The hearing one thing and coming up with your own interpretation is the part that gets me. Itâs like talking to someone that doesnât understand what your saying. Itâs hard to move forward with this type of behavior.
I think the statement âblack women arenât trained for marriageâ is exactly the same as saying âblack men arenât trained to be a husbandâ. To compare the black woman/man to any other race as it relates to relationships and marriage leaves the black woman/man at a disadvantage. Slavery set the involuntary measure for the black community as it relates to black love. So please letâs stop comparing your black sisters and brothers to others. What we should talk about is how to love and respect one another through our trauma. Our trauma being many black families are raised by single black women who also grew up with an absent father. Do you see where Iâm going with this? Itâs challenging (not impossible) for many people during their adolescence to comprehend how things should be without an example. But as we mature and hopefully have learned more about life and ourselves we should now want something different. Black men should want to be a better man for themselves and their families and the black woman should want to respect the black man/father that is caring for their family.
The hearing one thing and coming up with your own interpretation is the part that gets me. Itâs like talking to someone that doesnât understand what your saying. Itâs hard to move forward with this type of behavior.
Very helpful convo for our community.
Our women are raised to be wives. Today they are just hard to meet.
But both of us need to work on ourselves as husband's and wives đ
I totally agree with the sistađŻđȘđŸ
this was a good one cj
Jaime! đ€đ€đ€
man i wish i was there for this convo
All ima say is... Go where you are celebrated. Let folx beđŻđđœ
This society only knows 2 approaches liberalism and conservatism both are not the Islamic approach
Wow, thatâs different. Can you explain a little more?
I think the statement âblack women arenât trained for marriageâ is exactly the same as saying âblack men arenât trained to be a husbandâ. To compare the black woman/man to any other race as it relates to relationships and marriage leaves the black woman/man at a disadvantage. Slavery set the involuntary measure for the black community as it relates to black love. So please letâs stop comparing your black sisters and brothers to others. What we should talk about is how to love and respect one another through our trauma. Our trauma being many black families are raised by single black women who also grew up with an absent father. Do you see where Iâm going with this? Itâs challenging (not impossible) for many people during their adolescence to comprehend how things should be without an example. But as we mature and hopefully have learned more about life and ourselves we should now want something different. Black men should want to be a better man for themselves and their families and the black woman should want to respect the black man/father that is caring for their family.
Rest in Heaven, Kevin Samuels đđż