Day in the Life of a Quadriplegic in Korea | The Voiceless

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  • @hope_man
    @hope_man Před 2 lety +727

    Hello, I'm Lee Wonjun
    You can expose yourself to the Asian boss
    I'm so thankful
    The fact that I faced a hopeless reality due to a severe disability
    It's already been 11 years, but unfortunately, the world is still in place
    That's what I thought I want to spread this reality
    I hope it changes
    Even if you feel uncomfortable in the video,
    I'd appreciate it if you could understand and sympathize with me
    They made the video in high quality, so to the Asian Boss production team,
    Thank you so much. I hope everyone who watched will always be happy♡

    • @ngthoangyen
      @ngthoangyen Před 2 lety +25

      Thank you for your story, it really helps to open my mind and stop me from taking everything for granted. Wish you and you family all the best.

    • @marryjane8849
      @marryjane8849 Před 2 lety +15

      Thank you so much for sharing your story. It breaks my heart how the government treats people like you as "2nd class citiziens" who are not worth investing into. But I think you are a wonderful person and keep living your life to the fullest and the best. Sincerly wish you the best in life, for you and your family!

    • @AzngameFreak03
      @AzngameFreak03 Před 2 lety +7

      Subscribed. Respect. I really hope for the best for all of us.

    • @kittykatz3518
      @kittykatz3518 Před 2 lety +8

      ❤️❤️❤️ I'm so glad you are still here.

    • @judithbilog751
      @judithbilog751 Před 2 lety +6

      What an Inspiring story you shared to the world..and I prayed to the Lord for giving you more strength to get all through your situation..thank you and keep going dont give up on life. Disability doesn't mean less albed..And I believed you can do more..keep fighting.God Bless you.🙏🙏

  • @nitrojane
    @nitrojane Před 2 lety +442

    As a fellow disabled person who relies on one person for almost everything, I definitely felt some very strong emotions while watching him discuss his concerns. It's true that the abled world often doesn't take us into account at all, and if they do it's either as an "inspiration" or as a subject of pity. It can be very frustrating. I wish thisan nothing but the best in his journey and hopefully someone in the Korean government can see stories like this and realise that pay systems need to change - complex need care should be paid more.

    • @trudycolborne2371
      @trudycolborne2371 Před 2 lety +15

      I hope this embarrasses the crap out of his government and that the pay raise for "complete care" or whatever it would be called is implemented very soon. It would be nice if someone within the caregiving community would ask their employees if any of them would be willing to be assigned to him at least temporarily. It's concerning that his mother can't even get a break to see to her own health needs. There must be someone out there who has a big enough heart to help out. I understand that they should get better pay for more intensive work. I don't intend this to be an excuse for wages to stay low. I just think money isn't everything. Maybe in the meantime there's a caregiver, near him, who is also an aspiring youtuber? As a bonus he could do a collaboration and give them some editing skills they may not have considered before.

    • @ntl9974
      @ntl9974 Před rokem +1

      Thank you for fighting. I also want people to get more involved in animal rights causes

  • @yukuhana
    @yukuhana Před 2 lety +221

    He's so brave and optimistic, but when asked about his mother not being around forever, he and all of us felt so sad. This is humanity.

    • @jeffros6739
      @jeffros6739 Před 2 lety +7

      One day at a time

    • @bobbowie9350
      @bobbowie9350 Před 2 lety +14

      Those thoughts can just bury a person . He is very strong mentally. His mother 10 × stronger.

  • @georgehigh4723
    @georgehigh4723 Před 2 lety +313

    Let's get donations going so his mother can take a break in order to get treatment for herself.
    She probably doesn't want a vacation or anything since Koreans are hands on.
    I only cried when they showed his mother.
    What a saint.
    I hope she can get some relief.

    • @twobrownbears
      @twobrownbears Před 2 lety +15

      His mother still wouldn't be able to take a break because no assistance /helper from the government will come to take her place, but yes, let's direct donations to him to ease his financial burdens

    • @MA-zg2pz
      @MA-zg2pz Před 2 lety +23

      @@twobrownbears well they could hire someone themselves to help care for him while his mother is out. A nurse even. This also helps him see what his future costs will be.

    • @MontageLegacy
      @MontageLegacy Před 2 lety +3

      Where is the link?

