Why MUSLIM MEN were told LIES about MUSLIM WOMEN | Halal Bros E2
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In this episode of Halal Bros, we dive deeper into why Muslim men were told lies about women, marriage and relationships. Muslim marriage is easy and should be kept simple within what’s halal!
Timestamps ⬇️
00:00 - Coming Up
01:22 - Introduction to Men being told Lies
03:09 - Lies about women leading to false expectations
05:17 - Dan's upbringing in a female-centric household
07:52 - Changes in perception of women after marriage
11:19 - Critique of the education system about gender differences
14:09 - Societal norms regarding masculinity & femininity
16:58 - Truth about Masculinity
18:29 - Problems with the R pill ideology
21:54 - Taking Care of Women in marriage
24:46 - Being gentle & caring towards one's wife
27:19 - Levels of attitudes towards women & finding a balance
30:06 - Honest conversations about gender roles & expectations
33:13 - Women's emotional nature & societal influences
36:27 - Criticism of media portraying bad stereotypes of men
38:58 - Being a Man of God & prioritizing health & finances
42:22 - Need of having decisiveness, integrity & honesty
49:32 - Being the best man in a relationship
52:22 - Recognising humanity & needs of loved ones
58:31 - Prioritizing family, religious duties over material wealth
1:01:23 - Be an asset to your community
1:02:49 - Importance of physical health in Islam
1:04:34 - Use money wisely & contribute to community
1:06:54 - Advice to Fathers regarding Marriage
1:11:22 - Bringing men & women together
1:13:05 - Analyzing marriage proposals with nuance
1:17:55 - Addressing the Viewers
1:18:34 - Closing Remarks & Wrap Up
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Episode two of try not to get cancelled 😮💨
I’m gonna watch it now, I’ve been eagerly waiting for it. Let’s see what we have this time from our brothers.
They’re not gonna like this one 🫢🫢
I am watching let see about that.
akhi nowadays people hate hearing the truths, yk as Allah said its not the eyes that are blind but the hearts and it is goin to be like this till the day of judgement, btw i agree with yur statements...keep it like that!
Don't address your sisters in deen as "sweetheart", please. Good episode though.
@@anyuan3040 its not weird its a common vocabulary from wherever he lives.
@@muhammadmisbahuddin-ol5it Being common doesn't make it any less inappropriate Brother, there are lots of words and expressions that are common in the US but a Muslim shouldn't use. + Calling our women like that with such condescending tone will only drive them further away from us which is not the point of this podcast.
*Timestamps:*
00:00 - Coming Up ⏩
01:22 - Introduction🎙️
03:09 - Lies about women leading to false expectations ⚠️
05:17 - Dan's upbringing in a female-centric household♀️
07:52 - Changes in perception of women after marriage 🚨
11:19 - Critique of the education system about gender differences 🔍
14:09 - Societal norms regarding masculinity & femininity 🗣️
16:58 - Truth about Masculinity ♂️
18:29 - Problems with the R pill ideology ❌
21:54 - Taking Care of Women in marriage ✨
24:46 - Being gentle & caring towards one's wife 🕊️
27:19 - Levels of attitudes towards women & finding a balance ⚖️
30:06 - Honest conversations about gender roles & expectations 💬
33:13 - Women's emotional nature & societal influences ⚡
36:27 - Criticism of media portraying bad stereotypes of men 👎🏻
38:58 - Being a Man of God & prioritizing health & finances ✅
42:22 - Need of having decisiveness, integrity & honesty 🌟
49:32 - Being the best man in a relationship 💪🏻
52:22 - Recognising humanity & needs of loved ones🕯️
58:31 - Prioritizing family, religious duties over material wealth 💫
1:01:23 - Be an asset to your community ⚡
1:02:49 - Importance of physical health in Islam 🏋🏻♂️
1:04:34 - Use money wisely & contribute to community 💵
1:06:54 - Advice to Fathers regarding Marriage 📢
1:11:22 - Bringing men & women together💡
1:13:05 - Analyzing marriage proposals with nuance 🔬
1:17:55 - Addressing the Viewers 🗣️
1:18:34 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up 🏁
SubhanAllah ❤️💛💙
Brilliant Podcast 👍🏻👌🏻
_May Allah ﷻ bless you all and accept your efforts._ 🤲🏻
Appreciate this. Did ChatGPT make the timestamps?
