She Was Surrounded By Predators as a Kid
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- čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
- Today on Unfiltered Stories, we share the powerful journey of Lisa Plumb. Raised in an abusive environment where her mother enabled predators to take advantage of her, Lisa faced unimaginable adversity starting at the age of 5. Despite the profound trauma she endured, Lisa has transformed her pain into purpose. Now a dedicated family therapist, she uses her experiences to help others heal and overcome their own challenges. Join us to hear her inspiring story of resilience, recovery, and empowerment.
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I love this lady. She is a friend of mine, and probably the strongest person I know. We were school friends. I had no idea what she was going through at the time, but many years later, we shared our traumatic stories and she is one of the bright lights in my life. I'm proud to have grown up with her and to be friends with her today.
She's a strong woman
Love that you have each other 🥰
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What a beautiful comment by you ❤️
She is well spoken and seems like such a lovely person who’s been through so much 🥰🙏🏻
She is beautiful.Shame on her so called mom.
I was in a day to day traumatic upbringing. I was blamed on a daily basis for everything that went wrong in our household. After watching this video i realize my childhood could have been way worse .
Same 😔
ikr. this is a whole other level
Can’t imagine how traumatic that was. I’m so sorry
I too am a survivor of child abuse. I’m so sorry you had to go through this too. When people like you share their stories I think it helps all of us that have endured this. May God bless you and I hope you find some peace.
The mother is a monster she needs to be in prison
I hate her. So GROSS to have intercourse in front of your kids!
Molestation,abuse, so nasty
Its always the weak mom's that let this happen, smh! The mother should be in prison!!!!
Prison is too good for her.
Heau @$$ mothers too, always leaving the kids with Grandma while the uncle or cousin even the grandfather touching on the kids
Some women should never be mothers.
I was a police witness involved in a serious, sexual child abuse case. The facts emerged slowly as did the realisation. May I urge you to try a "steelman"? Try to see it from an innocent mother or father's situation? Slow to realise, denial, horror, fear of the perpetrator and fear of the consequences of calling in the authorities. It isn't as easy to break out as you might think. I'm not referring to this case which has its own dimensions of trafficking and a pervasive culture of abuse but generally. The abused often become abusers. I am not an "apologist" but someone who tries to understand beyond condemnation, deserved though it might be.
Not always. There's also weak fathers who let women do horrible things to their children.
Goes both ways buddy
So happy that this beautiful soul found contentment and God.
Yeah, good old God . . . allowing pedophiles to ruin peoples' lives
There is no Santa Claus. There is no Easter Bunny. There is no God.
You also apparently don't know the history of Christianity and the numerous atrocities it has committed.
How can kids be allowed to go to a nudist camp?
Right? This is a messed up world.
Because, for some reasons unknown to me, it is perfectly legal. The worst part is the parents that take their kids there.
Democrat and liberal minded people
Easy! It’s a family nudist camp!
I suppose in theory nudity is natural and therefore isn't necessarily sexual. But in a society where nudity is so sexualised there will probably be nudists that are nudists for some sexual purpose.
I had two older brothers that protected me No boy in the neighbour hood would dare abuse me in any was I was so lucky to have a father that taught my brothers how to be good men Fathers teach your sons Love and light to all
I too had a protective and very tuff/feared and respected brother. But, as kids both of us we’re molested repeatedly by babysitters and their older kids 😢
I am so sorry this happened to you, every adult in your childhood failed you. I pray you have full emotional, physical and spiritual healing.
For all the people who said these things didn’t happen in the “ good old days “ this is affirming what I observed as a young child. I am 66 yo
There is nothing new under the sun.
For all the people who say "this didn't happen" are idiots ...I am a father with three daughters and guess what? My daughters aren't ......even in the bathroom with me alone as long as woman are here...EVER..I have the females who are family help
Abuse always happened for centuries. The different is a few decades ago everything was kept in secret. And people were ignorant AF. Nowadays people talk & don't care. Because you ain't special. Someone will put you in your place ASAP. Just tired of your BS. Give you the taste of truth & justice.
I’m 53. I was abused by many.
those people are dumb and naive. or they dont listen when someone opens up.
This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever heard
Sad
thats what i was gonna say. at least she wasnt killed or enslaved in a dungeon or somthing.
pretty crazy
That voice she heard was wiser than her mother.
Her mother was an idiot pervert.
I watched this story on soft white underbelly as well I’m happy you’re able to keep telling your story. People need to hear it, and these nudist pedophile camps need to be shut down
Nudist camps should always do enhanced background checks on people trying to join because sometimes perverts try to get membership. They get weeded out quickly nowadays though because nudists are more aware and trained about the risks than people who wear clothes, for obvious reasons.
