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Identifying Our Partner’s Love Language: Adrienne & Jeannie Reveal Israel & Jeezy’s Love Languages!
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- čas přidán 7. 11. 2021
- We’ve all heard of the Five Love Languages, but how important is it to love your partner in THEIR specific love language? We reveal how we receive and give love and open up about the differences in our partner’s reception of love!
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I remember Jeannie talking about how Jeezy made sure to drive her to the airport to make sure she got there safe when they first started dating .. and how that was new to her because she used to just catch an Uber when she was with her ex while he was still sleeping in. I believe that would be acts of service. But man Im so happy for her 😭 my heart could burst. She is a total different person now too and I’m here for it!
I don't recall her saying he would be sleeping in. Freddie had his own place in Colorado and travelled for work (hunting). Their marriage seemed like it was long distance so he was not physically there to drive her. If he was around he probably would have.
@@omphilemoerane2569 she said he'd be like ok enjoy , sometimes he was there but she always took an uber
@@mixedness87f35 Lol now I know that man offered to drive her at least once but she probably declined his offer and insisted she is fine taking the Uber the same way she declined when he bought her a jacket and when he offered to buy a brand new fridge. They spoke about this at Loni's Love court. Freddy is very clearly a gentleman and a generous guy but Jeannie seemed to never want anything from him which must have been SO discouraging for Freddy. Anyone in his position would eventually just give up and not even try anymore.
@@omphilemoerane2569 I remember this
@@omphilemoerane2569 he's such a gentleman that he tried to force her have kids when she msde it clear she didnt want ro have kids as well as they both agreed to not have kids but then cheats on her with their close friend to have a child then he stays in the marriage until her prenup was up to get spousal support.
Do y’all remember when Jeannie was married to her ex (who shall not be named) and they went to Loni’s Love Court, they discussed how he had gotten her a jacket and she thought it was a waste of money. So he got in his feelings and Loni had to tell her to just accept the gifts from him etc. Fast forward to now, the girl loves getting gifts from her man.
A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP CHANGES YOU!!!!!!!!!! I can’t say it loud enough!
She took time to heal herself first to be ready for a healthy relationship it’s not she just found the right man and changed
Its crazy how jeanie has changed for good, its not to say that her ex was bad he just wastn right for her....But r they gonna be lovey dovey forever like they r now or will love change with time cuz everything feels great in the begining then u jus get bored.
But Freddy was a good man what y'all aren't ready to admit is that Jeannie wasn't the best wife for Freddy. She wouldn't allow him to be a man to her but now she worships the ground Jeezy walks on.
@@ForeverGodsGirl03 that’s not fair. first of all, all of us do not know what happened between them and second, probabilities are the dude cheated on her. so to say he was a good man, that’s a stretch.
@@brittanykrystine3714 I said a “healthy relationship” not a “the right man”
If I had to guess - Loni’s way of showing love is acts of service and giving gifts (esp in her friendship with Tam / role as an aunty). I think for receiving it’d be quality time, being playful and humour could come under that. What do you guys think?
Acts of service, yeah.
1,000% Agree with Acts of Service for Loni. She Shows UP!
@@daniellelatouche9534 they are SO lucky to have her as a friend, I can literally list countless times she’s gone above and beyond for everyone. Yet people constantly throw her under the bus and imply she’s a hater. She may have a tough exterior but she has a sensitive, loving spirit.
1 mil percent acts of service
True, Mr Anas 😊
Loni lyinggg she used to talk about how she would go over Tams and help w the babies!! That’s acts of service! That’s quality time!! & she always tears up when telling her friends something special about them! That’s words of affirmation
Those 5 are primary love languages not the only love languages. Loni is right, humour is a big love language for a lot of people: see Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds trolling each other on social media.
Absolutely! This is a perfect example.
@M Muss actually the question they asked her was how she gives and receives love. When they listed the 5, she didn't identify with them. Gary Chapman himself the author of the book they're talking about said that you shouldn't only focus on those 5.
