I think what you are saying is not only true in dating a woman, but also in keeping her. I have had friends who were so clingy "needy" that their wives or girl friends left them. There was a moment in my relationship with my wife where she was having another man show interest in her. It was never physical, but I know she was really thinking about leaving. She started doing the thing people do where they point out all of your flaws (that they were once fine with) in order to feel justified about leaving. It finally came to a head one night when she was packing a suit case to move out. I had to fight my instinct to get on my knees and beg her to stay. I just went in the other room as she packed. She came out and looked at me asking, "Aren't you even going to fight for me?" I looked her in the eyes and said, "Baby, it will break my heart if you leave, but I won't curl up in a ball and die." I said, "I will keep going and I know I will make it okay." "I love you and don't want you to go and believe we are better together, but I will live on and be fine if you leave." What I had done was show her I wasn't desperate and needy. I was confident in myself. Confident to live and even find love again. She went back in the bedroom and after a long while she came out and told me she was staying. That was ten years ago and we are coming up on our 27th anniversary together this year.
You should vet her friend circle and punish her for doing what she did that night ten years ago. You should ask her why shouldn't you leave her now for a younger woman the way she was so ready to leave you for that or any other guy 10 years ago.
Don't kid yourself, if she was packing to leave, she certainly was boned and meat-packed by the other dude prior to getting to that point... Happy Anniversary!
Patience is the key. It takes time to learn these things and even more time to learn how to apply them effectively. I am 64 and just getting started again trying to find a good woman that is right for me.
You might be surprised I am in my 70's if your mindset is there you will find one you like too. But dance with a lot of women, they will sell you on dating them. This past week I became available again because the lady I was seeing for a couple of months was talking about remarrying too damn fast. She was beautiful but a lot of artificial parts on this 58 year old. Had a few other factors to that didn't add up for me. I have always been a high value guy. Marni is right if you carry yourself well with confidence women will chase you.
You are amazing Marni! After a 7 year marriage, I didn't know how to date anymore. Always crashed and burned. You helped me open my eyes and see the little mistakes I was making. Now my confidence has sky rocketed and I'm doing well for myself. Regardless, I continue to watch your videos because there is always something more to learn. Thank you again Marni!!! 💯
Ms. Marni, you are 110% on point with every bit of information you share. Honestly, I started watching due to a lack of passion and a dying marriage of 20 years, 5 yrs courtship and 5 amazing kids. Thanks to you being my “personal wing girl” my marriage has been taken to a whole new level in a short amount of time. I watched others very briefly as none of them come close to your insight and gracious wisdom. It’s like we are back in college again and I got my Mojo back. Thank You from the bottom of my heart. Sorry bout the length
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
Marni I’m a disabled veteran who once entertained the ladies. I absolutely love your content as I listen to you and compare your thoughts to what I did in my day. You are so on point 98% of the time. If I had a daughter it would be you!
I truly believe Marni can help steer men in good a direction. But I also know that everything cannot be applied to every man,woman or situation. Make your self a vessel of knowledge, learn to read each woman's nature. Then approach her as if you already know her and the outcome.
To Point No. 3: I fell deeply in Love in a Co-Worker, who showed also interest (by nervousnes, seeking Touch, showing Up to meetings where i was, paying huge Attention to what i have to say, etc.), But unfortunately has a boyfriend. When i enter the room my Heart starts beating faster and i See by her reactions that hers does too. Now she is traveling with her bf and i miss her Like crazy. Altho i do have other Options and seeing a Lot of interest from other women I don't Care and I can't Stop thinking about her.... I do Not Contact her anymore because of her relationship with her bf. But once again she wrote she would Show Up next month with the coworkers we meet. And she knows that i have strong Feelings for her..
I have been doing the buyer's frame from the very start, many years ago. My problem was not going any further. I had no confidence back then, because of low self image. Having fixed that, now I'm having to unlearn showing myself as a friend. But it's taking time to change long established habits.
I don't need dating advice, but a lot of this has spillover into the rest of life. Having confidence is ALWAYS a thing. Building attraction is important WITHIN a marriage.
You actually taught me a crucial life lesson about romance. The third point was an eye opener and I believe I deserve much better. Thanks Marni. You are awesome.