@@mikerope5785I’m super glad to hear that, I personally feel like they should be 18+ to just avoid that issue all together
Oh wow I knew her voice was familiar glad she's able to tell her story on multiple sources
Are you assuming all nudist camps are run by pedos?
I have a brother who is in prison for pedophilia. And so is the mother who allowed it. I only feel sorry for the girls. May they have peace.
OMG! Did you ever suspect him before he got caught?
I was treated the same by my family. The abuse started with 20 hits of lsd and then molestation at the age of 5yo. When I was 8yo I was beaten and raped by another family member. I was an alcoholic and drug addict at 13. It took years of therapy to find myself. The abuse stopped at me! Thank you for your bravery!
Yeah she doesn’t look like the horror she experienced. God Bless her!
My cousins were abused in Orange County in the 1980’s and 90’s too. Whenever we spent weekends together, these cousins played very inappropriately with me, and taught me all about the “birds and bees” with Barbie dolls.
I was younger and didn’t understand at the time that they had this inappropriate knowledge for a reason.
As a parent myself, looking back, it’s hard for me to understand how my parents and Aunts and Uncles could’ve been so blind.
I'm very regretful to hear about your cousins. How are they doing these days? Are they alright now, if even moderately so? So sad. Also I am sorry to say that your parents and aunts and uncles were not blind. They knew. Maybe not your parents, but your aunties and uncles certainly did. If you as a child picked up on those inappropriate behaviors, your cousin's parents also definitely did. But unfortunetely during those times these things were just unspoken. People pretending it didn't happen or that it wasn't that harmful. Nonsense. Anyway, I hope your cousins are okay now and have healed from the trauma of abuse. It's a horrible, horrible thing!
When I was 6, my family was visiting at my aunt and uncles house. All us kids were playing outside. I happened to come in and my older cousin called my name from downstairs.. so I went down there and he was in his room with the light off. He told me to come closer and sit in the bed. When I did, he laid me back and began French kissing me! 😮 I wS mortified! Wasn't remotely expecting that. I just got out of there and it's been my secret until right now! I was not sexualized abused that I know of but I'll tell you what boys and teenagers and young men and older men have always been after me for sex. Even 2 other cousins as adults! WTF! I don't get it.
@@peanut924that’s so sad, I’m really sorry you had to experience something so weird and inappropriate as a very young child. 😢
We were surrounded by by child molesters. Adults knew this but said nothing, the molesters were family and no one stopped them.
As kids we did not tell as we knew we would be blamed and told to just stay away from that person.
It is always an older sibling that has experienced the same thing that tries to out the abuser when their other sibling is being attacked.
Where is your siblings now? Did they do okay in life?
This thing is like a cancer in some families. It runs through generations.
That's about right. But I am pledging right now that if I ever suspect it I will investigate and I will report it and I won't care what my family thinks lol! I'm 53 now and I feel a calling to protect kids more than ever. We can help kids so that the abuse stops.
Yes indeed, generational curse passed down generational@@beltigussin81
They all belong in prison.
Who let their young daughters go in nudist camp with strangers??? My god everything is wrong about her mom
Sickening
It's legal for kids to be in nudist camps too.
Makes me angry and sad.
The fact that there is a place to go all Nude publicly says a lot about your sick society.
Well where was the nice step dad
@@rdred8693 What's so bad about kids being in a nudist camp?
I’m sorry you went through this. Thank you for sharing.
Very, VERY sad but a great example of " damaged" or "oblivious" parents
I think you mean Evil.. They are Absolutely Disgusting!! 😡🤬😡
More like evil entities.. destroying the next generation. The parents who do this literally are selling their souls and also their children's it's evil spirits seeking whom they may devour
This lady is amazing she’s a champion in my book
This is soooo disgusting.i think I've watched this before...I am sooo sorry.
Just so many horrific aspects to this whole story, from the mom and sister clearly have been so damaged to continue the abuse - to the mentioning of "Pretty Baby" because we know better now that the movie was just a step into trying to normalize sexualizing children. smh
This woman is so incredible and I hope she knows how much she's loved and didn't deserve to go through any of this.
It seems like some children have the notification on their head with 'abuse me'. They get abused every single time they meet new people... I don't understand this. Ons time is already awefull. But over and over again, unheard. Mosters. YOu are so brave and strong
Predators can spot vulnerable prey.
@@judithsixkiller5586 It's a dance. We spot each other.