@@erivanson agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
@M Muss well she sid mention that she doesn't know about the book and needs to read it. So it's ok! I heard many people not knowing those 5 love languages. I'm sure the next time someone mentions love languages, she know :)
@@erivanson humor and conversations is part of quality time .. i thought first that they were incorrect however after further reading i found out quality time includes conversations, experiences, laughter and just hanging out
Loni lacks vulnerability and transparency at times. I can see right through that. She’s probably all lovey dovey, mushy and sweet. You can just tell. She’s that girlfriend/wife that you’d be a fool to do her wrong!
agreed i think because she has been single for so long and having to grow up with a lot of tough love it's seems weak to show to much emotion especially over " I can't believe I'm in a relationship like this... and it's working!"
@@lstarsabb 100 percent! ✅
That’s why I call this girl Loni Lies. Your love language is making jokes about your bf? What is that? At least say your love language is laughing and having inside jokes with your partner. She’s acting like she’s too tough for love. Loni is better off with a robot I guess. And I hate when she starts crying when you don’t see it coming. She needs to relax and be more genuine out of respect for James.
I believe that
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Ha!! I called this one for Loni a couple of weeks ago. Someone was saying she was about to dump James bc she was complaining about him all the time. I saw it as opposite. She feels comfortable and settled enough with him to joke about him and know he'll get it.
Write your own script Loni, no need to be restricted by some book! 🥰
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I love that about Adrienne she's very in tuned with her romantic and feminine side. I'm with Garcelle I am just now hearing about Love Language, I had to figure out what was mine.
I like simple things like going for a walk or a bike ride or just sitting and spending time with each other.
Both my boo and I first love language is food. We expressed to each other thru food. Different cultures. Different style of cooking the same dish. We love exploring food and restaurants. My other love language is physical touch. He learned it and expressed my love language to me. I love that so much. His love language, giving. He gives everyone attention. Gives help. Gives advice. Gives hugs and high fives to kids. My boo is so giving and generous, I love that so much.
Food is a love language dammit!!!
It’s quality time, an act of service, and a gift all in one 😋
Adrienne kills the side part
Always!
Of course receiving gifts is one of G-Money's love languages😊. I applauded what Adrienne said regarding the difference in love languages that parties in a relationship have. This has caused many break-ups. It's crucial to identify each other's love language/s in order to understand the other party's reaction if he/she is at the receiving end of the partner's love language that may not be his/hers.
💘💘💘 I have this book and did my first Toastmasters speech on the 5 love languages 😊. It's true... a lot of people give love the way they know how or in the way they want to be loved. We need to understand what our partner needs, and if the love is strong enough we'll adapt to make them happy. ❤❤❤
Physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation are my top 3. My coworker gave me that book years ago and I'm so glade she did. As I remember the author said that it's important to utilize all 5 of the love languages not just the ones that apply to you.
it’s interesting nobody really mentioned words of affirmation much! that’s my number one both to give and receive
Yes❤
Yep. Me too.
Me too💜💜
Yes! As well as quality time
Me too
28yrs married and it's definitely physical touch 1st and words/look, when I catch him just looking at me and smiling 2nd and gifts 3rd. That could be he bought the juice I love, he buys flowers a lot just because. I love the fact that this made me really think about the things I love and that are important to me. 🥰
That's so sweet. May the good Lord continue to bless your family.
I love this!! The topics are getting so good this season
If I were to guess... Loni SHOWS love with acts of service. She will SHOW up if you are in her circle.
Loni RECEIVES love with words of affirmation. Loni gets so emotional when people talk about her, she FEELS every single world
She doesn't even like when done publicly because she knows she can handle. Kkkk
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Yup! 💯💯💯💐
I can relate to Adrienne. Same qualities. ❤ Took time to understand and not appear unappreciative of the gift part...
