LOVE IS BLIND: AD & CLAY'S WEDDING DAY FROM HELL
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Why not tell her beforehand and protect her from the humiliation.
Absolutely, I would have never did that to anyone. I'm letting that person know in private. Men are a trip
There was no humiliation just dignity and 100%support from everyone seeing her walk away to a better place
Because he wasn't ready to end his relationship with her. AD said during the season and also in interviews that whenever Clay would tell her that he didn't think he was ready to get married she would say "that's perfectly OK but I won't continue to date you afterwards". He really did love her and didn't want to lose her but he wasn't ready to get married just yet.
Why wait until she's all dressed and ready to then tell her. Wasted her time, energy and money.
He’s narcissistic and he’s actually getting off on her pain, that he has the power in his hands to make or break her. I would never speak to someone like him again. People like him will make me wear orange and I don’t look good in orange, who does…?
He did her a favor. She dodged a nuke.
And yet she’s still in contact with him, just shows women love negativity
@@oskien0714shows desperation
No he dodge a mommy she's desperate
@@anonymous101-sb1bfit's not desperation it shows her true love you can't move on that easily
@@ansuputhenveedu1015 true love from a male she just met that she continues to give access to her in hopes he will change his mind ok sure true love ... Those tears were "this could have been my only chance".... No way she didn't know something. You can lie all day but your energy will give it away... Going on a scripted show to get married is very close to desperation
what an asshole!!! why wait for the wedding to say no?!😳
And he is talking a load of contradictory bull crap..
@@cherylseebreth328exactly, he couldn't even keep quiet, he's so confident in justifying his actions
This is love is blind show right?🎉🎉🎉 most of them is not ready because of many issues let them deal it in time…
True total AH
Exactly 💯 he KNEW long before getting to the altar 😢
The lies he tells! He knew he never had intentions on marrying AD
This TRICK! Run for your life.
Exactly!!! Wasted her time
Is this a movie?
@@enumsarwah7342 Love Is Blind TV Show
@@enumsarwah7342 No, it’s a tv show
When a man tells you that, accept it and move on.
Men marry who they want to be married to.
But he should have told her, before letting her get dressed up, and totally embarrassing her in front of the world. He already knew his intentions. That's so hurtful and a crying shame. 👎👎
It's not easy 😢 I have a baby with my boyfriend and he's telling me these same things. My heart aches.😢
Yes but why at that time 😢
@@user-kx1xr5zd3vyou'd rather that than to waste precious time on NOTHIN
What he sows he will surely reap.
He embarrassed her in front of everyone. He could have told her before they got to the alter.
Coward.
Facts Thank you 🙏. She probably felt that they can’t fight through it.
To the male in this video: It's hurting me to hear you lie. But baby girl...he's just given you the greatest gift. Say nothing sweetheart & turn around , walk away. Delete him from your phone, all electronics & life. Enjoy your life.
I love the power of her silence in this clip. Silence is golden. ❤
He is lying. Now she can see through him by her silence. Dude
I'm convinced Love is Blind is a humiliation ritual.
Just walk away baby and find someone who genuinely loves u and wants the same things you want. ❤
She did. But he still wants to prove his case after he wasted her time. She has accepted what he said.
Who is genuine period. No one can make a person love another
That's the problem. Don't find someone. A man who seeks a wife?❤ Be grateful and let the tears flow.
@legslipsandlashes9831 I would have never spoken to him in life again.
Boy take a damn seat, you should've made that decision before you took her to the alter and embarrassing her in front of everyone
He need to have several seats.
But The embarrassment is still better than a tortuous marriage.
Exactly
He’s not ready for that but made the choice to get up that morning. Get dressed. Get there. And wait for her to show up to tell her all this? Nah. He ain’t shit period and regardless if she sees it now or not, she dodged a bullet and his “no” was her blessing
Haven’t watched this season but it looks like he just wanted to be on TV. I blame casting for letting this motherflower get this far.✌🏽
Ironically they humiliated the darkest bw on the cast
@@BooksandLooksTVHe did that. He could have done what Jimmy done. It was all about him.... I, I, I, me,me,me. Prick!
I didn't watch either but I did see the short of him saying he couldn't marry her at the altar. To me, he wants to prove his case, and again, she has no argument. She accepted what he said. He would have to get out of my face, seriously.
He did. And his best friend already said. He's GAY
@@kaydubya6347 “Shocker”, said no one with any sense. And shame on these sistas who habitually fall for these brothas on the down low. Talk about denial just bc you want a ring. And, no, y’all, I’m NOT blaming the victim. I feel for this woman but c’mon now she had to have suspected something bc bruh isn’t exactly Cam Newton.✌🏽
He's a coward, why would you go on the show you knew what it was. Toxicity starts here.
