Praying for everyone that watches this video. May you be comforted knowing you gave your animal companion a beautiful life. You will be reunited one day🌈
I had to put my Beloved Pumpkin to sleep New Years Day, 1/1/2024 now about 6 hrs ago She had kidney disease and really was sick the last few days. My Son helped me make the decision, she was 17 her birthday was in January. The Vet said her kidney level were bad, she was very weak, would have had to keep her in hospital for 2 to 3 days with all kinds of tests etc. The Vet said she was very sick. I held her , told her how much I Loved her, she was my Faithful Companion, my Darling Love, my Pumpkin God this is so hard. I feel sick, I can’t eat. I prayed on it, I just knew she was slipping away. The Love of our Pets runs so deep. Rest In Peace my sweet Girl, Until we meet again I Love You Always and I will miss you everyday. Mommy🙏❤️🙏
Two hours ago I had to put my 17 year old cat, Tobey, to sleep. He couldn't urinate anymore. The doctor said that they could drain his bladder, stay at the vet's office to be monitored but she couldn't guarantee that it wouldn't happen again due to his age. My heart is broken as I sit here with tears running down my face. For those of you who gave this video a thumbs down, I guess you've never had the love of an animal. I feel sorry for you.
Wow. I am sorry for your loss. I have two cats, that are both twelve years old. They are in good health now, but anything can happen. And my issue is, I will eventually have to go through this heartache, twice. And, I can not even imagine who would give this extremely informative, and caring video, a thumbs down. Again, I am sorry for your loss. One thing that I do know for sure, it will eventually get easier. You will never be totally free of your loss. But, it will definitely get better...God bless you. And good luck
You did the right thing. I’m so glad you are still able to savor those precious memories of love. I have hope that you will see your beloved friend again. ❤
I had to put my 15 year old Boxer, Troy to sleep. He left at 6:57PM yesterday. He was having mobility problems. We’ve been helping him to stand up. There were good and bad days these past couple of weeks. Yesterday, he made some wolf sounding noise, staring at me. Then, he got up and walked all the way to the back of his room and laid down with his back facing me 😢. I stood there watching him till 3AM. Yesterday, he could get up. Watching him struggle with getting up I took him to the vet who stated that she could run some bloodwork and monitored him but his back legs wouldn’t get better and did t guarantee that he would help him due to his age. I haven’t been able to stop crying, it’s 3Am and I can’t sleep. I totally understand you. I’m in tears as I’m writing 💔
I'm praying for you. My dog has lymphoma that has come back after chemotherapy treatments had been successful. I may have to put him down today and I can hardly breath from howling in tears.
Jessica Kim 🙏💛🐕 I know what Your going through. My Dog has Congestive Heart Failure. Medication is no longer working. He also has other problems, due to his Age(17yrs) I’m dreading thinking about it, but I know I have to do what’s best for My Dog, and not Myself!😔
Hi jess, just asking how u are doing? I found ur msg abt ur furbaby❤️ how are you doing seen its 8months since u wrote, how are you feeling now? My baby is off her food and not active I'm freaking it's 28 of December and vets are shut in Dublin Ireland but she's making eye contact and I'm not sure if she's gonna pull threw or how long dose this go on, she got sick twice, she On insulin 2wks❤️❤️Love been sent.
@@clareb8015 im dealing wth this now. our pup is an attached rescue dog. pitbul 6 years old(human Years). hes been acting weird lately from fleas to have bad case of pet dander. my mom wants to do it when we move out of our crappy house in november.
I will contact him. Thank goodness I live near. My fine beast is 17. He is my family. A Boston terrier, he has been so good to us. Oh I a starting to cry.
This man is absolutely wonderful. I wish I could find a vet this empathetic and kind. He is absolutely brilliant. I am going through this right now and he really helped me.
Had to put my dog down today after 15 years. In my heart I believe it was time but it feels so awful and the worst part is just not knowing for sure if it was the right thing or right time to do it. Could they have bounced back? Were they really in pain or was I just imagining it? The vets we had were really great and this video really helped ease my mind. She is in a better place and is truly not suffering anymore. Keeping her here longer would have been selfish. Still it doesn’t make it easy and I hope anyone going through this and is doubting their decision, knows that the choice they made was the right call. This video truly felt like therapy for me. I’m very thankful
Time heals all wounds! It’s been a few months now and we still miss our dog but it has gotten much better. We recently got a new dog and every so often I call her by our old dog’s name on accident.
You were blessed to have her for so long. She was a beautiful gift. I know its hard but when the comes, there are so many wonderful dogs just waiting for you to become your best friend. Every time we have lost a pet, we bring in another to live and care for. Humans and animals need one another on another level different from humans and humans. Love your companion for who she was, keep her close to your heart and allow yourself the joy of bringing another pet into your life. It is good for both of you in so many ways. I am so sorry for your loss.
I went through the same thing you did but I didn't second guess myself due to the fact that I had that problem before and all I had done was make my poor dog suffer more while trying to hang onto it instead of letting it go, it's hard but the first time taught me a lot and I started to realize that if a dog has a problem that can't be reversed it is time to say good bye and not let the dog suffer. But it still hurts because you love your dog and spent so much of your life with it, but always remember that and you did the right thing because you loved your pet.
I'm struggling with feeling that I made a mistake euthanizing my 10 year old cat. He was suspected of having cancer, but a biopsy was inconclusive. Then he suddenly had what seemed to be a spinal stroke, leaving his rear paralyzed. Later I learned that a spinal stroke is somewhat rare, but also possible to partially or mostly recover from with physical therapy. I thought I was saving my cat from suffering paralysis only to die from a tumor. But he wasn't in pain and a specialist might have solved the original problem or at least positively identified the problem. Now I will never know and it torments me. It doesn't give me solace knowing that I'll eventually feel better. It does help to know I'm not alone, and I can accept that we humans sometimes make mistakes. I just wish I could be sure either way.
I never thought that I would become so emotional at that death of my canine. In the last three years of her life, I prayed to God that, at the time of her death, I would be at her side, that her death would be painless, and that it would be swift. All three requests were met, but I wasn't ready for the suddenness of her death. I had brought her into the Vet, for her health had been declining. Within twenty minutes the Vet was discussing euthanasia with me and, by the end of the hour, my great friend was dead. To this day, I cannot speak of her without becoming emotional. A huge part of me died with her that day.
@captainmorgan757:My heart goes out to you. My orange tabby cat is my best friend....he is ten years old, and I dread the day when this begins. I will be devastated. My six sons say, "mama, what are you going to do when Peanut dies?" My Peanut is my best friend. When the time comes, I will never be the same. I will pray that you obtain peace of mind and heart. God bless you and grant healing. He helped me heal from my brain surgery and major stroke.
My dog is a lab mix, and she’s really declining. Hard to get up, blind in one eye and can’t see well in the other, almost deaf. She is always panting, for the moment she wakes up to the moment she rests. She goes to sleep very often, and sounds like she has troubles breathing while doing so.
Kiwi my beloved dog 🐕. You have been so loyal and have stood by me through all my human flaws. We have 2 more days together and I am grateful for you just lying down here beside me right now. We both know it’s time. We know each other so well. I love you with all my heart. Rainbow Bridge awaits.
This was excellent. My 14 yr. old is in stage 5 renal kidney failure. We all love him so much. Fluids under the skin. Harmon & blood transfusion. He has been going thru this for 4 months. My family has tried to hold on. Me too, I'm absolutely destroyed. Man's best friend. Dog never has a bad day. But the kidneys, toxin build up, incoherent behavior, and now struggling to get up and stay on his feet. I am so broken! This video is helping me face what I have to do. Thank you!
This is the kindest video I've seen. I wish all dogs would just go peacefully in their sleep. I hated make this decision every single time, I have to make it one more time and I'm never doing it again. I love dogs, but this process is heart breaking and it makes you question yourself.
I just put my lulu to sleep today (golden retriever) I can’t stop crying 😢 but I love her, she has suffered a lot. It would be selfish of me to keep her while she’s suffering in pain.. I’m watching this to keep me convinced that I did what’s right for her .. I’m just praying she’s in heaven ❤️
This talk has helped me. I understand now that my dog was dying rapidly and that there was no other choice but having him put to sleep at the vet's. It's still a devastating thing to have to do to a pet you loved so much. I hope we will meet again.
Thank you for a compassionate video. It was a heartbreaking decision to put our 12 year old golden retriever named “Buoy” to sleep two days ago that was done in our own home. I’m still watching this video to help convince we did it at the right time.
Had to let my sweet Maltese girl Candy to sleep due to kidney failure on 6/14/23. Sweetest girl ever. Never made an enemy. Everyone loved her. She stuck to me like glue so I am devastated. She was in great pain and discomfort after battling under IV fluids for 2 days in the hospital. I had to give her a chance as she survived it once prior, but this time her kidneys were too far gone. Get them to the vet as soon as they stop eating. Don't force feed. Time is precious. Hug your pets every day.
We have a tough time because we love them so very, very much. You know this, I know. And there is no easy way round it. Since our animal family can't tell us how they feel, that makes euthanasia a more difficult decision. But I've waited "too long" one time, and vowed not to again. I don't know where you live, but here in Ohio our winter weather is coming fast. My old dog, she cannot endure the ice, and I cannot endure the thought of her falling and really hurting herself. Day after tomorrow she will be put to sleep. Give yourself time to bawl like a calf whenever you need too. Tears change with time, and they always seem to clean-up things inside.
Totally agree with you Eric. Better SOONER than later. Bawling like a calf before and after for sure, but, time is a great healer, especially if you give another animal a loving home. Seems to speed heal the wounds faster.
I'm also having a hard time as well.my cockapoo of 12 years had a tumor dionosed back in February of this year and had passed away Nov 27th would of been 12 today nov30th.i got him when he was 13 weeks old.hang in there James I no your pain as well.
It’s the up and down that is really hard for me right now. I was pretty darn sure the day before yesterday that it was time, and was preparing mentally for this to be the last week. But yesterday he was just fine and apparently normal. So now I’m just even more anxious and hyper aware of every behavior of his.
The explanation about the reserve capacity of the organs was very helpful. 😺After my cat was diagnosed with total kidney failure, the only thing that was going to save him was emergency dialysis and then a kidney transplant. By that point I had already taken him to three animal hospitals and spent about $2,000. Doing the dialysis and transplant was going to cost tens of thousands of dollars. So I really didn’t have much choice at that point. Of course, I stayed with him during the procedure. I couldn’t imagine dying alone. He was my best friend. 😿
I spent tens of thousands on my pet, and now my family is in a terrible bind. I’m not stupid. I don’t believe I would have survived leaving my abusive marriage, and a life threatening illness that followed, without him. He didn’t leave my side in 5 months I could not get out of bed, with a serious infection. I have autoimmune disease. As soon as I recovered, he developed hyperthyroidism, as well as his kidney disease, then cancer. I stayed home with him for a month, and retiring work 2 days after he was euthanized. Still, I waited until his body couldn’t process food and water and his bloodstream was being poisoned by drinking from his dish. I don’t know what I did to deserve such a beautiful gift of time with him. There are times I could not have missed a day of work, and could not allow my pet to die alone. There are times in my life when I could not come up with $300 to save the life of a beloved pet. I didn’t get that long goodbye those times, and I hope I did the right thing for them. It is hard to see the virtue in ourselves that is so evident in others. I believe, with all my heart, that you did what you were able, to ease his suffering. I’m sure he felt your good intentions and undying love, in his last moments. 💕
Thank you for bringing up the financial aspect. My cat has Chronic Kidney Disease, and this week it suddenly progressed to advanced and his prognosis changed to 6 months. But now he's not eating and he's getting severely dehydrated even with fluids, so he may only have a couple days. He's a fighter, but I don't want him to keep fighting if all of his days are gonna be in pain, or if I have to watch him starve to death. But also, I have to consider the financial aspect. I can barely afford the care he now needs, and I even had to decline getting him in tomorrow morning for an all day IV because I can't take anymore time off work. I feel so guilty for having to factor in money into this decision, but it is a huge factor. I want to wait until he's ready, but I don't know if I'll ever know he's ready.
