Robert Webb interview on Peep Show, David Mitchell & masculinity | Unfiltered James O’Brien #3

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    Robert Webb talks to James O’Brien about the problems with masculinity, losing loved ones, meeting David Mitchell, finding success with Peep Show and That Mitchell and Webb Look, and how his difficult relationship with his dad affected him as a parent | JOE.co.uk
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  • @ImZyker
    @ImZyker Před 3 lety +121

    i watch peep show from start to end at least once every 6 months, i fucking love him and david

    • @PsyChoLogicZ
      @PsyChoLogicZ Před 2 lety +14

      I have literally not stop watched it repeatedly for 12 years too man! Honestly, one of the most original and brilliant shows ever made imo.

  • @grownthrow
    @grownthrow Před 4 lety +179

    This is outrageous, This is contagious!

    • @daveharo9878
      @daveharo9878 Před 4 lety +2

      But, really, this IS contagious!

    • @grownthrow
      @grownthrow Před 4 lety +7

      @@daveharo9878 SOOOOOOOOOO FUTILE!!!

    • @stewmott3763
      @stewmott3763 Před 3 lety +3

      They're watching my interview. I bet they think it's brilliant!

    • @kiely4561
      @kiely4561 Před 2 lety +3

      @@stewmott3763 Jeremy’s voice suddenly appeared in my head when I read that lol

  • @PooleyX
    @PooleyX Před 6 lety +135

    What an incredibly lovely bloke.

  • @morten7177
    @morten7177 Před 4 lety +408

    But how much washing up does he think he could do without washing up liquid?

    • @kennylogins4688
      @kennylogins4688 Před 4 lety +17

      Is this pyramid selling

    • @tourzrap
      @tourzrap Před 4 lety +4

      “Jez! ...NO!”

    • @guscox9651
      @guscox9651 Před 4 lety +3

      I think the clearest answer is an infinite amount, but not effectively!

    • @boigeorge886
      @boigeorge886 Před 4 lety +5

      ITS PYRAMID SELLING AND YOUR MAKING A FOOL OF YOURSELF!

    • @cameronw3159
      @cameronw3159 Před 3 lety +4

      Your pissing on my bonfire

  • @TheTambourinist
    @TheTambourinist Před 6 lety +183

    I love Robert. He's so down-to-earth, humble and smart.

    • @JustAlex848
      @JustAlex848 Před 2 měsíci

      Just a shame he doesn't seem interested in panel shows, as that's really the only way we see comedians on the TV these days. I would love for him and David to be opposing team captains on something. David's team would be for the geeks and Rob's team would be for the cool people. Basically Mark v Jez.

  • @WebsiteRight
    @WebsiteRight Před 6 lety +266

    When Robert was mentioning the negative stuff around 14:25, I was genuinely expecting him to use the word "orgones".

    • @musharrafdog
      @musharrafdog Před 5 lety +8

      Puts some perspective on his "interview" at "the Center"

    • @TheDudiest3Dude
      @TheDudiest3Dude Před 4 lety +2

      He just needs a bath and a magnum

    • @seanp8220
      @seanp8220 Před 4 lety +2

      Need protecting from negative opinions. I bet your Father would be proud of the man you became Robert.

  • @maxdenning9974
    @maxdenning9974 Před 4 lety +59

    I’ve watched Grand Designs with you. That smile when some eco-glass gets delayed on its way from Antwerp and the nice couple gets pushed over budget. That’s the real you.

  • @kiely4561
    @kiely4561 Před 5 lety +79

    i was always a huge fan of peep show, but i didn't know a great deal about Robert web the man, watching this interview i'm glad that he is in fact the thoughtful, caring, humble human being i thought he would be

    • @el6178
      @el6178 Před 2 lety +1

      Only someone wise and admirably down to earth can observe with such painful clarity a guy like Jeremy.

  • @rhuntsinger8899
    @rhuntsinger8899 Před 2 lety +11

    American here. just discovering Peep Show and That Mitchell and Webb Look and if you dont mind me saying... "bloody brilliant". love it. they've really stuck with me. will have to get Robert's book

  • @NortonTheProphet
    @NortonTheProphet Před 3 lety +17

    His voice is like rich dark chocolate melting in my ears.

