Destoni’s Drama Will She Accept Help, Part 2
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- Dr. Phil S17E10 - Destoni’s Drama Will She Accept Help, Part 2 #DrPhil #DrPhilShow #PhilMcGraw
Two Gen Zer friends say they gained internet notoriety after posting videos online that pushed boundaries and went viral. One of them claims he's now famous and because of that, he doesn’t speak to his family.
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Why is she sitting there with her Van's, nails done, and nice clothes? She wouldn't be wearing nothing nice if she were my child. Nice things are a privilege..not a necessity. Mom is too soft.
Mom was obviously trying to make her happy with all of that. However; the daughter took full advantage of the fact that mom wouldn't raise a finger in self defense; probably due to the very young children in the house. I do hope this girl got the help she needed.
Not to mention the fake lashes. And the braces alone cost around $5000.
@@joannegray5576 and you know that after an hour it was the tv company done her makeup i would say Everyone feels diference about things
EXACTLY!
The mother bugs, with the "right" after e erything Dr Phill says to her. She hasn't the tools or the insight to see the pain in Des's soul. I wish Des all the best as well as her Mom.
OMG that kid’s facial expressions!! She’d have lasted 2.5 seconds in my mother’s house.
Same in my house! Except it would have lasted 1 second :)
Stop blaspheming.
@@freyamccauley no such word. Look it up
I agree my mother would not allow any of this!
My mom has passed away and I'm still afraid of her! (That is to say she would never have let me get away with that kind of behavior. I'm 70 years old.)
Bullies remain bullies until they bully the wrong person, then life plays out, and life lessons begin.
I think this is one of the main issues here. She has had no consequences for behaviors. AND they are escalating to a mass-shooting violence threat? Police called 50 times on her and no arrest?
100 Agree this vulgar child needs to be taught one Good lesson
Exactly!!
This girl KNOWS....WHAT she is doing. She isn't stupid, and she isn't a victim, but she IS USING this whole "victim" scenario as her excuse to get attention. And ALL this .......GETS HER ATTENTION. Yes, it's negative attention, but it's STILL attention.
MANY of us didn't have parents, snd had parents that abandoned us. My parents BOTH abandoned us, and our mother sold us to other family members . And in THAT home there was terrible abuse, physical, verbal and many ways. It STILL gave us NO EXCUSE to act out and abuse OTHER PEOPLE.
She is using excuse after excuse after excuse. She CAN control herself, but she doesn't WANT to. When she runs into a brick wall, and someone louder and stronger than her puts her in her place, she will find out that she doesn't run the world, and the world doesn't OWE her anything.
The whole "mad" thing is silly, and this child is so emotionally underdeveloped, she can't see it. Anger has become "power" to her, and she feels POWERFUL with anger. But, it will backfire terribly on her, if she keeps doing this. Imagine what her teachers have to deal with? They have to deal with MANY kids like this every single day, in every classroom. So, go easier on the teachers.....when THEIR JOB has to deal with MANY OF THESE same type of kids. They're supposed to teach their academic subjects......NOT control or babysit badly behaved children/toddlers in grown bodies. Parents have GOT to do better......and LEARN......HOW to parent their children.
There's millions (unfortunately) of kids who grow up without Dads and have traumatic memories, that don't turn into sociopaths.
This girl clearly has other issues too. She's a child. She needs a diagnosis and proper help.
Prisons and gangs are full of people who grew up without a Dad. It’s even more damaging if you’re left with a mother who doesn’t know how to parent. The mother and grandmother seem to lack empathy and just never wanted to speak about it. At one point there was a stepdad because there are 2 younger kids. We don’t know what happened with him.
Absolutely right! I grew up with a terrible dad but an awesome mom. My mom grew up with an even worse dad. But both her and I are loving good people.
Blame the mom not the teenager going through puberty lol
Yes but we all deal with these issues differently. And there may be more than one issue. Sometimes mental health disorders like depression exacerbate the other issues. It's a lot more complicated than you know. That's why we have psychologists and psychiatrists.
her ignorant little comments and facial expressions show how absolute immature she is. mother should have stopped this right quick a LONG time ago. a firm hand as a parent would have never created this nasty little monster.
