I don't know why, but I didn't really like the wife much...Husband was cool in the interactions, and the other participants too. But the wife seemed a bit jaded and negative to me
It was nice to be able to give that perspective as well. For us it also allowed us to see how much our relationship has evolved from when we were in that early dating stage. We took little trip down memory lane 😂
@@DChris3 Like you said, that's your interpretation. Maybe she was tired, but she didn't seem negative to me. Remember everyone has different personalities.
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
Honestly what drew and vanessa were saying wasn't even the worst part, it's whenever other couples were speaking and u could see them on the side whispering to each other and laughing at the other couples while they were talking... genuinely that's not even just annoying its actually just rude lol
You clearly don’t know the definition of a hypocrite, having a marriage timeline and also not wanting a partner to have a diff sex best friend arent mutually exclusive
does anyone else feel like the couples misinterpreted the prompts? to me, being low on boundaries compatibility doesn't mean that you have strict boundaries. it means that the strictness of boundaries is very different between you and your partner.
i do. also in the appearance compatibility - the fact that they were allowed to talk kind of ruined the appearance thing but i think that's jubilee's fault. even if we were INCLUDING impressions, i think it needed to be more controlled to measure appearance compatibility.
kiyema and henry might not look like siblings but their aesthetic/vibes/styles looked so similar like i'm surpised ppl couldn't see pasr color and ranked them last fort he first round
i mean to be fair the siblings or dating is strictly for physical appearance and them having similar styles don't make them look like siblings 😭 in fact, more often than not siblings tend to have different styles
Also 8 years is a long time. I'm 22 and I have a strict rule I won't get married until I'm at least 28, but I also would not be in a relationship for a decade with someone who wasn't meeting my commitment goals.
8 years and he's already 21....that's a long time. I got my MSc at age 22, before turning 23 for instance. Yet this guy has 6 more years than when I graduated. That's enough to save up by yourself and buy a nice family home, for yourself, on your own. That is a lot of time. She is very generous.
why are drew and Vanessa acting like they’ve been married for 30 years and have 4 kids… y’all are literally only 20 and had one of the shortest dating times out everyone else on the set💀
@@Wikomp4 i mean they were very comfortable being the judge of who is in their “honeymoon stage” and who isn’t, drew was literally mocking one of the girls as if it’s wrong for her to be in love with her boyfriend and literally within the first few seconds of the video Drew is very confidently making fun of other couples- saying they’re “yapping” and being so bold in determining who is compatible or not💀💀 this is exactly how they acted in that lie detector video. Talking so much behind the other couple’s back but not being able to say it to their face where they can defend themselves
I agree. They know that if they had best friends of the opposite gender they may ruin the relationship and be their next relationship whether they want to admit or not they know.
@@rollitupmars all the comments were calling him wholesome and nice and im like ummmm where😭 he did it to the guy in the other episode and the guy turned out to be super sweet just buff.
I agree that she is. But for anyone who may feel insecure about that: she’s wearing a fair amount of makeup. I doubt she needs it, I bet she’s beautiful without it too.
@@MissSkyscraperit sounds like you’re the one that’s really insecure. What was the point in bringing that up? She’s gorgeous don’t be passive aggressive
Nooooo lmao. They both seem wise for their age, have same values and are women of colour. That's where it stops lol. Crazy you can't see their individuality 😅
drew and vanessa just went there to snigger at happy couples because their relationships are different ?? loool i cant imagine being annoyed at someone for being happy to be in love like huh? talking about rose coloured glasses and mimicking how the couples gush over their significant others? lord pls heal
@@kingsvg194 what truth? All they’re doing is being debby downers on people that are happy doesn’t make any sense to me. People like you and them hide behind being “real” when really ur just being mean for no reason. It’s clear they need to grow up yet that act like they know everything 😹😹
I’m wishing the best for Taliyah and Aliyah. They’re so adorable together and they just give me the vibes of being each other’s peace and that’s really hard to find ❤
Not sure if they want kids in the future, but they seem like they would be a wonderful parenting team. The love they have for each other is so clear. It's beautiful. ❤
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
Because they're 2 totally different things. 1 is a boundary and the other is a set in stone relationship/life goal. Him being a former "guy best friend" and the gf being the "girl best friend," I think it's reasonable they'd create that boundary. Far different from the goal/ultimatum of "if you/we aren't doing x by x time, the relationship is done."
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
none of the couples really showed their individual personalities, kinda feels like they exaggerated a bit or are still in the honeymoon phase. only the two girls seemed genuine because they were truly that deep into each others' lives and personalities.
@@klouxyy632there’s studies that show different chemicals are released at different stages in relationships. So, technically there is a honeymoon stage
I think a cool video idea would be to get a group of strangers in the room, and try to create the most compatible couple. Like each round the group works to see who has the most in common and who looks the best together, etc., and they have to eliminate people until the end.
I do wish Jubilee was more inclusive of other generations in this video. It seems like we have 1 millennial couple and 4 gen z couples. Would’ve been interesting to include more millennial, gen x, or baby boomer couples.
I agree with you, but jubilee is obsessed with woke couples, lgbt, interracial couples etc... that gives them more views, they dont care about true inclusivity
Lol I hear that. But I attribute it to their time together/friendship during their formative years. You develop a lot of non verbal communication, shorthand, a general vibe that comes off as insular and judgy...like no one else is on the joke except them.
I noticed that the married couple would get ranked higher by the other couples because they are Married, but then would end up lower after the nectar evaluation. I think people look at marriage as “you found your person, so things must be perfect”. I believe the other couples were looking at the married couple in the typical way most young couples do which is your life must be perfect because you’re married. But in actuality they are hit with the most strife and things to overcome that put them lower on the list. Marriage isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, that’s why a lot of them fail not a lot of people are willing to grow with a partner or stay true to what they promised because they didn’t quite understand what they’re getting into before hand. Life happens, and for (some not all)things get put above your marriage. Money, kids, society, social circles. This can all put a big strain on a relationship especially if you’re not prepared.