In my 50s and have been married for 24 years. I just watch these videos for entertainment. And because I sure wish I would have had this type of channel and advice in the early 90s when I was young.
These are really good points. I think it has to be internal though, you cant fake a buyer frame, you cant fake self trust and you cant fake an abundance mentality. And the only way you can genuinely be all of these three is to get to the point where you dont need a woman. Another thing I learned is that women are responders, they will respond to your internal state. If you desire a woman, like truly desire her, she'll feel this on a deep level and she'll be drawn to you like a magnet. But it can never be a situation where you're thinking that you need this girl. A man needs his God given purpose in life, women are great and I love them, but it literally says this in the bible: "Woman was made for man, man was not made for woman, man was made for God". And this is the truth that so many guys have forgotten. Love women, for sure, but they are not the answer to the ultimate questions of a mans life.
Yesssssssss Marniiiii, this is what I've been waiting for since Mt last relationship, the abundance mindset really got me cos I was over desperate for the girl I liked and I thought she actually liked me back, we dated for a month, broke up and it really affected me... since last year August till now my mindset repels me from girls...even my university girls know me so well.. The saying is true Once Bitten, Twice Shy Now I've lost allllllll and I mean allllllllllll my confidence in talking to women... I don't know how to even approach a girl anymore But thanks to this Video Farther heights for you Marni cos your videos are😭👌👌👌👌👌👌💯💯💯💯💯💯I'm gonna recommend you to my friends
Try seeing women as equal human beings that you'd like to get to know, treat them as such. See if you two fit well in each other's lives. Works for me.
Pretending my way through life to attract women just gets old real fast. I'm not an actor, and have no desire to alter my behavior to trick girls into thinking I'm someone different than myself. You tripped my "authenticity" trigger.
MARNI!! I'm 60 just been listening for couple weeks holy shit you're so right my son's took me out for my birthday was dancing with all of the ages and was just confident and didn't give a shit thanks kid stay chill
Information of this sort is critical for a society that has gotten bad dating advice from television and movies. Too many of our young men have been frustrated for way too long because what seems like it should work doesn't. Attractive women used to approach me and engage in conversation but during the interaction they would lose interest. Looks aren't as important to women. I had a lot of things going for me but I lacked swagger. I was always told to be modest. I had to change that or I would have been single forever. Don't be overly nice but don't be a jerk either.
I wish I would have found you before I divorced the woman of my dreams. I did not know how to keep her. I did not know what was going on with her. I made a ton of mistakes. Lots of drama. The future woman will get the best of me! Thank you!
Marni your insights from a woman’s perspective are such a valuable resource for the men out here. I would say one thing that you generalize about is the availability of women to date. That might be so if you are in your 20’s, 30’s or 40’s, but when you are 50, 60 or above, the age range option and consequential available women are far more limited.
I’ve recently discovered online dating. I’ve never met this beautiful woman in person but she’s crazy about me. All through the typewritten word. That should tell you something. Jackpot! Marrying type. Subbed and loved Great vid Just dropped out of the blue Synchronicity ❤️
I love your videos I just came out of an unexpected divorce I don’t have a problem talking to women I’ve used the advice that I’ve heard on your channel
Hi Marni. The content you create has helped motivate me to get my life on the right track to improve myself, love myself and see how to attract the right woman for me. Keep up the great work!
Oh Marni you are a goddess indeed! There, I broke one of your rules Marni but it's just a natural thing with us guys we go crazy right away! You are so perfect Marni! Carry on! Oh by the way Marni you have just created your own phsycology method. It is better than the one you learn with books and certified classes!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi Marni, I really appreciate your videos and I have used some of the things you say, they usually work well. But the fact is - the main advice that we can get from you is that we have to make the girl to feel something. And it is already seen as a public knowledge that some people are 'thinkers', and others are 'feelers'. People like me are not good at making people feel something (we induce people to think about something), and furthermore, most of us don't even want to change this thinking behavior in ourselves. It is already automatic, it helps us on our careers, and changing would make us sad and crazy. So that's why I don't buy these 'how to attract women' content anymore. If women like feelers, let it go.
Your videos are amazing. I'm just wondering if there's some kind of audio compression that can be applied to help with the drastic changes in volume. Then your videos would be perfect!