    • @SPINALpedia
      @SPINALpedia Před 2 lety +3

      @@MontageLegacy yes where?

    • @damblebee1253
      @damblebee1253 Před 2 lety +11

      @@MontageLegacy I think it's better if Asian Boss team is the one who manage the donation, hope they'll consider this

  • @ace.of.space.
    @ace.of.space. Před 2 lety +148

    i really appreciated his honest telling of when he was considering suicide. i think it's unfortunately a common experience for disabled and/or mentally ill people to feel there is no other way. but what he says is so true - he did not do anything wrong, and there is no reason he should have to die. he is disabled, and this does not mean he has any less right to live. i hope we can make changes happen around the world in terms of helping people receive the proper care they need. it's terrible that the government is not properly compensating care workers and leaving people like this man and his family to suffer for it.

    • @corona__virus
      @corona__virus Před 2 lety

      only rich countries can do that.. there is no utopia yet.

    • @Adonna2424
      @Adonna2424 Před rokem

      Boy are you going to be upset when you hear about Canada's new assisted suicide program called MAID, which is targeting disabled, homeless, chronically ill, mentally ill and now autism.

  • @xSilentRecon
    @xSilentRecon Před 2 lety +65

    Wow. Incredibly smart to tell the cyclists who were helping him to not touch him until the ambulance arrived. I wonder how much worse it could've been if he had not known about that

    • @alaskan3304
      @alaskan3304 Před 2 lety +8

      Unfortunately the worse that could have happened if he wasn’t handled correctly and with certain precautions, his diaphragm or breathing would stop working. Of course then it’s fatal. So I think God was watching over this young man, and as I daily have to repeat to myself, there’s a reason I am in my current body for some purpose, cause, or who knows why but we all have purpose.

    • @maydreams1911
      @maydreams1911 Před 2 lety

      But why what would happen if people touched him?

    • @krishna9438
      @krishna9438 Před 2 lety +13

      @@maydreams1911 lifting a person up (especially after accident) without proper handling can cause futher injury/damage to nerves

  • @quidproquo82
    @quidproquo82 Před 2 lety +37

    I was so touched by this video. As an Asian American, we rarely get to see portrayals of Asians in ways that humanize us. When we're a part of the conversation at all it's usually framed in a negative light or we are completely erased. These kinds of stories show the world that we're like anyone else.

  • @kynj17
    @kynj17 Před 2 lety +19

    In terms of accessibility, Korea is so far behind many other countries in the world. Technologically so advanced, but not for everyone. I have lived there for almost 8 years and it’s painful to actually see how the disabled are treated there. Most of it is due to the lack of education. I hope that this can change in the near future. Everyone deserves to live as comfortable a life as they can.

  • @apark8787
    @apark8787 Před 2 lety +28

    @17:10 so true, your appearance can make a huge difference how you're treated by others in society

  • @wasabimonkie
    @wasabimonkie Před 2 lety +19

    His mother is heaven sent.

  • @williamvinct
    @williamvinct Před 2 lety +8

    He is exactly a soldier, from outside and inside

  • @betealvarez
    @betealvarez Před 2 lety +16

    His mother is an angel, but soon she might need someone to take care of her either. I feel sorry for him and for his lovely mother 💔

  • @Raja-bz4yw
    @Raja-bz4yw Před rokem +13

    As someone who is a disabled, this is a very hard video to watch. Mostly cause I'm pretty independent and don't really rely on anyone to take care of me. I'm legally blind n get around without help besides using public transit, taxis n Uber for transportation. But for the most part I'm on my own. I'm terrified of losing my independence and having to rely on someone to take care of me. I'm scared of feeling like a burden so I never ask for help. I feel for this guy in the video. I don't live in Korea but it's still tough here in the US being disabled. Society still has an extremely long way to go before it fully accepts us. This includes jobs that hire disabled workers, medical care, public transit being more disabled friendly, schools, etc. We are human not an afterthought.