Owners need to stick to the reality of the situation. Sometimes you just have to let them go. The quality of life isn’t there. I resent the veterinarians who suggest blood transfusions, chemotherapy for bone or liver cancer, etc etc. They guilt the owners into more extensive testing, procedures and expensive non value added treatments. This equals emotional abuse and assures a hefty vet bill regardless of the outcome. And suffering of your pet. I had a 17 year old hound who was in advanced congestive heart failure and the vet put him on life support and wanted to refer me to a heart specialist? Really? I asked the dog be euthanized...
I just went through losing my little 16-17 year old pom/papillon mix. We kept going back to the vet with blood work, antibiotics, blahblahblah... and 10 days ago, I took her in because we were exhausted (she and I), trying to get her to eat... ANYthing! She was so tiny and losing weight. Well, the vet FINALLY did a quick ultrasound and there it was; the majority of her tiny liver was infiltrated with tumor. Then the vet said...we don't have to do it today; there's medication we can try to help her eat. She was already on Cerenia and worn out. It made me CRAZY to know how bad she felt with nausea. I had to let her go and wish I'd made that decision a month ago... or MORE! Hurts like hell. I don't know WHY that initial injection they give in the muscle (before the final one) has to be so painful; I'm still crying, just thinking about THAT!
That's a tough scenario to go through. I kind of want a vet to give me all of my options but also have the experience and empathetic intelligence to tell me straight up if euthanasia would be the kindest option. Seems you were visiting an unethical vet if they're pushing such treatment that is palliative but forces your beloved animal to struggle in a way that doesn't buy time that will be comfortable and happy. On another note, wow! If you had a 17 yr old hound, that's amazing! That dog was in a good home, evidently. Nice to know this hound was in good hands.
Long Drive I took my Charlie (dog) to my horse vet and it was no question I paid to put him down and he did it. No quilt I cried like a baby and my vet was very sympathetic I have deep respect for Dr. Jackson. Charlie was failing and I couldn’t let him further suffer.
@@freewaybaby I just had to euthanize my dog 3 days ago Dec.4,2019 & the first shot hurt her too...it stings the vet said. I was soo upset by this as well. I'm also wondering if there is a more humane way as well...she was so calm b4 the first injection & not in physical pain till the shot. She cried & tried to get away (i was holding her throughout the procedure). I can still hear her loud cry. RIP my little Crickett girl.
And on the flip side, there are vets who never mention cheap and effective treatments that could do a world of good. The problem is that too many people automatically believe that a vet is an honest and good person. Sadly, many are just as much business as your local used car salesman....
I love this vet . He has touched on every single emotion , feeling and symptoms on this dreadful topic ... his clients are so lucky to have him. I’m in Canada and I swear I can’t a single knowledgeable compassionate vet here. My beloved cat got so sick so suddenly and I have been struggling with her death and getting answers . None of the 4 vets that tried to treat her could answer my questions or address my grief. Pls pray for us ... I wish I could have this wonderful man as a vet
My cat had at least 30+ seizures and that up and down ride is SUCH a rollercoaster! But last Sunday was like the "Last one" we knew at that point there was no more rubber banding. I am really glad you talked about that!
I had to have my 5 year old cat put down today due to kidney failure. It was such a hard decision but the treatments weren't working and he was suffering. So heartbreaking 💔
I think I waited to long my 130lb Rotwieler was 90lbs, his big flat pan head was now pointed from the muscles in his head deteriorating, he pooped while sleeping, but he still had that love, he would still fetch his ball 5 or so times in the garage which was a small area I had to give him being he had no control over his bowels. He still loved going bye bye. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. Anyone who saw him thought he was severely neglected but it was the total opposite. I just couldn’t let him go. RIP LOUIE.
My dad just died on March 1st, and his death was very sudden to me, I had no warning or way of knowing and had to see him at the hospital in his deceased state, as well as be the one to arrange his funeral and sign his death certificate.Watching this video, even though it's about animals, has definitely helped me to deal with this. My dad is no longer suffering and even though he died suddenly and I'll never see him again, at least he isn't in pain anymore. Once I get a house or somewhere with lots of room, I want to adopt as much cats as I can that need homes so they wont be euthanized and do my best to love them all until they too have to go. I'm glad I saw this video.
rokatsu\\\\\ bless your heart dear !........i am dying from cancer and i have 4 adorable cats , from 7 months old to 2 years of age, i am trying very very very hard to find responsable & mature adults to adopt my dearly loved cats.... i live in montreal, canada... if you are serious & mature & responsable i would be happy to hear from you.... unfortunately (for my adorable & loving cats ) i do not have much time....some help would be greatly appreciated folks... thank you ! for someone interested you can find me on facebook under my real name 'above' ! GOD bless you.
I am so very sorry. I lost my father suddenly and on july 11th 2018 and saw him take his last breath. I can relate with your comment. have a good day much love to you.
MobileGamerWill I’m so sorry about your dog. Our pets are our family, and it’s absolutely heartbreaking and I hope you are doing okay. I agree, but I don’t think she’s in any pain yet. I’ve had to put to sleep so many animals, and I would never let her be in pain. It’s only 3 days hiding. I love her very much and if I see that she’s starting to hurt, I won’t let her. ❤️ I have all my animals cremated, and they’re all with me downstairs. Thank you
I know I made the right decision where my 24 year old Sunny (cat) was concerned, I let her let me know when the time was right. Her kidneys were tired, the blood tests showed. Offering our pet the Final Act of Love is the most difficult decision of all for us but the kindest for them. I love her dearly, couldn't make her stay forever. My Only Sunshine 💕
Thank you for this video. My 19-year-old cat has been suffering from kidney disease and lost most of the use of her legs and walks hunched over. Now her mouth is bleeding and it hurts to eat and I think her bones hurt too, so we've made the difficult decision. This video is very helpful for me because I was really struggling and feeling like I was "killing" her or taking away her right to live, even though she's not happy these days.
Thank you for this video. I cannot stop crying. We found our boy (Luckypaw) in our front yard with his eyes barley opened over 17 years ago. He grew up with our children. He has a Tumour and the Vet said that he is too old to be operated on. We have and continues to love him so very much. We know that the end is coming soon and we are holding on dearly to all of the joy and great times we had with him. Our hearts are broken and my chest feels like it will burst open.
My vet wants to do a cardiac workup to see if a cardiologist will clear my 17 year old Chihuahua for surgery. It's pricey just to do the work up, let alone the surgery. Did your vet suggest this or did you do this process before making any decisions? I was surprised she would suggest it considering his age and the fact his heart doesn't sound good. It doesn't seem like he would likely be cleared for surgery.
You are such a wonderful vet. This brought tears to my eyes. Had to recently put down my 15 yr old tabby cat and it was devastating but I didn’t want her to suffer. Because of Covid, they wouldn’t let me be in the room with her and I had to wait in the car. It broke my heart. Now I have a 17 yr old tortie cat and I can see her slowly start to slow down. I will be so crushed to have to put her down but thank you for this video because it’ll let me see the signs better.
thank you so much for your unpaid time to make this video....You are a gem....and you have helped me alot...I have an 18 yr old cat that about fifty % of the time he appears in pain....
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking time to do this video it has help ease my the heart and pain I'm going through since I have put my loving pug to sleep after almost seventeen years. I now know it was the right thing to do he had so many of the problems you talked about .I have felt so bad and find myself crying at the drop of a hat .My little Gage meant the world to me .Right now I don't want another pet but I hope when my heart heals I can find another pet that I can love .Gage and I had so many good years together he will always be in my heart❤️❤️ me that Gage was suffering he was put to sleep four days ago I have cried tell lm so sick and sleep with his blanket and dog lease.But after watching your video I feel a little more at ease .I seen so many. Of those sighs in my my sweet pet now listening to you I realize I was in self denial. I now my sweet lovingly Gage is in no more pain and I thank you for making understand that I made the right discussion
A & K Cooper my heart goes out to you. you seem like you were a great parent. i had to put my shih tzu down at almost 17 as well. he got a collapsed trachea and dementia. i put him down right we started to go downhill. i will never get another dog, he was my guy.
My cat Laguna is only 9 years old but she's about to die and I tried everything but I can't help her, her kidneys are failing and she won't eat the food the vet gave me to get better. She's like a child to me, it breaks my heart to see her suffer but it also breaks my heart to end her life.. Cats don't show they're in pain so it's really hard for me to tell what the right time is, at the moment she didnt eat or drink for days and she only sleeps so I feel like it's time.. But on the other hand even though she's very ill and weak, she still uses her energy to come sit with me even for just a moment, as if she's trying to tell me it's ok because she sees i'm suffering as well. I don't want to take away her life too soon, but I also don't want her to suffer too much..
@@fadzilah20 It was the hardest decision I ever had to make, but I know I made the right decision by letting her go, I did everything in my power to save her but she was just getting weaker every day and there just wasn't any chance for recovery, so I had no other choice than to let her go.. How is your cat doing now? Did the vet also confirm that there's nothing left to do about it?
@@Orion3G tomorrow i be going to vet. Will see how from there. I still can't believe come to this, i mean i knew it but...just too soon.. 2020 bad year.
@@fadzilah20 Yea I still can't believe it either.. mine was only 9, I never expected it but suddenly she got very sick and stopped eating and drinking, she was gone before I knew it.. People say 'its just a pet' but she was a child to me and it still hurts today. I hope somehow the vet can still help your cat, I kept my hopes up for a miracle until the end, maybe you have more luck than I did. Either way, much strength to you and your cat, if you want to talk about it or if you want to share an update about your cats situation just let me know.
Sorry for your loss.According to my vision the soul is immortal and your dogs consciousness will continue on with its evolution in a new form and its prior life becomes a stepping stone to its next
I understand your pain. I have had a couple of cats that were ove 20 years old and even though they have had a long life it is still hard and is painful to say goodbye. But please take comfort in knowing you showed your pet as much love as you could and they also loved you back too. Love is the most important thing in your pets life and there is a definite connection between us.
My lab is 15 years old, incontinent, spends most of the day sleeping, doesn’t like to walk as much and struggles to get up or stand for a period of time. He does still eat and drink regularly and wags its tail and appears happy to see us. One member of my household thinks he should be out down, because he’s incontinent and no longer the fun and active dog he used to be, but I still see life in him and would feel like I killed him. To me the stress is more the family’s negativity towards him than his decline.
Thanks for sharing. The time has come to let go of my almost 15 y/o Labrador. He’s not sick, just old. He’s healthy but you totally described my dog ... I can see him (Martin) being exhausted and ready to go. He sleeps almost 24/7 and the walks are getting shorter. It’s like Martin is telling me to let him go, that he’s thankful for the great life he had but that he now wants to go. I feel tremendously guilty, what if he’s just old but still wants to stay? It’s never an easy choice. Thank god I’ve got another Labrador to ease the pain but when is it time?
