The StoryYellers: The One Mistake That Kept Me Alive - Ms. Ishara Aryal

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • Ishara Aryal had always been depressed her entire life. At 17, she knew that she was clinically depressed. She had just graduated high school and she did not know what to do next. She felt like a completely different person. She finally went up to her mother and said, ‘Mom, I’m depressed. I need help’. Her mother assured her that they would do everything. Eventually, one fine day, she decided to take an overdose of sleeping pills and end her life.
    Currently Ishara Aryal is a student of English Literature at SUNY Oswego
    Ms. Ishara Aryal sharing her story at The Storyyellers Session 9 brought to you by Daraz Online Shopping
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Komentáře • 102

  • @rajanipandit3382
    @rajanipandit3382 Před 6 lety +5

    Dear Ishara.. I was so moved by your speech. I am a mental health counselor here in USA and I am so glad that you spoke your heart out. I am so happy that you are recovering and I wish you all the positive hopes and happiness in the world. I am glad that you are back at your hometown because when you said it feels lonely here in US I can totally relate to it. Depression can just happen to people even when they are unaware of it or may be living the most happening life. You are brave that you are dealing with it. Please keep spreading your words around and I am sure you are going to save many more lives just like you saved yours. Lots of love..

  • @pratikshabaral
    @pratikshabaral Před 6 lety +18

    Many people have depression only few have enough courage to speak about it. Go ahead ishara I am sure you are going to shine. ❤

  • @puspey6853
    @puspey6853 Před 6 lety +26

    The audience for Story Yellers is mostly youths. So, I dn't know why people are worrying so much about the language. Enjoy the story. Also then, if you are not okay with any language, you can go hire your own translators.

  • @asiaboss6811
    @asiaboss6811 Před 6 lety +6

    When you are depressed. You Don't control your thoughts. your Thoughts control you.i wish Pepole would understand this.

  • @kalpanagurung1260
    @kalpanagurung1260 Před 6 lety +8

    Not to forget she had trouble with herself and not to mention she had panic attack and anxiety attack, it take so much courage to speak up about your troubled past and yet people be commenting on her language and all.. but i found it understandable, there's nothing wrong about it... Good job Ishara don't mind ppl that be hating, you are very brave girl !!

  • @jamesstoltz4904
    @jamesstoltz4904 Před 6 lety +1

    She’s so brave and sweet. This girl is amazing

  • @bijaykc
    @bijaykc Před 6 lety +4

    The real story with fictional presentation ..... wonderful .. what i loved is that " YES I am afraid of Dying, so m living now "............ many people don't make it ....... U did right mistake .... जसले सृजन गर्छ उसैलाई मात्र अधिकार छ यो जीवनको अन्त्य गर्ने ,,,

  • @Shixukani
    @Shixukani Před 6 lety +1

    Rather disconcerting to see her medium of delivery being “scrutinised” to such an extent rather than actually receiving the depth and importance of the topic being addressed here.
    To a greater or lesser degree, mental health issues struggle to be understood across societies around the world. Standing in front of a crowd and vocalising past experiences of grappling with such issues and facing one’s demons is no easy feat and takes immense guts and acceptance. Thank you for sharing your story, and keep winning Ms Aryal! 👊🏽

  • @KaushalShrestha
    @KaushalShrestha Před 6 lety +3

    Amazing Ishara! Really glad you're in a good place right now. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story.

  • @suan_tech2019
    @suan_tech2019 Před 6 lety +3

    You are strong.. u have survived depression... n learned to live with it...
    Cheers 😊😊

  • @Krittageet
    @Krittageet Před 6 lety +4

    Ahh Ishara didi , I am so proud of you for telling the story of such an obnoxious part of your life in front of so many people. I cannot wholly relate to the pain you went through or maybe still going through but , I somewhat can relate with the experience you shared . While you went on and on about your story , I could see how much you were trying to endure those priceless tears . I also have anxiety issues , there requires no reason for it to occur . It just happens out of nowhere . Nevertheless I hope you know that , *You are eventually healing* . I hope that some part of that heavy weight has been lifted soon after you finished sharing your story . Take care of yourself please . And please stay around people who adore you for who you actually are . You are a miracle . I am totally thankful to you . Stay happy because you deserve more . ❤^_^

