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Ryan Serhant began his first day in the real estate business on September 15, 2008 - the same day that Lehman Brothers filed for bankruptcy in the wake of the subprime mortgage collapse. While the real estate sector has steadily recovered, Serhant himself has quickly become one of the most successful brokers in the world, with agents under his leadership in New York City, Los Angeles, Miami and the Hamptons. The Serhant Team has been named by WSJ Real Trends as the #1 real estate team in New York for two years in a row, and the #2 team in the country, selling close to $1 billion in real estate last year. Ryan is consistently the youngest broker to make the Journal’s top ten list each year.
Ryan stars in the popular Bravo series “Million Dollar Listing New York,” which just wrapped its seventh season. On September 18, 2018 - the week of his 10-year anniversary in real estate - he debuted his first book, Sell It Like Serhant. When pre-sales were announced, Ryan was #1 on Amazon’s daily list of “Movers and Shakers.” As star and producer, he also debuted his new Bravo show, "Sell It Like Serhant," started a successful vlog ( / ryanserhant ) and launched an app (Agent Empire: NYC). There is nothing Ryan can't do. His motto communicates his professional and personal philosophy, "Expansion. Always. In all ways."
I love how real Emilia is and how brave was Ryan to include that real conversation moment at the car in the vlog. LOVE when a vlog style video comes out in this channel, the motivational ones are fine, but I LOVE the vlogs.
Pray this prayer to go to heaven and pray it from the bottom of your heart plzzz
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior
Agree 100%
Wives are very honest... "don't try to sell this dream, that's not real"
Lol
Yep he was caught w his pants down. He films want he wants and then hears the truth, ha
Exactly. Glad he included this! He can take it because honesty is important.
Yea, but we don't go on youtube for facts okay, we want to be inspired even if it's fairy tales
And husbands need to not dismiss that honesty or the wife ‘checks out’.
If this man was a lawyer he would be the real life Harvey spectre.
Truth!
Lol
Hah so true
he would like Chuck from Bettet Call Saul
I think if Harvey specter were real ...Ryan would sell him an apartment.
Emilia is honest af, she says what she feels which is awesome and the most imp thing in relationship
You can only enjoy yourself and feel comfortable if you're being honest to your partner
I think Ryan genuinely thinks he can give a 100% to everything, and that was an eye opening for him.
Certainty 100% self importance.
Tbh yeah, although not everything he does is 100% perfect, I think he should still have that mindset, self confidence will get you far in life.
Emilia is right. You can't have it all. You cannot give 100% to everything.
I also think it´s not healthy to put 100% in one thing (if that is even possible). You gotta have time off and time with friends/Family and doing something you like besides Work. You know if people go too fast they burnout or get stressed and that slows them even more down or even prevent them from working. Better find your own balance and pace.
john air Tell that to med students 💀
Yea but then what are you doing in New York then.
I'm good at that (not giving 100%) :D
And why is that ?
Love the clip where Emilia tells you how it is and acknowledges seasons of life. You taught me a long time ago communicate and appreciate and the rest falls into place. Thanks for the video was a great candid convo with you and her!
Emilia is the BEST. Glad you enjoyed the conversation we had ❤️
I was going to comment about phases of life and she put it wonderfully. I'm glad Ryan has someone who helps keep him grounded and keeps it 100 with him
@@c.b.411 100% agree!
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Pray this prayer to go to heaven and pray it from the bottom of your heart plzzz
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior
I love that she called him out on his reality from her perspective. It gave Ryan the chance to better his work/life balance.
Emilia needs to start vlogging. She is saying meaningful things so effortlessly. Really enjoyable to look at and listen to.
honestly your like the deadpool of real estate! So much fun but at the same time! super educational!
He looks like ryan Reynolds also
Jamal agreed
Well said
Pray this prayer to go to heaven and pray it from the bottom of your heart plzzz
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I am a sinner. I believe You died for my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life. I confess You as my personal Lord and Savior
I love how honest Ryan is with Emilia the conversation they had in the car was very honest and real
I've been married for 10 years and I've NEVER been able to have a conversation like that. It was an honest genuine conversation. Wish I had that.
Speak up
That's really sad.
well that kind of sounds troubling
:(
You married the wrong person.
Hilarious. After she called him out saying he doesn’t have work/life balance. He then begins the rest of the video trying to prove her wrong..... LOL!
Ryan, darling, it’s OK to admit that you can’t always have balance. Loosing your balance is part of living balance in life.