❗REMINDER ❗The Messenger of Allah (Peace Be Upon Him) said, “There are two statements that are light for the tongue to remember, heavy in the Scales and are dear to the Merciful:
“Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim”
BarakAllah fikum may Allah bless you dear brother for your efforts
Guys, don't let women fool you pretending like they want the nice guy. The nice guy is only nice and nothing else - he is a push over and doesn't take charge. Whether women want you to know this or not, they will eventually become repulsed by this. Do you think the prophet ﷺ was the stereotypical "nice guy"? Yes he was kind and yes he was compassionate. But he was also sometimes unapologetic and true to himself and was a leader by making choices for the best. Sometimes that would upset his wives but they found this irresistible about the prophet ﷺ.
As far as why women still say they want the nice guy is because:
1) they haven't experienced the drawbacks with being with someone who is a nice guy or atleast not for a long time. So they're speaking without experience.
2) Another one might be that they also want to maintain their public image and not say something that will shatter that image of theirs.
So essentially don't be the nice guy, be the good guy. Be kind and compassionate, HOWEVER, be also firm and rigid upon your manly principles and lead the way the prophet ﷺ did
Loving the contents guys mashallah keep it up
really helpful video
Parents need to focus on developing emotional intelligence in sons and daughters. They should also clearly explain marriage with its highs and lows. Men should have some understanding of female psychology and women should understand male psychology. Too many people are delusional and idealistic about married relationship. It can only succeed long term if you know how to navigate the challenges and bumps. No one has a problem with good times, but too many people are tempted to give up the moment they face their spouse's flaws and things don't go as they imagined. Also, too many people falsely assume they can find a much better spouse only to face a highly competitive marriage marketplace with less than ideal options. You may find someone physically or financially attractive, but most people are average as a spouse: neither horrible, nor amazing. Stop thinking you're some amazing person who deserves the best of the best. No matter whom you marry, you will be frustrated and upset at times and will have to learn to compromise and forgive.
This is life
Masha Allah well said
Thank you for this insightful podcast brothers. As a sister on her journey to self-improvement and nurturing her femininity in these modern times, I found this content super helpful. Thank you for taking your time to share your knowledge and wisdom with us. May Allah bless you.
Please be safe from 🌈 sister.
@@Therebelliousprince001 You seem to be too concerned about rainbow stuffs. Which county do you live in?
Love and support from Pakistan , keep up the good work,may Allah be helpful to u 🤲
What a genuine woman means by wanting a "nice guy" is that she wants a masculine man who has gentleness and kindness as traits. Not some guy who is a doormat. Use your brains. Many people don't know how to express what they want or desire because no one was taught to. Learn to be compassionate and understanding towards one another. And let's stop this gender war that the elites want us to have so that we can be divided. We all need to keep a strong connection in the Ummah, love and respect one another, communicate and resolve our differences with love. That's what Allah wants.
Peacec to all. ✌️
Until masculine man says no to her and gives her a command, then he's abusive controlling lol
@@wawaweewa9159 A real masculine man still has compassion and empathy and explains to his woman why he commands what he commands so she understands with good reasoning. A toxic man just gives orders just because he "says so" while treating his woman with disrespect. There's a difference between the 2 types of men. A real man doesn't treat his woman like a slave or a dog. That's what a toxic man does. A real woman will appreciate her man looking out for her and doing what he can to protect her. There's a difference.
Alhamdulilah. Good job to my two brothers on tackling this issue. Can you guys also share some insight on how we can get back to factory settings and be as we are supposed to as men and women? Jazak'Allah Khair 👊🏽
I was taught that all girls were innocent, I don't know why 😂 I still had to learn all that out but just harder 🤣
Same
We were lied to by compassionate imams
@Therebelliousprince001
@murtazakhan5778
It's so unfair but I can't help but laugh thinking back about how i put them on a pedestal while they were hooking up with a topographical map of guys in quiet. Foolish of me but saved from sin i guess
Second podcast episode outtttttt!😇😇Finally!