I have suffered so many devastation these recent years losing loved ones whether humans or fur babies that i feel numb and lost my usual ambitious, workaholic, driven self. I see my life with no direction and purpose. I just recently lost my dog last 4-10-24 due to chronic kidney failure. The most humane and kind thing to do to ease her pain and agony is thru euthanisia. There are times im at work when suddenly tears go down my face. When i see her bed, food container and think of the way she wants to be lying near beside me make me so sad and lonely 😢 Praying for all fur parents who lost their fur babies. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this video. My 14-year-old cat is in kidney failure and unless a miracle happens, we'd have to say goodbye. As you said, there were no clear symptoms until she reached a critical stage. She's got ups and downs but manages to get around and do habitual things thanks to some meds and infusions we're trying. But she doesn't eat and is growing weaker. And you're right, I'll know the time. And I'm not ready to see her go but I'll have to be strong for her.
After a few months of noticing something was wrong with my 12 year old beagle, and as he progressively got worse, I knew it was time. This video helped me deal with the impending action necessary to relieve the suffering of my baby. You have made such a compassionate, and realistic decision so much easier by touching on things that most of us struggle with. Thank you so very much, from Boudreaux and his parents! He has been SUCH a wonderful companion, and my baby!
Thank you so much for this video.I have two golden retrievers one still young and the other is a senior.Both these babies are my heart.The older one at times is having trouble getting up or into her bed at night.But once she is up she does pretty good soothing you still can witness in back legs and hips and seems happy.When I go out to play with them she jumps some in the air.She has loss a lot of muscle mass and this concerns me so much.I can’t imagine life without her but because I love her so if I seeing she is suffering I will gift her forever ever peace.She has lived a loving and attentive life and I know in my heart she has lived a Fabulous life.I just hope we can continue our life together for quite awhile more until that decision has to be made.You really helped me understand seeing the signs that indicates the correct timing to let her go.Thank you so much for your insight and your caring heart.
Thank you for this video. You have an incredible bed side manner and it's a video! You validated so many feelings I'm having as my dog is 16 and we are experiencing alot of these end of life signs. It's hard not knowing what to expect or what to do. Luckily I have an amazing vet but this video also helped so much. Thinking of everyone also going through this difficult time.
Your words are so kind. Ty for going deep. I wish you were my vet. Today I say goodbye to my best friend of 17 years. Man he had a great life. I believe in quality of life.
@@teacher.prashantdubeyforma5142 It's not a cold heart, but a loving heart. You never want to see something you love suffer. Letting go does hurt, but it hurts worse to see your pet suffer and not be able to to anything for him.
@@teacher.prashantdubeyforma5142 I couldn't disagree more. Putting your loved one's suffering before your selfish need to keep them there is the most loving thing you can do.
@@teacher.prashantdubeyforma5142 Euthanasia is for the owner most of the time, not the pet. People can’t handle the suffering. If you truly love your pet, suffer with them until the end if at all possible. It will be freaking hard, but it will be the most real and honest thing you will ever do. You would want your pet with you at the end. I swear, these vets need to realize the situation and offer comfort, pain relief to these animals if they really want to ease suffering, not just kill them all the time. That’s what we do for humans.
I really appreciated your information. My husband and I are facing glaucoma in our beloved Australian cattle dog. She is going blind. She is only seven yrs. old but has seemed to deteriorate since the diagnosis. I don’t want her to suffer and my husband refuses to see her condition. A vet told him that if the condition worsens the eyes can be removed. I do not want to do this to my beautiful dog, i can imagine her waking up from surgery without her eyes. I am very afraid this will cause a big problem between my husband and myself. We both love her very much but differently. Any counsel would be greatly appreciated.
My lab is 15 years old. Had issues with his hind legs. Yesterday his hind legs collapsed. Vet increased his medication. Said he has severe arthritis. He said give it a week. We are currently taking care of him cleaning him changing his bedding. If he doesn’t stand in a few days, I will put him down. He has a fantastic appetite. He doesn’t appear to be in pain, however he isn’t able to stand or walk. This will be a very hard time!! He’s been a loyal pet for 15 years!! But keeping him alive for us is selfish on our part.
Thank you for explaining the ups and downs. We just put our cat down yesterday and he had been anemic for awhile. Not in pain, still eating, socially with us for a few months. Then the ups and downs happened. Wasn’t sure what to do, when it was time. Until he started hiding, eating no more than a thimble of food and drinking less water. Friday eve we knew and, took him in the next day. Thank you so much for putting up this video I wish I knew of it before. I have an amazing amount of guilt that I waited too long on taking him in. I just hope he wasn’t in pain because of my stupidity.
Oh friend. You weren't stupid. You just cared. I feel guilt for what is coming for my baby, but I love her. I want to keep getting her treatments but if they only last 2 weeks then she's downhill again, it's unbearable. So give yourself grace. I love you and praying for your peace. Don't be so hard on yourself. I felt just like this but I've gotta just trust the Process. Be at peace. ❤❤
My Shih Tzu Papo, passed away Oct. 28, 2020 and I miss him each and every single day that goes by. He spared me the difficult decision of having to euthanize him for he died on his own terms that Wednesday morning. He pooped and peed on himself before leaving me. He was gone. His body lifeless. Took my baby and cleaned him up for I was not going to leave him like that. I love that dog soooo much and miss him. Doctors voice is soothing and somewhat comforting. Appreciate this video. 🐶💘
my dog Buckley i love him so .. but tomrow i better do what need done or he will suffer treble . when he is sleeping or at ease i get thinking maybe i shouldent do it . but when he awake and the pain is hurting so bad , and its unlikely he is going to come out of it this time .. 😢😔
I had my dog euthenized yesterday. Her mind was still in tact. It was so hard, but I'm glad you talked about the failing of the body, because that's what happened. She had a cyst that grew so big, it caused an ulcer, she developed lymph edema, and she had a fever. The emergency vet gave her antibiotics and painkillers, which enabled her to eat and stand up, but we knew the next day, it was time.
I appreciate that you don't have upbeat music for intro to your video. I appreciate your non-fake demeanor. Professional and human and you didn't focus on the like/subscribe thing. Thanks.
Crazy to think that a video from almost 10 years ago is the most informative yet empathetic one I’ve seen so far, while going through this process. A lot of the information given now is much more watered down and not as specific as what this doctor is saying. & he says this all while showing nothing but sympathy for those dealing with this..
Thank you for keeping this video online. I'm having a hard time finding someone with this exact topic, answers my questions in depth, and show's compassion. My little 17 yr old kitty, Taylor-Sophia has CKD and has started to show many signs that the end is near. Your video made me feel a little better, and that's all I can ask for.
Yes. I too find myself and my girl Jazzy getting closer to the dreaded time of knowing when it’s time for her to be “let go” from my care. Because we love our fur babies so much, we need to do what’s right for them in poor health. Letting go seems impossible. So today I’m starting the process of making sure I am confident I will be doing the right thing for my girl. To the gentleman who put this video together....thank you. We need information that is simple to understand, well explained, and delivered in a calm, reassuring manner. I now know not to rush, panic. My girl Jazzy does go up and down. It makes it very hard to gauge where she is at. I now know I have time, which I want more than anything. A few more days, a few more hours to make even more memories of her and myself loving each other. Best friends to the end. ♥️🌹
My cat is only 7 years old and he's my first cat and most importantly best friend besides my wife. My wife and I got him and he's been the only thing in our life that has never disappointed us and he's providing so much company in our lives. I tell him thank you every week and I get sad he can't outlive me. It really breaks my heart that I'll have to drive him to the vet for sleep one day 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm sorry for you guys who are losing your friend soon. I'll give my cat a big hug for you guys
Thank you so much for this. I said goodbye to my sweet 16 year old Boston Terrier a few months ago, and have been searching for some reassurance. Your explanation and kind words have helped me immensely. I still cry for her almost every day, but at least now I feel more confident that I did what was best and kindest for her at the end of her life.
You have no idea how much I appreciate this video. My cat is 18 and in grave condition due to squamous cell carcinoma of the eyelid and I've been beating myself up over whether to let her go or not. 💔
My longtime friend and companion Cola passed away today due to kidney failure. Im so devastated. Pets aren’t just pets, they are family. He was my best friend for 15 years. Got him when I was 5. I appreciate the kind words at the beginning brother. I found him in a barn as a little kitten, would have been coyote food.
Yeah, I've got a cat suffering from kidney failure right now. She was abandoned by her mother as a kitten before she was weaned during a rainstorm, and my grandmother plucked her out of the gutter, adopted her and raised her into adulthood. Sadly my granny passed away several years ago, and it looks like her kitty is about to join her soon. She hides from us now, and wants to spend her time outside despite having always been an indoor cat since adoption. My grandfather and I both think it's her own way of suffering alone/ going on an elephant walk to death but we're gonna show her as much love as we can while we can.
@@freespace2dotcom A wonderful & compassionate comment ! So sorry to read this ! Bless your late grandmother for rescuing that cat & raising as an indoor cat !💖 It's never easy ! I'll pray for your cat's peaceful end & you & your grandfather & your family's good health & happiness. Kidney failure is aweful ! I lost one of my cat for that ,too ! It was a lower urinary tract disease went to an acute kidney failure ,then years later ,a distended bladder, then kidney failure ,then a heartattack. It was so sad & aweful,but he died in my arms ! He told me that he loved me before his death ( slow blinking at me several times ! )even though he was in the excruciating pain ! Who said cats are not appreciative ! Cats are so misunderstood ! Lots of love & virtualhugs are being sent to you from L.A. ! I am Japanese. 💜💜💜💜🥁🎵🐉🎤🎶💖💕💞
Thank you so much for this. It was back and forth for a year until the rebounds got shorter and shorter. It made it so confusing, so thank you for explaining this. It made me feel like I wasn't doing the right thing, but I actually waited a YEAR, watching her go back and forth till it got bad. I was so unprepared ❤
I'm going through this now. My sweet little guy is only 4 years old. I found out Sept 26 that he has cancer. We tried chemo, and it seemed to work for a while, but now it's not helping anymore. I hate that I have to make this decision. At times I feel like I don't have the right to decide when he dies. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster.
This video has made the situation much better. My boy has been my best friend for so long but I love him so much that he does not deserve this pain. I love him but I love him enough to not let him suffer. It really sucks but it must be done.
THANK YOU, for speaking on the waxing & weaning of health. It makes perfect sense, though I am still haunted, to this day, nearly 4-years later, if I made the right decision, as my baby had a brain tumor, could not see, was having both tonic/clinic & now partial-focal seizures and finally stopped eating & drinking for days, before I could get him into my Vet to give him the ultimate gift of kindness. The night before his death, I made him a Ribeye steak, and FINALLY ATE, and even drank a little - I still beat myself up and think, what if I had just keep buying him those steaks, would he have continued to have ate, and been ok? I KNOW this is not intellectually true, but that "betrayal fee," it STILL brings me to tears, even to this day! So thank you for giving me another bit of reassurance, that I DID DO THE RIGHT THING FOR HIM, even though my heart is💔forever.
This video gave me so much peace on the decision to put my baby of 15 years to rest. Everything he mentioned is what my baby is going through. Thank you so much. I've been accused of wanting to murder my dog by my Dad and don't know how hard it's been. This gave me so much peace.
Thank you so much. Glad I found your video. The vet says we are down to the last few weeks. My heart is breaking. My 13 year old lab has sarcoma, she's been the best dog ever.
Thank you for this excellent video. 3 days ago I had to have my cat put to sleep. I especially appreciated what you said about how they have ups and downs as they deteriorate. The morning I took her in she was "up", and I have been wondering ever since if I was too hasty. I didn't want to see her suffer anymore, and you helped me realize that I did the right thing before it got any worse for her.
