Vanessa Feltz ex breaks silence following split
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- čas přidán 14. 08. 2024
- Ben Ofoedu has broken his silence following his split from Vanessa Feltz, telling the Sunday Mirror about his three-time romp with an older woman - which he described as a 'chore' - and how their relationship crumbled after he betrayed her again by sexting his younger female fans
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EXCLUSIVE: Vanessa Feltz's ex Ben admits he DID cheat by sexting fans and had THREE-time romp with older woman
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If Vanessa was the queen of his heart he wouldn’t have done what he did.
Exactly 😂
Brave of him to do the interview.
The extra cruel aspect of this is that he cheated on her, KNOWING how extremely traumatised she was when her husband cheated on her and then left her some twenty years ago. It's a miracle if Vanessa does'nt have trust issues after this.
I hope both can move on and be happy, I'm sure they will be.
😂😂😂😂he knew what he was doing when he cheated 😂😂😂but he did it anyway 😂😂there’s no way back from that betrayal 😔The TRUST is gone 😔
Hey what’s wrong with you?.............got to turn around.......or just keep going!z🤦🏾
@@marvinbrown2356 🤣he's looking kinda down to me 🤣
@@marvinbrown2356 🤣🤣🤣🤣that's too funny....yeah he should take advice from. His own song🤣
@@SL-ud7tf 🤣🤣🤣
Cos things aint getting over.....listen to what I say.....gotta turn around.....🤣🤣
😂 he’s only got remorse because he’s been caught out. Same as all cheats. The only remorse abd regret he has is for himself and what he’s going through. Not once did he mention what Vanessa and her kids are going through.
You do not treat someone you love with so much disrespect and obvious lack of thought for her heart and mind. For what it’ll do to get for the rest of her life.
The first time you’re tempted, you go get help, you do your soul searching then! Not after!
Hiding his face, he’s only concerned about what everyone thinks of him.
That’s why he’s living with a another woman an got paid 15k
Pity party- NOT!! 😡
DON'T GO BACK VANESSA!
She obviously wasn't the queen of your heart!!!!.
You just sorry you got caught out. Vanessa will be even stronger without you.
He knew, like we all did that she was cheated on by her first husband but despite knowing this, he continued to do what he did. he loved the lifestyle Vanessa gave him but still wanted his bit of fluff on the side 🙄
He just wants the cash cow back...... Dont bite the hand that feeds you mate!, i hope she never speaks to him again
He said he's thrown his' life away, that's only because he has nothing and she had it all, the Big house Money and career and he was a guy who sang on one old 90s house track years ago and made a couple grand and that was it, over, and never did anything else, so vanessa was his meal ticket.. of course he's gutted.
Why do this interview, it's so lame.
Cash 15k
He's only sorry because he got caught.
Exactly...always the way
@kaymoi3626
My ex was a female version of this twerp, a leopard never changes its spots. I can't stand men that hit females & I can't stand cheaters.
Vanessa should never ever take him back or marry him he's after the money he should of stay loyal to the woman that look after you for 16 years instead you abused her trust now you're begging her to take you back after you betrayed her you think the grass is greener so don't do it Vanessa he's just using you be glad to see the back of him.
I will always love Vanessa as the queen of my pocket. This was not just a one off he actually thought she will never leave. He is just scared of the amount of abuse he is getting not sorry for what he did. If he was not found out he was going to carry on with his double life if not triple life.
Exactly
Think she was his meal ticket!
Honestly, you have nothing to say. First and foremost you have hurt Vanessa, you have caused her so mush pain and it’s time to get yourself together and apologize to Vanessa and her family and move on with your life. No one pushed you to do what you did. Come on.
I love Vanessa; she is a phenomenal woman. What a silly man. Move on Ben. Vanessa already has. i hope she is okay.
A serial cheater and a liar! He's sorry he got caught!
It's all about him🙄
Course he’s a narcissist
This man talks too much. He makes my skin crawl. 😂
😩😩😩
Absolutely love his grift!! Vanessa, Queen of my heart!!! Loving this scam. Big Ben!! You are the KING of old ladies hearts 💕 No fool Veezy like an old fool
Hope your not expecting sympathy after what you did
So fake
The queen of my heart LOL
Shame he didn't think of her as the 'queen of my heart' when he was sleeping with someone else more than once.
@@maris5930 he’s a serial cheat
His cash cow has dried up
I thought he was a christian,I thought he had some spiritual conversion"and was a new man".
