I had a partial hysterectomy 3 years ago! Best decision ever! My surgery went really well and it took like 7 weeks full recovery. I haven't had any early symptoms of menopause yet, i guess because i still have my ovaries. No more periods, pain, and I'm living my best life! Good luck and blessings to all women that have to go through this procedure. ❤🙏
I feel the exact same way!! I had a partial hysterectomy 4/2024.. left my ovaries because they were healthy .. my surgery was done robotically.. best decision! I was miserable before my fibroids were the size of a football!😩
I just want to tell ladies there is another option. I myself had the worst pain I would have to miss work 2 days a month the pain was unbearable.. nausea cramps so bad I just couldn’t move. I changed to a raw diet and the very next cycle pain went from a 100 out of 10 to a 2 out of 10. Now this is a huge lifestyle change and hard to stick to because we are addicted to “food”. I keep cheating not going to lie but I keep trying. Right now I’m on the watermelon washout. It’s a support group that helps with support zoom calls it’s a whole community. Give it try ladies. Good luck.
I haven't completely went Raw, but I been juicing like crazy and, I no longer wake up in a blood bath or have bad cramping, I haven't had a full period since January "Thank God" because I bled for 2 years straight. I drink 6 juices a day 3 vegetables drink and 3 fruit juices, that I juice weekly. I also notice when I ate chicken, I started to xramp and spot real bad.
I have very painful ovulation when my diet is terrible but when I eat clean and even do intermittent fasting, I noticed little or no pain. So I agree that diet is very important.
I wish I got to see my uterus after my hysterectomy. I was so ready to get rid of the cancer. Recovery emotionally, menopause and incontinence is a bitch. You are right about that. This year, July 29th makes 4 years for me. #cancersurvivor
I had horrendous fibroids, endometriosis, and periods so heavy that I would bleed through the overnight always pads in 20 minutes on my heaviest flow days. This made me severely anemic. It was so bad I had a hard time keeping a job, and I would legit be outta commission for eight days every month when I got my cycle. I also had to get a few blood transfusions. In 2018, I had a uterine artery embolization. Best thing I ever did, and I got my life back! I didn't wanna go the hysterectomy route, but I support the choice for women who feel it's the best option for them... 🙏🏽💛🙏🏽
Oh my goodness!! Why do you sound like you are me, and I mean everything that you went through?! I will be getting a partial Hysterectomy by the end of this year.
I’m surprised they didn’t inform you having a hysterectomy would cause you to have menopausal symptoms. But I love that you did this video informing those who didn’t know. Love your videos! ♥️
I’m currently contemplating a hysterectomy keeping my ovaries, but the consultant said there would be no side effects & my own research tells me otherwise. So now I have distrust for my consultant & am delaying the surgery although my fibroids cause me so much pain which affects my day to day life. December 2022 I had some of my fibroids removed, which significantly reduced the bleeding & anaemia, but the cramps are so much worse. I have 3 children, don’t think I want anymore as my youngest is now 12, but don’t want to trade one problem for another which could be so much worse than I suffer now. It helps reading many of your comments others and that it was a great decision for most, but your video makes me think I need to do more research 🤔 Thanks for your video & thanks to all the ladies that have commented sharing your experiences. It’s very helpful & appreciated.
❤Your body is experiencing early menopause (night sweats, cramps, bloating, urine pressure etc.) due to a hysterectomy at a younger age. I went through this as well and still go through this from time to time. I had an hysterectomy in my early 30’s, but my doctor told me before I left the hospital be prepared for the body to go through changes early on. I’m now almost 50, but when I go through change of life experiences I’m already use to most because I been experiencing since my 30’s… Things will change as your body continues to heal. However, we always have to listen to our bodies because we’re are all so different.❤Praying for all women because we have to bare so much…🙏💐
My 3/1/2024 2.5 hour surgery turned into 6 hours because I had sssso much adenomyosis, endometriosis, cysts, bowel adhesion, etc. I lived with constant, debilitating lower abdominal pain!!! It felt like someone was stabbing my right ovary! Horrible! Painful sex. Nausea. Rectal spasms. Constantly tired. Recovery was absolutely horrible for 4.5 weeks. Since then, LIFE HAS BEEN AMAZING! Extra wet (Ijs). No regrets so far… Thanks for sharing!
Maybe for now, too soon to talk . Just wait a year, or two. You just posted it was done few months ago. It’s like a relationship, the first two months, to a year it’s all 💋 and loving then everything stink, everything it’s annoying,boring, no joyful. Just wait. Our body is perfect, we just have to eat the right diet, exercise, and give the correct nutrients. God didn’t make mistakes when our temple was created, we just don’t listen to it carefully, and when problems arise we want a quick fix.
@@jenamaste131I actually suffered for over 20 years. I exercise, eat healthy, work/life balance, pelvic therapy, etc. I was over it & yes wanted it fixed. The constant pain I felt couldn’t be worse than if I do experience side effects in a year. I didn’t have a life. The type of stabbing pain that will make stump on brakes on the hwy when it hits. Hitting the floor wherever I was having to breathe like I was in labor. It happened a lot. Women that I know that had the surgery years ago have no regrets. Life is great now. All relationships don’t end up that way lol ***Positive vibes only please *** Adenomyosis & endometriosis are hereditary in my case. Generations….
I had a hysterectomy over 20 years ago. My hysterectomy was the best thing that ever happened for me. I’ve had no problems; I’m finally able to live without pain. I’m sorry you’re going through all of this; I’m praying things get better for you 🙏🏽
@@oliviamonteque6407 I had the hysterectomy surgery over 20 years ago. I think I look OK for someone who’s gonna be 63 this year; and my profile picture was taken on my 62nd birthday. It affects everyone differently. So to God be the glory.🙏🏽🩷🙏🏽
Im 46 and petite, had a full hysterectomy last yr (8 months ago), huge life changer with no regrets. I had 2 c-sections, (after my 1st born, maybe a year later) my Gyne reminded me to continue requesting the same method for child birth. As she noticed, I had scar tissue which made me look pregnant (when I wasn’t) and advised me to request scar tissue to be removed during future c-sections, as I did. I also, requested scar tissue to be removed at the time of my hysterectomy. I can only imagine what my waistline would appear to be, if I didn’t remove the scar tissue during each opportunity. Stay strong, let’s continue to share our stories 💪🏽
Thank you for sharing because I definitely didn't know that you can request to get scar tissue removed during different surgeries. So now I know what else to request for my partial Hysterectomy procedure.
OMG I'm so glad your video popped up on my feed! I too have some of the same issues... I had a partial hysterectomy about 5 yrs ago so I still have my ovaries & tubes... but I feel my body is just now starting to get adjusted. I like you- wish I would have NOT had surgery but I had heavy bleeding, cramps, fibroids & endometriosis. The heavy bleeding also caused me to become very anemic. I'd had my fibroids removed the year prior but they came back, so I opted for surgery as a last resort. Last year I started having bladder issues & had a minor surgery where they discovered that my bladder lining had portions of the prior endometriosis, so they removed that tissue & it was a success. I'm 1000% better now w/ no more bladder issues. A hysterectomy is a TOTAL LIFE adjustment! Mood, weight gain, bladder & abdominal issues & so on. My advice is LADIES please research your options first; there may be something else that will work for you! Blessings to You & everyone going thru this! 🧡🧡🧡
Your video was so enlightening. I had a hysterectomy and the aftermath is horrible. They make it seem like all your problems will go away but that is false. It’s amazing how quick doctors are to cut up women but they will preserve men at all cost.
As a woman about to have a hysterectomy for endometriosis & adenomyosis I'm so grateful for your videos! It was recommended I see a pelvic floor physio weeks after my surgery and you've absolutely confirmed I prioritize that. Thank you for sharing your experiences
I had adenomyosis, fibroids, a thick uterine lining and i just had a total hysterectomy i kept my ovaries last Thursday. I thought it was gonna be painful the first to days were now i feel better. I haven’t had the need to take pain meds.
I had mine done at 31 and now I am 42 and after my surgery I lost my sex drive and 11yrs later still don't have a sex drive . I also suffer from complete dryness in the area . I suffer from over sweating all year round. I am a mom of 4 grown kids . Doctor said things would get better but its been 11 years and the doctors still don't have an answer. I do still have my overies. Blessing to all
Thank you for sharing your truth! Some Dr's won't even tell women it's still possible to have x, y & z symptoms at least as a heads up even though each woman will have a different experience! Thank you for commenting!
"UFE" Uterine Fibroid Embolization", is where tiny particles are introduced through the femoral artery to block the blood supply to the Fibroids. I had this procedure after I had passed out from severe blood loss(2nd time first time I had 3 blood transfusions, this time I had 4 blood transfusions). I always had a severe cycles from first cycle to last. I also suffered from severe Endometriosis, this last cycle it was a waterfall, I stand up and blood just flowed out of me. I was rushed to the hospital where my blood count was a 6, it had dropped to a 5 by the time I was admitted. My OB/GYN came to visit, my mom had come into town to help with my Son while I was in the hospital. So my family is in the room and my Dr, asked if I wanted a Hysterectomy and I said "No". My Mom said "why not, you're not using it" 😶😶😶😅😅😅 we all laughed. I had the UFE and I haven't had a cycle since, the particles blocked the blood supply to my Fibroids and blocked my Fallopian tubes. Straight into menopause. Ladies you have options, please research every option open to you. I hope this info helps, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@evangelisttamarmichelle3512 I had Lupron injections, two rounds 6 months each time to help with my Endometriosis. Whew, after that 2nd round I was like I'll just deal with the pain. I'm glad its working for you, ...
My old doctor told me I needed one. I cut back on the chicken (caused me to have heavy bleeding and abnormal cycles because of the hormones) and stopped taking bc (caused me to have extreme abdominal pain & other issues). I have two, 2 cm fibroids I've had for the last 15 years. She told me I have multiple covering my uterus and I needed it to be removed immediately. I switched to a doctor who looks like me & it all was a lie. All of the symptoms I was having was because of the chicken, sugar, & bc. I've always had a heavy menstrual since I've had one and my new doctor told me to keep doing what I'm doing with my diet & exercise. I hope your symptoms subside.
Thanks for sharing that, it decreased my anxiety a little because I do have pain/symptoms everyone is commenting, but I also have switched to a healthier diet, fasting , being more active and lowering stress, and.....trying to avoid too much dairy ,😭 but cheese and pasta are my weakness 😔 God help us. We'll keep fighting 💜
"Endometriosis and interstitial cystitis have similar symptoms. Both conditions can be challenging to diagnose, and some patients are misdiagnosed with one, the other, or both. Additionally, studies show that women with endometriosis are up to four times more likely to develop interstitial cystitis." My son has IC and I remember reading this during my research. I take Estroven (Amazon) Complete for the hot flashes they are heaven sent takes about 2 weeks to fully kick in. I have the rectal pain only when I have to do #2 its very intense! The Estroven will help with the stomach fat and also will help with your skin too. I noticed I started to age faster.after my hysterectomy. Im 1 1/2 year in. I don't regret my decision at all. Hope you found my comment helpful and I pray it gets better soon. .