Marni--I know that I've had some criticisms on some of your videos but THIS one is GREAT!! IMHO it's your best video--ESPECIALLY point number 1. It goes back to that classic song: "All that glitters ain't gold." SO TRUE!!
Marni! You are so awesome for doing all of this. I really learn so much from your videos what you teach feels right and not slimey. I have a better understanding of myself and of what women are looking for. As nobody teaches us these imortant skills that help create healthy relationships. All the best in 2023! This is going to be my year, in part of what I have learned from you!!!!
Me asking a woman out: Will you go out with me? Her response: No because I don't know you Me: well how do you expect to get to know me? Her response: I don't
The one-itis portion of this video hit me hard. I recently went through it and it wrecked me. Day to day at work I stuck out the chin and worked hard. But alone it was a hurting mess. Thank you Marni for putting that feeling into one word and explaining it. Just hearing it spelled out helps me with this last little bit here.
Put yourself and your goals as first priority. Maybe down the road if you find a "ride or die" things can shift a little bit. A "ride or die" must prove herself over time.
Hi Marnie just want to say thanks for the videos always most appreciative.. And also want to add that ,you're absolutely right about everything you say in this video. You're right about so many dating gurus give you so many things it overloads you. Again thanks a lot honey.
Marni, the way you're using the word trick is in the sense of taking something that normally seems complicated and making it simple. The trick is to use a dictionary. (See what I did there?)
Buyer's frame ... i didn't know it was called that but that's how i ended up with my wife (of 21 years)! Interestingly enough it was the exact opposite though, I thought she was kind of a snob at first but decided to not let First Impressions be the last impressions and decided I wanted to get to know a little more about her and ended up actually really liking her.
One day my wife told me to get out of the house. I quietly walked upstairs, put my stuff in a bag and came back downstairs. Still not saying anything I opened the door and she said where are you going to go? I said what do you care you just threw me out. I will worry she says. Not only did I not leave, Ive been around for 33 years.
Hey Marni, I'm a big fan of yours! You've helped me a lot. I have a question: Do you know of any "women who want to date men" relationship gurus that are similar to your style that I could recommend to my female friends and relatives? Thanks!
1.-don't act needy. (Don't give away attention and validation that they don't deserve). 2.- be confident. (Judt Be confident don't act confident). 3.- don't put all of your eggs into one basket.(always have bitches aside) because they have other dudes aside, just in case of. What I really think is that: Only boys chase women, men chase excellence and success and women chase those kind of men. Work in yourselves brothers! 💪✌👊
This is all great advice. The problem is that most guys can't simply turn off their anxiety with a switch. When I was in college, I got a girl interested in me because I was relaxed and not showing any signs of insecurity. The next time she saw me, I was all frantically worried about a bunch of shit and she dropped me like a used tampon. But that's just the damn way I am--cool one day, twitchy the next. I'm not going to force a fake persona just to get laid. If a girl doesn't like me for who I am at any given time, so be it. Enough is enough.
Have a argument regarding the last point What if you have emotional attachment with the girl Emotional attachment has developed because I have been with this girl in her dark phase
Marni! I really struggle with the scarcity mindset for two reasons; one, I never see women I’m attracted to in my area, anywhere. Two, I’m in my 40s and I’ve never met a woman I’d want to end up with, ever! And I work in gyms, lived in 4 states, travel and go out! I just don’t know if they exist! Maybe my mom set the bar too high? She’s like a perfect mom. But I’ve never met any woman who can keep up or hold my attraction. Most are annoying, insecure, boring & or lazy! That disgusts me and turns me off, big time! I feel so lost. I’m about to give up. I can get ‘em but I don’t want em. I’m starting to thing she doesn’t exist! 🤷🏼
same im about 40 and learned women only want looks and money. they will judge you right off the bat if you dont meet their standards of attractiveness or monetary wealth. they are also extremely lazy, they want the man to give them everything they want, they dont want to work for things themselves. they are also very narcisstic, the internet ruined people, they are constantly looking for attention from a lot of different people and dont do commitments. once they get bored of you they just move on to someone else.