  • @colonialstraits1069
    @colonialstraits1069 Před rokem +14

    It can’t be understated how much pressure working class kids face, from their own families. I grew up in the Upper Midwest/Rust Belt in the US. My father was an electrician, my mom was as a secretary. I was the first person, in my family, to go to university. I wanted to study fine arts but whenever I brought it up, I was told that I needed to study something practical and once I had a proper career, I could take up art as a hobby. Spending tens of thousands of dollars pursuing a degree that wasn’t going to “guarantee meaningful employment with full benefits and vacation” just didn’t fit their world view. I buried my pride, along with my dreams, to give my family the validation that we are taught comes with status and titles and professions.

  • @DodderingOldMan
    @DodderingOldMan Před 6 lety +171

    As you can possibly tell by my avatar, David Mitchell is my favourite comedian of all time. But having heard more and more interviews with Robert, I have to conclude that I'd probably rather have a conversation with him. His emotional intelligence is off the charts. What a legend.

    • @brokensilence6790
      @brokensilence6790 Před 5 lety +13

      I'm not sure what to make of this interview. I can see where Robert's coming from on the whole, but what I've taken away from it, is that everyone is sexist and homophobic, because he grew up around people that [seemed] to express that. I'm not sure if it's due to current SJW rhetoric; keep telling yourself something and you'll eventually believe it, or whether I'm reading it wrongly. No one told me that it's not okay to cry. Public sobbing may not be useful though, as it doesn't solve any problems and someone, male or female, has to sort shit out. I don't like the idea of, what's acceptable or unacceptable to say. That implies that someone has decided upon acceptability, ergo Orwell, Huxley et al.
      Still a great comedian and writer.

    • @kelpkelp5252
      @kelpkelp5252 Před 5 lety +35

      Really? You don't think there's been a culture historically of men not showing their emotions?

    • @brokensilence6790
      @brokensilence6790 Před 5 lety +5

      No, I don't. I am aware, as I've felt it myself as a youngster as well as other males, that when the tears welled up, it was embarrassing. Not to the point of being irrevocably damaged though. I don't suppose (but I can never know) that Females look forward to periods.No amount of wishing will stop the tide though (menopause aside). Been told by my Dad to 'Man Up', didn't like that. It's not set in stone, we are all different and experience the universe in different ways, Still a great interview, just sounding off what I want to say. Cheers. I cried watching remake of Wuthering Heights' a couple of weeks ago. In private I could release that. In public, I'd stifle it and make it worse. There would be no release.

    • @joshuaduplaa9033
      @joshuaduplaa9033 Před 4 lety +5

      Your avatar is Santa 🎅

    • @WalterLiddy
      @WalterLiddy Před 4 lety

      No wai!

  • @hopethisworks1212
    @hopethisworks1212 Před 4 lety +20

    Thank you. So much like my own childhood and relationship with my dad. My brother born before me died at the age of three. I'm 66 and still suffer from father problems even though he has been dead for the last 15 years, but this kind man made me feel less alone.

  • @bernardwadding
    @bernardwadding Před 6 lety +61

    Some unspeakable fundamental truths spoken by Robert Webb, brave interview

    • @Dude0000
      @Dude0000 Před 4 lety +1

      Lost Alone weak people think saying things with no repercussions is ‘brave’.

    • @cockoffgewgle4993
      @cockoffgewgle4993 Před 4 lety +2

      Lol "brave".

    • @stewmott3763
      @stewmott3763 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lostalone9320 That's not what he says.

  • @arunlangley6597
    @arunlangley6597 Před 6 lety +35

    Wonderful interview. Good conversation with a fascinating and amazing guy. Happy days

  • @somedudecalledben
    @somedudecalledben Před 4 lety +10

    I had no idea he had such a tumultuous life, he seems to have emerged as a great guy

  • @mickboon9831
    @mickboon9831 Před 6 lety +25

    Great interview, Not a fan of autobiographies but will add this ro my expanding list of must reads. This long interview style suits James.

  • @sunnysjwinter
    @sunnysjwinter Před 6 lety +6

    Brilliant series. Loving this & got the book to read when I get home. Nice one!