That last line tho
Just remember, in the end, she won't care about tall buildings or shiny toys.....she wants "daddy" ❤🙏🏽
thats the kinda shit tv shows lie to you about. The children of these insanely rich people on tv constantly want their dad to be with them, but its not that they prefer their dad over their get anything they want lifestyle, they want both
Until they reach their teens, then they want a different kind of "daddy"....
@@australianpatriot lol
@@australianpatriot lmao....Bro....
That’s why he makes time for them
This last section should be called "Cook it like Serhant"
Serhant Cooking Lesson 1: How to make the worlds GREATEST omelettes
The omlettes dod look pretty good
Ryan Serhant Serhant is tall, handsome and humble 😂😂❤️
What we can take from this is that ryan hasn't cooked in a while
The absolute worst thing you could ever say to someone that works their ass off "You have it easy". Ryan low key got pissed lol 5:42
Lmao. nothing more triggering than being told you have it easy when you work 80 hours a week.
I saw that! Hahaha but I’m sure he understood she meant he has it easy when he comes home..
he didnt seem angry he seemed to accept that having a meal at the end of the day makes all his hard work worth it, because hes coming home to ease. When you love someone you don't look for criticism in their words, you feel for truth.
Well in other words she said you have a good wife at home
Unless you’re a Mum, you really don’t understand the depth of ‘you have it easy.’
Keep in mind... Emilia had a work life identity... then you become a Mum.... and it is relentless... and you miss the ‘old you’. You miss being able to do what you want, when you want. Even when Mums go back to work, they have to plan for the baby and then themselves.... while Daddy can just cruise to the gym and work and not even consider if the baby needs anything, because they KNOW it’s taken care of.
It is the Mental Load of being a Mum.
I hear you Emilia. I hear you.
I’m so glad you said what you did, Ive watched these blogs, heard your story of infertility, and then watched these vlogs wondering how your days are, and if you’re doing ok xoxo
Sending love from a Mumma in New Zealand xoxo
Well I love Emelia. She’s amazing. Congrats Ryan on marrying a real jewel. ❤️. It is clear she is queen and the balance.
I've had people tell me I'm crazy for scheduling life, but its the only way I can keep my sanity and make sure I dedicate the time I should to the things that matter
“Discipline equals freedom” -Jocko Willink
I schedule life as well. Keeps me organized. It’s a smart thing
Ryan's wife is very understanding, and Ryan tries very hard. I'd love to see a vacation vlog, where he takes it easy. See him hang with his family and add a little vacation house touring with the fam.
After watching this vlog, I know my grandfather’s advice was more true than ever. The most important thing in life is to “marry well”. That’s what makes easy all the other things.
Keep up Ryan, love these kind of vlogs!
I'm stuck in an endless loop of serhant's vlogs and I can't get out of it
I'm at the point where I even rewatch them multiple times 😅they are just so good
@@Yes2LifeShowsameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
That sounds like an AWESOME endless loop to be in!
I just watch them because i wish i were as sexy as he is 🥺
right??? tell me about it!!
I believe that Ryan is this successful because of his ""wise"" supportive wife.
He was succesful before meeting her but still it helps
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Without her he would be.......successful.
I LOVE that Ryan gives 100% to everything he does and by giving a lot of time to work now he is building an empire for his family....WHAT IS YOUR LEGACY??? Ryan knows what his is, and his wife and kids do as well!! I love this family such a great example to everyone, fantastic, motivating, and fun. All the best to them and I applaud the effort to make a difference in this world instead of passing the buck. Thanks for the gift of your precious time Ryan and family!! BAM!!!
“She grows up and she’s like my dad worked hard”
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Ryan, your wife is incredible!
This is one of the best videos I ever watched, and no 1 of your vlogs!! The fact that you include your life partner in your work is absolutely amazing and definitely helps with life and work balance considering your extremely busy schedule. You are by far one of the greatest examples for me, and probably for others too, from all the successful people out there. Your energy, your passion, your excitement is absolutely amazing!!
After reading your book, this topic was on my mind and gave me some introspection into balance in my own life, once again, thank you! You are awesome!
LOVE UR VLOGS.
THIS ONE IS ONE OF THE BEST ONES. Taking a peep in your life
Thanks for all the videos.
You have been a major drive in my life
Definitely, totally agree, huge inspiration!
OMG Ryan Liked this. OMGGG.
LOVE FROM SINGAPORE.
Ill meet u one day for sure!
