Toxic Masculinity? MGTOW? Stay-at-Home Dads? Today's Feminist Dating World Exposed (Ep. 3 | Seas. 5)

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  • čas přidán 20. 06. 2017
  • On this episode of TheFallenState TV, host Jesse Lee Peterson is joined by love and relationship coach DeAnna Lorraine. Jesse and DeAnna discuss today's biggest dating and relationship topics, including the hookup culture, MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way), 'toxic masculinity,' traditionalism vs. modern feminism, and more! Deanna explains how shy men need to have more "B.A.L.L.S." when it comes to navigating the dating scene, like Donald Trump. They also get into: Are men and women equal? Should there be gender roles in a relationship? Finally, they touch on how modern feminism's goal of destroying 'the patriarchy' has wrought terrible havoc on men, but has been even more disastrous for women.
    Deanna Lorraine's website: www.deannalorraine.com
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  • @mikehauncho4874
    @mikehauncho4874 Před 6 lety +636

    Here's the problem... no one wants equality, everyone wants advantage

    • @rdsginia7499
      @rdsginia7499 Před 6 lety +16

      It's refreshing to read from a man that that women aren't solely to blame for the problems between men and women. I wouldn't say everyone wants an advantage. But, many people do. A desire for equality is rare.
      Will you marry me? LOL

    • @fuckerupper5800
      @fuckerupper5800 Před 6 lety +13

      Equality is earned or achieved.not given.

    • @Hyperlative
      @Hyperlative Před 5 lety +8

      Equality is impossible.

    • @mikehauncho4874
      @mikehauncho4874 Před 5 lety +14

      Equality of opportunity should exist, but it's still up to the individual to earn the opportunity. If two people of any race/sex perform the same at school/work they should be offered the same opportunities, but a lazy person of any race/sex should not be offered those opportunities.
      What we are seeing today is a ton of lazy people DEMANDING opportunities and taking them from hard working people.

    • @theposerhoser
      @theposerhoser Před 5 lety

      The truth hurts

  • @rubygarcia3327
    @rubygarcia3327 Před 3 lety +85

    finally! a woman who is pretty, average weight, personality, and smart!!! this is a once in a lifetime moment.... ladies take notes.

    • @blankmandastankman
      @blankmandastankman Před rokem

      Why ladies take notes, they’ll just weaponize her singleness & say that even being a feminine woman doesn’t get you a husband

    • @sethrymer4610
      @sethrymer4610 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Amaazzinng

    • @rick0757
      @rick0757 Před 11 měsíci +14

      And still single. Something’s not right

    • @lucyterrier7905
      @lucyterrier7905 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@rick0757Hard to find a man that's a real man. They either are burnout, bandana wearing , unkempt , heavy metal men or they are the weak, girly armed , pastel wearing men. Both not willing to stand up & take care of a family . Most women now work outside the home. Mostly because, house work & child care is not seen as work . Real men do see it, but there are very few like that. Only one generation ago, men were real men.

    • @lordkur1
      @lordkur1 Před 9 měsíci

      @@rick0757 well of course single, she has dumb views on everything

  • @2HootHoot
    @2HootHoot Před 4 lety +149

    Feminism has in fact made it tougher to date

    • @eldal1101
      @eldal1101 Před 3 lety +2

      You know it’s mostly just women that’s the problem. Men just wanna have a nice girl that not trying to be to much and a leader

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 Před 3 lety +2

      No shit,Sherlock.

    • @pabloks5523
      @pabloks5523 Před 3 lety +5

      Even without Feminism, Nowadays men shouldn't chase Girls 😉

    • @craftsmanshippalace7777
      @craftsmanshippalace7777 Před 2 lety +3

      na just seek GODS kingdom and he’ll take care of the rest keep in mind he created the person just like he created you

  • @macdividinz2789
    @macdividinz2789 Před rokem +29

    She is absolutely amazing. I love her attitude, and her intellectual and concise way of explaining things.

  • @PipByMac
    @PipByMac Před 6 lety +34

    "Being a mechanic is a man's job."
    "OMG HOW DARE YOU SAY A WOMAN CANT BE A MECHANIC."
    "Oh, I'm sorry. How many of your female friends are mechanics?"
    *fucking. crickets.*

  • @666jammer
    @666jammer Před 6 lety +285

    I drove thru a Whataburger last weekend down in Texas and usually I like to ask the person their name to thank them personally. This time it ended up being a college gal, and when I asked she replied, "the name my mother gave me".
    I was so taken back and weirded out by it, I asked for my CC back before she could charge it and left. Feminism is so toxic.

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 Před 6 lety +10

      I love Whataburger

    • @KaylaJane
      @KaylaJane Před 5 lety +25

      In all fairness, how could she have possibly responded in a kind way if she didn't want to give you her name? She had a right to be concerned for her safety. She may have felt apprehensive giving her name for the fear you might have been watching her. I know that wasn't the case but you can't blame a woman for being concerned especially when she's working.
      It is nice of you to thank those serving you but just words of advice when asking for someone's name personally while they're working - better not to and just thank them. Please don't take it personally though - I'm sure you meant well!

    • @Greyslayer76
      @Greyslayer76 Před 5 lety +62

      KalenaBean - Of course she should be concerned if someone like Jerome asks what her name is. Jerome is a man and asking a name is indicative of sexual predation. The correlation between asking for a name and rape is well established. Blame a woman for being concerned while she is working? Not at all, I mean, if she were in a dark alley filled with leering men, asking her name is much more appropriate, but at work...whew, terrifying.

    • @tobihq2481
      @tobihq2481 Před 5 lety +8

      I would say.. “Oh, so you’re one of those ugly virgin feminists manhaters ayy.. good like finding a man” 😎👀

    • @seanfallo592
      @seanfallo592 Před 5 lety +3

      Whataburger is awesome, and Freddy's

  • @ladpants
    @ladpants Před 5 lety +178

    She's reasonable and displays logic, I'm officially turned on..

    • @jbouchard1780
      @jbouchard1780 Před 3 lety +12

      AND HOT

    • @evathespeaker9537
      @evathespeaker9537 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/fFR0E8LfRBw/video.html

    • @williamsherman1089
      @williamsherman1089 Před 3 lety +3

      Stay away from my girl dude! 🤣, she hasn't met me yet but I'm sure she will fall in love with me instantly...........as long as she can overlook the 20-25 year age difference.

    • @HalloJochen
      @HalloJochen Před 3 lety

      You're saying she's masculine?

    • @GhostCuete369
      @GhostCuete369 Před 3 lety +11

      Betas

  • @Furvus_Mortem
    @Furvus_Mortem Před 5 lety +15

    Holy crap this woman gives me hope for some of our women. I know alot of my friends have given up on dating. If they even knew there was a handful of women like her out there they be all over this shit.

  • @Humblethyself656
    @Humblethyself656 Před 6 lety +27

    As I woman it's refreshing to hear another real woman with common sense speak and not be afraid to tell the truth.

    • @TRafael82
      @TRafael82 Před 7 měsíci

      This is not a real woman.

  • @MGTOWPsyche
    @MGTOWPsyche Před 7 lety +785

    GUYS!!! NEVER take dating advice from women.....

    • @hudsonjamesc
      @hudsonjamesc Před 7 lety +6

      Why is that? Explain

    • @Bob-fz7pd
      @Bob-fz7pd Před 7 lety +60

      MGTOW Psyche especially if their wearing 9" heels.

    • @MGTOWPsyche
      @MGTOWPsyche Před 7 lety +18

      +Robert Osborne hahaha

    • @exioz99
      @exioz99 Před 7 lety

      MGTOW Psyche but she is right doe...she know who is the problem

    • @mrnpc2323
      @mrnpc2323 Před 7 lety +49

      DeAnna Lorraine
      That's the best analogy you can come up with?
      You aren't even married yet I'm supposed to take relationship advice from you?
      I take it you're the same female that believes a woman can parent a boy by herself and teach him what he needs to be a man?
      How many women have you dated? Lol idiot

  • @MrLindeman
    @MrLindeman Před 5 lety +246

    Talking to women today
    Me: hey how are you
    Them: I'm fine
    Me: I'm good thanks for asking.
    Them:.............

    • @trisbur5023
      @trisbur5023 Před 5 lety +48

      I know right? I fucking love it!
      In her 20's: "I'm fine, fuck off"
      In her 30's "I'm fine, FUCK ME!"