True! ❤ I was divorced at 26. Married due to extreme religious upbringing and pressure. We were waaay too immature to make it work. It can be wonderful but it definitely requires work, skills of all kinds and puts meaning into the phrase "love is a verb".
The fact that they are both different religions and she's Indian and Hindu means family acceptance is a problem in their relationship, which is one of the main causes of divorce.
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
no i had the same thought because if i was part of this line up n saw them snarking in the corner like that WHILST people are speaking, we gon have to get active.
@@rustupidrudumb4355 no like the way i wouldve politely interrupted whoevers talking to straight up call out drew and vanessa. "hi, excuse me, i noticed that every single time a couple shares something about themselves or their relationship you both are snickering and whispering your own comments to each other. why are you doing this? :) "
Thank you so much for having us! Meeting all of the other couples and hearing their perspectives was so refreshing. So grateful for the opportunity to share a little insight into our story- representation of healthy queer relationships is sooo important!
Why did you guys have Drew and Vanessa talking about the other couples in their interviews? It didn't appear that anyone else was talking about the other couples the way that they were.
I'm confused about the editing in general we didn't hear several of the couple's answers and which only made some of their rankings even more confusing especially when they would edit out/ fast forward the explanation process. Seems like Drew and Vanessa took up much of the editing for the interview parts idk maybe they just wanted some drama in the comments (they got it).
As insufferable as they were, they definitely edited the video to make them look worse. I wouldn’t be surprised if they just cut out the other couples talking about them
@Ronin.97 I agree. This video was not well thought out at all. Very disjointed and awkward. They should've had a more diverse set of couples, that were not all super young. This episode was really unpleasant to watch.
Drew definitely has a girl best friend. He also seems like the type to go off to college and cheat on his girlfriend, his girlfriend is insecure and lives in fantasy land lmao
Actually in another video they did that also involved couples. Drew’s best friend is actually a boy but he still thought that Vanessa still felt jealous over them
@@supporteason6949 But the way she responded to that “joke” definitely showed that she does genuinely feel uncomfortable with his male best friend. To be fair in the same video, she did say that he was a fuckboy so I suppose what she’s feeling just stems from trauma not necessarily jealousy in itself.
Drew is an actual narcissist and is way too cocky, even in the “lie detector couples” vid, whenever someone else talks or says something he doesn’t agree with , he’s constantly making snarls, rolling his eyes, giving dirty looks, he also got called out in the lie detector video for making fun of a guy for thinking “he’s alpha” and then when it was brought up by the host infront of everyone, he folded and said “no I truly mean it I wish I was as alpha as you”. He’s very egotistical and insane.
Vanessa deadass said on a lie detector test, in another video, that she wouldn’t be with drew if he was shorter than her. They both seem like crooked individuals so I’m glad they’re together.
Daisy and Max's relationship with the comment Drew made about " Daisy was putting a time limit on Max" felt so rude while making zero sense? She told her boyfriend what she expected from her long term relationship since many women waste 10 or even more years on partners that do not want to get married to them, which is a complete waste of time and energy not to mention money as well. She seems pretty smart and driven too, so its no wonder why she told him straight up that that's what she wants.
Yea I think he interpreted Daisy’s comment as “oh I tell him EVERYDAY” like no she said outf ront from the start 8 years. She set expectations clearly. 8 years is a long time and completely reasonable. If she said 1 year that would be a ton of pressure. 8 years is enough time to know if you’re compatible enough for marriage or move on. Drew was on the “alpha” male ranking video so his ego/judgment came through in this episode.
I think its probably because daisy and max do not believe in true love in a sense and more of a logical thing to do while drew and vanessa are definitely in love and believe in it so if you find your true love it shouldnt matter marriage or not, plus if daisy cares so much about marriage why not propose to him? Drew and vanessa are clearly best friends and in love and dont care what other people think about them
@@thatsinteresting3415 overall they acting like they was married for 46 years and now in a retirement home it’s just like no and they think they know all their shi when that’s not the case at all saying something about Henry and his girlfriend was really unnecessary
@@_Ash0099 No, they are complaining that the person wanted to be filmed, but it's Jubilee that wanted to film him. If Jubilee didn't want his opinion, then we would never hear it.
the dude with the black and white shirt and the red hair girl couple are so disrespectful to other people's relationship maybe that's how they were able to go from friends to lovers by not respecting their previous partners🙃 at first i didn't have an issue with them but it looks like mocking other people is the guys go to, as if no one can be different from him or something. like do they expect her to be oh it's not going to work out even if it's her first boyfriend? my father was my moms first everything and it worked out for them so stop projecting and even if it doesn't work out i think she's allowed to be excited about her relationship without being mocked for it, grow up tf.
Obviously she is in love with him and believe they are the ones for eachother and vice versa so ofc they will be worried about the other not feeling the same - also they are just making light-hearted jokes and sharing exactly how they are thinking, which may be something lits of people arent familiar with
I've seen another Jubilee video with both of them in it, and they have no issues telling you to your face their issue with you. These videos are heavily edited, anyway, so we don't know if they actually are talking behind people's backs or not. Something to consider.
The way they did the first ranking was harsh, especially for interracial couples. I can imagine feeling very isolated from that prompt. I understand that they meant no harm, but it was still disappointing to watch in real time. Cute couples though
Wasn’t that the point though? The various categories in the video literally showed that outward appearances don’t determine relationship compatibility.
I know Jubilee's target audience is Gen Z, and this channel loves dramatic content and people. But I just can't take these people in their early 20s seriously, most of them are bound to break up eventually, probably sooner than later. And they typically don't say anything substantial or valuable. Simran and Alex are the only more mature couple. Yet, even they're very young. Jubilee shouldn't only focus on sex-orientation diversity but also age, especially if you want to hear more wisdom. You all saw how the rest of the group reacted when Simran and Alex said they were having less sex after having a baby. That's completely normal, but what would borderline teenagers know about marriage and lasting relationships.