Sister here, and I’m truly genuinely curious: who made you believe that women are 100% innocent angels? Parents, friends? I’m curious because I never heard this type rhetoric before from anyone except men. But it seems that many men have been sold this fallacy. BarakAllahu feekum, thank you in advance to anyone who is willing to answer my question.
I'm curious as to how genuine and sincere your question is. Especially since part of the answer to your question is within the podcast.
@@ik5441 How do you benefit from questioning my sincerity?
@@wmm8715 You are on a social media platform, where peoples comments will get reactions, questions, praise or criticism, if you cant handle it dont post. Truth be told my comment was just asking for confirmation that you are genuinely asking, because like i said the answer was in the podcast. Its not unjustified to ask when so many trolls and feisty sisters question things in a sarcastic fashion. Had you replied saying 'i'm genuinely asking, maybe i missed the answer in the podcast" i would have pointed it out, but you seem offended/triggered.
Can we make a video on establishing compatibility? It’s hard to know what topics are vital to cover when u have never been married?
woman like nice guy. if woman said she likes bad guy, you know that she is immature, toxic, or traumatized woman.
Nice guy these days means nice and being a push over who doesn't maintain his frame. Time and time again it's shown women become disgusted by this sort of "nice guy". Women need a good guy ( someone who is kind but firm and doesn't break his frame, especially not for his woman)
False
#podcasting lol I love these so much already! Allahuma barikum my brothers, may Allah bless you and your loved ones! :)
4 sek into the vid AND I can tell its gonna be goooddd
İ liked the video so much thank you
Keep bringing us the uncensored truth, boys 💪
Maa Shaa` Allah I am learning a lot.
Jazak Allahu khairan.
Wow! This is interesting to hear as a muslim female from the middle east.
Compensatory (adjective): Reducing or offsetting the unpleasant or unwelcome effects of something. Don't worry bro, I got u 👊
Oh here we go 👌🏾😭😭😭
I'm a Sista fi deen.
Peace be upon you, to all my deentribers
My father also passed away and i will always respect and love him for being a real men ❤
I'm thankful for him because he LEARNED me almost everything in life. And i will always do. He knew my emotions better then my mother did, so go figure. May ALLAH grant him peace in his qabr and the best towards Jenna. Amine
Anyways..
Women are insane, mean, and yealous most of the time for no effing reason. They can't handle strong minded brothers and sisters. So they will put you down. Don't let them. Bad Jinns are no joke and they are everywhere. A3oedoe Billehi Mina Shaytani Radjeem. Poef, be gone.
And now the brothers are becoming more feminine and gay because of that. Woman are giving the men a lot of errors and that's fk up. Okey, not all of them, but a lot! So be aware of the fakeness. They destroy good men and leave them for dead.. And i just wanna say to them good bro's.. keep ya head up and ALLAH will send you a fun and awsome sis who loves ALLAH/ Sunna and is a blast to live with for now and ever. Amen to that.
And always go to the gym, eat healthy and keep your salaat & sunna up!! Make yourself proud and be the best version of ya self so ALLAH will see that you are ready to meet your partner in life on this dunya and in jennat el fairdous. Everything is all good.
May ALLAH el Raheem guide us all and protect us from them CrayCrayS. So we will be all good, fresh and so clean
Peace and one love ❤
Why do we need a mahram to watch this ? 👀👀👀👀
Now that's a quality podcast
If you buy a damaged car you have to pay the price for the damage done by others.
okay so a question. I don't have any brothers and my father's retirement age is about to come, and I'm the eldest daughter in my house. If I don't earn, who will take care of my family???!?!?? My father is old now, he deserves to rest too, so I need to step up. Just because Allah didn't give him son, doesn't mean he should suffer??! what the consensus on this?
naturally respect to you sister for earning and taking care of family, I dont know but you could get married? Its not your family or fathers fault.