I felt like this for a long time… it’s hard to stop the cycle.
My heroes in life are not athletes, entertainers or any of the 1%. Mine are HEROES like LISA LUMB. She overcame and now gives back to society. Awesome.
This sad you can't tell me these mothers don't know this stuff is happening and in this case the basket head of a Mom did it too much praise to you sweet lady 🙏🏾
No they know they choose not to know because there loneliness consumes them disgusting
@@adrianawilson5752, yes weak women for whatever reason .
The mom was a pedo to did u not listen she aware like the dad and they didn't care
My God! How horrific! I can’t imagine being a child and having to endure this! This lady is a survivor!!
I guess u could say my brothers snd I had an idyllic childhood. My parents were loving parents. I was the youngest, my 2 brothers never touched me in an inappropriate way! I am so grateful for growing up with love and care.
Listened to her entire story on SWU. She even took the time to reply to one of my comments. Such an amazing human
People like to sweep these things under the rug and call us conspiracy theorists.
Can I just say this woman looks AHMAZING at 56, hot damn! And the hair is on🔥! Such a strong woman, this is a heartbreaking story..
That's true, abusers think they're the only 1s to use profanity.
How on earth did the father not get cps involved.
Not even close. He told her to play along. Nasty mfker
Well they were involved when she was in the foster home and sent back cps dont give a damn it seems.s
Soft White Underbelly has a video on this woman- she explains that her father is also a ---phile. Her father was abusing her brothers and other young boys. Both of her parents were doing this. It's horrific.
What would a mom allowed there kids to a nudists beach or nudists place sickening i don't understand lost of words
I doubt this was EVER legal
@@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 it is legal as long as you are with your parent or guardian.
@mikerope5785 part of me understands, but part of me doesn't. My children and I should absolutely be allowed to run around naked in our home without repercussions, but when it comes to being naked in public...yeah, NO..that's just a step away from danger.
@@thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 It's different for nudist camps and beaches.
@@MetaKnight964 Do they still have children and adults naked together? I'm not saying I necessarily disagree with this but I can only image the vetting process these days. I used to get messed with when I told people my daughter and I walked around the house nude on hot summer days. We were just hot!
Such a strong, beautiful person ❤
Awesome that she found her way out, is sane and was able to work towards her own healing and now helping others!
I’m so very sorry
Thank you for sharing your story.
I’m so pi**ed you had to have a so called “mother” like that. Within the next year I’m hoping to foster. It’s so sick & unfair & never be hard on yourself people if you are reading this. Your important & always will be!!❤️❤️
You have been through so much. I feel so bad for everything you have been through. Thank god for the few good people you had in your life. You seem so strong and healthy now. I admire you and thank you for telling your story😊
This was the most soulful information I had ever experienced . Being in self denial. You hear and see this sad crime. And never want to realize you were a victim. You hide it from yourself .She was the most real enlighten person ever. Thank You ❤❤❤❤❤
What a story. You are the epitome of survival. Thanks for sharing your story. Love from London ♥️🇬🇧🇺🇲
You never know what someone has gone through. If I saw this woman at the grocery store, I'd have no idea!
So sad so glad you made it may you have a beautiful life
Man this poor women went through some unbelievable stuff. How can a mom not protect her kids from this. That is just sick. It's like her mom sold her for sex. I wonder if her mom got money from that weird perverted couple. That is just horrible.
People are so effed up! My god, these parents wtf?
Lisa, you are a beautiful person!
Agree
I’ve heard this lady before! What an awesome and brilliant woman she is.
I’m so sorry this happened to you honey. I pray that God will restore the lost years of your youth & give you the best life possible!
He truely does
Wow! You make me feel like I’ll be alright. Thank you for sharing!!
I'm very, very sorry this happened to you.
I’m glad her siblings were aware 😢
@Jay_Borimaybe it’s a bot.
Much compassion and love. Yes someone shared that her brother and herself started sex life,by the time she was 14, she realize was wrong . Today she is 55 years old ,aldo she married she was unable to get pregnant. Inside damage . Sad.
Keep being awesome, a tough story made a councillor that helps so many. Blessing on you for your endurance, kind wishes for the future.
I'm so sorry that happened 2 u. Thank u 4 sharing your story. I was molested by an older woman when I was just a boy and didn't realize till much later what a terrible thing that is 2 go through. All though I feel my situation wasn't near as bad as your it was still bad enough. I've been through a couple of drug habits and I think I'm really just starting 2 get the help I need as far as therapy. Good luck on the rest of your journey and thanks again 4 sharing
I know it's very common to affect people a lot more later in life. Sending good thoughts all the best to you
Wtaf??? What is wrong with people. The poor woman. Absolute sickos.