She try to hard for me like she stretching her voice for people to hear her
I use to like her she can find a better husband because the one she has is not it
You can have your own love language that's not in a book.. just because your love language is not in a book doesn't mean it's not valid
I just started reading the book you can apply it to all your relationships but man it really helps me identify problems in my relationship lol
Word
Mine is definitely words of affirmation and physical touch when it comes to receiving. When it comes to giving, I am all about acts of service.
Lately and in her more emotional vulnerable state, Loni has been more vocal and supportive. She won't say the love word but she will cheer you up and lift you up like she has been with Adrienne.
It's not an official love language but a friend of mine and I often joke that music is ours. We love to sing and listening to music. My husband is not big on music so I love it when he takes the time to dance with me or sing a song to me. Music just speaks to me ^^
I’m a hugeeeee gift giver that’s the biggest way that I show love. It’s the reason i get so excited for Christmas or birthdays.
I don't think Loni knows true love. She's learning love and that's a beautiful Journey.
Agreed. Believe she had a tough road in life from very young age...didn't know who she was for a very long time.. probably still finding out ..just went with the flow in life when it comes to men/relationships etc ..not getting emotionally attached... to protect herself... as a way to cope/coping mechanism in order to mask her pain and get thru daily life/for survival! I would know! Did that my entire youth/young adult life!
@@janeking4059 Agreed!
Agree
I would say that mine would be… a mixture of all five but based off what I react to most… I love words of affirmation… there’s nothing like reassurance and the feeling of being safe with someone that wants u to genuinely feel secure in wanting you to know they’ll never hurt you… I like gifts but not for me I am moreso the giver in a relationship rather than the one to receive… but quality time… being able to spend time with someone that I can’t imagine my life without and just be with them and love on them and have that time to ourselves those are my top three !
I seen a prophetic word the other day that said you might not understand your partners love language & Loni says hers is humor. Lol. Adrienne navigating her relationships love language is dope af!
My love language is food 💀
I hate u 😭😂😂
@@MajesticMyronn I want to recreate the Lady and the Tramp spaghetti scene with my future boyfriend someday 😂😂
@@Anas-rx1he not sharing a noodle 😩 only you 😂
Hi ladies, loved your show today. I watch every day. Very interesting conversation to day. I love to spoon my partner and I love saying the words I love you in his language. What is the website to sing the real theme song. Is it a contest?
My Love Language is Words of Affirmation. But, I married an amazing man (7 years 💍) who loves me via Acts of Service and Physical Touch. He hugs, touches and kisses me all day long and is always doing things for me that I didn’t ask him to do. Thank you Adrienne for the mature insight on knowing that you’re being loved even if it isn’t your primary language. That was very helpful because the struggle is real! 😩😂
Beautifully said Jeannie
Loni’s outfit today 😍🔥
Jennie is killing it with her fashion Thur her pregnancy 💙💙💙
Jeannie looks sooo cute!!!!
I think Loni's love languages are acts of service and positive affirmation. I do think humor can be a love language as well even if it doesn't fall under the list from the book.
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My love language is receiving and giving acts of service. And I think Loni’s love language is the same. I’m also very affectionate and nurturing so I love touching and hugs.
Real fan from season 1 episode 1 this is the best season since Tamar left I'm proud of you ladies
This can be an awesome connection group or bible study. Words of affirmation fills my love cup. My Honey needs time from me. We both are really kind to each other.. He loves to serve others others. We are is both acts of service people.
Mines is words of affirmation, physical touch, and spending time together 💕🥰😊
I love these ladies! 🥰😁 so much wisdom!!
I swear Jeannie’s outfit and hair be looking like so many characters and actors from movie. Like the grinch movie with the characters hair, velma from scoopy doo and now top gun outfit
Jeannie and Garcelle should also read the five love languages for children and teens.