Yuh I wish jubilee had a large variety of ages. I feel like I’m always seeing 18-30 year olds the most. I WANT A GUESS THE COUPLE AND ITS ALL ELDERLY PEOPLE
I am 24 and I wholeheartedly agree. I wish there were older couples because I would’ve loved to hear their perceptions & wisdom. The way these couples perceived relationships as a whole and answered the prompts was a very shallow & surface levelled way of thinking. I also noticed a lot of them were too scared to open up about anything that made them seem as if they were a “weak” & non compatible couple. They treated it like competition which just goes to show how much they lack depth and knowledge when it comes to relationships. Relationships are not always easy & it takes a lot of compromising, team work, effort, trust, time & communication to build a strong n healthy couple. Realistically, most relationships do not work out in the end especially being so young. That’s why I choose to stay single. It took me two unhealthy relationships for me to realise this. Most people just don’t learn & end up jumping from person to person in hopes that they’d find their “soul mate”. We can’t rely & depend on somebody else to make us feel loved, worthy, “whole & complete” until we give that to ourselves first. Relationships really aren’t all sunshine and rainbows like everyone makes it out to be 😂😅
One of my favorite questions to ask couples that I meet are how did they know each other. Most of the time they will say dating apps, I also met my bf on dating app lol
Maybe it's a Gen Z thing, but I find Drew and (?) Overbearing. They were dominating the whole conversation and way the lineup went, but everyone is loving them. They were likeable in the last video though. I prefer the more laidback couples. Daisy and Max seem quiet and they got put lower or allowed themselves to be placed lower as a result.
@@pixle1354 for one they don’t know when to zip it. For 2 making comments to each other and faces because someone’s relationship isn’t exactly how they would be. 3. They think they are the epitome of love when they know nothing at that age.
No one will ever be able to convince me otherwise, telling your spouse that they can't have any best friends of the opposite gender makes you a MASSIVELY insecure person.
For me, my partner should be my best friend. Its a process of getting to know someone, getting to really know someone, and then seeing if we are compatible and want to take it further.
No way a guy best friend will always get with the girl if the opportunity is given. Even if you trust her you still don't want her around someone ready to swoop on at a moments notice
the lesbians were the most compatible in everything yet they always ranked them lower which was annoying... while they ranked the married couple much higher all the time and they had pretty low compatibility.
Aliyah n Taliyah definitely a power couple . drew n vanessa came off judgy asf n didnt seem to talk about EACHOTHERS relationship more just deflecting off of others, super weird lmao
Max and Daisy - I think religion will cause problems for them. It's one thing if you're from different religious/cultural backgrounds, but if one is a strong believer who places a lot of importance on his christian faith, and the other is agnostic, I think it will eventually cause a lot of problems in the relationship.
Hi! I’m a strong Christian and my partner is agnostic, and after almost 4 years it’s caused no issues! It just takes a lot of respect of each other’s beliefs, and of course forgiveness if the other says something wrong. For example, they kept swearing in a church when we went to a wedding because “it’s not my religion”, so we had to have a talk about respecting everyone’s beliefs again. And I have to make sure I don’t push my beliefs on them, because I never want to make them feel uncomfortable :)
@@zippythesloth3431personal experience doesn't negate the comment made. Generally mix marriages are frowned upon and many tend to give up. Happy for u btw.
fr ahahahaah... like its very odd too because this is just some random social media company like maybe if the app's data was backed from real accredited relationship therapists, psychologists, etc.. it would be worth actually using as a tool...
Just bc they’re married don’t mean they’re more compatible. They literally got pregnant a few months of dating… so they prob just got married to lock it down
@davidx. 1504 In another Jubilee video that came out out prior to this, both Vanessa and Drew have stated that he used to be a fuckboy that would pretty much make out with most of his female friends, and knowing that I think I can understand the reasons.
So, where would you rank? Get the nectar app: lovecommanectar.co/497Ru93
will it ever be on android?
I have a strong feeling we would come in 4th 😂
the app doesnt work- downloaded it and put in the code it sent me (tried both email and phone number) and it never loads 🙃
@michete: Jubilee's world does not exist outside of the US so there will probably never be an android app
@@kaitek666 but...I'm in the US lol
it was really nice to see a married couple’s perspective on this
agreed
I don't know why, but I didn't really like the wife much...Husband was cool in the interactions, and the other participants too. But the wife seemed a bit jaded and negative to me
It was nice to be able to give that perspective as well. For us it also allowed us to see how much our relationship has evolved from when we were in that early dating stage. We took little trip down memory lane 😂
@@DChris3 Like you said, that's your interpretation. Maybe she was tired, but she didn't seem negative to me. Remember everyone has different personalities.
loved them
drew and vanessa come across like they believe they are so wise, but in reality the other couples said way more real and wise things
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
Seriously like girl you’re dating your “guy best friend” calm down🥸
They did a lie detector test and did the best out of the other couples so they probably think that makes them best couple 😂
@@raimeyewens7518 yeah but those other couples were dysfunctional af hahah
Where do you get any of this?... When did they say they think they are wise, and what metric for wiseness are you using to compare them?
Honestly what drew and vanessa were saying wasn't even the worst part, it's whenever other couples were speaking and u could see them on the side whispering to each other and laughing at the other couples while they were talking... genuinely that's not even just annoying its actually just rude lol
Yup! Immature behaviour.
this
So pressed lmao
time stamp?
@@sillygooseisme 8:16, when the asian couple was sharing that they sleep on facetime every night
The couple that is criticizing the Asian couple for her timeline, but aren't "allowed" to have opposite sex best friends are hypocrites.
And 8 years is so generous too like if I’m with anyone for 8 years, I’d expect to be married too.
Timestamp? Might have missed it
@@Aubrey2004-j4k 17:43
You clearly don’t know the definition of a hypocrite, having a marriage timeline and also not wanting a partner to have a diff sex best friend arent mutually exclusive
How so exactly? I don't see the connection.
henry & kyiema seem so genuine and kind they're adorable
i love them together
theyre the cutest!! this is coming from a friend of theirs 🥰
Facts
yes omg they were my favorite fr ❤❤❤
they’re the baaaaaaaddest
First thing drew said was that another couple was yapping but him and his gf were the loudest 💀
I’m so confused who he was talking about
LITERALLY
That was in regards to themselves, it's their humor. It was a joke.
