PUT A RING ON IT: Khadijah Hibbler v Brennen Freeman
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- Khadijah says Brennen is a deadbeat dad who doesn't pay the bills. Brennen argues he pays his portion of the bills...the problem is Khadijah wants him to pay all her bills, too!
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It baffles me every time I watch this show, & these women come on here whining, complaining, accusing him of cheating , how he does not help,out financially buttttt....." she wants to marry this dude” it’s like, reallyyyyy & whyyyyyy?
EXACTLY
Confuse, desperate females
She is not leaving him! It will be same ole thing when they go back home.
Kills me...but what kills me more is they tell so many stories of the man disrespecting them, cheating, lying, disappearing for days etc; but then comes back and says "he's really not a bad guy and I want him to be my husband" 🤦♀️
@@GodsChild1159She has a very low self esteem and standards for herself.
The fact she was the only one working while pregnant, and had her baby prematurely as a result of the stress, I would have been out, right then and there. Idk why she would want to marry someone who's cheated on her and made it clear, he's not loyal and isn't in love with her. BW please stop the madness. It's men out here who would give us the world. STOP THE MADNESS.
I left when my kids dad refused to get a job after I had to go back to work 3 weeks after I gave birth.
You smart!!!
NO THERE'S NOT. BW JUST STAY SINGLE. MAJORITY OF THESE MEN OF TODAY ARE ROTTEN TO THE CORE.
I'm always AMAZED at how beautiful women constantly run up after men who don't honor nor respect them!!
It's the desire to be loved and these men sell these lies hard. We as women think we can fix or change Men when it's just not possible.
You're next
Easy answer. It's because those are the types of men that women don't find boring.
@@user-cl8zg7gu4j That's not bother you? How stupid and easy the answer is? They asked the same question constantly but they and make the same mistake. This woman who just wrote that post, is going to make the same mistake. Because women just love drama. especially black women, that's why they're always going to end up in toxic relationships.
@@sharmarie777 wrong. Wrong wrong wrong wrong, and I know you're going to be in one of these relationships or you have already been in one. Because women pick toxic guys. When you ask a woman what she's looking for, she really has no idea what the hell she wants and what the hell she wants is not realistic. At the end of the day women find good men boring.
People will treat you how you allow them to.
He's not your man. He's only your son dad. Just haven't told you. Lady move on and quit wasting your young years. He's not married material. And will not change for you. Why must except to be treated like that and pay all the bill. Get yourself a real grown man and quit putting up with what he dish out. God bless you and your future.
Who dat is? It's just my babydaddy lol. these women really be out here fighting for a relationship to be in with these dusties
Why did she decide to have a child before the marriage then afterwards ask for the marriage, makes no sense at all.
She made a child within minutes of meeting him. She didn’t even know his character. So nonchalant about having kids
That's the same question I asked
That’s the problem in our society. People making babies despite barely knowing each other.
If people start following what the Bible says this would not be an issue in the book of Deuteronomy tells you what women having children how God views it and feel about it 👎🏼🤪🤬😳🙆🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
But don't question why we have yet another rap dusty not pulling his weight after IMPREGNATING HER
typical.....
Ma'am if he ain't married you in 7 years he don't want to marry you. Like why do these women think that marriage is going to turn bad boyfriends into good husbands? I will never understand that. And I also don't understand why you would be with somebody for that long without marriage if marriage is what you want. Ain't no way I'm about to be in a long suffering relationship waiting on a ring. Set the time frame and if he don't make it he got to go! That's called standards, get some!
HUSH TRuth!!!! Those are life years spent with the wrong person!!!
This!!! All facts
A hush fell over Jerusalem
A woman cannot control her life until she controls her fertility. Stop having children with these men thinking he will marry you. They usually don't. He was taught to be a player, and she knew that. His actions tell you how he feels about you.
They both have a lot of maturing and growing to do.
Yes, you said it; both!💯
Breast Augmentation?? Please tell me you paying a mortgage and not renting! Because that's so DUMB!!
Homeownership is not something everybody wants or wants right away. Or sometimes they can't own one right now. Huge monetary and life decision. That is someone who you don't want to own a house with.
Not always!
Renting >>> Mortgage
@@FMBeezy817 exactly!! especially these days!
Why would paying a mortgage be preferable? You still don’t own either lol. Get behind and get evicted
This is insane. Smh. They both liars and they both need to go their separate ways. But she ain’t.
Just the "I'm perfect " is the sign to run. One thing is to be confident and onother to be arrogant.........