    • @solenya4983
      @solenya4983 Před 5 lety +19

      To be fair, no one has to care how you are. Just because you ask, doesn't mean they're obligated to. This applies to anyone.

    • @HalferLandPerformance
      @HalferLandPerformance Před 5 lety +29

      Solenya There’s the problem, you seem to not care as the rest. If someone is asking how you are, most likely you have at least met that person on multiple occasions. Something called common courtesy is out the door. Just as if my child ever brings a partner home who isn’t COURTEOUS will not step foot in my house!

    • @ThePathStrider
      @ThePathStrider Před 5 lety +1

      That's me as well, but then I'm a bloke with social issues.

    • @nstephens66
      @nstephens66 Před 5 lety +10

      Go to church and do right. You will meet someone

  • @dr.boinkersbookkeeping9028
    @dr.boinkersbookkeeping9028 Před 5 lety +81

    She is a fine and smart woman, it's not easy for her to find a match for herself, I dig that. Men with depth and spirituality are almost extinct. Same goes for women. It's like two blind people are floating in deep space hoping to collide at one point in time.

    • @caymanhilldesigns453
      @caymanhilldesigns453 Před 5 lety +21

      Shes damn near 80 and not married. She aint no catch man. Stay strong and dont fall for it.

    • @chili40m
      @chili40m Před 5 lety

      That is a great analogy.

    • @chili40m
      @chili40m Před 5 lety +5

      I also realized that a woman is not really design to fall in love with a man. Because if she was, or, if they are, then it shouldn't matters what a man has or not to attract the any lady or woman who he desires, as long as he's willingly to grow.
      Plus a woman should be able to process some those familiar qualities same as a man is doing or has done. Hence! If a lady/woman looking for a man for what he has outside of his character, then she's clearly not the lady for him.

    • @eyesofagemini7715
      @eyesofagemini7715 Před 5 lety +2

      @@chili40m I like the way you phrased that last paragraph. I've had women love me all my life, i give my women hope & even if i dont deliver or dissapoint them, ive already tested them so its a fair exchange. Thats all im asking for anyway, cause marrige is not an option.

    • @chili40m
      @chili40m Před 5 lety +4

      @@eyesofagemini7715 Yep! They're not designed to fall in with love us, outside of their own imagination.
      Because the perfect man only existed inside of their heads.

  • @abruzz0
    @abruzz0 Před 7 lety +564

    i'm not afraid to approach and talk to women. it's just a waste of time.

    • @valken666
      @valken666 Před 7 lety

      Exactly. If I wanted to be promiscuous prostitutes are way nicer and sexy.

    • @mak7eye
      @mak7eye Před 6 lety +47

      No Refunds this is the absolute truth

    • @captainz9
      @captainz9 Před 6 lety +97

      These days if you're not someone she wants approaching her its sexual harassment and potentially job/life destroying.

    • @rdsginia7499
      @rdsginia7499 Před 6 lety

      Why do you feel that way? Please explain.

    • @scottgurstein
      @scottgurstein Před 6 lety +14

      CaptainZ, *exactly.* You got it spot on. So DON'T do it. If you have even 1/1000th of a percent doubt that she wants you approaching her, DON'T. Go on about your business.

  • @junkyardinspace6604
    @junkyardinspace6604 Před 7 lety +67

    Women's Choices: Stay at home Mom and do whatever they want, Work when they want/Part time, Work full time.
    Men's Choices: Work full time, Work full time, Work full time, Die.

    • @valken666
      @valken666 Před 7 lety +1

      And then they complain they earn less, even if women under their 30's are earning 8% more than males of the same age, without doing dangerous jobs (men make 97% of work related deaths). And I still see women saying feminism is a great necessity in the west, all is a sad joke on men.

    • @TheLeon1032
      @TheLeon1032 Před 5 lety +2

      youve been brain washed, you have a choice!!

    • @davidturner1641
      @davidturner1641 Před 5 lety

      Funny
      Feels true

    • @Kim2887
      @Kim2887 Před 5 lety +1

      Hmm. No. Both my husband and I have to work full time. Most middle class couples do nowadays. Where the hell are you from?

    • @Kim2887
      @Kim2887 Před 5 lety +1

      @SMS101productions Actually we do have a small ranch home, that's not in the greatest of neighborhoods. Been here so long the mortgage is cheaper than renting an apartment. His car is 12 years old and mine is 16 years old. You could've left a comment without being as ass about it, but I guess that's what happens when you assume.

  • @metal-zl3sw
    @metal-zl3sw Před 2 lety +12

    What profound interview, Jesse. You guys every nail on the head.

  • @servantkingtv2821
    @servantkingtv2821 Před 5 lety +60

    Is it me or is all the relationship coaches single?

    • @TheGhostDogg100
      @TheGhostDogg100 Před 3 lety +8

      They never practice what they preach. I take them with a grain of salt.

    • @robertristow3322
      @robertristow3322 Před 3 lety +1

      The cobbler always needs new shoes, the roofers house always needs a new roof

    • @bigschocolate
      @bigschocolate Před 2 lety +1

      😬😬

  • @hoptoads
    @hoptoads Před 7 lety +325

    MGTOW : Men Getting Their Own Wallets back.

    • @drshlotzkin
      @drshlotzkin Před 7 lety +16

      That's what you think. Major bachelor taxes are coming.

    • @WorldwideJamal
      @WorldwideJamal Před 6 lety +1

      drshlotzkin What you mean by bachelor taxes?

    • @Chaso-1124
      @Chaso-1124 Před 6 lety +10

      VideoSensei taxes on single people. this technically already exists because married people get a little tax cut. this is based on the idea that these taxes will incentivise marriage and reproducing based on the falling birth rate. they will either do that or bring in people from other countries (usually third world and is already happening)

    • @WorldwideJamal
      @WorldwideJamal Před 6 lety +1

      nightstalker1124 Appreciate that game.

    • @chippledon1
      @chippledon1 Před 6 lety

      Tha Grey Man: Beautiful!!!

  • @KrustyMillennial
    @KrustyMillennial Před 5 lety +122

    Ever notice these kinds of conversations automatically steer towards what men can do differently in relationships and women never get criticized and never get speculated....only men need to change, women are perfect the way they are. I am fed up.

    • @evathespeaker9537
      @evathespeaker9537 Před 3 lety

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    • @OkabexKurisu
      @OkabexKurisu Před 3 lety +2

      @@Ericaamor888 I dont think you'd listen. She was full of contradictions.

    • @brilliancewinz81
      @brilliancewinz81 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Ericaamor888 He listened. She described shy men as being scared. What about we are skeptical of people in general and won't to get a good read on people first. Why do people always jump to the negative when describing something or someone that they are different from.

    • @christianbogado3029
      @christianbogado3029 Před 3 lety +6

      But they were also talking about how feminism is ruining women by them trying to be equal and even superior to men.

    • @miked2090
      @miked2090 Před 3 lety

      ...ya dont say.

  • @watitduful
    @watitduful Před 3 lety +5

    I can’t take her serious. On one hand she’s clowning men for not living up to her idea of “assertiveness” but at the same time touches on women trying to battle with men, feminismm/misandryy, and the like. She pretty much answered the question as to why some men aren’t apt to act “assertive” as it can have legal ramifications or worse.
    The question I would ask her is why does she or these other type of women care about these men if by definition they don’t meet up to her standards? It makes no sense to me. Why not just get one of these desirable men and call it a day? It’s not about what she’s saying, it’s really about what she’s not saying. I personally think that the women who talk like her are typically single, just as she is, because they can’t get the men they deem as desirable. Now check this out, if the men she deems as non assertive aren’t giving her the time of day then what is she left with? Nothing! Do the math guys. 0+0=0
    She doing a lot of projecting and this match making stuff is a hustle she’s running. Only a fool’s would take dating and mating advice from someone who’s track record contradicts what they’re selling lol.

