Oridginale24 wait she was on a sitcom back then
I was trying to remember her and yes, I agree, she still exudes that same snobby character with the bad attitude in real life.
@@phillinsogood Yea back in 94'
love that show. Own it. :) It is still so much fun. I wish it ran longer.
I’m loving them together Congrats to Amanda, she’s a great addition
There’s a difference between being assertive and speaking your mind and being rude and having a lack of wisdom.
Im here after hes been confirmed tp be the next host...
Everyone is TRIGGERED now a days.
I see a few comments saying that black women have a reason to come off as "angry" and I must respectfully disagree with those statements.
I went on a weekend trip to New York with my husband recently and had a very unpleasant encounter with a black woman. I went to use a public restroom and had to pee so bad that I did not see/pay attention that there was a line up; I proceeded to open the restroom door; the black woman in the line started yelling and was so rude to me. The funny thing is, there was a white woman in front of her, who's place in line I would have been taking; she was not rude at all. I calmly apologized and went to the back of the line. I don't know if it's because the she was black or if it's because she's a New Yorker or maybe it was just that specific woman that has no home training, but she was extremely and unnecessarily rude. If she had simply said, "excuse me, there's a line up miss," it would have been enough.
As a BLACK CANADIAN WOMAN MYSELF, I actually rarely experience this in Canada. I was genuinely shocked, disgusted and embarassed at the way this woman acted. We choose how we behave, no matter the colour of our skin and no matter how other's view us; how we present ourselves to others is our doing. And it's what we have to live with. I understand that the racial atmosphere in the U.S is different from that of Canada, but I believe that anyone can make a conscious choice to behave with class and intergity; if not for your ethnicity then do it even more so for your own dignity.
I'm sure you're mixed and she was dark skinned...
@@CO-ig3yw I'm not sure if your statement is sarcastic or not, but if it's not sarcastic or not a joke... then it makes absolutely no sense that you would assume that I'm mixed or that you are so sure that I'm mixed. Just dumb.
@@prudencek7087 I should have put a question mark. Why're so quick to call me dumb? You seem aggressive for no reason.
@@CO-ig3yw I'm not being aggressive at all. You made a statement, as if you have facts. You did not ask a question in anyway shape or form. You stated that you're SURE that I'm mixed, and that the other woman was dark skinned and to me, that statement was just dumb! And I'm not sure what it has to do with the orginal story I told.
@@prudencek7087 Clearly this is going south... I can't be sure if I have no facts. It was sarcastic, hence the ellipses..
Maybe we can just have “Woke Wednesday” where Amanda comes on for that segment. That way the show is still Tam’s, Loni’s, Jeannie’s and A’s.....but we can still see Amanda 😊❤️
S. ALP 😆😆
Very smart. That can work
You onto something there 😂😂
I actually enjoyed watching dis clip with Amanda Seals hosting wit da rest of da ladies...now I see why dey hired her!💯
I love Amanda’s shirt 😍
I looooove Amanda Seales. She is strong and intelligent and not afraid to go against the grain. Yet, she is sensitive and loving and honest with what she brings. She’s Real and I think she belongs there 1000%. To top it off she has the intelligence to back it all up which is so refreshing!! 💕
Put Her On!! I need a reason to start tuning back in 😊..and im getting dat damn book
C’mon finger waves ! I love when Amanda is on the show
People who say, "I'm the sweetest person" or "I'm the nicest person I know" are NEVER THAT! Why is it so hard to admit that Loni is dismissive, not forthcoming about her life on a show about being real, and can be rude and phony. Why is it that we know so little about her life compared to all the other co-hosts. She doesn't share anything. My personal opinion of her is not high based on my experience as a viewer. I find her dry, humorless (ironically), and uptight.
Maybe because shes a private person???
@Smiley Citrus none of the other co-hosts know where Loni lives and obviously have never been invited to her house. I find that weird.
I don't think she knows anything about you either so thats only fair! 😶
@@NicholasPeters1 That's something you'd have to ask the producers
NO BAH-TEE!
Amanda gonna keep it real I will appreciate that. When so many hosts out here on tv are fake and phony.
Tamera looks at Amanda like she is threatened by her.
she probably is
You're literally proving everything loni just said...stop reading into facial expressions
She is.
I got that vibe also.
Oh No, I Sooo Disagree... Tam. Makes The Show Light & Humourous...They Are In Different Lanes....
Some black women seem to be extremely angry but too lazy to get their point across in a respectful and logical manner. Some black mothers seem to have that way of being so perfected. I'm a black woman who's just as tired of angry black women as men are. Sadly, some folks justify their anger and say, "black women deserve to be angry". No one deserves to be angry bc it isn't a trophy. It's a weight of lies, self-disdain and deeply rooted (and perhaps hidden) unhappiness.