@@LennefalkStudios yes. Ran 3mils for 37 days straight encounting. Thanks to Ryans Ready Set Go. Lost 4kg so far. THANKS Ryan
@@hakim9973 that's fantastic, epic progress! running and walking are key. I also lost 10 kg in 4 months and documented on my channel 💪😊🌆
Ryan's wife should be part of his Vlog way more often.
Wise woman!
What made this video was Emilia telling you what you could work on. We see you on CZcams,TV, Insta, Facebook, etc.. So we see you as someone with very little to no flaws. It was refreshing to see that you might make mistakes like that with the rest of us haha. Keep being an inspiration to us all!
lol Ryan with the mask on but under his chin 🤣 Doing great Ryan !
LOLOL
Not only did I love this episode but I just finished listening to your book 'Sell It Like Serhant' on a total POWER through because it was SOOOO good!! I truly got so much out of it and will use the concepts my business for SURE. Thank you for taking the time to read it yourself - what a difference to have your personal flair as part of the audio. Well Done!! #inspired
You know if there was a “love” button that would definitely complement this video so much better then a “like” ! Serhant STRIKES AGAIN!
Ryan man you really help me so much to push forward especially when I think shit is falling your videos inspire me and make me realize that I can just get up and stop complaining and keep on going. I showed all your videos to my previous sales staff and it movitated them to sell more . Please keep up the great work always looking forward to the next video !
“You will never feel truly satisfied by work until you are satisfied by life.”
Whoooo! She is growing! Keep feeding her, stay happy little one and stay blessed! Your wife has a great point! You can have it all, just not at one time and there will areas that might not get 100% and don't let it be your families well being! BALANCE is the key.... 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
I really love how honest this couple is, that's the main key to maintaining a healthy relationship. Ryan, you are an inspiration to me, also makes me laugh a lot, thanks man!
Who else thinks Ryan is the most productive guy out here?
He’s gotta be lol.
I believe he is!
Casey Neistat was, until he realized it is not working and his relationship almost broke. Now he turned 180 degrees. Just look at Casey’s old vlogs... and the last ones. Ryan will see this eventually... A doctor once told me, why run 100% all the time, if you run at 75% sometimes your still ahead the rest...
I love his enthousiastic vlogs!! This is real and all of the crazy busy business folks outthere need to learn to spent time with the family and being a great dad
For a person that doesn’t cook much you did a great job. Love the life illustration. My job is to make my husband an omelet every single morning. (I cook/brown the veggies in the pan first to add flavor, then dumped the eggs, cheese and seasonings in (tip: add a teaspoon of water per 2 eggs to make them fluffy) Don’t cook eggs on a high heat or they will be tough and rubbery.
The moment when Ryan asks his daughter "Do you want to see more of me?" and she nods her head yes 😩💔
And I love that his wife Emilia kept it a buck: "He doesn't have a work-life balance....You don't know how to balance work and life."
She says he puts work first, and I 100% believe her. But props to her for being so honest (and to Ryan for not editing that out).
I've always liked Emilia's down to earth, practical, straightforward thinking and actions. You lucked out with her, Serhant. You'd be wise to never forget it.
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He is not some kid, his name is Jack. The house is lovely, materials things are not everything but it's very nice to have a comfortable life thanks to having a hard working, loving, productive and honest husband to provide for his family, it gives you the freedom to do whatever you want to do in your spare / alone time.
You are a true uplifting aspect on my day. I really do love looking at your vlogs everyday. I'll even watch more than once. I just love your whole entire outlook on life. Definitely an inspiration for me truly. I would seriously love to visit NY to meet you. Just to have a conversation.
12:37 fire extinguisher
6:35 - 8:11 :
Wow, Ryan, this really impressed me. Your explanation about how you structure your life and the rules you and Emilia have set up make total sense!
I'm glad to see you guys are wearing seat belts in the back seats finally.
Thank you for this video. Having a wife and 4 kids while being a small business owner is tough to try and balance. I love my family but it’s my business that supplies them a comfortable lifestyle. Besides my passion is growth and creation. You provided some really good tips.
So much prefer this style of vlog (like your early ones) rather than the constant motivational twaddle you’ve churned out lately. More of this real life stuff 👍
I was inspired just by how truly driven you are it's another level no doubt when I found your vids on CZcams a while back you were one of the people who really showed me that you can do what you love. Although it is an amazing amount of effort I used to think it was possible for work life balance It's no secret that family and friends will underpreciate what guys do or partners do I have come to realize like all driven ambitious people we try and do it all I used to think it was possible Im not saying you can't in my experience I have come to realize a hard truth and that is you will never be able to make everyone happy and I became exhausted trying to, what you do for others is amazing keep inspiring !!!
that ending though!!