  • @dildarabdurexit6027
    @dildarabdurexit6027 Před 5 lety +1

    Ishara, Every second of your speech captured my heart. This is a powerful heavy and courageous story. ♥️

  • @namitaadhikari2841
    @namitaadhikari2841 Před 6 lety +3

    More love and power to you ..." You matter and u are loved" Never forget this

  • @aayusnared8483
    @aayusnared8483 Před 5 lety +1

    If anyone is thinking what this girl is trying to say or how is this making sense. Just remember how she mentioned being diagnosed of bipolar disorder. Her mind being in state of euphoria , mania and then sunddenly in depression. What you are listening to is a brave person who has an actual condition where she cannot control her state of mind but yet here she is trying to give us an idea how its like being her, how its like being sumone whom people dont always understand. What you are listening to is a soul, fighting with her own mind who wouldnt let her be in peace, not only fighting against it but also winning.

  • @aly4944
    @aly4944 Před 6 lety +3

    You're so brave for sharing this..more power to you :)

  • @nischalprajapati6157
    @nischalprajapati6157 Před 6 lety +1

    I'm happy that you were able to get the help you needed but I'm also so bitter that there are so many out there who have no idea they could seek help or that they could even be helped or they do know they need help but it's so inaccessible; death is the cheaper option.

  • @malathig5655
    @malathig5655 Před 6 lety +3

    story yellers simply awesome

  • @hackslash666
    @hackslash666 Před 6 lety

    Really happy that ❤ prevails in the end.

  • @authenticme7231
    @authenticme7231 Před 6 lety +2

    Dami! One of the best😀

  • @rozinadahal5581
    @rozinadahal5581 Před 6 lety +7

    Can you call mr Suraj singh thakuri on the show

  • @dramduwal1238
    @dramduwal1238 Před 6 lety

    best story ever

  • @kenpachizaraki9323
    @kenpachizaraki9323 Před 6 lety

    brave girl! keep fighting the good fight

  • @sambidbilaspant1163
    @sambidbilaspant1163 Před 6 lety

    Inspiring story! You go girl.

  • @junjun2098
    @junjun2098 Před 6 lety

    I really like the story and I am really happy for you and that you had that one turning point and you want to live now. I wouldn't comment anything about your language but you know what you could have said. You could have actually mentioned what were the reasons behind of your depression. Nobody can just decide to die since they are teenagers or at least there should be some reasons which you just didn't mention it at all throughout your story and it literally distracted me so much. You even mentioned at some point that you have always been wanted to die because you are depressed but what was the reason, society puts on pressure? Noo, too vague.All in all, I am happy that you are happy now living your life. Maybe it's upto Storytellers production who needs to decide what kind of story should be chosen.

    • @IsharaAryal
      @IsharaAryal Před 6 lety +1

      I get what you’re saying but like I said in the video, I have bipolar disorder which causes mood fluctuations that I can’t control. There is no particular reason behind my depression. It is just a disorder that I need to live with. If you want more information on that, you can always do some research on it :) thank you for you support

  • @ekkatrail2937
    @ekkatrail2937 Před 6 lety +1

    Girish khatiwada
    Sabin karki beest
    Bring em on the show 😊😊😊😊

  • @manshumanbhattarai8779

    Struggle paxi ko successful story chaio. And another how common people are trying or sustaining their life type ko story chaio

  • @shraddhashreemaharjan6537

    I couldn’t understand what made her depressed
    Can anyone tell me?

    • @Krittageet
      @Krittageet Před 6 lety +2

      Shraddha maharjan Well , depression is something that grows with time. We get involved in it unintentionally. We start having doubts about ourselves and disappointments are all that last. I think , since a kid she always thought she wasn't good enough and as the time went by , that very guilt turned into depression.

  • @NEPALIQUOTATION
    @NEPALIQUOTATION Před 6 lety +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @anishadangol1423
    @anishadangol1423 Před 6 lety

    I feel like they've uploaded this earlier.

