The Single Mom and the Stigma | A Blessing Channel by ABC

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  • čas přidán 13. 08. 2021
  • Society has not always been warm and welcoming to us single moms. Like the Samaritan woman, we are by default looked down on as worn out or second hand; unclean and impure, often with eyes of disdain and disgust.
    "WHAT IS REALLY WRONG WITH ME?" - you may have asked youself countless times. Frankly speaking, nothing. Except that you are a sinner- just like everyone else. Just like me. Just like those who look down on you. On us. They just fail to see it.
    The stigma as a single mom seems so sticky it feels permanent. Like a stubborn stamp on the skin or an irremovable stain on a shirt that we just can't wash off... So what can really cleanse us?
    May this episode enlighten you and fill you with truth and comfort as you learn how you can be completely cleansed and your status can truly change (not with marriage, btw.✌sorry to burst your bubble, sis!) So powerfully and permanently that what others say about you or call you or think about you will not matter any longer.
    At the end of the video and you feel the need to talk to someone or be prayed for, you may send a message to WORD COMMUNITY CHURCH at 09175743713. Someone will be sure to counsel you and connect you to the Only Solution.
    God bless you.
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Komentáře • 45

  • @clarissa426
    @clarissa426 Před 2 lety +15

    I cried while watching it. Thank you for being the voice of us, single moms, i couldn't agree more with all your wisdom. I felt you when u said kung ndi sa anak maybe we are not who we are now. My son is the best blessing, kung di sknya matagal na rin akong sumuko sa life. My son brought me back to the lord and He become the father to my son.

  • @kayesantos5698
    @kayesantos5698 Před 2 lety +5

    I'm not a single Mom but while watching this video, my heart goes all for the single moms. Thank you and God bless Bettina for sharing and inspiring many single moms out there. More inspirational vids from you.

  • @loisagneslumontod6903
    @loisagneslumontod6903 Před 2 lety +6

    Amen! Very powerful! Thank you Bettinna for sharing your story and God's Word. Please know that you have you touched many of us single moms. I am encouraged to share my story, rather HIS Story to others as well. To God be all the glory!

  • @selroa4281
    @selroa4281 Před 2 lety +3

    Praise God. I cried as I was watching, masasabi ko na iba ang restoration ng Panginoon sakin ngayon. Minsan inaallow ng Lord na mangyari ang bagay na to para makita ang Glory nya. Pero smpre consequence ng ginawang rebellion, pero ramdam na ramdam ko noon na hindi nya ako iniwan up until I surrender again to Him and totally na healed ako. 😭❤️ Kaya walang ibang dahilan para hindi kumilos at ialay ang buhay para sa kanya.

  • @PepitoCharisse
    @PepitoCharisse Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for sharing your journey Bettina!.. From brokenness to breakthrough,
    God indeed is good and work things for our good, a Father to the fatherless.
    May God continuously use you as an instrument of hope and encouragement to all the single moms.🙏

  • @cgetv1714
    @cgetv1714 Před 2 lety +1

    Forgiveness from the Lord for all my transgressions made me whole again 🙏 Its been 2yrs now since I surrender my life to him and start obeying God's will. Now I can definitely say "I am a single mother living a victorious life with Jesus Christ".

  • @nobie9372
    @nobie9372 Před 2 lety +1

    single mom here... i am blessed by this video... Godbless sis. continue sharing the grace of the Lord through your videos... 🙏😇❤️

  • @maryingridcabalu848
    @maryingridcabalu848 Před 2 lety +1

    May all the tears we've shed bring cleansing and healing to our wounds. It's about time we unmask ourselves and let go of feelings of shame and condemnation because we have a merciful God who loves us despite of our past. Thank you, Bettina. 🌷

  • @moonriver7730
    @moonriver7730 Před 2 lety +3

    Single mom here….for 12yrs…thank u…naiyak talaga ako…🤗🤗🤗

  • @sheilaherrera2419
    @sheilaherrera2419 Před 2 lety +1

    God bless all single moms🙏🏻hindi man tayu tanggap ng lipunan ang diyos buog buo tayung tanggap bagkus sya pa ang tutulong satin🙏🏻

  • @hannahysabelclemencio1217

    I am still not a mom but I am ministered to this. 🥺🤍 Everything you said is trustworthy because it came from God's Word.

  • @IamGleng
    @IamGleng Před 2 lety +4

    Salute to all the Single Mother! ❤

  • @katrinagayvaldon4603
    @katrinagayvaldon4603 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for the wisdom Ms.Bettin, 🙏🏻

  • @charmaetambong1255
    @charmaetambong1255 Před 2 lety

    I am not a single mom but I learned a lot and feel blessed while watching this. Thank You Lord for Your mercy and forgiveness that make us a new creation without any condemnation from our past mistakes ❤️

  • @lovicekonopasek5886
    @lovicekonopasek5886 Před 2 lety

    God bless you too sister in Christ…💟✝️💟

  • @dearcoachellen
    @dearcoachellen Před 2 lety +1

    Indeed truly a blessing channel! Thank you Bettina. 🧡 Truly your working on God’s purpose for you.