  • @ariananene120
    @ariananene120 Před rokem +2

    Unbelievable how this chanel has a video from 5 years ago but I've never had it recommended by CZcams. Found through other people's reactions, amazin

  • @Carrot_Handler
    @Carrot_Handler Před 7 lety +41

    I'm a fearless guy, I'm a boxer and in all honesty I don't fear women when it comes to approaching them... I hesitate mainly because I have had several long term relationships that were ended by women and the relationships have all been a joke in sense that these women all want to be the man in a relationship and when they realise that I won't bend they leave. The age of the traditional male and female marriage is over... Its why I hesitate, do I really want to go through that again?... The answer is usually no.
    Tesla was right when he said he lost his passion for women when the feminist mentality took over, it slowly started to erode away what men are attracted to what in all honesty we cherish in women. Women want to be men now and men don't actually want that in a relationship we want real women.
    This woman is trying her best to hide the fact that the dating pool of real women is less than 10% in western society.
    I gave up looking. I focus on my career and my family.
    Modern day traditionalism has been cherry picked... Women who say they want traditionalism in the west at this age is like a Muslim who doesn't pray and drinks. Would you finance a 1999 Pontiac with 100,000 miles on it?... No. Women only want traditionalism once they come close to the wall... The 18-25 year old version of this women would not be saying this.

    • @HeadshooterGTAS
      @HeadshooterGTAS Před 6 lety

      yep but that's still exist i live in france and french women are not as easier to pick up than americans girls.

    • @markeedeep
      @markeedeep Před 4 lety

      Gde je to Tesla rekao?

    • @shadow-man8715
      @shadow-man8715 Před 4 lety

      I've been hearing feminism is one big shit test for men to know which men are the weak men and strong men and most men are failing it. And they are failing it because no one has time to be dealing with women and their shit tests.

    • @Mshabbak
      @Mshabbak Před 3 lety

      Us women who loves the order of God and want to be led, suffer too since most men are weak. I get you.

  • @TheBlackdragon936
    @TheBlackdragon936 Před 7 lety +51

    Don't be vulnerable with women. They will you it against you emotionally in fights. Only share what you know won't hurt you to keep her at bay.

    • @TheFallenStateTV
      @TheFallenStateTV  Před 7 lety +2

      Call my radio show and we're actually talking MGTOW this morning and I'd love your take
      📞 888-775-3773 9am to Noon ET/6am to 9am PT

    • @RD-uq6qk
      @RD-uq6qk Před 7 lety +10

      TheFallenState
      One issue MGTOW self claim anti feminism and traditionalist women.
      They just remove the feminist label but wish to keep the feminism legacy.
      That another deception.
      Manipulative tactics.
      They understand shaming tactics will not.work with MGTOW.
      MGTOW predicr long time ago women will change their tactics and like camelon pretend they are different wand not all women are like that(NAWALT) and wish tp go back traditionalism
      Tradionnalisn imply to give back the men authority over it wife children and finance.
      We all know the scirptures said women was made for the men and he shall rule over his wife.
      And equality does not respect and contradict the scriptures and the natural order.
      When women have an issue it soiciety problem.
      When men have an issue it their fault.
      You see that hypocrysis and double standard.
      Let be honest must.westenized had not beem groommwd to wife material.They are submissive lacking lady like manner,cooking skill,humility,feminity,moral values.
      You may dislike MGTOW but I strongly suggest to look the Herbivormen they are the future of the westenized countries.
      Regarding Red pill knowledge and MGTOW.
      Lete remind you a Gandhi Quote:
      First they ignore you,Then they mock you Then they fight you and finnally you win.
      And now the society it attacking MGTOW.
      And to finish I agree with one thing she said on rhe long run women will hurt themsleves.
      Men are leaving the gynocentric plantation and the welfare state is cutting the welfare benefits.
      You know the scriptures
      ISAIAH 4:1

    • @valken666
      @valken666 Před 7 lety +3

      Women will create fights for nothing just to try to dominate you, and once they succeed they will leave for the next guy.

    • @Fpaiva00
      @Fpaiva00 Před 7 lety

      you said truth there mate

    • @nverquit37
      @nverquit37 Před 7 lety +7

      I'm sorry but Jack you are chalk full of shit on this one. If a man tells his woman the truth about something that exposes him, he might as well be giving her a loaded gun. She will fire at will. It's the truth, it's sad that you can't see or admit it.

  • @NatashasReality
    @NatashasReality Před 5 lety +80

    Many of us women feel the exact same as you. Thanks for being a voice 🙏

    • @neohg13blaze89
      @neohg13blaze89 Před 5 lety +3

      Oh Please Woman, Your Pathetic

    • @NatashasReality
      @NatashasReality Před 5 lety +4

      Says you..

    • @NatashasReality
      @NatashasReality Před 4 lety +5

      Hank Hill lol awe. As enticing as that sounds, they’re trained very well. You enjoy your bitter existence 😎.

    • @chudbo8751
      @chudbo8751 Před 4 lety +1

      @@NatashasReality shoulda hit em with an 're*

    • @christophermcgirt6198
      @christophermcgirt6198 Před 4 lety +3

      @@NatashasReality I know you're not worried about these bitter beta's words..

  • @gov3rnor17
    @gov3rnor17 Před 4 lety +10

    “ _Dont touch me, don’t talk to me, I don’t wanna hug uppp, why you still hereee!_ “
    This is facts😂😂😭I need to overcome y’all

  • @Melanie_fan408
    @Melanie_fan408 Před 6 lety +788

    too many 7s acting like 10s,

    • @Sombra_Azul_
      @Sombra_Azul_ Před 6 lety +109

      joey pez Perez Truly! And too many 4s aiming for 9s

    • @jonathanfarley2023
      @jonathanfarley2023 Před 6 lety +67

      The irony is that I prefer to approach 9's and 10's because they are nicer than 7's and 8's.

    • @jonathanfarley2023
      @jonathanfarley2023 Před 6 lety +28

      +Transcendent Sacred Courage You're the one insulting people while hiding behind a pseudonym.
      From my understanding of the term "simp," it doesn't apply to my comment. I didn't say I was serving or intended to serve the women I approach. Unless your definition is that any man who approaches any woman is a "simp," in which case your father is a simp. Idiot.

    • @jetrpg22
      @jetrpg22 Před 6 lety +10

      Nahh Joey they were 7s at one point, before a countless pump and dumps. they wanna act like 7s but now that shit is broken and they aren't even 2s.

    • @SD-dq9dw
      @SD-dq9dw Před 6 lety +2

      joey pez Perez 5's*

  • @johnrobinson4939
    @johnrobinson4939 Před 6 lety +152

    My wife and I have been married for 32 years now and both of us have ALWAYS worked and shared responsibility for OUR house and children . And I will say it is a 24/7 job , but it has been worth EVERY minute of the pain and the joy . But now we are empty nesters ( whooohoooo) . Now it's our time to go and do and enjoy our grandchildren , life is good.

    • @stevet6665
      @stevet6665 Před 5 lety +22

      There's one thing I can be certain of from your comment: Your wife is not a female supremacist (modern day feminist).

    • @whysoserious9535
      @whysoserious9535 Před 5 lety +12

      Your wife probably been going behind your back for the past 30 years 🤣

    • @flusteredtorchic9024
      @flusteredtorchic9024 Před 5 lety +3

      Yea but she probably cheated on you

    • @whysoserious9535
      @whysoserious9535 Před 5 lety +5

      @Ray Vorontsoff only a fool would belive any women is loyal, fuck them and leave them baby 😂

    • @albertpantoja140
      @albertpantoja140 Před 5 lety +3

      Mr. John Robinson, I am with you 100% and much more like a nice round of golf... lol
      My best moments of my day is laughing, talking, hugging, kissing and having fun with my grandchildren...
      Grandchildren are the dessert of life.
      I wish you many more years of health and joy.

  • @ryanpedersen5722
    @ryanpedersen5722 Před 5 lety +16

    I love this woman she seems so rational and appreciates men! What a change, would make a good supportive wife

    • @brennendehexe7934
      @brennendehexe7934 Před 5 měsíci

      Nope dude. Shes just the psychologist version of an onlyfans girl

  • @mikebri5274
    @mikebri5274 Před 3 lety +32

    Men..... NEVER, NEVER, NEVER take dating and relationship advise solely from a woman. Yes, listen to what they say but DEFINITELY seek advise from a male relationship dating coach as well. Perhaps for every female you get advice from, get advice from two men.

    • @jan.mal.1284
      @jan.mal.1284 Před 3 lety

      Men, please don't take advices from male coaches as well. Instead of teaching you how to be strong and content, they will teach you how to constantly "improve" yourself in order to be successful with wheaemen. You will never be in peace with yourself this way.

    • @badger3184
      @badger3184 Před 3 lety +1

      I always tell ppl to never listen female youtubers who give relationship advice. It's all nonsense. These females never dated women. And these guys buy it up. It's ridiculous.

  • @AarmOZ84
    @AarmOZ84 Před 7 lety +359

    Woman: I want a man who is successful in life.
    Translation: I want a man who can afford the lifestyle I choose to become accustomed too.