  • @NEPALIQUOTATION
    @NEPALIQUOTATION Před 6 lety +2

    💖💙💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @shekhartiwari96
    @shekhartiwari96 Před 6 lety

    Next #sukadev dai pls.pls pls... 😊😊😊

  • @ashutoshshrestha4969
    @ashutoshshrestha4969 Před 6 lety

    dami lagyo :)

  • @sandeepkarki1356
    @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety +11

    Touchable
    But if you were not definitely comfortable with English then you could have talked in nepali, it sounds like more good. It's just a feedback please I'm not criticising at all.
    Take Care

    • @deepakbogart2769
      @deepakbogart2769 Před 6 lety +1

      Sandeep Karki Exactly.. English ma express garda tyesto ramro suniena.. English - Nepali mix gareko bhae ramro hunthyo

    • @sandeepkarki1356
      @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety +1

      Deepak Bogart
      Cheers ✌️

    • @sandeepkarki1356
      @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety

      Ishara Aryal No worries Honey
      Take Care
      Have a nice life ahead

    • @deepakbogart2769
      @deepakbogart2769 Před 6 lety

      Ishara Aryal It was our pleasure listening to your amazing story. It is great that you found your way. Good luck for the future 👌👌✌

    • @sandeepkarki1356
      @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety

      Anoushka Poudel
      Thank you for your attention lady.
      Take Care

  • @mansakoirala6232
    @mansakoirala6232 Před 6 lety

    What was the cause of your depression?? I didn’t understand...

  • @binitabasnet5083
    @binitabasnet5083 Před 6 lety

    Really cool ❤❤❤

  • @12mattymatt
    @12mattymatt Před 5 lety

  • @bholathapa1124
    @bholathapa1124 Před 6 lety

    Anyway awesome that you have ended up your story by positive note but the reason behind you which preferred to do an earlier that you didn't share. It's totally confusing.

  • @pramoshadhikari8284
    @pramoshadhikari8284 Před 6 lety

    can we yell stories too?

  • @slow1704
    @slow1704 Před 6 lety +1

    what you want to express??

    • @Eri-us8nn
      @Eri-us8nn Před 6 lety +2

      she's sharing her story goddddd

  • @puchunlee8885
    @puchunlee8885 Před 6 lety

    6:22 almost cursed 😂😂

  • @deepsonbasnet9971
    @deepsonbasnet9971 Před 6 lety

    k vannu khojeko hau ?

  • @sB-ks7ke
    @sB-ks7ke Před 6 lety

    I understand that she were depressed
    But........whats the reason behind her depression????????
    Didn't understand...

    • @prarthanadixit6029
      @prarthanadixit6029 Před 6 lety +3

      Depression is a clinical condition that affects your thinking, feelings and mood. It does not necessarily have to have a cause. The causes can be both environmental as well as biological/genetics. Go google it up. Ignorance is definitely not bliss :)

  • @uddhavkarki8856
    @uddhavkarki8856 Před 6 lety +11

    Nepali ma bolna chai na hune ho ra?????

    • @prayash1117
      @prayash1117 Před 6 lety +4

      uddhav karki english ma chai k problem aayo feri?

    • @janamthapamgr
      @janamthapamgr Před 6 lety +2

      yehi english naayera IELTS ma yaha manchey lai kasto tanab vaaxa .......kura garxau sathi :D

  • @bipulmalla5865
    @bipulmalla5865 Před 6 lety

    Nepali ma jhan ramro hunteyo

  • @brk7894
    @brk7894 Před 6 lety +4

    I would really like all storyteller talks to be in Nepali language please. No offense to the speaker but English just doesn't sound right.

  • @bitterhoney4008
    @bitterhoney4008 Před 6 lety +15

    Kasto saki nasaki English bolya k sunne lae nae uncomfortable feel huncha naramro Vanna khojeko haena tara Nepali Mae vaneko vayea aajha ramroo hunthyo😊

    • @apurbaneupane558
      @apurbaneupane558 Před 6 lety +24

      Kasto saki nasaki comment gareko yaar. Padhne lai uncmfortable feel huncha. Naramro bhanna khojeko haina tara full stop use gareko vaye ajha ramro hunthyo :)

    • @bitterhoney4008
      @bitterhoney4008 Před 6 lety +3

      Apurba Neupane haha haii

    • @asmitakc4899
      @asmitakc4899 Před 6 lety +9

      Aafno dark past ko barema kura garda yestai hunxa wheather it's in nepali or English 👍