  • @mbayo5145
    @mbayo5145 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for using this platform to bring people to the saving knowledge of Christ.

  • @fatimaantonio8315
    @fatimaantonio8315 Před 2 lety

    Naalala ko yung Preaching nung time na nagbalik loob ako kay Lord.. The Prodigal Son sobrang tumama sa kin, Christian na ko pero tumalikod pa, naging maka mundo ako.. Truly Lord is Faithful at hindi nya tayo titignan sa nakaraan natin

  • @tincoronelarnaprints
    @tincoronelarnaprints Před 2 lety +1

    My situation is Dont have plans of getting married , but from all the judgements ng mga kapitbahay... na kala mo mas magaling pansaken.
    I must accept at first i was so ashamed that i am a single mom 😭

  • @ghailforeverfighter2734

    Subrang nakakaiyak habang pinapanood ang vlog na to!😭
    Thank you Lord for your unconditional love♥️!
    Kahit and dumi2x natin sa harap ni Lord yayakapin niya parin tayo at tanggap niya parin tayo!!!
    Sa prodigalson kitang kita dun ang Love ni Lord satin ,bsta bumalik lang tayo sa kanya!😭😇
    Iniwanan ni Lord ang 99 na tupa para lang satin/Sakin!!
    How really good and loving God you are! Hallelujah!!Praise God sa lahat ng experience mo sa buhay Miss Bettinna!
    Living an Example! Continue to be an inspiration to Others!
    May Godblessyou and your family!♥️

  • @tiarracatindig7142
    @tiarracatindig7142 Před 2 lety

    I cried. Thank you for this!

  • @mariajoeceldelatorre3928

    Thank you so much Ma'am Bettina Carlos for spreading the words of our God Almighty. You are a living miracle. It was April 30, 2021 I made a big decision of my life. You testimony made me realize that I'm not alone had been feeling so much pain because there some people mistreated us and not see our value. Even I love sincerely that person but When I cross your vlog and I watched it gives me the courage and stop my relationship with him it hurting me so much. And now God forgave me and I can say I'm new creation. I feel so happy, contented, discover myself day by day. God's is so patience of me and he never leave since the day I doubted myself so much. And now I'm so feel safe with the lord.

  • @helaizavania3878
    @helaizavania3878 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this, Ms. Bettina! ♡

  • @Number-ez1is
    @Number-ez1is Před 2 lety +1

    What they say about you is just their OPINION, it will never define YOU.

  • @ilyncabero9063
    @ilyncabero9063 Před 2 lety

    This is indeed a blessing channel! God bless you and your family

  • @jackieevicera
    @jackieevicera Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this.

  • @christinefab1581
    @christinefab1581 Před 2 lety

    Yung nanunuod ka lang tapos di mo na namalayan na tumutulo na luha mo . Ganda nang messages parang apply na apply sa pangyayari sa buhay ko ngayon. God bless you more ❤️❤️❤️

  • @arkfire009
    @arkfire009 Před 2 lety

    Thank you.

  • @federicasalve9757
    @federicasalve9757 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Lord for giving you wisdom and i am blessed hearing your sharings💙
    God bless your family🙏

  • @TinYsa
    @TinYsa Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing Ms. Bettina

  • @mitchsalazar5414
    @mitchsalazar5414 Před 2 lety

    Lagi ako naiiyak everytime napapanuod kita.Dahil relate ako sa past mo..Narealize ko na nasa puso ko parin ang sakit ng nakaraan ko.

  • @mamaannalyn5457
    @mamaannalyn5457 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this... 💞

  • @kimhilario28
    @kimhilario28 Před 2 lety

    thank you

  • @analynventura6569
    @analynventura6569 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this. Your words give hope for us. It is really inspiring. 😍 Godbless you po. 😊 ❤️

  • @ranyadhellecabahug2702

    Always 🔥🔥🔥 100%

  • @urs-leanafiscotusi1427

    Praise God! 🤍

  • @Ate_AhNa
    @Ate_AhNa Před 2 lety

    i'm crying kasi same situation plus the fact na kalapit ko ang anak ko and she's looking at me while I'm crying.

  • @abarceno
    @abarceno Před 2 lety +1

    When we humbly surrender our past mistakes, our sins to GOD and accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we are renewed..we are cleaned..and we are saved
    Isaiah 1:18 Come now, let us settle the matter,” says the Lord. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.
    GOD BLESS YOU Ms. Betina ❤

  • @cynthiamorales278
    @cynthiamorales278 Před 2 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @urs-leanafiscotusi1427

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @NP-km6rm
    @NP-km6rm Před 2 lety +1

    that shame of being a single mom will only be removed by Christ alone. only He can assure you that you are already clean in His eyes and that He has forgiven you already. ask Him to remove that shame if you still have it.
    also be honest and transparent to others and dont deny being a single mom or hide your kid(s) to people. you'll live freely when you are honest.
    as to people who judge you, it's between them and God. focus on God so that you will be blessed no matter your situation is. remember that you are already clean in His eyes. so those eyes behind you no longer matter and have no eternal value.