Full Episode: Crosby vs Dunbar
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- Terri and Alphonso had an instant connection when they met online, now jealousy is ripping them apart. Terri says Alphonso won’t let her have any male friends and she’s over it! Alphonso says Terri broke a promise to him not to talk to other men and she can’t be trusted. Is there enough love left in this relationship to keep them together?
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Should have been a warning sign when he said no male friends
d'zire veal yup I’m learning that lesson now. I’m a lot younger though and it’ll never happen again.
I thought she was childish at the beginning of the episode then when she mentioned losing her late husband 9 months before meeting this man, it made more sense. She moved so fast and settled for such am immature, manipulative, controlling, insecure person because she was trying to fill the void of the man she truly loved. Very sad.
Oh, thank you for your thoughts. I observed a little nervous energy on my part. It did come across as a little immature. I am very comfortable with my decision to start dating 9 months after my husband passed.
God bless u miss do wht makes u happy people will always have an opinion only your's matters when it comes to you
@@TerriSikorski she was probab nervous, because she knew he was gonna have something ti day when they got home. The fact that she moved out as they got home, infers that for me.
He look about 70 not 51. When a dude refuses not to let you have male friends that was the warning sign I would of ran but i would of also ran to the door if a female talking exclusivity right away.
Folesadelphia, Wentzsylvania he's 51
Terri Sikorski are you the woman in the video?
Yes
Basically Olivia, Yes.
Terri Sikorski but you don’t have the same last name 👀
This is totally unrelated to the case but um judge is just glowing.... Eyebrows, hair, makeup.. Dang
... and a welcomed non sequitur indeed. Thank you.
always teaching... I had to look up 'non sequitur'. Broadening my vocabulary.
Ashleigh Again Yes everyday! She's just mesmerizingly stunning!
Ashleigh Again girl, always. Her lip gloss stay popping!
That's a professional judge there ..get yourself busy..dont go putting people down.
Judge Lynn is pimping that book like nobody’s business, and I’m not mad at the hustle 😂
mysky it's a good read.
She looks like a nice, cheerful, happy bundle of energy and the man seems strict, stiff and serious...
Na he right right for a woman not to have Male friends. Male friends usually cause problems because they tend to want to be more then friends. Most male friends that women have tend to slip up n have sex.
Funeral director comes up when I look at this guy.
*My Thoughts* 2 things..... 1. He lost 40k gambling that's a big NO NO! 2. He's too insecure, too controlling, and she cant even talk to her male family members on the phone. She needs to leave him and move on he's not the one, he's stuck in his old ways and is not going to change. He's always going to be insecure and scared that she is going to leave him for another man
Your a simp. He old school. There was no such thing as male friends back in the day. Most woman male friends want to have sex with them but usually get passed by because they a simp like you and wait for his chance to have sex after getting turned down. Then alot of times they get mad at the current boyfriend n tend to run into the Simps arms and tend to have sex with that guy after complaining about her current boyfriend. That's called cheating. They not really friends if the male friends securely wants to have sex with his female friend. Guys deny that but if the woman attractive then usually they want to have sex with her unless the guys gay. My woman not allowed to have male friends unless I know he gay. She also has a choice though. If she cant accept that then she can leave me and I won't fight about it because it's her choice. And I cant force her to stay but she agreed so she stayed with me.
Is it me, or do they both look older than 47 & 51?
LadyBug Brack , It's not you. She's clearly in late fifties and he's in his mid 60's
Marvin Carted Thank You! Because I was thinking exactly what you said.
I believe it. Some people age differently.
Real age. I agree that I look older in this video. I normally look younger. Blame it on the studio makeup and my choice of hair. Lol
Marvin Carted 48. I am 48.
These people are to OLD for this BS.
Exactly. They don't have enough years left for these games
Alright, I take that back. She's coming across a little desperate.