  • @stevesandford8993
    @stevesandford8993 Před 6 lety +21

    Very honest, very moving and quite surprising... (Rang a lot of personal bells with me.) I knew almost nothing about Robert Webb before I watched this, (though I admire his work with DM very much...) and I'll certainly be buying this book. To know ALL the answers is impossible, but it's important to be aware of the questions, I guess... xx SF

  • @FrankieParadiso4evah
    @FrankieParadiso4evah Před 4 lety +7

    Excellent interview, soaring high above the regular fare of an interviewer who's so enamoured with himself he keeps interrupting and an interviewee simply trying to plug his latest product. Bravissimo!

  • @TheAshlovesu
    @TheAshlovesu Před 4 lety +20

    One thing I like about this podcast is that the guest is allowed to speak, too many podcasts with an ignorant host that interrupts the guest, the focal point of the show

  • @STR82DVD
    @STR82DVD Před 2 lety +3

    Great interview, authentic genuine kind person. Thanks.

  • @turbogeek.421
    @turbogeek.421 Před 6 lety +10

    A great interview! Will be reading Webb's book.

  • @JDfanboy1
    @JDfanboy1 Před 4 lety +4

    What a brilliant interview. I relate to all this very much.

  • @marcuscross8051
    @marcuscross8051 Před 4 lety +2

    Wonderful conversation. I am part way through reading his book now, so this made for a nice addition.

  • @matthewmuli4361
    @matthewmuli4361 Před rokem +4

    Thank you Robert for being so brave

  • @paulhardman373
    @paulhardman373 Před 6 lety +37

    I love peep show and admire Robert a fantastic interview from James O'Brien.

    • @JOE_co_uk
      @JOE_co_uk  Před 6 lety +6

      Thanks Paul, glad you're enjoying these.

  • @Seventeen_Seconds
    @Seventeen_Seconds Před rokem

    Really enjoyed this, I have a peep show binge probably once every few months. RW and DMs chemistry is on another level. Awkward comic timing to perfection. Nice to see this side of him.

  • @joetwyford1317
    @joetwyford1317 Před 4 lety

    This podcast was golden, thanks!

  • @tauruschorus
    @tauruschorus Před rokem +2

    Re: David “He was the first vertical person I said goodmorning to” is such a fun phrase

  • @matthewmuli4361
    @matthewmuli4361 Před 5 měsíci

    I relate to this interview on so many levels. Relationships with my friends, my own family, my dreams.

  • @GoldBallTV
    @GoldBallTV Před 5 lety +8

    This was deep! Not seen one of these unfiltered interviews before. I anticipated this might be an hour of funny Peep Show/Sketch Show/Magicians et al anecdotes... changed the way I appreciate Robert Webb.

  • @twotales7337
    @twotales7337 Před 4 lety

    Brilliant conversation. Enjoyed it, will take things away from it too. Thanks.

  • @YerDa67
    @YerDa67 Před 3 lety

    Loved the book, Rob. Thank you!

  • @TC1599Fifa
    @TC1599Fifa Před 10 měsíci +1

    28:44 omg this makes the sketch about his typing even funnier 😂

  • @tomderby6299
    @tomderby6299 Před 6 lety +2

    Great stuff

  • @willtomo2226
    @willtomo2226 Před 4 lety

    Great interview.

  • @harrylong2796
    @harrylong2796 Před 4 lety +3

    How have i only just seen this, the book is amazing i read it last year

  • @93RubixCube
    @93RubixCube Před 4 lety

    Absolutely great interview and absolutely great book one of my favourite memoirs/autobiography

  • @JFN381
    @JFN381 Před rokem

    Great interview. Loved the book.

  • @dagothher
    @dagothher Před 4 lety +2

    he raises a good point around 46:00 with the "farage in the garage" idea, being from gen z i can say tbh when youre young boys arent really any different now to how he describes them back then, just with added technology and different interests and as someone who's gay, growing up being told "gay" means bad or inferior in every sense and being encouraged to use it as a negative label does get internalised way before you're old enough to know what "gay" is and whether or not you are gay

  • @64bakes
    @64bakes Před 4 lety +1

    My grandparents lived in Sleaford and used to take us to Kinema in the Woods at Woodhall Spa! Never knew RW grew up there. Fantastic interview

    • @depfeffel6455
      @depfeffel6455 Před 4 lety +1

      Lovely neck of the woods. Stayed at the Tavern at Timberland several times and still need to check out Kinema.

