Developing Emotional Intelligence

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  • @DocSnipes
    @DocSnipes  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @LawNerdAmber
    @LawNerdAmber Před 2 lety +10

    a skill i was not born with. THANK YOU Doc Snipes!!!!

  • @billthelen6524
    @billthelen6524 Před rokem +5

    Thank you Dr Snipes for your knowledge on emotions and for sharing this with us. Emotionally, I'm a wall. Quite often, I'm afraid of my emotions. I don't know how to feel good. I have been taught that to know our emotions we have to first name them. Thanks for explaining how to name our emotions and how to learn the function of our emotions. I'm afraid of getting to know my emotions. Usually my emotions are wrapped up in anger. Thank you for teaching us what emotional intelligence is. 1) to name the emotion, 2) to know the function of the emotions, 3) to learn the triggers of our emotions. Winnie the Pooh characters give us good examples of different emotions. Distress tolerant thoughts and activities are excellent techniques for handling the emotions. Thank you again Dr. Snipes for your teaching on emotions.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před rokem +2

      You’re so welcome, Bill. I hope you know how grateful I am for you and how blessed I feel to help you in your journey. As you know, Anger is the Fight part of our threat response system. It acts like a bulldozer and pushes people away but does nothing to resolve the underlying issue.
      You have to take a look at what is underneath that anger. What is the threat that your body is trying to protect you from?
      Once you have identified that, other issues, issues related to why you are afraid to show weakness can be dealt with. Remember, you have to deal with all emotional aspects of a situation.

    • @billthelen6524
      @billthelen6524 Před rokem

      @@DocSnipes
      Thank you Dr. Snipes. ☺️ You have helped me to grow by leaps and bounds.

    • @dr_candiru7817
      @dr_candiru7817 Před 8 měsíci

      @@DocSnipesthanks for sharing this.

  • @edgreen8140
    @edgreen8140 Před 2 lety +6

    The ability to bounce back from stressors and insight/ judgment.

  • @Mari3.14
    @Mari3.14 Před měsícem

    You are amazing, Dr Snipes! Thank you for this video, this is very helpful!

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před měsícem

      Thank you. You’re most welcome

  • @andrewlowe2962
    @andrewlowe2962 Před 2 lety +9

    Your easy to understand, thanks for keeping it simple. Great information and is being used, can’t wait to hear more.

  • @lmnmoves
    @lmnmoves Před 2 lety +9

    🙏🏽🧡🙏🏽🧡🙏🏽🧡 .I am praying for everyone who needs a Miracle. Only God can do the impossible, He can make a way when there seems to be no way. Today I pray God touches your health, your home, your family, your faith, and your finances. God bless you Amen!

    • @AllahuAkbaruKabirah
      @AllahuAkbaruKabirah Před rokem +1

      You are right But God is one not 3 and Jesus PBUH is his slave and messenger God has no son and Muhammad is his slave and last messenger for all people God has sent the Quran as a light for guidance and it's the last book ,read it may Allah guide you to the truth

    • @gSWG3R
      @gSWG3R Před 10 měsíci +1

      You're both hilarious.

    • @iCodeForBananas
      @iCodeForBananas Před 6 měsíci

      God is dead HAIL SATAN

  • @moniqueabundance
    @moniqueabundance Před 2 lety +6

    Appreciate you Dr. Snipes. Amazing. Wishing you all the very best in life ❤

  • @MT-tj8bw
    @MT-tj8bw Před 2 lety +5

    I’m midway through this video and it’s already so great. I wanted to make sure I commented and thanked you for making this before I forgot. Great work!!

  • @theoneinhidingart6164
    @theoneinhidingart6164 Před 2 lety +5

    You're badass doc 🤘 Thanks for teaching us.

  • @dddamaged7501
    @dddamaged7501 Před 2 lety +3

    My POV, tigger is high in openness to experience, piglet is highly neurotic, rabbit is disagreeable. Flavour of the month, the big 5.

  • @beatlessbeauty1106
    @beatlessbeauty1106 Před 11 měsíci

    Doc Snipes asks a very key question @8:38 mark....I would say adjusting verbiage accordingly will help to identify and determine nuances in emotional feeling and expression ....to be "eager" about something is very different than feeling anxious
    There are so many nuances to explore regarding the topic overall

  • @JJ-rp2df
    @JJ-rp2df Před 2 lety +3

    Great insights to self awareness, overcoming trauma and key tools.

  • @cliffordedwards9833
    @cliffordedwards9833 Před rokem +1

    I learn a lot from your teaching, the explanation is eloquent and I just love listening to you, I certainly learned a lot. English is so important to me, Thanks.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před rokem

      You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it?

  • @erezcohen5453
    @erezcohen5453 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks Dr for a very kindly presentation.

  • @universallove3673
    @universallove3673 Před 2 lety +5

    Poor emotional reactions have got me in a whole lot of mess with the law 😒😪

  • @wenmcbrainvansandt5240
    @wenmcbrainvansandt5240 Před 2 lety +1

    This has been our subject for a couple weeks of how to teach our clients at a rehab. Mesa Arizona

  • @daisyduke4640
    @daisyduke4640 Před 2 lety +2

    Great video, as usual 💪⭐

  • @user-mj2yi7cs8q
    @user-mj2yi7cs8q Před 2 lety +1

    This is mind blowing 🤯

  • @nathanluebke6253
    @nathanluebke6253 Před rokem +1

    I had never heard of the word "hinky" until today and I am very grateful ❤

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před rokem

      Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!