You have perfectly criticised the R pill👏🏽
What’s the guests name
They really are not going to like this one, InshAllah we need a 1 million subs
As a southern american we say 'bay-tah' and 'day-tah'. Not sure how other parts of America pronounce..
as a muslim woman i wouldnt want my husband and the father of my kids to not be a nice guy
I hope more women have this mindset but a lot of girls sleep around with losers because they’re brainwashed to find them attractive. So many young teenage girls sleeping with drug dealers, hood rats, black guys etc because they have rotted minds.
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Why?
But the unfortunate reality of today's women is that most of them want a nice guy as their 'kids father' but not as their boyfriend. But hey you can be among the exception.
@@tafis007if they're looking for a boyfriend then that's what's wrong - we should be looking for husbands
MashaAllah
So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to Me and do not deny Me. 2:152
Thats the Aya not more
sorry, saw all of your videos and i stil dont know what r pill is, someone explain pls
Its red pill i think😅
@@Alishba-9 but what does it stand for
@@user-wn2li5iz8p It’s a counter movement of feminism.
@@user-wn2li5iz8p it's like feminism but for guys. Both are cancer 😑 I encourage muslim men and women to uphold islamic values not western
@@tafis007 yeah but what does it stand for
Could be wrong but I heard your technically not supposed to rant about your wife to other people, your supposed to just rant to allah (swt), also it’s to protect her privacy as well. Unless the brothers are giving you Naseeha genuinely then your supposed to keep it to you and God
For real..💯
It’s really just simple to comprehend like women aren’t aliens - men and women have more similarities than differences- it’s when we start to focus too much on the differences we start to think incorrectly- men or women/ both human, both have the tendency to follow their desires and to top it off will have different personalities so to think women are innocent is crazy. I think it’s better to just take what everyone says with a pinch of salt cause anyone can be a psychopath, men or women. The biggest mistake you could make is think you know what people want or think.
Someone tell me before i finish the video. Is tge banter there?😅❤
Ooo this one’s gonna be juicy 😂🔥
I'm not gonna watch the vid just bcs I'm not interested in this topic. But I'm a Muslim woman, and I can say women are not all saints whatsoever. But the idea that women like "bad guys" or whatever is completely wrong. Women do like "nice guys", or gentlemen, don't be mean, don't let toxic women change your hearts! Women do like gentlemen (that are capable and can lead too ofc), only traumatized women with bad fathers and bad brothers like "bad" guys. Idk if this is what the video is about but just wanted to put this out there. Don't let bad women change your kind hearts!
Jazak Allahu khairan
Jazakallahu Kahiran for the input, sister. 🌸 We will continue to be nice guys inshaAllah...😅
How old are you?
y'all modern muslimas want a man without a backbone so he can be like a puppy to you lol, nobody said that Muslim men should abuse their women or whatnot, but they should not put them on the pedestal either, Muslim men need to be masculine, and assertive which without a doubt is attractive to FEMININE Muslim women even if they're trying to deny all-day.
I’m commenting as I’m watching:
there is a lot of context into how societal gender roles came to be, and it makes me think about what you both said in the pilot: that men dropped the ball 👀….
19:15 - I think you need to be careful your wording here. Because “some things” from r pill being good doesn’t matter. As a whole, it doesn’t match Islam (period).
23:49 absolutely, r pill and western feminism is a response to the rise in liberalism, capitalism and western colonialism and racism 👀
25:43 ehh. Blow off steam with your Lord or with a learned mature brother. It’s dangerous talking about your wife to your friends and it’s dangerous for a wife to talk to her friends about her husband. Good or bad.
30:30 I think we’re not starting in the right place. There is not ONE iteration of what a real man or real woman is. The education needs to be in the SEERAH of the Prophet sws and his male and female companions, his wives and the people surrounding him in his upbringing. Everyone is so different and that’s okay. There is a match for you that balances you and brings peace.
37:49 - I think you have it mixed up. The media mirrors the society, it’s that many men between the Cold War and today think their responsibility ends with financial support of the household. So, the wife has HAD TO be the brains behind the operation to solve problems because the father and husband has opted out of the responsibilities that go beyond bringing the money in.