Yapping doesn't mean loud...
@@thatsinteresting3415 loudest as in the most talkative
does anyone else feel like the couples misinterpreted the prompts? to me, being low on boundaries compatibility doesn't mean that you have strict boundaries. it means that the strictness of boundaries is very different between you and your partner.
Yup
exactly i was thinking the same thing
Yeah that part
i do. also in the appearance compatibility - the fact that they were allowed to talk kind of ruined the appearance thing but i think that's jubilee's fault. even if we were INCLUDING impressions, i think it needed to be more controlled to measure appearance compatibility.
@@virtualtism you didnt understand the comment youre replying to
Red shirt guy is such a gem and very caring. I hope that relationship works out
fr fr
kiyema and henry might not look like siblings but their aesthetic/vibes/styles looked so similar like i'm surpised ppl couldn't see pasr color and ranked them last fort he first round
fact that they look physically different compliments their matching aesthetics more
He dresses like I did in middle school. Wtf is up with California styles?
no fr as someone in an interracial relationship as well that honestly stung :/ interracial love is normal and wonderful
i mean to be fair the siblings or dating is strictly for physical appearance and them having similar styles don't make them look like siblings 😭 in fact, more often than not siblings tend to have different styles
Time periods in Asian relationships are very common especially for guys, so i'm not shock when Daisy pointed out what she wants in 8 years.
I know what I want when I retire lol and I'm 19
Also 8 years is a long time. I'm 22 and I have a strict rule I won't get married until I'm at least 28, but I also would not be in a relationship for a decade with someone who wasn't meeting my commitment goals.
8 years and he's already 21....that's a long time. I got my MSc at age 22, before turning 23 for instance. Yet this guy has 6 more years than when I graduated. That's enough to save up by yourself and buy a nice family home, for yourself, on your own. That is a lot of time. She is very generous.
8 years is honestly generous imo. if you don't know you want to marry someone within 8 years of dating then you probably just don't like them
Exactly
why are drew and Vanessa acting like they’ve been married for 30 years and have 4 kids… y’all are literally only 20 and had one of the shortest dating times out everyone else on the set💀
Nah put time frames where they acted like that.
@@Wikomp4 i mean they were very comfortable being the judge of who is in their “honeymoon stage” and who isn’t, drew was literally mocking one of the girls as if it’s wrong for her to be in love with her boyfriend and literally within the first few seconds of the video Drew is very confidently making fun of other couples- saying they’re “yapping” and being so bold in determining who is compatible or not💀💀 this is exactly how they acted in that lie detector video. Talking so much behind the other couple’s back but not being able to say it to their face where they can defend themselves
Don't be so cruel. They were my 5th favorite couple :(
@@sesialukothey’re relationship is on the rocks obviously
@@Wikomp4noone likes them
I didn't like Drew and Vanessa they are like a teen couple who thinks they are the best examples of love, like plz calm down.
Jealous
@@lostizplim2052 no there just too much. i liked all the other couples.
fr
@@lostizplim2052 literally nobody likes them
And the walls have already got them already wow they look haggard
i love how aliyah and taliyah are holding each others pinkies while talking to the camera!! so cute!!
IKR, they're such a cute couple
they are so cute and pretty!!
and the fact that their names match 😭😭 adorable
"It's not always obvious, like Drew started off as my best friend" bruh you just proved the point 😂
Then she said "but i won't let drew have a girl best friend"
basically proving the other guys point ahahahah
I agree. They know that if they had best friends of the opposite gender they may ruin the relationship and be their next relationship whether they want to admit or not they know.
@@MysteryMatches Exactly. Lol
THIS
yeah like why did NOBODY bring up that that made no sense
Not Drew being messy again calling the one couple yappy then mocking them😭😭
He’s so annoying
@@rollitupmars all the comments were calling him wholesome and nice and im like ummmm where😭 he did it to the guy in the other episode and the guy turned out to be super sweet just buff.
@@777cherries To be fair, Jesse was kind of a douchenozzle, a surprisingly sweet douchenozzle, but a douchenozzle nonetheless.
@@Grimscribe732 they seem very judgmental
What couple was he talking about?
Kyiema is absolutely gorgeous!
Henry is so lucky
She really is!!
@@chichionwuzuruikemy exact same thought
I agree that she is. But for anyone who may feel insecure about that: she’s wearing a fair amount of makeup. I doubt she needs it, I bet she’s beautiful without it too.
@@MissSkyscraperit sounds like you’re the one that’s really insecure. What was the point in bringing that up? She’s gorgeous don’t be passive aggressive
drew and vanessa seem so judgy
They are even in the last video
@@rollitupmarssame I even saw the twice
they are. its gross. they think theyre a perfect couple and the perfect example of love
cringy
and obnoxious
aliyah and taliyah are basically the same person
its because of ghetto
That’s real
plot twist: they're fraternal twins.
Nooooo lmao. They both seem wise for their age, have same values and are women of colour. That's where it stops lol. Crazy you can't see their individuality 😅
They are both so gorgeous
drew and vanessa just went there to snigger at happy couples because their relationships are different ?? loool i cant imagine being annoyed at someone for being happy to be in love like huh? talking about rose coloured glasses and mimicking how the couples gush over their significant others? lord pls heal
ngl they were the most annoying couple
So annoying
They were just speaking the truth that yall refuse to see
Fr they're 20 y.o sitting there acting like they veterans. If your rose colored glasses faded away at 20 that's on yalls gg
@@kingsvg194 what truth? All they’re doing is being debby downers on people that are happy doesn’t make any sense to me. People like you and them hide behind being “real” when really ur just being mean for no reason. It’s clear they need to grow up yet that act like they know everything 😹😹
I’m wishing the best for Taliyah and Aliyah. They’re so adorable together and they just give me the vibes of being each other’s peace and that’s really hard to find ❤
Yeah I definitely think they’ve been through some stuff and their safe space is with each other.
love them favorite couple
Not sure if they want kids in the future, but they seem like they would be a wonderful parenting team. The love they have for each other is so clear. It's beautiful. ❤
Drew and Vanessa are giving, "we think we're better than all of you" energy its so annoying omw
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
they are better than all of them
@@7eddiiibetter clowns?
i didn't want to finish the video bc of them but the other couples were really genuine so i perservered
“She puts unnecessary pressure” but previously said “she can’t have guy friends at all”
fr how is 8 years unnecessary amount of pressure I can acknowledge if she wanted everything set within a year or two. 8 is plenty😂
@@chrissy9711if something is going to be 8 years from now, why would you need to make it a definite plan?