It's totally the mom. If we take a closer look at the mom we're seeing inability to select the right person for a relationship, weight issues, immaturity (eg arguing with her daughter at her daughter's level). Those two little girls are in danger when their older sister is around and there's NO excuse for that and it's the mom's fault
What no one sees is this little girl is very anxious. She is losing her shit because she's going some place she can't control and that scares the shit of of her. Her mom I believe had been emotionally absent. I think her mom does more effecting towards the little sisters and that eats destiny up and makes a mean little girl. I hope she ok now
@econdude3811 agree. All moms fault...mom has extreme mental issues and has no parental skills
I watched this with my 12 year old grandson and he was like wow 😊
I'm planning on watching this video with my grand child soon.
I am noticing something here, her mom pays for her braces, her makeup, her cloths, her nails! So, my question is? Why? If she is such a horrible child, why is she being spoiled and rewarded for her behavior? Her mother needs to be a mother, she has no clue how to command respect. Can she recognize that she is the child, and her mother needs to be respected? This child may benefit from some serious psychological help for many years. Her mother, may need it as well. So sad...
Thank you
Yes, the preview said she watched her Dad beat her Mom. Gosh.
Because she is trying to please the brat
No reasoning between right & wrong. She needs major counseling & so does Mom.
I think her mother needs a vacation.
Shes latching onto the dad thing to be a victim. Shes not a victim, shes a psycho. Lock her up.
she is a psycho but the mother doesnt know how to deal with the trauma. she needs help, prison will do her no good.
Well said , throw her in jail
a lot more complicated than that.
@@anastasiya630not really?
A lot of the time she is acting- fake expressions, fake faces. Even the “pain” is acting. Sociopathic
If mom was being abused by the father as Destoni said then I understand mom’s response because as a victim of abuse the trained response to keep peace is to give your abuser whatever will calm them down. This whole family needs help and would probably benefit from some separation
I fully agree with you. I hope everyone gets it, rather than judging the mother.
Absolutely 💯
I dont see pain , I see a pyscho waiting , to get loosed on society.
She is the most un-selfaware person I've ever seen. She's going to give that attitude to the wrong person and end up dead.
Picture her at a job
In traffic
In line at a grocery store
My god 🤦
You clearly see the child is crying out for help she's emotionally about 5...when her dad left she stopped growing except physically
Everybody has pain. Life is the pain of discipline or the pain of regret
I see a teenager with too many emotional problems to be responsible for her actions. i want to see her and the mother after the program is done. I BELIEVE IT IS NOT TO LATE FOR THE FAMILY TO HEAL
She obviously has no friends who would want to hang around with a creep like that
Yeah I was thinking the same thing
She doesn't care because she thinks she's superior to them.....let's pitch in and buy her a mirror.
@@frugalhippie8430 exactly
Hearing her schoolmates in contrast to her made it even more obvious how spoiled and immature she is.
Where is she now ? Is it possible to get a update ? Today's may 26, 2024.
We have an entire generation of kids that believe they should get trophies simply for breathing. Reality sucks.
Yep, that's why I tell everybody not to have kids
Believe it or not I have kids in the same age that are so nice and well-behaved that they don't get a tv show
@@patrickvankemenade3481GREAT post.....lol.
So true. We had the pool and basketball hoop and the yard like a football field so I was the neighbor mom and was happy with it. Bc I knew what my kids were doing and the other parents were glad to get rid of there kids. So sad. But God has used us and most of them are all saved and very well mannered. Most still come visit and even thanked me. So I raised out of 8 of neighborhood boys 3 went military and others went to college. My 3 boys 2 were air force and my other one went straight to work. So I had 11 in total and even a football team.lol😂My last baby was a girl and she’s a bookkeeper making a great living. I give God all the glory. Everyday.
She has a long and bright future in the prison system. It’s unfortunate, but she’s going to mess with the wrong person and the consequences could be fatal.
That's what happens when you don't discipline your child.
she said since her father was violent she got influenced, but its still her fault for acting immature
Of course he's not going to go He's going to have to be forced cuz she's a punk
And have a Broken home. Women dont do well raising children. This is a massive problem. They pick the Wrong men, have children with them then leave them and wonder why the kids re a mess. Its a Whole bunch of Preventable things, Life Choices that were done poorly. Women hold the keys to themselves and their wombs. Its on Them to make the right choices. To Know Better. We are Screwed as a society now, generations of this have been repeating the same stupid crap and blame everyone else.