I don’t want women chasing me….really rather not interact at all. Most men have reached this point. Thanks tho Marni….could have used this 20 years ago. Too little too late
So, what if a guy knows he has options, but he also knows exactly who he wants to be with? What if he's just a good, loyal, non-cheating, ethical guy and he doesn't want to waste. Anyone's time? Let's say there's not a "scarcity," nor does the guy feel that there is a scarcity because he has other women who expressed interest in him, but he knows who he wants to be with. Then his one-itis isn't based on desperation. It's just that he's confident in himself, knows what he wants, and what he wants is to live a happy life with the one and only girl that deserves his time and energy to that degree.
Lol... loved that "give me ,give me, give me!literally what most men do when approaching a beautiful woman,thanks for the video Marni,you're one of my two favorite utube channels on relationships.... Saludos! ✌🏽😉
Thanks for the tips. Your the jacket how much is the price? 😂 Lol. Most of these videos try to make you buy something. But I've watched a lot of your videos already
Just looking for that one? Wrong sight and there really isn't a right one. Life is a never ending challenge. Good luck and happy trails. Go negative and it gets longer and more complicated.
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How do i ??
Best advice video I have seen from you Marni!
@@becominghumble wow!! Thank you ;-)
@@davidatyson she said that to me too bro
@@davidatyson that is a fact
the buyer frame 1:23
uncompromised self trust 4:42
the abundance mentality 9:02
So there's 3 tips work?
@@travisandrews3909 also the tip between your legs also helps. Ha ha!
Thank you for this!
Thanks she blabbering on a lot in most videos ..it's tough enough out there for a thug
@@tobedeleted2030 for sure
I think what you are saying is not only true in dating a woman, but also in keeping her. I have had friends who were so clingy "needy" that their wives or girl friends left them. There was a moment in my relationship with my wife where she was having another man show interest in her. It was never physical, but I know she was really thinking about leaving. She started doing the thing people do where they point out all of your flaws (that they were once fine with) in order to feel justified about leaving. It finally came to a head one night when she was packing a suit case to move out. I had to fight my instinct to get on my knees and beg her to stay. I just went in the other room as she packed. She came out and looked at me asking, "Aren't you even going to fight for me?" I looked her in the eyes and said, "Baby, it will break my heart if you leave, but I won't curl up in a ball and die." I said, "I will keep going and I know I will make it okay." "I love you and don't want you to go and believe we are better together, but I will live on and be fine if you leave." What I had done was show her I wasn't desperate and needy. I was confident in myself. Confident to live and even find love again. She went back in the bedroom and after a long while she came out and told me she was staying. That was ten years ago and we are coming up on our 27th anniversary together this year.
You should vet her friend circle and punish her for doing what she did that night ten years ago.
You should ask her why shouldn't you leave her now for a younger woman the way she was so ready to leave you for that or any other guy 10 years ago.
@@EriPages that's childish. Stop thinking like a spoiled brat.
Don't kid yourself, if she was packing to leave, she certainly was boned and meat-packed by the other dude prior to getting to that point... Happy Anniversary!
Lol dude..
Never physical,one born every single day🤣🤣
Patience is the key. It takes time to learn these things and even more time to learn how to apply them effectively. I am 64 and just getting started again trying to find a good woman that is right for me.
I'm 34 and
I think I should freeze the sperm just in case it takes me another 30 years
to make enough progress.
You might be surprised I am in my 70's if your mindset is there you will find one you like too. But dance with a lot of women, they will sell you on dating them. This past week I became available again because the lady I was seeing for a couple of months was talking about remarrying too damn fast. She was beautiful but a lot of artificial parts on this 58 year old. Had a few other factors to that didn't add up for me. I have always been a high value guy. Marni is right if you carry yourself well with confidence women will chase you.
Im 38 years old and im trying to find a woman ? Lmao
@@mhochwa721 does that mean you take Viaggio
😂😂😂
You are amazing Marni! After a 7 year marriage, I didn't know how to date anymore. Always crashed and burned. You helped me open my eyes and see the little mistakes I was making. Now my confidence has sky rocketed and I'm doing well for myself. Regardless, I continue to watch your videos because there is always something more to learn. Thank you again Marni!!! 💯
I went through the same thing a few years back. Once you understand that confidence is key it becomes a game changer.