I was watching the Real when you had Tank. Since the episode i have a total different attitude about Tank. Before I let his character determine my opinion not thinking he human and has problems too. Since finding out about his hearing problem I realize to not let TV form this thing about a person. GOD IS REAL
Love language is how you feel love or how you perceive love but it can also go the other way. For example, my love language is words of affirmation and I feel loved when I receive a compliment or recognition but I also feel hurt when someone says something negative about me. Love language is important to know because it helps you understand a person and helps you be more conscious of how that person feels loved.
"I write my own book baby" hahahaha loved that
I’m with Adrienne. Quality time is primary
Haha I always want to know how Loni answers the questions, she’s special and also private. So I like to know what she’s thinking
Mine is act of service, physical touch and GIFTS
There are definitely more than 5 love languages, Loni is right. Humor and cooking/giving food are two more love languages (of many) that a lot of people have.
Cooking food is acts of service
Mine is gifts and physical affection
Speaking each other's love languages is the only way for a healthy relationship. You can't love someone they way you want to be loved. You have to love them the way they need to be loved.
Wow! This makes so much sense🤯. I never took the time to think about this concept 🤔. Glad the ladies mentioned this. I remember my husband telling me I wasn’t romantic. I gotta step up my game!
@@maryluvsmusic9298 I'm so glad it clicked for you and you are willing to work on it! ❤
I don’t know how many times I have to communicate this to the people I date
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Exactly. You can't love someone the way you want to be loved or the way you want to love them but rather the way they want to be loved!!!!!......You have to speak their language 🤷♂️
I don't watch these "The Real" videos very often but every time I do, I spot the same pattern. The other 3 will introduce the topic, discuss it fully between themselves then turn to Loni just to get her little 1 sentence. It's like when your parents forced you to play with the weird kid, so you stuck them at the back so they had minimal input but were still "technically" included
Jeanie… 🙄. Pick 1-3 girl. The book says there are some that are stronger in each of us for a reason
It’s the Asian way to pass all 5 tests lol.
She's saying that she's intentional about all them. She makes sure she's in touch with them all
All good ladies! 🥰🥰
Y'all do realize that some random person wrote a book and now y'all are acting like it's the end-all-be-all of human interaction, right? 😂
Loni saying I make jokes about him 😂😂
I died
Good food is my love language, back rubs too!
Talk about AstroWorld we want to know your thoughts we know that you guys always stay real!!!!
Loni get the book...it was provided you with greater insight about yourself and partner...its definitely worth it :-)
Mine is gifts and telling me things I want to hear. 🌚🌚🌚
I’m like Ade, 100% Top 3 are 1. Words of Affirmation (Constant “I love you’s” and “How was your day?” / “I miss you, I’m thinking of you”) 2. Quality Time spent with just us together, and 3. Physical Touch, I LIVE for when my boyfriend gives me a hug randomly, holds my hand when walking, and cuddles me on the couch. 🥰 My friends always call me crazy when they ask if my man buys me surprise gifts throughout the week and I say “No, he doesn’t really. I prefer not to receive physical gifts, I like my partner spending quality time with me, expressing physical affection and telling me how they feel”. If my man suddenly stopped expressing his love physically and just threw gifts at me and just did stuff for me, I would probably die inside 😭
thats so nice i love that u shared this stay blessed
@@zaqueenzhane7744 thanks sis you too 🤗💕
My love language is quality time and touch
Loni were you high that's day lol. you look really relaxed lol. I ain't mad at it sis❤️
Loni looks great!
Garcelle 🤣🤣🤣 "they don't have that book"
Acts of service
Lol Loni I didn’t read the book either but I know mine is physical touch
I think humour is definitely a love language 😄.
I definitely understand loni, as my husbands love language is cracking jokes about me and us laughing together ❤️
Awwww :))
Well Jeannie is all
1 already she she will be submissive /act of service
2 she gifts
3 she makes time to ride bikes
4 she always make point to touch
5 she complement her man! Yes girl
Basically the opposite of her previous marriage
@@AaAa-qq5wr exactly. It’s interesting for to me think about this now
You know whats interesting two women will receive gifts differently
one may feel brought off and the other may feel more cherished and spoilt , yes context and the givers track record comes into play but view gifts as a less thoughtful way to express love others see it as more so
we really are not a monolith
Not Loni saying humor 😂😂😂
mines is acts of service and quality time.