She is scared out of her mind, and ignorant adults talk about discipline.
Her mother created a monster. She may have indulged her and let her daughter get away with things to make up for the father being absent. This is years and years of submitting to her daughter. The daughter’s sense of entitlement is through the roof. She may even subconsciously blame her mother for her father’s behaviour and absence. The daughter is a danger to anyone in her path and headed to prison herself if she doesn’t get her act together.
Makes me grateful for my children. I was stricter than I should have been because I played the role of mother and father. They turned out just fine in spite of the strict upbringing.
I wish he would interview her like in a year, so we can see the update of how the treatment helped her.
Same here
Her face when dr phil was telling her mom she makes the decision: absolutely priceless
I saw that situation like she smirked at ther daughter as if to say gotcha.
She’s not 14, she’s 5
Nope. She is not 5. My daughter was 5 years old and she was the sweetheart like now.
I think This girl has problem with her mom. Her mom may not treat her good. Mom doesn't listen to her, they may not spend quality time together. This girl may feel worthless!
Thank you.
Ya that boy that called her a coward ate her up👏👏
Yeah lets see how much of a coward she is when she really shoots up a school, kinda like how Elliot Rodger did. Its not very smart to test a teenager with severe anger issues, that’s not helping her or anything really.
She could’ve easily snapped at him.
I said the same thing....coward.
I was waiting for her to start calling him names
her facial expressions.....she needs a jail cell
She's so lucky she's not my daughter .
Same! Well said!! Would be a totally different ballgame I tell ya...
Actually, she would be lucky to have a parent like you to discipline her.
She is not lucky. If she would have been disciplined, she would not be in this situation!!
I have no doubt if she were your daughter she wouldn’t be like this!
@@yplittleoneAnd if she had a halo, she'd be an angel. But ifs don't matter, do they
She thinks growing up without her dad entitles her to bully others.
She is not entitled to bully because she is growing up without a father. Sadly, those without a father in the home while growing up are bullies.
Let her not acknowledge the "hierarchy" when she's locked up in prison. She'll learn really fast!!!!
Institutionalizing is the answer, huh? If you think she is out of control now, send her to jail and see the monster that is created. She will learn her social skills according to prison politics. Her attitude would be encouraged by her fellow inmates. She would be molded to be a street smart, loud mouthed, out of control adult with adult consequences. Jail is not the answer. If jail was the answer, then her mom, not her, should be serving the sentence. Destinie is living what she has learned. She's modeling behavior taught to her by her parental influences. She is screaming for help. Jail would destroy her and her future.
@@somethingwicked5678 I think the person meant that IF she were to go to prison, she would learn that there’s a form of hierarchy there.
@@dancepigloveryep, agreed
She does not belong in prison. Acknowledge her intelligence and pain and she will calm down.
Hahahaha
Does she think she is the first kid to grow up without a father?
Thank you.
Exactly
That’s a really uncompassionate comment
@@andrewholland9097 I disagree. I had no father and never used it as an excuse for my behavior.
This is her personal loss😢
this girl is all an act. and it gets her what she wants. works for her.
I agree.
27:17 till 29:45 That bullying brat is a bad, bad actress. She thinks she nailed all those fake facial expressions and body movements, but she stinks big time.
We are literally laughing out loud here over her 6-year-old acting "skills".
My dad left us and none of us acted like her there was 7 of us. She's so rude..
jezz her facial expressions are so annoying , i can´t stand it 😤
I couldn't live with her. Even if she was my daughter I couldn't do
it. One of us would surely end up in the hospital
@@susanlett9632🪦
And her tone of voice (not to mention what she is saying).
Look at it another way. She was extremely brave going on the show. She reached out, in her way. She reacted in her emotional age - about 6. I admire her guts - I am rooting for her.
@@user-eo7hg4pf8i Thank you for saying that. We all need to remember that she is a child, a little girl who is hurting. Her behavior is her way of masking her deep emotional pain. I'm rooting for her too.
Long overdue. No child is running my house. She would learn when to hold em and when to fold em. Real quick
Ya she better pay my rent if she thinks she's the boss
That's right
Well said
@@edwardbaker192 totally agree! WELL said!
What a relief for her family. She is finally gone and they can have some peace
The minute that girl screamed “answer me!” Mom should have taken control.
The mother needs to LISTEN to Dr Phil and stop adding her comments of, “right, right…. Just shut up and listen!