  • @Trekkifulshay
    @Trekkifulshay Před 2 lety +20

    We never got one second of in-home nursing for the entire time my daughter was alive. Even when we qualified for nursing hours the pay is so low they can get much easier jobs for the same wage with far less responsibility and workload. Thankfully I have my husband and we'd switch out so we take turns sleeping, take turns lifting etc. We'd have kept doing it but unfortunately, she got sick and didn't survive. People will say well at least you don't have that burden anymore. I never felt burdened by my child. I love her. People are quick to point out how much work there is to do and not enough hours in the day & then not offer to help and refuse to help when asked. Not even dropping off a takeout meal or picking up a grocery order.

  • @bobbowie9350
    @bobbowie9350 Před 2 lety +34

    Man. Life is crazy. Please give his mother the strength.
    At least he is still alive!

    • @woopygoman
      @woopygoman Před 2 lety +4

      Life is unfair. That's for sure.

  • @gamestrafe1257
    @gamestrafe1257 Před 2 lety +27

    My wife is also disabled(due to her having JRA early on)and has been on a wheel chair most of her life she still can do most things a normal people can do, except standing because her joints are all in weird positions mostly her fingers. She despises the thought of having to rely on others to do basic things so it really hit me hard watching this man and his mother struggles in a day. The self-pity is what eats them up, I know coz my wife tells me that she tried to end it multiple times in the past and still thinks of it when she's having a hard time. Hope them good health and more strength to overcome this.

  • @snoozeyoulose9416
    @snoozeyoulose9416 Před 2 lety +81

    This was so well done and a thoughtful message at the end, humanizing the disabled. Many people should see this.

    • @ayolovephat
      @ayolovephat Před 2 lety

      Disabled people don't need to be "humanized", they are humans.

    • @snoozeyoulose9416
      @snoozeyoulose9416 Před 2 lety

      @@ayolovephat You obviously have no idea what the term means in a broad philosophical context. Go back to coloring books and leave videos like this to people with IQ's above 60.

  • @OctPSfever
    @OctPSfever Před 8 měsíci +2

    Every time I see him, I always have same wishful thinking if he could move his hands freely...This guy can do much with his disability. His desires and will to live is amazing.

  • @anthoni-yh9ts
    @anthoni-yh9ts Před 2 lety +14

    god bless his mother my goodness. such a precious woman despite her health conditions she just wants to be there for her son . bro i dont cry a lot bu that question you asked in the end and his answer made it impossible for me not to shed a tear. god bless you guys the world can be and is in many cases cruel but dont lose faith god be with you is all i can really say my friend

  • @khatirobinson6392
    @khatirobinson6392 Před 2 lety +6

    Wish I was a millionaire so I could hire the people he and his family needs to live a fulfilling and happy life. And I’m sure I’m not alone on that.

  • @ryotetsu9514
    @ryotetsu9514 Před 2 lety +5

    From Japan. Thank you very much for sharing his life experience. I have so much respect to him! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @l.5847
    @l.5847 Před 2 lety +3

    GOD bless his mother, my deepest respect for her

  • @laptopstudy3279
    @laptopstudy3279 Před 2 lety +4

    You are an inspiration not just to disabled people but everyone in the world.

  • @FinancialShinanigan
    @FinancialShinanigan Před 2 lety +65

    His kids are absolute angels

  • @LaLaLand926
    @LaLaLand926 Před 2 lety +7

    Wow. I’m in tears. He’s such an amazing man

  • @bitcoinfightclub8449
    @bitcoinfightclub8449 Před 2 lety +76

    God bless all of the unfortunate souls that are disabled , abused , and those that make differences in their lives

    • @Najur.
      @Najur. Před 2 lety +4

      And may God give the sentiment to the people who have power to help the weak....

    • @woopygoman
      @woopygoman Před 2 lety +6

      Why does God allow suffering? Rhetorical question. Don't bother answering.

    • @Najur.
      @Najur. Před 2 lety +1

      @@woopygoman what is the purpose of life???? Don't bother answering

    • @sydneylngu
      @sydneylngu Před rokem +3

      just because we’re disabled, doesn’t mean that we’re unfortunate lol. that’s such a negative stereotype for us. we also don’t need others to save us or for us to be seen as “weak”

    • @bitcoinfightclub8449
      @bitcoinfightclub8449 Před rokem

      @@sydneylngu I’m disabled as well. I didn’t mean to make it sound like you took it.