I’m 62 years old and had a partial hysterectomy at 29 years old. I’m happy to say I never had any problems and that was the best decision I’ve made. Be blessed ❤
Yes I will be 60 next month, I had cystitis and had to have a total at 19, I took Premarin for the first 25 five years, never had any problems with it but it got to expensive, I’ve had no problems, no early menopause symptoms not even now.
I’m 37, will be 38 in 2 months and had a partial hysterectomy at 33 the day I gave birth to my twins. Due to a lot of stress and issues with the C-section I had to have it. It wasn’t my decision so I feel different. It’s been 4 yrs and I wanted more children so I don’t take it well, matter fact I don’t believe I grieved at all. Seeing a picture of your uterus after the surgery brought me to tears. Health wise I’m have no symptoms at all. Only thing I would say is my sex drive is at its all time high. But I’m not sexually active and haven’t been since the twins were born 😅😅😅. The cold sweats at night are sporadic but other than that I feel completely normal. I just wish I could have more children naturally
This was one of the best decisions i made having a Total Hysterectomy i bled for ten years very heavy i mean heavy periods. In 2020 i did it and i was traumatized by my monthly periods every month so to see no blood was a relief. After the surgery i went into early menopause and began having high cholesterol. Also my body changed drastically dry skin, premature aging, weight gain, leaking urine due to muscle weakness in my pelvis. So the good thing is no more bleeding, no chronic anemia, and trauma. To my beauty fading, more energy, and peace. Any ladies going through this and are young get your hormones check, eat healthier, stop stressing and listen to your body. Im 54 i had it at 50 and people thought i was in my 30's to looking like big momma now😂😂😂
@@nikicarrie4071 It causes your estrogen to drop and that causes mannny changes in the body. Collagen declines so much and affects our plumpness/ fullness/ youthfulness.
I had a partial hysterectomy too. Best decision for me. I was so sick. From age 11, I had debilitating cramps. As I got older, my cycle became heavy. I would pass clots! My cramps were so bad that I was prescribed 1000mg Anaprox (OTC=Alieve). At surgery, my cycle had become 21 days on & 7 days off! That's crazy! I got an ultrasound in my late 20s. I had a bunch of fibroids; from pea to golf ball size. The Ultrasound tech was "scrolling & clicking" while looking at the screen. I asked her if she was "mapping" what she saw. She was. She let me see the screen. My uterus was big back then. My doctor decided to monitor the fibroids. Years later, the fibroids started to grow again. They were pressing against my organs making me randomly throw up 🤮🤢🥴I couldn't do pilates or yoga properly because I couldn't lay on my stomach. Finally, my doctor & I decided to have surgery. At that point uterus was one, huge fibroid. My doctor was also my surgeon. I told her I wanted to see what she removed. She said nah. She did give me the pathology report that listed the size & weight. It was almost the size of a soccer ball & weighed nearly 15lbs! One of my friends told me that I wouldn't know how sick I was until after I recovered from surgery. She was right!
I had a hysterectomy 16 yrs ago & I didn't gain weight until I allowed a doctor to give me a medication & now thank GOD I no longer need it. I have 2 children. I find sit-ups help get rid of the belly pouch & cardio. Age slows our metabolism. We have to slow down on our snacks.
Hey Michelle, that’s why I love all your videos because you explain detail by detail what certain doctors don’t explain and then we have a dark keep continue to give us more contact. Can’t wait for your next video. Thank you for being real and this is your season.❤️❤️❤️
❤My precious Lady Bug! Thank you for the information sweetheart. As women we definitely go through a lot with our bodies for sure. Thank you for always being so transparent and encouraging. Sending you hugs and love!🙏🏾🥰🐞
Hi Shell! I honestly wanted to say Thank U! I don't have anyone to talk to about this that's been through a hysterectomy. Not that I want people to also suffer. For many many years I had unpredictable menstrual cycles. It would show up whenever. As a result of fickle cycles, pain and eventually heavy hemorrhaging that lead to fainting 20 years apart, that also included blood transfusions, I was talked to, by a new Dr about a hysterectomy. I was soooo excited to get rid of any culprit responsible for my misery. After the fact, immediate hot flashes, sweating in my sleep, putting on lotion leads to sweating on my face, my scalp sweats. I've gained more weight and I already had a C-section prior to the procedure. The many years of uncertainty regarding my disrespectful cycles and hemorrhaging was awful. I'm overall glad that I had the procedure however it was a TOTAL hysterectomy. I can't undo anything but I'd advise any potential patient to ask 850 questions or until satisfied. I get some sort of strange discomfort that I did not have prior to the procedure. Dr didn't seem concerned but ummmmm. My new Dr says all looks well. Any-whoooo ladies, please do your research to see what's best for YOU. Again, thanks Shell. It helps that real people speak about these subjects. God bless u all in Jesus holy name 🙏🏼
I also want to add that I’ve noticed if I take my multivitamin, vitamin D supplement and magnesium supplements, my hot flashes are not as aggressive. Drink plenty of water and add ginger to help with the nausea.
Im sorry you are going through all of this after your hysterectomy. I will pray God heals you through all the issues. 🙏🏽 Im so thankful you've shared your story.
Shell it’s confronting that you are able to share this very sensitive topic as so many women go through and are going through. i too had a hysterectomy a while back ago. It was very painful because the aftercare where i wasn’t prepared. Don’t be hard on your self keep finding ways to be healthy and comfortable with yourself. definitely see you are a beautiful woman & a amazing mom ❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️
Great video Michelle!! WOW!! Thank you for your honesty and transparency. I have not had a complete hysterectomy, but I had my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed back in late 2018 and I can relate to the sweats and feeling cold - they say that comes with the territory. I still have my uterus, so it is not too bad. The other pains you describe - I don’t experience (thank God 🙏🏾) for that. Overall, I can say, it was the right decision for me. But like you said, every woman is different and every situation is different, so you live and you learn. People should always do lots of research (know the pros and cons) and get multiple professional opinions if you have to. It is your body and you only get ONE! I have a great care team - so I feel very blessed and fortunate to have them. God has you through this journey - Be Blessed Sis! ❤ #LOVEANDLIGHT
Im sorry I hit the wrong button,I am in so much pain,I hate when that time of the month come around,I can't walk,I can't sleep,I can't think...And it didn't used to be this painful,I am 43 and I have been going through this unbearable pain for the last 2 years,I feel like I am gonna vomit, I also have hot and cold sweats ,Im gonna schedule a appointment with my Doctor because something has to give...Thank you,You are always coming through ❤️🙏❤️
Wait” OMG I’m enduring the same symptoms every single one ☝️ I’m fasting&praying and booked and appointment and Refferels 2x around they told me nothing I didn’t already know had a Biopsy I assume since they didn’t call me for results it was normal.. I’m suffering in all honesty in Spirit cause I’m drained my Irons Low My uterus hurts my Bladder hurts when it fills breast hurts I’ve been Diagnosed with Peri Menopausal I get it but sometimes it to much pain every were we as woman are Vegas when I reached for my Bible it took me too Numbers 5-27 Bible hub exsplaines it all … I prayed for Forgiveness on how I lived my life and ask for healing then to the Doctor..
Wait” OMG I’m enduring the same symptoms every single one ☝️ I’m fasting&praying and booked and appointment and Refferels 2x around they told me nothing I didn’t already know had a Biopsy I assume since they didn’t call me for results it was normal.. I’m suffering in all honesty in Spirit cause I’m drained my Irons Low My uterus hurts my Bladder hurts when it fills breast hurts I’ve been Diagnosed with Peri Menopausal I get it but sometimes it to much pain every were we as woman are Vegas when I reached for my Bible it took me too Numbers 5-27 Bible hub exsplaines it all … I prayed for Forgiveness on how I lived my life and ask for healing then to the Doctor..
Hello everyone, thank you for sharing your experience after having a hysterectomy. I still have my periods they can be hard getting through. My Mom and Sister had a hysterectomy they never mentioned their symptoms. I’m sure they had symptoms but was private about it. After listening to you and seeing other comments, I see you can make lifestyle changes that could help when you still have a period. This is important to me to know, I don’t want to go that route if I absolutely don’t have to. I thank everyone of you ladies for sharing and for all the helpful info . GOD bless all women.🌹
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am so glad that you are letting others know what can possibly happen after the surgery. I had a partial hysterectomy (supracervical hysterectomy) 14 years ago.and had similar symptoms that you described which led to another surgery 11 years ago. It”s encouraging to know you have research ways to elevate symptoms. 🙏🏾
I’m Glad I found your channel! I actually been going through deff changes since having my hysterectomy in 2018 I just started hormone medication to really help after I tried it on me own! I also made vlogs of it but like you said I wish I would’ve tried alternate routes prior but it is what it is and we are here lol ! Love the video
Hey Shell, Thank you sharing your story and letting women know what they could be in for. I had a partial hysterectomy in 2015 and I didn't start getting the night sweating until I took the covid vaccination. I did get really bad constipation though right after the procedure, it was so bad that I ended up in the hospital in so much pain one time. I did have the bladder sensitivity as well but since I've been taking saw palmetto for my hair thinning it seems to be helping strengthen my bladder somehow so I don't have the urgency to go all the time. I 🙏and hope that you find what works for you.
This was an interesting video. I'm 63 and had a partial hysterectomy 6 years ago. I had already gone through menopause (at 50) but was having issues afterwards with fibroid tumors and post menopausal bleeding. My mother, who also had fibroid tumor issues after menopause, kept advising me against having the surgery. Having the surgery is one of the best decisions I ever made. I've not had any post surgery symptoms. Prayers for you as you continue to heal and deal with the post surgery symptoms.
Hi Shell, I'm So glad I found your video tonight as I am preparing things for my hysterectomy next week. All the issues you addressed about the bladder, night sweats, and pelvic floor issues I am experiencing now: I have endometriosis and adenomyosis. I have had four surgeries, and next week will be my 5th one. This issue started at 21, and I am now 34. No children.
@@Iamwhit_ney if you want children please pray because God is able. Not saying that you have but too many run to doctors before God. I hate that they cut in women so fast without natural alternatives because he truly gave us all we need to heal. God bless and heal you.
Hey there Shell. I had my procedure in April. I watched so many of your videos to help me during and after the process. I didn't have much pain or maybe I was able to tolerate what pain I did feel. Overall the worst part was around week 2 when I starting having a low grade fever due to my body being in shock. So far things are well but I know over the years things may change. Thank you for being so open and inspiring to women thinking about going through this process. It was your videos that let me know I was going to be just fine. Be blessed lady bug ❤
I am 68 and had a partial hysterectomy by 40. Then total by 43. No more pain and the excessive bleeding were all gone, YAY! However, I encountered so many other problems. Eventually started estrogen therapy and developed breast cancer in 2003, which God delivered me in that situation. I had severe scar tissue and have had several surgeries from that like: 7 times. During one surgery my colon was punctured and part of colon was removed. I had bladder tacked up cause it prolapsed. Over the years, I have overcome so much and learned to deal with other stuff. The one thing I can’t overcome is the sweating!!! I carry a small portable fan with me and make sure I hang out in air conditioning spaces. Lastly, my intimate life improved beyond what I could ever imagine, although over the years that is not so important to me. I just need to get over the “Sweating”. Thanks for talking about what happened to you. Please continue to seek alternative treatments to your problems. Oh, that pouch of your tummy, good luck with that. I am still trying to get rid of it without having lipo suction. I wish you well on this journey. Those that are going through the pain, bleeding and others problems with their uterus, please search basic or natural treatments before having the procedure. If you have tried everything then do what is best for you. Having the surgery or not can alter you mentally. Now that you have a lil more information, you can choose options that best suit your needs. Look around and search out doctors willing to work with you before cutting you. I wish you well.