38:44 - QURAN AND SUNNAH!! Literally the history of the Prophet and his wives and M/F companions. Striving to follow your religion and not thinking about what you can get out of it.
And get off of the internet LOL
That’s my advice for men and women.
41:09 - ehhhhhh I don’t agree here. There were female warriors in the time of the Prophet sws and before that.
41:50 - stop looking at things through the lense of capitalism and consumerism.
Women love to beautify themselves and show off. I think that saying “visual deception” is misguided. Men are deceived by how society portrays the beauty standard to be AND pornography, and need to come to terms that looks change
Also, not majority of women care about height or looks. You should look into the female gaze vs the male gaze.
CAPITALISM, babes, CAPITALISM.
People need to just understand that they don’t have control over their rizq. Allah is alRazzaq. Working hard and being honest in your work and choosing HALAL income is a step to please the One who provides your rizq.
Deen and Dunya. Islam is a comprehensive GUIDE to Akirah and Dunya.
Guess I can’t watch this one 😭
Who's the dope that left Faiyad cam out of focus
Bring Gabriel al romaani
24:46
Asalaamualaikum! the episodes need more visuals and sounds.
might need a white board where you check off topics to discuss and a soundboard not for music, but maybe "car crash"...etc
keep up the topics and maybe InshaAllah more real like scenarios you've heard or been through.
Crazy how men are ignorant about women.
Anyways, just here to remind y'all to be nice to you wives. Be loving and caring with them, treat them with respect as the prophet saws used. That way she will respect and obey you.
Do not start to prepare and manipule everything in your relation. Follow the deen and the teaching of our nabi and you'll realise you dont even need these "dawah bros" advice.
May Allah grant y'all a good spouse. Amin.
#podcasting
Ok
I wasn't confused about people telling you women are innocent, are perfect little thing from heaven, they never do anything wrong.. ect, I'm confused about you believing them in the first place.!
just like polygamy and Vriginity
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Don’t agree with the pre martial relationships being destructive obviously with a good woman it’s about to lead to marriage and future prospect’s, but with marriage comes with a cost too so better choose your partner wisely since it’s the most important thing in your whole life when it comes to choosing her for your time and value and how she treats you. So this is where this “pre martial” relationship comes in and btw disclaimer: not every relationship always involve fornication sometimes you don’t need it at all cos all you need is a bit of caress and that’s it.
Never heard women never lied or dont cheat. Women are humen
They are flat out lying. Their new strategy is to turn themselves into victims to avoid personal responsibilities. I think deep down men have been jealous about the sympathy women have been getting so they are flipping the script. They have been blaming us for their misfortune since the day we fell from heaven and they have been holding on to that grudge till this day. These podcasts pretending to be discussions are fake. Their minds have been made up a long time ago. What's there for them to discuss that we haven't heard already..the only new thing Iv heard is women never lie and sweet and if they cheat it is your fault stuff. That one is definitely new 😂 never ever heard that in my life till this minute..
I tell you what though..I am ashamed that I watched this video without a mehram...I hope you had better sense than me 😜
@@undercoverangel1410 You sound like a non muslim pretending to be muslim and trying to spread fitna.
@@undercoverangel1410 Is that why you want a wife?
@@undercoverangel1410 She won't be fruity like you so she'll be just fine.
@@undercoverangel1410 Are you still looking for a wife?
You will never see Omar Suleiman or any of his gang of compassionate imams ever talk about this 🤣🤣
Omar Suleiman’s entire platform is just dedicated to Muslimahs 😭
Be careful about backbiting Muslims 🤨
There’s so need to talk bad about someone who has actually helped the Ummah, you can commend them without bringing Omar Suleiman down. There’s no need to cause division in the Unmah, that was the whole point of this podcast.
@@LateefahTheMuslimahHe has caused far more harm than good. So many muslimahs have become 🌈 because of him!
@@LateefahTheMuslimahEnjoining good and forbidding evil is a part of the religion. This is warning other muslims against deviants
@@theanna8472No wonder you like him
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