Watching Divorce Court Like This oh no, you switched up on me. Lol.
i agree. he needs to run not her. she is an odd woman. i understand him being uncomfortable
I'm so glad he didn't run. He likes my oddity. :-)
Judge Lynn Toler is so BEAUTIFUL she so flawless
There are SO MANY LESSONS for women to pick up in this episode!! Too eager! Too much phone time made her feel the relationship had advanced when it had not, they created a false sense of security with each other. That's something my dating coach stresses too much phone time kills momentum!! She was too open too fast, and he was not as open and honest about where he was and what he wanted. He also rushed it by professing love on date 2. Major slip upset w these two. Ladies please learn!!
We're doing great. Thank you. Maybe you should get a second opinion for dating. Just kidding. Do what works for you.
Terri Sikorski Too much too soon in relationships fail most of the time. Your situation is unique, because most men would have been extremely turned off by the clingy, needy behavior definitely before exclusivety as well. But I'm glad you guys are doing well. Peace and Blessings.
Thank you, Tiffany.
Queen ofHearts I agree. These cell phones can kill a relationship. Get off the phone. Spend time together. See what the person's about.
You couldn't have said it better with the "phone time".
This man don't even know how to crack a smile... Smh
At their ages, there is no reason to tolerate any thing in your life that you find objectionable. They should move on and be friends if possible.
He’s an old 51
yup, more like 61...perhaps 71
earlibee 😂😂😂😂
The shade of it all. On the "after the show" the last line ....they now have more new furniture ...now thats funny OMG
MzYoShow we now have a lovely home. Not even sure how they got the update. Lol
LOL. Right. They so shady on this show!!!!
So she can't have male friends but I bet he has a lot of female friends.
Shenice Says not to my knowledge 😯
Terri Sikorski Very Very interesting
Terri Sikorski qtr fdseww
Judge should have told her to go grieve not chase this man.. she just looking for a replace-mate.. good therapist and a vacation would have been better..ijs
I took a vacation with my sisters and had many girlfriend trips before I started dating. I still travel and I'm seeing a therapist. I feel great and definitely not looking for a replace-mate. I have very supportive friends and family. Thank you for your thoughts and concern.
Odd is the perfect word for them.
For the fathers watching this, TEACH your daughters how to SEE when a man loves you than to just believe everything you hear. “Well he SAID!!!” That doesn’t matter.
Man I just love Judge Lynn so much!! Beauty, brains and black girl magic!! That's how I want to be, ridiculously educated but still have my edge, y'know!
They need to cut it out with these fake ages I think they forgot to add 20 plus more years to the ones listed.
Lovelie Joesph Exactly!
Lovelie Joesph 😂😂😂
They do. My cuz was on there and he's really like 34 but listed him as 46. He must've had a hard life b/c homie really look 46
I'm 48.
Lovelie Joesph ,,
Her aura is so powerful, hun don’t be strangulated, you look like you can do with a nice dance and let your hair down, Pops is too taut, hope he chill out and animate more, his heart and head not in sync, maybe he has trust issues.
Sarnath Kerala thank you
Run ma'am. He is your man not your daddy. You a fully realized adult
Stop hatin, they fine together. Their issues ain't even that deep smh lol
Mo b i feel that maybe they should part ways if they can't agree on basic desires in the relationship. just as you mentioned she should run. I would suggest he end the relationship if he is uncomfortable with her behavior whether anyone else agrees with it or not. They both seem mature and pretty much settled in as people so it boils down to natural compatibly.
Hahaha he's more bothered about how he made her look In court. How about how you really are?
Sweetie, he told you what his expectations were. When a man tells you who he is believe him.
I think they jumped into a relationship too soon . She didn't give herself time to grieve. And if this man had lost $40.000 in gambling whether it affected the household or not I would be pissed. But overall He is a good guy. And overall they make be able to have a good relationship.
Damn the first convo was straight game check mate cus she went for it
She was thirsty and wanted to be in a relationship.
When you are of a particular age, shouldn’t you know what you are willing to put up with and willing to walk away for? I thought those lightbulbs are supposed to go off by at least 35.
S Evans keep that mindset. 💡 should go off by 35.