I share a lot of your experiences and thinking. I’m glad you found a way out… it took me a little longer but i found that safe place i would go to during meditation in real life. We are the same age… trauma work saves my ass on the daily! Thank you!
What a horrible experience. No child should have to endure these things.
Wow, she has been through so much and is clearly such a lovely person. Sending so much love and healing vibes your way ❤️
Trauma therapy certainly has come a long way, CBT is great but also EMDR can be really wonderful for cases of PTSD and CPTSD, like your case here ❤️❤️❤️
Who dose the kinds of things her mother allowed thier kids to experience a nudist camp wow what a sicko mom and those kids were sick too the mom and all the other adults should have been put under the jail just sick
what are you talking about, kids are legally allowed at nudist camps as long as they are there with their parent or guardian.
@@mikerope5785 thats nasty wtf
For those who don't undergo a life of trauma, it can be difficult to understand, but this is not a series of different abuses or horrific events as such. This is all part of an ongoing process where hurt only leads to more hurt. Abusers can tell when you are vulnerable and unprotected, and so what happens will continue to happen. Injured birds are perfect prey for cats. Indeed, you may even treat yourself badly until something changes. It's so sad that when it does finally change, when you do see the truth at last, there is usually so much to work through. I am so glad this lady has managed to heal, and is involved in healing work. I really needed that beautiful ending. I'm hoping for a similar one, though my traumas are slightly different.
You are a bad ass warrior! I Overcamre abuse also. You give me hope that others can do the same. Thank you for sharing that hell. you are helping all of us!
What a testimony! All to the Glory of God! While I've never been "sectsually" abuse but grew up in a very violent atmosphere! Your testimony needs to be heard by all victims of s*x abuse! My wife was abused by her own father & her mother said she's a liar! She confronted him on speaker phone years ago & forgave him! I was silently listening when he stated "I don't need your forgiveness, I have God's"! She hung up in tears! I never doubted her but that was absolute confirmation! It definitely impacted our marriage! She went "Home" back in '06. Godspeed sister to you and yours!!!✝️🗝️☝️⏳
I am glad your wife has a man who cares about and respects her.
For me.forgiveness is not for the other person..it is severing the energetic ties, healing every trigger that comes up, so as not to feed the perpetrators any energy, and to release the emotions from my physical body for my own health.
Sorry to hear the father was such a jerk he could not even give her the favour of being grateful for her forgiveness. She is lucky you were a source of solace and consolation to her!
@@MoonlightDivinity That was absolutely her angle! If we forgive not those who've wronged us, how then shall our Lord forgive us? What saith He as He hanged upon the cross? "Father, forgive them for they knoweth not what they do"! He forgave the very ones who physically nailed Him to the Cross! Should we not be as willing to forgive those who've wronged us as well? No peace can come to the soul unless you have forgiveness, it's not for them (per say) but for your own inner peace!
From day one God was watching over you . I am so happy for you, have been through so much in your life. You know about the evils in this world. Stay strong you have a wonderful testimony. 🙌😇
Thank God you survived.Pray everything is alright for you.
My Gawd 5 years old to endure this is indescribable rage
What a Honey!! God bless her forever.
So discussed how humans are so strewed up
I had a girlfriend whos own father sold her for drinks at a bar. She had to stay in the car , and service the men who got in with her.
Your a trooper hang in there many have gone through what you have sometimes you must let go of your hate and move on but always be cautious because they are everywhere.
Thank you for this excellent interview/testimony. It details what happened and how she got out of situations and crafted a positive new life for her and her family. She did a good job of giving the perspectives (or lack thereof) and vulnerability of children. The recommendations at the end for normal people who become confidants of the abused were concise and helpful. Thank you for her bravery and resilence to tell such a helpful story in public.
Youre so brave. Hugs and kudos for telling this story 🫶
This is outrageous! I'm so sorry you had to experience this, Lisa.
I was just like you sister. God bless you and your sister.🙏😇
I taught my ypung boys to fight and scream and kick and bite if anyone ever laid hands on them in a way they didnt like. We need to teach our kids to fight against all this coercison and we need to teach them very young and at school where they can at least know what is happening how to ask for help how to fight against it. This girl was just a paper bag blowing in the wind with zero tools to say no to anything or anyone. Just a passive people pleaser all her life saying yes to everything. Its very sad.
I wanna know who the child murderer was named!