Ms. Marni, you are 110% on point with every bit of information you share. Honestly, I started watching due to a lack of passion and a dying marriage of 20 years, 5 yrs courtship and 5 amazing kids. Thanks to you being my “personal wing girl” my marriage has been taken to a whole new level in a short amount of time. I watched others very briefly as none of them come close to your insight and gracious wisdom. It’s like we are back in college again and I got my Mojo back. Thank You from the bottom of my heart. Sorry bout the length
I got my mojo back because i watch her videos
Dude thats awesome! She is amazing in all her videos!
Respecting yourself by believing in yourself and that this confidence becomes a turn on. It’s all about confidence. Good insights by Marni.
It's all about lying to oneself?
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
Confidence does work
@@travisandrews3909 Confidence added with attractiveness is What is attractive to women, NOT confidence exclusively.
@@VoidDweller86 confidence does works
This stuff works. My girlfriend is beautiful and we are very happy and have been for over a year. Thank you so much!
Marni
I’m a disabled veteran who once entertained the ladies. I absolutely love your content as I listen to you and compare your thoughts to what I did in my day. You are so on point 98% of the time. If I had a daughter it would be you!
Same her too
self trust? I LOVE it. Perfect strategy for continual success.
That is a fact
I truly believe Marni can help steer men in good a direction. But I also know that everything cannot be applied to every man,woman or situation. Make your self a vessel of knowledge, learn to read each woman's nature. Then approach her as if you already know her and the outcome.
So do i bro
To Point No. 3: I fell deeply in Love in a Co-Worker, who showed also interest (by nervousnes, seeking Touch, showing Up to meetings where i was, paying huge Attention to what i have to say, etc.), But unfortunately has a boyfriend. When i enter the room my Heart starts beating faster and i See by her reactions that hers does too. Now she is traveling with her bf and i miss her Like crazy. Altho i do have other Options and seeing a Lot of interest from other women I don't Care and I can't Stop thinking about her.... I do Not Contact her anymore because of her relationship with her bf. But once again she wrote she would Show Up next month with the coworkers we meet. And she knows that i have strong Feelings for her..
That's a good thing... We are supposed to feel such strong feelings... Towards that woman. That we will always feel we have to do our very best
I think Marni is the only 1 who is guiding us genuinely thanks not enough .
Yes she is
I have been doing the buyer's frame from the very start, many years ago. My problem was not going any further. I had no confidence back then, because of low self image. Having fixed that, now I'm having to unlearn showing myself as a friend. But it's taking time to change long established habits.
I don't need dating advice, but a lot of this has spillover into the rest of life. Having confidence is ALWAYS a thing. Building attraction is important WITHIN a marriage.
I need dating advice
You actually taught me a crucial life lesson about romance. The third point was an eye opener and I believe I deserve much better. Thanks Marni. You are awesome.
That is a good point
In my 50s and have been married for 24 years. I just watch these videos for entertainment. And because I sure wish I would have had this type of channel and advice in the early 90s when I was young.
Im sure it worked for you?
If you are interested in dating I would memorize her advice. She knows what she is saying
@@wcg19891 yes she does
@@wcg19891 defiantly i will
@@wcg19891 but she takes much too much for granted
These are really good points. I think it has to be internal though, you cant fake a buyer frame, you cant fake self trust and you cant fake an abundance mentality. And the only way you can genuinely be all of these three is to get to the point where you dont need a woman. Another thing I learned is that women are responders, they will respond to your internal state. If you desire a woman, like truly desire her, she'll feel this on a deep level and she'll be drawn to you like a magnet. But it can never be a situation where you're thinking that you need this girl. A man needs his God given purpose in life, women are great and I love them, but it literally says this in the bible: "Woman was made for man, man was not made for woman, man was made for God". And this is the truth that so many guys have forgotten. Love women, for sure, but they are not the answer to the ultimate questions of a mans life.
Yesssssssss Marniiiii, this is what I've been waiting for since Mt last relationship, the abundance mindset really got me cos I was over desperate for the girl I liked and I thought she actually liked me back, we dated for a month, broke up and it really affected me... since last year August till now my mindset repels me from girls...even my university girls know me so well.. The saying is true
Once Bitten, Twice Shy
Now I've lost allllllll and I mean allllllllllll my confidence in talking to women... I don't know how to even approach a girl anymore
But thanks to this Video
Farther heights for you Marni cos your videos are😭👌👌👌👌👌👌💯💯💯💯💯💯I'm gonna recommend you to my friends
Try seeing women as equal human beings that you'd like to get to know, treat them as such. See if you two fit well in each other's lives. Works for me.