I had a radical hysterectomy 5/2022 to remove an 18cm mass on my ovaries, non-cancerous. I told them to take everything out bc at age 57 I was already in menopause, way past creating lil people. I didn't want to keep going thru surgery, every year something else, so take it all out. But as you mentioned the pain down there, I also thought it was scar tissue. I've been exercising since six weeks after the surgery, low impact, and the pain down there is slowly easing up. Been to OB/GYN last Nov., no reason for the pain found by the doctor. Also I have to agree with you about the lubrication down there, you were spot on. Things are well. I feel much better, to sum it all up.
I thought it was just me with the bladder pain. I even went to a Urogynocologist. Also, I’ve complained about rectal and pelvic pain. Your video is a blessing regarding this subject.👍🏾
Hello my dear! I did a hysterectomy myself 5 years ago and I am having the same problem with overactive bladder and I hate it,plus am always hot even when it’s winter to the point where I have to close the vent in my room that the heat don’t come in or I turn the heat way down,BUT am happy I did the hysterectomy because I swear I was gonna bleed to death when my period came one of those months lol.i am sorry you are going through all that but I pray that one day it will heal its self.
I had a partial hysterectomy in 2016 and that was the best decision ever. I had real bad fibroids and I looked like I was 6 months pregnant. Since I didn’t have heavy bleeding every day (only on the first day) and cramps my doctor didn’t want to do a hysterectomy. At that point I hadn’t had cramps in 10 yrs. At my next yearly appointment I had to lie and say I was having heavy bleeding and cramps just so I can get the surgery. I felt so uncomfortable every day, it was hard losing weight and I could feel the fibroids rubbing against each other when I bent over. My uterus was enlarged and I had fibroids the size of baseball and grape fruits. Two weeks after the surgery I lost 10lb. Before it took me 4 months to lose 10lbs. I believe my bladder is the only side effect I have experienced.
Thank you for your honesty, women need this kind of support. You talking about the rectum pain, it only happens to me when I have cysts on my ovaries that have burst. I also had to get the pelvis floor therapy. I was actually comfortable with the exam, the physical therapist lady I was able to get her to be my pelvic therapy. When I was diagnosed with endometriosis I got an pelvic ultrasound❤
I’m 4 months into my hysterectomy and I regret having the surgery 😩I wish I would have let nature taken it course. I did my research before I had the surgery and prepared myself mentally, I’ve been blessed no serious issues, doing well but experiencing different symptoms monthly. ( hot flashes, nausea, headache, fatigue and weight gain).
@@makishacox6100 yeah I understand, if I was in my 40s or younger I would have also but at that age I was told that if they are not bothering me then don’t worry about them. As I got older the pelvic pain increased.
@@niko4305 I do wish that but at the same time I was scared to put the surgery off any longer, the fibroids would have grown larger, which would have made surgery worse. In my mind I was thinking that once I go in menopause the fibroids would shrink but that’s not what would happen, they could continue to grow.
I had a partial hysterectomy and it was a life-saving decision that I was so thankful I made. The debilitating pain of the fibroids and heavy bleeding was killing me. I was severely anemic. It was the best decision for me. I walked out of the hospital with no wheelchair which is how good I felt. I did not have any difficulties afterwards. All I knew is that the pain was gone and I could do the things I use to do with the exercise, sports, living my life. I appreciate your experience, knowledge, sincere summary of your experience. Not everyone has a great outcome like I had and women need to know how it can go sometimes and to be prepared. Thank you for sharing your experience. 🌹🌹🌹
Happy 2yrs! Great to know how you're doing. Thanks for sharing. Had my TAH on April 2nd! Went back to work after 6wks. Been lucky so far. My surgeons were great. Now it feels like it never happened🤓 - but definitely feel my cut daily. Thankful!😘 Wishing you a better Year 3!
Hey, I’m a year and a half out from my hysterectomy. Please get a second opinion about the migraine sweats, urinary frequency and other symptoms!! Absolutely sounds to me like premature ovarian failure/ pre menopause symptoms that can unfortunately happen to people after a hysterectomy even though they kept their ovaries and aren’t at menopause age yet. There is a massive chance that you need to go on HRT to manage these symptoms. Vaginal estrogen cream, progesterone HRT pills etc could 100% fix these issues. Sorry you’re going through this!!
It was one of the best surgeries I could have ever had. It’s been 18yrs. I have no regrets. The pain before surgery was absolutely unbearable. My menstrual flow was beyond heavy. I’m so sorry that you are having issues.
Same for me. I had a complete hysterectomy due to fibroids and endometriosis. My surgery was absolutely necessary and the best thing for my life. I had no problems and never looked back. Thank God.
Thank you so much for this. I have endometriosis and adenomyosis and experience SEVERE pain when menstruating and have been contemplating a hysterectomy. Your video is so helpful.
Thank you for this video. I recently had a hysterectomy May 7th of this year, about 5 weeks ago. I have 3 kids, all 3 had to be delivered via c section. I was cut in the same incision from my c section. My hysterectomy was more painful. I did not have much pain in the incision, but near my belly button area (2 inches on left & right). Feels like a raw burning sensation from within. Not sure what that's about. I did not encounter this until after my bandages were removed after week 2. I've been back to the OB/GYN doctor 2x since the surgery about this pain. Praying this raw/burning pain subsides very soon. I go back for my 6week post off next week. You look amazing, beautiful. Take Care.
Girl I went through the same thing! Just had my hysterectomy May 31st this year. You may have had an allergic reaction to the surgery tape!!!!! That's what it was for me! It's very rare: only 0.03% of all people get it!!! Get a referral to see a wound doctor as well as a doctor of infectious diseases. Best thing my Dr sent me to......wound dr treats the wound from the inside and the doctor of infectious diseases treats the wound from the inside!
@belindamoore3518 Thank you for this info. I will definitely inquire with my OB and Primary Doctor next week. I have an appointment with both on the same day, one in the AM and the other in the PM. I pray everything works out for the best. I need to get back to work soon, I've been out of work since May due to the passing of my brother and mom plus this surgery. It's been one emotional roller coaster. I pray for your speedy recovery 🙏🏾. Take Care.
My mom had a hysterectomy in the 70s. I didn't know it was so prevalent with Black women. If so many Black women are having hysterectomies, there has to be a more underlying issue. Reading all of these comments is depressing because I think of all of the surgeries that have happened to many of our women. I was offered the same surgery a couple of years ago and I was conflicted because I was in pain but I don't want to remove anything more from my body (I had my gallbladder removed....worst mistake). I was not going to have another child (I have one), but, I was so close to menopause than not, so, I said no. I had horrific, debilitating periods since my first one and I am now cramping everyday and other pains, but, I feel like it can be dealt with in a more natural way. Even after saying all of that, I respect everyone for doing what was right for them. From reading many responses, many women are happy with their decision and that is what matters. Peace and Blessings to all.
I have given thought to why so many blk women go through this; personally, I believe we are a targeted group and the easiest way to wipe us out or decrease our numbers is to attack our reproductive organs. If we are doing anything correctly, we should be educating young women of childbearing age to take better care of their bodies and be mindful of modified food.
Thank you for respecting others, I've had a total hysterectomy (5) years ago, I'm now (55) years now. I had (4) fibroids and hemorrhaging monthly. I have had no regrets, I do not even feel what menopause is, no sweating , no aggravation. The thing is the kangaroo pouch. I change my diet and exercise a lot. Do all I thought I couldn't do when hemorrhaging then. I'm dancing in ministry and keeping a solid faith in God. My God, when I had the fibroids and hemorrhaging, I feel I was going to died early and my days were wretched.
Thank you for posting this. With all respect, I’m sure that we will find out how all of these uterus organs are being used. There seems to be many women given the option of hysterectomy.
I have Adenomyosis & my OB is suggesting Hysterectomy in a few years. I’m glad I saw this so I can ask some questions at my next appointment. I use to have night sweats, I believe it’s hormonal and can be tied to your thyroid. You may want to check or have them to check your T3 & T4 levels. The thyroid, ovulation and uterus etc all go hand in hand. I have hypothyroidism along with my adenomyosis and basically these things affect your hormonal balance. Check your Vitamin D levels, once my endocrinologist told me I had a deficiency, I have been taken them and they help a lot with hormonal balance as well as pain. Yoga helps a lot. A lot of foods cause inflammation and Adenomyosis is basically the uterus on 10 from inflammation. Try Aloe Vera juice and using a lot of naturals herbs in your food that help to fight against inflammation. You may still be experiencing inflammation from the surgery. I love to snack too but snacks or processed foods and sugar and dairy cause inflammation. My OB also suggested no processed foods and I’m now considering becoming Vegan before attempting hysterectomy because I’m tired of the hormonal changes just from what I’ve consumed in the past.
❤❤ thank you Shell so much. You are so transparent and you bring light to ALL things I am dealing with (kangaroo pouch and all now) The Dr’s tell you none of this. You are the absolute best…grateful for your platform.
Its not the snacking the kangaroo pouch is from cortisol spike from your hormones. Just eat clean. A rounded tummy is cute to men. Dont let it get to you. Just avoid processed food. As a nurse a hysterectomy is an absolute last resort after you tried hormones diet etc.
I had a hysterectomy too. I haven’t experienced the things you have. I recently had a hernia surgery. They said my intestines were everywhere. Part of them was in the front of my stomach. That we normally call a pooch. Some was balled up against my spine. The doctor said he believe it come from my hysterectomy surgery.
Good information...there are alternatives other than hysterectomy ...i had to find out from someone else.. no doctor would do anything else or tell you anything...it's getting better
OMG! Your story is so similar to mine!!! I can so relate on so many levels!!!! Please get referred to a urologist… if you can, one who specializes in “INTERSTITIAL CYSTITIS.” That is an illness of the bladder that causes pain, the urine frequency due to not being able to fully empty the bladder, ulcers in the bladder, painful intercourse, etc.!!! The doctor will order an endoscopy & scope to look into your bladder to check & determine if you have the illness or not. If you do, there is a prescription & treatment they can insert directly into your bladder through a catheter, once a week for about a month or two… (not fun, but believe me, it works!) It was a life saver for me! Discuss this with your doctor to get the help you need ASAP! I know what you’re going through & I hate to hear about you or anyone going through this… I hope you get help soon & begin your journey of healing! GOD BLESS❤️
@@SimplyShell417 The urologist can also order a CX Bladder test if there’s a concern for blood in the urine without the presence of UTI. It’s non-invasive.