Because they're 2 totally different things. 1 is a boundary and the other is a set in stone relationship/life goal.
Him being a former "guy best friend" and the gf being the "girl best friend," I think it's reasonable they'd create that boundary. Far different from the goal/ultimatum of "if you/we aren't doing x by x time, the relationship is done."
Why’s Drew being shady when he’s the most annoying of the episode
the way they both communicate is just so immature its hard to listen whenever they are yapping
hes insufferable
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
did you miss the two men with the exact same name or something?
@@7eddiiiwho ?
Jubilee be trying to ruin relationships always 😂
messy af😭
fr
That's what Im saying 😂
After that jubilee will then making " matching people based on compatibility video"😂😂😂
That’s what I’m here for lol
none of the couples really showed their individual personalities, kinda feels like they exaggerated a bit or are still in the honeymoon phase. only the two girls seemed genuine because they were truly that deep into each others' lives and personalities.
lol yeah i agree, they need to invite couples that have been together longer
No such thing as a honey moon phase
@@klouxyy632there’s studies that show different chemicals are released at different stages in relationships. So, technically there is a honeymoon stage
watch a video and you think your an expert. clown
@@klouxyy632 be so fr
the lesbian couple is beautiful, truly meant for each other
I think a cool video idea would be to get a group of strangers in the room, and try to create the most compatible couple. Like each round the group works to see who has the most in common and who looks the best together, etc., and they have to eliminate people until the end.
Ok Jubilee needs to take note of this idea, I would totally watch!
I would love this
Would have to be with single people tho loool🤣
This is a cool idea.
I do wish Jubilee was more inclusive of other generations in this video. It seems like we have 1 millennial couple and 4 gen z couples. Would’ve been interesting to include more millennial, gen x, or baby boomer couples.
No one cares
@@girlplease2452 *Your mom*
I agree with you, but jubilee is obsessed with woke couples, lgbt, interracial couples etc... that gives them more views, they dont care about true inclusivity
@@excentrik5725It sounds like you have a massive problem with the way Julibee casts guests in their videos, yet you continue to watch them 😂.
@@excentrik5725”woke”😂
why was Max looking confused the entire episode lmaoo
Lmao bro was zoned OUT
He was weird
REAL 😂
no free
Maybe he was nervous
Drew and Vanessa are acting like relationship experts 😂 and I get the vibe they are envious of some of the other couples.
Lol I hear that. But I attribute it to their time together/friendship during their formative years. You develop a lot of non verbal communication, shorthand, a general vibe that comes off as insular and judgy...like no one else is on the joke except them.
@@mowainwright73No they were being judgy. The proof is in the very beginning of the video in their confessional.
I noticed that the married couple would get ranked higher by the other couples because they are Married, but then would end up lower after the nectar evaluation. I think people look at marriage as “you found your person, so things must be perfect”. I believe the other couples were looking at the married couple in the typical way most young couples do which is your life must be perfect because you’re married. But in actuality they are hit with the most strife and things to overcome that put them lower on the list. Marriage isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, that’s why a lot of them fail not a lot of people are willing to grow with a partner or stay true to what they promised because they didn’t quite understand what they’re getting into before hand. Life happens, and for (some not all)things get put above your marriage. Money, kids, society, social circles. This can all put a big strain on a relationship especially if you’re not prepared.
This was spot on
Beautifully put
True! ❤ I was divorced at 26. Married due to extreme religious upbringing and pressure. We were waaay too immature to make it work. It can be wonderful but it definitely requires work, skills of all kinds and puts meaning into the phrase "love is a verb".
@@diyalectic52 ooh I’ve never heard that before (“Love is a verb”🫨)
The fact that they are both different religions and she's Indian and Hindu means family acceptance is a problem in their relationship, which is one of the main causes of divorce.
Drew is such a yapper, i don't know if I like it
I don’t. He’s annoying asf
Same with his girl
He’s trying too hard!!
Facts
yall are so sensitive lmfao drew and vanessa were speaking facts. so many people get lost in emotions and that's why 55% of marriages end in divorce. y'all are so blind. statistics do not lie
really loved henry and kyiema! don't see as many ppl shouting them out
No really! They were my favorite!
they’re my all time favorite💕 my besties are so cute
Respectfully never bring Vanessa and drew back on to another video, they seriously have never been punched in the face and it shows
no i had the same thought because if i was part of this line up n saw them snarking in the corner like that WHILST people are speaking, we gon have to get active.
😂😂😂
they have punchable faces too omg sorry
@@rustupidrudumb4355 no like the way i wouldve politely interrupted whoevers talking to straight up call out drew and vanessa. "hi, excuse me, i noticed that every single time a couple shares something about themselves or their relationship you both are snickering and whispering your own comments to each other. why are you doing this? :) "
@@rustupidrudumb4355they ain't gon be laughing reading these comments
Thank you so much for having us! Meeting all of the other couples and hearing their perspectives was so refreshing. So grateful for the opportunity to share a little insight into our story- representation of healthy queer relationships is sooo important!
Yes! Thank you again Jubilee! We truly enjoyed being apart of this episode!
love you guys
you guys were so cute and seem to have such a healthy relationship :)
You and your girl are gorggg stay happy queen ❤️❤️
@@nessa7356 hey bae :)
Why did you guys have Drew and Vanessa talking about the other couples in their interviews?