The dude is a rolling stone, how much more evidence is she in need of to be convinced, he ain't the one. She is just another woman who will only end up in frustration, attempting to change a no good man, who has no intentions on changing, LADIES STOP DOING THIS IT DOESN'T WORK, SMH 💯
Woman: This man has been horrible to me in every way since we got together
Also Woman: I want a ring or I'm leaving
Make this make sense.
Why are you having a child with a man who you knew for a month….
😮THAT!
Given he doesn't have a 9 to 5, what made her decide that would make a good father. Babies don't make men grow up if they don't want to. These females want the judge to make their men stop cheating and straighten up so they can get married...the insanity
What does a job have to do with being a good father.
@Jadrian Garner 🇹🇹 A good father protects and provides for their child, makes sure their needs are met such as food, shelter, clothes, daycare, medical care in the form of insurance you get working a job. Having money to put away for that child's future. Not depending on others to do your responsibility. Parenting also means sacrifice. Playing with a child and changing a diaper does not make a good parent. The fact that you had to ask says alot about you.
@@ninadavis5517 so you saying all the stay at home dads are not good fathers? A man laid off his job and can’t find work isn’t a good father🧐?
@Jadrian Garner 🇹🇹 I never said a word about stay at home fathers, that was NOT the issue. A LAZY man that WILL NOT WORK and can is different than not being ABLE to work. Sitting home playing video games and hangin out as opposed to doing something productive is different. I don't know your situation, nor did I comment on it. Since you brought me into your personal situation, whether you work or not work, your child/children will still need the essentials of life. I pray you find a job if you're looking.
@@ninadavis5517 iji
Ffffcchu
You want a ring but he has treated you bad for 7 years. Make it make sense.
She didn’t even know him. She got pregnant within the first month of meeting him (in the club). And we all know nothing good comes out of the club. Dude will never marry her , the most he’ll do is give her another baby.
Hold up...she had a WHOLE laundry list of complaints about this dude and she STILL wants to marry him?? Am i missing something?? Are things that BAD out there that she's clinging on for dear life to this bum?? Lord have mercy😂😂😂
She doesn't wanna marry him. She wants him to change and be somebody else. She's just comfortable. She doesn't realize that she's saying that she doesn't like him.
She bought a Hyundai expecting it to turn into a Lexus...
That part!
This comment took me out
Best way to put it
This is why women shouldn’t stick around with men who have to get their ish together.. have standards and expectations and don’t let up no matter if they make you feel bad for it… because then it’ll be the woman’s fault for expecting him to (naturally) evolve into a better person (unfortunately)
I'm so disgusted by both parties I can't continue watching ..."I got pregnant after 1 month..."
Right like c’mon 😂
She's way too invested in him. He does all of these things because she allows it. She should invest more time in herself and her son.
SHE WANTED TO MARRY HIM! Is her psychology off? At least he admitted the truth “I was never taught to be a good boyfriend, I was taught to be a p…” Little Sis, by him admitting this now his behavior shouldn’t be confusing to you anymore. BELIEVE THE BEHAVIOR ALWAYS!
Nothing to do with the case but I love Judge Star’s laugh! It makes me laugh 😂🤣😁
Auntie Star I'm gonna need you to always say "what say you", I really missed it 😅 I just love it.
Yes! That and “stand in the space that God has created for you!” Love herrr lok
Am I the only one who started loving Judge Star already 🙏🙏✌️💪💪💪💕❤️
I started watching her just last week...not bad, not bad at all.
The more I watch her, the more I like her. At first, I was really hesitant. Now, I can’t enough of the show😁
Didn't she say she was paying all the bills, then backtracked? They just wanted to be on the show. She's full of it, and so is he.
He doesn’t love you or like you, Sis. Move on. You had a baby with a stranger and tried to force a relationship. It was over before it began.
Can you spot the red flags.
1. She gave a boyfriend a baby before marriage
2. She met him at the club
3. The relationship has been toxic for over 7 years
4. His income isn’t consistent & he doesn’t support the needed bill for his child & home
5. She is forcing him to marry her or else.
Benefits of marriage for women
1. A man can not just leave you with the financial responsibility with the baby, you and your child are protected. All women of other races know this and only many men that can actually provide for their entire family.
As the Judge said.. why would you want to marry someone that doesn't treat you right? After 7 years, he just not that interested in marrying you. Hang it up sis.
Title should be, "Why buy the Cow when the milk is free."
She lying first she said he dont pay the phone bill then she said he do come on now let a person talk long enough they tell on themselves
He pay $200 a month
A ring will not change anything! He is who he is. Past behavior is an indication of future behavior. Pay attention to the red flags 🚩
She's a liar and I feel like he's one of those guys that will be there financially but he's not there for you any other way. He doesn't even seem like he has emotion. Her sister a damn liar too 💀😂
So he's cheating and not helping but you want to marry him🤔
Whew Child! Judge Star is slaying with that outfit ❤
I feel so sad for the kids in these type of relationships. Toxic, immature sperm and egg donors. A mess.
he said he bought her a ring and it ended up in the trash. That wasn’t questioned. I wondered what happened cause he not proposing again.