Girl he knew he wasn't ready for marriage I don't know why men wait till the last minute to tell the woman move on and find you somebody that's ready to take the next step find somebody that's going to make you really happy and when he is ready that's when he's going to want to come back but it's going to be too late
So women don’t drag men along until they find what they really want? Women do all the time. Men waking up now
THE RULES OF THE SHOW FROM THE FIRST SEASON...WAS ...MAKE YOUR DECISION AT THE ALTAR.
That part
This show going to get someone hurt 🤕 smh it's so dumb
Y’all please, this cat will marry someone else in 3 months, if he had that in his heart ♥️ like he said he did, he would have told her prior to humiliating her in front of her family and GOD, but I admire the sisters strength and her bridesmaids they road with her.
He claims he couldn't commit off of a 'great two weeks,' but then states that he has grown with her. He has other motives for being on the show and it's certainly not to find a wife!
He’s not really ready to settle down with anyone. He wants his cake and ice creams too.
Kate and Edith too
She should have kept her legs closed.
Ninja wants Tyrone
@@sarah_d.o.z.😂😂😂
It's unresponsible of you to say no at the altar, to belittle her and embarrass her in front of friends and family, you are🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮, you beautiful lady. Don't give him the time, heal and move on.
what a trash of a guy... he did her so wrong by doing that... pathetic
NARCISSIST
Text book! He loved dumping her! And he’s gonna do it again.. to her!
Smh
Yes he is 💯 😢
My first thought
You guys throw this word out like crazy ... My goodness
@@OlgaLabadie if the shoe fits
He was smiling while telling her the wedding was off at the ceremony. He knows what he's doing. Find the strength to stay away from him.
I respect this young man. Most females will see it with emotion. He’s telling her don’t take me when I’m broken,but like most women they want a I’ll fix you project. It will be sad that she loved him when he was broken and now he’s putting the work in to be who she need she’s curving him.
Never let a man tell you two times he's not ready
I wish my first husband would have told me he wasnt ready. I could have saved 20 years of my life. So girlfriend it may not feel like a blessing but it is. Your husband is out there. Your tears will be tears of joy one day.
Hmmm how can "she be the perfect girl" and you are not ready to give 100% when marriage is a journey not relying on 100%....Deep down he thinks he can do better.....and she feels ..he is the best she can get. "Learn to love, what good for you"😢
He doesn't love you.. no one that loves you does this & he's talking about how he feels..You need a man that thinks you are a Queen..LET HIM GO!! Never let a man tell you he doesn't love you more than once..He's trifling😢💔💔You deserve soooo much more👑👑
He did right. Don't enter into a marriage then mistreat her! He has issues to overcome before total commitment. AD will see this blessing in the future...it hurts right now to see it.
True, but he shouldn't have let it go this far.
Thank you😮
@Precious-ex5er perfect should have stopped ✋️ at preparing and gathering under one roof. He is on point but wrong time,girl trust God if you still love him continue and heal yourself knowing well life sometimes is not what you see.❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉Him:I'm not rejecting you!!! Take these words to heal your broken heart.❤❤❤❤
“This is gonna be my wife forever I couldn’t make that decision today” that’s messed up, he’s actually saying I don’t want you to be my wife forever. Why wait on the day of their marriage to reject her, what a d***
No need to listen any more. He will waste your time. Move on
"It feels like I am not ready, you know?," Her answer: "Yes, it dose."
Me. That answer was priceless. Class all
Of the way.
It's his loss. He doesn't see it now, but he will soon. Move on. Don't wait for anyone that discards you.
Wow we heard different. He said “it feels like I’m *rejecting* you”. And she said yes it does.
His heart not broke he didn't want here in the beginning. She not hurt she was saved from destruction let his Ass alone.
I think this guy get confuse if he do it like that there's something behind this . Someone might work against they marriage some evil people . Someone was working against my marriage but prayer make it happen because that was God will for me.
This girl is so so beautiful inside out and calm my problem is he shouldn’t have wait till that time in front of everyone and he said that he loves you when u truly love someone u have to care about their feelings good God man all me started to cry this girl love you I can feel and see it 😭😭😭😭
Why are you on the show, then ?
He’s correct. They shouldn’t get married that fast, that is just common sense. Date a while.
Didn't he watch the show?
He agreed to be on the show, and that's what the show is about. He wasted her time and the show time as well. He wanted to be on TV.
@@mikadre12 show business is show business whether He/She wanted to be on tv or not. Marriage can come later with more time being spent together.
