SHE LIKES YOU BUT DOESN'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP - Do this
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
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00:00 - Intro
01:18 - Why she does that - Number 1
02:16 - Number 2
02:53 - Number 3
03:29 - Number 4
04:08 - How to respond
04:53 - response 2
05:53 - Response 3
05:59 - Response 4
06:36 - Response 5
07:03 - Response 6
07:50 - Final thoughts
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Love won't have you confused. It isn't worth it. If she's saying she likes you but doesn't want a relationship, it's probably because you're not her ideal type in terms of looks, if it's not any of the other things that Jessica said.
1.she is not attracted to you, sexually
2.fearing to be heart broken again
3.have nice conversation.bring her mind to uh
4.dont be too serious to her.we need to talk stop this.
5.tell her actually how uh feel,don't beg
6.tell her wat uh want ,let her know like her
7.listen to her carefully.
8.focus on ur self.stsrt working on ur goals.
9 give her time to think
I can tell you from recent personal experience RUN don't walk away from that arrangement.
I’m currently in a situation like this… it’s kinda frustrating… especially when she says she likes you… but she’s not giving a positive answer
just gave this reply to someone earlier, so was I Walk away I just did exactly what Jessica said.she read my message , but trust me like you or not you will be in her mind, but don't let her be in yours,, as long as your energy is pulling on someone you cannot have, they will feed off it knelt or not ... when you bring your energy to the here and now, and look forwards then they will feel you unplug and that high energy drain away,... she will feel it go then you allow new energy to enter.
Most girls will come stalking and curious to know if your still are into them, the very fact they are getting attention is enough, regardless of weather she wanted to date you. from here she will try small tests to get your attention, bearing in mind if she had any interest at all in the first place, so send a last message don't say you wont message or call again, just disappear and you have to mean it and action that will, then you will one see how much she was into you, or two it also allows you to let go so its a win win .
Never invest in anyone who isn't willing to give you the same, women are not attracted to easy they like mystery. if not that person is not meant to be in your story.
Walk away and if she wants you, she’ll come after you. If not, protect your heart and move on
Move on bro, you’ll see something better ahead
Cut her off ✂️ & move on bro
Very educative Jess. Thanks!💙
Extremely good insight as always from Jess. But as always don't Simp for any woman. Move on and start working on yourself. You'll be alright without her and probably any women. Don't be afraid to live your life alone.
I'm in that exact situation actually and I'm amazed to see that God's talking to me through you Jess❤️
Walk away I just did exactly what Jessica said.she read my message , but trust me like you or not you will be in her mind, but don't let her be in yours,, as long as your energy is pulling on someone you cannot have, they will feed off it knelt or not ... when you bring your energy to the here and now, and look forwards then they will feel you unplug and that high energy drain away,... she will feel it go then you allow new energy to enter.
Most girls will come stalking and curious to know if your still are into them, the very fact they are getting attention is enough, regardless of weather she wanted to date you. from here she will try small tests to get your attention, bearing in mind if she had any interest at all in the first place, so send a last message don't say you wont message or call again, just disappear and you have to mean it and action that will, then you will one see how much she was into you, or two it also allows you to let go so its a win win .
Never invest in anyone who isn't willing to give you the same, women are not attracted to easy they like mystery. if not that person is not meant to be in your story.
Lol
Hopefully soon you would find the right person for you.
Excellent content. keep up the great work.
Sincerely, you've touched on every topic possible in the issue of relationship. Hope to see more✌️
Well said Jessica!
Sometimes one rejection just leads you to a better option down the line.
I have been watching for sometime now you're full of wisdom Jess. I love the way you speak . I'm pass looking for relationships but l still watch your videos because I find them very interesting. Keep up the good work. Awurade Nhyira wo paàà.
Jess this is wat I was waiting for
Thank you Jessica for such helpful insights and advice!
This video is going to help lots of people. I've been there before and looking back I'm proud of myself because some of the useful things I did are listed here.
Great video Jessica, thank you.
THIS is the conversation I needed to hear. All confirmations. Thanks, Jessica! 💛
Dis was all I was waiting for 😊 Łøvê u Jess
I can find someone better
Hi Jessica.
