you should take a gap year.

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  • čas přidán 31. 12. 2021
  • a letter to a stranger,
    hey - hope you are doing well :)
    this past year I had the opportunity of taking a year off of school to pursue my passions and it's been one of the most uncomfortable, yet fulfilling times of my life.
    it's always been scary going against the grain and part of me still believes that what i'm doing isn't right.
    But at the end of the day there is nothing else i would rather being doing and that's all that matters.
    Love you guys so so much
    See you in 2022.
    -Simon
    podcast: anchor.fm/keepitwholesome
    instagram: / wholesomesimon
    clothing brand: / keepingitwholesome
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    if you're reading this I love you - dm me if you want to talk.

Komentáře • 52

  • @MariahAlice
    @MariahAlice Před 2 lety +118

    I wish I had videos like this popping up on my home page when I was 17 lol.
    I’ve taken two gap years, and both were the best decisions I’ve ever made. That being said, those years were also the loneliest and most confusing years of my life, but it’s funny what happens when you just keep moving forward, past the fear and insecurity, aimlessness, & fomo. Excited to see where 2022 takes you!

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  Před 2 lety +7

      I had no clue you took gap years as well! Appreciate the comment mariah! you're gonna do amazing this year :)

  • @saadzainnn
    @saadzainnn Před 2 lety +83

    that feeling of uncertainty that revolves around a gap year is literally what I'm stuck in currently, it's proven to be quite a new and alienating experience so far, thank you for inspiring me :)

    • @Eladtiv
      @Eladtiv Před měsícem

      Hello, i know its already been 2 years, but Im genuinely curious about where u are now? Im pretty antsy and scared about my gap uear rn, and I hope to see how that would realistically turn out? Thanks so much in advance!!

    • @saadzainnn
      @saadzainnn Před měsícem

      @@Eladtiv I didn’t end up doing the gap year after all. But to answer your question, life works in weird ways. After joining college, I started working a full time job building a CZcams channel to 500k, I started my own company, had over 10 employees at one point, worked with the biggest creators and so on… my point isn’t to brag, but to tell you that those uncertain years where I’d envisioned so much eventually started becoming reality when I worked towards it. Every stage is necessary, don’t ever stay paralysed in fear, I’m sure you’ll achieve the dreams that you have. Go and get it mate, all the best 🙌

  • @taniatalvarez
    @taniatalvarez Před 2 lety +20

    as someone your age, i don’t have my life figured out at all. i’m glad you chose to focus on your business. i’m glad you’re pursuing a dream of yours. i’m so proud of you simon. i can’t wait to see what the future has in store for you!

  • @AaronClemons.
    @AaronClemons. Před 2 lety +60

    Your videos are so inspiring. I relate to so much of what you're saying

  • @livnthespontaneous3161
    @livnthespontaneous3161 Před 2 lety +24

    I know that I am a complete stranger, but I've just started my first year or uni and I have no clue yet what I want to do with my life yet, so it been mostly a mix of feel'n lost and a little lonely at times. And I just wanted to let you know that your videos have been very helpful and inspiring for me during these times. So I wanted to thank you for that!

  • @sanderhoefsloot6852
    @sanderhoefsloot6852 Před 2 lety +21

    Feeling down and listening to a song called 'Float' and then seeing the notification for this video. This must be a sign haha. I love your videos! HNY

  • @juliawagner9846
    @juliawagner9846 Před 2 lety +16

    I totally felt that …. I’ve been floating for so long now, there are so many things i want to achieve but I literally can’t focus. Live goes by in the blink of an eye and I feel like I’ve wasted so much time already. Thank you for the video it’s really an inspiration 🙏🏽and a motivation to get my ass back up 😂

    • @phoebetang3884
      @phoebetang3884 Před 8 měsíci +1

      hey! i don't know where you are now! but I hope that, just in case, if you're still floating through life feeling like a bystander than an active participant of your own life, that yes, you'd try to get back into the momentum of a routine again. but also, most importantly, that you validate and give yourself the space to fall, to feel confused, to have time to process all the emotions you're feeling instead of rushing through them because you feel you need to be "put together". life is more than perfection, and getting it right. sometimes the joy (as cliche as it sounds) is staying in the present. and sometimes that may look like sticking through the really tough experiences with grace and empathy towards yourself! hope you're well! much love from singapore :)

  • @BarknoorZ
    @BarknoorZ Před 2 lety +11

    4:22 - 4:32 this whole part I relate to so much. I'm so glad I found your channel.

  • @multirotormanish7220
    @multirotormanish7220 Před 2 lety +3

    Well done Simon! Happy New Year and much success to you in the new year!

  • @nathancombong_
    @nathancombong_ Před 2 lety +5

    Happy new year simon, i hope 2022 will be good to you and to all of us.

  • @beccam2667
    @beccam2667 Před 2 lety +7

    i’m actually crying this is beautiful. you always say exactly what i need to hear without me even knowing i have to hear it, thankyou so much. i really hope you achieve your goals !!

  • @aisyaabdulhalim6854
    @aisyaabdulhalim6854 Před 2 lety +3

    Taking a gap year too and been feeling all the same things. Thanks sm for sharing. You got this, Simon 🙌

  • @luno6448
    @luno6448 Před 2 lety +6

    You got me crying only seconds in when lvs started playing, I knew it was going to be a great lesson when I heard the music. The a silent voice soundtrack always hits hard! Happy new year Simon!!