6:52 my 20 year old cat has kidney failure and was at a 3 on the scale out of 13. It hit 6 a few days ago and the effects just seemed so sudden. I’m crying as I write this because I know he won’t live for much longer.
Thank you. It has been about 5 wks. now, and I still struggle EVERY day, missing her...reminiscing over her sweet personality. Our little yorki-poo seemed to suddenly become ill and went down so fast. Too different vets said she had cancer. After 2nd vet's diagnosis, within days she had become paralyzed in her back legs and became totally incontinent. It was SOOOOO hard to see her like that. She was our baby (a rescue) and though it was difficult, what the Doc said is true....pet parents, please don't let them suffer just because you don't want to feel bad yourself. I know the pain. Everyday I cry over and over and over, but we loved her too much to prolong her suffering. Good news is, we look forward to being with her again in that Land where there is no sorrow, no separations, and no death. God has prepared a wonderful place for His own!!
Thank you you for this. I had to have my beloved Ginger cat put to sleep 2 weeks ago and I kept wondering if it was too early. But now I know it was probably just about the right time as poor puss was struggling to do his normal things, he was drinking so much water but yet refused all his food and just sat staring towards the wall. The steroid injections and appetite pills no longer worked. He had likely lymphoma. He was at least 18 yrs old.
Thank you so much for this video. Today I woke up to my 20 year old cat not being able to walk, having no energy or appetite and not being able to control his bladder. After watching this video and talking to my wife it has helped us come to terms with the fact it is time for us to say goodbye to our beautiful old man Merlin. He has had a good long life, with lots of love. He was still happy when he was loosing his sight, having trouble with his joints and even the times he would just look confused or staring off into space. But he is a tired old boy and we need to give him the love and respect that he deserves. I know his brother Chester will miss him as much as we will 😢
This video popped up on my "up next" out of the blue while I was doing my makeup, but this doctor seems very thoughtful and sympathetic. Good video for struggling pet owners.
i'm just so scared to do it...I pray for the strength to do this tomorrow and your video has helped me put aside my own emotions, even my beliefs as I know I must do the right thing by my pet, my sweet and loyal friend of 16 yrs. #KarmaJeenah Thanks Dr. I appreciate you.
I just want to thank you for your kind words and demeanor during this difficult time. Really wonderful to hear from a professional the sensitivity required. My boy is at his end and it was such a short life. Just thank you. 😢
I just had to put my girl down . What finally made my mind up when at 4 in the morning she woke me up with loud three yelps !😢😰😨😥😭She had trouble walking and she would fall but I helped her up . I have wood floors . She was on meds for her kidneys and CBD oil and tramadol pain meds . I gave her two that morning when she yelped!! I looked her in the eyes and she looked at me . I said is it time baby , is it time ? Two times she fell and just laced there in my hand , like a seizure . No shaking but her eyes staring up at mine . Both times I helped her to her cot . She had just quit eating a few days before. I tried boiled chicken and rice , soft dog food , fresh pet . She would only drink her water . She did eat some of her fresh pet treats . But she couldn’t live on that !! It was the yelling that made me realize she had to be in pain ! The vet said it could be dementia . But I don’t believe that . I think she was in pain !! I didn’t want to put her down but I had to for her !! It was for her !! I wanted to keep her . The vet said I could but she would have to be on appetite stimulates and arthritis meds but it would just postpone the inedible!! I didn’t want her to suffer . I felt I would be selfish . I did it for her and I stayed with her until the end ! All the way until she let out her last breath . I was kissing her face and telling her I loved her . They told me she could hear me on the sedative and feel my touches but could not respond . I hope that was true !! I couldn’t quit kissing her and telling her I loved her . I know when the vet put the stuff in , that was it ! But the five minutes on the sedative , I kissed and talked to her . Damn I’m having a hard time !! I can’t quit crying . I feel exhausted and up and down . I look for her . I hope I did the right thing by her . I thought I saw a tear on her eye . But the Dr said it was not a tear 😰😨😥😭😭😭😭😭she was 14 or 15 . I adopted her from the pound at age 4 . Husky mix
thank you so much, I recently had my cat of 12 put down a few days ago and am really struggling, you explained so kindly about the process of how my pet passed away ,it really resonated with me, as it was a very confusing and stressful time. I miss her so much and can only hope that it will get better.I wish you had been my vet .again thank you :)
Thank you. I’ve been struggling for months about my situation with my sweet dogs. Both are at the end stage of life & I’m not sure what do; let them go to sleep together so the other isn’t lonely & concerned for her sister in the home & it’s the blind one that’d be left behind. as she is less critical, although she is an insulin dependent diabetic; takes 9.5U of U100 NPH Insulin, Long acting. Blindness has progressed & she can’t even see her dinner bowl right in front of her; I have to help her get started eating. I truly ❤ you both, Daisy & Lily.
Had to put my cat Oreo down last Friday he was 20 years old and he was such an awesome cat. He is now in heaven with the other kitties we had awhile back. God is taking care of them now.
Thank you for this video. Your voice is very calm and soothing. I'm having to make this decision right now. My 9-year-old cat's kidneys are failing. She was doing alright for a few months thanks to subcutaneous fluids and a few medications, but this week she took a sudden downturn. I'm trying to decide if I should try and bring her back up, and probably go through this again in another few months, or if I should just let her go now. I love her so much, but I don't think she's enjoying her life anymore.
i just got a 2 month sold beagle and i know there will a time when this will happen makes my heart sink and cry like a baby. i wish i cud grant some of my life to my pet.....
You already have, you are giving it a home, a loving home, a caring home...that's pretty much all any pet could ask for. You already have the emotional attachment, and you know it's coming. That does not make it easier, it makes you human. Unlike some of the stories of animal abuse...well, i'm sure you get the picture.
Thank you so much for doing this. My dog is 12 and having trouble getting up and laying down. He's the only pet i have ever had. He has had recurrent melanoma in the eye and many tumors in the body removed. I just want the end of his life to be full of love and comfort. This helped me realize just how hard losing him will be but I have to start preparing myself. Once again thank you.
Thank you for describing how their bodies can go through varying rates of decline. It has been confusing to see my friend be in pain and not be herself, and then acting happy and fine when I talk to her. Your explanation has been super helpful and although I am still in pain as we go to her last appointment this afternoon it does help to know I am doing what is best for her.
thank you for this video , it really helped make the difficult choice I had to face , in putting my beautiful husky down easier. she was more then just an animal . she was my best friend and my daughter. I hope to see her again at the rainbow bridge
I have a pet who has had Chronic Active Hepatitis for about five years. We are nearing the end, and your advice and words are tremendously helpful. The part about the ups and downs towards the end, I can very much relate. I very much appreciate this doctor taking the time and care and love to make a video for loving pet owners like me. Thank you very much for this!
🇨🇦 God bless you Sir. Our northern dog "Freddy" was brought down by my wife 13 years ago from Nunavut when he was a pup. Right off you could see he was special. He was amazingly smart and just so happy and good! He had a bond of love with my wife...followed her around and would never feel comfortable by himself. He was a joy in our lives. A year or so ago his back legs started to go but he kept on and was doing ok but couldn't jump up into the car anymore. At Christmas he had a bloated stomach and was having some pain but it seemed to pass. On New Years day it strangely occurred again and he would not lay down due to pain. Taken to an emerg vet clinic he was diagnosed with a twisted stomach - very serious surgery situation but due to his age and other issues the best decision was to put him down. Heart breaking as since he had been given pain medication and was his old happy self - this made things very difficult. We know it was the right decision but it is so hard not seeing him these days and we miss him terribly. God bless for a wonderful and caring video. You're a good fellow and thank you!
Everything this vet says is true. It was so hard for me to let go. Even after almost a year has gone by since he died, it's still difficult to hold back tears when I think of him and his journey. RIP my sweet pea, see you at the Rainbow Bridge ❤🌈
My senior kitty had severe kidney failure and liver cancer. She got vet help and medications for a few months, she was doing pretty good considering the circumstances. However one day she couldn't get up, she defecated on herself and couldn't clean herself. I of course helped all I could and waited a day or so cause I know the ups and downs. But there was no up anymore. It just kept getting worse, next day I made the decision to euthanize her. At the office I was just frozen in shock, it felt like a dream. Only once I got home and she wasn't there that it really set in. I still she'd so many years for her and it's been years. She got cremated. She is still with me in a special place in the house but it still feels so hollow without her.
i Thank you so much for helping me validate what I felt in my heart and mind. I would definitely choose you for my vet if you lived in my area! So APPRECIATE you taking the time to share your thoughts and experience.
I'm going through this right now..
I can't stop crying.. Pray for me and my cat..
I pray for you 🙏
@@westindiesgalfruits2335 ❤️
I hope your doing okay
@@18matts ❤️
I am about to do this on Friday. My poor Sassy CAT :(
Praying for everyone that watches this video. May you be comforted knowing you gave your animal companion a beautiful life. You will be reunited one day🌈
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I had to put my Beloved Pumpkin to sleep New Years Day, 1/1/2024 now about 6 hrs ago She had kidney disease and really was sick the last few days. My Son helped me make the decision, she was 17 her birthday was in January. The Vet said her kidney level were bad, she was very weak, would have had to keep her in hospital for 2 to 3 days with all kinds of tests etc. The Vet said she was very sick. I held her , told her how much I Loved her, she was my Faithful Companion, my Darling Love, my Pumpkin God this is so hard. I feel sick, I can’t eat. I prayed on it, I just knew she was slipping away. The Love of our Pets runs so deep. Rest In Peace my sweet Girl, Until we meet again I Love You Always and I will miss you everyday. Mommy🙏❤️🙏
Two hours ago I had to put my 17 year old cat, Tobey, to sleep. He couldn't urinate anymore. The doctor said that they could drain his bladder, stay at the vet's office to be monitored but she couldn't guarantee that it wouldn't happen again due to his age. My heart is broken as I sit here with tears running down my face. For those of you who gave this video a thumbs down, I guess you've never had the love of an animal. I feel sorry for you.
Wow. I am sorry for your loss. I have two cats, that are both twelve years old. They are in good health now, but anything can happen. And my issue is, I will eventually have to go through this heartache, twice. And, I can not even imagine who would give this extremely informative, and caring video, a thumbs down. Again, I am sorry for your loss. One thing that I do know for sure, it will eventually get easier. You will never be totally free of your loss. But, it will definitely get better...God bless you. And good luck
You did the right thing. I’m so glad you are still able to savor those precious memories of love. I have hope that you will see your beloved friend again. ❤
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I understand. we lost our cat tabs and it hurt so bad.take care.
I had to put my 15 year old Boxer, Troy to sleep. He left at 6:57PM yesterday. He was having mobility problems. We’ve been helping him to stand up. There were good and bad days these past couple of weeks. Yesterday, he made some wolf sounding noise, staring at me. Then, he got up and walked all the way to the back of his room and laid down with his back facing me 😢. I stood there watching him till 3AM. Yesterday, he could get up. Watching him struggle with getting up I took him to the vet who stated that she could run some bloodwork and monitored him but his back legs wouldn’t get better and did t guarantee that he would help him due to his age. I haven’t been able to stop crying, it’s 3Am and I can’t sleep. I totally understand you. I’m in tears as I’m writing 💔
I’m watching this as my dog is passing right before my eyes. Please please pray, I am so sad and non stop crying ..
I'm praying for you. My dog has lymphoma that has come back after chemotherapy treatments had been successful. I may have to put him down today and I can hardly breath from howling in tears.