I'm about to be 35 in 9 days! No way I'm allowing this type of bullshit and mess in my life! Been single 2 years it feels *damn good*. The peace I have is PRICELESS. She was too desperate and needy and he also is behaving out of fear with his control and manipulating. Women need to learn to TAKE THEIR TIME!! MYSELF INCLUDED!! I know it's hard but the phrase "fools rush in" is so true
40000 he lost gambling.. run....
I think she is just use to having a man and when her husband transitioned, she was not the type who could be alone. She was desperate for a replacement.
I do agree they each look 10-15 years older.
Pat P I was single nine years before I met my husband. My husband was an over the road truck driver and was away from home three weeks out of the month. I was quite used to being alone. This had nothing to do with finding a replacement.
Pat P that 5 o'clock shadow
He is so serious I'm scared lol he is diffenitly the boogeyman lol
This is a head scratcher. I think somewhere deep down, she is still coping with the death of a husband. Something she felt like she couldn’t control. She’s afraid of losing this guy so her way of controlling the situation is controlling when and how she leaves.... whilst doing it constantly every time she feels she may lose this guy. It’s a young woman’s game. I don’t think they belong together at least not right now. She moved to fast. He has trust issues.
Shawn Nixon great perspective. My husband did pass suddenly. However, my reason for leaving is all about the issues at the time. Thank you for your thoughts.
How are you two now? More importantly, how are you? Everyone deserves to be happy. Hope you’re doing well :)
We are doing well. I am fine. If you're not a counselor, you should be. Prior to my husband's death, I had a lot of counseling and understood grief from many areas of my life. My father (my first love in an endearing way--don't want anyone getting on my case about the comment about my dad. people can be so literal.) died when I was 10. A very dear friend of mine died when I was in my early 20s. After hear sudden and tragic death, I shut down and I didn't socialize for a long time. It was the worse thing I could have done. I decided after my husband passed suddenly (natural causes) I would not allow myself to spend years in depression. He would not want that for me.
That’s great! I have been told I am a good listener and have a healing/comforting spirit. Lol I’m good at telling others what they need but couldn’t tell you what I need in terms of a relationship or anything social really lol
I know of many women that lose or never have a father figure in their lives and they never recover from it. They spiral into addicting behaviors and behaviors that completely devour their value as women. Women have so much power in this world and to give it up to a man that doesn’t value you or do his best to match your honor and worth is crazy. I’m glad that you have a view on life as you do. It’s amazing. I wish you nothing but the best in your career and lives together!
Maybe not having furniture to him should have been a warning sign to her that maybe - JUST MAYBE- he didn't want to have a home with her? Just a subconscious thought...
Leslie Martin As he said, he didn't want to furnish a home he chose for my convenience if I wasn't committed to staying there.
I think they make a good couple for the most part but he needs to loosen up...he didn't smile anytime through this. Laugh more, its good for the heart!!!
Destiny long thank you
He smiled at 2:00 (although he was laughing about me pursuing him) LOL. He didn't smile much though. He can be funny sometimes. I thank him for coming on the show with me because he is very private. He valued our relationship enough to get Judge Lynn's advice because he knows how much I respect her advice... Let's give him a small break.
One thing thats,gets me is a fool but nothing is worse than a,old fool..🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃NOW
This season has just been crazy. 😳
He didn't look bad in court at all. I wish them the best.
Shelia Pea thank you
Lol. She's too good for him run sister
I’m really speechless and don’t have any comments on this one.
They now have more new furniture 😂
Nic Chole I know right. How random was that.
I must say- he has the sweetest smile at the end!
Damn it's true stressing can really make you look older smmfh!!!
That expression of Judge Toler at 2:03 can be the best GIF of in shock.....made me ROFL
Somebody in the audience tickled af 😂😭
My man in the audience again 6:04. God i always crack up when i hear him!
“WHAA HEH HEH HEH HEH”
I hope after watching this, they were able to work out their issues. With open communication and less insecurity, they can work out. #blacklove
I wish people would stop throwing their perception of good looking on everyone else. Also, she seems a bit desperate which is kinda crazy if u just lost your husband not even a year ago...
Notgiving Outname I got the same response from my family. Now, they and my in-laws are happy for me.