You impressed me with your content. I should have started to watch your videos long before.
All the best.
I hear what you saying Jessica O But Like My Mom told me When You show a woman your interested and she doesn't show you the same interest in return she's not interested. I'm not playing these guessing games with someone that doesn't show interest I Dismiss myself quick. There's no need to talk or even continue even a platonic relationship period. God Told me to Find The Woman not chase her period I'm The Prize not The Woman. When a person shows you with their actions they not interested, Lose Interest and move on ! 💯 O.G. Florida 🌴
Thanks you jess this message couldn't have found me in a better time...needed to hear this.
Sometimes you have a natural chemistry with someone, but they don't meet your standards for a relationship. This happens to both men and women, it's just part of dating. Don't chase after someone who has to be "convinced" that you're up to snuff
Thank you so much madam ur voice is so helpful for everyone and I hope to have broad minded and open hearted soulmate like you.
That is confusing, you like me but you don’t want a relationship with me…I mean don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with having a friendship but on the one hand, if you don’t want to take it to the next level with me then let me know so I can be on my way, don’t just lead me on and drag me through the ringer.
like you in female talk is your not for me.
@@missrockstarglamazon6846 good to know
Nice one, many thanks Sis, Stay blessed
Guys, if a girl ever shows u that she's not interested, be respectful to both of u and her n let it be, try another girl. U'll find urself a woman who'll be ready for a serious relationship.
Yeah that is the best decision out there..
It may mean the Lady is not meant for you out there,
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Attention doesn't mean Intention 💔💔💔💔💔
Bars my guy!!!
Hey Jes, I really admire your knowledge
I have a friend in the same situation. They even kissed but she says she's not ready to fall in love. Now my guy is confused as to whether to commit or not 'cos he seriously don't want to get hurt and I'm not ready to be a comforter in that regard.
This emotion happens all the time you know.
She's not interested, he shouldn't chase after or offer one-sided commitment to someone who is ambivalent
Thank you for Norishing & wisdom advice, watching you from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Nice one Jessica, I love the way you come clean in all your topics. 🫡
Thanks for this information
Thanks you, I always Hear, Consider and Value your Insights (Even is sometimes is Not at 100%)
Thanks Jessica
I love the way you speak. I celebrate your Wisdom. I'm a big fan. My book is full. We'll meet one day @Jessica Os
it's simple, you move on and don't stress about someone who doesn't want you
I love your teaching
I swear sometimes i think Jessica knows what is going on in my love life lol.
Just met this that i really like a lot but she's not ready yet for a relationship.
It bothers me because i can't figure out what is going on with her. As always Jessica you are right in the money!
Thanks for all your advice queen 👑
Most likely she’s not into you liek that
Thank you Jessica
Jessica your such a blessing and I really love you very much and for your detailed videos on these very necessary and most important subject matters.
God richly bless you and give you more wisdom to guide us always. Thank you 🙏
My ex who dumped me a while back, still likes me although she doesnt wanna get back with me. So i felt like "she's not attracted to u" made sense. For the most part, I strongly feel like ive grown pass all the other tips i just heard. Nonetheless, i think this was a good video. My fav tip was probably the last one she shared: focus on your self. Or just give it time if u have time. If u dont, then keep it moving bc there's plenty of fish in the sea.
I was this close with the lady but after proposing she told me she has nothing to do with relationship with me. So we should maintain the friends zone and nothing more because she isn't interested.
Thankyou Jessica brilliant video this video was very helpful for me as Iam a seperated person for last two years and I can't seem to move on with my life
I find it very hard and she says it's up to her if she wants to come back to
She said its my choice.
I feel I need to do something quickly as there are women who like me.