I found your channel by searching for "hysterectomy in your 30s" Like you, I have lots of pain (no hysterectomy yet) lilely due to endometriosis. I'm still really considering. I really appreciate your honesty!!!
I love all the ladies sharing the experience. I also had an hysterectomy and it was best decision I made last year. I had a partial. The only thing they took out was my uterus. I haven’t had any menopausal symptoms yet, but I was told it may come sooner than later. As of now I feel the same without the pain and heavy bleeding. I am also a small frame snap back was on point but I do I a small pouch just in the front. When I do workout it’s less visible. I don’t workout much besides walking. I was blessed with a natural slim body frame.
Your doctor should have offered HRT. Your body goes into instant menopause after a hysterectomy. I think this is medical malpractice not to give women their hormones back after this procedure. Please reasearch National Menopause Society's approved doctor list and also the effects of hormone depletion after hysterectomy. Your your healing is on they way. I wish you well xxx
Wow prayers to you and you family! I just was scrolling on the tube and saw the post and saw how youthful you look . Thank you for this informative video. Will check out videos. Thanks much!
Thank you for sharing your journey. Alot of women are faced with this decision when they have challenges with fibroids or the menstrual cycle. It is a major surgery and the OB/GYN doctors they only know the medical model. They aren't trained in holistic treatment or natural remedies unless they decide to get training on that. Diet, stress and the environment play a major role in our hormones. Sometimes making small changes can make a huge difference.
Menopause in your 20s is crazy what is the world coming to??? 20s is the new 60s they wearin wigs, dentures, and now getting hysterectomies going thru menopausal WOW smh
the hot flashes is menopausal. Having a hysterectomy brings you into menopause. I am glad you are going for pelvic floor therapy. Bladder prolapse could develop. I wish I could sit down with you. I am going through a lot regarding issues also and no support.
New Sub here...glad I found your channel. I had a Hysterectomy in 2018 and remember asking my Doctor if it was true that most woman gain weight afterwards and she said no that's a huge myth. I was always on the smaller size about a size 2-4. I am now a 10, gaining 30 pounds after the surgery. I love the weight gain in other areas but not my mid section. I am a healthy eater so I couldn't understand where the weight was coming from. I don't regret having my hysterectomy because I am better health wise (Lots of fibroids & Endometriosis), but I wish I knew all of this beforehand. I am going to start back working out to "try" to get back to my pre-hyster weight. It is truly something to think about since most doctors wont tell you the absolute truth. I am determined but also will not beat myself up if I cannot achieve my weight goals. Thanks for this video. I hope it can help many, many others.
This is very informative. Thank you. I’ve been having random pains and I have about I think four big fibroids. So I’m considering myomectomy. Did you consider that as well?
New subscriber here! 💗This video came right on time! My hysterectomy is scheduled for Jan. 2025 and I'm so nervous! I have 1 large fibroid that's in a difficult spot. The amount of bleeding it causes is ridiculous, to the point of LOW iron levels and chest pain (had to wear a heart monitor for 2 weeks). Everything you've described as far as symptoms, I currently experience. Even down to going to a pelvic floor specialist and physical therapy. All of this started once I turned 30. I'm now going on 35, and I honestly am just ready to feel better! Thank you for your honest videos! (I'll be binging 😆)
Fibroid and it's company is debilitating thank God I did my surgery three years ago still can't Carry any weight and feel pain in my abdominal area sometimes but feels much better without the bleeding thank God for saving my life
@@heathermattar1686 Yes! Life sucks when you’re bleeding through ULTRA tampons w/ a pad. I have to plan activities around my cycle. Just ready for relief! This is the type of stuff I’m researching before my surgery. I know that every woman is different but, I want to know what other women may have experienced. So, thank you for sharing your experience with me! 💜
@@CarlaNicholson-jm8iq I’ve done it all except myfembree (which stops bleeding) My OB prescribed it and honestly, reading the reviews made me very nervous. The side effects don’t seem worth it. However, I’ll only be taking it for about 5 to 6 months. I’m a veteran so certain drugs have to be approved (especially when taking anti-depressants) and I have yet to receive the myfembree.
You are in menopause now. I am so sorry no medical professional clarified this BEFORE you had to make this choice. It sickens me that some 6:47 medical professionals completely mismanage black women’s body.
Pray you will be feeling better soon. Great video for everyone going through this. It's always go for us to support one another in times like this. Pray everyone going through this joins some type of support group. We can learn so much from each others experiences. We need to understand what all the possible side effects are. As for black women we must be very careful about having our ovaries taken out too soon because studies show we are at a higher risk of heart attack than other groups. Therefore, we need the hormones the ovaries produce to help protect us from heart attacks. Especially if heart attacks run in your family. Also knowing there is a chance of complications with laparoscopic surgery if you've had multiple abdominal surgeries. Prior surgeries can cause lots of scar tissue in that area. Which can be problematic when getting laparoscopic hysterectomy surgery. I had a bad experience with this myself even after the doctor to not do the laparoscopic surgery. He tried to tell me he could do it. Only to wake up after surgery with him frantically apologizing for not listening to me. Had to be on morphine for all the pain from being cut in two different ways. On top of that he took one of my ovaries after expressing I didn't want them removed. Sadly a lot of doctors have a hard time listening to patients even when you explain you've done some studying on the matter. Sorry for the long message. May you all find healing and peace.
Thanks for sharing your experience. I hope things get better for you ❤ Your story resonated with me. I didn’t have a hysterectomy, but I did have lap endometriosis excision surgery. Long story short, I was experiencing very painful and debilitating periods and symptoms outside of my cycle. I was fainting from the pain. After years of symptoms, many doctor and ER visits, I was diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis and adenomyosis. I did a lot of research and changed my lifestyle. I changed my diet to an anti-inflammatory diet, cut out processed foods, I limit dairy and sugar (I found these were my triggers). I also try to do a lot of gentle exercise like yoga and walking, reduce my stress, making sure I sleep enough, and pelvic floor therapy. I did decide to get the surgery because of how advanced my endo was. I had two large endometrioma cysts that were basically swallowing my ovaries and wanted to preserve my fertility. All of this has helped me tremendously. My periods are no longer debilitating and can actually function during my cycle. I feel so much better. I think it really possible to heal through diet and lifestyle changes, and I highly recommend trying this route with the guidance of your medical team of course!
Thank you so much for sharing , definitely working on my unhealthy diet 😕 little by little . Appreciate you hun would love if you subscribed and watched more 💕
@@SimplyShell417 no worries! It’s definitely not easy to change your diet. It takes a lot of trial and error and a lot of patience and kindness with yourself. I say just start small and work your way up. That’s how I did it. When I started my lifestyle change, the book “Whole New You” by Tia Mowry, helped a lot! She was going through something similar and she talks about her story and gives a lot of info on diet with the help of her dietitian. I recommend! I wish you the best❤️
I hear you, feel you and know this all to well. I will be making a video my self soon. I most certainly am appreciative of having the hysto. But this occasional gastric pain I was left with takes me to heaven and back. Everyone will experience different things and glady it's only occasional like a few times out of the year depending on what I consume. Please try to explore more options than 3 before make a decision. Thank you for your story!!🙌🏾✨️
I had a partial hysterectomy 3 years ago! Best decision ever! My surgery went really well and it took like 7 weeks full recovery. I haven't had any early symptoms of menopause yet, i guess because i still have my ovaries. No more periods, pain, and I'm living my best life! Good luck and blessings to all women that have to go through this procedure. ❤🙏
I feel the exact same way!! I had a partial hysterectomy 4/2024.. left my ovaries because they were healthy .. my surgery was done robotically.. best decision! I was miserable before my fibroids were the size of a football!😩
I had a partial done in 1995….best thing I ever did. My uterus was the size of 6mts pregnancy. I was miserable.
Bit girl doesn't your libido be on 200 my god I was stress out by that but glad it still working but it was in overdrive the partial is good
💯 agree
Same
I had my hysterectomy May 31st and it has been a blessing! Before the surgery: that pain radiating down the legs!!!!!!!! Speak on it!!!!!!!
Was it a burning pain?
I just want to tell ladies there is another option. I myself had the worst pain I would have to miss work 2 days a month the pain was unbearable.. nausea cramps so bad I just couldn’t move. I changed to a raw diet and the very next cycle pain went from a 100 out of 10 to a 2 out of 10. Now this is a huge lifestyle change and hard to stick to because we are addicted to “food”. I keep cheating not going to lie but I keep trying. Right now I’m on the watermelon washout. It’s a support group that helps with support zoom calls it’s a whole community. Give it try ladies. Good luck.
Thank you for sharing
I haven't completely went Raw, but I been juicing like crazy and, I no longer wake up in a blood bath or have bad cramping, I haven't had a full period since January "Thank God" because I bled for 2 years straight. I drink 6 juices a day 3 vegetables drink and 3 fruit juices, that I juice weekly. I also notice when I ate chicken, I started to xramp and spot real bad.
It’s absolutely diet related. You’re right. A poor diet will jump start menopause which explains a lot of the symptoms mentioned.
@opulence_prime my diet is horrible 😩 definitely been making it more of a priority
I have very painful ovulation when my diet is terrible but when I eat clean and even do intermittent fasting, I noticed little or no pain. So I agree that diet is very important.
👏"Make sure it's something you solely want to do, not that you're being forced, manipulated or convinced..."👏 Thank you for sharing your story.
You are so welcome , thank you being here ❤️ would love if you stay and subscribed for more
Exactly!!! Cuz my doc's were in such a hurry to try to get me to have surgery... I'm glad I did my research, and said no to the hysterectomy...
I wish I got to see my uterus after my hysterectomy. I was so ready to get rid of the cancer. Recovery emotionally, menopause and incontinence is a bitch. You are right about that. This year, July 29th makes 4 years for me. #cancersurvivor
Amen 🙏🏽 Won’t He Do It! So glad all is well sis , thank you for sharing ❤️
Wishing you long health and happiness 🌺🙏🏽
God bless you 🙏🏾
Same here! Stage 4 now cancer free for 1 year!
I had horrendous fibroids, endometriosis, and periods so heavy that I would bleed through the overnight always pads in 20 minutes on my heaviest flow days. This made me severely anemic. It was so bad I had a hard time keeping a job, and I would legit be outta commission for eight days every month when I got my cycle. I also had to get a few blood transfusions. In 2018, I had a uterine artery embolization. Best thing I ever did, and I got my life back! I didn't wanna go the hysterectomy route, but I support the choice for women who feel it's the best option for them... 🙏🏽💛🙏🏽
I agree ! Thank you for sharing sis❤️ please subscribe for more
I had that same procedure almost a year ago and it worked well for me too
How did the UAE help with the endo? I was under the impression that it helps with fibroids by blocking the blood supply to the fibroids...
Oh my goodness!!
Why do you sound like you are me, and I mean everything that you went through?!