  • @jamosss
    @jamosss Před 2 lety +9

    This went hard🙏🏾💯

  • @sallymoen7932
    @sallymoen7932 Před rokem +2

    What a unique story he has. I enjoyed hearing him tell the whole thing, from the cycling accident to his life now.
    He would make a good teacher. He has a great attitude.

  • @carolyn7
    @carolyn7 Před 2 lety +25

    Thank you Asian Boss for sharing Won jun Lee’s story. I hope his wonderful mother finds some help. His children seem to be well brought up in that they are not embarrassed to introduce their father to their friends.

    • @carolyn7
      @carolyn7 Před 2 lety +4

      Doesn’t the Korean military offer help for veterans?

    • @bobbowie9350
      @bobbowie9350 Před 2 lety +3

      @@carolyn7 Ikr. What's going on there

  • @tyrranicalt-rad6164
    @tyrranicalt-rad6164 Před 2 lety +38

    Stories like these really make you put things into perspective. Great content AB.

  • @SPINALpedia
    @SPINALpedia Před 2 lety +11

    Its sad that in a country as populous as Korea, there isn't a single person interested in helping him. Wow! Lets hope through this video, someone local will have a heart and reach out.

  • @mandeep3.14
    @mandeep3.14 Před 2 lety +10

    Wow, you’d think that Korean care was next level considering their maternity section and that being apart of the army would give him some benefits but no…that’s quite surprising. The gov need to get on it.
    He seems lovely and his mum is an saint 🥲. I hope they both get the help that they need soon, that she gets carers allowance and that his kids can eventually help their dad. 💜
    Please share his YT and let us know if there’s anything that we can do to help.

    • @allenk6373
      @allenk6373 Před 2 lety

      but I know one blogger
      she is a women from russia who is like 35 she live in korea for like 15 years
      and she sad how good the system from people like these
      maybe she did not mean directly that case where person can not move at all but
      according to her words disabled people treated very good
      and all her friends who are also either from russia or other post USSR countries like Ukraine Armenia Kazakhstan Uzbekistan
      all of them say same thing how good the system is
      all of them at least lived in korea for many (10+) years and have families
      its very strange whenever you ask a westerner he will say how bad it is
      but is you ask people from post ussr country they say how god it is
      maybe its just different perspective

  • @Gbaby_1241
    @Gbaby_1241 Před 2 lety +69

    From my short time in Korea plus all of my own personal digging into this subject, Korea has a very strong distaste for "The Other". Socially, they're still very behind but I still see possibilities for good and caring nature amongst them. Here's to a better future ❤️

    • @eljen18
      @eljen18 Před 2 lety +11

      This is true! For a first world country, they still have a long way to go when it comes to dealing with issues about PWD needs and benefits.

    • @whyallthefuss201
      @whyallthefuss201 Před 2 lety +12

      You hit the subject matter right on the head of the nail. There’s no room for the less fortunate and the disabled people in Korea’s social hierarchy. So sad….

    • @allenk6373
      @allenk6373 Před 2 lety

      @@eljen18 like I realy dont know what these people talking about
      there a woman blogger on instagram and she live in Korea for like 15 years
      she has husband and 2 sons
      and she sad in one post about how impressed she is with support system for people like these
      and many other of her friends who are from russia and other post USSR countries like Ukraine ,Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan, Armenia , Azerbaijan, Belarus and others and all of them saying that disabled people live very good
      its very strange that whenever you ask westerners they usually say how bad it is (even tho my sister been to NY and sad that life of disabled people is not that good)
      and whenever you ask a person from post USSR country he he will say how good it is

    • @theboujieproletariat
      @theboujieproletariat Před 2 lety +2

      @@allenk6373 The thing is, disabled people don't only want / need a support system (as in, a health and social care system). There is also a need for inclusion in the workplace, business support, marriage equality, to be taken seriously as parents, a need for friendship and taking part in sports or hobbies (sometimes that can just be that bars are not accessible). There's a need for people to talk to you like you're a sentient adult. A need to have opportunities in all areas. Support and healthcare is good but if people don't want to hang out with you, marry you, have kids with you, or employ you... it's not fun.