    • @am4252
      @am4252 Před 6 lety +5

      Aaron Hart lmfao no, wanting someone successful means that we don’t want a man who can’t support himself, who isn’t driven, and who doesn’t work as hard as we do.

    • @oguzoflaz270
      @oguzoflaz270 Před 6 lety +41

      am 425 "who doesn't work as hard as we do" 😥 With other words you want someone who works more then you snd earns more money so he can do what exactly? right afford your lifestyle

    • @am4252
      @am4252 Před 6 lety +3

      Oguz Oflaz huh? I don’t think you read my comment right. I work hard and I want a man who works equally as hard and is as driven as I am. How the fuck did u get “you want him to be able to afford your life style” from that? I want him to be able to financially support himself, not me. He doesn’t have to make as much money as me but he should be as motivated and driven as I am. I never said “work more” than me.

    • @oguzoflaz270
      @oguzoflaz270 Před 6 lety +19

      am 425 well it's fair to expect someone do equal effort for their relationship. But IF you want children he must make much money most likely more money then you. You can't work while pregnant and while taking care of the children. so he has to provide.

    • @am4252
      @am4252 Před 6 lety +1

      Oguz Oflaz 1. Growing and caring for a child is work. 2 many women work while pregnant. Most of my friends with children worked up until the week they gave birth, they then took a couple weeks off to get the baby settled and then went back to work. 3 I don’t want children but if I did me and my husband would have a conversation about what was best for our family. The result of that conversation would most likely be whoever makes the most money will go back to work and the other will stay home with the child. Once we feel the child is old enough to attend a daycare they the other person would go back to work. If we couldn’t afford to not have both of us working then I imagine one of us would work during the day and the other would work at night so someone would always be home with the child and occasionally using a babysitter when needed. If one of us made a enough money to cover the bills on their own for a long period of time then that person would work while the other person stayed home raising the baby bc we think it’s important for parents to be very involved but it’s unlikely either of us would make enough to afford that.

  • @whateverhappened2
    @whateverhappened2 Před 7 lety +41

    the the answer is MAN UP!!! and keep looking really!!!! hear are some stats
    1. No fault divorce, courts treats it like a business (contract Law, defined penalties) however, modern marriage has no defined penalties or structure (however has less, or cares less wins).
    2. Lifetime Alimony in an age of equality.
    3. Men have no parental rights (no department of parental equality or visitations).
    4. Child support (Federal Social Security Act, Title IV, Part D, Section 458) roughly 1 dollar for every dollar collected.
    5. 50% total divorce rate (70% for African Americans), 75% if the women makes more, and 85% after bariatric surgery (weight loss).
    6. 70% loss of assets (50% to spouse 20% to lawyer fees),
    7. 5-15 years to recuperate financial from divorce.
    8. Divorce generates 23 billion dollars family courts, 50 billion dollars for lawyers, 500 billion in child support (refer back to 4.), there is no incentive for efficiency when lawyers are getting paid by the hour. (Divorce Corp Movie)

    • @onyourface207
      @onyourface207 Před 6 lety +4

      9: she not letting you see you own kids because she want that little bit more power.

    • @yarddog8273
      @yarddog8273 Před 5 lety +1

      @@onyourface207 It takes a pathetic soul to use children as leverage. Amazing how true colors come out when it's too late to realize it.

    • @onyourface207
      @onyourface207 Před 5 lety

      Yard Dog that's right, bit like a drunk person...
      The utter most worse thing is, the mother is going to teach your kid that you (the father) are a bad person, and to hate you.

  • @25schmeckles55
    @25schmeckles55 Před 5 lety +8

    SUCH NEGATIVITY in the comments.. I think this was a wonderfull conversation, especialy from her side!

  • @prelitigation1
    @prelitigation1 Před 4 lety +4

    Jesse! I started watching your videos about 5 days ago and have watched maybe 40 of them. FINALLY someone worth hearing from. Props to her!

    • @deek177
      @deek177 Před 2 lety +1

      ditto!!! I should have gone to bed 2 hours ago but I can't stop!!!

    • @prelitigation1
      @prelitigation1 Před 2 lety +1

      @@deek177 thanx for reminding me about it. About to watch it again 😁

    • @deek177
      @deek177 Před 2 lety +2

      @@prelitigation1 my pleasure!

  • @jamesedwards.1069
    @jamesedwards.1069 Před 7 lety +35

    Quoting Gary Unmarried: "Men should be afraid of women, they pretend to like you then they take all your stuff."

  • @Dbulkss
    @Dbulkss Před 6 lety +250

    Immediately notice how humble and grounded she is. No egoic nature involved. She is a good role model 😊

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 5 lety +17

      Yes she is....most men would find her pleasant to be around

    • @alexisbell8428
      @alexisbell8428 Před 5 lety +19

      Keyword "Pleasant" to be around. But 4 how long tho?

    • @pleasebringmeback
      @pleasebringmeback Před 5 lety +6

      @Alexis Bell
      Before she realises this man loses his 6 figure income and she can't show her face around her family/friends anymore without the thought of losing face.

    • @theworkshopmechanicchannel3296
      @theworkshopmechanicchannel3296 Před 5 lety

      Dominicanbulk
      Were you smoking when you made your comment??
      🤭😂😂

    • @fullmetal130
      @fullmetal130 Před 5 lety

      It’s cause she is really a man

  • @jakefrost7404
    @jakefrost7404 Před 5 lety +18

    Commendable for trying to change things at ground level, but if the Family Court and other legal biases are not addressed and corrected, then the downward spiral will continue.

  • @samuelaggray4680
    @samuelaggray4680 Před rokem +5

    This interview is super! I admire her position about males and how partnership should work. Wish the whole world heard this

  • @jpollar
    @jpollar Před 7 lety +20

    We're just not interested anymore ladies. We already know that you take more than you give. I don't think fear plays into it until you're talking about unwanted pregnancies, STDs, and fucking false rape accusations. These are all a result of being somewhat "successful" with women.

  • @kayahshaynz3761
    @kayahshaynz3761 Před 5 lety +49

    Shes the most sensible person ive seen being interviewed on this channel hahaha

  • @josephcatsanchez6590
    @josephcatsanchez6590 Před 5 lety +2

    GREAT SHOW, GREAT INTERVIEW!

  • @Peter_Parker69
    @Peter_Parker69 Před 4 lety +40

    the expert is single, post wall and wants to marry..that's all

    • @whocares5665
      @whocares5665 Před 3 lety +3

      She top quality no cap

    • @OkabexKurisu
      @OkabexKurisu Před 3 lety +4

      @@whocares5665 she doesnt seem to understand her own hypergamy

    • @imjaysn8743
      @imjaysn8743 Před 3 lety +2

      Agreed. I think she’s looking for this ultra superior hyper masculine man, but he just doesn’t exist

    • @elonever.2.071
      @elonever.2.071 Před 3 lety

      @@imjaysn8743
      She probably is and that is her right. At least she isnt playing men for self validation. I am sure that a perk of her dating coach gig is she is hoping to find her prince in the bramble.

    • @theadmiralyi8760
      @theadmiralyi8760 Před 3 lety +1

      @@elonever.2.071 you're opinion is too unrealistic

  • @stormgazer418
    @stormgazer418 Před 7 lety +140

    The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

  • @systematic101
    @systematic101 Před 7 lety +66

    "women are attracted by different things". The size of the mans bank account. Just say it.
    I noticed a huge shift in how women looked at me once I became wealthy. Women that wouldn't give me the time a day suddenly want to chat and have drinks. This is especially true when they see the Audi R8.

    • @vatosolo9230
      @vatosolo9230 Před 7 lety

      Money is the universal aphrodisiac for women. Just like personal responsibility is all women's kryptonite.
      A woman will separate you from your money just as easily as they will separate you from your children. False child sexual abuse allegations. And that's it... you're done. Divorced, lose your house, car, money and job eventually as your name gets smeared all over the news without any evidence.
      Don't even go into marriage. Don't live with women, don't let them live with you. Just pump and dump if you want or get a passport if you are wealthy enough and TRAVEL. What's wrong with hitting up professionals in other countries where prostitution is legal...
      www.internationalsexguide.info
      www.esteticamasculinadannys.com.mx/

    • @williamschlass4598
      @williamschlass4598 Před 6 lety +1

      GracyP'sBooks&Beauty did he say he hates women or that women are evil? Hes pointing out that women are dishonest and hypocritical

    • @tonejack1
      @tonejack1 Před 5 lety

      Batman needs his batmobile.