  • @MellorDR
    @MellorDR Před 6 lety +21

    superb book btw

  • @fliprim
    @fliprim Před 7 měsíci

    Jam packed with wisdom and of the most useful sort...

  • @MCLamb1984
    @MCLamb1984 Před 2 lety +1

    His voice 🥰 gives me tingles

  • @sumwan4926
    @sumwan4926 Před 6 lety +4

    I wanna see more of Robert Webb... I miss peep show...

  • @Naeshabby
    @Naeshabby Před 4 lety +1

    Good interview on both sides

  • @FIMOE123
    @FIMOE123 Před 4 lety +41

    THIS IS SOOO NOT RAINBOW RHYTHMS

  • @conallmclaughlin4545
    @conallmclaughlin4545 Před rokem +3

    Well that was a great interview, as a peep show fan I alwas enjoyed Robert. Never knew how tough he had it as a kid. An it was nice to see you just let him chat. It's always great to see the stars you love to watch turn out to be decent people. That's a man I'd enjoy a pint with

  • @isophiaxx8740
    @isophiaxx8740 Před rokem

    The therapy session I needed

  • @TheLionInWinter07
    @TheLionInWinter07 Před rokem +6

    Rob feels like a very important voice at the moment with regards to issues around masculinity, I really would encourage anyone with young boys or anyone interested in the subject to read his book, it is all the things you expect (funny, charming etc) but it also feels from the perspective of another young boy who never fitted in with societal expectations of working class men, quite important.

    • @user-ml9qc5hk1p
      @user-ml9qc5hk1p Před 5 měsíci

      Really? Ashamed of his background, changed his accent and blamed his dad.
      Slags off the grammar school that gave him everything. Insults his siblings and says a 2.5 train journey to see them now is too much.
      Seems like a weasel to me.

  • @herbieshine1312
    @herbieshine1312 Před 3 lety +1

    I've seen Robert Webb in interviews before and thought what a charming, intelligent, honest and funny chap he seems.
    This again confirms that.
    This was really nice and fun to listen to.

  • @elliest55
    @elliest55 Před 6 lety +9

    I loved the book - read it in almost one go - and this interview is absolutely fantastic.
    If I had one criticism about the book (though I'm frankly happy to be contradicted if I'm getting this wrong) is that there is a lot of bad behaviour attributed to the patriarchy, with the risk of it being viewed as an excuse.
    I 've been fortunate enough to have some wonderful men-wonderful fathers, brothers, husbands, friends- in my life, from a variety of social/education backgrounds, who, despite the true fact that they don't talk about their emotions much, they never react with anger or resentment or by removing themselves from a difficult situation, and (maybe indeed a smaller a subset of them) will never act as if the women in their lives are somehow more responsible for family and household responsibilities than they are. I agree that these men behave thus #despite# the patriarchy, but this means that the patriarchy cannot be seen as an all-encompassing mechanism of conditioning for men's behaviour. It is certainly a very big factor, but men who screw up don't just screw up because they don't know any better, they have a huge deal of responsibility for their own actions.

    • @Dmdm_dm
      @Dmdm_dm Před 6 lety +2

      I haven't read the book but that's the vibe I get from his interviews. There's nothing wrong about criticizing hypermasculinity and extreme behaviors, but Webb is clearly selling an antipatriarchical message here because he knows it's the right time to do so with all these feminist movements and stuff.

    • @petermarsh4578
      @petermarsh4578 Před 4 lety +7

      @@lostalone9320 I'd argue that those social pressures you mentioned - to be a good person, a good father, a loyal friend and loving partner - can exist without the patriarchy.

  • @el6178
    @el6178 Před 2 lety

    I love this voice!

  • @jep1912
    @jep1912 Před 4 lety +2

    Jesus... I could draw almost every mirrored comparison with my own childhood and 'new' fatherhood.

  • @JustAlex848
    @JustAlex848 Před 2 měsíci

    I have listened to his book (narrated by himself) and it is excellent, but also quite sad in places - particularly his relationship with his father and his mother passing away. Definitely recommend people listen to it (if like me, you are too lazy to read it!).

  • @SlinkiestTortoise23
    @SlinkiestTortoise23 Před 4 lety +7

    That’s numberwang!