@@terelltinsley1454 his best friend said he's gay....the guy just wanted to be on TV.
@@loveconquersall419 I felt a that he had that sauce in there 😂
He will marry a woman of another race. This is our reality as black women. So scary and heartbreaking 💔
His friend said he's gay...he wants a man. This was for the TV check.
U could tell he didn't want her meanwhile Ken wanted a woman just like AD
No because yall choose men who clearly don't want u. Why would she carry on being with him especially when he said "I can work with this".
Black women want validation from men alot.
Exactly you couldn’t of said it better sis I’m surprised this comment doesn’t have way more likes but I guess some other BW can’t face the truth fact of that reality . Clays like most BM he’s probably a colourist too he wants a trophy lighter and brighter woman and AD is a beautiful dark skin sister but his self hate won’t allow him to make him his wife
2 Things:- 1. If he wasn't ready for marriage, why did he go to the show to find a wife?
2. He didn't marry her because, according to him, he wasn't in love with her. He probably loved her body but not in love with her enough to let himself be kept by her. He deceived her.
She must never ever get into his bed again, forever.
She walked away with her head up with dignity. So proud of her.
He making it seem like she forced him to do this talking about " I've said"
I love love AD….. she exhibits so much grace, class and mercy.
He is saying all that just for her to feel sorry for him while he's the one who's a jerk
The fact that u won’t marry her is NOT the main part!!! The gaslighting is crazy!!! He could’ve told her ample time prior to the damn ceremony!
Get rid of him. He saw her and said "The body" then announced she had her period. The guy is a narcissist. RUN...be thankful he gave you mercy...and just humiliated you a lil instead of destroying her life
She can't get rid of him he already did that for her😂
When did he announce she was on her cycle?
He said body and SHE said Period ! Her catch phrase. Just like he says ALL DAY and she replies Oh Clay 😊
Screaming period is just current black vernacular that works like an exclamation point. He wasn’t outing her menstruation.
His father messed him up smh.
He loved her so much that he embarrassed her in front of their families? That’s a boy! She dodged a bullet! 😐
I can't believe he did AD like that.
No, this man is fuckin evil. Oh my gosh, I feel for her... Those are real tears... Oh Wow! Why didn't he have this talk with her before the wedding day?! She's going to be traumatized for life... My heart is breaking right now. I pray she meets a good man someday that can make up for this trauma. Those are real tears.... :(
May be he’s a narcissist
When you're in so much pain you just shut down. She is broken and trying to process it all.
He Knew He Was Not Ready when he propose to you , he took your love as a joke 😅
He's aware of what the show was about: by the end of 2 weeks or so he'd have to marry someone. So it's either he's somewhat delusional or had no intentions of marrying anyone there at all. Or am I missing something...?
Did he have to do this in front of the whole world....he can kick rocks on a very short cliff.
Why put her through the humiliation, you should have said that before, I am sure the right person is waiting for her, he is doing her a favor.
He should have said it sooner, but at least he didn’t marry her and ruin her whole life. Take it as a blessing. Signs were there. His delivery was good letting her know it wasn’t her.
But saying I LOVE YOU in to weeks ain’t bizarre too?
If you were blindly in love you would definitely marry that person. And he was definitely not ready to make that commitment bc he clearly doesn’t love her. He still wants to be single
He sure didn't reject the career 304 Celina Powell! AD dodged a bullet.
And Celina already confirmed he’s a cheater, liar and his daddy’s son. Then, she disrespected his mom. There men and their 304 preferences smh
Girl whatever you do don't go back to him. You deserve better. He knew he was not ready before he proposed to you.
He said he did not reject you but that's what he did when he told you no infront of all those people. Girl the rejection is a blessing. Run!
Why you didn’t tell her this before you went to the altar?? Why embarrassed her in front of everyone? I wouldn’t forgive you if I was her. Girl 👧🏽 RUN 🏃♂️
He did not humiliate her..he told her the truth..good man..plans can be broken
Are you serious. He rejected her at the altar, and you are saying it is not humiliation. God
Honesty hurts when love is involved
There's a harshness in his voice that's disturbing.
He has no right to be this harsh and its almost bordering on hostile.
She dodged a bullet. He's not introspective. He's making this ALL about him.
There's a softer way to reject someone. This is so so wrong and heartless.
Literally
Someone who loves you will not hurt you like this,… because when someone loves you, they will not leave you in any circumstances… if someone ditch you like this, that’s not love… run away from this mf….
Well move out the way so she can find her real husband.
😮 men find wives.
If this is meant to be it will come to pass. You want the man God has for you at the right time. 2 weeks is not enough time to really know you are ready for such a serious commitment.