    • @alyccaeve
      @alyccaeve Před rokem +1

      Of course, because most are shallow only emphasizing what is beautiful and perfect and anything that will not be within that norms are considered unacceptable and should be annihilated

  • @MurakamiTenshi
    @MurakamiTenshi Před 2 lety +28

    Thank you for this. I hope that one day, mindsets will change and the "invisible" people are SEEN as well as HEARD. 🙏 I still remember how much your video of the homeless grandmother taught me about how society views the less fortunate, there.

  • @nicholascupido9018
    @nicholascupido9018 Před 2 lety +67

    I really want to thank Asian Boss for sharing this. When we think of Korea, we think of K-Pop & K-Drama and sometimes we tend to forget about these types of things. This was an eye opener. I also want to thank his mom for helping him - despite her health problems, she'll be blessed for that!
    Keep your head up king - you've gained our respect!

  • @LeagueofLegends24
    @LeagueofLegends24 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you.

  • @jflsdknf
    @jflsdknf Před 2 lety +6

    Loved this interview. It deserves a million views

  • @fynntasticmovienight
    @fynntasticmovienight Před 2 lety +10

    For people that want to hear more stories about disabilities, check out the channel SBSK. So many interviews with people with all kinds of disabilities

  • @tkheremaia6489
    @tkheremaia6489 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for sharing your story Lee Wonjun and Asian Boss. Praying that Asian Boss can start up a Go Funding or some type of fundraising for surgery for your beautiful Mama and also support care, rehab that your needing, a new wheelchair and a home that will give you the space your needing too. Sending love and prayers from Australia and New Zealand

  • @Kpop_Metalhead
    @Kpop_Metalhead Před 2 lety +6

    It would be great if you guys could get a GoFundMe started and figure out how much the cost would be for him to have a nurse not 24/7 but at least sometimes to his mom can have surgery and his mom to have some down time when she's back up and running. And in case of worst case scenario is Mom just passed away where he can go and are there advocates?

  • @HenriettesHealingStories
    @HenriettesHealingStories Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you deeply and truly Asian Boss for giving 'the others' in Korea a voice! It is so very important.
    Bless you all

  • @user-sumin00
    @user-sumin00 Před 2 lety +5

    눈물이 나네요 ㅠㅠ̑̈ 원준쌤 구독자여서 영상 있다길래 보러왔는데ㅠㅠㅠ따듯하면서도 슬퍼요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ̑̈
    어머니께서 안계신다면 그 후에 삶이 어떨거 같다 이야기 하시는데 맘이아프면서도 머지않을 훗날이야기다 보니 더 찡했네요
    그래도 밝게 살아가시려 노력하는 모습이 참 이뻐요 멋지고 아들 딸들도 어린나이인데도 잘 커주고 있어 이빠로써 고맙겠어요 ㅎ̌̈ㅎ̌̈
    원준쌤 항상 응원하고 있으니! 힘냅시다!!!!

  • @pumpkins2393
    @pumpkins2393 Před 2 lety +1

    Gosh, so heartbreaking while so proud of him for being brave and strong!

  • @liltunwin
    @liltunwin Před 2 lety +6

    I'm glad he has a supportive family though. I think at the very least his family are a lot closer than a lot of us.
    I watched a video couple weeks ago about some clinical research into treating damaged nerves. Hopefully with the advancement of AI these scientific researches will progress quicker and people will get their individual freedom back from diseases or accidents.

  • @zeyaley13
    @zeyaley13 Před 2 lety +1

    Such a kind and wise soul, wishing him all the best

  • @joy-wn2ui
    @joy-wn2ui Před 2 lety +3

    He is so brave and inspiring.wish him all the best

  • @VerhoevenSimon
    @VerhoevenSimon Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for the superb video, and his children are so kind.

  • @kimjo1383
    @kimjo1383 Před 2 lety +2

    🙏 Thank you for sharing your story, deep respect for you and your mother❤️

  • @seanoceallachain
    @seanoceallachain Před 2 lety +10

    Can AsianBoss maybe set up a GoFundMe or something ?
    I've donated to the previous one for the single fathers or whatever it was, I'd be happy to send a little to this too, as I'm sure other would.

  • @LuLu-ii9vn
    @LuLu-ii9vn Před 2 lety +11

    Sometimes we lost everything in order to value what it really matters.
    From a different perspective, this is a really though challenge in life, not only in terms of physical activity but mind one. The challenge of receiving help and support from the ones around the person, and the challenge to keep yourself every single day moving on and keep on trying.
    We take everything for granted, health, our relatives, peace or even a roof...