He is amazzzinnngg. " and thje best part about having a healthy work life is being super successful and not having to clean it." hahaah yessssss
The small conversation between u2 was the bestest part of d video.... A perfectly matched couple.... Where one has passion of achieving & is 💯 dedicated to work for it, sumtimes it works sumtim it dont.... & There comes partner for support; cool & calmly explain its okay life can't be 💯 perfect... imperfections r also prt of it... Which makes life challenging....
Loved Emilia honest thought 😍😍😍
Would love to see you & Emilia switch roles for the day!!!🙌🏻
Shelley Carter she is a lawyer...she works with him
Interesting input of Emilia...
"You can be Super Successful enough to say, You should Clean It"
-Ryan Serhant😎
Best part Ryan doesn’t jumps or talks so enthusiastically in front of Emilia 😂😂😂 so this truth is world wide Husbands do go off in front of their wife 🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥
These two are great together! He works very hard for his family and Emilia understands that. She’s right no one can “have it all” it’s about percentages! BCC is a great idea! Scheduling is brilliant. Team work!!! Good job Ryan well done!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi Ryan, love your vlog and books. Could you please ask your team to gather all “Ready,set,GO!” Quotes which you did in your Vlogs and make a short clip? so i can save it and watch when i am down on energy :) you are true inspiration. Thank you and keep making more vlogs.
Hey Ryan, I don't know if work-life balance will get you seeing this comment but, when we watched you on the show, we individually agreed that we liked you. So it has become a mutual agreement! I love the idea of 4 pans on the stove all at one time. I told myself, geez, 1) What a great concept! Saves some time standing there when there are other things to do! 2) That just made me conscious about doing things more efficiently going forward! Thanks Ryan! Also, I don't know why, I live overseas in the U.S. territory of Guam, and the last show that I remember seeing maybe 2 months ago was when the cast got together with Emilia still pregnant, and the rest of the cast either with little ones or expecting little ones! Your daughter is gorgeous with those big round eyes. 😍 How old is she now? Anyway, stay Serhant cool! 😁 P.S. Is Luis still in Puerto Rico?
he forgot the main reason why he can have all the burners on... HE GOT A TEAM THAT DID THE OTHER THINGS, THE PREP WORK. I need a team lol
My work/life balance is pretty insane too, I work 40-50 hours at a grocery store, I'm growing my business, side hustles, and spend very little with my sister and mom.
Hey Ryan!
I'm starting my journey in real estate this week! Thanks for all the motivation!
Please keep putting out all the quality content!
Onward & upwards!
a smile, a hug, a word of joy n wisdom, a hug, an adventure, to or from yr family n friends is of greater beauty and value than a $20,000 watch, or a vanity house as monumental as the pyramids
when steve jobs was shifting apple into high gear he lured a pepsico ceo skully by saying, do you want to spend your life changing the world or selling sugar water
do you want to spend your life planting the seeds of a nourished civilization, or do you want to collect and sell monuments and prehistoric pinecones
A happy wife creates a happy life! Your family deserves every bit of your time.
One day I’ll watch Ryan speak live. My life has turned upside down ever since I started watching and writing down what he says on these vlogs. 🌈
I'm Greek. Came here as a child from Athens. Been watching you for years now. You do your wonderful family right. You have a great wife and beautiful girl. Stay proud and healthy Ryan. Cheering you all on from Cali'...
The balance is one of the toughest things about being on 24/7. Having kids at home and constantly saying I'll be right there, or I'm almost done, knowing that another seller or buyer is going to call or email the next minute is just brutal. I'm constantly thinking about the cats in the cradle song. I think getting to the point that you feel comfortable not taking every single lead, or going on every listing, is when you start to actually balance... but then anyone serious about the business or who has been doing it a while will always have the nagging feeling, "What if I needed that lead?" for when things start to dry up again. With the waves of the market it's hard not to always have that in the back of your mind when you want to provide everything for your family and make hay while the sun is shining.
lol Ryan wife spittin the truth. You could take it easier Ryan you have plenty of money selling houses does not really matter. Preparing the next generation is.
It’s not about the money. Think of something you love doing, imagine getting paid to do it.. you wouldn’t want to stop
@@SuteDevices people don't stop doing drugs. It doesn't mean it isn't eating away at their lives.