    • @yarddog8273
      @yarddog8273 Před 5 lety

      @@sweetbutter2179 Why on Earth should men be attracted to women who slowly kill themselves by not taking care of themselves?

    • @sweetbutter2179
      @sweetbutter2179 Před 5 lety +2

      @@yarddog8273 exactly! I agree! And what woman wants a man that doesn't take care of himself by following his purpose in life? Most men that hate women are the ones who allow women to take advantage of them. No man should pay a woman's bills unless they are married. Pay for dinner/dates. That's it. Dome men try to buy a womans affections by buying expensive gifts or paying her bills. Anyway. I love Jesse and agree with his point of view..
      I commented because of these men on here who lump all women together. It's wrong.

  • @BalboaBaggins
    @BalboaBaggins Před 3 lety +2

    She says some good things. But I don't think most dating coaches realize how big the group of men that have completely given up on dating has become.

  • @glaoriginal
    @glaoriginal Před 5 lety +6

    Love everything she said. Yes!
    And judging from Jesse's face , he did too😆.

  • @tocoki6701
    @tocoki6701 Před 6 lety +69

    A woman's loss of interest in a man, once he share's his vulnerability with a woman, is not a myth.

    • @masteredultrainstinctgoku7330
      @masteredultrainstinctgoku7330 Před 6 lety +1

      So true

    • @jetrpg22
      @jetrpg22 Před 6 lety +2

      Only true for the ho

    • @candyluna2929
      @candyluna2929 Před 6 lety

      Toc Oki what type of vulnerability

    • @stvia
      @stvia Před 6 lety +1

      Depends on the kind of relationship you have with her. If you're in a serious relationship, it brings you closer. If she's almost a stranger, of course she loses interest, just like any men would when a woman does the same

    • @SD-dq9dw
      @SD-dq9dw Před 6 lety

      stvia i wouldn't lose interest if a woman opened up at all. Infact it would be very refreshing. I think people misunderstand what opening up means. It doesn't mean that all of a sudden the fun has to end and that bubbly energetic woman you like suddenly becomes boring and needy. There's something wrong with peoples brains if that happens. That's borderline psychopathy.....only beginning a relationship with someone just so they can prove to themselves that they can "have you"...a power thing then move onto someone else and the cycle repeats. It's bizarre, needy and narcissistic. People like that are toxic as fuck. What hapoened to 2 people dating because they like each other and being honest with each other? Ok perhaps that person doesn't want to open up to a perticular person...ok then don't date then...don't wait until they fall for you then break their heart when you decide "it's not gonna work" that's like targeted hatred.

  • @ThatGoblinShow
    @ThatGoblinShow Před 7 lety +11

    someone wake me when feminism falls, divorce laws change, and women start giving a shit about relationships....

    • @valken666
      @valken666 Před 7 lety

      Laws will only change when Sharia is implemented, some places already have it. That's the only way to be free of feminism right now.

  • @daniele.2944
    @daniele.2944 Před 5 lety

    I have spent a long time cultivating my masculinity while reducing my ego as much as possible. . . and I am currently pursuing a strong feminist type woman, and my god. She has such a hard time respecting me, she'll go out of her way to avoid feeding my ego at all, because she (unconsciously) wishes to make me weaker than her. I resonate with this video so strongly.

  • @faoladh5177
    @faoladh5177 Před 5 lety +2

    Stay at home Dad is a BIG mistake. I did it and it DOOMED our relationship. We were so close before that, but after she lost respect for me and I ended up feeling nothing but contempt for her. It also negatively affected her ability to Mother our Daughter, as well as negatively affecting our Daughter in her ability to relate to her Mother and even her ability to relate to Men now that she's grown up. I did a great disservice to my Family by not behaving like a real Man. I tried but I was tricked by the narrative of the day and was foolish enough to go along with it. Please Men, do not be a stay at home Dad. Be the Provider and Protector that you were designed to be. Be kind and supportive and protective of your Family and helpful to your Neighbor.

  • @channel1800dumb
    @channel1800dumb Před 7 lety +87

    Yawn.......MGTOW FOREVER, simple and logical and beneficial!

    • @vatosolo9230
      @vatosolo9230 Před 7 lety

      Hell yeah! #MGTOWFOREVER!
      www.internationalsexguide.info
      $20 USD for half hour full service sex... $30 USD for full service sex for 1 full hour. Guadalajara, Mexico!
      www.esteticamasculinaximena.com/
      www.esteticamasculinadannys.com.mx/
      I'm in Guad right now and just enjoyed a nice session! And I'm MGTOW. (going again tomorrow ;)

    • @DirtyMagurt
      @DirtyMagurt Před 6 lety +2

      Nailed it !!

    • @cocobitz7730
      @cocobitz7730 Před 6 lety +3

      I see you are man of culture as well.

    • @Fusionfreakdrummer
      @Fusionfreakdrummer Před 3 lety

      😉👍 thats what pro clean sex workers are for........👍👍👍👍

  • @amymcgraw771
    @amymcgraw771 Před 6 lety +53

    Oh my word!!! She’s my favorite of all your guests EVER!!! She’s absolutely amazing and it’s totally refreshing to hear a young lady with wholesome morals and values.

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara Před 2 lety

      So awesome no man has married her 🤣

    • @thekingschartered239
      @thekingschartered239 Před rokem

      Agreed. Second to Apostle Gino Jennings

    • @ENKI-THE-GOD
      @ENKI-THE-GOD Před 10 měsíci

      She is lying said she wants a strong man hooking for text and values and kids and family because then she associated that with why would you call shala I'm not shallow for that no you're thinking of you just want a man with money I want a man that can give you things and that's why you said the word shallow right after that see how the brain women shallow because they want shiny things and possessions we know why we call women shallow you don't want a man that can protect you when you're going with skinny guys and nerd and dork's they got Lamborghini's And Bill Gates and Elon Musk can get any girl😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @ENKI-THE-GOD
      @ENKI-THE-GOD Před 10 měsíci

      😮😮😮 We know why we call women Shallow .😊😊😊😊😊

    • @ENKI-THE-GOD
      @ENKI-THE-GOD Před 10 měsíci

      😂😂😮 Women don't need a strong guy anymore They can just call the Police. designed it now to Just have money you could be skinny with a lamborghini the woman just got a normal one call on her cell phone she needs somebody to protect her😂😂😂😂😂

  • @truthisloud39
    @truthisloud39 Před 5 lety +2

    I always look forward to the music choices at the end of these videos..80's hair metal!! Woot woot!

  • @charlamagnum2576
    @charlamagnum2576 Před 7 lety +125

    Men have to do this men have to do that? men have to man up, be social, be a go getter, stand up for themselves??!
    MEN MEN MEN....its always men who HAVE to...who MUST do everything..
    I am done pleasing whores

    • @Alberto-ku2yu
      @Alberto-ku2yu Před 6 lety +13

      Charla Magnum You are weak, the interview is focused on men to a men public. Stop crying and grow some balls, reallity is shit now but we cant just surrender.

    • @williamschlass4598
      @williamschlass4598 Před 6 lety +7

      Maybe youre just attracting whores because youre vapid.... men take responsibility and bear the burden. Thats what it is to be a man were literally built for it. Keep running away from responsibility and adversity see how that works out for you in the long run

    • @hannahpea29
      @hannahpea29 Před 6 lety +6

      Maybe you missed the part of the interview where she mentioned how toxic female behavior was becoming...

    • @mypackmypower1996
      @mypackmypower1996 Před 6 lety +2

      William Schlass i think living up for himself will be best in long run

    • @meatmouse2854
      @meatmouse2854 Před 6 lety +2

      the double standards are cringe worthy.

  • @andyknolls8735
    @andyknolls8735 Před 7 lety +13

    I just love how they talk about MGTOW but never have a MGTOW on their show.

    • @endthefed1448
      @endthefed1448 Před 6 lety

      Andy Knolls they know what would happen. Lol. Their ass handed to them. MGTOW ftw.

  • @FedupwitDC
    @FedupwitDC Před rokem +1

    Refreshing to hear this lady speak truth. She in no way relegated men to lesser than, or disrespected women. She believes in traditional roles, values, and seems she would make a great wife.