+Terri Sikorski -- In-laws? Did y'all get married. And don't sweat the negativity. If I had to guess your age I would have said 45. Plus you're a lovely lady. (However, the shade tree pundits on these threads could've been right on the "desperate" observation, but what do I know?).
Hang Tyme No, we did not get married. My family and my deceased husband's family and friends are happy for us.
Gotcha!!!!! Good luck...
Oh she's playing the game. She threatens to leave when he's not just saying yes dear. I think he did have issues at first, but I believe him when he says he's over it. She is a trip. She's the one who is in control here.
My sister had vertigo that have vastly improved with alternative behavior modifications. When I have the time I will document it in an ebook.
I have only experienced a few episodes of Vertigo and typically it is when I am extremely stressed. I practice meditation and manage it with some alternative behavior modifications.
Judge Lynn was soo funny today 😁😁
You lost your husband I think, that takes a while, pls pray be guided enjoy your journey.
Thank you.
Welcome, the best thing is meeting JUDGE LYN , pls be happy don’t lose your aura your spiritI felt all the way in the Caribbean, your NRG is real, pls seek spirituality, sincerely, Bless.
Terri Sikorski my sincere condolence, I pray for your healing and strength 🥰, love starts from within yourself
Well, Judge Lynn Toler, i think the man has a bad experience and that's why he's very strict about his woman having a connection with the opposite sex.
If the woman understands that, it is probably going to be hard, she could help him trust her..
The woman seems like a responsible nice woman, the man just has to bring down his fear, if he is too scared, he can hire a private investigator to clear that part out..
Omg.... They are about to put me to sleep!!!😴😴😴
Having Furniture Is a Good Thing^^
absolutely. now, we have lots of it according to the update. LOL. Seriously, we are very comfortable now.
He's making me uncomfortable....... Ewwww
Good luck to them on their journey.
Many of the comments mention him not wanting her to have male friends being a RED FLAG. Personally I don't agree. As a married woman I would have no issue with my husband objecting to me having male SINGLE friends. Out of respect I wouldn't seek friendship with a single man. If I had this friend before being married then this friend would only associate with me in the presence of my husband. I believe when we get married we make concessions for our mate and our marriage in order to keep the marriage bond strong instead of insisting on what we want.
I would be concerned if she didn't have male friends.
Ooh Mr. Dunbar don't take it too personally. I think Ms. Terri just wanted y'all to fix what need to be better. We could know u are sweet person. Thanks to Judge Lynette for such great advice at enhancing love.
thank you.
These comments about age. Woo.
Elaine Anderson I know right. I'm glad I am not sensitive. Lol
Terri Sikorski Oh wow, its you from this episode. Its crazy to see people on here who live in the same city as I do.
Yes. South Side Proud.
Terri Sikorski Me too. 😂😂
Elaine Anderson we may run into each other someday.
When your older you should be in a place where you can communicate your concerns, Mr. Dunbar thought that money was a sure thing be careful in finances that was part of your retirement plan.
Ms. Terri its ok to reach out for companionship and question past history of potential mates, nothing thirsty about that when your seeking a relationship, passwords not that soon just to be safe.
So if they are happy that's the important thing, infidelity wasn't or shouldn't be an issue, nice couple smile Mr Dunbar !!
that person laugh 😆 kills me every time
I swear if waiting to exhale had a bonus clip, this would be it.
Other than that i see the # ghostwriter is back it again. #gettothepoint 🙄
Erin D Winfrey 😱
This is crazy lmao 😂 dunno why men have a problem with their girl having male friends...
🙋I'm ready
You shouldn't give frens up when you get into a relationship, unless they are being messy.
It's obvious that she didn't want to disrespect him, why she did what did.
He is just refuses to see that.
Who is that making those big laughs lol
0:30 in I am already confused by 05:00 I am crawling on the floor dodging the red flags
They are the oldest looking 47 and 51 year olds I've seen yet. These folks need to stop fibbing about their age.
“WAAAH HEH HEH HEH HEH”
-GuyLaughing
A first date is exactly like a first impression. If it’s positive, good! Go for a second one. BUT if something is odd, anything at all, if you feel a red flag comes to show somewhere, pull up the plug. There are plenty of fish and don’t wait until ties are uselessly created and it becomes hard to break up to do something. That woman acted as if she was desperate.