Jessica Kim 🙏💛🐕 I know what Your going through. My Dog has Congestive Heart Failure. Medication is no longer working. He also has other problems, due to his Age(17yrs) I’m dreading thinking about it, but I know I have to do what’s best for My Dog, and not Myself!😔
Hi jess, just asking how u are doing? I found ur msg abt ur furbaby❤️ how are you doing seen its 8months since u wrote, how are you feeling now? My baby is off her food and not active I'm freaking it's 28 of December and vets are shut in Dublin Ireland but she's making eye contact and I'm not sure if she's gonna pull threw or how long dose this go on, she got sick twice, she On insulin 2wks❤️❤️Love been sent.
@@emfg4101 hi elliot, how are u feeling today?? ❤️
I am now in this very situation myself 😢
This is the kind of vet I would bring my pet to. Very knowledgeable, understanding, professional and sincere
He is great isn't he unlike the ones I have come across. Wish I'd found this video a long time ago.
@@clareb8015 im dealing wth this now. our pup is an attached rescue dog. pitbul 6 years old(human Years). hes been acting weird lately from fleas to have bad case of pet dander. my mom wants to do it when we move out of our crappy house in november.
I will contact him. Thank goodness I live near. My fine beast is 17. He is my family. A Boston terrier, he has been so good to us. Oh I a starting to cry.
I agree. This vet truly cares about people's fur babies, including those of strangers.
I just killed my cat he is very old was not eating had bad gum teeth problems was skin and bones and i think he had other stuff to. I cried.
I wish my vet would have been as compassionate as you.
This man is absolutely wonderful. I wish I could find a vet this empathetic and kind. He is absolutely brilliant. I am going through this right now and he really helped me.
Me too . My dog has Cancer. I can't take life without him 💔
@@kathleensalada1944I'm so sorry 😢
@@kathleensalada1944 but you must! You must stay strong!! Your dog wants you to stay strong! My dog wants me to stay strong! God bless you
Had to put my dog down today after 15 years. In my heart I believe it was time but it feels so awful and the worst part is just not knowing for sure if it was the right thing or right time to do it. Could they have bounced back? Were they really in pain or was I just imagining it? The vets we had were really great and this video really helped ease my mind. She is in a better place and is truly not suffering anymore. Keeping her here longer would have been selfish. Still it doesn’t make it easy and I hope anyone going through this and is doubting their decision, knows that the choice they made was the right call.
This video truly felt like therapy for me. I’m very thankful
Time heals all wounds! It’s been a few months now and we still miss our dog but it has gotten much better. We recently got a new dog and every so often I call her by our old dog’s name on accident.
You were blessed to have her for so long. She was a beautiful gift. I know its hard but when the comes, there are so many wonderful dogs just waiting for you to become your best friend. Every time we have lost a pet, we bring in another to live and care for. Humans and animals need one another on another level different from humans and humans. Love your companion for who she was, keep her close to your heart and allow yourself the joy of bringing another pet into your life. It is good for both of you in so many ways. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you, sorry for your loss, I am battling this now, I am struggling to let my fur baby go.
I went through the same thing you did but I didn't second guess myself due to the fact that I had that problem before and all I had done was make my poor dog suffer more while trying to hang onto it instead of letting it go, it's hard but the first time taught me a lot and I started to realize that if a dog has a problem that can't be reversed it is time to say good bye and not let the dog suffer. But it still hurts because you love your dog and spent so much of your life with it, but always remember that and you did the right thing because you loved your pet.
I'm struggling with feeling that I made a mistake euthanizing my 10 year old cat. He was suspected of having cancer, but a biopsy was inconclusive. Then he suddenly had what seemed to be a spinal stroke, leaving his rear paralyzed. Later I learned that a spinal stroke is somewhat rare, but also possible to partially or mostly recover from with physical therapy. I thought I was saving my cat from suffering paralysis only to die from a tumor. But he wasn't in pain and a specialist might have solved the original problem or at least positively identified the problem. Now I will never know and it torments me. It doesn't give me solace knowing that I'll eventually feel better. It does help to know I'm not alone, and I can accept that we humans sometimes make mistakes. I just wish I could be sure either way.
Found this because I’m struggling right now. But I know it’s time. Trying to come to grips with it
Pigskin Peete same here
yea me to it sucks
had to go through it 20 years ago
now again its so hard to let go
Me too. And it's gutting me like a fish. I'm so close with my little cat. I'm devastated - dreaded this time for so long.
We had to do this on two days ago. One of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make but we knew it had to be done. I feel your struggle.
Same😥
I never thought that I would become so emotional at that death of my canine. In the last three years of her life, I prayed to God that, at the time of her death, I would be at her side, that her death would be painless, and that it would be swift. All three requests were met, but I wasn't ready for the suddenness of her death. I had brought her into the Vet, for her health had been declining. Within twenty minutes the Vet was discussing euthanasia with me and, by the end of the hour, my great friend was dead. To this day, I cannot speak of her without becoming emotional. A huge part of me died with her that day.
@captainmorgan757:My heart goes out to you. My orange tabby cat is my best friend....he is ten years old, and I dread the day when this begins. I will be devastated. My six sons say, "mama, what are you going to do when Peanut dies?" My Peanut is my best friend. When the time comes, I will never be the same. I will pray that you obtain peace of mind and heart. God bless you and grant healing. He helped me heal from my brain surgery and major stroke.
My dog is a lab mix, and she’s really declining. Hard to get up, blind in one eye and can’t see well in the other, almost deaf. She is always panting, for the moment she wakes up to the moment she rests. She goes to sleep very often, and sounds like she has troubles breathing while doing so.
captainmorgan757 My situation is very similar to yours. May your dog rest in peace 💐🙏
Just lost our dog Freddy! I understand fully. It is very hard. Wishing you peace and happiness and God bless!
I did the same with my beautiful dachshund today I cried with her telling her how much I loved her until she passed away in my arms.
Kiwi my beloved dog 🐕. You have been so loyal and have stood by me through all my human flaws. We have 2 more days together and I am grateful for you just lying down here beside me right now. We both know it’s time. We know each other so well. I love you with all my heart. Rainbow Bridge awaits.
This was excellent. My 14 yr. old is in stage 5 renal kidney failure. We all love him so much. Fluids under the skin. Harmon & blood transfusion. He has been going thru this for 4 months. My family has tried to hold on. Me too, I'm absolutely destroyed. Man's best friend. Dog never has a bad day. But the kidneys, toxin build up, incoherent behavior, and now struggling to get up and stay on his feet. I am so broken! This video is helping me face what I have to do. Thank you!
This is the kindest video I've seen. I wish all dogs would just go peacefully in their sleep. I hated make this decision every single time, I have to make it one more time and I'm never doing it again. I love dogs, but this process is heart breaking and it makes you question yourself.
I just put my lulu to sleep today (golden retriever) I can’t stop crying 😢 but I love her, she has suffered a lot. It would be selfish of me to keep her while she’s suffering in pain.. I’m watching this to keep me convinced that I did what’s right for her .. I’m just praying she’s in heaven ❤️
Just put my dog down today my heart feels like it was ripped out.
Feeling for you. About to go the same with my beloved dog.
I just put my Gordito down. So heartbreaking.
@@Mysticmomsparanormal1 yes it's so hard. Thank you!
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm facing it now with my beloved best friend Duchie.
Just put my dog down today, he was 15
I’m heartbroken, can’t stop crying
This talk has helped me. I understand now that my dog was dying rapidly and that there was no other choice but having him put to sleep at the vet's. It's still a devastating thing to have to do to a pet you loved so much. I hope we will meet again.
Thank you for a compassionate video. It was a heartbreaking decision to put our 12 year old golden retriever named “Buoy” to sleep two days ago that was done in our own home. I’m still watching this video to help convince we did it at the right time.
Had to let my sweet Maltese girl Candy to sleep due to kidney failure on 6/14/23. Sweetest girl ever. Never made an enemy. Everyone loved her. She stuck to me like glue so I am devastated. She was in great pain and discomfort after battling under IV fluids for 2 days in the hospital. I had to give her a chance as she survived it once prior, but this time her kidneys were too far gone. Get them to the vet as soon as they stop eating. Don't force feed. Time is precious. Hug your pets every day.
May God bless this man for his love, empathy and care.
Had to put my boy down today. Thank you for the video. I'm having a really rough time with it.
We have a tough time because we love them so very, very much. You know this, I know. And there is no easy way round it. Since our animal family can't tell us how they feel, that makes euthanasia a more difficult decision. But I've waited "too long" one time, and vowed not to again. I don't know where you live, but here in Ohio our winter weather is coming fast. My old dog, she cannot endure the ice, and I cannot endure the thought of her falling and really hurting herself. Day after tomorrow she will be put to sleep. Give yourself time to bawl like a calf whenever you need too. Tears change with time, and they always seem to clean-up things inside.
Totally agree with you Eric. Better SOONER than later. Bawling like a calf before and after for sure, but, time is a great healer, especially if you give another animal a loving home. Seems to speed heal the wounds faster.
James Moore so sorry
I'm also having a hard time as well.my cockapoo of 12 years had a tumor dionosed back in February of this year and had passed away Nov 27th would of been 12 today nov30th.i got him when he was 13 weeks old.hang in there James I no your pain as well.
I hope that your personal pain about doing so is much better. Its terible. Im there now, as to wether I should put my pug down.
It’s the up and down that is really hard for me right now. I was pretty darn sure the day before yesterday that it was time, and was preparing mentally for this to be the last week. But yesterday he was just fine and apparently normal. So now I’m just even more anxious and hyper aware of every behavior of his.
Argo Lake Same situation here.
The explanation about the reserve capacity of the organs was very helpful. 😺After my cat was diagnosed with total kidney failure, the only thing that was going to save him was emergency dialysis and then a kidney transplant. By that point I had already taken him to three animal hospitals and spent about $2,000. Doing the dialysis and transplant was going to cost tens of thousands of dollars. So I really didn’t have much choice at that point. Of course, I stayed with him during the procedure. I couldn’t imagine dying alone. He was my best friend. 😿
I spent tens of thousands on my pet, and now my family is in a terrible bind. I’m not stupid. I don’t believe I would have survived leaving my abusive marriage, and a life threatening illness that followed, without him. He didn’t leave my side in 5 months I could not get out of bed, with a serious infection. I have autoimmune disease. As soon as I recovered, he developed hyperthyroidism, as well as his kidney disease, then cancer. I stayed home with him for a month, and retiring work 2 days after he was euthanized. Still, I waited until his body couldn’t process food and water and his bloodstream was being poisoned by drinking from his dish. I don’t know what I did to deserve such a beautiful gift of time with him. There are times I could not have missed a day of work, and could not allow my pet to die alone. There are times in my life when I could not come up with $300 to save the life of a beloved pet. I didn’t get that long goodbye those times, and I hope I did the right thing for them. It is hard to see the virtue in ourselves that is so evident in others. I believe, with all my heart, that you did what you were able, to ease his suffering. I’m sure he felt your good intentions and undying love, in his last moments. 💕
Thank you for bringing up the financial aspect. My cat has Chronic Kidney Disease, and this week it suddenly progressed to advanced and his prognosis changed to 6 months. But now he's not eating and he's getting severely dehydrated even with fluids, so he may only have a couple days.
He's a fighter, but I don't want him to keep fighting if all of his days are gonna be in pain, or if I have to watch him starve to death.
But also, I have to consider the financial aspect. I can barely afford the care he now needs, and I even had to decline getting him in tomorrow morning for an all day IV because I can't take anymore time off work. I feel so guilty for having to factor in money into this decision, but it is a huge factor. I want to wait until he's ready, but I don't know if I'll ever know he's ready.