That annoyed me too. She kept agreeing with Phil but never enacted any of it on that stupid girl who would have turned out differently if she had.
Exactly. I wanted to tell her to be quiet.
In my opinion, this girl needs a lot of therapy, she is a spoiled brat, that needs to be treated like a criminal, until she can snap out of this.
She talks like a very immature child, she is still 3 years old mentally,
@@Seeddj5279 Sane. If she would just shut her mouth and really listen it would help. I don't think this little girl is really heard at home either. The mother seems to throw up her hands with excuses 'too busy' 'I've got two small daughters' Destoni needs loving too, mom don't just walk away when she's trying to communicate with you.
Her mom has been living with this girl for years and years. It's exhausting and can eventually become a matter of self-preservation. Is it the right way to handle it? No, but unless you've watched this close up, you should not judge parents. This isn't what Mom was excited about when she was pregnant, planning for the baby. Mom has a lot of tough work ahead, and needs support not judgement.
D is a monster, I just hope that D can get the help that she needs, and more so that her mom and gran and her sisters can move ahead...living with a person must have been hell.
One of mine is very much like this. I am not/was not like this mother (not judging her) At 12, the treatment team told me if he were 18 he would be diagnosed as a psychopath. Honestly, I truly believe people like this are bad seeds. He was always different, abnormally demanding even as a tiny infant, wouldn’t sleep, screamed like a banshee, manipulative etc. at 5ish was assaulting others, including disabled classmates. And only got worse with age. It was such a horrible, isolating, hopeless, helpless situation. It was terrifying and exhausting. I feared for my life and others. Not a single “expert” knew what to do with us. It did not help to send him to therapists, treatment centers or church…unfortunately. He’s in his 30s and still a crazy scary mess, only knows how to hide it better now. 😔😞☹️🥺😢😭
@@bravelily2581my heart goes out to you. I understand and feel deep empathy for you. My child is a teenager, but I've harbored fears for him that mirror your experience. Things are far better than they used to be, but there are days I have great fear for his future. From one mom to another, I am sending you big hugs and continued strength. ❤
@@Haikuhiaku You are so kind. Thank you for your thoughtful reply and the hugs. I’m so sorry for your situation as well. I wish no one ever had to know that pain and trauma. All the love, prayers, hugs, comfort, support and wisdom for you.❤️
@@bravelily2581 Thank you, brave lily. I have a feeling your username suits you. 💞🫂
Master manipulator.. this girl is dangerous. Dr Phil surely you can tell she is playing you.
I totally agree.
That bullying brat is a bad, bad actress. She thinks she nailed all those fake facial expressions and body movements, but she stinks big time. 27:17 till 29:45
We are literally laughing out loud here over her 6-year-old acting "skills".
She surely needs to stop this behavior
She's a bully
Yes, master manipulator!
When she’s out on her own she’ll mouth off to the wrong person and finally learn what, “consequences to your actions” mean.
My father cheated on my mom while my mom was pregnant with me and my twin brother and left when I was so young. I wish I had a dad growing up but I didn’t. I didn’t turn into a demon and make my family’s life miserable. My mom raised me with discipline. I knew right from wrong. Her mother is hopeless and desperately needs parenting lessons
What her mother desperately needs is someone to help her with her child.
She needs a new child because this one can’t be fixed.
@@downtown82 wrong what a crue thing to say
@@signndesignWould you take her? I know you wouldn’t.
@@downtown82 I been there done that got the t-shirt Yes i would take her if i thought i could help her and you know nothing about me
Wether or not her dad went to prison is no excuse for her behaviour she is a danger to everyone that dr Phil is just making excuses for her
Oppositional defiance disorder - come on dr Phil you’re a clinician and you don’t see it?
She would call me stupid…once.
What a show off, thinking she’s the queen of the universe
I think this kind of behaviour stems back to very very early childhood. This girl knows nothing about respect and boundaries. She is arrogant and impolite. There's some very very basic rules missing in her upbringing. She did not become this way by accident or overnight. There is a vital part of her foundation missing...
This is why kids need both psychologically healthy parents in their lives to enforce healthy boundaries in the kids.
Millions of kids grow up in single parent households and don’t become psychopaths
Her behavior has little to do with her father leaving... her behavior has to do with never being corrected , taught manners, and never having consequences for bad behavior, rewarding bad behavior, and never being consistent with punishment, for bad behavior,....period!