  • @alexbielovich
    @alexbielovich Před 2 měsíci

    1993! Can't believe the creative partnership with Mitchell goes that far back. Look forward to reading the book.

  • @MCLamb1984
    @MCLamb1984 Před 2 lety +6

    What he says about how becoming a parent is meant to make you feel more forgiving of your parents is so spot on.
    Becoming a parent made me feel much more resentful and angry at the way I was treated growing up, at both my father and my mother. My father for being the narcissistic asshole he was and always will be, then for my mother for enabling him and supporting his disgusting self serving behaviour.
    I don’t speak much to my father as he is the same as he always has been. My mother thankfully has seen and taken accountability for her actions and deeply regrets them, and now makes up for them in spades.

  • @adamtaylor1739
    @adamtaylor1739 Před 4 lety +2

    If you're a fan of this book and rock/punk music then listen to Idles, brilliant band

  • @markncl100
    @markncl100 Před 4 lety +1

    Forgotten how much I liked James doing these. Bring him back.

  • @AR-kf8dr
    @AR-kf8dr Před 4 lety +1

    Brilliant

  • @akihenrik7689
    @akihenrik7689 Před 4 lety

    Superb

  • @rosie6
    @rosie6 Před 2 lety

    Such a talented guy. I forgot irl he wasn’t jez and went to Cambridge.

  • @whirled_peas
    @whirled_peas Před 4 lety +2

    I was just looking at the thumbnail and thought "damn that looks like a sort of munchkin-version of Robert Webb.

  • @Mattelliott1234
    @Mattelliott1234 Před 3 lety +4

    how did Robert drop the phrase "Farage in the Garage" and neither of them even smiled? lmfao

    • @stewmott3763
      @stewmott3763 Před 3 lety

      Because he pronounced it wrong - should have said 'Farridge in the garridge'. :-)

  • @hughoxford8735
    @hughoxford8735 Před 4 lety

    I've always thought of James O'Brien as a real life Jez character. Life imitating art and all that.

    • @hughoxford8735
      @hughoxford8735 Před 4 lety +1

      @@lostalone9320 To be fair, I think that Jeremy Usbourne is more likeable.

  • @ApolloVIIIYouAreGoForTLI
    @ApolloVIIIYouAreGoForTLI Před 3 měsíci

    "...lethal English curtesy" is just brilliant.

  • @TommasoGiordani
    @TommasoGiordani Před 4 lety +2

    "God, I can be quite boring when I put myself to it"

  • @Billkwando
    @Billkwando Před 5 lety +16

    Did they make it through an hour long interview about a book without ever mentioning the title?

  • @SiriusMined
    @SiriusMined Před rokem

    That was a great Darth Vader impersonation!

  • @manicmandownup
    @manicmandownup Před 4 lety +10

    Dang, Jez is a complex guy. Also, this interviewer is really good. 👍🏻

  • @lucasbarker5787
    @lucasbarker5787 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow what a clever man

  • @brianmartin3425
    @brianmartin3425 Před 6 lety +1

    53 minutes hearing the car alarm going off in the background

  • @annalisedodson7641
    @annalisedodson7641 Před 4 lety +7

    Dunno y this made me cry

    • @oxcart4172
      @oxcart4172 Před 3 lety

      Because you're sensitive and empathic?

  • @laurenconrad1799
    @laurenconrad1799 Před 4 lety +1

    I love this guy. Like, you look at that 18 year old list and you're like, check check check. Not Hollywood quite yet. Not Cleese but as close as anyone will ever be to that who was born after 1970. lol

  • @alloriginalpirates
    @alloriginalpirates Před 4 lety +1

    World Wide Wobert 🤣

  • @PhiI93
    @PhiI93 Před 6 lety +1

    That was friggin' hilarious at 28:00.

  • @steve-marsh
    @steve-marsh Před rokem

    The thumbnail looks like their playing snooker

  • @robdood
    @robdood Před 6 lety +18

    Get Simon Amstell on next, his book Help is fantastic!!

    • @DodderingOldMan
      @DodderingOldMan Před 6 lety

      Oh really? Haven't heard that he'd written a book, but since Simon is one of the most inherently funny people I've ever come across, I'm intrigued.

    • @estebancomulet
      @estebancomulet Před 6 lety

      Totally agree. Amstell is great...