It didn't appear that anyone else was talking about the other couples the way that they were.
I'm confused about the editing in general we didn't hear several of the couple's answers and which only made some of their rankings even more confusing especially when they would edit out/ fast forward the explanation process. Seems like Drew and Vanessa took up much of the editing for the interview parts idk maybe they just wanted some drama in the comments (they got it).
As insufferable as they were, they definitely edited the video to make them look worse. I wouldn’t be surprised if they just cut out the other couples talking about them
@posiub That was such an odd decision. It made Drew and Vanessa look like some haters.
@Ronin.97 I agree. This video was not well thought out at all. Very disjointed and awkward. They should've had a more diverse set of couples, that were not all super young. This episode was really unpleasant to watch.
@@posiubyuppppp
the married couple was refreshing to see their perspective and how marriage changes relationships. I love that.
Kyiema is GORGEOUS
ngl all the girlies ate on this video
Drew definitely has a girl best friend. He also seems like the type to go off to college and cheat on his girlfriend, his girlfriend is insecure and lives in fantasy land lmao
they were in another video where she said she was scared he would go to another college and cheat lmao
Oh which episode would that be ?@@veggiehugs1525
Actually in another video they did that also involved couples. Drew’s best friend is actually a boy but he still thought that Vanessa still felt jealous over them
@@whyismylifeweird4251 it was clearly a joke when he said that
@@supporteason6949
But the way she responded to that “joke” definitely showed that she does genuinely feel uncomfortable with his male best friend.
To be fair in the same video, she did say that he was a fuckboy so I suppose what she’s feeling just stems from trauma not necessarily jealousy in itself.
Drew is an actual narcissist and is way too cocky, even in the “lie detector couples” vid, whenever someone else talks or says something he doesn’t agree with , he’s constantly making snarls, rolling his eyes, giving dirty looks, he also got called out in the lie detector video for making fun of a guy for thinking “he’s alpha” and then when it was brought up by the host infront of everyone, he folded and said “no I truly mean it I wish I was as alpha as you”. He’s very egotistical and insane.
chill.... lmao
Yeah it's honestly so annoying watching them I hope they don't come back
People really like to hate on happy people, hes not egotistical i think its pretty safe to assume he’s joking
@@pixle1354every joke has a bit of truth in it
Vanessa deadass said on a lie detector test, in another video, that she wouldn’t be with drew if he was shorter than her. They both seem like crooked individuals so I’m glad they’re together.
Glad you are happy for them
Lesbian couple seemed the most compatible to me. Young couple but there seems to be a lot of respect and understanding shared between the two.
Aliyah and Taliyah literally have the same name with one letter added on’
What a profound and astute observation!
@@taliyagscan u stopp 😂😂
Omg what I didn’t even realize! 😧
Daisy and Max's relationship with the comment Drew made about " Daisy was putting a time limit on Max" felt so rude while making zero sense? She told her boyfriend what she expected from her long term relationship since many women waste 10 or even more years on partners that do not want to get married to them, which is a complete waste of time and energy not to mention money as well. She seems pretty smart and driven too, so its no wonder why she told him straight up that that's what she wants.
Yea I think he interpreted Daisy’s comment as “oh I tell him EVERYDAY” like no she said outf ront from the start 8 years. She set expectations clearly. 8 years is a long time and completely reasonable. If she said 1 year that would be a ton of pressure. 8 years is enough time to know if you’re compatible enough for marriage or move on.
Drew was on the “alpha” male ranking video so his ego/judgment came through in this episode.
I have no problem with an up-front time limit but 8 years is too long!
@@Cheray_ she was saying he has 8 years to propose to her - its a maximum, not a minimum
@@Playsch00l Yes. That's why I said it's too long. Max shouldn't be more than 2 years!
I think its probably because daisy and max do not believe in true love in a sense and more of a logical thing to do while drew and vanessa are definitely in love and believe in it so if you find your true love it shouldnt matter marriage or not, plus if daisy cares so much about marriage why not propose to him? Drew and vanessa are clearly best friends and in love and dont care what other people think about them
aliyah and taliyah are both gorgeous and seem to have such a healthy relationship! i loved them this episode
why are drew and vanesa so judgy??? OMG
Because the producers asked their opinions. It's crazy how when you ask people what they think, they then tell you.
@@thatsinteresting3415 girl no lets talk about how they was giveing other people side eyes when others was talking and giggling on the side
@@imayexr And? How else do you look at people who beside you? Looking up?
And uh oh, we got the giggle police! 🚓 🚓 🚓 No funny business! ✋🏻🚫🙊😶
@@thatsinteresting3415 overall they acting like they was married for 46 years and now in a retirement home it’s just like no and they think they know all their shi when that’s not the case at all saying something about Henry and his girlfriend was really unnecessary
@@imayexr How dare they have an opinion, when Jubilee asks them for an opinion. They should have just started fighting the director.
Vanessa and Drew are annoying pls don’t bring them back
they r so judgy for no reason
Ya tell them to stay off CZcams nobody wants to see them
Big fax, they judge everyone yet fail to see how disgusting they look
y'all should ... stop judgin' 😜
@@masaev4109they were mean and were mocking people unprovoked while everyone else seemed so sweet
why drew like to talk sh when the couple aint there to defend themselves? he really wanted that screentime huh
Hes just trying to be funny, and im sure vanessa shares the same sense of humor and that is the main person whos view he cares about
Jubilee literally gave him the screen time. what are you talking about?
@@thatsinteresting3415 why are you trying to start start something? that's literally what they said
@@_Ash0099 No, they are complaining that the person wanted to be filmed, but it's Jubilee that wanted to film him. If Jubilee didn't want his opinion, then we would never hear it.
Oh the lesbians crushed it
They were f*ing awesome!