I have no symptahy for him saying things like "I think I need therapy...its the why..I need to understand what I did and why ..." NO doubt the man does need therapy but to find out why he thinks its acceptable to live a double life and cheat and lie.
He sounds like Weinstein when caught assaulting various women saying "I need help guys...I need therapy,.." trying to make it sound like he couldn't help himself or knew what he was doing was wrong and now he's all sad because he realises what a scumbag liar he is and how he hasn't a clue who is really is.
Its not just about lying to Vanessa but selling a whole version of himself for public consumption as a christian and as a person who had worked on themselves and was a self aware human being.
This just shows his capacity to lead a completely double life and be one thing to cameras and another completely behind closed doors.Yes that is a sickness when one hand hardly knows what the other is doing.
Get help becase no matter who you are with,you will never be happy living like that,running from yourself but don't expect sympathy until you own up to your own lies and cheating
He’s most certainly not one and also abuses women he’s lost and that Christ business is all part of his sick twisted game to use and abuse
The guys heartbroken..wants his home back.
He never loved her, if he did he would of kept it in his pants.. poor you, me me me.
Queen of your heart....And .thats how you treat the Queen of your heart lucky you didnt meet Queen of spades...
Well this didn't work out, you only have regrets because you got caught.
He better start planning to go abroad and start a life, crossing a high profile woman who's well known in the media circles means all doors he turns to will be slammed on his face. Even the local cafe might turn him away. He ain't seen nothing yet!!
No he’s got a job
He cheated on her in 2015 but she took him back.
What's his cake and eat it
I was never convinced he was into women.
Why are ppl mad. Cheater's gonna cheat. He had the milk without buying the cow, and moved into her home for 16 years. He had absolutely nothing to lose
Hey…..what’s wrong with you? You’re looking kinda down to me 🎶
Another one who betrayed his wife, an attempt to show himself that he is male. If he were a street sweeper, I doubt he'd have such choices. Nothing I understand about men and I don't even want to understand. But I find him very ugly, exceeds
How much for the interview? (Vanessa will give him the right advice at a time like this!)🤦🏾
15k 😮
Suppose he's going to ask the Lord for forgiveness, he did it cause he could he was on tour and to him it was the thrill.
He was doin it back home too
There's no way he's white.
Giving two hoots about this is a sectionable offence.
Ahhhh, Irony!
Exactly.
All the Angels in this comment section make me giggle like a kid. Affair's, the oldest pastime in history.
PumPum Sweet..., that's it!
He’s only sorry he got caught
I hope I’m
Wrong but what goes around comes around mate
Chin up pal .... it's feels a lost worse than it really is. Various family might say they are hurt or feel hurt because of your actions but these people are not your friends and don't love you. Give it time , be a gentleman , stay true to yourself .... and one day you will look back and scratch your head and wonder why you felt the whole World had just fallen apart and you will be grateful you had this experience. People are very manipulative , don't trust anyone.
Vanessa go on a nice beach holiday to Gambia or Kenya or Dominican Republic for a few weeks and get your mind onto something else to fill the hole.
😂😂😂😂😂 that’s her dream
🤣 look at this geezer. He's laying pipe all over the place. Surprised he's not sitting there sniffing his fingers...
Vanessa isn’t the only woman to divorce or be divorced. Why is this newsworthy?
She never married him. That’s why he says he cheated. He says he felt insecure by Vanessa’s reluctance to get married. What man weeps around like a woman over a wedding/marriage? Sis just wanted to secure the bag legally so he can leave and get with someone younger after fleecing Vanessa but her instinct must have picked up something off.
@@Wonderer888 they’ve been engaged for that long so wouldn’t she marry him? She enjoying all the goodies that comes with the engagement but don’t want to marry him. I wouldn’t have done worse! Vanessa didn’t have any good intentions for him. He did the right thing.
@@m9ckycobbs373 facts used him like a slave
Should have thought about that
He's off
Eds off
Double-whammy
You've been honest and that's what matters .. you made a mistake , I think it's a shame Vanessa couldn't see a future possibly, say after therapy . I firmly believe some things can be worked out if the reason why is found . Wishing you and Vanessa all the best , it's a shame your differences couldn't be sorted out as it's clear to me that you both love each other so very much . ❤️
If you love someone very much you don't cheat on them.