Hang in there! ✌️
Ive been waiting for this too
@@tehmoldi5915 wow so smart. Wish more guys would understand this!! Women ARE people with personalities.. and THATS what matters.. compatibility
Beautifully simple and straight to the point. I love it . Keep up the Awesome advice!!
Pretending my way through life to attract women just gets old real fast. I'm not an actor, and have no desire to alter my behavior to trick girls into thinking I'm someone different than myself. You tripped my "authenticity" trigger.
MARNI!! I'm 60 just been listening for couple weeks holy shit you're so right my son's took me out for my birthday was dancing with all of the ages and was just confident and didn't give a shit thanks kid stay chill
No shit confidence works old man
Information of this sort is critical for a society that has gotten bad dating advice from television and movies. Too many of our young men have been frustrated for way too long because what seems like it should work doesn't. Attractive women used to approach me and engage in conversation but during the interaction they would lose interest. Looks aren't as important to women. I had a lot of things going for me but I lacked swagger. I was always told to be modest. I had to change that or I would have been single forever. Don't be overly nice but don't be a jerk either.
I wish I would have found you before I divorced the woman of my dreams. I did not know how to keep her. I did not know what was going on with her. I made a ton of mistakes. Lots of drama. The future woman will get the best of me! Thank you!
Bro i wish i would of found her too
Marni your insights from a woman’s perspective are such a valuable resource for the men out here. I would say one thing that you generalize about is the availability of women to date. That might be so if you are in your 20’s, 30’s or 40’s, but when you are 50, 60 or above, the age range option and consequential available women are far more limited.
There are so many beautiful women out there. That is soooo true.
I’ve recently discovered online dating. I’ve never met this beautiful woman in person but she’s crazy about me. All through the typewritten word. That should tell you something. Jackpot! Marrying type.
Subbed and loved
Great vid
Just dropped out of the blue
Synchronicity ❤️
I love your videos I just came out of an unexpected divorce I don’t have a problem talking to women I’ve used the advice that I’ve heard on your channel
These are not "tricks", Marni. You're just describing normal, healthy human behavior and attitudes.
You'd be surprised at how often men don't do these tips
Even better😛
Love the buyer’s frame analogy
Hi Marni. The content you create has helped motivate me to get my life on the right track to improve myself, love myself and see how to attract the right woman for me. Keep up the great work!
Oh Marni you are a goddess indeed! There, I broke one of your rules Marni but it's just a natural thing with us guys we go crazy right away! You are so perfect Marni! Carry on! Oh by the way Marni you have just created your own phsycology method. It is better than the one you learn with books and certified classes!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah being yourself is best and doing whatever you want to do is best for you and her
No. That's horrible advice.
@@RonaldM992000 so one need to manipulate enough to get into her pants 👖
She been watching AMS 😂😂 lol
The fear of failure is self-damaging. A better mindset is "or you win, or you learn".
Hi Marni, I really appreciate your videos and I have used some of the things you say, they usually work well. But the fact is - the main advice that we can get from you is that we have to make the girl to feel something. And it is already seen as a public knowledge that some people are 'thinkers', and others are 'feelers'. People like me are not good at making people feel something (we induce people to think about something), and furthermore, most of us don't even want to change this thinking behavior in ourselves. It is already automatic, it helps us on our careers, and changing would make us sad and crazy. So that's why I don't buy these 'how to attract women' content anymore. If women like feelers, let it go.
So do i
Marni, another great video laying out simple things to “ level up”!
So wish CZcams and people like you were around 30 years ago when I really needed stuff like this!! X
World class athletes take what the defense gives them! Should do that for every interaction you have!
You are such a good professional, excellent marketing’ wow
This girl speaks truth
Your videos are amazing. I'm just wondering if there's some kind of audio compression that can be applied to help with the drastic changes in volume. Then your videos would be perfect!
What? Talk about missing the point. She's trying to save your ass, and you're thinking about technology.
Here videos are amazing
Marni--I know that I've had some criticisms on some of your videos but THIS one is GREAT!! IMHO it's your best video--ESPECIALLY point number 1. It goes back to that classic song: "All that glitters ain't gold." SO TRUE!!