Take off her false eyelashes, take off her braces, stop giving her the ability to color her hair and keep it looking beautiful. She feels so entitled.
That was crazy at the end. Destini knew she had no choice and must comply. No more freedom to act a fool and get help. I hope her and her mother worked through it.
What I noticed is she has 3 or 4 favourite answers. She’s very immature and has no respect for anyone but herself.
She has no self respect
She doesn't respect herself either
This girl belongs in a locked facility, with a very rigid schedule, absolute consistency 24 hours a day, no in-person visits and limited monitored phone calls (preferably during therapy), heavy duty therapy, responsibility for chores, able to earn small rewards for designated behaviors, with staff that cannot be manipulated. It's a long list, but there would other rules of the program, required of everyone. Girls only! Long-term, not just a few months. School would be required in an in-house program.
This probably sounds harsh, but I know this can work, as long as it's consistently enforced. I've seen it, and I've seen disasters when it the program isn't followed.
Kids cry out for limits, and it's scary for them when the adults aren't in control.
Your suggestions are NOT harsh. Destoni's attitude and outlook is harsh. What you suggest is about equal to Destoni's harsh attitude. It's better to go through what you suggest then to go through the wrath that would be unleashed if she "goes off" on the wrong person.
Way to go. If those had been the rules throughout her life then the problems today would not have arisen.
Pretty sure that's her future.
The mother gives a little smile I can see she is too soft .This kid is dangerous!!!!!
We all have problems and go through horrible childhoods, I did. Lost both parents to death at a young age and I’m not behaving like this.
She’s right about her mother needing help and I also believe her when she says her mother hasn’t tried to get herself help. Dr. Phil with your magic
The mom hasn't used a knife on people or threatened with a gun.
@@missgramirez4446agreed with this
Narcissistic
Something is very wrong with her
He hit the nail on the head. Mom tried to move on with her own life & had other children, instead of addressing the issues with the child she already had. The girl not only has the pain of not having her father in her adolescent life, but she feels like her mother just decided to leave her behind, have new kids, & she resents that. Mom hasn't cared enough to try to help her daughter herself, she just gave in & gave up trying to discipline her firstborn & keeps brushing off her emotional damage, telling her that she needs to see a counselor. Mom needs to go to counseling with her.
This girl is broken. And her mom lost her a long time ago. Her bad behavior is screaming "help me!" "Love me" and no one is listening.
The audience laughing is giving her fuel
She brought that laughter upon herself with all her ridiculous comments
She doesn’t realize there laughing at her not with her
Right! That was pissing me off.
Dr Phil should have told the audience not to laugh either before or during the show. He needed to be the leader, it’s his show!!!!!
@@ThouSwell-zx3fdexactly
Haha, give her a week with my Mom!! She would not get away with that snotty attitude. What an absolute monster of a child. Obviously needs serious mental health help, and a huge attitude adjustment.
Nobody that I can see in the comments seems to have picked up on the fact that she smokes weed. I've seen the result of this before.
When I was five years old, my mother threw my father out, and when I was crying, missing him, she would threaten to spank me and scream at me yelling just forget about him. He doesn’t love you and he’s never coming back. This kind of pain is very deep… It has affected the course of my whole entire life, even though I didn’t end up as bad as this girl, I definitely had certain milder behavioral issues growing up and various ways, and had to work through them… She deserves everyone’s help and compassion to help her heal her wounds, keeping her safe from herself and also others safe from her.
I think putting her in that program was the best thing Dr. Phil and her mother could have done for her .🙏
I am sorry that happened to you.
Good on you Dr Phill. Love the way you are handling the mother
Really loves drama and attention
And she knows how to make drama and run the show.. she's been calling the shots for quite some time. She's headed for prison because she acts on impulse, with the main impulse being anger that is triggered by anything! She is completely out of control.. and headed to self destruct because she's never had limits
My mom raised me and other siblings, we loved and respected our Mom.
She is such a faker. It’s all about attention.
27:17 till 29:45 That bullying brat is a bad, bad actress. She thinks she nailed all those fake facial expressions and body movements, but she stinks big time.
We are literally laughing out loud here over her 6-year-old acting "skills".
Her way of behavior to her mother say everything.