We all make mistakes ...sometimes u have to forgive cos the loss u will never get over I hope she forgives him men are doing this all the time he's messed up clearly give it time...she may forgive but never forget so don't do it again .....I see this man is broken ...and maybe learnt a lesson we don't know if he's done this before she's finally had enuff she won't find this again ...both Need to think very clearly before they throw a great relationship away.. they are truelly hard to come by ....💯💯💯❤️👊🙏
People have affairs all the time and no one cares so why is this situation any different? People make mistakes it's part of life, it's between them to sort out not for the public to scrutinise
Really? All the time? You should choose your friends better...if they are willing to be dishonest to their partner what kind of friend of work mate employee etc .
Oh and this wasn't a one night thing and he wasn't a teenager when he chose to behave like this 🙂👍
@@MrSlugny omg I mean in general... Why do people have to hang on every word. The point I'm trying to make it goes in alot in relationships and it's up to the people involved to decide how they want to deal with what happened. It's nobody else's business!!! People need to just get on with their own lives as no one is perfect. Oh and I choose to be single and very happy on my own thank you so my friends are irrelevant.
@@Michellemutts7848 I agree with you. I don’t see how it’s anybody’s business but their own.
If you don’t want people to scrutinise your business you keep it private. Sharing it with the public and expecting people to not say anything is impossible. Men say people have affairs all the time because they expect to be forgiven, if it was the woman who cheated I bet you wouldn’t care for much privacy then would you?
@@Wonderer888 I totally agree you should keep it private, it's your buisness not the world's. Also I'm a female and whether it be a woman or a man that's cheated it's not OK but again it's down to the people involved how they want to deal with it and move forward it not 👍
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We all make mistakes mate chin up carry on time is a healer for all concerned.
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Dude did himself a Favour. 'He' deserves the sympathy for Dippin' that for 16years🤮
She was punching and she knows it!
Go make up for lost time Son. Plenty of stunners buzzin out there at the news. 👊🏿
So rude! Such a dumb & backwards comment.. Vanessa is such an intelligent women... You're dumb n numb brain wouldn't understand.. Still there's plenty of people getting plastic surgery to meet the needs of people like you.. plastic n spastic.
@@1Kweenk 'Your' Dumb? Really?🤣
How will he get buzzing with the stunners with no Vanessa’s funds to flex nor driving licence to get anywhere 🙄? Is he going to be buzzing with the stunners on the bus? cos Vanessa told him to get his licence she’s tired of driving him everywhere. Yes he deserves sympathy cos he won’t have a bag 💰 to dip into anymore and his one hit 🎵 is a thing of the past and I doubt it ever brought in any pennies anyway. 16yrs he had it good being taken care of as kept man. Vanessa will be alright, she was smart not to get married cos she would’ve lost a lot more for nothing. He on the other hand…without the lifestyle he was provided for, it might be a bumpy ride. Stunners come and go but stability is king. If some men used their big heads to plan ahead instead of their small heads for fleeting pleasure a lot of problems would be avoided.
@@Wonderer888 Someone's in their feelings judging by this Essay. I ain't reading that Shit🤣
Bottom line is if certain Women would stop the fantasy of what's in these dudes pants, they'd save them selves a lot of Heartache.
With that said, he's still gonna get by out here. Some other dick will fund his lifestyle.
😂😂😂😂 facts
Vanessa… take him back, men are men and inherently made this way, stand by your man, he is sorry. Show the world you are better off together and this won’t break you
It's pathetic attitudes like this that allow men to cheat without consequences. Have some self respect
By taking him back she is giving him the message that it is ok to cheat
Vanessa was blind to ever think he was going to be satisfied with her, she's very unlikeable and gobby
"unlikeable and gobby" .
Dont agree ,it's Her JOB ,as a professional, to facilitate, even initiate, debate. Both as chat show & as publishing/newspaper journalist. She has alway's been smart, often amusing when interviewed about Herself. Not agreeing with Her opinion's is another matter. She also takes huge pride in Her appearance, Has a gorgeous voluptuous figure & alway's looks as Glamouras as a blonde Liz Taylor.
More Women like Vanessa needed IMO!
Vanessa was the best thing that ever happened to him. Now he's back on the streets trying to con white women out of a free lunch. Who even knew who he was before he started dating Vanessa.
@@laqueefasteinberg4981 both are repugnant
She's very intelligent women & will find better.. & quickly too.
Vanessa enjoy your life now the beef jerky is out of it.. Freedom! He held you back..
@@1Kweenk Oh dear, someone clearly has a problem with Ebony! I Hope your Kids, Mom/Dad, Brothers/Sisters get "Beef Jerkied" for Life!🤣💀