  • @halomankingala
    @halomankingala Před 5 lety +1

    This is actually the type of woman I can sit down and talk to. No yelling. No screaming. No making a statement and then leaving immediately aftwards.( presumably because the emotions are suddenly to high) Even though I don't agree with everything she is saying-- I understanding her reasoning.

  • @redheadrusskie
    @redheadrusskie Před 7 lety +12

    As a man to take dating advice from women is like a rabbit asking a viper how to avoid being eaten by snakes.

  • @diplofire9029
    @diplofire9029 Před 7 lety +41

    A matchmaker that hasn't been married or found a match for herself. Cant believe this is a profession

    • @sammy_lynn
      @sammy_lynn Před 3 lety +4

      Being an expert makes it hard to ignore red flags, she'll have to date high up, so smaller pool

    • @darbyohara
      @darbyohara Před 2 lety +1

      She doesn’t practice what she preaches or she’s be married

  • @alexsimmons4693
    @alexsimmons4693 Před rokem +1

    “The Greatest Lesson ANY single man could ever learn in his lifetime is to NEVER NEED a woman”.

  • @nene90047R1
    @nene90047R1 Před 5 lety +5

    Amazing interview. She's not combative like most of his guests

  • @DeadKoby
    @DeadKoby Před 6 lety +87

    I've been married now for 11 years. It's a pretty good life. My wife and I are both busy hard working people, and we know that despite our differences, we work together for our home and family. All is well. The feminism movement as it is working now is very toxic to men and women getting along. As said at 7:00, we need to accept our differences and work together. My wife and I are gifted differently in what our talents are. We share those talents with each other. I can fix a house, fix a car, and provide a place for my family to live. My wife does a great job making our house a nice home that me and my kids are happy to come home to.

    • @jetrpg22
      @jetrpg22 Před 6 lety +8

      TRans, partnerships can work.
      Sounds like Dead didn't try yo get himself a prize and just look for a companion, a good lesson for most of us.

    • @SWIFTzTrigger
      @SWIFTzTrigger Před 6 lety +4

      Thats what marriage used to be about. Now women don't offer that and I guess men don't want that except those of us here online complaining xD

    • @youfilin
      @youfilin Před 5 lety +7

      DeadKoby classic sweet picture! Good for you, guys. Be happy and take care each other.

    • @Gorgeouslife101
      @Gorgeouslife101 Před 5 lety +8

      DeadKoby #teamworkmakesthedreamwork So good to hear about happy marriages making happy families.

    • @pipbuster
      @pipbuster Před 5 lety

      And in a moments notice and with the help of the court system and the public, she can file for divorce as 87% of divorces are, and make your life a living hell... and turn you into a wage slave until your kids turn 18 or plus 4 yrs for college

  • @ricogoldstar
    @ricogoldstar Před 6 lety +55

    "Women are attracted by different things" = Very Handsome and/or Very Rich.

    • @Iriefame
      @Iriefame Před 5 lety +3

      if you are Rich but you look like a sandbag, the chances are you are sharing the meat with someone else.

    • @thereisnopandemic
      @thereisnopandemic Před 4 lety +6

      Women are like men, they are attracted to physically attractive persons. Only a small percentage of women are gold diggers. Women prefer hot guys over money, why you think many women go for bad boys who are broke?

    • @benardio6193
      @benardio6193 Před 4 lety +4

      @@thereisnopandemic that's what yo girl told you

  • @anthonyrobles3423
    @anthonyrobles3423 Před 5 lety +6

    6:01 I love how she implies that feminists aren’t good women, precious

  • @Ligma-Bass
    @Ligma-Bass Před 3 lety +1

    You need to print “that’s amazing!” on the underside of the mug! 😎👌

  • @art88
    @art88 Před 5 lety +26

    You'll never truly know your woman, until you meet her in court! Would be nice if she had the "balls" to talk about that.

    • @jan.mal.1284
      @jan.mal.1284 Před 3 lety +1

      The best comment here. All she was rambling about was how men should be perfect.
      And people in comments here were applauding her.
      Even Jesse applauded.

    • @edgarcruzsr108
      @edgarcruzsr108 Před 3 lety +2

      True, art88. These woman have ideas of the man they will marry and later hate him. Then,they are booty shaking with Chads'& Tyrons'.

  • @garywinehouse4564
    @garywinehouse4564 Před 6 lety +27

    Men just to need to ignore women and they’ll be honking on bobo in no time. Keep the upper hand.

  • @geoffreythompson7378
    @geoffreythompson7378 Před 5 lety +18

    I like how he hushed for this interview. I think he’s in love.

  • @RGM5396
    @RGM5396 Před 2 lety +1

    This woman and Dr.Helen Smith are the only two women I’ve seen explain the male condition and actually get it.

  • @mejason4
    @mejason4 Před 6 lety +108

    Why are these women who are single always telling a man what to do or coaching them on what a man is suppose to do?

    • @BlackNoiseCat
      @BlackNoiseCat Před 6 lety +4

      mejason4 because some men are pussies

    • @carter102
      @carter102 Před 6 lety +15

      She wants your money. She'll tell you whatever you want to hear.

    • @TheCaznut
      @TheCaznut Před 6 lety +4

      Because of things like "incels". you want a woman? Then let me tell you what a woman wants. Do you think she's being unreasonable?

    • @alejmc
      @alejmc Před 6 lety

      +Fuzzy Camel hahah, spot on.
      +mejason4 in this case, seems like she wants to help. But it is, especially on the feminism environment, weird, entitled and condescending. Bill Burr had a great section where he talks exactly about this, along the lines of: "Really women? REALLY?! You have no dick and balls, so you can't come and tell me what's living like 24/7 with dick and balls. That's like if I go and tell you what are you going to feel when you get pregnant and how to react to it... 'On the third semester you are going to feel a pressure at the bottom of your belly' ". Done the Bill Burr way, it is hilarious.

    • @jetrpg22
      @jetrpg22 Před 6 lety +2

      Ill tell you why.
      She wants the good number of men who are suited for monogamy to behave like the top 20% of men who would naturally form harems or polygamous partnerships. But she doesn't want that part of this equation. She wants men who are playboys to be family men and family men to act like playboys. But really she doesn't want either, and thus her relationship status. She wants to call the flip of a coin, "the left side of heads and right side of tails". These are package deals; choose one.
      Women you cannot have it all. Its not that hard, want a loyal husband, don't pick the playboy (super rich, super good looking, or super assertive male). The same thing goes for men. I agree there is a current issue in that society tells women that they can have it all (including this one, she wants the family man playboy that is far less than 1% of the population). And society tells men bitches aint shit (ie they don't have value, because you almost don't). The playboy is always gonna play. Top 20% of women always gonna try to buy a good deal with her body (she do alright as long as she stays in the top 20%). What we lose in the current system are 80% who with moral guidance could have good, lasting, and loving, relationships. But instead we allow with little forwarding and little shame afterwards that #7 to let those chad 9s and 10s bang them for a week or so (because women can have anything and your V will buy that), well it doesn't (it does for a week or two i guess). Now you aren't a 7 anymore you're used up, you look like a 7, but now you're a 2 (and despite all the feminism or hippy bullshit every man and women knows this). Well, all your friends say that these flings don't matter and everyone is doing it. The result, a bunch of 2s acting like 6-7s with asking prices of 6-7s But everyone knows you aint shit. You're out there trying to rob a man asking a 7 price for your 2, and if he pretends he gonna buy that 7 but just test drives you, well that is just justice.
      Lets be honest because we aren't talking about this because we will not call evil evil; we let people delude and easily lie to themselves. This only creates more and more of this. Black women have issues because they know they aren't worth shit. Black men don't think there is anything worth being more than just shit. True for whites and others too. What is there to respect about people in the West today? At least Whites generally friendlier than most. But thats not much to place your value and sense of respect on.
      WESTERN SOCIETY IS RUN BY DELTA'S; By the family man. And they don't go around order people who don't want to be ordered.
      Time to start following the word of god, the holy spirit, and get on the narrow path. We need to start with what it means to be joined together by god.

  • @Tuppoo94
    @Tuppoo94 Před 7 lety +264

    Would you take fishing advice from the fish or the fisherman?

    • @TheFallenStateTV
      @TheFallenStateTV  Před 7 lety +17

      Call my show this morning and explain
      📞 888-775-3773 9am to Noon ET/6am to 9am PT

    • @Tuppoo94
      @Tuppoo94 Před 7 lety +22

      Meaning would you as a man take dating advice from a woman or from a man who's successful at dating. I'm not from the US so unfortunately I can't call your show.