As a mom of a 15 year old… she would learn some very valuable life lessons that day.
What a actress and obviously loves the camera's and so immature.
That poor child she is harbouring so much pain inside of her. I do hope that her mother gets the help she needs to be a grownup , a real mother who can say NO and set boundaries. I have seen this happen to other children. I could cry for this family.🤗🤗💕💕
I agree.
27:17 till 29:45 That bullying brat is a bad, bad actress. She thinks she nailed all those fake facial expressions and body movements, but she stinks big time.
We are literally laughing out loud here over her 6-year-old acting "skills".
She needs some serious help before someone dies..
That someone is her
Dad has to be relieved he left so he didn’t need to deal with the brat.
We all make mistakes...I feel for the mother. Poor mom's..what a nightmare. I hope the mom gets a long long deserved break....and the kid gets intense help. To her mother....I hope u got a big break and some self care. I feel bad for u.❤🙏
Mom needs to get parenting help to properly raise her other 2 daughters, not be pampered.
Properly is all perspective....you can do everything supposedly properly...and things can still go off the rails...wish it wss that simple...that would br a blessing🙏
@@QuadriviumNumbers everyone has their own opinion...please stop😄
Why would anyone punish a foster family with something like this.
The funny thing that manager from that place had the sweetest face ever and she acted like shes scarred of him
She isn’t used to a calm, male presence with authority, that’s why. It speaks to her trauma.
That was just a cop-out, her saying that. You could see on her face she was BS- ing, she had no scared look.
The foul mouth beastie is trying to manipulate everything.
Next she'll be accusing him of trying to touch her......dangerous, trouble makeing kid I believe.
She is noone shows her that stuff it's obviously fear of the unknown
I feel like I lost all my brain cells listening to this girl answer Dr Phil’s questions.
Her counselor needs their status revoked. This girl needs to be evaluated in a mental hospital setting. Yes mom needs to learn how to parent her, but this is a far more serious situation than mom is grasping.
Yep! That's exactly times 100 the juveniles we work with at One Way Adventure program! I worked there 1980-87, when I was 20 yrs old to 27 yrs old knowing what pain causes.
Thank you for Dr.Phil for stepping in and stopping this. Hopefully changing the trajectory of the train!❤❤❤ towards a better life, fulfill, and not blaming anyone else.
Also I think she acts like her dumb facial expressions are cute , calling her mom stupid .....
She is a nasty little girl!
She's a longgg way from cute 😂
The sly look before she pulls a face.
And probably not for the first time.
27:17 till 29:45 That bullying brat is a bad, bad actress. She thinks she nailed all those fake facial expressions and body movements, but she stinks big time.
We are literally laughing out loud here over her 6-year-old acting "skills".
This is for the Mother.... Every time you say RIGHT.. YEAH RIGHT YES Sweetie You're not listening. When you say Right as someone is finishing a statement, you're only thinking about how you're going to respond... SO SHUT UP and LISTEN or you will never get it right.
AMEN!
Are you a perfect parent?
I presume you always get it right?How unkind of you.
Your nasty rude comments about the mother makes you unfit to judge.
Hate it when DR Phil treats the parents so rudely and corrects them in front of the child. It just justifies their behavior to themselves.
Kid needs to know it's not all her fault, mom hasn't been a parent.
Oh my gosh, watching that has given me such a headache with Destini screaming and yelling, I don't think anything will help her unfortunately!
when you spell your kids name like that, this is what you deserve
Spelling her name different causes this?then we have a bunch of disfunctional people in this world... spoiled kids become kids the parents can't even stand let alone the world
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tragedeigh.
Take Miss Personality Disorder to a funny farm and leave her. She is a menace to society and always will be.
I know someone who was exactly like this as a teenager, and today at 50 years old their life is very sad.
Millions of people grow up with the pain of absent fathers and don't display the hatred she does
She’s endured emotional abuse, passed down through her mother and grandmother. Mental illness
Brilliant episode. No cutting off the video with stupid Asian music or singing. Well done ❤
👍👍😅😆😆😂
Hey, thanks for posting this. It's super frustrating to get the first half of something and Dr. Phil decides we don't care what happened.
These are from 2014, Dr Phil doesn't post them.