I will be getting a partial Hysterectomy by the end of this year.
@@isis3319It is not a 100% guarantee procedure.
It didn't work for me.
I’m surprised they didn’t inform you having a hysterectomy would cause you to have menopausal symptoms. But I love that you did this video informing those who didn’t know. Love your videos! ♥️
Thank you hunny 😘😘
Yeah. My doctor lied saying I wouldn’t go into early menopause my keeping my ovaries but I lost one due to endometriosis.
@@lalalovely76 what? How did they lie to you then?
@@kikialeaki1850 right how did you not expect to go into a pre-menopausal state if not menopause its got to all make sense now come on
I’m currently contemplating a hysterectomy keeping my ovaries, but the consultant said there would be no side effects & my own research tells me otherwise. So now I have distrust for my consultant & am delaying the surgery although my fibroids cause me so much pain which affects my day to day life. December 2022 I had some of my fibroids removed, which significantly reduced the bleeding & anaemia, but the cramps are so much worse. I have 3 children, don’t think I want anymore as my youngest is now 12, but don’t want to trade one problem for another which could be so much worse than I suffer now. It helps reading many of your comments others and that it was a great decision for most, but your video makes me think I need to do more research 🤔 Thanks for your video & thanks to all the ladies that have commented sharing your experiences. It’s very helpful & appreciated.
❤Your body is experiencing early menopause (night sweats, cramps, bloating, urine pressure etc.) due to a hysterectomy at a younger age. I went through this as well and still go through this from time to time. I had an hysterectomy in my early 30’s, but my doctor told me before I left the hospital be prepared for the body to go through changes early on. I’m now almost 50, but when I go through change of life experiences I’m already use to most because I been experiencing since my 30’s… Things will change as your body continues to heal. However, we always have to listen to our bodies because we’re are all so different.❤Praying for all women because we have to bare so much…🙏💐
Thank you for sharing and for the information ❤️ please subscribe & watch more
I dont get the night seats after my total hysterectomy but I get other menopausal symptoms like anxiety but even that is rare
My 3/1/2024 2.5 hour surgery turned into 6 hours because I had sssso much adenomyosis, endometriosis, cysts, bowel adhesion, etc. I lived with constant, debilitating lower abdominal pain!!! It felt like someone was stabbing my right ovary! Horrible! Painful sex. Nausea. Rectal spasms. Constantly tired. Recovery was absolutely horrible for 4.5 weeks. Since then, LIFE HAS BEEN AMAZING! Extra wet (Ijs). No regrets so far… Thanks for sharing!
That’s wonderful 🙏🏽 so happy for you sis..would love if you subscribed and watched more
I'm curious, did you have partial or complete?
Maybe for now, too soon to talk . Just wait a year, or two. You just posted it was done few months ago. It’s like a relationship, the first two months, to a year it’s all 💋 and loving then everything stink, everything it’s annoying,boring, no joyful. Just wait. Our body is perfect, we just have to eat the right diet, exercise, and give the correct nutrients. God didn’t make mistakes when our temple was created, we just don’t listen to it carefully, and when problems arise we want a quick fix.
@@logicalcritik2144Complete but kept my ovaries
@@jenamaste131I actually suffered for over 20 years. I exercise, eat healthy, work/life balance, pelvic therapy, etc. I was over it & yes wanted it fixed. The constant pain I felt couldn’t be worse than if I do experience side effects in a year. I didn’t have a life. The type of stabbing pain that will make stump on brakes on the hwy when it hits. Hitting the floor wherever I was having to breathe like I was in labor. It happened a lot. Women that I know that had the surgery years ago have no regrets. Life is great now. All relationships don’t end up that way lol ***Positive vibes only please *** Adenomyosis & endometriosis are hereditary in my case. Generations….
I had a hysterectomy over 20 years ago. My hysterectomy was the best thing that ever happened for me. I’ve had no problems; I’m finally able to live without pain. I’m sorry you’re going through all of this; I’m praying things get better for you 🙏🏽
It is going to age you! 100 % fact. Make sure you take lots of vits. and Minerals, ect., will help.
@@oliviamonteque6407 I had the hysterectomy surgery over 20 years ago. I think I look OK for someone who’s gonna be 63 this year; and my profile picture was taken on my 62nd birthday. It affects everyone differently. So to God be the glory.🙏🏽🩷🙏🏽
Have you kept your ovaries and cervix?
@@niko4305 No I had a complete hysterectomy
Same here!🥰🤗
Im 46 and petite, had a full hysterectomy last yr (8 months ago), huge life changer with no regrets. I had 2 c-sections, (after my 1st born, maybe a year later) my Gyne reminded me to continue requesting the same method for child birth. As she noticed, I had scar tissue which made me look pregnant (when I wasn’t) and advised me to request scar tissue to be removed during future c-sections, as I did. I also, requested scar tissue to be removed at the time of my hysterectomy. I can only imagine what my waistline would appear to be, if I didn’t remove the scar tissue during each opportunity. Stay strong, let’s continue to share our stories 💪🏽
I kept my ovaries🎉
Thank you for sharing because I definitely didn't know that you can request to get scar tissue removed during different surgeries.
So now I know what else to request for my partial Hysterectomy procedure.
OMG I'm so glad your video popped up on my feed! I too have some of the same issues... I had a partial hysterectomy about 5 yrs ago so I still have my ovaries & tubes... but I feel my body is just now starting to get adjusted. I like you- wish I would have NOT had surgery but I had heavy bleeding, cramps, fibroids & endometriosis. The heavy bleeding also caused me to become very anemic. I'd had my fibroids removed the year prior but they came back, so I opted for surgery as a last resort. Last year I started having bladder issues & had a minor surgery where they discovered that my bladder lining had portions of the prior endometriosis, so they removed that tissue & it was a success. I'm 1000% better now w/ no more bladder issues. A hysterectomy is a TOTAL LIFE adjustment! Mood, weight gain, bladder & abdominal issues & so on. My advice is LADIES please research your options first; there may be something else that will work for you! Blessings to You & everyone going thru this! 🧡🧡🧡
Thank you for sharing so glad ur feeling amazing 🙌🏽🩷 best wishes to you ..please subscribe & watch more videos
Your video was so enlightening. I had a hysterectomy and the aftermath is horrible. They make it seem like all your problems will go away but that is false. It’s amazing how quick doctors are to cut up women but they will preserve men at all cost.
😢 and its always being done in a rushed way. No room for girl to think about the procedure and aftermath consequences
As a woman about to have a hysterectomy for endometriosis & adenomyosis I'm so grateful for your videos! It was recommended I see a pelvic floor physio weeks after my surgery and you've absolutely confirmed I prioritize that. Thank you for sharing your experiences
You’re so welcome wish u all the best .. would love if you subscribe for more
I had adenomyosis, fibroids, a thick uterine lining and i just had a total hysterectomy i kept my ovaries last Thursday. I thought it was gonna be painful the first to days were now i feel better. I haven’t had the need to take pain meds.
I had mine done at 31 and now I am 42 and after my surgery I lost my sex drive and 11yrs later still don't have a sex drive . I also suffer from complete dryness in the area . I suffer from over sweating all year round. I am a mom of 4 grown kids . Doctor said things would get better but its been 11 years and the doctors still don't have an answer. I do still have my overies. Blessing to all
Thank you for sharing your truth! Some Dr's won't even tell women it's still possible to have x, y & z symptoms at least as a heads up even though each woman will have a different experience! Thank you for commenting!
HRT-Bioidentical hormones pellets
I want to thank each of you for the replies and any information that was giving to me . I will be checking into it . Again thank yall so much
Change your Diet no red meat no carbs , no sugar veggies and fruits .
"UFE" Uterine Fibroid Embolization", is where tiny particles are introduced through the femoral artery to block the blood supply to the Fibroids. I had this procedure after I had passed out from severe blood loss(2nd time first time I had 3 blood transfusions, this time I had 4 blood transfusions). I always had a severe cycles from first cycle to last. I also suffered from severe Endometriosis, this last cycle it was a waterfall, I stand up and blood just flowed out of me. I was rushed to the hospital where my blood count was a 6, it had dropped to a 5 by the time I was admitted. My OB/GYN came to visit, my mom had come into town to help with my Son while I was in the hospital. So my family is in the room and my Dr, asked if I wanted a Hysterectomy and I said "No". My Mom said "why not, you're not using it" 😶😶😶😅😅😅 we all laughed. I had the UFE and I haven't had a cycle since, the particles blocked the blood supply to my Fibroids and blocked my Fallopian tubes. Straight into menopause. Ladies you have options, please research every option open to you. I hope this info helps, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Amen. It does not matter whether I plan to have babies or not. Lupron injections are working for me.
@@evangelisttamarmichelle3512 I had Lupron injections, two rounds 6 months each time to help with my Endometriosis. Whew, after that 2nd round I was like I'll just deal with the pain. I'm glad its working for you, ...
My old doctor told me I needed one. I cut back on the chicken (caused me to have heavy bleeding and abnormal cycles because of the hormones) and stopped taking bc (caused me to have extreme abdominal pain & other issues). I have two, 2 cm fibroids I've had for the last 15 years. She told me I have multiple covering my uterus and I needed it to be removed immediately. I switched to a doctor who looks like me & it all was a lie. All of the symptoms I was having was because of the chicken, sugar, & bc. I've always had a heavy menstrual since I've had one and my new doctor told me to keep doing what I'm doing with my diet & exercise. I hope your symptoms subside.
Thank GOD you got a second opinion 🙏🏽so glad you’re feeling better.. I’m a firm believer it’s the foods we eat that make us ill
Did you end up removing the fibroids ?
Thanks for sharing that, it decreased my anxiety a little because I do have pain/symptoms everyone is commenting, but I also have switched to a healthier diet, fasting , being more active and lowering stress, and.....trying to avoid too much dairy ,😭 but cheese and pasta are my weakness 😔 God help us. We'll keep fighting 💜
And I didn't think about the hormonal chicken... I mostly eat fish/seafood and chicken Soo great food for thought
I have a pretty good diet. I wonder how much chicken you ate. If you never had children I would never do it and if I’m super young.
"Endometriosis and interstitial cystitis have similar symptoms. Both conditions can be challenging to diagnose, and some patients are misdiagnosed with one, the other, or both. Additionally, studies show that women with endometriosis are up to four times more likely to develop interstitial cystitis." My son has IC and I remember reading this during my research. I take Estroven (Amazon) Complete for the hot flashes they are heaven sent takes about 2 weeks to fully kick in. I have the rectal pain only when I have to do #2 its very intense! The Estroven will help with the stomach fat and also will help with your skin too. I noticed I started to age faster.after my hysterectomy. Im 1 1/2 year in. I don't regret my decision at all. Hope you found my comment helpful and I pray it gets better soon. .
I’m 62 years old and had a partial hysterectomy at 29 years old. I’m happy to say I never had any problems and that was the best decision I’ve made. Be blessed ❤
That’s good to hear 🙏🏽💕
Yes I will be 60 next month, I had cystitis and had to have a total at 19, I took Premarin for the first 25 five years, never had any problems with it but it got to expensive, I’ve had no problems, no early menopause symptoms not even now.