It is definitely so true
This channel has changed my life
You need to do a video for guys over 65 LOL all your advice is great !
Thanks wing girl you are helping alot of good guys get girls they deserve
Yes she is
that behavior simply isnt something you can just do. its a behavior learned from many years of approaching and interacting with women
Marni and Based Zeus are the two best dating coaches on CZcams.
Marni!
You are so awesome for doing all of this. I really learn so much from your videos what you teach feels right and not slimey. I have a better understanding of myself and of what women are looking for. As nobody teaches us these imortant skills that help create healthy relationships.
All the best in 2023! This is going to be my year, in part of what I have learned from you!!!!
I suffered from one-itist often. Especially with the last woman I was after. I suffered a lot because I didn’t think I was good enough.
Same her bro
Me asking a woman out: Will you go out with me?
Her response: No because I don't know you
Me: well how do you expect to get to know me?
Her response: I don't
The one-itis portion of this video hit me hard. I recently went through it and it wrecked me. Day to day at work I stuck out the chin and worked hard. But alone it was a hurting mess. Thank you Marni for putting that feeling into one word and explaining it. Just hearing it spelled out helps me with this last little bit here.
Does this work 🤔??
Put yourself and your goals as first priority. Maybe down the road if you find a "ride or die" things can shift a little bit. A "ride or die" must prove herself over time.
Hi Marnie just want to say thanks for the videos always most appreciative.. And also want to add that ,you're absolutely right about everything you say in this video. You're right about so many dating gurus give you so many things it overloads you. Again thanks a lot honey.
Lol.. Unknowingly i have these traits. 🤣🤣🤣 When i dated a celebrity i always did this. She is still chasing me 😍
Bro im definitely do that lmao 🤣 😂 😭
Marni, the way you're using the word trick is in the sense of taking something that normally seems complicated and making it simple. The trick is to use a dictionary. (See what I did there?)
Defiantly bro
I'm lost
Marni, this video is the most common sense and practical advice I have heard from you. At least, it resonated with me. Thanks
Fact
Buyer's frame ... i didn't know it was called that but that's how i ended up with my wife (of 21 years)! Interestingly enough it was the exact opposite though, I thought she was kind of a snob at first but decided to not let First Impressions be the last impressions and decided I wanted to get to know a little more about her and ended up actually really liking her.
Point no 3 hit me like truck.
Talk about how to attract Shy women. Please dive deep with young women obsession with older men. Great content. Thank you ❤💋💋💋🌹
One day my wife told me to get out of the house. I quietly walked upstairs, put my stuff in a bag and came back downstairs. Still not saying anything I opened the door and she said where are you going to go? I said what do you care you just threw me out. I will worry she says. Not only did I not leave, Ive been around for 33 years.
Hey Marni, I'm a big fan of yours! You've helped me a lot. I have a question: Do you know of any "women who want to date men" relationship gurus that are similar to your style that I could recommend to my female friends and relatives? Thanks!
Thank you!! Yes - matthew hussey. He is great!
@@marnikinrys Awesome! Thx!
Im a big fan of marni too.!
1.-don't act needy. (Don't give away attention and validation that they don't deserve).
2.- be confident. (Judt Be confident don't act confident).
3.- don't put all of your eggs into one basket.(always have bitches aside) because they have other dudes aside, just in case of.
What I really think is that:
Only boys chase women, men chase excellence and success and women chase those kind of men.
Work in yourselves brothers! 💪✌👊
thank you mom! This is a step up in coaching for sure.
Same her
This is all great advice. The problem is that most guys can't simply turn off their anxiety with a switch. When I was in college, I got a girl interested in me because I was relaxed and not showing any signs of insecurity. The next time she saw me, I was all frantically worried about a bunch of shit and she dropped me like a used tampon. But that's just the damn way I am--cool one day, twitchy the next. I'm not going to force a fake persona just to get laid. If a girl doesn't like me for who I am at any given time, so be it. Enough is enough.
Just be yourself is the best option.
More people need to get real with them self.
Just watching your videos Makes me wanna be a better man if I had someone like you I'd have a word
Have a argument regarding the last point
What if you have emotional attachment with the girl
Emotional attachment has developed because I have been with this girl in her dark phase
I love the name MARNI... it just sounds cool
So do i
Who knew crack attracted women? Best tip ever.