Why loni said it like that “I haven’t read that book”😂
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I know that book but I do get Loni because there are more than five languages of love. Somebody might not fit in the five like humour for Loni and it's totally fine it shows individuality.
So Adrianne wants to serve him in his language, and she has to adjust to how he choses to love her? So they both speak his native tongue of love, she's doing translation. girl, you deserve more.
My husband's love language is doing things for me. Mine is time
I agree with Adrienne I think it technically falls under "words of affirmation" category...if Loni's is using her jokes/words to show she cares then that is her way of affirming her love for them.
Loni is me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 No time 😂
It’s about time Loni stop avoiding answering questions about herself as if she’ll get judge for it. Sometimes I feel like she doesn’t keep it “REAL” and always hide behind a joke or let the other ladies reveal what they think about certain topics. I know she has a book but sometimes I feel like she’s not interested in sharing things about her. Just spectating.
I agree! She never gives honest answers! We can read our people and it's very clear she does not open up about her stuff! She is sure eager to hear about everyone else's issues etc.
I've had this same exact sentiment lately about her... with many different topics. I feel like she's always been like that to a certain degree but especially lately
True ! And it’s really annoying
Agreed! I mean, Loni is known as a mean girl behind the scenes so I doubt she's willing to keep it real.
I’m with Loni mine is humor but also light bullying 💀😂
My #1 is gifts.
Nothing expensive.. It could be a pencil or a pack of gum.. just the thought that someone was thinking of me.
I make jokes about him! Lol
Omg I love Loni
I honestly am like garcelle I didnt even no love languages were real I am just now learning about this lol😂😂
Do know though that this is theory. It’s all that he figured out from his couples counseling sessions. I wouldn’t be surprised if it can be updated such as adding humor.
I always talk about this
Okay, now I will need Loni to share James' Love language besides accepting her jokes and laughing. Loni what's your love language? Do you want James to just joke back at you or do you enjoy more? They've been together for a while. They are so cute! I'm sure Acts of Service is probably one.
They are also very touchy so I am assuming that’s another one for them
Mine is all 5
Loni is the best😘
I’m with Loni, even if it’s not a category, my love language is joking as well. Lol.
Mine are Quality time and acts of service! The guy im currently with doesn't understand this! He thinks him spending money on me makes me feel good! I appreciate it always but I want to just be ...with him!
mine are quality time and words of affirmation but ilike the persons to be physical touch and also quality time or words of affirmation and i feel like my boyfriends are words of affirmation and physical touch and acts of service caus ehe likes to take care of me even though i have a hard time letting him lol a little too independent but im learning i also love that hes affectionate cause im not use to that caus ei dont come from super affectionate family so its nice to have someone that just loves to cuddle and kiss me its sweet but hes always really sweet and compliments me a lot and tells me what he like sabout me which i love so yeah
What if you're multilingual and are comfortable in each? I genuinely enjoy all of them
What does Loni have in her cup? 🤣
I’m like Jeannie I show all 5 for my partner but I like to receive quality time, physical touch and acts of service the most
Thanks for sharing!
I wish this video was out a few days ago. I straight up went off for not receiving love the way I wanted it knowing good and damn well my man loves me, no doubt but I wasn't accepting his way and that was wrong of me.
Jeannie this outfit giiirrrrlllll ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Lonnie’s is definitely not time lol…she’s impatient like my mom, but they are both really sweet and loving zzz from watching the show i take Loni as an acts of service and words of affirmation person, she starts bawling when people really express their feelings for her …but im only guessing because i don’t know her outside of the show lol
Yes Humor! The missing category!