Everybody’s definition of work life balance is different. And if you love what you do for work, it becomes a lot easier to spend more hours per week ‘working’
Thanks for another awesome video!! I would like to see more vids with your wife she keeps it real. Def respect your hustle and her down to earth vibes great couple 🙌🏽❤️
Totally love what you said about saturdays being for family but still keeping your phone on you to take calls- also love the honesty here🥰🥰beautiful family - thanks for sharing!!
Zena was about to grab the camera, like man 'whats this thing right here?' 😂 she is sooo cuteee!!!
Absolutely right. It’s making it work for you and your family. You two are adorable and blessed to each have found your soulmate. Emilia has grown into her ‘mummy’ role so beautifully, and is soo wise. You obviously treasure your family. Thank you for sharing.
Love you and your family - Serhant ❤️👍
Epic inspiration as always, keeps me pushing my own channel, fitness, chasing deals and staying fit with healthy foods 💪🌆
I love the 4 omelet cooking as balancing work, health, friends, and family! ☺️ Thank you for your videos Ryan they keep me going. We can all be successful and live our dreams🙌🏻 💯
Ryan you're a huge inspiration. You motivated me to start a CZcams channel about self development during the pandemic!! Keep inspiring ❤️
I feel you mate, I did the same thing hahaha
And now he’s about to hit 1M subs
Same here, epic inspiration and also started a channel in Hong Kong 💪✌️🌆
@@PhilippeStemberger good times to start new channels for sure after this inspiration!
@@joymae yeah it's totally crazy, but well deserved
Beauty video as always. No such thing as balance but communication is evvvvverything. We appreciate you!
Can you be my Mentor Ryan I’m so fascinated with everything you do!!! Everything is amazing and so inspiring.
8:33 THE WHIP SOUND, LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
If we’re being honest... the omelettes were 6/10 😉
Great topic, work life balance is something many of us struggle with especially when you have kids and spouse added in the mix. Thanks for the advice and for including Emilia and also for not editing her out 😊
so good to see more reopenings here in florida we shut down restaurants and bars last week terrible.
If only some of us had that luxury of coming home being able to tell your significant other what you did at work that day...due to some people’s nature of work, you can’t keep them in the loop, and that’s what makes it even harder with that communication piece in a relationship.
I believe so, anyone can do a 100% worklife balance, I believe everything is attached and depended on the other, you work on health, keeps you working taking care of the family.
Okay; this one REALLY made me laugh! Screwing up the omelettes was really funny and then having them turn out great. Yes, life can be messy. I really needed that giggle today. Thanks, my brother; stay blessed!
Every time I finish one of these videos I always feel like I can do any and everything I set my mind to
Love the work life demonstration! Thanks so much!
if you need to ever stop..... and get somewhere you can hear and enjoy life at no cost to oneself except time, if you want life, you have got to stop and reflect, sometimes for days to get out of the insanity, i did 40 years ago, i live with nature and the maker, God Bless drop by any time!!!
Making an omelette for the first time lol 😂 too funny … ultimate test for chefs lol good thing you’re great in real estate! I love your chanel! I love your content! I love your personality ! I think (from a woman’s instinct) your wife wants to make your meals … maybe … more power to you ! Love your homes! Love your style ! 👏 your family is beautiful 💖
Love this vlog 💙🌎💙
100% AGREE!!!!!! You surround yourself with the right team....communicate with your partner....LIFE IS SO SWEET!!!!
@Ryan Serhant I have a lot of respect for people that are transparent, authentic, and most of all vulnerable! Thank you for sharing a vulnerable moment with your wife Emilia. I truly believe a balanced life is a lie! The question of balance is a matter of priority. Extraordinary results demand that you set a priority and act on it. When you act on your priority, you'll automatically go out of balance, giving more time to one thing over another. It´s all about counterbalance :D An extraordinary life is a counterbalancing act. This is the reason I follow you...because you DON´T HAVE A BALANCED LIFE! because you inspire me to counterbalance my life to achieve extraordinary results :D GREAT VLOG! Thank you and all your amazing team! Greetings from Los Cabos, Mexico!
Ryan : "we should do a day where we trade lives"
wife : "nervous inner noises"
Ryan Serhant puts work first. He is all about expansion in Allways in All Ways.
I love how he advised viewers to be kind, right after he called his employees bitches and told them to clean after him LMAAAOOOOOO this guy too funny man
Love the honesty and authenticity!
This was real relationship and life venture that is amazingly transparent. Thank you for sharing your intimate world 🌎 with us.🙌🏼🙏🏽❤️🌹👍🏼
Great things i could learn from u and Yes ur energy ur excitement ur activity ur schedule ur body shape all are an ignite to me to do and seek for what is called great life