  • @Alastor255
    @Alastor255 Před 2 lety +2

    what a beautiful video Asian Boss!!

  • @Bridget9927
    @Bridget9927 Před 2 lety +2

    I love this channel! Thank you for sharing & showing the interview.
    Bridget, NC🇺🇸

  • @JustJulyo
    @JustJulyo Před 2 lety +1

    So many emotions in such a short amount of time! One of the most important feelings is hope for a better future and knowing he managed to raise his kids is awe inspiring!

  • @MischievousMischief
    @MischievousMischief Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you Asian Boss. You always highlight so many important topics. I hope we finds a company that can give him a stable job and care - also for his mother's sake.

  • @taeya1400
    @taeya1400 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm bowing infront of assian boss choices of topics and issues... you guys have really really make a great documentry on this side of people of ROk who are sustaining there life there.... I'm really really thankful to you for bringing up this side infront of us 🙏....nd...this brave man is littraly so so strong nd her beloved mother is seriously a form of god ...i pray that he can live his future life very happily

  • @TaNiNha2113
    @TaNiNha2113 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for this interview

  • @Erinyes
    @Erinyes Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you again for another wonderful, enlightening video.

  • @bummy777
    @bummy777 Před 2 lety

    So touching and eye opening. Thanks AB.

  • @ramyeonahn4805
    @ramyeonahn4805 Před 2 lety +2

    His courage and strength are just wow for still choosing to live his life until the end despite the difficulties he faces every day. May his hope continue to ablaze.

    • @amanda8914
      @amanda8914 Před rokem

      He wouldn't have to if only society paid more attention to accessibility.

  • @12235117657598502586
    @12235117657598502586 Před 2 lety +2

    Brave man and beautiful loving mother and children.

  • @sabinetriffault5846
    @sabinetriffault5846 Před 2 lety +1

    This is a very moving video. 💝 Thank you very much 🙏🙏

  • @user-yf1nk6tn6v
    @user-yf1nk6tn6v Před 2 lety +5

    God bless him and his mom. I hope his mom could get her own surgery, it must be really hard for her to live like that without proper treatment. I could someone could taking care of him when his mom is receiving the treatment, hope the government could do more. Anyway, wish his family the best.

  • @dgetsitpopin96
    @dgetsitpopin96 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for covering such an important topic that is very rarely discussed. Even in the states, many people fail to realize that persons with disabilities are people with jobs, families, and hobbies. Hearing him talk about the old man who brushed him off left a pit in my stomach. I'm currently a graduate student studying prosthetics and orthotics and have a very strong interest in learning more about disability rights, especially in South Korea. I would love to see more videos covering topics like this! Thank you Asian Boss :)

  • @TheWaywardSpiral
    @TheWaywardSpiral Před 2 lety +1

    Documentary style videos are much appreciated every now and then.

  • @-Seppuku-
    @-Seppuku- Před 2 lety +1

    Please stay strong ❤ You are such a warm-hearted person. Your children and mom are absolute angels. When he talked about his mom in the end of the video I started crying a lot. Asian Boss please help donate for his mom so she can take proper care of her health. ❤️

  • @thispak
    @thispak Před měsícem

    Such a heartbreaking video, my heart goes out to this family, especially the mother...

  • @sarah-cu7tx
    @sarah-cu7tx Před 2 lety +15

    I've already watched several videos featuring Won-Jun Lee. Limitations are not easy, but it is very important and interesting to see how people deal with these limitations. I admire the way he can express himself so well and even inspire others.

    • @amanda8914
      @amanda8914 Před rokem +1

      The limitations are built in society though. The point of the video is to show how inaccessible the world is to people like him who have sever disabilities.

  • @redshield2842
    @redshield2842 Před 2 lety +3

    May God's blessing be with you

  • @anamarie7131
    @anamarie7131 Před 2 lety +1

    My heart goes to this man. May our merciful God bless him with a miracle. Praying for his physical and emotional health. Hope that somebody can help , the govt or a church community in the soonest possible time. God bless this man and his mother.

  • @memories.....855
    @memories.....855 Před 2 lety +1

    I also have a disability. Thank you ASIAN BOSS for talking about this subject!