    • @maccabeezion9162
      @maccabeezion9162 Před 6 lety +5

      Tuppoo94 exactly

    • @miguel111093
      @miguel111093 Před 6 lety +12

      A tiger doesn't ask a gazelle how to catch it

    • @daindigokid
      @daindigokid Před 6 lety +15

      miguel111093,
      RIP Patrice O’ Neal

  • @johnwilliams2313
    @johnwilliams2313 Před 5 lety +5

    I like most of what she said, but she missed it on the meaning of "Love." Love is a "verb," it is something that we do. The reason why this understanding is important is ALL of us aren't so loving sometimes. It is especially in those times, in the context of marriage, that you will have to "Love: do loving things" for your spouse whether they are behaving lovingly toward you or not.

  • @michaelpsions
    @michaelpsions Před 3 lety +2

    Feminism destroys everything.

  • @Shame85
    @Shame85 Před 6 lety +3

    "Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless"
    - Dan Pena

  • @eh3656
    @eh3656 Před 7 lety +18

    22:00 = What about sex before marriage? The non-virgin female answer: "It's just so hard and unrealistic these days."
    No hymen, no diamond boys. Write that one down.

    • @DickRulez
      @DickRulez Před 7 lety

      Hahahahahahahaha
      "No hymen, No diamond"
      Perfect response to "No Rolex, No sex"
      www.strangepersons.com/images/content/114965.JPG

    • @AW-vb3hy
      @AW-vb3hy Před 7 lety +2

      E H A woman can not have a hymen and still be a virgin

    • @eh3656
      @eh3656 Před 7 lety +2

      True, but I think we can agree it's rare for a young lady NOT to still have it if she hasn't had intercourse. A guy's got to do a little detective work these days to find out for sure.

    • @AW-vb3hy
      @AW-vb3hy Před 7 lety +2

      E H No it's really common actually. If she's played sports it's usually torn

    • @AW-vb3hy
      @AW-vb3hy Před 7 lety +2

      E H And other things will tear a hymen too. Not just sports

  • @SwaggSkillz1992
    @SwaggSkillz1992 Před rokem

    The vibe between Jessie & DeAnne Was Pure, Genuine, and Mutual!! I wouldn’t be shocked if they ever dated, or stayed in contact as friends!!
    Peace & Light Family 🙏🏾🤍💯

  • @lindysteyn4598
    @lindysteyn4598 Před 5 lety +2

    I absolutely agree which this conversation in so many ways.

  • @jeffasc2659
    @jeffasc2659 Před 7 lety +10

    I am mgtow and i respect Mr.Peterson but he should look into divorce court, hypergamy, and no fault divorce. They took something beautiful (marriage) and dragged it in the mud. What you find will disgust you. Its okay though, Adonai(YHWH) says its all gonna burn anyway.

    • @nowalubega1475
      @nowalubega1475 Před 7 lety +3

      Mr. Peterson sounds like a tradcon. they don't spend much time with gynocentric policies and feminazi laws in western countries. They advise you to man up and sacrifice.

  • @washingtonconsultants1041
    @washingtonconsultants1041 Před 6 lety +23

    Its not so much that I fear rejection, is that they automatically have a wall put up to block the guy.

    • @MyFathersBusinessLLC
      @MyFathersBusinessLLC Před 5 lety +2

      Washington Consultants humor is the best battering ram....

    • @alexisbell8428
      @alexisbell8428 Před 5 lety

      Trying is like sleeping in from work or calling a day off just to go back to work just because. 😂

    • @Sensorama2000
      @Sensorama2000 Před 5 lety +1

      @Fuck You And Your Ideology that is as good as an excuse for male misbehaviour...don´t play their game just pay the hooker and your good... These bitches deserve the pigs they are asking for !!! Hope she get´s them...

  • @mikereed5786
    @mikereed5786 Před 5 lety +18

    A lots of simps here !!! I'm out of he re!!

  • @SonoTom
    @SonoTom Před 7 lety +11

    a man taking advice from such a hustler, on being a man and on selecting women, will just have to suffer the consequences of his foolishness.

    • @TheFallenStateTV
      @TheFallenStateTV  Před 7 lety

      Call my radio show and tell me more
      📞 888-775-3773 9am to Noon ET/6am to 9am PT

  • @nowalubega1475
    @nowalubega1475 Před 7 lety +36

    Would love TFM to do a rebuttal on this video

    • @TheFallenStateTV
      @TheFallenStateTV  Před 7 lety +4

      Call my radio show this morning, we're actually discussing MGTOW I'd love your take
      📞 888-775-3773 9am to Noon ET/6am to 9am

    • @TheFallenStateTV
      @TheFallenStateTV  Před 7 lety +1

      Right now

    • @vatosolo9230
      @vatosolo9230 Před 7 lety

      Angry MGTOW should be the one you should contact. I'd love to see him debate this woman LOL! TFM wouldn't bother at this point. It's over - women are not going to allow feminism to take any step backwards. Women are the voting majority and politicians will pander to them and simps, white knights and manginas are going to vote with women thinking that makes it more likely they'll get laid... So those of us who are fiscally responsible and who also realize that social safety nets are there to provide safety, NOT FULL TIME SUPPORT FOR LIFE... Tightrope walkers don't walk on the safety net back and forth, they land on it, hop out and climb back up and get back to work!

    • @DirtyMagurt
      @DirtyMagurt Před 6 lety

      That would be the BEST !!!

  • @osu4mul8r
    @osu4mul8r Před 3 lety

    Only one word describes Deanna Lorraine... AMAZIN!!!

  • @porkchop2139
    @porkchop2139 Před 5 lety +9

    30:41
    Yes there is a refund on the sex from a women. It's called alimony. Whether married or living common law.

  • @jasongeer9402
    @jasongeer9402 Před 7 lety +11

    this poor woman doesn't even see her own ignorance a man cannot be vulnerable with a woman she will not respect him. don't take advice from this woman because she can't even find a man herself why would you pay her to find you a partner when she can't even find a partner herself. I did not even know what mgtow was but I guess I'm one. my ex-wife divorced me for not paying her drug debt then tried to have me framed for murder when that didn't work they tried to kill me outright but the look on her face when I showed up was priceless I will never ever be married again and I'm not even interested in a relationship why would I want to waste my resources on a leech

    • @Mshabbak
      @Mshabbak Před 3 lety

      A woman is not a leech. You still carry anger

  • @trudy-annbrown3650
    @trudy-annbrown3650 Před 6 lety +14

    I just love how Jesse agrees with her. That’s sometimes rare on his show. Love his interviews though.

  • @MarkK75
    @MarkK75 Před 2 lety

    One of the most helpful videos I've seen in a while.

  • @eccentreak
    @eccentreak Před 3 lety +3

    She is wrong about MGTOW. that is not exactly what it means. It's not a reaction to that. It's a teaching to much more. She is dumbing it down.

  • @tonyromano6220
    @tonyromano6220 Před 7 lety +9

    She down plays how bad men are treated today. I am shocked how badly men are demonized.

  • @Cynnas
    @Cynnas Před 7 lety +30

    I've been happily married for 13 years (stay at home mom with two young children) and was interested in what she had to say but I find it curious that she's a match maker and love and relationship coach who wants to get married but not married. I question her sincerity, expectations of men and wonder how successful she is at her job.

    • @HeadshooterGTAS
      @HeadshooterGTAS Před 6 lety +7

      you get it a woman over 30+ old who tells you how to get married but doesn't find herself a husband LOL

    • @zeethecray
      @zeethecray Před 6 lety +4

      "Those who can't, teach."

    • @clairebordeaux
      @clairebordeaux Před 6 lety +1

      Laura S.
      Right?! That’s what I was thinking. I’ve been happily married for 18 yrs with 4 kids & I am not even 40 yet.
      Plus, the woman is really pretty, which makes it more suspect.
      Maybe if she dressed more modestly she would attract a decent guy.