I’m 37, will be 38 in 2 months and had a partial hysterectomy at 33 the day I gave birth to my twins. Due to a lot of stress and issues with the C-section I had to have it. It wasn’t my decision so I feel different. It’s been 4 yrs and I wanted more children so I don’t take it well, matter fact I don’t believe I grieved at all. Seeing a picture of your uterus after the surgery brought me to tears. Health wise I’m have no symptoms at all. Only thing I would say is my sex drive is at its all time high. But I’m not sexually active and haven’t been since the twins were born 😅😅😅. The cold sweats at night are sporadic but other than that I feel completely normal. I just wish I could have more children naturally
@@maryhollis5565 19 is very young; did you have any children prior to the procedure?
@@santelaneal5374I was thinking you can still get pregnant after a partial 🤔
This was one of the best decisions i made having a Total Hysterectomy i bled for ten years very heavy i mean heavy periods. In 2020 i did it and i was traumatized by my monthly periods every month so to see no blood was a relief. After the surgery i went into early menopause and began having high cholesterol. Also my body changed drastically dry skin, premature aging, weight gain, leaking urine due to muscle weakness in my pelvis. So the good thing is no more bleeding, no chronic anemia, and trauma. To my beauty fading, more energy, and peace. Any ladies going through this and are young get your hormones check, eat healthier, stop stressing and listen to your body. Im 54 i had it at 50 and people thought i was in my 30's to looking like big momma now😂😂😂
How did it make your beauty fade
@@nikicarrie4071 It causes your estrogen to drop and that causes mannny changes in the body. Collagen declines so much and affects our plumpness/ fullness/ youthfulness.
That's scary! 😮
I had a partial hysterectomy too. Best decision for me. I was so sick. From age 11, I had debilitating cramps. As I got older, my cycle became heavy. I would pass clots! My cramps were so bad that I was prescribed 1000mg Anaprox (OTC=Alieve). At surgery, my cycle had become 21 days on & 7 days off! That's crazy! I got an ultrasound in my late 20s. I had a bunch of fibroids; from pea to golf ball size. The Ultrasound tech was "scrolling & clicking" while looking at the screen. I asked her if she was "mapping" what she saw. She was. She let me see the screen. My uterus was big back then. My doctor decided to monitor the fibroids. Years later, the fibroids started to grow again. They were pressing against my organs making me randomly throw up 🤮🤢🥴I couldn't do pilates or yoga properly because I couldn't lay on my stomach. Finally, my doctor & I decided to have surgery. At that point uterus was one, huge fibroid. My doctor was also my surgeon. I told her I wanted to see what she removed. She said nah. She did give me the pathology report that listed the size & weight. It was almost the size of a soccer ball & weighed nearly 15lbs! One of my friends told me that I wouldn't know how sick I was until after I recovered from surgery. She was right!
I had a hysterectomy 16 yrs ago & I didn't gain weight until I allowed a doctor to give me a medication & now thank GOD I no longer need it. I have 2 children. I find sit-ups help get rid of the belly pouch & cardio. Age slows our metabolism. We have to slow down on our snacks.
Hey Michelle, that’s why I love all your videos because you explain detail by detail what certain doctors don’t explain and then we have a dark keep continue to give us more contact. Can’t wait for your next video. Thank you for being real and this is your season.❤️❤️❤️
Praying for fast healing
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❤My precious Lady Bug! Thank you for the information sweetheart. As women we definitely go through a lot with our bodies for sure. Thank you for always being so transparent and encouraging. Sending you hugs and love!🙏🏾🥰🐞
Hi Shell!
I honestly wanted to say Thank U! I don't have anyone to talk to about this that's been through a hysterectomy. Not that I want people to also suffer. For many many years I had unpredictable menstrual cycles. It would show up whenever. As a result of fickle cycles, pain and eventually heavy hemorrhaging that lead to fainting 20 years apart, that also included blood transfusions, I was talked to, by a new Dr about a hysterectomy. I was soooo excited to get rid of any culprit responsible for my misery. After the fact, immediate hot flashes, sweating in my sleep, putting on lotion leads to sweating on my face, my scalp sweats. I've gained more weight and I already had a C-section prior to the procedure. The many years of uncertainty regarding my disrespectful cycles and hemorrhaging was awful. I'm overall glad that I had the procedure however it was a TOTAL hysterectomy. I can't undo anything but I'd advise any potential patient to ask 850 questions or until satisfied. I get some sort of strange discomfort that I did not have prior to the procedure. Dr didn't seem concerned but ummmmm. My new Dr says all looks well. Any-whoooo ladies, please do your research to see what's best for YOU. Again, thanks Shell. It helps that real people speak about these subjects. God bless u all in Jesus holy name 🙏🏼
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Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you in this new phase of your life. It will be better soon
I just had my partial in March ..It’s minor stuff I’m dealing with. I’m happy so far. I’m sorry you are experiencing this …
I also want to add that I’ve noticed if I take my multivitamin, vitamin D supplement and magnesium supplements, my hot flashes are not as aggressive. Drink plenty of water and add ginger to help with the nausea.
Black kohash also help with menopause ,but it taste very bitter.
Yes. Ive been taking those for 5 yrs and dont get any symptoms from ny hysterectomy
Totally agree
Im sorry you are going through all of this after your hysterectomy. I will pray God heals you through all the issues. 🙏🏽 Im so thankful you've shared your story.
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Shell it’s confronting that you are able to share this very sensitive topic as so many women go through and are going through. i too had a hysterectomy a while back ago. It was very painful because the aftercare where i wasn’t prepared. Don’t be hard on your self keep finding ways to be healthy and comfortable with yourself. definitely see you are a beautiful woman & a amazing mom ❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️💐❣️
Great video Michelle!! WOW!! Thank you for your honesty and transparency. I have not had a complete hysterectomy, but I had my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed back in late 2018 and I can relate to the sweats and feeling cold - they say that comes with the territory. I still have my uterus, so it is not too bad. The other pains you describe - I don’t experience (thank God 🙏🏾) for that. Overall, I can say, it was the right decision for me. But like you said, every woman is different and every situation is different, so you live and you learn. People should always do lots of research (know the pros and cons) and get multiple professional opinions if you have to. It is your body and you only get ONE! I have a great care team - so I feel very blessed and fortunate to have them. God has you through this journey - Be Blessed Sis! ❤ #LOVEANDLIGHT
Im sorry I hit the wrong button,I am in so much pain,I hate when that time of the month come around,I can't walk,I can't sleep,I can't think...And it didn't used to be this painful,I am 43 and I have been going through this unbearable pain for the last 2 years,I feel like I am gonna vomit, I also have hot and cold sweats ,Im gonna schedule a appointment with my Doctor because something has to give...Thank you,You are always coming through ❤️🙏❤️
So sorry to hear this please keep me updated 🩷
That sounds like Adenomyosis
@@jusme9400I’m gonna research this Syndrome
Wait” OMG I’m enduring the same symptoms every single one ☝️ I’m fasting&praying and booked and appointment and Refferels 2x around they told me nothing I didn’t already know had a Biopsy I assume since they didn’t call me for results it was normal.. I’m suffering in all honesty in Spirit cause I’m drained my Irons Low My uterus hurts my Bladder hurts when it fills breast hurts I’ve been Diagnosed with Peri Menopausal I get it but sometimes it to much pain every were we as woman are Vegas when I reached for my Bible it took me too Numbers 5-27 Bible hub exsplaines it all … I prayed for Forgiveness on how I lived my life and ask for healing then to the Doctor..
Wait” OMG I’m enduring the same symptoms every single one ☝️ I’m fasting&praying and booked and appointment and Refferels 2x around they told me nothing I didn’t already know had a Biopsy I assume since they didn’t call me for results it was normal.. I’m suffering in all honesty in Spirit cause I’m drained my Irons Low My uterus hurts my Bladder hurts when it fills breast hurts I’ve been Diagnosed with Peri Menopausal I get it but sometimes it to much pain every were we as woman are Vegas when I reached for my Bible it took me too Numbers 5-27 Bible hub exsplaines it all … I prayed for Forgiveness on how I lived my life and ask for healing then to the Doctor..
Praying for you 🙏🏾 thank you for the update hope it gets better ❤❤❤
The best video on this topic thus far 🎉 thank you 🙏🏾
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Hello everyone, thank you for sharing your experience after having a hysterectomy. I still have my periods they can be hard getting through. My Mom and Sister had a hysterectomy they never mentioned their symptoms. I’m sure they had symptoms but was private about it. After listening to you and seeing other comments, I see you can make lifestyle changes that could help when you still have a period. This is important to me to know, I don’t want to go that route if I absolutely don’t have to. I thank everyone of you ladies for sharing and for all the helpful info . GOD bless all women.🌹
Thank you for sharing your experience. I am so glad that you are letting others know what can possibly happen after the surgery. I had a partial hysterectomy (supracervical hysterectomy) 14 years ago.and had similar symptoms that you described which led to another surgery 11 years ago. It”s encouraging to know you have research ways to elevate symptoms. 🙏🏾
I’m Glad I found your channel! I actually been going through deff changes since having my hysterectomy in 2018 I just started hormone medication to really help after I tried it on me own!
I also made vlogs of it but like you said I wish I would’ve tried alternate routes prior but it is what it is and we are here lol ! Love the video
Thanks babe I’m so glad you found something that works for you 🩷
Hey Shell, Thank you sharing your story and letting women know what they could be in for. I had a partial hysterectomy in 2015 and I didn't start getting the night sweating until I took the covid vaccination. I did get really bad constipation though right after the procedure, it was so bad that I ended up in the hospital in so much pain one time. I did have the bladder sensitivity as well but since I've been taking saw palmetto for my hair thinning it seems to be helping strengthen my bladder somehow so I don't have the urgency to go all the time.
I 🙏and hope that you find what works for you.
This was an interesting video. I'm 63 and had a partial hysterectomy 6 years ago. I had already gone through menopause (at 50) but was having issues afterwards with fibroid tumors and post menopausal bleeding. My mother, who also had fibroid tumor issues after menopause, kept advising me against having the surgery. Having the surgery is one of the best decisions I ever made. I've not had any post surgery symptoms. Prayers for you as you continue to heal and deal with the post surgery symptoms.
Thanks for sharing your story. Praying helps also through this process, also talking to the right people.
Hi Shell, I'm So glad I found your video tonight as I am preparing things for my hysterectomy next week. All the issues you addressed about the bladder, night sweats, and pelvic floor issues I am experiencing now: I have endometriosis and adenomyosis. I have had four surgeries, and next week will be my 5th one. This issue started at 21, and I am now 34. No children.
I’m so sorry you have been going through this I pray all goes well . Would love if you subscribed for more 🩷
@@SimplyShell417 Thank you! ❤
@@Iamwhit_ney if you want children please pray because God is able. Not saying that you have but too many run to doctors before God. I hate that they cut in women so fast without natural alternatives because he truly gave us all we need to heal. God bless and heal you.