Ya know, I am 70 yrs. old and can still understand this 14 year olds pain and antics clearly cause I was the same way when I was her age and up in my teens. Even pulled a knife on my mother once. Not everything was revealed on this show I'm certain. Just because she's wearing nice sneakers and has braces on her teeth does not mean she has a wonderful mother. Gifts don't meaning anything if your being uncivilized or a smart mouth to your child. And I 100% believe this is what happened. This mother looked so prim, proper and kind on the show but I'm not believing it for one second. For this young girl to be this angry and in pain there's much, much more to this.
That mother doesn't listen.
All she does is say "right"!
Looks like the best thing for Destoni & her family is a separation, and a long one.
As Dr Phil said, something dramatic has to change. The mother & daughter both need professional help to dig out of this viscous cycle rut they are in. I hope this Discovery center helps, if not some other kind of program. Living on a farm or horse therapy, something in nature might help to cool Destoni down.
The violence and abandonment issues she experienced re her father is a terrible source of pain and I imagine fear and trauma at such a young age.
Now Destoni's younger siblings have the fallout unleashed on them as Destoni acts out.
They all need psychological help and outlets like sports, art, music etc to get to a happier level.
Good luck to them for navigating through these issues!
live on a farm or horse therapy really!!!!!! how about being admitted to a mental health hospital and getting the medication she so obviously needs.
It broke my heart when destoni got real and said it hurt that her dad couldn’t come to Dad’s and Doughnuts. Those kinds of events are really important for kids.
I went to one of those with my little girl. The idiots at her school decided to hold it at a public park, in 40 degree weather (in the sun), with wind so heavy it was blowing away everyone's napkins, paper plates, blowing over full cups of coffee. It was held under a pavilion, which took away what little warmth the sun offered. Everyone was miserable, the kids were all cold. I went to my truck to get my spare coat to wrap around my daughter. Other "fathers" around me made my blood boil. There was another little girl in my daughter's class that was not as well dressed for the cold as mine. Cute little dress and tights, but she was shivering and her lips were turning blue, her father not noticing, too busy looking at his phone.
One of the airhead staff from the school came around to us asking "is everyone having a good time?"
I'd already been cursing under my breath as it was, so I held little back.
"No, I'm having a terrible time, who planned to do this outside on a cold, windy day like this? I'm dressed for this weather and I'M cold, I had to get my spare coat out of the truck for my daughter, look at that girl, she's shivering, her lips are turning blue, so is that little boy there, and that one, and those girls. Why was this not held at the school cafeteria, gymnasium or something out of the elements?!"
Visibly shaken by my reaction, the staff member said they considered it but were worried about "an enclosed space due to COVID".
"Due to COVID?! Oh, so you were so concerned about the health and well being of the students you decided to instead have this gathering outside, in the shade when the weather has been cold, wet and rainy for weeks? How many of these kids are likely to get sick from this and miss school for 10 days when they get colds & sniffles, because your staff were being paranoid about COVID?!"
The lady nervously moved on, going to talk to other school staff, then suddenly in minutes the kids were called to get back on the bus and go back to the school a little early.
My daughter had a really good teacher at that point, and she talked to my daughter's mother on the phone sometime later, when the daddy & donuts event came up, the teacher saying that they "cut it short when one of the parents pointed out that the weather was unsuitable and the children were getting very cold". She laughed and told her that it was in fact me that said that, her teacher saying that she was glad that I did, and was so disappointed in the other dads there for being so blind to the state the children were in, and of the staff as well.
I caught part of this episode of Dr Phil the other night, and the story just pulled at my heart, I had to look up and find out what happened to her. Hearing her bring up that daddy & donuts part and how much it still bothers her speaks to me and how important it was and is for me as a father to be there and do things like that, even though they seem so trivial, they mean the absolute world to our children, and being there or not being there will impact the rest of their lives.
It made me want to hug her the way I hug my daughter, to try to ease some of that pain of the void left by her father's absence. I haven't finished looking into how it ended up, but I really hope she was able to work through the issues she has and have a better life, and be a happier, more at ease person with her life and place in the world.
Me too. I'm amazed at all the vitriole towards a 14 yr old girl. Of course her brhavior is awful, but she's hurting a lot. The mom messed up, not her.
@francescafaull1253 the girl is responsible for HER OWN actions, do NOT absolve her of her own agency and responsibility for her behavior.
A hard life is not a hall pass for being a terrible person, I had a really hard childhood, abused for years. That didn't give me a license to treat everyone around me like garbage.