Drew and vanessa are so judgmental lmao imo they’re the least compatible
I think they are so compatible cause they are both so terrible 😂
People's comparability is not based on how much you like them. hahahaha
the dude with the black and white shirt and the red hair girl couple are so disrespectful to other people's relationship maybe that's how they were able to go from friends to lovers by not respecting their previous partners🙃 at first i didn't have an issue with them but it looks like mocking other people is the guys go to, as if no one can be different from him or something. like do they expect her to be oh it's not going to work out even if it's her first boyfriend? my father was my moms first everything and it worked out for them so stop projecting and even if it doesn't work out i think she's allowed to be excited about her relationship without being mocked for it, grow up tf.
Obviously she is in love with him and believe they are the ones for eachother and vice versa so ofc they will be worried about the other not feeling the same - also they are just making light-hearted jokes and sharing exactly how they are thinking, which may be something lits of people arent familiar with
I'm pretty sure they were disapproving(?) of just one couple. They seemed to have a lot of respect for some other couples.
@@thatsinteresting3415 watch the couples lie detector test video
Drew and Vanessa so comfortable judging😅 Share the love lol. Kyiema and Henry look compatible and get along so we'll
Drew and Vanessa were yapping
They are professional yappers. Jubilees going to keep having them
i would not be friends with drew and vanessa 😂 im not trying to have judgmental people talking shi behind my back
Im sure they wouldnt want to be friends with you either
@@pixle1354 i fail to see how that is a bad thing lol
i’ve been friends with vanessa for 8 years 🤣 she’s not judge mental 🫶🏼
I've seen another Jubilee video with both of them in it, and they have no issues telling you to your face their issue with you. These videos are heavily edited, anyway, so we don't know if they actually are talking behind people's backs or not. Something to consider.
@@Stephanie-qi7ol tell her and her boyfriend to act better
The way they did the first ranking was harsh, especially for interracial couples. I can imagine feeling very isolated from that prompt. I understand that they meant no harm, but it was still disappointing to watch in real time. Cute couples though
it really came down to siblings or dating lmaoo
It’s not that deep
Isn't a known thing that it's easier to be with someone that is culturally similar to you? What you just said applies to every compatibility test ever
Glad you noticed this
Wasn’t that the point though? The various categories in the video literally showed that outward appearances don’t determine relationship compatibility.
pls don’t bring drew and vanessa back.
lesbian couple the only couple that seemed to have extreme depth emotionally in there relationship.
Facts
I know Jubilee's target audience is Gen Z, and this channel loves dramatic content and people. But I just can't take these people in their early 20s seriously, most of them are bound to break up eventually, probably sooner than later. And they typically don't say anything substantial or valuable.
Simran and Alex are the only more mature couple. Yet, even they're very young. Jubilee shouldn't only focus on sex-orientation diversity but also age, especially if you want to hear more wisdom.
You all saw how the rest of the group reacted when Simran and Alex said they were having less sex after having a baby. That's completely normal, but what would borderline teenagers know about marriage and lasting relationships.
Yuh I wish jubilee had a large variety of ages. I feel like I’m always seeing 18-30 year olds the most. I WANT A GUESS THE COUPLE AND ITS ALL ELDERLY PEOPLE
I’ve watched since my early 20s when i had that mindset and now that i’m 30 i would love some content that “grows” with my age.
I’m 24 and honestly even being only a few years older than these people I can’t relate to them whatsoever and see them as mostly incredibly immature
@@vl3525 This. Jubilee should grow and evolve with its audience, or at least make content for both the existing and new audience.
I am 24 and I wholeheartedly agree. I wish there were older couples because I would’ve loved to hear their perceptions & wisdom. The way these couples perceived relationships as a whole and answered the prompts was a very shallow & surface levelled way of thinking. I also noticed a lot of them were too scared to open up about anything that made them seem as if they were a “weak” & non compatible couple. They treated it like competition which just goes to show how much they lack depth and knowledge when it comes to relationships. Relationships are not always easy & it takes a lot of compromising, team work, effort, trust, time & communication to build a strong n healthy couple. Realistically, most relationships do not work out in the end especially being so young. That’s why I choose to stay single. It took me two unhealthy relationships for me to realise this. Most people just don’t learn & end up jumping from person to person in hopes that they’d find their “soul mate”. We can’t rely & depend on somebody else to make us feel loved, worthy, “whole & complete” until we give that to ourselves first. Relationships really aren’t all sunshine and rainbows like everyone makes it out to be 😂😅
Aliyah seems like such a nice person to be around. So soft-spoken and mature for her age 💕
its crazy all the couples met through dating apps
Not all of them
One of my favorite questions to ask couples that I meet are how did they know each other.
Most of the time they will say dating apps, I also met my bf on dating app lol
My bf and I had dinner at a coworker with another 4 couple and we all found out that evening we all met off pof. Pretty insane.
I think it's pretty common nowadays.
@@battybatboii_yt3431Yeah but how they got together is kind of sus…
taliyah is so gorgeous omg. what a stunning girl.
Maybe it's a Gen Z thing, but I find Drew and (?) Overbearing. They were dominating the whole conversation and way the lineup went, but everyone is loving them. They were likeable in the last video though. I prefer the more laidback couples. Daisy and Max seem quiet and they got put lower or allowed themselves to be placed lower as a result.
Its not a gen z thing. Some of us didn’t like him tbh😂
They were stuck up in the last video too everyone was just distracted by Jessie being shirtless and the girls relationship being so toxic
@@44RisingSun44 the lesbians in the last video were so bad
"Maybe its a gen z thing" points out 1 gen z couple out of many gen z couples
Doesn't age come with intelligence?
It’s not a gen z thing because all the other couples except the married one were also gen z 😂.
Drew and Vanessa are INSUFFERABLE. They are so beyond childish it’s cringe af.
How
@@pixle1354 for one they don’t know when to zip it. For 2 making comments to each other and faces because someone’s relationship isn’t exactly how they would be. 3. They think they are the epitome of love when they know nothing at that age.
@@AKprodutionsThey were asked to talk by Jubilee, who is paying them. What should they do? Say no and give up their pay check?
the lesbian couple is sooo beautiful 😍
Phuuuuk’n disgusting!