Thanks so much for sharing this important information!!!!
You are so welcome!
Hey there Shell. I had my procedure in April. I watched so many of your videos to help me during and after the process. I didn't have much pain or maybe I was able to tolerate what pain I did feel. Overall the worst part was around week 2 when I starting having a low grade fever due to my body being in shock. So far things are well but I know over the years things may change. Thank you for being so open and inspiring to women thinking about going through this process. It was your videos that let me know I was going to be just fine. Be blessed lady bug ❤
Awww 🥰 so glad , thank you for sharing ..God bless you too
I am 68 and had a partial hysterectomy by 40. Then total by 43. No more pain and the excessive bleeding were all gone, YAY! However, I encountered so many other problems. Eventually started estrogen therapy and developed breast cancer in 2003, which God delivered me in that situation. I had severe scar tissue and have had several surgeries from that like: 7 times. During one surgery my colon was punctured and part of colon was removed. I had bladder tacked up cause it prolapsed. Over the years, I have overcome so much and learned to deal with other stuff. The one thing I can’t overcome is the sweating!!! I carry a small portable fan with me and make sure I hang out in air conditioning spaces. Lastly, my intimate life improved beyond what I could ever imagine, although over the years that is not so important to me. I just need to get over the “Sweating”. Thanks for talking about what happened to you. Please continue to seek alternative treatments to your problems. Oh, that pouch of your tummy, good luck with that. I am still trying to get rid of it without having lipo suction. I wish you well on this journey. Those that are going through the pain, bleeding and others problems with their uterus, please search basic or natural treatments before having the procedure. If you have tried everything then do what is best for you. Having the surgery or not can alter you mentally. Now that you have a lil more information, you can choose options that best suit your needs. Look around and search out doctors willing to work with you before cutting you. I wish you well.
I had a radical hysterectomy 5/2022 to remove an 18cm mass on my ovaries, non-cancerous. I told them to take everything out bc at age 57 I was already in menopause, way past creating lil people. I didn't want to keep going thru surgery, every year something else, so take it all out. But as you mentioned the pain down there, I also thought it was scar tissue. I've been exercising since six weeks after the surgery, low impact, and the pain down there is slowly easing up. Been to OB/GYN last Nov., no reason for the pain found by the doctor. Also I have to agree with you about the lubrication down there, you were spot on. Things are well. I feel much better, to sum it all up.
You are so brave for bringing this on yt thank you I had. Full h too that pain was awful
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I am learning so much from you…thank you so much. 🙏🏾💙🙏🏾
I thought it was just me with the bladder pain. I even went to a Urogynocologist. Also, I’ve complained about rectal and pelvic pain. Your video is a blessing regarding this subject.👍🏾
Hello my dear! I did a hysterectomy myself 5 years ago and I am having the same problem with overactive bladder and I hate it,plus am always hot even when it’s winter to the point where I have to close the vent in my room that the heat don’t come in or I turn the heat way down,BUT am happy I did the hysterectomy because I swear I was gonna bleed to death when my period came one of those months lol.i am sorry you are going through all that but I pray that one day it will heal its self.
I had a partial hysterectomy in 2016 and that was the best decision ever. I had real bad fibroids and I looked like I was 6 months pregnant. Since I didn’t have heavy bleeding every day (only on the first day) and cramps my doctor didn’t want to do a hysterectomy. At that point I hadn’t had cramps in 10 yrs. At my next yearly appointment I had to lie and say I was having heavy bleeding and cramps just so I can get the surgery. I felt so uncomfortable every day, it was hard losing weight and I could feel the fibroids rubbing against each other when I bent over. My uterus was enlarged and I had fibroids the size of baseball and grape fruits. Two weeks after the surgery I lost 10lb. Before it took me 4 months to lose 10lbs. I believe my bladder is the only side effect I have experienced.
Thank you for your honesty, women need this kind of support. You talking about the rectum pain, it only happens to me when I have cysts on my ovaries that have burst. I also had to get the pelvis floor therapy. I was actually comfortable with the exam, the physical therapist lady I was able to get her to be my pelvic therapy. When I was diagnosed with endometriosis I got an pelvic ultrasound❤
Thank you so much for this video. It’s so transparent and people need to talk more about this topic.
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I’m 4 months into my hysterectomy and I regret having the surgery 😩I wish I would have let nature taken it course. I did my research before I had the surgery and prepared myself mentally, I’ve been blessed no serious issues, doing well but experiencing different symptoms monthly. ( hot flashes, nausea, headache, fatigue and weight gain).
I was thinking about it , I am going let te remove the fibroids
@@makishacox6100 yeah I understand, if I was in my 40s or younger I would have also but at that age I was told that if they are not bothering me then don’t worry about them. As I got older the pelvic pain increased.
You wish you would have left the fibroids in?
@@niko4305 I do wish that but at the same time I was scared to put the surgery off any longer, the fibroids would have grown larger, which would have made surgery worse. In my mind I was thinking that once I go in menopause the fibroids would shrink but that’s not what would happen, they could continue to grow.
I had a partial hysterectomy and it was a life-saving decision that I was so thankful I made. The debilitating pain of the fibroids and heavy bleeding was killing me. I was severely anemic. It was the best decision for me. I walked out of the hospital with no wheelchair which is how good I felt. I did not have any difficulties afterwards. All I knew is that the pain was gone and I could do the things I use to do with the exercise, sports, living my life. I appreciate your experience, knowledge, sincere summary of your experience. Not everyone has a great outcome like I had and women need to know how it can go sometimes and to be prepared. Thank you for sharing your experience. 🌹🌹🌹
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How long ago was your surgery?
@@niko4305 My surgery was in 2010.
Thank you for the informative information 🫶🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for your honest video. ❤❤
Happy 2yrs! Great to know how you're doing. Thanks for sharing. Had my TAH on April 2nd! Went back to work after 6wks. Been lucky so far. My surgeons were great. Now it feels like it never happened🤓 - but definitely feel my cut daily. Thankful!😘 Wishing you a better Year 3!
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Hey, I’m a year and a half out from my hysterectomy. Please get a second opinion about the migraine sweats, urinary frequency and other symptoms!! Absolutely sounds to me like premature ovarian failure/ pre menopause symptoms that can unfortunately happen to people after a hysterectomy even though they kept their ovaries and aren’t at menopause age yet. There is a massive chance that you need to go on HRT to manage these symptoms. Vaginal estrogen cream, progesterone HRT pills etc could 100% fix these issues. Sorry you’re going through this!!
We’re can We find these pills
Hi, Thank you for sharing! I appreciate the time you took to share this. May God bless you ❤. I have put it off for a few years.
Thank you for sharing. I can relate to some of the symptoms. Very thorough! 🤎
You’re welcome faith 🩷
It was one of the best surgeries I could have ever had. It’s been 18yrs. I have no regrets. The pain before surgery was absolutely unbearable. My menstrual flow was beyond heavy. I’m so sorry that you are having issues.
Did you have fibroids?
Same for me. I had a complete hysterectomy due to fibroids and endometriosis. My surgery was absolutely necessary and the best thing for my life. I had no problems and never looked back. Thank God.
@shondale71 that’s awesome
I’m sorry you went through this. My hysterectomy was the best decision I made. However I totally understand the tire 😭😭
Thank you for sharing. God bless your health🙏🏻
Thank you so much for this. I have endometriosis and adenomyosis and experience SEVERE pain when menstruating and have been contemplating a hysterectomy. Your video is so helpful.
May God and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ continue to bless and keep you for your transparency!
Thank you 😊
Thank you for this video. I recently had a hysterectomy May 7th of this year, about 5 weeks ago. I have 3 kids, all 3 had to be delivered via c section. I was cut in the same incision from my c section. My hysterectomy was more painful. I did not have much pain in the incision, but near my belly button area (2 inches on left & right). Feels like a raw burning sensation from within. Not sure what that's about. I did not encounter this until after my bandages were removed after week 2. I've been back to the OB/GYN doctor 2x since the surgery about this pain. Praying this raw/burning pain subsides very soon. I go back for my 6week post off next week. You look amazing, beautiful. Take Care.
Thank you so much for sharing , praying you get relief soon 🩷
Girl I went through the same thing! Just had my hysterectomy May 31st this year. You may have had an allergic reaction to the surgery tape!!!!! That's what it was for me! It's very rare: only 0.03% of all people get it!!! Get a referral to see a wound doctor as well as a doctor of infectious diseases. Best thing my Dr sent me to......wound dr treats the wound from the inside and the doctor of infectious diseases treats the wound from the inside!
@belindamoore3518 Thank you for this info. I will definitely inquire with my OB and Primary Doctor next week. I have an appointment with both on the same day, one in the AM and the other in the PM. I pray everything works out for the best. I need to get back to work soon, I've been out of work since May due to the passing of my brother and mom plus this surgery. It's been one emotional roller coaster. I pray for your speedy recovery 🙏🏾. Take Care.
Thank you for sharing your story. Your in my prayers little sis 🙏🏿💗
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Thank you for sharing your story! Your content just popped up on my feed. There’s no such thing as a coincidence 😉
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My mom had a hysterectomy in the 70s. I didn't know it was so prevalent with Black women. If so many Black women are having hysterectomies, there has to be a more underlying issue. Reading all of these comments is depressing because I think of all of the surgeries that have happened to many of our women.
I was offered the same surgery a couple of years ago and I was conflicted because I was in pain but I don't want to remove anything more from my body (I had my gallbladder removed....worst mistake). I was not going to have another child (I have one), but, I was so close to menopause than not, so, I said no. I had horrific, debilitating periods since my first one and I am now cramping everyday and other pains, but, I feel like it can be dealt with in a more natural way.
Even after saying all of that, I respect everyone for doing what was right for them. From reading many responses, many women are happy with their decision and that is what matters. Peace and Blessings to all.
I have given thought to why so many blk women go through this; personally, I believe we are a targeted group and the easiest way to wipe us out or decrease our numbers is to attack our reproductive organs. If we are doing anything correctly, we should be educating young women of childbearing age to take better care of their bodies and be mindful of modified food.
Thank you for respecting others, I've had a total hysterectomy (5) years ago, I'm now (55) years now. I had (4) fibroids and hemorrhaging monthly. I have had no regrets, I do not even feel what menopause is, no sweating , no aggravation. The thing is the kangaroo pouch. I change my diet and exercise a lot. Do all I thought I couldn't do when hemorrhaging then. I'm dancing in ministry and keeping a solid faith in God. My God, when I had the fibroids and hemorrhaging, I feel I was going to died early and my days were wretched.
My mom had the surgery in 1976
Thank you for posting this. With all respect, I’m sure that we will find out how all of these uterus organs are being used. There seems to be many women given the option of hysterectomy.
@breed4853 enlighten me on how the organs are being used
Had a partial hysterectomy in 2019. Still have my ovaries. THE BEST DECISION EVER! I feel great, used to be sick two weeks out of the month. 💜
Were you able to work when you were sick like that?