It doesn't attract the kind of women I want to be with.
The buyers mindset is actually a pretty good frame to have. Thanks!
The question I always ask is. Why can't I attract women like crazy, instead of crazy women.
Will Smith should watch all of Marni's videos.
I really find this woman interesting her advice is above and beyond
So am i
6:57 fax trust ur instincts baby
What I did take away from this video is that I need to start trusting my instincts and just going with what my gut says
Boom 💥
Im definitely going to listen to my gut too
That has never been a good idea for me
@@fischersfritz468 for me it has
@@fischersfritz468 why isn't a good idea?
Marni! I really struggle with the scarcity mindset for two reasons; one, I never see women I’m attracted to in my area, anywhere. Two, I’m in my 40s and I’ve never met a woman I’d want to end up with, ever! And I work in gyms, lived in 4 states, travel and go out! I just don’t know if they exist! Maybe my mom set the bar too high? She’s like a perfect mom. But I’ve never met any woman who can keep up or hold my attraction. Most are annoying, insecure, boring & or lazy! That disgusts me and turns me off, big time! I feel so lost. I’m about to give up. I can get ‘em but I don’t want em. I’m starting to thing she doesn’t exist! 🤷🏼
Same her
Modern woman don't want to do chores, they want guy's to do it for them
Bro im single and im in the middle of my 30s
same im about 40 and learned women only want looks and money. they will judge you right off the bat if you dont meet their standards of attractiveness or monetary wealth. they are also extremely lazy, they want the man to give them everything they want, they dont want to work for things themselves. they are also very narcisstic, the internet ruined people, they are constantly looking for attention from a lot of different people and dont do commitments. once they get bored of you they just move on to someone else.
@@danjones6702 bro that is a fact women want your money 💰
Marni please!!!
I don’t want women chasing me….really rather not interact at all. Most men have reached this point. Thanks tho Marni….could have used this 20 years ago. Too little too late
So, what if a guy knows he has options, but he also knows exactly who he wants to be with? What if he's just a good, loyal, non-cheating, ethical guy and he doesn't want to waste. Anyone's time? Let's say there's not a "scarcity," nor does the guy feel that there is a scarcity because he has other women who expressed interest in him, but he knows who he wants to be with. Then his one-itis isn't based on desperation. It's just that he's confident in himself, knows what he wants, and what he wants is to live a happy life with the one and only girl that deserves his time and energy to that degree.
Cool Video. As a guy u just have to be fully present- yes instincts. That is it.
This little tricks work but without my cheat sheet I'm f'd Lol
Marni is growing on me. 😍
It's personality first, second it's looks then 3rd it how they carry themselves. But in saying this I ain't got anyone yet after 45 yrs.
Apropos of nothing, I love the way you say "button."
There's a saying. "Slow and steady wins the race".
If you are ugly, women couldn't careless about your confidence or your nice personality.
“I wanna try her on and see if she’s a good fit” -instantly thought of Leatherface and Buffalo Bill hahaha
I don't want a bunch I just want one beautiful minded woman who is faithful and doesn't always want attention
Thank you you are so right 👍
Awesome advice and I totally agree. This is one time guys can learn how to catch a fish from a fish.👍
Lol... loved that "give me ,give me, give me!literally what most men do when approaching a beautiful woman,thanks for the video Marni,you're one of my two favorite utube channels on relationships.... Saludos! ✌🏽😉
I had to save this video so I could watch it twice!
I also hade to save this video too twice
The thing is I have been maintaining all these techniques for many years and I have many GFs and I never enjoyed any beauty ,.
Im still looking
As a man, this is so ridiculous. Having shown this to some of my female friends(some marrired and some not), they call horseshit as well.
Thanks for the tips. Your the jacket how much is the price? 😂 Lol. Most of these videos try to make you buy
something. But I've watched a lot of your videos already
thanks, good video
Just looking for that one?
Wrong sight and there really isn't a right one. Life is a never ending challenge.
Good luck and happy trails.
Go negative and it gets longer and more complicated.
Something so true about the look and not character and personality. Shake the tree a bit and see what falls down, you might not like like it.
MONEY!