  • @janelycardenas6771
    @janelycardenas6771 Před 2 lety +2

    it’s been 2 years since i’ve graduated college and i can soooo relate to the ‘structure’ aspect of the difficulty in ‘staying consistent’ to achieve your goals… this feels heart warming and reassuring, i loved watching (-,:

  • @Mirae_06
    @Mirae_06 Před 2 lety +3

    I am 16 and I found your channel today and idk how to say but THANK YOU for these beautiful videos.

  • @juliamonik4835
    @juliamonik4835 Před 2 lety +3

    I have to say that i'm in this community for a year or sth and i've never seen yours videos on yt and now i see how much i lost bc of that xd I'm 19 years old and i also took a gap year but before i started collage. The term "floating" is so accurate tho. In about few months i will have to search for a university again and i didn't figure out anything by this time. Maybe this message is kinda chaotic but i wanna show you my appreciation for your words. Bc of that i feel less lonely in the direction i choose. Thank you. I wish u all the best for this New Year. Keep It Wholesome✊ Love ya❤️

  • @taylormarks
    @taylormarks Před 2 lety +4

    Trust your gut :). Keep this up... you're doing some great stuff dude!!

  • @divineofomaja
    @divineofomaja Před 2 lety

    I found your channel from Max' and I love you Simon. You just made me realize that I really hated appearing in photos or videos as a kid but now I make videos with my face... I will love myself💗

  • @oranjade8689
    @oranjade8689 Před 2 lety +3

    i freaking love your videos!!

  • @magdaleaba
    @magdaleaba Před 2 lety +3

    these videos are so comforting. I've been sinking back into that feeling like nothing really matters and that I'm not really doing anything with my life without my routine.
    u make me feel seen:)

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  Před 2 lety +3

      Love ya maggie proud of you for that :) we all get there from time to time!

  • @nevfox8118
    @nevfox8118 Před rokem

    Thank you for this. I'm currently figuring out if I want to do a gap year. I've been doing research on gap years, trying to find some guidance and this video has helped me a lot, thanks again!!

  • @mellowmidori
    @mellowmidori Před 2 lety +2

    happy new year simon!

  • @TrueFacts100
    @TrueFacts100 Před 2 lety +2

    Just love myself & love you too bro.

  • @ifatisfri
    @ifatisfri Před 7 měsíci +2

    I'm exactly in this situation rn. This year I had this opportunity and I took it. Now, a few months later I'm crying in my own room cuz idk what I should do with my life. don't get me wrong I don't regret the decision I made! (I'm 100% sure I'd be worse if I was in college💀😭) I just haven't found my path yet but ik I will. sooner or later, I will find it. Btw I found this video by accident and I'm so happy abt it. Tysm🤍

  • @GUM-ER55
    @GUM-ER55 Před 2 lety +2

    I've been thinking my whole life what i wanted to do and who i aspired to become but I was to late to realize now that my life is really messed up ..... i dont know who i am anymore, and what i like to do
    Everything looks and feels indifferent to me
    in the past i wanted to end it all and now those thoughts have returned to hunt me again...
    But I want to change...and i was thinking about doing this "gap"
    I'm really scared actually... but I still want to try.
    I want to get better and this video helped me
    So, thank you!

  • @aaaaqqqq7122
    @aaaaqqqq7122 Před 2 lety +2

    thank you so much for keeping me alive

  • @itstonycia
    @itstonycia Před rokem

    I just subscribed. I’m really enjoying ur videos 😢

  • @hadithelegend3358
    @hadithelegend3358 Před 2 lety

    i didn't go to school for 2 years actually because my family couldn't pay when i was young sadly, but amazing video bruv :) hope your doing good

  • @itsevelinakp
    @itsevelinakp Před 2 lety +4

    You are so talented on creating!!!

  • @Clara-uy9kv
    @Clara-uy9kv Před 2 lety

    I am currently in the floating stage of my Gap year, but I enjoy it. To be honest I don't want to go back to the prison of structure. For the past half year I was deciding after my gut feeling and it has been the best decision yet.

  • @its_jushi
    @its_jushi Před 2 lety +4

    I have to say that your notification is my favourite one

  • @nova5631
    @nova5631 Před rokem

    hey! i’m your age and about to take a gap year this next year, thanks for this video

  • @mapsimus
    @mapsimus Před 2 lety +2

    " SIMON Don't Stop "

  • @DuyenNguyen-ql8hk
    @DuyenNguyen-ql8hk Před rokem

    Dear Simon, you are now my comfort vlogger.

  • @Hehehe-fj9uz
    @Hehehe-fj9uz Před 2 lety

    6:50 I like the Ryan Ng style 😉

  • @lifexearth
    @lifexearth Před rokem

    4:14
    Simon: "I've developed a caffine addiction."
    Me: 'Holding a Monster Can as I watch this video.' 😂🤣
    I've had 3 cans of Monster within the past 2 weeks, which obviously isn't bad. But is more often than what I would usually drink compared to many months in past. 😅

  • @prestonmahone903
    @prestonmahone903 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️

  • @luisfilms
    @luisfilms Před 2 lety +2

    yayayayayayayayayyayayaya

  • @nanya1470
    @nanya1470 Před 2 lety

    In which place you live?

  • @soupfor1886
    @soupfor1886 Před 2 lety

    5:57

  • @polaroidlove4303
    @polaroidlove4303 Před 2 lety +1

    Simon is just 18 :) I thought he is 26 :(

  • @veefilms__
    @veefilms__ Před 4 měsíci

    this video only applies to rich kids

  • @wonniezr
    @wonniezr Před 2 lety

    q

  • @marissaharg3tt
    @marissaharg3tt Před rokem

    I just found you and you are amazing. I’m so glad I found your content 🤎🤎