My mother was extremely verbally, emotionally and physically abusive to me as a child and she was all about controlling every aspect of my life and emotions 😢but I was allowed to have an atari though I was not allowed to play it when I wanted to only when it was her idea 😮
Iam so sorry you went through this,god bless you,stay strong!
Saw her interview on Soft White Underbelly 💝
Great and strong person and even has beautiful looking hair, keep going u got this!
😢😢I'm sorry this happened to you.... I know all too well about being abused as q child especially by an older female supposed to be parental figure a stepmother in my situation.... I went through absolute hell and nobody stepped in to help me... We are stronger than we think and others think they can take from us...I'm taking my power back!!! Hope you are too!!!!! ❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story you are so strong.
God bless your beautiful soul!! Thank you for sharing this! 💕💕💕
I pray this never has to happen... But if the day ever comes where I see a child being so hurt and abused, I will be the adult to step in and protect that kid. Even if I have to do it alone. Period. I could never allow this to happen in my presence. I just couldn't. Even if it hurts me. And for other men to see her situation and take it as an opportunity to participate in the abuse? Sickening😡
As a man, I just can't comprehend! I can't understand how other men get their socks off hurtin' little ones. How could you enjoy taking advantage of someone so little and vulnerable? What is enjoyable about that? How do you live with yourself after? So many questions, no answers🙁
I've had roommates who had young children. When I look back on it I suppose I had many opportunity to do whatever. Instead I took the opportunity to do the things you normally would do with kids. Essentially I got to be a big silly goof, which was fun lol. Those two kids were special to me for the 3 years I lived in that home. Thank goodness for them I was no monster. Didn't even enter my mind. Must have not entered anyone's mind for that matter, seeing as how their mother left them alone all the time... I don't blame her for it though, as I guess she knew she could trust me? I don't know. She only knew me as a friend for a little while before I moved in. I guess some people are just extremely naive. So it does make me see now how easily this can happen. Even though it never should.
If you're an adult and you see the signs, or even have just a suspicion, be better. DO SOMETHING! ANYTHING! Anything to save that kid from the trauma. This is a child's life! There is no action too small or no consequence too big if you are saving a child's life. It really hurts me to know this is happening to a child somewhere. Right now. Be a part of change. Be better. DO SOMETHING!
So sorry you had to go through that it's something that stays a lifetime
Lady you are a awesome person, my storey is the same as yours and it's tough when you are that little and dont know I was 8 and it started 🤦♀️
What a beautiful human ❤
POOR KIDO...
Unreal.
What a childhood 😢
As a very young wife and mom with two toddlers in the 1980’s, I lived in El Segundo, CA and then Long Beach. My good friend was from Long Beach originally, then lived in El Segundo as a young mom. She told me that her grandparents lived in El Segundo and gramma had recently died…..”They’re nudists” she told me. She was a day care giver to her grampa who still lived in his home but had dementia. On every wall were pictures of him and his wife standing naked in various places around southern CA. Here we are in Palm desert, here we are in Catalina island, here we are in Palm Springs, here we are at a nudist banquet…you get the picture. These were people in their 70 s. “Is it some sexual club? “ I asked. She told me, no, they just like to be naked around other people who like to be naked….whole families, with kids, NAKED in these photos….playing tennis or volleyball. NO SEX? Yeah right! It was an eye opener to lifestyles in LA for someone not from there.
So sad
Before she mentioned her conversation to Christianity. I saw the spirit in her❤it shows in the warmth and tenderness ❤🙏🫡❤️
Why does family blame the child when they catch them when the offenders do things to the child?
This lady is so sad😢 my admiration to her for being so brave as to tell her story 😢
This is like what jounger sister and I experiencend. I even warned my mom about one guy. She just found me silly. Mom is dead now, but the scares will stay forever.
🩷💐
I was also surrounded by predators. My sisters and I were born into a family pedophilia ring, consisting of our father, maternal grandfather, and an uncle. My mother knew what her father was like, but didn't give a sh!t and made no effort to protect us. As adults, when our Nana died, my sister went to the police, and started a case against the uncle the other 2 are dead. 5 of us gave evidence. I later found out an older cousin is actually also my aunt, as our scumbag grandfather was her father, by molesting her mother, who was his daughter. Sicko.
Best wishes 🎉❤🎉
I remember a website called the Nudist Hall of Shame which documents many incidents of pedophilia in nudist camps. It hasn't been updated in years but still holds.
Thanks for sharing ❤ awesome story You really made it.
As they said on the Mary Tyler Show “ you’re gonna make it after all “ A show from way back in time wow 🎖