  • @Amanda-vn1hy
    @Amanda-vn1hy Před 2 lety +2

    This is a great topic. 👍

  • @beatlessbeauty1106
    @beatlessbeauty1106 Před 4 měsíci

    Near the @8:28 portion , you make a key point about differentiating the feeling of "anxiousness" vs "eagerness"... many people confuse the two terms in colloquial exchange

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you. I appreciate you watching the video

  • @beckyhammond8094
    @beckyhammond8094 Před 2 lety +2

    Borderline Personality Disorder is my vulnerability. This video was very informative. Thank you.

  • @trysmarter1014
    @trysmarter1014 Před 2 lety +1

    I watched the scorpion trailer...now I gotta find the show. 🤦🏽‍♀It's on Prime with ads, if anyone is curious.

  • @MontyCerf
    @MontyCerf Před 4 měsíci

    Great information. Thanks for sharing!

  • @Crown_company
    @Crown_company Před 2 lety +2

    Punch 1st, talk later 😳 revisiting those silly behaviors was really triggering but if i fall , i fall forward 😎 breathing really helps me 🤙thanks doc

  • @ROB7002
    @ROB7002 Před 2 lety

    Dr snipes is the best. Thank you for the content and charm!

  • @universallove3673
    @universallove3673 Před 2 lety +11

    What are the affects of living in fight or flight for over 12 yrs?

    • @vasantipunchoo3699
      @vasantipunchoo3699 Před 2 lety +8

      Or for 40 yrs

    • @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814
      @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814 Před 2 lety

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    • @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814
      @dr.mahmoodmoothedath8814 Před 2 lety

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    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 Před 3 měsíci

      It’s very individual…but consider what would you do with the information if you could get it? Often, we focus on anything but feeling the feelings we need to feel.
      Trying to figure out the effects of living in fight/flight for a long time isn’t solution oriented.
      What can you do now, today, to calm your nervous system? What habits can you do daily to cultivate a sense of calm? How can you face the loss/grief of all that has happened (including being in sympathetic nervous system activation for so long)?
      Those questions, and solutions that come from them, are where your empowerment is. That’s where healing and regulation will come to be your norm.

  • @1432amer
    @1432amer Před 2 lety

    Oh wow, thanks for responding to my request Doc Snipes 😊

  • @JocelynMathisSmiles
    @JocelynMathisSmiles Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Dr. Snipes.

  • @foxie8638
    @foxie8638 Před 2 lety

    This should be part of teaching in school, the sooner the better.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před 2 lety +1

      That would be great by me! :) Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @dbuck1964
    @dbuck1964 Před 2 lety

    Thank you! Your videos are changing my life.

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před 2 lety

      Awesome. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 Před 2 lety +1

    This is a terrific presentation , Thank you!

  • @MeganS1995
    @MeganS1995 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for all of your effort in helping others grow and heal! I also found it pretty charming when you said you listen to hardcore metal--that was a bit unexpected, hehe

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před rokem

      You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it?

  • @Salam_1965
    @Salam_1965 Před 2 lety

    Thank you. This is amazing presentation

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před 2 lety

      You're very welcome! Thanks for watching.

  • @gracemaina9240
    @gracemaina9240 Před 2 lety

    My favourite topic. Watching from Kenya. Thank you Doc

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for watching in Kenya! :)

  • @winfridahbanda5739
    @winfridahbanda5739 Před 2 lety

    Thank you very much for this presentation

  • @reddy5985
    @reddy5985 Před 2 lety

    Thank You 🙏

  • @sheldajacques2562
    @sheldajacques2562 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much

  • @GremlinSpike69
    @GremlinSpike69 Před 2 lety

    I think the problem is that we confuse the warning of the threat for an actual threat!

  • @cliffordedwards9833
    @cliffordedwards9833 Před rokem

    The proper using of the word emotions and understanding,my emotions and anger is as a result of my feeling. High emotional intelligent person can understand someone emotions easily.Dr Snipes this word ROYALTY. A lady asked a man a question, what royalty about you?Dr Snipes as a english teacher please how would you reply to this question. I await your response, Eddie.

  • @adelacozlac366
    @adelacozlac366 Před 2 lety

    A great video, as usual!

  • @anju8376
    @anju8376 Před rokem

    OMG YAS DR. SNIPES 🤘🏾😸🤘🏾 so i gotta know-what kind of metal do you listen to?? i love that you listen to metal omg

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před rokem +1

      Five Finger Death Punch, Disturbed, Theory of a Deadman, avenged seven fold, Tremonti. Halestorm. "I Like it Heavy" ;) What about you?

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br Před rokem

    I didn't understand your explanation of why we have grief. If we didn't have grief what would we be missing out on?

  • @USMARSHALL2011
    @USMARSHALL2011 Před 2 lety

    Cool

  • @BW-eb8or
    @BW-eb8or Před 2 lety +2

  • @kirstinstrand6292
    @kirstinstrand6292 Před 2 lety

    Growing up, I got a slap on my face every time I made a snide comment. Now I get slapped down by low EQ scores! 😁 or cry 🤔

  • @lindasharpe7039
    @lindasharpe7039 Před 2 lety

    You can have our chipmunk 🐿. ☺

  • @Tyb300
    @Tyb300 Před 10 měsíci

    Now taking mother applications

    • @DocSnipes
      @DocSnipes  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thanks for watching the video

  • @wordsarealive
    @wordsarealive Před 2 lety

    #

  • @-TheRealThing-
    @-TheRealThing- Před 2 lety

    What the heck are you listening to?! Cannibal Corpse?? 🤣

  • @Hackerinsidemyphone_caution

    Samjh Rahe ho...
    I don't give. A shit who you know... Simple..