    • @Sijan.G.Creations
      @Sijan.G.Creations Před 6 lety +2

      she is speaking well bro leave her she is brave girl

  • @bhumikaamgai8312
    @bhumikaamgai8312 Před 6 lety

    😍😍😍

  • @anishchaudhary5543
    @anishchaudhary5543 Před 6 lety +10

    I usually don't like your speech!! You are just telling about I had depression,I had depression but what's the reason behind it? You said use? Right? What use? Don't understood!!
    #thestoryyellers: please make sure your contestant to what to tell and what not to tell!!
    And the ayushman deshraj Joshi also! He didn't speak the truth

    • @nasochekokura
      @nasochekokura Před 6 lety +1

      promotion garauna lai pani halchhan aayushman jasto lai :D

    • @Eri-us8nn
      @Eri-us8nn Před 6 lety +6

      Anish Chaudhary I UsUaLly dOnT lIkE yOur SpEeCh

    • @sandeepkarki1356
      @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety

      What the hell your first sentence is trying to say bruh?

    • @nis62
      @nis62 Před 6 lety +5

      Bro, it's like asking why do you have the flu. Especially clinical depression, it's a sickness.

    • @anugyarijal6066
      @anugyarijal6066 Před 6 lety +3

      Troll in the dungeon

  • @UjjwalAdhikariofficial
    @UjjwalAdhikariofficial Před 6 lety +1

    maile insult garna khojaya hoina tara Ishara Aryal d Nepali bolna laj lag x ho? :D

  • @alinregmi
    @alinregmi Před 6 lety +6

    Oi maka english 😂😂
    Nepali ma bhanda feelings ni aauthyo sunda ni oh ho huncha herni lai 😍😍
    Skipped vid*

    • @sangeetakhadgi
      @sangeetakhadgi Před 6 lety

      why you wanted to die? it is called coward and you are telling like you've done a very good job just a 💩💩 😏😏

    • @nisthashakya60
      @nisthashakya60 Před 6 lety +1

      Sandeep Karki well said bro :)

    • @alinregmi
      @alinregmi Před 6 lety

      Bheda haru mya mya gardai yeta aaisakay, do u think this is chauri
      Mailay k bhannu khojeko aafai k k bujhni ani 💩 aray
      U 💩 ffff 😏😏

    • @sandeepkarki1356
      @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety

      N.zucchini amber
      Cheers bro

    • @sandeepkarki1356
      @sandeepkarki1356 Před 6 lety

      Ös Čär
      Get well soon folk, skip video but never skip your medicine.
      Cheers

  • @clm6171
    @clm6171 Před 6 lety +1

    You should have taken the path that you chose when you were eighteen so that I would not have wasted my precious 1min right now.

    • @zkdlin562
      @zkdlin562 Před 6 lety +3

      Cool Man Are you fucking serious, dude ?? You're basically telling her to die just cuz you don't like her story, and yet you have the audacity to put the " quit trying to please everyone " thing as your dp ?? Did you actually think that you spent your "precious 1 min" wisely while writing this disgusting comment ??

  • @sakshipandey5307
    @sakshipandey5307 Před 6 lety

    Invite paramita rana here.

  • @vishan3388
    @vishan3388 Před 6 lety

    Wft was that.

  • @simaaraii14
    @simaaraii14 Před 6 lety

    #niteshdai #sisan dai le jasto nepalima bole kati majja aau teyo sunna hernu lai..i realy hate whn ppl talk in english...nellai bayera nepalima nai bolnu ni..it soundz sooo gud...we all knw we hv to b educated we hv to b smart we hv to b active.. bt mula yo over smart hune dhunma nepali hu vanera ni birsine 🙄🙄😕😕😕😕😕

    • @nasochekokura
      @nasochekokura Před 6 lety +2

      timile devanagari lipi ma lekhidiye kya ramro hunthyo :D thing is, let people use the language they want to... don't inflict your choice on anyone :)

  • @balmukundthapa4302
    @balmukundthapa4302 Před 6 lety

    Completely wasted

  • @neetikashah6590
    @neetikashah6590 Před 6 lety

    not inspiring..👎👎👎

  • @chawalrihyan5817
    @chawalrihyan5817 Před 6 lety

    Tesari garo manera English bolnu vanda Nepali ma bole vaihalyo ta.. ki Nepali bolna audaina.?

  • @silicondioxide7366
    @silicondioxide7366 Před 6 lety