I made this decision 2 months ago and it's heartbreaking 😢.. RIP my sweet Mitsey girl 🐾..17 years
Owners need to stick to the reality of the situation. Sometimes you just have to let them go. The quality of life isn’t there. I resent the veterinarians who suggest blood transfusions, chemotherapy for bone or liver cancer, etc etc. They guilt the owners into more extensive testing, procedures and expensive non value added treatments. This equals emotional abuse and assures a hefty vet bill regardless of the outcome. And suffering of your pet. I had a 17 year old hound who was in advanced congestive heart failure and the vet put him on life support and wanted to refer me to a heart specialist? Really? I asked the dog be euthanized...
I just went through losing my little 16-17 year old pom/papillon mix. We kept going back to the vet with blood work, antibiotics, blahblahblah... and 10 days ago, I took her in because we were exhausted (she and I), trying to get her to eat... ANYthing! She was so tiny and losing weight. Well, the vet FINALLY did a quick ultrasound and there it was; the majority of her tiny liver was infiltrated with tumor. Then the vet said...we don't have to do it today; there's medication we can try to help her eat. She was already on Cerenia and worn out. It made me CRAZY to know how bad she felt with nausea. I had to let her go and wish I'd made that decision a month ago... or MORE! Hurts like hell. I don't know WHY that initial injection they give in the muscle (before the final one) has to be so painful; I'm still crying, just thinking about THAT!
That's a tough scenario to go through. I kind of want a vet to give me all of my options but also have the experience and empathetic intelligence to tell me straight up if euthanasia would be the kindest option. Seems you were visiting an unethical vet if they're pushing such treatment that is palliative but forces your beloved animal to struggle in a way that doesn't buy time that will be comfortable and happy.
On another note, wow! If you had a 17 yr old hound, that's amazing! That dog was in a good home, evidently.
Nice to know this hound was in good hands.
Long Drive I took my Charlie (dog) to my horse vet and it was no question I paid to put him down and he did it. No quilt I cried like a baby and my vet was very sympathetic I have deep respect for Dr. Jackson. Charlie was failing and I couldn’t let him further suffer.
@@freewaybaby I just had to euthanize my dog 3 days ago Dec.4,2019 & the first shot hurt her too...it stings the vet said. I was soo upset by this as well. I'm also wondering if there is a more humane way as well...she was so calm b4 the first injection & not in physical pain till the shot. She cried & tried to get away (i was holding her throughout the procedure). I can still hear her loud cry. RIP my little Crickett girl.
And on the flip side, there are vets who never mention cheap and effective treatments that could do a world of good. The problem is that too many people automatically believe that a vet is an honest and good person. Sadly, many are just as much business as your local used car salesman....
I love this vet . He has touched on every single emotion , feeling and symptoms on this dreadful topic ... his clients are so lucky to have him. I’m in Canada and I swear I can’t a single knowledgeable compassionate vet here. My beloved cat got so sick so suddenly and I have been struggling with her death and getting answers . None of the 4 vets that tried to treat her could answer my questions or address my grief. Pls pray for us ... I wish I could have this wonderful man as a vet
Every vet I've ever been to in Canada is only money driven. Business and profits are top priority, pet parent and pets are last priority.
what they care is money and ask for more unnecessary tests to delay of curing our pet disease.
My cat had at least 30+ seizures and that up and down ride is SUCH a rollercoaster! But last Sunday was like the "Last one" we knew at that point there was no more rubber banding. I am really glad you talked about that!
I had to have my 5 year old cat put down today due to kidney failure. It was such a hard decision but the treatments weren't working and he was suffering. So heartbreaking 💔
I'm going through this right now, a vet is coming tomorrow morning to my home to help send off my beloved friend and free her from suffering
I think I waited to long my 130lb Rotwieler was 90lbs, his big flat pan head was now pointed from the muscles in his head deteriorating, he pooped while sleeping, but he still had that love, he would still fetch his ball 5 or so times in the garage which was a small area I had to give him being he had no control over his bowels. He still loved going bye bye. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. Anyone who saw him thought he was severely neglected but it was the total opposite. I just couldn’t let him go. RIP LOUIE.
My dad just died on March 1st, and his death was very sudden to me, I had no warning or way of knowing and had to see him at the hospital in his deceased state, as well as be the one to arrange his funeral and sign his death certificate.Watching this video, even though it's about animals, has definitely helped me to deal with this. My dad is no longer suffering and even though he died suddenly and I'll never see him again, at least he isn't in pain anymore. Once I get a house or somewhere with lots of room, I want to adopt as much cats as I can that need homes so they wont be euthanized and do my best to love them all until they too have to go. I'm glad I saw this video.
rokatsu\\\\\ bless your heart dear !........i am dying from cancer and i have 4 adorable cats , from 7 months old to 2 years of age, i am trying very very very hard to find responsable & mature adults to adopt my dearly loved cats.... i live in montreal, canada... if you are serious & mature & responsable i would be happy to hear from you.... unfortunately (for my adorable & loving cats ) i do not have much time....some help would be greatly appreciated folks... thank you ! for someone interested you can find me on facebook under my real name 'above' ! GOD bless you.
I am so very sorry. I lost my father suddenly and on july 11th 2018 and saw him take his last breath. I can relate with your comment. have a good day much love to you.
gabriel hebert I hope this finds you well Gabriel and that your animals are in loving hands too.
MobileGamerWill yessss? 🦶
My cat is sick and 18. 😓 my heart aches.
MobileGamerWill I’m so sorry about your dog. Our pets are our family, and it’s absolutely heartbreaking and I hope you are doing okay.
I agree, but I don’t think she’s in any pain yet. I’ve had to put to sleep so many animals, and I would never let her be in pain.
It’s only 3 days hiding. I love her very much and if I see that she’s starting to hurt, I won’t let her. ❤️ I have all my animals cremated, and they’re all with me downstairs. Thank you
I know I made the right decision where my 24 year old Sunny (cat) was concerned, I let her let me know when the time was right. Her kidneys were tired, the blood tests showed.
Offering our pet the Final Act of Love is the most difficult decision of all for us but the kindest for them. I love her dearly, couldn't make her stay forever. My Only Sunshine 💕
Thank you for this video. My 19-year-old cat has been suffering from kidney disease and lost most of the use of her legs and walks hunched over. Now her mouth is bleeding and it hurts to eat and I think her bones hurt too, so we've made the difficult decision. This video is very helpful for me because I was really struggling and feeling like I was "killing" her or taking away her right to live, even though she's not happy these days.
Thank you for this video. I cannot stop crying. We found our boy (Luckypaw) in our front yard with his eyes barley opened over 17 years ago. He grew up with our children. He has a Tumour and the Vet said that he is too old to be operated on. We have and continues to love him so very much. We know that the end is coming soon and we are holding on dearly to all of the joy and great times we had with him. Our hearts are broken and my chest feels like it will burst open.
My vet wants to do a cardiac workup to see if a cardiologist will clear my 17 year old Chihuahua for surgery. It's pricey just to do the work up, let alone the surgery. Did your vet suggest this or did you do this process before making any decisions? I was surprised she would suggest it considering his age and the fact his heart doesn't sound good. It doesn't seem like he would likely be cleared for surgery.
You are such a wonderful vet. This brought tears to my eyes. Had to recently put down my 15 yr old tabby cat and it was devastating but I didn’t want her to suffer. Because of Covid, they wouldn’t let me be in the room with her and I had to wait in the car. It broke my heart. Now I have a 17 yr old tortie cat and I can see her slowly start to slow down. I will be so crushed to have to put her down but thank you for this video because it’ll let me see the signs better.
Just terrible news today. I’m just devastated. You’re really kind and I really needed that today.
thank you so much for your unpaid time to make this video....You are a gem....and you have helped me alot...I have an 18 yr old cat that about fifty % of the time he appears in pain....
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking time to do this video it has help ease my the heart and pain I'm going through since I have put my loving pug to sleep after almost seventeen years. I now know it was the right thing to do he had so many of the problems you talked about .I have felt so bad and find myself crying at the drop of a hat .My little Gage meant the world to me .Right now I don't want another pet but I hope when my heart heals I can find another pet that I can love .Gage and I had so many good years together he will always be in my heart❤️❤️
me that Gage was suffering he was put to sleep four days ago I have cried tell lm so sick and sleep with his blanket and dog lease.But after watching your video I feel a little more at ease .I seen so many. Of those sighs in my my sweet pet now listening to you I realize I was in self denial. I now my sweet lovingly Gage is in no more pain and I thank you for making understand that I made the right discussion
A & K Cooper my heart goes out to you. you seem like you were a great parent. i had to put my shih tzu down at almost 17 as well. he got a collapsed trachea and dementia. i put him down right we started to go downhill. i will never get another dog, he was my guy.
Allison Goodall sx$
My cat Laguna is only 9 years old but she's about to die and I tried everything but I can't help her, her kidneys are failing and she won't eat the food the vet gave me to get better.
She's like a child to me, it breaks my heart to see her suffer but it also breaks my heart to end her life..
Cats don't show they're in pain so it's really hard for me to tell what the right time is, at the moment she didnt eat or drink for days and she only sleeps so I feel like it's time..
But on the other hand even though she's very ill and weak, she still uses her energy to come sit with me even for just a moment, as if she's trying to tell me it's ok because she sees i'm suffering as well. I don't want to take away her life too soon, but I also don't want her to suffer too much..
My cat reen 11 year old or older are going through same thing as yours.. i just dont know what to do..
@@fadzilah20 It was the hardest decision I ever had to make, but I know I made the right decision by letting her go, I did everything in my power to save her but she was just getting weaker every day and there just wasn't any chance for recovery, so I had no other choice than to let her go..
How is your cat doing now? Did the vet also confirm that there's nothing left to do about it?
@@Orion3G tomorrow i be going to vet. Will see how from there. I still can't believe come to this, i mean i knew it but...just too soon.. 2020 bad year.
@@fadzilah20 Yea I still can't believe it either.. mine was only 9, I never expected it but suddenly she got very sick and stopped eating and drinking, she was gone before I knew it..
People say 'its just a pet' but she was a child to me and it still hurts today. I hope somehow the vet can still help your cat, I kept my hopes up for a miracle until the end, maybe you have more luck than I did. Either way, much strength to you and your cat, if you want to talk about it or if you want to share an update about your cats situation just let me know.
I had to euthanize my beloved Jennifur today. She was my constant companion for 20 years. I am grieving tremendously. Thank you for this video
Valerie Merges sorry.
Sorry for your loss.According to my vision the soul is immortal and your dogs consciousness will continue on with its evolution in a new form and its prior life becomes a stepping stone to its next
I understand your pain. I have had a couple of cats that were ove 20 years old and even though they have had a long life it is still hard and is painful to say goodbye. But please take comfort in knowing you showed your pet as much love as you could and they also loved you back too. Love is the most important thing in your pets life and there is a definite connection between us.
my beloved cat was 5 when this video was posted and I just lost her. This video is very comforting. thanks
My lab is 15 years old, incontinent, spends most of the day sleeping, doesn’t like to walk as much and struggles to get up or stand for a period of time. He does still eat and drink regularly and wags its tail and appears happy to see us. One member of my household thinks he should be out down, because he’s incontinent and no longer the fun and active dog he used to be, but I still see life in him and would feel like I killed him. To me the stress is more the family’s negativity towards him than his decline.