"51"?? And semi retired... Sure😏
Both are extremely immature, but something is definitely off about that lady. A little kooky
This man is so insecure and his insecurity makes her miserable. She was with her husband for so long that she doesn't know how to exist alone, which is why she was so quick to move into this relationship. Both of them are too old to be acting like this. They both need therapy, to learn to live themselves more. They both need to live separately, until they are comfortable in their own skin and not seek validation from others.
That man is definitely crazy, any man who doesn’t want you to have male friends is a red sign!
Plenty men feel that way...they just dont say it
Great video
alphonso look older then 51 bruh whole life he been scressin 💀😂
I get on young females all the time for staying in "unhappy" relationships. But she is older and might possibly be suffering from low self esteem even at this age. (Slow down) is always the best advice
I can understand why she put it out there the way she did.... that's what people do in chat groups but a lot of times they are lying. .... password is too far. he could have wiped out your account
My account was already wiped out. LOL. Seriously, my voicemail security code is not that sacred to me. No one leaves me messages. My phone is mainly used for family.
Terri Sikorski lol you knew what you were doing....great episode and beautiful couple
Ok, now it all makes sense. She was still in mourning from her husband's death 9 months earlier. He should have been smart enough to see this train wreck coming and hit the breaks when he saw her moving waaaaaaaaaaay to fast!!!!!
Doward Washington He did , but like most people he ignored it. But you right, common sense should have prevailed, and running was the only option.
Lady's, there is no such thing as a male best friend he's just patiently waiting for his turn some men are smart enough to see this that's why they have that rule...
Omg! I give up!
What is the meaning of "seeking exclusivity"
That you only see each other and not other people as well.
After the first date, she is missing him like crazy.
After 2nd date he's talking about spendingthe rest of their lives together.
People are trya have th celebrity whirlwid experience...... go back to courting, getting to know each other.
What's wrong with that?
Yeah, this won't last at all, she wants a husband, not a father and he thinks it's going to be just his way or the highway. Which isn't right at all. Instead of worrying about the men she talks to, he needs to worrying about keep her engaged in their relationship. He needs a submissive woman who will be okay with him calling the shots. She needs to stop being so desperate and move along to a man who wants to be with her and let her be who she is. He's not that one.
Deviancy Behavir Agreed the more he keeps her engaged, the less he has to worry about with regards to other men.
Look I will say this once and only once !!! when a person have shown you who they truly are believe them and honey he has done that !! now get your things and GO!! BECAUSE IT'S NOT GOING TO GET ANY BETTER JUST WAIT AND YOU SHALL SEE !! HE IS SET IN HIS WAYS !! THAT'S WHY HE WAS ALONE ONLINE ALREADY !!!!! SMH''
He is so stiff, no smile and probably boring. Then to say he lost that amount of money and it's not her business lets you know he is not into making things good for the two of them. They too old to shack up anyhow. She should have healed after the loss of her hubby and then enjoyed life with friends and waited for a different type of man.
Judge toler is as fine as home made wine!!!!!
Oh my, I thought black didn't crack! My man is 53 (10 years older than me ) he's a young 53 but even still, this guy looks like he's in his 70's😳
This man is straight out of Get Out...in a sunken place
This will only get worst.....and the next phone call will set him off again...plus he broke!
Good for you...you deserve happiness.. :)
Women telling other women to dump their men when something is wrong are the ones who will run to get him after, a good relationship is built with work it’s not a fairytale, our parents had to deal with a lot more, nowadays people gave up too soon after having kids. He is not beating her or an alcoholic they must try to make it work .
Is it me or does he sound like Keith Sweat
Your the only one on the planet that could say that.
they need to part. She seems desperate and he is passive on everything except her talking to male friends.
I need this lady to run fast. This is desperation to have a husband. 40,000$$$$ WTF
Wow this is really soon and weird man cant nobody be that lonely can they?
Lol. Yup
As long as they have more new furniture👍😄