@@d3ltaohniner261 I didn't act that way at her age or my dad would of beat me bloody. I am a child abuse survivor too, sorry you had to go thru that. I will pray for you.
@terricunningham6810 would *have. Sorry you went through what you did too. I feel really bad when the PTSD and depression makes it hard to be the attentive, patient father I want to be. Makes me distant at times, or to have a short fuse, but I do NOT do to my children what my father did to my brother and I. Even small victories are victories. If you can look at yourself in the mirror and not hate the face staring back at you, that's a pretty good day.
Sometimes when you don't have the answers, the one to blame is anyone close. Many Moms are blamed, because they are the closest. The kids don't understand . They haven't talked about the father, only once.
Yeah, she’s psycho. She needs major help.🙏🙏🙏🙏for this poor girl. She acts like she’s on something…
No one has acknowledged the hard time the mother has had also
This is the last decision "mother" will have to make. The mother was only a mother in name.
If i spoke this way to my grandma and mom or made the faces shes making id get popped right in my face and it use to happen too lol
This girl is a family scapegoat. May she grow up into a beautiful and empowered young lady.
Don’t stick your head in the sand. Get down in the mud and find out the what’s, when, why’s, and how’s.
Empowered? CRINGE!
YES!!! Coming from a fellow scapegoat
Looks like my daughter who was diagnosed with schizophrenia.
The mom should say "Enough if this" and get up away from her abuse!
the mother does not hear her, she see's the tantrum and is patronizing.
This is what the mom is used to doing. I’m not saying it’s right, I’m just saying that’s how she’s been all this time.
Most parents respond to the behavior instead of the cause.
Sorry, a lot end up in jail or on drugs.. I hope she gets the help she truly needs . My heart goes out to all. Prayers
The girl's father didn't just leave his daughter, he left her mother. There's probably unrecognized and unresolved pain in the mother, too. Mom will be more effective when she deals with her issues.
We never gave our mom dirty looks. Don't let her get away with her rude behavior. Let her live on the street for a month.
Why would someone say to let her live on the street for a month and if something happens to her then what??
Everyone is hating this 14-year-olds behavior and I get it. But and this is a big but... there was a failure to get her therapy from her experiences of her dad being taken away. Alot of this behavior seems a little too much like PTSD from those experiences. She was traumatized and this behavior really should have been addressed a long time ago. I hope she gets the help she needs now.
she would have refused therapy and cussed and cursed and thrown whatever she got hold of. No, so many kids grow up without a father and do not become brats without any conscience. Threatening to shoot a school? jeeez!
My mum kicked my father out for having so many affairs while they were married, and I was a daddy’s girl all of my life and I was hysterical at 5yrs old, attached to his leg and sobbing for him not to leave. It absolutely broke my little heart. We did get to see him every second weekend and he was always very financially responsible for us 3 girls. But I grieved for him until I was able to live with him when I was 14. It damaged me permanently though, him leaving, but I didn’t go on a rampage of very bad behaviour and threaten physical violence. I certainly understand her pain but not her behaviour. Sometimes that is just a cop out, saying my dad left. Well so did thousands of other fathers , she is not the only one who has suffered.
We , as parents are not touching the surface . Prayers. Keep your children in Church.
I feel so bad for her sisters 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
They are undoubtedly terrified of her.
Well, since Mum is getting some parenting education, you should feel happy for her sisters now! 😉
The looks that she gives through this thing make her look like some kind of rare puffer fish.
Lol 😅. Thanks for the laugh.
This precious little girl!!! Look how beautiful and sweat she looks when she is calm. Bless her heart I hope she finds peace and help.
Destini needs help because she's out of control
This was recorded in 2019. I wonder what has happened to Destoni since this was made.
Agreed where is she now
Ik where she is now she is much better
@@King-jz5dwwhere is she?
@@King-jz5dw Stop the cap
Apparently in June 2022 Dr Phil had called Destoni to see how she’s doing and the Centre for discovery has put Destoni in a Residential treatment centre.
I hope they all get the help they need..id like to see the update to this story
She’s telling us that she wants someone to TALK TO and that her MOM IS SO BUSY WITH HER LITTLE SISTERS
In the interview the mother was like she fights with MY daughters not her sisters. The mother created this tension between her and the other children.