  • @temporaryyname8368
    @temporaryyname8368 Před 2 lety +33

    How can we support him and his mother?

  • @jotheOT
    @jotheOT Před 2 lety +2

    I work in the disability sector& in AUS we are fortunate to have a govt funding body allocated to assist people with disability and even supported accommodation. This is just really sad to hear. Thank you for sharing your story . I hope Asian Boss can help raise some financial support and there can be support workers available and willing to help you soon!

  • @mairiconnell6282
    @mairiconnell6282 Před 2 lety +2

    I am so privileged to live in the UK. I have Universal Healthcare from the cradle to the grave. If he were in the UK he would be in his own home, wet room and suitable for a Quadriplegic. Also he would have round the clock care. Donations from Armed Forces Charities. I am bemused that for the 10th richest Country in the world it treats it's most venerable with contempt. I am disabled myself I have two care visits a day. I have company and feel connected to the outside world not shut away like this gentleman is. Lee Wonjun your are an handsome man with an handsome family. In recent K-dramas and films I hear the word handicapped. That word has not been used in the UK for some sixty years. Physically Challenged. I would like people with physical challenges to watch the 2012 Opening Ceremony of the London Olympics. Physical challenges were embraced and gave inspiration for the effort and talent of the competitors.

  • @adriancann5056
    @adriancann5056 Před 2 lety +5

    one really tough guy, but his mother is an angel to say the least. all mothers want to take care of their kids, but her job is so over the top it's not funny. hard to believe that the Korean government can't take better care of people with this serious need.

  • @staceyk.210
    @staceyk.210 Před 2 lety

    Wow😱 this was truly moving to me!! Here was a guy who was normal as he could be went from that due a bad accident to becoming Disabled!! I felt his pain and frustration in this video!! I came only imagine what he might be going through or have experienced in the past!! Thank God his Mother has always been their for him to aide in caring for her Son!! I do hope that this guy can somewhat be a voice to those that want to give up in life!! Show the world you can overcome this feeling 💪🏾 and be Strong in your Decision to Live!! I do wish him much wellness and happiness and also his Mom for her to get the Care she needs for herself!! Best Wishes To You Both!!❤❤🙏🏽❤❤

  • @GenaF
    @GenaF Před 2 lety +10

    Such a lovely man. He's lucky he's in South Korea and not China. I was thinking what he was saying about being on welfare and needing help. I'm sure when his mother passes away that either his daughter or wife of one of his sons will care for him. He seems to be loved by them.

    • @Sailormoonc3038
      @Sailormoonc3038 Před rokem

      I don’t think South Korea is better than China in terms of disability rights.

  • @ashokmehta3593
    @ashokmehta3593 Před 2 lety +1

    Definitely strong person n father...willing to take care of his children despite his condition..he tought us life is race...fight it n continue moving forward n felt emotional when asked about mother that she will not be here forever n he gonna be lonely😊😊...hope his mother can soon get surgery n recover..she is angel😊😊😊❤

  • @mozznugo
    @mozznugo Před 2 lety +1

    You are a brave man, Sir because you dare to live despite of your condition. I hope that you will meet someone who will take care of you as good as your mother has done.

  • @SalvableRuin
    @SalvableRuin Před 2 lety +4

    This reminds me of my lovely and sweet friend 옹주 in Seoul. I lost contact with her and I can't find her. She is quadriplegic (but she can use one of her arms). I hope I can find her again.

  • @realyman
    @realyman Před 2 lety +14

    Thanks for sharing this. We take things of that nature for granted, movement.

  • @legende827
    @legende827 Před 2 lety +1

    With your mind we can do better than with your body. Inspiring people, comfort them, teaching them, praised them and so much more. Don’t give up . This man is a beautiful and caring soul. It’s so sad that he can be helped by a professionnel for the safe of him and his mother. Hope Korea will change that soon because they deserve to be at peace and enjoy the time together without pain , culpability and anxiety for the futur.
    Love you strong mind. I confess , if it was me , I have answered the suicide mail. You re very brave to keep up. I admire you.