I have Adenomyosis & my OB is suggesting Hysterectomy in a few years. I’m glad I saw this so I can ask some questions at my next appointment. I use to have night sweats, I believe it’s hormonal and can be tied to your thyroid. You may want to check or have them to check your T3 & T4 levels. The thyroid, ovulation and uterus etc all go hand in hand. I have hypothyroidism along with my adenomyosis and basically these things affect your hormonal balance. Check your Vitamin D levels, once my endocrinologist told me I had a deficiency, I have been taken them and they help a lot with hormonal balance as well as pain. Yoga helps a lot. A lot of foods cause inflammation and Adenomyosis is basically the uterus on 10 from inflammation. Try Aloe Vera juice and using a lot of naturals herbs in your food that help to fight against inflammation. You may still be experiencing inflammation from the surgery. I love to snack too but snacks or processed foods and sugar and dairy cause inflammation. My OB also suggested no processed foods and I’m now considering becoming Vegan before attempting hysterectomy because I’m tired of the hormonal changes just from what I’ve consumed in the past.
❤❤ thank you Shell so much. You are so transparent and you bring light to ALL things I am dealing with (kangaroo pouch and all now) The Dr’s tell you none of this. You are the absolute best…grateful for your platform.
You’re welcome love ❤️
Make sure to drink plenty of water. Daily life style.
Its not the snacking the kangaroo pouch is from cortisol spike from your hormones. Just eat clean. A rounded tummy is cute to men. Dont let it get to you. Just avoid processed food. As a nurse a hysterectomy is an absolute last resort after you tried hormones diet etc.
Sending you healing energy girlie!!
Thanks babe 💕
Thank you you've help me out a lot with the information you gave.
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It’ll be a year on the 23, I haven’t seen anything yet other than the urgency to use the bathroom
It’s very uncomfortable
@@SimplyShell417yes and annoying as hell
I had a hysterectomy too. I haven’t experienced the things you have. I recently had a hernia surgery. They said my intestines were everywhere. Part of them was in the front of my stomach. That we normally call a pooch. Some was balled up against my spine. The doctor said he believe it come from my hysterectomy surgery.
Oh my goodness I’m so sorry to hear . How are you feeling now ?
You are beautiful sis and thanks for sharing your story. You are helping a lot of women with your story. God got you
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Bless your heart girl🙏😬💕
Good information...there are alternatives other than hysterectomy ...i had to find out from someone else.. no doctor would do anything else or tell you anything...it's getting better
OMG! Your story is so similar to mine!!! I can so relate on so many levels!!!! Please get referred to a urologist… if you can, one who specializes in “INTERSTITIAL CYSTITIS.” That is an illness of the bladder that causes pain, the urine frequency due to not being able to fully empty the bladder, ulcers in the bladder, painful intercourse, etc.!!! The doctor will order an endoscopy & scope to look into your bladder to check & determine if you have the illness or not. If you do, there is a prescription & treatment they can insert directly into your bladder through a catheter, once a week for about a month or two… (not fun, but believe me, it works!) It was a life saver for me! Discuss this with your doctor to get the help you need ASAP! I know what you’re going through & I hate to hear about you or anyone going through this… I hope you get help soon & begin your journey of healing! GOD BLESS❤️
Thanks i went to see one but she only checked my urine seen some blood but nothing alarming and told me to comeback in 3 months 🙁 no help
@@SimplyShell417 The urologist can also order a CX Bladder test if there’s a concern for blood in the urine without the presence of UTI. It’s non-invasive.
I found your channel by searching for "hysterectomy in your 30s" Like you, I have lots of pain (no hysterectomy yet) lilely due to endometriosis. I'm still really considering. I really appreciate your honesty!!!
Thank you for watching hun 🩷
I love all the ladies sharing the experience. I also had an hysterectomy and it was best decision I made last year. I had a partial. The only thing they took out was my uterus. I haven’t had any menopausal symptoms yet, but I was told it may come sooner than later. As of now I feel the same without the pain and heavy bleeding. I am also a small frame snap back was on point but I do I a small pouch just in the front. When I do workout it’s less visible. I don’t workout much besides walking. I was blessed with a natural slim body frame.
Thank you for Sharing Crystal 🩷
Your doctor should have offered HRT. Your body goes into instant menopause after a hysterectomy. I think this is medical malpractice not to give women their hormones back after this procedure. Please reasearch National Menopause Society's approved doctor list and also the effects of hormone depletion after hysterectomy. Your your healing is on they way. I wish you well xxx
Thank you so much 🩷
Have doctor's to make sure your body is absorbing the nutrients from your food? Mg B6 B12 D3
Wow prayers to you and you family! I just was scrolling on the tube and saw the post and saw how youthful you look . Thank you for this informative video. Will check out videos. Thanks much!
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Thank you for sharing your journey. Alot of women are faced with this decision when they have challenges with fibroids or the menstrual cycle. It is a major surgery and the OB/GYN doctors they only know the medical model. They aren't trained in holistic treatment or natural remedies unless they decide to get training on that. Diet, stress and the environment play a major role in our hormones. Sometimes making small changes can make a huge difference.
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Menopause in your 20s is crazy what is the world coming to??? 20s is the new 60s they wearin wigs, dentures, and now getting hysterectomies going thru menopausal WOW smh
the hot flashes is menopausal. Having a hysterectomy brings you into menopause. I am glad you are going for pelvic floor therapy. Bladder prolapse could develop. I wish I could sit down with you. I am going through a lot regarding issues also and no support.
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New Sub here...glad I found your channel. I had a Hysterectomy in 2018 and remember asking my Doctor if it was true that most woman gain weight afterwards and she said no that's a huge myth. I was always on the smaller size about a size 2-4. I am now a 10, gaining 30 pounds after the surgery. I love the weight gain in other areas but not my mid section. I am a healthy eater so I couldn't understand where the weight was coming from. I don't regret having my hysterectomy because I am better health wise (Lots of fibroids & Endometriosis), but I wish I knew all of this beforehand. I am going to start back working out to "try" to get back to my pre-hyster weight. It is truly something to think about since most doctors wont tell you the absolute truth. I am determined but also will not beat myself up if I cannot achieve my weight goals. Thanks for this video. I hope it can help many, many others.
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This is very informative. Thank you. I’ve been having random pains and I have about I think four big fibroids. So I’m considering myomectomy. Did you consider that as well?
New subscriber here! 💗This video came right on time! My hysterectomy is scheduled for Jan. 2025 and I'm so nervous! I have 1 large fibroid that's in a difficult spot. The amount of bleeding it causes is ridiculous, to the point of LOW iron levels and chest pain (had to wear a heart monitor for 2 weeks). Everything you've described as far as symptoms, I currently experience. Even down to going to a pelvic floor specialist and physical therapy. All of this started once I turned 30. I'm now going on 35, and I honestly am just ready to feel better! Thank you for your honest videos! (I'll be binging 😆)
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Fibroid and it's company is debilitating thank God I did my surgery three years ago still can't Carry any weight and feel pain in my abdominal area sometimes but feels much better without the bleeding thank God for saving my life
@@heathermattar1686 Yes! Life sucks when you’re bleeding through ULTRA tampons w/ a pad. I have to plan activities around my cycle. Just ready for relief! This is the type of stuff I’m researching before my surgery. I know that every woman is different but, I want to know what other women may have experienced. So, thank you for sharing your experience with me! 💜
@@jaz5752Been there before and it was terrible. You are so young for a hysterectomy. Have you tried other options?
@@CarlaNicholson-jm8iq I’ve done it all except myfembree (which stops bleeding) My OB prescribed it and honestly, reading the reviews made me very nervous. The side effects don’t seem worth it. However, I’ll only be taking it for about 5 to 6 months. I’m a veteran so certain drugs have to be approved (especially when taking anti-depressants) and I have yet to receive the myfembree.
You are in menopause now. I am so sorry no medical professional clarified this BEFORE you had to make this choice. It sickens me that some 6:47 medical professionals completely mismanage black women’s body.
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They are so thirsty for giving us hysterectomies when most don't need it.
Pray you will be feeling better soon. Great video for everyone going through this. It's always go for us to support one another in times like this. Pray everyone going through this joins some type of support group. We can learn so much from each others experiences. We need to understand what all the possible side effects are. As for black women we must be very careful about having our ovaries taken out too soon because studies show we are at a higher risk of heart attack than other groups. Therefore, we need the hormones the ovaries produce to help protect us from heart attacks. Especially if heart attacks run in your family. Also knowing there is a chance of complications with laparoscopic surgery if you've had multiple abdominal surgeries. Prior surgeries can cause lots of scar tissue in that area. Which can be problematic when getting laparoscopic hysterectomy surgery. I had a bad experience with this myself even after the doctor to not do the laparoscopic surgery. He tried to tell me he could do it. Only to wake up after surgery with him frantically apologizing for not listening to me. Had to be on morphine for all the pain from being cut in two different ways. On top of that he took one of my ovaries after expressing I didn't want them removed. Sadly a lot of doctors have a hard time listening to patients even when you explain you've done some studying on the matter. Sorry for the long message. May you all find healing and peace.
Thanks for sharing your experience. I hope things get better for you ❤
Your story resonated with me. I didn’t have a hysterectomy, but I did have lap endometriosis excision surgery. Long story short, I was experiencing very painful and debilitating periods and symptoms outside of my cycle. I was fainting from the pain. After years of symptoms, many doctor and ER visits, I was diagnosed with stage 4 endometriosis and adenomyosis. I did a lot of research and changed my lifestyle. I changed my diet to an anti-inflammatory diet, cut out processed foods, I limit dairy and sugar (I found these were my triggers). I also try to do a lot of gentle exercise like yoga and walking, reduce my stress, making sure I sleep enough, and pelvic floor therapy. I did decide to get the surgery because of how advanced my endo was. I had two large endometrioma cysts that were basically swallowing my ovaries and wanted to preserve my fertility.
All of this has helped me tremendously. My periods are no longer debilitating and can actually function during my cycle. I feel so much better. I think it really possible to heal through diet and lifestyle changes, and I highly recommend trying this route with the guidance of your medical team of course!
Thank you so much for sharing , definitely working on my unhealthy diet 😕 little by little . Appreciate you hun would love if you subscribed and watched more 💕
@@SimplyShell417 no worries! It’s definitely not easy to change your diet. It takes a lot of trial and error and a lot of patience and kindness with yourself. I say just start small and work your way up. That’s how I did it. When I started my lifestyle change, the book “Whole New You” by Tia Mowry, helped a lot! She was going through something similar and she talks about her story and gives a lot of info on diet with the help of her dietitian. I recommend! I wish you the best❤️
@nathalie2211 good to know definitely will check out her book , thanks again love ❤️
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Thank you for sharing this information. I learned so much. I am glad you are okay. Continued Blessings 🙏💜
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I hear you, feel you and know this all to well. I will be making a video my self soon. I most certainly am appreciative of having the hysto. But this occasional gastric pain I was left with takes me to heaven and back. Everyone will experience different things and glady it's only occasional like a few times out of the year depending on what I consume. Please try to explore more options than 3 before make a decision. Thank you for your story!!🙌🏾✨️
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