I'm side eyeing the sister. He was too confident saying it was her sisters. Hell, it could've been. Who knows...
@Living With Ericka righttttt🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s better to have that money 💰 conversation first before jumping in the bed 🛌
Girl you doing 7years of this and looking to do more? You can't be serious!
U MET HIM AT THE CLUB🤔🧐🤨🕵🏾♂️🗣
This is on HER. Women act like they have 0 control over there bodies & fertility. Who has a baby 30 days after meeting somebody? Too many women do this BS. She got lucky that he’s a good dad. What exactly do expect when u do NOT know a person.
PREACH!!!!
She's sooooo beautiful!! She looks just like a Barbie 😍
The big sister has a crush on her little sisters boyfriend.
People are quick to have kids which is a life long commitment and are nonchalant about marriage which might be temporary.
Pregnant after one month. Once she said that game over
Baby please move on…. You paying the bills, begging him to marry you… no! You’re to young for this!
She already made the upmost bad decision...she might as well stick it out...lol
@Michael E Uhhhh Nope! When you know better, you should do better. Why would she stick it out when he has no intention of changing and she has her whole life before her? She has got to woman up and value herself, especially since he doesn't seem to.
@@drapertraci7 she is a baby mama now… she might well stay with her pookie boyfriend. No need for her to come to dating market , destroying other peoples life
@@michaele5588 Nope! Making a mistake doesn't mean you have to keep making it! Lol
@@michaele5588 exactly keep the baby mama there she made her bed now she gotta lay in it
A man who can't say I love you, tends to have attachment issues. Sis plz run. Something is unhealed in him and HER!
Robert!!!! You missed a good #BOMBA when she mentionned the pic..😂😂😂😂
You are a beautiful young lady, you should never allow a male to make you feel insecure. You admitted he's a cheater and gets money from other women, this is not someone you should settle down with in a marriage. Co-parent and release yourself from this young man.
The sister setting up the boyfriend is dirty! That sort of thing always causes someone to get hurt in the end.
"Well, you see what happened was someone hacked my phone and sent pictures of my you know what to a woman that I don't know". 😂
I am sorry but, does she really believe that this guy is going to be what she wants him to be when and if they get married. This guy is showing her who and what he is, she knew that from the start.
imagine there are all these problems and you still wanna get married to him crazy
😁 I think the older sister want him for herself... He paying the bills, she just cheap and want him to pay allllll of it but he not going for it... He do seem a little sneaky though... Yeah I said it...💯
How can sis love a man who can’t even say I love you to her baby sis ?😂😂
@@rachidamat268 😂 all I need is you to love me, not your family... All you need is me to love you, not my family...lol
Why would she want to marry him? Her sister is right even if she's wrong. He admitted that he's for the streets.
Finally someone with some receipts!! Literal receipts proof of payment
I know them personally and not a lie was told Bfree ain’t worked in years 😂😂😂
Lmao same and YESSSSS
I’d keep an eye out on that sister 😂👀😂
She needs to build some self esteem up. Ain’t no way! Why you want to deal with heal. Get some self love
The world has so much more to offer,why do they move so fast,in a hurry to have babies and no marriage.i was born in 1949 and we did not have access to what they have now,SAD😢😢😢
We need God in our relationships, marriages & families. Teach our children about Jesus & raise them up the right way. Without him this is why so many issues remain in relationships
So very true. We all need the Lord as our foundation to all life situations starting out young.
Yah...he definitely shadey as hell. She don't need a live in boyfriend for 7 years! He would have married her if he really wanted to..😩😠😠😠😠😠😡
Don't complain now....
For all of the haters ! She’s actually not with him anymore & She’s glowing more than ever 🫶🏾✨
She is still damaged goods. Another baby mama. She is the reason black men are getting their passport. Todays black woman ain’t married or mother material
No one is hating but pointing out the obvious. Telling the truth is not hating. Good thing she is not with him. It is time she knows her worth.
She's beautiful
I’m glad
Another baby mama is not glowing😅
The judge’s makeup is finally perfect. Her outfit’s perfect, hair perfect and absolutely matches her personality. She’s a super sweetheart with honest conclusions/assessments. Love the way she enunciates, computes and carry herself.
If I have to complain about what my man is doing and the lack thereof, even before marriage. I'm out and ending the relationship.I'm running.
Girl, put a twin bed in your son's room and move that dependent into the child's room. And why do you want to marry someone that cheats and doesn't support his family?