Thanks for sharing. The time has come to let go of my almost 15 y/o Labrador. He’s not sick, just old. He’s healthy but you totally described my dog ... I can see him (Martin) being exhausted and ready to go. He sleeps almost 24/7 and the walks are getting shorter. It’s like Martin is telling me to let him go, that he’s thankful for the great life he had but that he now wants to go. I feel tremendously guilty, what if he’s just old but still wants to stay? It’s never an easy choice. Thank god I’ve got another Labrador to ease the pain but when is it time?
I have suffered so many devastation these recent years losing loved ones whether humans or fur babies that i feel numb and lost my usual ambitious, workaholic, driven self. I see my life with no direction and purpose. I just recently lost my dog last 4-10-24 due to chronic kidney failure. The most humane and kind thing to do to ease her pain and agony is thru euthanisia. There are times im at work when suddenly tears go down my face. When i see her bed, food container and think of the way she wants to be lying near beside me make me so sad and lonely 😢 Praying for all fur parents who lost their fur babies. 🙏🙏🙏
Wow, you helped so much. I had so much guilt releasing my boy from his failing body. Now I know that I did the right thing. Thank you so much.
Thank you for this video. My 14-year-old cat is in kidney failure and unless a miracle happens, we'd have to say goodbye. As you said, there were no clear symptoms until she reached a critical stage.
She's got ups and downs but manages to get around and do habitual things thanks to some meds and infusions we're trying. But she doesn't eat and is growing weaker. And you're right, I'll know the time. And I'm not ready to see her go but I'll have to be strong for her.
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After a few months of noticing something was wrong with my 12 year old beagle, and as he progressively got worse, I knew it was time. This video helped me deal with the impending action necessary to relieve the suffering of my baby. You have made such a compassionate, and realistic decision so much easier by touching on things that most of us struggle with. Thank you so very much, from Boudreaux and his parents! He has been SUCH a wonderful companion, and my baby!
So sorry💔💔
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Thank you so much for this video.I have two golden retrievers one still young and the other is a senior.Both these babies are my heart.The older one at times is having trouble getting up or into her bed at night.But once she is up she does pretty good soothing you still can witness in back legs and hips and seems happy.When I go out to play with them she jumps some in the air.She has loss a lot of muscle mass and this concerns me so much.I can’t imagine life without her but because I love her so if I seeing she is suffering I will gift her forever ever peace.She has lived a loving and attentive life and I know in my heart she has lived a Fabulous life.I just hope we can continue our life together for quite awhile more until that decision has to be made.You really helped me understand seeing the signs that indicates the correct timing to let her go.Thank you so much for your insight and your caring heart.
Thank you for this video. You have an incredible bed side manner and it's a video! You validated so many feelings I'm having as my dog is 16 and we are experiencing alot of these end of life signs. It's hard not knowing what to expect or what to do. Luckily I have an amazing vet but this video also helped so much. Thinking of everyone also going through this difficult time.
Your words are so kind. Ty for going deep. I wish you were my vet.
Today I say goodbye to my best friend of 17 years. Man he had a great life.
I believe in quality of life.
wished I had a vet like this !! Instead of my cold hearten one
it takes a cold heart to put an end to something u love just for them and to end their suffering
@@teacher.prashantdubeyforma5142 It's not a cold heart, but a loving heart. You never want to see something you love suffer. Letting go does hurt, but it hurts worse to see your pet suffer and not be able to to anything for him.
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@@teacher.prashantdubeyforma5142 I couldn't disagree more. Putting your loved one's suffering before your selfish need to keep them there is the most loving thing you can do.
@@teacher.prashantdubeyforma5142 Euthanasia is for the owner most of the time, not the pet. People can’t handle the suffering. If you truly love your pet, suffer with them until the end if at all possible. It will be freaking hard, but it will be the most real and honest thing you will ever do. You would want your pet with you at the end. I swear, these vets need to realize the situation and offer comfort, pain relief to these animals if they really want to ease suffering, not just kill them all the time. That’s what we do for humans.
Thank you , I’m heartbroken 😭 trying to make this decision 😭 I can’t stop crying
Buffy Saunier I’m going thru same thing
My 15 yr old dog is dying
We are devastated
I just found out Friday her kidneys were failing and I had to put her down. Hardest thing I’ve done. My sweet baby girl
I’m so sorry!!!!!
Beecrystal3 going through this. Today vet is coming. I’m sooo sad. He’s my best friend for 13 years
Beecrystal3 🥺😭😭😭
I really appreciated your information. My husband and I are facing glaucoma in our beloved Australian cattle dog. She is going blind. She is only seven yrs. old but has seemed to deteriorate since the diagnosis. I don’t want her to suffer and my husband refuses to see her condition. A vet told him that if the condition worsens the eyes can be removed. I do not want to do this to my beautiful dog, i can imagine her waking up from surgery without her eyes. I am very afraid this will cause a big problem between my husband and myself. We both love her very much but differently. Any counsel would be greatly appreciated.
My lab is 15 years old. Had issues with his hind legs. Yesterday his hind legs collapsed. Vet increased his medication. Said he has severe arthritis. He said give it a week. We are currently taking care of him cleaning him changing his bedding. If he doesn’t stand in a few days, I will put him down. He has a fantastic appetite. He doesn’t appear to be in pain, however he isn’t able to stand or walk. This will be a very hard time!! He’s been a loyal pet for 15 years!! But keeping him alive for us is selfish on our part.
Thank you for explaining the ups and downs. We just put our cat down yesterday and he had been anemic for awhile. Not in pain, still eating, socially with us for a few months. Then the ups and downs happened. Wasn’t sure what to do, when it was time. Until he started hiding, eating no more than a thimble of food and drinking less water. Friday eve we knew and, took him in the next day.
Thank you so much for putting up this video I wish I knew of it before. I have an amazing amount of guilt that I waited too long on taking him in. I just hope he wasn’t in pain because of my stupidity.
Oh friend. You weren't stupid. You just cared. I feel guilt for what is coming for my baby, but I love her. I want to keep getting her treatments but if they only last 2 weeks then she's downhill again, it's unbearable. So give yourself grace. I love you and praying for your peace. Don't be so hard on yourself. I felt just like this but I've gotta just trust the Process. Be at peace. ❤❤
My Shih Tzu Papo, passed away Oct. 28, 2020 and I miss him each and every single day that goes by. He spared me the difficult decision of having to euthanize him for he died on his own terms that Wednesday morning. He pooped and peed on himself before leaving me. He was gone. His body lifeless. Took my baby and cleaned him up for I was not going to leave him like that. I love that dog soooo much and miss him. Doctors voice is soothing and somewhat comforting. Appreciate this video. 🐶💘
my dog Buckley i love him so ..
but tomrow i better do what need done or he will suffer treble . when he is sleeping or at ease i get thinking maybe i shouldent do it . but when he awake and the pain is hurting so bad , and its unlikely he is going to come out of it this time .. 😢😔
I had my dog euthenized yesterday. Her mind was still in tact. It was so hard, but I'm glad you talked about the failing of the body, because that's what happened. She had a cyst that grew so big, it caused an ulcer, she developed lymph edema, and she had a fever. The emergency vet gave her antibiotics and painkillers, which enabled her to eat and stand up, but we knew the next day, it was time.
My baby was euthanized yesterday for the same reason 12 years old . it was the hardest decision I had to make but I know it was for the best .
@@melissalalemanbautista5525 so sorry for your loss. Smooch was 10 years old. She was a 100 lb rottweiler mix.
I appreciate that you don't have upbeat music for intro to your video. I appreciate your non-fake demeanor. Professional and human and you didn't focus on the like/subscribe thing. Thanks.
Crazy to think that a video from almost 10 years ago is the most informative yet empathetic one I’ve seen so far, while going through this process. A lot of the information given now is much more watered down and not as specific as what this doctor is saying. & he says this all while showing nothing but sympathy for those dealing with this..
Thank you for keeping this video online. I'm having a hard time finding someone with this exact topic, answers my questions in depth, and show's compassion. My little 17 yr old kitty, Taylor-Sophia has CKD and has started to show many signs that the end is near. Your video made me feel a little better, and that's all I can ask for.
Yes. I too find myself and my girl Jazzy getting closer to the dreaded time of knowing when it’s time for her to be “let go” from my care. Because we love our fur babies so much, we need to do what’s right for them in poor health. Letting go seems impossible. So today I’m starting the process of making sure I am confident I will be doing the right thing for my girl. To the gentleman who put this video together....thank you. We need information that is simple to understand, well explained, and delivered in a calm, reassuring manner. I now know not to rush, panic. My girl Jazzy does go up and down. It makes it very hard to gauge where she is at. I now know I have time, which I want more than anything. A few more days, a few more hours to make even more memories of her and myself loving each other. Best friends to the end. ♥️🌹
My cat is only 7 years old and he's my first cat and most importantly best friend besides my wife. My wife and I got him and he's been the only thing in our life that has never disappointed us and he's providing so much company in our lives. I tell him thank you every week and I get sad he can't outlive me. It really breaks my heart that I'll have to drive him to the vet for sleep one day 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm sorry for you guys who are losing your friend soon. I'll give my cat a big hug for you guys
No. No. Do. Not. Ever. Kill your. Cat
Thank you! I'm going through this right Now!! 💔💔💔💔 Your Calm voice gives me Peace!! Thank you!!
Thank you so much for this. I said goodbye to my sweet 16 year old Boston Terrier a few months ago, and have been searching for some reassurance. Your explanation and kind words have helped me immensely. I still cry for her almost every day, but at least now I feel more confident that I did what was best and kindest for her at the end of her life.
You have no idea how much I appreciate this video. My cat is 18 and in grave condition due to squamous cell carcinoma of the eyelid and I've been beating myself up over whether to let her go or not. 💔
My longtime friend and companion Cola passed away today due to kidney failure. Im so devastated. Pets aren’t just pets, they are family. He was my best friend for 15 years. Got him when I was 5. I appreciate the kind words at the beginning brother. I found him in a barn as a little kitten, would have been coyote food.
Yeah, I've got a cat suffering from kidney failure right now. She was abandoned by her mother as a kitten before she was weaned during a rainstorm, and my grandmother plucked her out of the gutter, adopted her and raised her into adulthood. Sadly my granny passed away several years ago, and it looks like her kitty is about to join her soon.
She hides from us now, and wants to spend her time outside despite having always been an indoor cat since adoption. My grandfather and I both think it's her own way of suffering alone/ going on an elephant walk to death but we're gonna show her as much love as we can while we can.
@@freespace2dotcom A wonderful & compassionate comment ! So sorry to read this ! Bless your late grandmother for rescuing that cat & raising as an indoor cat !💖 It's never easy ! I'll pray for your cat's peaceful end & you & your grandfather & your family's good health & happiness. Kidney failure is aweful ! I lost one of my cat for that ,too ! It was a lower urinary tract disease went to an acute kidney failure ,then years later ,a distended bladder, then kidney failure ,then a heartattack. It was so sad & aweful,but he died in my arms ! He told me that he loved me before his death ( slow blinking at me several times ! )even though he was in the excruciating pain ! Who said cats are not appreciative ! Cats are so misunderstood ! Lots of love & virtualhugs are being sent to you from L.A. ! I am Japanese. 💜💜💜💜🥁🎵🐉🎤🎶💖💕💞
So sorry for your loss !💜💜💜💜🥁🎵🐉🎤🎶🐉💕💞
and today I had to put my childhood dog down too 😔...