I’m here for her to be the brand new PERMANENT co host. I actually love her authentic self. She’s real. My opinion 😊
Ok NUANCE is Amanda's word. I like her flow. Go girl!!
I honestñy took what Amanda said to heart like calling someone angry takes so much value away from the words
Tamera is awfully silent
She is always silent on topics regarding race...
I think she’s just a naturally quiet person and has trouble finding where her voice fits when there are a lot of speakers, when they first started she had t fight to speak up, Loni & Amanda dominated this conversation pretty much
Intellectually intimidated
N. E. they’re both pretty intelligent Tamera is a bit quieter though
I like Amanda’s point of view in terms of women being educated but I can’t stand her personality.
Me too
I will start watching the show again. Left when Tamar was released, guess I will come back for Amanda. She’s educated, confident and keeps it REAL!
Loni doesn’t have a deep voice 0_o lol
No it’s deep
She's using her high voice on the show to not scare ppl
Hell yeah she does
Notice how at first, Jeanie mai completely didn’t get the meaning of the passage, and Amanda’s face was priceless! Jeanie seriously thought the passage was about how to NOT come across as the angry black woman!
Please make Amanda a permanent host. Love her realness. She gives the talks another side to them that makes me what to keep listening to the conversation.
Amanda is my homegirl! I am so glad to see her on here, but yeah, i am not changing who I am to suit others either. If they have a problem with me, then chances are they need to scrutinize their own lives.
I rly like Amanda. I think she’s going to take the show to another level. And might be somewhat problematic.
Also, problematic isn’t always a bad thing
1:50 YOUR DELIVERY!
BEEN SAYING THAT FOR DECADES...AND IT'S GOT ME TO GREAT HEIGHTS STAYING SUBCONSCIOUS ABOUT IT
Amanda spoke facts and that’s on periodttt 😘!!!
Tamera has consistently separated herself multiple times on black issues and aligns with the fact that her husband is white, she's biracial and so are her kids. She occasionally while try to "clap" back at folks who question her ethnicity or where they feel her allegiance is but...it never fails that she doesn't support - nor speak up about "black" issues. She always seems to side with the opposite. I see the tension with Amanda because she knows Amanda will question things that she doesn't agree with.
Yeah, but the people who don't like Amanda seem to be all the black people she works and deals with, so maybe she's not running into a "stereotype"; she's just a difficult person.
exactly!
Exactly!!!
The person labelled difficult is usually the one who won’t allow BullShit
@JazzyQ: I find it's usually the one that starts bullshit and then often won't let it go...
V Love-Williams Whatever floats ya boat
Loni really is a good listener she be listening hard af you can tell lmao
I like her. I’m glad she is going to be a permanent co-host
2:25 Tamera disagrees with Amanda statement. She's sitting on her hands for reals
I wish she would've said something at least.
She just there being quiet
@@kamiaperez8807 I think she doesn't say anything because she might have a differing opinion. And today, those with a differing opinion are cancelled and she could risk losing her job.
Tamara may be intimidated... I could be wrong. Amanda is a legitimate intellectual. Her intellect and insight is on another level compared to the other girls. She will definitely shake things up and certainly add substance that the show desperately needs.
Black women make noise and speak volumes 🔊
Where’s the Flamingo? I mean Adrienne?
Amanda is on point.
Tamara suddenly went dead quiet
As a mixed person should. It wasnt her topic.
Tam is mixed but identifies as black (on ocassion). In general, she never talks about race.
I used to work in a retail shop with mostly white women. I am a brown arab girl and i have noticed they always translated my emotion as anger. I didnt get it they can have a sad day and support eachother but if i am sad about something thry translate it as i am somehow being aggressive (which i never felt that but they translate it that way and they talk about it behind my back) it was a racist environment and i am glad i left. But The latina i worked with never did that she understood it. My lifr is good but when i remember i got annoyed lol
I absolutely ❤️ this show and it's host😀
Amanda is really good on this show tbh
Do I detect an oxymoron in the title? 😂
I don't see one
Carressa Hatley “full part one”
Amanda speaking truth to power
LOVE Amanda!! her book is awesome
I can't wait to read it!
she's pretentious af
2:02 look how excited Amanda is for loni. The woman empowerment is amazingggg
Tam doesnt care for Amanda because Amanda is a realist...and Tam lives in planet unicorn
Tamera is classy and mature and Amanda is.... an angry black woman
@Matshidiso Sekgampu it's a response to how she talking about "angry black women" in the video
Best decision for this show was adding her to the panel !!! She made me regain interest in this show
I truly think Loni has one of the kindest hearts... but energy is energy you can tell when someone’s over something and hey that’s fine but let’s not sugar coated. 🙂
Yasssss!!!!
I just wanna see Amanda and Megan in a room just going at each other 😂