  • @1.4142
    @1.4142 Před 2 lety

    Respect for pulling through

  • @elainecampbell8083
    @elainecampbell8083 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing Won-jun Lee's story. He and Hansol from One Shot Hansol, and Weracle on You Tube actually changed my life. I have been watching them for several years, and even though I worked with senior citizens who had physical and mental disabilities, they have brought a new understanding of their daily lives to me. Because of this, I am started an art and decoration business that will have items that people who have visual and physical challenges can enjoy along with people who are able bodied. I thank them all for their truth in how they live each day. I also really think they are three great men. I wish I knew them so I could tell them how much I appreciate them.

  • @enriquevasquez9600
    @enriquevasquez9600 Před 2 lety +4

    I would like to offer my personal assistance to this guy and his mother by free as a care technician. The only issue it would be the language and the distance.
    Greetings from the Dominican Republic 👋.

  • @ramyeonahn4805
    @ramyeonahn4805 Před 2 lety +2

    His mom’s love is also incomparable 😢

  • @munchkin0518
    @munchkin0518 Před 2 lety +27

    Could you share his YT channel with us? I'd love to hear more about his insights on disability, depression, Korean society, etc.

    • @Maaraaw
      @Maaraaw Před 2 lety +5

      Same, I typed his name but couldn't find his YT channel. If someone has it, share it please.

    • @bobyilee4528
      @bobyilee4528 Před 2 lety

      AB is deleting post with his channel link

    • @monaliza1113
      @monaliza1113 Před 2 lety

      버럭중사이원준

    • @larissaho1253
      @larissaho1253 Před 2 lety +2

      @@bobyilee4528 Why? I found it with help from a korean friend and its great, authentic, real.. As life should be.

    • @theboujieproletariat
      @theboujieproletariat Před 2 lety +1

      He is the top commenter on this thread, just click on him

  • @johnwright9049
    @johnwright9049 Před 2 lety +1

    Good interview

  • @RobertCarrizal
    @RobertCarrizal Před 2 lety +1

    what a pretty sad story :(
    hey won-jun take it easy!

  • @devlin6333
    @devlin6333 Před 2 lety +7

    What a wonderful piece of journalism! Congratulations, Steven. My prayers are for this family today💕🇨🇦

  • @pikachuthunderbolt3919
    @pikachuthunderbolt3919 Před 2 lety +4

    How come govt doesn't help former soldier
    It's such a shameful thing in south korea about govt policies for not helping it's former employees in need .

  • @user-rx7uv2dm2l
    @user-rx7uv2dm2l Před 2 lety +2

    아시안보스 촬영한게 오래지나서 업로드 되었군요 기다렸습니다 힘내세요 원준 버럭중사님^^

  • @squeegie
    @squeegie Před 2 lety +2

    As I age older and older... I can testify that I have never met a person that have not felt they wanted to end their life on their own accord at one point or another.
    But younger we are, dumber we are and we want to end it all because of smallest of things.
    Learn to endure. Learn to love. Learn what makes you happy. Learn to be patient.
    People say YOLO like life isn't that important at time, but truth is you live everyday; you just die once.
    Whatever hardship you may have faced, it is your choice to live on and be happy. We are all worth it.
    My close friend ended his own life and I also wanted to follow that path at one point. I am glad I chose to live.

  • @rudevalve
    @rudevalve Před 2 lety +2

    Certified Gold!!!!!😎

  • @jennyjou
    @jennyjou Před 2 lety +1

    Ι adore u
    U give me strength
    Thank u🌺

  • @SalvableRuin
    @SalvableRuin Před 2 lety +17

    If I can go back to Korea, I would like to volunteer free time to help people like them. If they need a temporary care-giver while the mom gets surgery for another reason. They deserve help and it doesn't have to be government help.

  • @CoryASMR
    @CoryASMR Před rokem

    incredible.

  • @TheRose449
    @TheRose449 Před rokem

    I hope their is a foundation for them to recieve money so they may have some help a couple days a week. The relationship that he has with his mother touches your heart

  • @victorial9758
    @victorial9758 Před 2 lety +2

    We need a donation link! I’m sure they can find an in home nurse to take the case!

  • @sipp5657
    @sipp5657 Před 2 lety +1

    😥😥😥☹️god help his and his mother and family and friends

  • @thetiredworm2100
    @thetiredworm2100 Před rokem +1

    My goodness….some people are living such hard lives, I wish to be good so I don’t put to shame the blessings I have.