Rest in Peace Harlie and Cola
Thank you so much for this. It was back and forth for a year until the rebounds got shorter and shorter. It made it so confusing, so thank you for explaining this. It made me feel like I wasn't doing the right thing, but I actually waited a YEAR, watching her go back and forth till it got bad. I was so unprepared ❤
This is the best and most comprehensive vid on this topic the so much
I'm going through this now. My sweet little guy is only 4 years old. I found out Sept 26 that he has cancer. We tried chemo, and it seemed to work for a while, but now it's not helping anymore. I hate that I have to make this decision. At times I feel like I don't have the right to decide when he dies. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster.
This video has made the situation much better. My boy has been my best friend for so long but I love him so much that he does not deserve this pain. I love him but I love him enough to not let him suffer. It really sucks but it must be done.
Me too. I am going to put down my friend today. I'm sorry for your loss.
THANK YOU, for speaking on the waxing & weaning of health. It makes perfect sense, though I am still haunted, to this day, nearly 4-years later, if I made the right decision, as my baby had a brain tumor, could not see, was having both tonic/clinic & now partial-focal seizures and finally stopped eating & drinking for days, before I could get him into my Vet to give him the ultimate gift of kindness.
The night before his death, I made him a Ribeye steak, and FINALLY ATE, and even drank a little - I still beat myself up and think, what if I had just keep buying him those steaks, would he have continued to have ate, and been ok? I KNOW this is not intellectually true, but that "betrayal fee," it STILL brings me to tears, even to this day!
So thank you for giving me another bit of reassurance, that I DID DO THE RIGHT THING FOR HIM, even though my heart is💔forever.
This video gave me so much peace on the decision to put my baby of 15 years to rest. Everything he mentioned is what my baby is going through. Thank you so much. I've been accused of wanting to murder my dog by my Dad and don't know how hard it's been. This gave me so much peace.
God , it’s a blessing to have vets like you! My 13 year old Doberman is deteriorating fast. I’m in so much pain. Thank you for this
Thank you so much. Glad I found your video. The vet says we are down to the last few weeks. My heart is breaking. My 13 year old lab has sarcoma, she's been the best dog ever.
Thank you for this excellent video. 3 days ago I had to have my cat put to sleep. I especially appreciated what you said about how they have ups and downs as they deteriorate. The morning I took her in she was "up", and I have been wondering ever since if I was too hasty. I didn't want to see her suffer anymore, and you helped me realize that I did the right thing before it got any worse for her.
6:52 my 20 year old cat has kidney failure and was at a 3 on the scale out of 13. It hit 6 a few days ago and the effects just seemed so sudden. I’m crying as I write this because I know he won’t live for much longer.
Thank you. It has been about 5 wks. now, and I still struggle EVERY day, missing her...reminiscing over her sweet personality. Our little yorki-poo seemed to suddenly become ill and went down so fast. Too different vets said she had cancer. After 2nd vet's diagnosis, within days she had become paralyzed in her back legs and became totally incontinent. It was SOOOOO hard to see her like that. She was our baby (a rescue) and though it was difficult, what the Doc said is true....pet parents, please don't let them suffer just because you don't want to feel bad yourself. I know the pain. Everyday I cry over and over and over, but we loved her too much to prolong her suffering. Good news is, we look forward to being with her again in that Land where there is no sorrow, no separations, and no death. God has prepared a wonderful place for His own!!
I am so scared of this happening. Do you ever recover? Rhetorical question I know
Thank you you for this. I had to have my beloved Ginger cat put to sleep 2 weeks ago and I kept wondering if it was too early. But now I know it was probably just about the right time as poor puss was struggling to do his normal things, he was drinking so much water but yet refused all his food and just sat staring towards the wall. The steroid injections and appetite pills no longer worked. He had likely lymphoma. He was at least 18 yrs old.
Your kindness really comes through. Been through this and have one more to go. God help me. 😢. Thank you. ❤❤❤
I wish you were my veternarian. You are absolutely amazing 👏 God bless you
Thank you so much for this video. Today I woke up to my 20 year old cat not being able to walk, having no energy or appetite and not being able to control his bladder. After watching this video and talking to my wife it has helped us come to terms with the fact it is time for us to say goodbye to our beautiful old man Merlin. He has had a good long life, with lots of love. He was still happy when he was loosing his sight, having trouble with his joints and even the times he would just look confused or staring off into space. But he is a tired old boy and we need to give him the love and respect that he deserves. I know his brother Chester will miss him as much as we will 😢
This video popped up on my "up next" out of the blue while I was doing my makeup, but this doctor seems very thoughtful and sympathetic. Good video for struggling pet owners.
i'm just so scared to do it...I pray for the strength to do this tomorrow and your video has helped me put aside my own emotions, even my beliefs as I know I must do the right thing by my pet, my sweet and loyal friend of 16 yrs. #KarmaJeenah Thanks Dr. I appreciate you.
I have the vet scheduled to come tomorrow. I haven't slept all night. I know it's probably time but it's still so hard.
I just want to thank you for your kind words and demeanor during this difficult time. Really wonderful to hear from a professional the sensitivity required. My boy is at his end and it was such a short life. Just thank you. 😢
I just had to put my girl down . What finally made my mind up when at 4 in the morning she woke me up with loud three yelps !😢😰😨😥😭She had trouble walking and she would fall but I helped her up . I have wood floors . She was on meds for her kidneys and CBD oil and tramadol pain meds . I gave her two that morning when she yelped!! I looked her in the eyes and she looked at me . I said is it time baby , is it time ? Two times she fell and just laced there in my hand , like a seizure . No shaking but her eyes staring up at mine . Both times I helped her to her cot . She had just quit eating a few days before. I tried boiled chicken and rice , soft dog food , fresh pet . She would only drink her water . She did eat some of her fresh pet treats . But she couldn’t live on that !! It was the yelling that made me realize she had to be in pain ! The vet said it could be dementia . But I don’t believe that . I think she was in pain !! I didn’t want to put her down but I had to for her !! It was for her !! I wanted to keep her . The vet said I could but she would have to be on appetite stimulates and arthritis meds but it would just postpone the inedible!! I didn’t want her to suffer . I felt I would be selfish . I did it for her and I stayed with her until the end ! All the way until she let out her last breath . I was kissing her face and telling her I loved her . They told me she could hear me on the sedative and feel my touches but could not respond . I hope that was true !! I couldn’t quit kissing her and telling her I loved her . I know when the vet put the stuff in , that was it ! But the five minutes on the sedative , I kissed and talked to her . Damn I’m having a hard time !! I can’t quit crying . I feel exhausted and up and down . I look for her . I hope I did the right thing by her . I thought I saw a tear on her eye . But the Dr said it was not a tear 😰😨😥😭😭😭😭😭she was 14 or 15 . I adopted her from the pound at age 4 . Husky mix
thank you so much, I recently had my cat of 12 put down a few days ago and am really struggling, you explained so kindly about the process of how my pet passed away ,it really resonated with me, as it was a very confusing and stressful time. I miss her so much and can only hope that it will get better.I wish you had been my vet .again thank you :)
I feel your pain and I am so sorry for your loss xoxo
Sareena Jarvis thank you 🙏
Thank you. I’ve been struggling for months about my situation with my sweet dogs. Both are at the end stage of life & I’m not sure what do; let them go to sleep together so the other isn’t lonely & concerned for her sister in the home & it’s the blind one that’d be left behind. as she is less critical, although she is an insulin dependent diabetic; takes 9.5U of U100 NPH Insulin, Long acting. Blindness has progressed & she can’t even see her dinner bowl right in front of her; I have to help her get started eating. I truly ❤ you both, Daisy & Lily.
Had to put my cat Oreo down last Friday he was 20 years old and he was such an awesome cat. He is now in heaven with the other kitties we had awhile back. God is taking care of them now.
Thank you for this video. Your voice is very calm and soothing.
I'm having to make this decision right now. My 9-year-old cat's kidneys are failing. She was doing alright for a few months thanks to subcutaneous fluids and a few medications, but this week she took a sudden downturn. I'm trying to decide if I should try and bring her back up, and probably go through this again in another few months, or if I should just let her go now. I love her so much, but I don't think she's enjoying her life anymore.
i just got a 2 month sold beagle and i know there will a time when this will happen makes my heart sink and cry like a baby. i wish i cud grant some of my life to my pet.....
You already have, you are giving it a home, a loving home, a caring home...that's pretty much all any pet could ask for. You already have the emotional attachment, and you know it's coming. That does not make it easier, it makes you human. Unlike some of the stories of animal abuse...well, i'm sure you get the picture.
Thank you so much for posting this. This helps prep me for the hard vet appointment that I have next week. Thank you thank you.
Thank you so much for doing this. My dog is 12 and having trouble getting up and laying down. He's the only pet i have ever had. He has had recurrent melanoma in the eye and many tumors in the body removed. I just want the end of his life to be full of love and comfort. This helped me realize just how hard losing him will be but I have to start preparing myself. Once again thank you.
Thank you for describing how their bodies can go through varying rates of decline. It has been confusing to see my friend be in pain and not be herself, and then acting happy and fine when I talk to her. Your explanation has been super helpful and although I am still in pain as we go to her last appointment this afternoon it does help to know I am doing what is best for her.
thank you for this video , it really helped make the difficult choice I had to face , in putting my beautiful husky down easier. she was more then just an animal . she was my best friend and my daughter. I hope to see her again at the rainbow bridge
I have a pet who has had Chronic Active Hepatitis for about five years. We are nearing the end, and your advice and words are tremendously helpful. The part about the ups and downs towards the end, I can very much relate. I very much appreciate this doctor taking the time and care and love to make a video for loving pet owners like me. Thank you very much for this!
Thank you Dr., for this video and for all the love you give animals and their owners ❤
🇨🇦 God bless you Sir. Our northern dog "Freddy" was brought down by my wife 13 years ago from Nunavut when he was a pup. Right off you could see he was special. He was amazingly smart and just so happy and good! He had a bond of love with my wife...followed her around and would never feel comfortable by himself. He was a joy in our lives. A year or so ago his back legs started to go but he kept on and was doing ok but couldn't jump up into the car anymore. At Christmas he had a bloated stomach and was having some pain but it seemed to pass. On New Years day it strangely occurred again and he would not lay down due to pain. Taken to an emerg vet clinic he was diagnosed with a twisted stomach - very serious surgery situation but due to his age and other issues the best decision was to put him down. Heart breaking as since he had been given pain medication and was his old happy self - this made things very difficult. We know it was the right decision but it is so hard not seeing him these days and we miss him terribly. God bless for a wonderful and caring video. You're a good fellow and thank you!
Everything this vet says is true. It was so hard for me to let go. Even after almost a year has gone by since he died, it's still difficult to hold back tears when I think of him and his journey. RIP my sweet pea, see you at the Rainbow Bridge ❤🌈
My senior kitty had severe kidney failure and liver cancer. She got vet help and medications for a few months, she was doing pretty good considering the circumstances. However one day she couldn't get up, she defecated on herself and couldn't clean herself. I of course helped all I could and waited a day or so cause I know the ups and downs. But there was no up anymore. It just kept getting worse, next day I made the decision to euthanize her. At the office I was just frozen in shock, it felt like a dream. Only once I got home and she wasn't there that it really set in. I still she'd so many years for her and it's been years. She got cremated. She is still with me in a special place in the house but it still feels so hollow without her.
I've seen every video about this topic on CZcams, this one is the best. Thanks man .
i Thank you so much for helping me validate what I felt in my heart and mind. I would definitely choose you for my vet if you lived in my area! So APPRECIATE you taking the time to share your thoughts and experience.
Thank you for taking the time to make this video. I recently lost my beloved pet cat to aggressive nasal cancer at age 18.