Agreed 💞💞
When she whisper saying "yeeap it does" ...I felt her pain 😢
Why didn’t you tell her before she bought her wedding dress wedding cake invitations flowers? food, music, flower girls, maid of honor what they paid for their 👗 the . bridesmaids . wedding 💒 venue photographer I can go on and on no he waits to tell her on the day they’re getting married what a coward she’s better off without him one day she’ll realize that.
She stated they had multiple conversations about him not being ready to be married one day and then the next he is. I wish she didn’t ignore those red flags because the second someone tells me they not ready then ✌🏾
He has all rights, but thing is - YOUR WORD IS SHAKY NOW. Move on girl- Maybe next LIFETIME 😮
U KNOW WHAT U'RE DOING 😏 😉 😌 IT'S NOT WHAT U DID IT'S WHERE U DID IT
REALLY THE DAY OF THE WEDDING😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮😮
He lacks integrity and character, no wedding plans nor relationship, should have happened at all, he’s a player, leave and don’t look back AD.
My oldest daughter did this to her Husband 😢she new she was Gay, but married my son-in-law anyway, and gave us a grandchild and then gave us hell within 2 1/2 years the marriage was over😢
True this must hurt..At lest he is being honest..She is better off
Air time
I’m 60 years old and was married for 27 years and 4 children ❤
It’s Over and Everyone is Grown and Gone😊
PEOPLE WITH ANXIETY DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS!!!!!🤨
Good for him for telling the truth 👍
It's not fair to her to expect her to wait on YOU to be ready? Bro needs therapy, and she needs to MOVE on because she is ready.
It's true tell her from the start
I can’t hear him talking nonsense! Girl you did right things, and God Will give your own husband on time! Never give up.
To be self aware enough to know where you are in life. I pray she understands. No one wants to be married to someone who is not prepared for it..
He should have been said that
Man tell you the truth and its still not enough..he dont love u..just move on
He could have said the truth a little earlier, like, before the wedding day… just an observation.
I appreciate his Honesty.
Yawl saying he should've told her b4 hand
He was battling DO I GO THROUGH WITH THIS MARRIAGE TO MAKE IT LOOK GOOD OR DO I HAVE TO BE HONEST WITH MYSELF? HE CHOSE HISSELF CUZ HE SEE SHE DESERVE BETTER.
HES NOT REEADY, IM PROUD OF HIM ❤BETTER NOW THAN LATER BEING MISEEABLE
I commend him for saying no at the altar. It is never to late to change your mind.
I appreciate this dude because he is keeping it 100 with her. I just don't like how he waited till the wedding but I do salute him though.
So sorry for your tears, you are a lovely young lady. If this is real, you don’t deserve this. It is absolutely cruel. I hope God will heal your precious heart. 🙏🏼❤️
Is she really hurting or is this all just acting. I can’t take these reality shows serious. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Cuz his on the down low, and this really bring tears to my eyes cuz boy wen I tell you man like that will forever be hurt and confused and jacked up in life for turning down the one you kno you letting down. Stay strong beautiful 👑💕💪🏽
It hurts now but you will feel better later. The worse thing you can do is marry the wrong person. Love is not the only thing in marriage. Marriage is so much more. If he is not ready please let him go, otherwise you will have a life full of pain. God Knows best.
How is she still standing there listening to him? Lord I need strength not these evil thoughts in my head!!
This has happened on this SHOW before. This is not the first time. They have seen the show. She and he knew it was a possibility. And anyone who has seen the show should know it's a possibility that somebody will get dumped at the altar.
So this is relationship that tried to be serious but they are not… it’s crazy cause the next woman he meets he’s going to treat her better.
The way she listened and tears fell down her eyes😮.i had to watch this year.
I love how she is just listening and not arguing. Class act God has the right guy for you who will appreciate you.
But if you are not ready, why do you go on that show. It’s fir people who are ready to get married!!!!!
Girl find yourself a wholesome man. This one is broken i inside. He feeds off of hurting people 😡
Boy bye I be walking so fast out the door he wanted a moment
He’s not attracted to her. I hate when men do this! Just tell her! It will help her in the long run. It’s simple I don’t want you!
Some women want to get married immediatly to men who they dont know theyre not into commitment because she thinks he is happy with her even after all the sex
Stop playing at the Alter , stop playing around with marriage .Stop playing with God’s arrangement. You need someone to slap some sense into you !
Although I understand what he's saying he should not have let it react to this point and embrassed her in front of everyone
Hear him loud and clear. Brother is just being honest
Move on from him. He will never wife you. No love there on his part. I wouldn't even listen to him after the humiliation.