Kevin from Radcliffe Nr Manchester UK 🇬🇧
Kevin xxx
Competition among men for her is fierce without them necessarily knowing. So she treats her lower options like that, confuses but not rejecting them so they stay around if her higher options fail. Validating her too, increase her self esteem and libido so she goes to the next guy full of confidence. On the other hand she is pretty clear with her higher options, she could directly tell him how much she likes him, she wanna live with him, wanna move in his place, wanna see him tonight in her place. While she treats her lower options like a school girl 😉 that lower options act like a free psychologist and free psychology booster 😉😜
For real
Good. Fair exchange ain't no robbery
Everything you just said was helpful,,,
Thank you
Thank you Mama 🙌
She said she doesn't want a relationship but she gets jealous when she sees my with another ladies
This is the art of all ladies. They hate seeing a guy with another girl at all costs
You are forcing the options to be smaller, and if there is one thing that women do not like, it is less choices!!
Get her really pissed off kiss your new lady passionately right in front of her
You’re her plan B, she doesn’t want you, but just Incase her plan A doesn’t work out, you have to be available FOR HER that’s why she doesn’t want to see you with any other woman, you’re her backup plan
@@TrapHausCreo Bingo!! And there could be an C and D plan and most guys are those lol
Very nice of you GOD bless
THANK YOU JESS.... 😀
True, you amazing 😍
I just love this woman ❤️
Thanks Dr i jst did that and it worked for me the first point
thank you so much i really needed this advice she was cheating the whole time !
Jessica you are simply the best I have ever watched ❤😘🫶💪
This was very helpful🙏
I wished you made this video early tho
She more likely has avoidant attachment or has bpd. RUN!!!
Very interesting 👌
Thanks Deary
Probably seeing another person or she has feelings for another man. Won't reject you straight but keep you around just in case. Could be she is a gold digger too
Powerful piece. Thanks so much for sharing this, I'm grateful Jessy, cuz you're saving many of us (guys) from getting ourselves being dragged to the ditch by today's ladies...
Since I am a single female, sometimes it's you men that cause us to drag our feet.
@@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 more elaboration
well, maybe there's a reason or something about the guy that she isn't 100% sure about or something the guy is lacking or missing and she can't say it. or you can ask her what would make her want to date you, be bold and communicate just like Jess pointed out, it's not easy at all. have a happy day my friend.
Thx Jessica fr this video walai
That's fine with me not looking for a relationship myself 💯
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Thank you j
Not to sound sexist but she’s one of the very few women whose advice I trust.
Hello Jessica your hints are so helpful and educational
Kelvin writing for Finland
Thanks Kelvin
I have seen this happen when she only wants your money. The guy is usually too blind to see
Yeah I have, maam
This video was of much help, l went through still going through almost everything you said here my power is l don't chase her and then she end up texting tryna find where l am what am doing, she claim to be single, we spoke about us then she said she was hurt before so she scared to date/commit and she doesn't want to be toxic to me l realised she probably still want to mess around, sometimes she go out on Saturday come back on Sunday late feeling guilty l don't ask none honestly sometimes it's because l don't care ... like sometimes l feel like quitting
Yes this is really confusing😂
Thank goodness that I am happily divorced and do not want to be in a relationship, I am content just being a single female and travel alone and do things by myself. Relationships can be a nightmare if one isn't lucky. Life is short and try to be happy by yourself.
Powerful ✌️
I’ve had to watch this twice 😊
A many of women have told me that she "don't want no man"; but they want to shed some "crocodile tears"-I still have feelings 'bout certain ladies, though I don't jump in bed with just any woman: I'm celibate almost 10 years & scared of most of these ladies!!
There are Bunch of Fish in the 🌊 Sea
I love you Jess ❤
Tough situation for me. We've liked each other for near a year, and she gets heavily jealous when im around other girls, and she constantly wants hangout with me, and texts me constantly.
My pleasure anuty Jessie.
🇸🇱💪✌️💕✊🙏.
She THINKS SHE is BETTER THAN You!!! THIS IS THE WORST TO DATE!! RUN!!
So i'm a "stand by" rebound for her.
Ma, you're just a wonderful psychology teacher respects goes to you
Ligit the video I wanted
I subscribed
I’m talking to someone who got out of a multi year relationship. She says she mentally is not ready for a relationship but she says she has feelings for me and even says we’re dating and are exclusive to eachother. Essentially she still wants time to become mentally prepared for our lives to become intertwined which would be caused by a relationship. I told her I want to be with her and that I’m willing to wait until she feels mentally ready. As of right now we’re going to continue to date and be exclusive until she is ready. To add more context she has told her close friends about me, we see eachother consistently etc. I feel that is a good sign? Any thoughts?