Kyiema is drop dead gorgeous 💖
No one will ever be able to convince me otherwise, telling your spouse that they can't have any best friends of the opposite gender makes you a MASSIVELY insecure person.
For me, my partner should be my best friend.
Its a process of getting to know someone, getting to really know someone, and then seeing if we are compatible and want to take it further.
@@AmiriHipHop disagree lol
Spouse = best friend. You should be allowed to be friends with the opposite gender tho
friends, yeah sure, but Best friend absolutely not??? But if you're into having female best friends then go for it. 💀
What boundaries do you think are acceptable in a relationship?
No way a guy best friend will always get with the girl if the opportunity is given. Even if you trust her you still don't want her around someone ready to swoop on at a moments notice
the lesbians were the most compatible in everything yet they always ranked them lower which was annoying... while they ranked the married couple much higher all the time and they had pretty low compatibility.
Aliyah n Taliyah definitely a power couple . drew n vanessa came off judgy asf n didnt seem to talk about EACHOTHERS relationship more just deflecting off of others, super weird lmao
The lesbians holding their finger are so cute, let's go lesbians, happy June, happy pride :)
It’s not June. Calm down.
@@littlewash17it is now 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🌈🌈🌈
@@User.777.1 LET’S GO LESBIANSSSS 🏳️🌈
@@User.777.1 haha that’s facts
@@MuseHathor let's go 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🗣
Max and Daisy - I think religion will cause problems for them. It's one thing if you're from different religious/cultural backgrounds, but if one is a strong believer who places a lot of importance on his christian faith, and the other is agnostic, I think it will eventually cause a lot of problems in the relationship.
Hi! I’m a strong Christian and my partner is agnostic, and after almost 4 years it’s caused no issues! It just takes a lot of respect of each other’s beliefs, and of course forgiveness if the other says something wrong. For example, they kept swearing in a church when we went to a wedding because “it’s not my religion”, so we had to have a talk about respecting everyone’s beliefs again. And I have to make sure I don’t push my beliefs on them, because I never want to make them feel uncomfortable :)
Not really. The only problem is if the religious person forces their partner to convert or if they don't allow their kids to make their own choice
Daisy seemed pretty chill about it. 🤷🏾♀️
Yeah I agree. It might not be apparent while they're dating, but if they get married, it's more likely to cause a big strain on their relationship
@@zippythesloth3431personal experience doesn't negate the comment made. Generally mix marriages are frowned upon and many tend to give up. Happy for u btw.
I dont care how many videos you put out, im not using the app
if you’re in a relationship- you should def use it! it’ll describe you and your ways of thinking pretty well
fr ahahahaah... like its very odd too because this is just some random social media company like maybe if the app's data was backed from real accredited relationship therapists, psychologists, etc.. it would be worth actually using as a tool...
I need Nectar to tell me how compatible me, my wife and my son are as a family.
Just bc they’re married don’t mean they’re more compatible. They literally got pregnant a few months of dating… so they prob just got married to lock it down
Or….they trusted each other in the long run. Marriage, traditionally, solidifies a relationship
Yup usually ppl marry like that to save face
They said they’ve been married 3 years so they had their child after they were married not that they were together 3 years
@@astarwilliams5095that’s what I was thinking lol they had their kid a year into being married
Judging cuz you’re lonely is sad
I ship Taliyah and Aliyah. Beautiful couple!
I hope Taliyah and Aliyah get married one day and have a happily ever after. They both deserve that. They’re such a beautiful couple 🥹🩷
2:45 The dude in the red was trying so hard to hold his girls hand lmaoo
Just noticed that lmao 🤣 😂
Drew and Vanessa getting the most screen time is diabolical work from Jubilee, most dramatic and least likable couple there
Because they know they will get comments. Like 90% of the comments are about Drew and Vanessa.
the lesbian couple is GORGEOUS
I loved Aliyah/Taliyah and Henry/Kyiema so much! Beautiful couples. The married couple was nice too.
I just realised 14 minutes in that the lesbian couple have the same name Aliyah and Taliyah. That went pass my head
I reallyyy like the way Aliyah balances her feminine/masc energy soooo much🥰
Aliyah and Taliyah made me so happy.
Vanessa and Drew wild for banning opposite sex friends, shits crazy to me
best friends*. There's a difference.
Not really considering their situation... if any couple were to ban that it would be a couple like that.
@davidx. 1504
In another Jubilee video that came out out prior to this, both Vanessa and Drew have stated that he used to be a fuckboy that would pretty much make out with most of his female friends, and knowing that I think I can understand the reasons.
nah bro if you start to date your opposute sex friend you cant just let that happen
its because *they* were the boy best friend / girl best friend to be worried about in their past relationships lol
0:01 you mean yourself?
Hahahaha, Jubilee surely seems to think so
Drew and Vanessa being so judgemental again 😭
Kyiema is gorgeous
Taliyah and Aliyah are soulmates fr🥺
Drew and Vanessa gets on my nerves
Tbh maybe Vanessa and Drew are soulmates bc I don’t think most people I know could put up with those kinds of personalities
You are exhibiting the exact same personality lol the majority of people in the comments.
i sense some couples breaking up after this video lol
Drew throwing shots for what reason acting like he’s better💀
He Clearly is
@@pixle1354all I see a white guy
@@fbiagent3998? 😭
because Jubilee asked him to. Do you not know how entertainment works?
@@fbiagent3998Kind of looks like the guy from Shameless.
AGAIN, how do you guys always manage to find insufferable people? (Drew and vanessa 😒)
Aliyah and Taliyah are so freaking cute!!!
kyiema and henry are so pretty omg
ALIYAH AND TALIYAH??? I mean cmon it’s in the name, I knew immediately, and I wish them nothing but happiness together forever
Time to lose my non existent sanity
aliyah and taliyah are so cute together
i love Aliyah’s tattoos and look so much😍
Aliyah and Taliyah and Kyiema and Henry are the cutest together imo.
not shocked that the lesbians swept lmao