Bish stop complaining & continue to be a door mat, if you don't love yourself you can't expect somebody else to do it!
I want him to change.this is the dumbest thing anybody can say.
She has two children and she is inadequate. She trained him well to mistreat her and be irresponsible. He is not even a man!
What's wrong with $200 every occasion?
He had to ask 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can't even take these men seriously.
They are cute sisters though. You go family!
How did they last long enough to come to even be on the show? She should’ve left his cheating ass 7 yrs ago!
This is the outcome when women date men almost the same age as them or below 30 years old age. They are not ready to be a man or husband.
He has been the same since the beginning!! She said they got pregnant early on and had her baby early because he didn't work and help contribute enough!!! Women better wake up and see what's in their face and stop wishing for someone that they don't have and never will in that person! She talking about she want to be married to him??? Wtf for??? He is going to be the same if not worse!! Believe what someone shows you.... want more for yourself!!! Don't set your whole life up to me miserable!!!
Wait a minute he says he pay half she says he don't. Who the hell is lying? He said I have receipts but only showed one for like 330.00 how much is rent?
These two are not mature to be in any relationship with each other.
She is beautiful ❤. She won’t have any problems getting another man.
😂 he’s an very attractive black man and can tell he take care of himself well . He’ll have no problem finding someone else either .
Just cause you’re beautiful doesn’t mean you’re a keeper.
What blows me about these women? They always act like they don't have a decision. You can make the decision to leave if you are unhappy. Stop talking about somebody made you do something you're a grown human being.
I don’t understand the “ I want him to change so I can marry him.” All of these men out here that will treat you like a queen without asking and women go around acting like they don’t have options. He’s cheated. He’s cheap. He’s trifling … according to her, she has no reason to marry him. But yet she wants to.
Judge Starr. That was a whole bar of advice knowledge that I am going to put in my mental rolodex. "Excuses are tools if the incompetent that build monuments of nothingness". 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥
He doesn't have any problem with his marriage according to him 😅😅
Her opening statement made me wonder why she even wanted HIM to put a ring on it.
He can only treat you the way you allow he too. After seven years you need to count your losses and move on yourself. You don't need his approval to go. He's comfortable and not going no where or providing any more then he doing. You stay there and continue to be used.
And you want to still marry him . Com on girl 😳😳😳😳
Gaslighting though. Men who cheat or have questionable behaviors in these streets alwayz say their woman is "insecure". Just they way he carries himself and his facial expressions tell me he thinks he's the sh*t.
3 minutes in and I'm disgusted! You had your pregnant gf working so much with your baby that she went into early labor?! He couldn't even step up to have a healthy child! She was in a delicate state and needed to be taken care of...
Idk how he could feel like a man seeing his son in the NICU knowing it's b/c he wouldn't help his mother... That put both their lives in danger. My 1st husband had his issues, but even he came home from work and ruined my women pregnant feet. I didn't have to work nor want for nothing! This is shameful to hear in this case!
This is why i live by myself
Robert said, Wow! lol
The sister was totally OUT of line. Going forward, I'd feed her with a long handle spoon!
The girlfriend needs to keep her sisters out of her business and out of her ear! And furthermore, I understand she doesn't want her time invested to be a loss, but sometimes we have to lose in order to gain! (gavel)
Cheating for seven years, don't give you enough money..why you with him.
He has to be a Scorpio ♏️
Nah seriously he really does. Somebody that real hard to read and real sneaky. You’ll NEVER REALLY KNOW!!!!
Rubbish
He could also be a Leo 🙃😅🤣🤣
A Leo I agree or Sagittarius lol. No way he’s a Scorpio
Aquarius energy
I left my child’s father when my son was 3. Was it hard yes…… Leave with your dignity or it’s going to haunt you everyday .
She said it! This is how women end up regretting and wasting time. To have so many complaints then say you want to marry him. When asked why, the answer is always something like “I want him to change” “he should step up” “in the beginning, it was great”…. At some point, women have to accept what IS..not what could be, what used to be, or he has the potential be..especially when he’s ok with how he’s operating.
He is a good man who's disillusioned with the relationship.
Lies you know he’s not stop lying
Getting a man is a lot different from keeping a mam...woman need to learn that.
She was quiet when he said he pays for surgery and vacation. Sounds like she wants more money and she’ll be happy 😭 change the 2 to 5 and see what happens King. 😂
He’s not a king. Just a clown.
MAN RUN, THIS WOMAN IS A WEIGHT AROUND YOUR HANDS MAKING THE MONEY.
He knows you’re not gonna leave him. It appears like he is going to waste your time and leave when he find someone else.
He dont love you he's using you