I'm in that same boat
@@alfredmatthews1746 the uncertainty of it sucks bro
You don’t really know women 😅 I pray you don’t get disappointed anyway
Jess thank you I’m in the exact situation and it has been like an ongoing nightmare 🥹
I av a girl who calls me her friend in front of people,it's quite very painful bcos I really like dis girl and since we met I haven't seen any girl who I love dis way....m in a quagmire,,,I pray God help me come out of diz.
First here again!
Hi. About advice no.4 i don't agree. Saying out about expectactions especially in the early stages of s relationship can only kill the whole chances for a relationship. If a woman know what our plans are, it kills all the mystery.
I have just told her that I need to cut contact for a while to focus on myself. Before that I gave her mixed signals that I wanted to stay friends and wasn't totally honest with her and myself about my feelings for her. Have I made the right decision and is there any hope?
Mummy I've been with you for long and I enjoy every bit of your gifted knowledge and wisdom. Please can I have a personal time with
There are plenty fishes in the sea
She matched with me we talked for hours. We went out on my B-day which was confussing because, I asked her before and she said she wasn't ready. Then she asked me out on my B-day. She said she had a great time and she wanted to do it again. When I said I just wanted to maybe take a walk, talk and maybe hold hands...she said she wasnt over her ex and we could be friends.
Thats cool and everything but Im not looking for friends and my profile and I myself expressed this. Now its me making all the efforts...if I didnt message we probably wouldnt talk for days. I ask all the questions and she just piggie backs on them. She said that I had to pick the next place we go to.
I told her I needed to think about it and I would keep her posted. That was a few days ago. I havent said anything because I dont want to fall in love with another emotionally unavailable lesbian. I'm over dating because its always the same...they arent ready, they arent over their ex, they dont want anything serious, they just want friends...it just all sounds like I need to just go mind my own business at this point.
Fact
1 year later seeing this im in the same situation "The freind zone" i can relate this
I agree in part with what Jessica is saying....however I think as adults we need to be up front and very honest about what we are looking for and want.....I believes that type of honesty will save a lot of time and keep you from investing time in someone who really doesn't want to be there.....But we have to look at the signs and look at things for what they are and not for what we want them to be .....if a person doesn't want to be there , just go and stop trying to convince them....in some ways trying to sell yourself is SIMPISH...imo😀
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Okay. So Madam Jessica, what kinds of phrases can you use to ask her state your position in her life?
Hi Jessica you are Amazing please can you record a video with your husband 🥰
Greetings Mr Jessica. She told me, she's not good for me. That she's not worthy of my care and concerned.
My ex and I where together for two years she begged me to wait for her while she went to school we were a match she said I love you first , will you move in with me and so on always her starting first . Now since she’s in school and doesn’t have time for me now she wants to be just friends says she commit to things she doesn’t know if it will happen and when . We have never been in a fight and had a great year she’s used me and hurt me so I walked
Been there done that my neighbor perfect example. Seemed we were very compatible but...... She only knew me for doing repairs and her personal 24 hour supermarket. Lasted only 3 weeks as got tired of her dreaded knock at the door. Big smile and of course oh do you have this do you have that, can you fix something for me. In the 3 week time she " borrowed " 16 items and asked me to fix 4 things. Never had the items returned. Even knocked on my door 1230 am with a huge glass and wanted some milk took every drop I had without concern that I had none myself left
Wow. Thanks for sharing this experience bro. Some of our ladies today are just selfish and parasitic without consideration.
Stop blaming the women only because the men are also doing it.
man thats not a woman showing interest, thats a woman with out a handyman who doesn't want a man in the house, you where Handy 🤣😂🤣
@@missrockstarglamazon6846 ha ha I can fix pretty well anything but I could not fix the problem of being her handymart and available 24 hours
oh my goodness, she is something else, lol.