    • @TKCoutside
      @TKCoutside Před 6 lety

      Is it possible that this is her, thing? If she was to get married, she might not be able to do her thing anymore. She would want to be a stay at home mom, traditional, which would mean giving up this thing she is doing. She seems very sincere, and she makes a lot of great points. I mean I’ve been married nearly 18 years, three kids, and my wife has been exhibiting so many things this woman talks about as far as the poison of feminism. It’s hurt her, me, the kids... she announced that she is no longer my wife. She gave me a list of demands. She is empowered and she’s not afraid to use it, roar. I’m guilty of submitting to her non traditional ways, not being the man, or giving up on being the head. I gave over headship to her, unknowingly at first, and she will not tolerate a return.
      This is the result of a departure from masculinity and femininity, traditional roles, no fault divorce, free love, feminism, abusive men and women, the idea of following your heart (which is deceitful and wicked)... I mean courting is not a thing any more, asking permission from the father of the woman, abstaining from sex until marriage, it’s all been tossed out as old and dumb.
      I think this lady has some great stuff to say and many modern women probably hate her.

    • @JP4truth
      @JP4truth Před 6 lety +3

      Funny how this woman runs a successful business on her own, has no husband, and lives out the "strong + independent" feminist dream, yet is against feminism. Hmmm...

  • @hashemjamalzadeh9865
    @hashemjamalzadeh9865 Před 2 lety

    First guest who is actually talking sense. Open minded and truthful .

  • @KingNez89
    @KingNez89 Před 5 lety

    My god this woman is such a breath of fresh air!

  • @BlackEffect
    @BlackEffect Před 6 lety +10

    This is a lot better than the Amber Rose interview. This woman is smart

    • @joshipp761
      @joshipp761 Před 5 lety

      EvenAllAround......Great observation. I would never introduce my son to a woman like Amber.
      ..

  • @enjoyingthedecline1801
    @enjoyingthedecline1801 Před 7 lety +86

    She has obviously been studying MGTOW content and was able to bring up some talking points. She even touches on the legal risk we take by even talking to women. But then she advises men to just keep jumping into the meat grinder. I guess she thinks the only reason it was painful to be ground up the previous times was because we didn't jump in with enough boldness!
    MGTOW see through this BS. I have my doubts she is even traditional. She probably identified as a strong empowered feminist in the 90s-2000s. Now that anti-feminism is popular, shes a traditional woman ...except she's 45, never married and probably can't cook.

    • @AudioJeep
      @AudioJeep Před 6 lety +13

      Nailed it

    • @dubstepphene82
      @dubstepphene82 Před 6 lety +14

      Agreed. Women are trendies and follow anything that is trendy which is in this case is anti feminism and mens rights

    • @harrisn3693
      @harrisn3693 Před 6 lety +2

      Garuntee you that if you said that the KKK supported feminism, they will be supporting white supremacy in a heartbeat.

    • @brutallyhonest9382
      @brutallyhonest9382 Před 6 lety +6

      narcissists are trend hoppers.

    • @letsgetcancer7265
      @letsgetcancer7265 Před 6 lety +1

      lock crotches, swap gravy, well said.

  • @mmafightnews7082
    @mmafightnews7082 Před 4 lety

    Best guest he ever had. Actually speaking the truth not nonsense

  • @xenogears100
    @xenogears100 Před 5 lety +8

    A relationship and dating couch that has never been married... yeah... I wouldn't listen to that person. It's obvious she is not married, because of her hypergamy. She like most women marry a man for his status and money. They will not consider a guy of lower status or financial capability, even though that guy is the nicest and most loyal guy they would meet. Even if that man earns an income capable of supporting a family. If she is a doctor or some other high status job, she is not likely to consider a oil rig engineer or oil rig diver as suitable for her. Her statement that women are wired for monogamy is PURE BS! Men need to listen to her words closely. You will clearly see her for the Chameleon that she is.
    Just one reason of many that more and more men realize a woman's love is transactional so it is better to use them the same way. Keep walking away from women until the old balanced system before all waves of feminism is restored.

    • @vitamindealer7915
      @vitamindealer7915 Před 3 lety

      Actually I really like the points she brought up. She is really empathetic.

    • @mikewhite8848
      @mikewhite8848 Před 3 lety

      She's actually right women are wired for monogamy, just like men are wired to not be monogamous. Men are created to spread their seed far and wide,while women are created to carry a child for 9 months. Scientific fact!

  • @JezaLoki
    @JezaLoki Před 7 lety +27

    What nonsense. You can approach a girl with confidence or with coyness. If she doesn't like the look of you, shes gonna reject you outright. More than half the time they'll reject you with great relish. They'll be sure to humiliate you to the best of their ability. Every dude knows exactly what im talking about. If it hasn't happened to them personally, they've at least seen it.
    When you're in a job interview, who has all the power? They do. Unless, you're really fucking awesome in which case the employer might seek you out. I'd advise men to develop themselves into the best they can be. Then, the girls will come after you. You will enjoy all the power that comes with that situation and you'll never get humiliated again. It takes time, so be patient and persistent.

    • @mypackmypower1996
      @mypackmypower1996 Před 6 lety

      JezaLoki i interviewed in a international company and the hr was a young women and it was getting late for her so she dont even bothered to talk to me for 10 Minutes and just rejected me telling that my communication skills is not good and that witch just left the room and walked away
      i nearly wated for fucking 9 hours straight in hot sunny day and she just rejected me in 5 minutes without hearing my points

    • @nuttyberries4694
      @nuttyberries4694 Před 6 lety +1

      Jeza, let me tell you something. When you apply for a job, there are a lot of signals that show strength or weakness right off the get go. Let's say they ask for your availability and you say "I am always available." Most think this is good because it is flexible. WRONG. It shows weakness. Jobs want strong people who stand up for themselves. That confidence makes them want you more because they realize that your time is valuable and you are intriguing to them. Once you dictate terms to the hiring committee then they need you more than you need them.

  • @misterjosephfloyd
    @misterjosephfloyd Před 7 lety +31

    This woman cannot even manage her hair and makeup....so why does she think she knows how to tell a man to "grow a pair"?

  • @richardpoffenberger6959

    Best interview yet that I have seen from Jesse.

  • @PyromancerRift
    @PyromancerRift Před 5 lety +4

    This woman can't find a "suitable" partner for her, how could she find somebody "suitable" for others ?
    "look at me, i'm part of the problem i'm trying to solve !"
    In the end she preach me to be perfect and go back to the plantation. She tell men to be "active" a few times. It's a polite way to be "try as hard as you can to become rich".

  • @optimus
    @optimus Před 6 lety +130

    So shes a match maker without man?

    • @JT-gi8rx
      @JT-gi8rx Před 5 lety +9

      She’s smart because she’s waiting for the right match for her, just unfortunate she hasn’t found him yet. Like she said at the start, marriages often fail because ppl go into them with the wrong person. This screws up any kids, and wastes the time of the woman and man, time they could’ve spent with someone worthwhile.

    • @umadbro4493
      @umadbro4493 Před 5 lety +2

      i am PC Principal

    • @zedking5569
      @zedking5569 Před 5 lety +1

      @@TheLeon1032 that's why she doesn't have a man , man does not need a strong woman.

    • @Sensorama2000
      @Sensorama2000 Před 5 lety +1

      They need to be nice but not too nice, they need to be assertive but not so much that she can´t control him... But if he is controllable she no longer is interested in him... What a bitch, ofcourse she is a woman so she clouldn´t possibly understand...

    • @abdulfatimgion2165
      @abdulfatimgion2165 Před 5 lety +2

      Coaches don't play

  • @aetheonpro396
    @aetheonpro396 Před 7 lety +42

    The thing is why do men have to approach?

    • @justinlumpkin1929
      @justinlumpkin1929 Před 7 lety +20

      Aetheon Pro funny, they say they want equality, but you the man still have to ask them out, pay for the date, entertain her, and treat her like a princess and maybe just maybe you might get a hug at the end of the night.

    • @aetheonpro396
      @aetheonpro396 Před 7 lety +17

      Exactly my point, and the stupid claim is they would give you sex when sex is an act both sides partake in to enjoy which by the way, men do most of the work in most of the time....

    • @drshlotzkin
      @drshlotzkin Před 7 lety +5

      Also someone who earns more than her.

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 Před 6 lety +6

      It's simple, men have a much higher sex drive then women(MUCH HIGHER) so they want sex more than the said woman... so he has to do most of the task to get that sex. I'd say u don't need to do those things though, get a prostitute. They are honest, will cost u much less in the long run and will have sex the way u want to.

    • @skadi6750
      @skadi6750 Před 6 lety +2

      only till they reach 30, then women often have much bigger sexdrive...guys, as much I respect your bad experience with women, I am very grateful you are not average guys:-D That most guys still love women as much as we love them...that most guys still give us chance and we give chance to them. Nobody is without flaws...good luck to you all in any life you decide to live.