  • @tomhart603
    @tomhart603 Před 4 lety +2

    i love robert but i disagree about movie mistakes
    that was a great show and i loved it when i was younger

  • @galesito1733
    @galesito1733 Před rokem +1

    When James mentioned Cyril Connolly, did anyone else think "no, semi-carnally"?

  • @martygthep
    @martygthep Před 2 lety +1

    I hope British London get the publishing rights

  • @travisheldreth5021
    @travisheldreth5021 Před 4 lety

    When is Back coming on again?

  • @dayflowermusic
    @dayflowermusic Před 3 lety +3

    Robert found a publisher for his book? What next? he's found a director for his film? a builder for his cathedral?

  • @ashleyfowler126
    @ashleyfowler126 Před 4 lety +2

    How thick is wall ?

  • @treeman9706
    @treeman9706 Před rokem

    I do not know what i would do without peep show? God bless this man

  • @VanceRefrigeration
    @VanceRefrigeration Před 4 lety +5

    A SAUSAGE IS MISSING!!!!!!

  • @laurenconrad1799
    @laurenconrad1799 Před 4 lety +4

    I'm an American and I like to think of myself as a big anglophile. I know what the British school system is like both now and in the 1800s. And I know the geography of England and how its train system and its accents work. But I always have to google the really British references while watching this. Like, who is David Mellor and what's this with the Duke of Windsor? Oh, you're saying that Webb went from talking working class to upper-middle class and Mellow went from talking upper-middle class to Aristocratic. lol

  • @isradelgado4204
    @isradelgado4204 Před 11 měsíci

    Where’s Robert looking at?

  • @nin9249
    @nin9249 Před 2 lety +1

    A far cry from Jez ! 😁

  • @FutureAbe
    @FutureAbe Před 2 lety +3

    Damn, he should do a travel show and call it World Wide Webb

  • @highdownmartin
    @highdownmartin Před 5 lety

    Get the mics sorted out before you start out. That said. Great interviews

  • @TheMattJacks
    @TheMattJacks Před 5 lety +1

    I think Nick Kroll and John Mulaney are for sure the American Mitchell and Webb, or as I fancy, Webb and hey, look! Mitchell is here too.

    • @TheMattJacks
      @TheMattJacks Před 5 lety

      For any possessing cranial yoghurt, I love both guys equally. I'm an American, so after the Civil War, we never choose sides on such matters. Well, some do. You all have Nazis still too. The only thing worse than a Nazi is a flat earth proponent. I'd have loved to see M&W do a recurring Flat Earth slam skit.

    • @TheMattJacks
      @TheMattJacks Před 5 lety

      Wow, that was kind of all over the place. I'm Jewish. Is THIS why everyone hates us? Hahahaha

    • @lennonmahoney7302
      @lennonmahoney7302 Před 4 lety

      MattsGotIssues Nah man, can’t compare Mitchell and Webb with those two. Nick krolls humour comes off as obnoxious and not really that funny anyway. John Mulaney on the other hand is quite funny actually to be fair.

    • @riz984
      @riz984 Před 2 měsíci

      @@TheMattJacks oh look its the eternal victim

  • @markcarey67
    @markcarey67 Před rokem

    Praise Vectron!

  • @justacting234
    @justacting234 Před 4 lety +2

    Men with Ven

  • @kieranhardy581
    @kieranhardy581 Před 3 lety +1

    Hennimore!!!!

  • @knifeprty6219
    @knifeprty6219 Před rokem

    James O'Brien interviews himself ? These two look alike right ? Very odd. Great interview though, two good blokes.

  • @mohammedshakoor411
    @mohammedshakoor411 Před 3 lety

    Oh no... Pekora's BGM is stuck in my head.

    • @mohammedshakoor411
      @mohammedshakoor411 Před 3 lety

      Wonderful conversation. I am part way through reading his book now, so this made for a nice addition.

  • @danielhaddon1453
    @danielhaddon1453 Před 6 lety +1

    Don't find Robert that funny but maybe he's doing it on purpose? But an interesting guy and a frank and very honest interview,it takes courage to be that brutally honest there so much gutter press and critics ready to give crap reviews because theyve just found out there 4th wife cheating on them again ! well done to Robert and James : ) James asks good and searching questions !